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Thank God I'm not dating anymore. My problem was the ridiculous double standards out there and the cherry picking of feminist ideals when it was convenient. If you wanted something, you're misogynistic. If you didn't give something they wanted, you weren't chivalrous. If you want sex, you're a f**k boy. If she wanted money, she's just someone who knows her worth, not a gold digger. She is worth everything just because. You gotta prove what you bring for her.Educational_Fig_2213 reply
If we approach it's "not appropriate and being creep even for something as small as Hi". If we don't approach then "how are you supposed to get into relationship if you don't approach". If we approach a women we know then they don't put the equal efforts and love the runner chaser dynamic. If a women is interested in me then she won't put any efforts other than eye contact and later complain I don't get hints and most of the women around me can't even hold conversations, others are just committed and not available.anon reply
Thank God I'm not dating anymore. My problem was the ridiculous double standards out there and the cherry picking of feminist ideals when it was convenient. If you wanted something, you're misogynistic. If you didn't give something they wanted, you weren't chivalrous. If you want sex, you're a f**k boy. If she wanted money, she's just someone who knows her worth, not a gold digger. She is worth everything just because. You gotta prove what you bring for her.Educational_Fig_2213 reply
If we approach it's "not appropriate and being creep even for something as small as Hi". If we don't approach then "how are you supposed to get into relationship if you don't approach". If we approach a women we know then they don't put the equal efforts and love the runner chaser dynamic. If a women is interested in me then she won't put any efforts other than eye contact and later complain I don't get hints and most of the women around me can't even hold conversations, others are just committed and not available.Slarg232 reply
A lot of my gal pals are in relationships that they're absolutely miserable in (example: she has to lie to her boyfriend to hang out with literally anyone because "she's bi and she could cheat on him with anyone"), but won't leave because it's "better than nothing and they're waiting for someone better to come along". I almost died from the looks alone when I asked if "someone better" was the type of person who went after a woman in a committed relationship... As for chasing a woman after she turns me down, absolutely not. You all spent the last 10 years drilling into our heads that No Means No and if you say No that's that. A woman put it best: "Guys don't want to chase, they want to play Tag. You need to chase them too".Show All 3 Upvotes
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Thank God I'm not dating anymore. My problem was the ridiculous double standards out there and the cherry picking of feminist ideals when it was convenient. If you wanted something, you're misogynistic. If you didn't give something they wanted, you weren't chivalrous. If you want sex, you're a f**k boy. If she wanted money, she's just someone who knows her worth, not a gold digger. She is worth everything just because. You gotta prove what you bring for her.Educational_Fig_2213 reply
If we approach it's "not appropriate and being creep even for something as small as Hi". If we don't approach then "how are you supposed to get into relationship if you don't approach". If we approach a women we know then they don't put the equal efforts and love the runner chaser dynamic. If a women is interested in me then she won't put any efforts other than eye contact and later complain I don't get hints and most of the women around me can't even hold conversations, others are just committed and not available.Slarg232 reply
A lot of my gal pals are in relationships that they're absolutely miserable in (example: she has to lie to her boyfriend to hang out with literally anyone because "she's bi and she could cheat on him with anyone"), but won't leave because it's "better than nothing and they're waiting for someone better to come along". I almost died from the looks alone when I asked if "someone better" was the type of person who went after a woman in a committed relationship... As for chasing a woman after she turns me down, absolutely not. You all spent the last 10 years drilling into our heads that No Means No and if you say No that's that. A woman put it best: "Guys don't want to chase, they want to play Tag. You need to chase them too". messy_artist11 • upvoted an item 2 weeks ago
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