50 Embarrassing Employee-Boss Moments That Were So Bad People Had To Share
Interview With ExpertEmbarrassing moments are an inevitable part of life. Whether you realized after getting home from a first date that you had spinach in your teeth the whole time or you accidentally sent your father a spicy text meant for your partner, we’ve all been there. But these awkward moments can be even more painful when they happen in professional settings.
Bored Panda has searched far and wide and gathered photos of the most mortifying interactions that have occurred between bosses and employees. I’ll warn you right now, pandas, that this list will probably give you second-hand embarrassment. But enjoy scrolling through these painfully awkward pics, and keep reading to find conversations with Ekta Capoor, Co-Founder and Editor-in-Chief of Amazing Workplaces, and Career Coach Dr. Twanna Carter!
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Such A Worthy Memory
But depending from the job this request is perfectly reasonable. There are many professions where long hair needs to be hidden or tied up due to safety reasons. No need to be rude about it.
I didn't interpret it as rude, just funny. She fixed the problem.
Load More Replies...Speaking as someone who has gotten hair caught in every imaginable thing 1. always tie it up 2. I now have a pixie cut best decision ever
Hey, my husband works on commercial restaurant equipment. He not only has to wear a hair net, he has to wear a beard net.
I was in a similar situation. Was in a pub and told a woman that I loved her hair! It was so long and shiny. She took off her wig and handed it to me and said "here, you can have it!" Shocked the hell out of me for a few seconds but none of us could stop laughing. Yes, she got her "hair" back!
To learn more about these painfully awkward interactions in the workplace, we reached out to Ekta Capoor, Co-Founder and Editor-in-Chief of Amazing Workplaces. She was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and discuss why these embarrassing moments are so common.
“They stem from the everyday challenges of being human. The diverse mix of personalities, expectations, and the fast-paced nature of modern work makes slip-ups almost inevitable,” Ekta shared. “With constant multitasking and switching between emails, instant messages, and video calls, it’s easy for mistakes to happen.”
The Look Of Pure Potato Sadness
Still one of my absolute favorite things to come out of the Pandemic!
Load More Replies...https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/laurenstrapagiel/potato-boss-video-call
“The blend of formal and informal interactions, along with the pressure to meet deadlines, creates an environment ripe for these awkward moments, like sending a message to the wrong person or forgetting to mute during a meeting,” Ekta continued.
“As workplaces become more diverse, different cultural norms can also lead to misunderstandings. But while these moments can be uncomfortable, they remind us that everyone makes mistakes, and handling them with empathy can actually strengthen team bonds,” the expert explained.
What I'm Hearing Is That You Should Be The Boss Instead Of Someone Flustered By Arrows
When you realize the image is not perfectly centered and the boss knew what he was doing.
Load More Replies...Better make sure the image is perfectly centered on both axis before doing so. Otherwise print 10 of each as you were told.
It’s Pretty Funny
How do you hit two deers - two ANYTHING - in a MONTH? Does he have to commute through a deer herd or something?
I once saw a doe deer at the verge of a road I was driving down, so I slowed as I got closer, eventually coming to a complete stop just before reaching it. It watched me the entire time. About the time I stopped, it put its head down and ran full speed in a sort of circle to hit the rear door on the opposite side from where it had been standing, hard enough to shatter the window and dent the door to the point it would not open - and incidentally broke its own neck.
Load More Replies...You can buy small deer whistles to put on your grill - they whistle in such a high note that only animals are able hear it. I got them after I hit a deer and maybe they work since I can’t hear them, but I haven’t “met” a deer since I got them.
According to the NHTSA the white-tailed deer is the most dangerous animal in North America, causing 1.2-1.6 million collisions a year. When I told my insurance agent that the deer ran into me, not me into it, she laughed & said "That's half of my deer claims!" 6 month old truck.
We also were lucky enough to get in touch with Career Coach Dr. Twanna Carter to hear her thoughts on this topic as well.
“Embarrassing moments are common in the workplace because we are all human and prone to making mistakes,” she shared. “Often, the fear of making an error can actually increase the likelihood of it happening. When we concentrate excessively on avoiding mistakes, our attention becomes fragmented. Which can lead us to making those very blunders in front of our bosses that we’re trying to avoid.”
Work Just Got Very Interesting
I don't know where you live or where Cherrybomb lives, but where I live, blackmail is illegal.
