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Annoying behavior from your partner is nothing new; we all have a habit or two that our partners might find insufferable. In fact, one poll of 2,000 people revealed that people think their partner is "the most annoying person in the world."

While that sounds harsh, it may be the truth for many partners on this list. We've scoured the Internet and found the most angering examples of boyfriends and husbands acting in ways that make their partners' blood boil. Opened cabinets, piles of undone dishes, and just general untidiness: just looking at them can make you furious!

#1

Gone For Two Weeks. My Husband Piled His Clothes By The Washer Instead Of Doing His Own Laundry

Overflowing laundry basket in a cluttered room, showcasing infuriating boyfriends' and husbands' household habits.

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Beth Wheeler
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would leave them right where he left them. You know how to do it so go take care of your mess.

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#2

My Mom's Boyfriend Threw Away My 9 Year Old Collection Of LEGO Just Because I Hadn't Played With It In A While. There Are Sets From The 1990s In There And Also Sets In The Harry Potter Series

Trash bin filled with LEGO bricks, household items, and plastic bags, illustrating the messy habits of boyfriends and husbands.

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The same poll where people said that their partner is the most annoying person on the planet revealed the most annoying habits people cite their partners having, too. The most common pet peeves people mentioned are snoring, passing wind, loudness, messiness, and rudeness.

The less common offenses include never listening, talking through TV shows, being bad with money, leaving crumbs on the kitchen counter, using their phone mid-conversation, and tossing their dirty clothes onto the bedroom floor. Despite that, 41% of the respondents said they secretly love these bad habits and wouldn't have their partner any other way.

#4

My Husband Will Never Close A Draw Or Shut A Cupboard

Kitchen drawers left open, showing contents, a common source of frustration in relationships.

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#5

My Wife Said Measure The Door, I Told Her All Doors Are The Same Size

Door installed backward, showcasing infuriating boyfriend's work.

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According to Mary Jo Rapini, M.Ed, LPC, the bad habits our partners have aren't the problem. We are. "Everyone has blind spots and what annoys you in others is often a reflection of yourself," she writes. She claims that we project our controlling needs onto our partners, be it about a pristine kitchen or a clothes-free bedroom floor.

"If you're honest with yourself, you should be able to see flaws or weaknesses within yourself," she observes. "No one expects you to be perfect; thinking you are superior or better than others is not mentally healthy. Living a life where you see flaws in everyone but yourself will lead to a very lonely and limited life."

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A 2003 study suggests that men and women find different things annoying in their partners. What annoys men are things that threaten their autonomy, for example, jealousy, their partner's moodiness, etc. For women, in turn, it's about the behaviors that threaten the relationship: condescension, aggression, being emotionally distant, and so on.

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#11

BF Put An Empty Box Of Double-Stuffed Oreos Back In The Pantry

Empty Oreo package held by a person, showing missing cookies, showcasing infuriating boyfriend's actions.

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#12

My Partner Moves The Drain Catch Out Of The Way Before He Rinses His Cereal Bowl In The Sink. We Do Not Have A Garbage Disposal

Messy kitchen sink with food scraps left by boyfriends or husbands.

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Alice Landers
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No problem until he gets the plumbers bill ! ( told you so sweetness)

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In a previous interview for Bored Panda, clinical psychologist Forrest Talley, Ph.D., offered some advice on how to differentiate between bad habits that are just minor annoyances and those that are deal-breakers. First, consider whether your partner cares about the impact their bad habits have on you. Maybe what you're calling an infuriating bad habit is just a personal quirk.

#14

I Asked My Husband To Stir My Drink, Aaaaand This Is What He Did. Thank You. Exactly What I Had In Mind

A hand reaching into a green cup filled with ice cubes, illustrating a typical infuriating boyfriend or husband moment.

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#15

The Boyfriend Left A Sharpie In His Jeans Pocket The One Time I Didn't Check Them

Ink stains inside a dryer, likely caused by a careless boyfriend or husband.

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Brittania Kelli
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know what's worse, the behaviour of so many partners or the token few in the comments section coming up with excuses for the behaviour... These days both men and women tend to work, yet women still do the vast majority of housework and childcare. You are supposed to be their partner, not their child, partners help.

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Second, consider if your behavior is reasonable. Echoing what Mary Jo Rapini said about projecting your controlling tendencies, Talley, too, suggests that it may be a "you" problem. "Let's be honest; all of us are capable of overreacting," he told Bored Panda.

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#17

The State My Husband Leaves Our Kitchen In

Messy kitchen with open cabinets and cluttered countertops, highlighting typical infuriating habits of boyfriends and husbands.

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Susan W.
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I could tolerate the mess but not the doors and drawers being left open. I never understood why some people do that.

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However, perhaps the most important thing to ask yourself is whether you can live with these "quirks" or "bad habits" long term. "For example, if every time he eats something, the love of your life smacks his lips loudly and slurps, can you imagine sitting across the table listening to that for years upon years?" Talley recommends asking yourself.

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#21

I Bought A Spoon With A Built In Rest That Keeps The End Up Because My BF Always Makes A Mess With Them. This Is How He's Left It

A utensil left obstructively on a stovetop, representing frustrating habits by boyfriends and husbands in the kitchen.

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Relationships are about choosing your battles, Talley told us back then. "If the behavior appears innocent and harms nothing other than your sense of annoyance, try to let it go. No relationship is perfect, and every good relationship is packed to the brim with compromise and forgiveness."

