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50 Women Who Got The Internet’s Attention Because Of Their Delusional Behavior (New Pics)
Interview With Expert
Men and women have their fair share of unpleasant qualities. Toxic masculinity exists in various forms, and those who engage in such behavior deserve to be shamed.
This also applies to “nice girls,” women who are anything but. They’re the types who escalate arguments, act unreasonably, and feel entitled to special treatment. They may initially seem normal, until their true colors show sooner or later.
Check out these screenshots of text exchanges involving these women. Scroll through and see which of these unhinged traits you’ve encountered so far.
We also spoke with Amanda Ann Gregory, a licensed trauma psychotherapist and author of You Don’t Need to Forgive: Trauma Recovery on Your Own, and Amie Leadingham, a relationship coach and dating expert. They were kind enough to share their insights about the link between trauma and toxic behavior.
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#1
How Dare I Make Up An Analogy
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#2
Entitled Moms (Poor Kids!)
Snazzy Smurf 8 months ago
She didn't catch his drift. I would be wary of some stranger around my kids.
#3
Girl, Stop With The Victim Mentality And Take The Responsibility For What You Did!
Apatheist Account2 8 months ago
If someone opened the door in their lingerie, I'd think that was a strange place to have a door.
The impact of trauma, particularly PTSD, has been linked with toxic behavior. The National Center for PTSD describes these as “stress reactions” that may go away over time.
According to Amanda, these behaviors are typically a product of a person’s reaction to feeling emotionally unsafe in relationships. This applies to many trauma survivors, who may or may not meet the criteria for a PTSD diagnosis.
#4
Just Found Out Im A Narcassist
#5
Does This Count?
#6
Targeting My Dad
Blaze Fitzwater 8 months ago
She's probably been waiting the whole relationship to make this threat. Eww.
As an example, Amanda used parental abuse, where a person may not feel safe engaging in relationships as an adult. Their subconscious reactions would be to drive the person away and ultimately sabotage the relationship.
“You might initiate conflicts, avoid expressing emotional vulnerability, tolerate abuse, or end relationships prematurely, to name a few,” she told Bored Panda.
#7
She Messaged Me Just To Tell Me She Didn’t Like My Profile
#8
I Finally Got One
#9
My Ex Got Her Doctorate In Hating
Jenny Barton 8 months ago (edited)
Tell me you have a personality disorder without telling me you have a personality disorder...
As for female toxic behavior, Amanda attributes it to patriarchal societies like the United States. As she explained, their actions may be a way to keep themselves safe in a relationship.
“For example, a heterosexual woman who experienced intimate partner violence may unknowingly engage in actions that sabotage her relationships with men, or she may cater to men to keep them happy to promote her safety,” she stated, adding that patriarchal societies equally inflict the same harm upon men.
#10
2nd Date, I Picked Her Up, She Said She Was Uncomfortable, I Took Her Back To Her Friends, 1-2 Hours Passed…then She Texts Me All This In Span Of 1 Hour
#11
Why Do I Keep Matching With These Crappy People?
#12
Still Shocked By This
Most experts would recommend professional help for trauma survivors. However, not all methods would be effective. For Amanda, talk therapy may not be the solution because, as she explained, it’s not developed to access the regions of the brain “where trauma lives and thrives.”
“Instead, I recommend bottom-up therapies that address these impacted areas, such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Somatic Experiencing, Internal Family Systems, Animal-Assisted Therapy, and Attachment Therapy.”
Amie also recommends group therapy, as hearing other people’s experiences helps break through isolation. However, it all boils down to finding a trustworthy therapist.
“Someone who offers both compassion for what they've been through and gentle accountability for changing harmful patterns,” she stated.
#13
Such A Nice Girl
#14
Bumble Match Randomly Got Nasty
#15
Just Feel Like Posting LOL
However, a toxic individual likely won’t agree to professional help if they don’t recognize the problem. As Amie points out, knowing the root of the problem and having the genuine desire to change can absolutely break the toxic cycles and build better relationships.
#16
Just Remembered This Old Screenshot (For Context Gray Is My Ex Girlfriend We Hadn’t Dated For 3-4 Months And Then This Happened
#17
Blocked Her Right After The This And She Still Trying To Contact Me To This Day
#18
Got One ?
Alex Schneider 8 months ago
if beig boring saves you from psychos, stay boring and mental healthy
Trauma survivors and people who grew up in an unhealthy environment aren’t necessarily bound to repeat the toxic cycle. Prevention is always better than cure, and Amie advises seeking out people in healthy relationships and noticing what emotional maturity looks like.
“The goal is to learn how to deal with emotions rather than bottling them up,” she explained. “It takes work, but people can build better relationship skills than they grew up seeing.”
#19
First Time Had This Happen In My 27 Years Of Life
Con O Cuinn 8 months ago
Here's the thing with all these ones from dating apps. I've never had these experiences. I don't know how you don't realise from their profiles that they'll be like this, it's typically very obvious. These kind of women are very easy to avoid.
#20
Random Message From Homophobic Lady
#21
She Said "Then I'm Not The Girl For You" Because I Didn't Want To Get On Her 2 Month Waiting List For A Date
Blaze Fitzwater 8 months ago
Wow. I thought waiting for reservations at the hottest restaurant in town was something special.