Load More Replies...“Additionally, the diverse range of generations present in the workplace adds another layer of complexity. We might have Baby Boomers, Gen X, Millennials, Zillenials, and Gen Z all working together,” Dr. Carter pointed out. “Each with different perspectives on what constitutes an embarrassing encounter. For instance, what might be considered a major faux pas to a Gen X employee might not even register as a concern for a Gen Z worker.”
“As a Gen X’er, I once viewed crying in the workplace as a significant embarrassment. I remember sitting in a meeting and being terrified a tear would fall,” the expert shared. “However, attitudes have shifted over time, and such expressions of emotion are now seen differently by many, reflecting broader changes in workplace culture.”
Oops
This boss seem pretty cool. I like that they were able to see the humor in the situation.
Boss was on vacation. Young co-worker messaged his girl "Run a hot bath and get the bubbles ready🍾🥂. Reply from 'boss' "I don't think.this was meant for me."
This Is The Correct Response
Why interrupt a boss when he's sounding way smarter than he ever has in the past.
I would guess that in the first minute everyone thought that somebody else will do it and then it was just awkward. And every second it was more and more awkward.
Load More Replies...When it comes to addressing an awkward situation that’s taken place at work, Ekta says the best thing to do is address it head-on, “but with a bit of tact.”
“If you acknowledge it quickly and maybe even bring a little humor into the situation, it can help ease any tension. For example, if you’ve sent the wrong message, a simple, straightforward apology can go a long way,” she told Bored Panda. “Keeping communication open is key to maintaining a good working relationship, so it’s usually best to clear the air rather than let any awkwardness linger.”
Hope They Felt Really Awkward
If you leave a Zoom meeting you can't hear them. How did this happen?
Tab bit off topic. I sent a group email made a mistake on the email my coworker sent the email to someone outside of our company talking about me - he copied me...
I always tell people they can keep talking about me and I’ll only speak up to correct them if they’re wrong
"The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about." - Oscar Wilde
Load More Replies...If they're talking about me, they're leaving other people alone, who might have thinner skins.
At Least You Didn’t Get Fired
#1 It depends on where you live, because some states like Oklahoma fought that s**t kicking and screaming.#2 She posted it in May 2020, that doesn't mean that's when it happened. #3 It said "this one time" which could mean it happened this week or 5 years ago.
Load More Replies...Dr. Carter recommends first taking a moment to collect yourself after an embarrassing interaction. “This ‘timeout’ allows you to step back from the immediate anxiety and approach the situation with a clear mind,” she shared. “Once you’ve had time to reflect, develop a strategy to address the interaction and prevent it from escalating.”
Respect The Honesty
I Accidentally Told My Boss To "Come Grab My Meat" Instead Of My Wife
Just remember, there was possibly a solid 13 minutes of the boss wondering what exactly the employee meant lol
“There are several effective ways to address the issue, depending on the nature of the interaction and your perspective on it. First, if it’s not a big deal, it’s okay to ignore it. Laugh at yourself and just continue on,” the expert continued.
“If it is a big deal, then you might choose to address it via email, write a formal letter, or schedule a face-to-face meeting with your boss,” Dr. Carter says. “I have utilized all three methods, selecting the one that best suited my specific situation. You’ll notice, I left out text messaging!”
There Was An Attempt To Text An Old Boss Of Mine, Professionally
You have to be laughing pretty hard to make your hoohah come out your nose
I've had kids haven't snorted out my twat either 😆
Load More Replies...Oh great. Is this another thing we have to look forward to as we age?
This is everything. I have a few stories like these from my gig as a corporate hr manager.
OK but that's objectively hilarious (because it didn't happen to me).
"You'd have to be smoking in a pretty funny place for it to affect your child bearing properties." (from Whale Rider)
Boss Got Locked In His Office And A Section Of The Wall Had To Be Cut Out
That was my first thought! Way easier, less mess and cheaper!
Load More Replies...“For significant encounters, I coach my clients that it is extremely important to address the issue directly with your boss as soon as possible,” Dr. Carter added. “Unfortunately, this isn’t always possible.”
“But do be straightforward about what happened, and then shift the focus to solutions. Explain what you’ve learned from the experience and outline the steps you will take to prevent a similar mistake in the future,” the expert recommends. “This approach demonstrates accountability and a commitment to professional growth. And it may help to ensure the issue doesn’t derail your entire career.”
Accidentally Reported My Bowel Movements To My Boss Instead Of My Girlfriend
I had never had Red Velvet cake before and was so glad that a co-worker warned me my "poo" would be a weird color. I may have gone to the ER if she hadn't. (US - ER= Emergency Room).
