Woman Asks Why Girls They Don’t Get Their Nails Done, And These 86 Savage Replies Didn’t Disappoint
Taking care of your nails is part of a regular grooming routine. Some people go the extra mile and put a little color or pizazz on them. In fact, 96% of U.S. women say they regularly polish their nails, both at a salon and at home. But many women don't, and there is nothing shameful about that.
Recently, one woman's post on Threads got some traction when she asked, "Girls that don't get manicures and pedicures.... Why???" While her query might have been innocent, some women took it another way. They demonstrated that painted nails don't make a woman: some don't get manicures because of their jobs, lifestyles, or simply because they prefer not to.
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It's always cool to see man sporting colorful nails. Yet, women are still the main consumers when it comes to manicures and pedicures. In 2023, a Statista survey reported that 25% of men aged 25-40 have manicures in their monthly grooming routines. So, the attitudes may be changing, but manis and pedis for men are not nearly as common as they are for women.
Manicures at the salon aren't as popular as at-home nail care. 43% of American women say they only do their manicures at home, and 47% switch up between the salon and DIY from time to time. The main reasons why most women prefer to do it at home have to do with finances. They say it's more affordable, practical, and convenient. At the same time, many admit that a manicure at the salon is more precise and potentially lasts longer than a DIY job.
When NewBeauty magazine asked their readers about their nail care preferences in 2024, it revealed an interesting age trend. Women in their 40s and 50s were the leading age groups to use nail salon services, with ladies aged 44-55 saying they visit salons for manicures most often. 25.8% of the age group get manicures every month, while 18.3% even do it two times a week.
For older women, nail care is part of their self-care routine. For younger gals, it's more a luxury experience, one that they can't afford as often. For 25.7% of older women, getting their nails done is part of their standard beauty routine. "Getting my nails done is my 'me time.' It's a small luxury that makes me feel put together and confident," one 51-year-old participant of the survey expressed. Younger generations, on the other hand, view it as an occasional indulgence.
Why do women get manicures at all? Mostly because they just want to. Research shows that getting your nails done has a positive psychological effect on a person. In one Japanese study, women reported feeling more relaxed, happier, and re-vitalized during nail care sessions. Salon visits increase those feelings, as customers feel even more pampered. However, the act of doing a manicure yourself also improves one's mood.
Some people might say that women paint their nails because men find it attractive. Recently, the "Red Nail Theory" has been making rounds on TikTok, with people claiming that men always pay attention to women with red nails. And there may be some truth to it: red nails, just like red lipstick and red cheeks, are an unconscious signal of female fertility. A 2008 study even suggests that when women wear read, men perceive them as more attractive.
Priorities, so important. 😴💤 PS: I know regalwrench herself won't read this but to all the twin parents out there greetings and best wishes from my mom and dad, they want to tell you: It WILL get better someday. 😘 (Source: I'm one of their twins. 😬)
However, red nail polish isn't a prerequisite to a manicure. Women polish their nail in all kinds of different colors and applications. Many also play with shapes and sizes, and there have been more debates about those categories lately. One example is Cynthia Erivo, whose maximalist nail art complemented her "Wicked" press tour looks as much as any other accessories. The thing is that her nail choices were up for debate on social media, with many saying that it's "Just too much."
To investigate why people deem some nails as more palatable than others, we should look into the history of the manicure. Fashion historian and author of Nails: The Story of the Modern Manicure, Suzanne E. Shapiro, told Refinery29 that ever since the 1800s, painting your nails was quite a feminist choice. In the early 1900s, she says, both rich socialites and working class women would paint their nails, but it was perceived as risqué.
They got plumbing on Tatoine now?! (At least that is what I feel she was going for, could be wrong)
When nail polish became widely available in the 1920s, manicures became something similar to what they are today: a means to improve one's mood and to express themselves. Interestingly, there's also some stigma about nail polish that persists even today. Shapiro says that it in the 1990s, women wanted to appear more serious and compete in the job market.
"They found themselves in the double bind of having to appear attractive in mainstream terms but not too attractive," she explained. "Which would downgrade their intellectual merits and seem to invite their objectification."
Nowadays, polished nails can be a luxury or a privileged to some women. "If you worked with your hands, it would be harder to maintain perfect nails," Shapiro told Refinery29. Those who don't do manual labor or work somewhere with strict sanitary rules have the privilege to get their nails done whenever they want.
Beautiful pearly ovals. This is the look that Victorian ladies put a lot of effort in to achieve
There's also something to be said about the beauty routines women are supposed to adhere to. Manicures and pedicures, waxing, lash, eyebrow, and hair appointments are expected to be done regularly to affirm one's worth as a woman. However, I'm here to tell you that it's just not true. Polishing or not polishing your nails is simply a preference. It's a great way to express yourself and boost your confidence, but unmanicured nails don't make someone less of a woman.
What are your stances on regular manicures, Pandas? For me personally, my nails reflect my mental state: if I'm in a cheerful mood that week or month, I'll be walking around with colorful nails. If I'm stressed or just feeling melancholy, my nails will probably be bare.
But do you like manicured nails, whether on yourself or on somebody else? Let us know if you do your nails regularly and the reasons why. On the other hand, if you prefer not to, tell us your reasoning as well!
Okay . . . I want to meet her and see what a normal workday is . . . . .
It looks like a renaissance painting. 😍 And congratulations for your achievements, of course.
Because the arc will break my nail Jenny.
That looks like completely inadequate eye protection. But what the hell do I know.
🥺🥹 this looks painful. - PS: If you are a nail biter and don't want to get rid of this habit, maybe try out (clear) "nail polish for nail biting". It tastes bitter. Sold in pharmacies. The day my nail biting daughter complained about her habit whe tried it out and it took ONE day to stop it. 😮
How about "because I actually like being able to use my hands"? Inch-long claws with "jewels" make using a keyboard dámn hard, make handling food dámn unhygienic, and need all but constant maintenance to keep up the look. A waste of time and money for a result that gives a slight foretaste of life as a handicapped person, because I've seen women with "pretty" nails fail at picking up coins, at opening car doors, and even using a pen.
How about "because I actually like being able to use my hands"? Inch-long claws with "jewels" make using a keyboard dámn hard, make handling food dámn unhygienic, and need all but constant maintenance to keep up the look. A waste of time and money for a result that gives a slight foretaste of life as a handicapped person, because I've seen women with "pretty" nails fail at picking up coins, at opening car doors, and even using a pen.