How about you, dear readers? Have you encountered these “nice girls” that exhibit similar behaviors as shown above? What do you think is the best approach when dealing with them? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
#22
This Came Out Of Nowhere
#23
What Did I Do Wrong?
#24
I Saw This Somewhere Else A Few Weeks Ago And I'm Still Laughing About It
#25
Context: I Broke Up With A Girl After She Kept Showing Me Disinterest And Started Dating Someone New
#26
"I'd Rather He Be Miserable With Me Than Happy Without Me"
LakotaWolf (she/her) 8 months ago
Here's the first page of the convo. MASSIVE YIKES. "I'd rather he be miserable with me than happy without me tbh" and "I don't care I want him" when OP asked "Do you think that's fair to him?" id-rather-...4f149c.jpg 
#27
A Real Catch
#28
Girl I Was Seeing For A Bit
Robin DJW 8 months ago
Many people call colds "the flu." My ex always called every cold "the flu" until he actually had the real flu. We had it at the same time. The fever was unbelievable. We could barely make it to the kitchen to get fluids, then barely made it back to bed. I've had a flu shot every year since, and that was >50 years ago. If I had the flu today at my age, it would straight up k**l me. The Spanish Flu killed millions in early 20th century, and I know why.
#29
Posted In The Discgolf Sub
#30
She Blocked Me On Everything But Expects A Letter?
#31
Broke Up And She Immediately Posted This
#32
My Ex Being My Ex
#33
My Ex Girlfriend Reposted This. She Cheated On Me Multiple Times Over Our 3 Year Relationship LOL
#34
Pastor’s Daughter
#35
She Couldn’t Wait 20 Mins For A Text Response And Crashed Out
#36
I’m Genuinely Scared…
#37
Me, Me, Me
#38
Girl Who I Was Talking To For About A Month Slept With A Guy And I Broke Things Off, 3 Months Later She Is Begging For A Second Chance
#39
Pickup Line Nicegirl Meltdown
#40
It Was For Business… Then
#41
Well Ok Then
#42
I Experienced My First "Nicegirl" Meltdown
#43
She Wasn't Happy I Was Going To See A Female Friend
#44
Still Trying To Process This A Day And A Half Later
#45
After Talking One Day…i Dodged A Bullet
#46
A Lesbian Friend Who Kept Making Advances Toward Me (I’m Straight). When I Finally Blocked Her, She Went Batsh*t Crazy
#47
Yikes, Rough Landing
#48
She Accused Me Of Cheating On Her When She Had Absolutely No Proof And Used My Phone To Text Everyone In It That I Cheated Ruining Multiple Friendships And Career Opportunities
#49
“Catch You Later”
LakotaWolf (she/her) 8 months ago
As a lifelong Southern Californian, I can assure you, with the highest authority on the matter, that the terms dude, bro, bruh, and buddy are gender-neutral. I have called my boyfriend "bruh". I have called my sister "dude" and "bro". XD
#50
Lurking For Awhile, Thought I’d Post My Own Gem
#51
I Told My Buddy I Find Only Crazy
David Morgan 8 months ago
The lady's name is May, or she's a grammar pedant, or I have no idea why this comment would be objectionable.
#52
First Nicegirl In The Wild
Laura Lawson 8 months ago
Wow, I just love how she jumped to 'I'm autistic' to explain her short answers. 🙄 Unfortunately, being a b!tch does not equal autism. Autism comes in many different & varied flavours. I'm autistic & if I write anything less than a novel in my messages/texts/emails, then there's something wrong with me.
#53
My Ex Friend ... We Dated For A Hot Minute But She Got With Another Guy Which I Didn't Care About. We Had Decided To Stay Friends But That's Done
#55
Does This Count It Just Happened
#56
Am I The Asshole? I Thought We Were Friends
#57
You Are Looking For… What?
#58
Does This Count? (Tw: Talking About Death)
#59
I Don’t Know If This Lines Up With Nice Girls But How Do I Even Go About Ending This ?
#60
The Council Has Decided That It’s Just Healthy Kink When A Woman Does It
#61
I’m Tired, Boss
#63
Added A Lighthearted Point To My Bio- Something Like “In Therapy, Don’t Disturb The Peace LOL” …does This Count?
#64
Fastest Red Flag Ever
#66
What A Healthy And Caring Girl
#68
First Ever Match On Hinge
#69
Girl I Was Close Friends With For 3 Years Blocks Me And Ends Our Relationship Over My Opinion Of A Fortnite Skin
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What do you think ?
Kalikima 8 months ago
Wow, over half of these were only one page of multiple pages of texts. BP really dropped the ball on this article.
Lady Eowyn 8 months ago
Yes, either show the entire conversation or just don't do posts like this.
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Aussi Panda 8 months ago
Me too, couldn’t understand most of them so I gave up
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Kalikima 8 months ago
Wow, over half of these were only one page of multiple pages of texts. BP really dropped the ball on this article.
Lady Eowyn 8 months ago
Yes, either show the entire conversation or just don't do posts like this.
Load More Replies... Aussi Panda 8 months ago
Me too, couldn’t understand most of them so I gave up
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