There Was An Attempt To Get A New Job
Unless this was an interview for a job at the company he already works at, this would at least make some sense. But then it would still make no sense that he lied to his boss about it. But if not, why in world would his boss be on the panel for a job interview at another company?!
And when it comes to preventing these situations in the future, Ekta says it’s important to be mindful when communicating, especially digitally.
“Double-check who you’re sending messages to, and always make sure your audio and video settings are correct before joining a call,” she told Bored Panda. “Fostering an environment where mistakes are seen as opportunities to learn, rather than something to be embarrassed about, can also help. This encourages people to take these moments in stride and grow from them without feeling judged.”
Yikes
Boss Is Probably Freaked Out
Dr. Carter notes that it’s crucial to develop strong situational awareness and understand the dynamics of your workplace. She recommends several strategies, including first reading the room.
“Pay close attention to the nonverbal cues of those around you. Body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice can provide valuable insights into how your message or actions are being received. Being attuned to these signals helps you adjust your behavior in real-time and avoid potential faux pas,” the expert says.
A New Guy At The Company Accidentally Sent These Texts To His Manager
Never, EVER write or say something you can't (or don't want to) back up. I always assume my cameras are on, my line is connected, someone is behind me. I'm not paranoid, I just have a filter... so if I say something s****y about someone, I have likely already said it to their face.
But he owned it, acknowledged it was bad, and apologized. Hope he kept his job.
This one would be a final written warning as far as I'm concered as a former HR manager in a corporate setting. Like worry about your own self bro.
Subtle
I accidentally caressed my bosses hair the other day. She bent over to pick up something and hit her head on a countertop corner while standing next to me. Well as the father of a three year old my dad instincts kicked in as she was at the same height as my three year old. I saw my hand reach forward and my brain said no but dad instincts are strong and there was a hair stroke that I'm not proud of. We didn't talk about it and I, as parents, think we both know what happened.
Understanding company culture is also important, Dr. Carter shared. “Familiarize yourself with both the official and unofficial norms of your workplace. While employee handbooks often outline formal policies, the subtleties of office culture, including unspoken rules and expectations, can be just as important. Observing and learning these norms can help you navigate interactions more smoothly.”
This Is Really Awkward
That Awkward Moment When You Accidentally Ask Your Boss For A Hookup
1/8 of an ounce. Could be weed, coke, heroin, etc.
Load More Replies...Cannabis is sold in 8ths, quarters, halves, and ounces. They are asking someone for an eighth of an ounce of weed. It's legal where I live but this is clearly someone getting it from another source. 😬
An 8th of weed is a lot for the average user. That would be a small amount only for people like Snoop Dogg and Two Chains.
Load More Replies...Building relationships with a few trusted colleagues can provide you with a support network as well, Dr. Carter noted.
“These relationships are invaluable for gaining feedback and advice on how to handle various social situations. If you’re unsure about a social cue or company practice, having someone you can turn to for guidance can prevent misunderstandings and help you integrate better into the workplace culture,” she explained. “Or, at the very least, send you an instant message telling you that you forgot to mute your sound. Or that you sent the email with incorrect information.”
So My Boss Kept Asking Why His Battery Was Running Out So Fast. He's Pretty Much Had The Stopwatch Running Since He Got The Phone. 631 Days
Zoom Meeting
Saw him at the Stray Kids gig at Hyde Park a few weeks ago, my daughter ‘encouraged’ me to buy tickets for us. Not my usual music tbh but the fans seemed to enjoy it!
Next, the career coach recommends leveraging technology wisely. “Be mindful of how you use technology, especially in virtual settings. For instance, double-check that you’ve selected the correct recipients before sending messages, and always ensure that you’re muted when necessary during video calls. Setting reminders to verify these details can help avoid common tech-related blunders.”
Text From My Boss
You should get a couple of those in addition to sick days. Might end up with a happier more productive team!
Load More Replies...Actually d**k days can make you even more tired or maybe I'm just old...
Insane Boss Story
Once I saw my boss steal my soda out of the fridge to give to his friends he was meeting with. Later that day, he fired me to hire one of them.
Finally, Dr. Carter suggests seeking feedback and training to avoid mishaps at work. “For those employees with neurodiversities, it can sometimes be challenging to read social cues,” she noted. “Consider seeking feedback from trusted colleagues or supervisors when you’re not sure. Additionally, training or attending workshops on reading non verbals may be beneficial for enhancing your ability to navigate social interactions effectively.”
“By implementing these strategies, you can significantly reduce or prevent the risk of these uncomfortable encounters at work,” the expert added.
Nothing Like A Sincere Apology
Oh...mine apologized. Then did pretty much the same thing not long after.
I feel like that's the only apology that would be sincere coming from my boss!
Insane Boss Story
As an Irish kid who had literally never met any POC, this surprised me too. I was 5 at the time though.
I was 11 or 12 and at Boy Scout camp when I discovered, using the camp's open showers, that ALL of my African American counselor's body except the palms and soles was the same color.
Load More Replies...My 6-yr old son when trying to describe a new teacher to me "she's was the one wearing brown". After several attempts to discover what item of clothing was brown, he explained she was wearing brown skin.
It's Canada. Like Alaska, it's a mix, but rare to be of African ancestry.
Load More Replies...As a Canadian, I can attest we don’t have near the percentage of blacks:whites:other poc that the US has so this isn’t too surprising but we usually keep those comments to ourselves. :P
My grandmother's best friend was a POC. When my father was a toddler he tried to "clean" the friend. She laughed and still shared the story until her death. RIP, Bernice.
What a dumbáss. Get a tan, white man. Look at your palms. Different color. Derp!
No need to be rude. Not everyone has the same skin (obviously) and not everyone can tan. I am very white and pale. I physically cannot tan, therefore, my palms are the same color as the rest of my skin.
Load More Replies...And remember not to beat yourself up for having an occasional mortifying moment. “Everyone has embarrassing moments — it’s just part of being human, and they don’t reflect on your professionalism or skills,” Ekta shared. “In fact, when handled with understanding, these situations can actually bring people closer and build a more inclusive and supportive workplace where everyone feels comfortable being themselves.”
Sending A Text To The Wrong Person
Unbelievable
That is better than her trying to hold her nuggets and her sauce at the samem and dipping them. Whenever I am driving and go through a drive through and order nuggets I never get sauce. It is not very easy for me to dip and eat nuggets at the same time.
That's like the boss who got foot massages from her restaurant waitress (who was not a masseuse and hated it) while complaining about her day. Unless the job IS to be a support, you should never just obey non-job related demands.
We hope you’re enjoying these painfully embarrassing moments from work, pandas. Keep upvoting the pics that you find most amusing, and let us know in the comments what the most mortifying thing you ever did at work was. Then, if you’d like to read some stories of terrible mistakes employees made in the workplace, we recommend checking out this Bored Panda piece next!
This Wins
I used to live on an Electric Avenue and the number of people I had to correct that thought Bob Marley sang 'Electric Avenue' was excruciating. Eddie Grant, if you're scratching your head.
Insane Boss Story
Yeah, b******t. I guess I'm lucky that I'm an overly confident badass b***h. Have never succombed to such disrespect or subjugation.
She made someone else pump up her a*s ball? That poor assistant 😖
There Was An Attempt To Check In With My Boss
I did that to my boss in person. She asked me to do something from across the room and I meant to give her a thumbs up but ended up flipping her off. Sigh.
LMAO 😂 good thing that boss had a sense of humor and gave OP the benefit of the doubt!
Well. I’m Sure That Was Great For My Friend’s Coworkers And Bosses To All See
And that is why you set "No notifications when presenting" on your computer.
I was in a training meeting and had notifications off. My boss contacted the trainer, and a message asking for me popped up in front of the whole class.
Load More Replies...I sent an email to a coworker a few years ago that was critical of a client. Knowing him the way I do, I put in big red letters "DO NOT FORWARD TO CLIENT." He didn't. He did, however, have the email open on his computer when in an online meeting with them.
I learned how to make a bunny out of punctuation marks and send it to a rabbit-loving coworker...who was in the middle of a multi-library presentation that was then paused while everyone in the room admired my handiwork.
Been Working My Butt Off For Over A Year At Work In Hopes Of Getting A Management Opportunity This Summer And Just Received This Text Message From My Boss
Working you butt off for over a year, with no reward? This text should be a wake-up call. They're not going to promote you. EVER. They're just using you, and leading you around by the nose with that promise of a promotion, like leading a donkey with a carrot on a stick. But they'll never actually promote you. Because you're already doing all that extra work at the pay rate and position you have now. Why would they want to pay you more? Don't fall for it any longer. Refuse to do any more managerial work, without that manager title. Don't waste your effort on jobs like this. Break the cycle. Find a job that WILL appreciate you. And until then, remember, work your wage.
Started A New Job Today And My Teenager Had The Computer Before Me. I Opened It In Front Of My New Boss
Boss Just Sent Me This Text Twice. Shouldn't Make Things Awkward I'm Sure
I like how you can see the different stages of realization of what they sent in real time
That's No Way
I can’t find the right cöck mixture to ease my throat…
Load More Replies...I once tried to tell my Spanish teach that I was 45 years old and accidentally told him I have 45 búttholes.
Sorry I missed the work part, I'm just so obsessed with the soft, fluffy borzoi. It's so fluffy!!!!
Ikr?! Me too! Lol they're such unusual looking dogs, but they're cute, fluffy, and I love them 😊
Load More Replies...This Is A Valid Reason
My boss would have me come in anyway. Weather and danger doesn't matter.
Watch out for your root beer. There appears to be a sneaky snake problem
Oh, To Be A Boss, Not Knowing How Anything Works, And Still Earn More Than Anyone Else
or just the scanning software? 🙃 edit: or maybe just the printer, because it's already on screen 🤦♂️
Load More Replies...Wow, boss sounds stoned. You can make tables in a lot of different programs.
Any database program like sheets, excel, or any text program... damn these days the notepad in your phone.
That Is Unfortunate
Left My Boss A Birthday Cake. The Tube Of Frosting I Was Writing With Broke So I Squiggled On There. Now I Have To Have A Meeting With My Boss And Union Rep To See If I Was Drunk At Work
There Was An Attempt By My Significant Other's Korean Boss To Get A Cake That Says “Happy Birthday Hong”
Well, a person's first day is their birth day. I actually like the concept. I think I'm gonna start using It.
I’m Sorry The "Hehe" Made Me Fall Over
The Lecture After
I just read that in Samuel L. Jackson's voice lol
Load More Replies..."I would expect that for my staff but you shouldn't talk to your friends that way" 😂
Got A Phone (Didn't Have One). Texted My Boss To Verify I Had The Right Number And This. I Didn't Know
maybe if Rhonda READ the words in the messages, her questions would be answered sooner
The Disputes Department? "I've come here for a dispute." "No you haven't!"
At Least He Knows What The Meme Means
I once accidentally sent my crush’s friend an embarrassing selfie of me instead of a schedule screenshot. Said friend was sitting right next to my crush and they were with a group of other mutual friends. They all saw it. Seeing accidents like these from other people make me feel so embarrassed all over again.
or could it be less? because others also does this blunder?
Load More Replies...I once submitted a short fanfiction rather than my lab report the worst part was the teacher commented something like "Very interesting I'd like a sequel and your report" at least all of my fanfiction is G rated.
That's Awkward
I change my hotspot's name all the time, usually every few weeks. I hotspot at home rather than paying for wifi and never hide the name. I try to pick fights with the neighborhood periodically. For example, currently in Texas, so I trashtalk the Cowboys a few times a year. My favorite is "FBI Surveillance Van #XXX". I change the numbers each time. Bring that one out with new neighbors or when I hear the cops have been called. It's the little things in life.
He Probably Did Need It
My Boss Texted Me This. Just Thought This Was Funny
Always take your five minute phone breaks in the bathroom away from cameras
Agree, but I also think that bosses who micromanage their employees by watching cameras 24/7 are overbearing and obnoxious. I've had a boss like that. It's like those kinds of bosses get off on throwing their power around, and looking for any excuse to get their employees in trouble. People are not robots. Everyone deserves a 15 or 20 second breather now and then. (Granted, we don't know how long OP was standing there. But my point still stands too.)
Load More Replies...First comment is a previous day/message so ignore that one. The next is a pic of her hiding in a corner in the kitchen on her phone, which is why the boss asked "Don't you have tables?" - as in, "shouldn't you be out front working"
Load More Replies...When The Hot Straight Boss Sends Me A Rude Email On The Weekend
If I'm screenshotting emails, I do it before sending just in case
Load More Replies..."Screw This Job" Moment
How do these near the bottom have any upvotes at all? They have nothing to do with this list.
It's too bad this person doesn't work for the company I do. Our website is a complete mess.
My Creepy Boss Sent Me This Out Of The Blue The Other Day
Yikes
It's 6 PM And I Haven't Eaten All Day. I Waited For My Boss To Leave To Eat Because I Was Embarrassed
Why are you embarrassed that your boss doesn't give you enough time or money to eat properly - boss should be the one who's ashamed!
I Accidentally Sent An Uber Code To My Boss And I’ve Never Felt More Awkward
I really liked them. Some I hope were fake because they truly inspired a feeling of utter "oooof".
I really liked them. Some I hope were fake because they truly inspired a feeling of utter "oooof".