#24

Are You Kidding Me? You Drove It Last Night, Even Came Back Home To Get The Gas Can For Someone That Had Ran Out Of Gas And This Is How You Leave My Car? Glad I Didn't Go Into Labor Over Night. It's A Good Thing I Love You

Car dashboard with empty fuel gauge, oil warning light, and infuriating situation for boyfriends and husbands.

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Lyoness
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok this is just thoughtless, especially because it sounds like they're pregnant.

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However, that doesn't mean that we have to completely overlook every gross and questionable habit our partners have. "Those things that annoy you today will very likely annoy you five years from now," Talley explained. "Consider all the qualities of the person you are with and weigh this against how disruptive the annoying behavior is to your relationship. The results of this comparison will tell you whether to put energy into making changes or simply let it go."

#25

We Had 6 Sliders Left Over From Dinner Last Night, And This Is How My Fiance Stored The Leftovers

Containers with unevenly placed sliders, highlighting infuriating habits of boyfriends or husbands.

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The key to avoiding drama about infuriating habits is in the ability to listen and empathize with your partner, whether you're the offender or the annoyed one. The Gottman Institute, for example, found that 81% of men who don't listen to their partners are more likely to have their relationship end. 

#28

Fiancé Regularly Leaves Dirty Clothes Directly Next To The Hamper

Laundry basket with clothes scattered around, capturing typical boyfriends' or husbands' infuriating habits.

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#29

My Husband Unnecessarily Seasoned The Stainless Steel Pans I Bought Today, Making Them Look Burnt And Like They’ve Been Used For Years

A burnt pan bottom overlooked by boyfriends or husbands in the kitchen.

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So, Pandas, how furious are you after scrolling through this list? Have you got any annoying and infuriating habits of your partner to share with us? Feel free to go off in the comments. And if you want to see more moments that made people rethink their relationships, head over here and here!

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#31

My Boyfriend Going To My Female Friend's Place Multiple Times A Week Despite Him Claiming He's "At Work"

Cartoon avatar of a boyfriend on a location map, wearing headphones and a black outfit.

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#33

My Boyfriend Told Me This Was Just The Top Of His Canoe When He Was On His Trip This Weekend

Beautiful autumn trees by a lake under a clear blue sky, capturing nature's serene landscape.

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Melancholy Kitty
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5 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't understand this one....is she implying that he was with someone when he said he was alone? Is that the top of someone's head? EDIT- Checked the original reddit post and yeah, looks like he cheated 😑

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#34

My Husband Swears He Doesn’t Hog The Covers And Says I Framed Him Last Night

Boyfriend wrapped snugly in a blanket, resting peacefully in bed, illustrating domestic humor.

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Lyoness
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get another cover. First saw it on a visit to another country and I swear it saved our marriage.

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#35

Where The Toilet Paper Goes vs. Where My Husband Chose To Put It

Empty toilet paper holder next to a roll on the floor, highlighting typical boyfriend or husband frustrations.

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MindNumbinglyBoringJob
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is on purpose. He does it to annoy you because he thinks you asking him to do normal everyday chores is nagging. It will never stop. You will simply take over and become his maid.

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#40

Imo There's Too Much "Waste" When My BF Cuts His Strawberries

Strawberries with tops left on, sliced in a frustrating manner, beside a reflective spoon.

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#41

And *this * Is Why I Can't Trust My Husband To Put A Load Of Washing Going

Random items including a toothbrush, pen, and coins representing infuriating habits of boyfriends and husbands.

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#42

So I Just Learned That Apparently This Is How My Husband Eats A Sandwich?! Thanks In Advance For Your Thoughts And Prayers For Our Family During This Difficult Time.

Partially eaten sandwich showcasing infuriating boyfriends or husbands' frustrating habits.

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Brian Droste
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If that sandwich is just for him. Why is that wrong. He should eat any sandwich anyway he likes.

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#45

My Husband Left A Bag Of Gummy Bears In A Hot Car. I Give You...gummy Bear Turkish Delight

Powdered raw meat on a paper plate, part of infuriating boyfriends' cooking attempts.

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#47

I Was Feeling Unwell, So My Partner Decided To Surprise Me With Homemade "Sushi"

A plate of sushi with unusual ingredients, humorously showcasing infuriating boyfriends' cooking attempts.

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#48

I'm Grateful To My Husband For Cooking Dumplings For Me When I'm Tired, But... I Usually Add 2-4 Bay Leaves, He Adds 24-∞

Pot of water with bay leaves and whole black peppercorns floating, related to infuriating boyfriends' cooking habits.

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Trista JW
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That seems perfectly normal for someone who either does not cook regularly, does not understand the recipe, or maybe cannot decipher how the recipe was written.

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#50

I Present To You My BF Who Eats A Block Of Cheese Whiteout Anything While Driving

Boyfriend leaves a messy sandwich in the car's cup holder, causing frustration.

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#51

I Hate When My Husband Opens The Non-Resealable Side Of The Tortillas And Puts Them In The Refrig To Harden

Upside-down tortilla package opened and left on a countertop, showcasing infuriating habits of boyfriends and husbands.

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#52

My Over 6 Ft BF Never Lowering The Showerhead For Me 4'11

Shower head installed incorrectly by boyfriend or husband, facing the ceiling on white tiled wall.

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Tyranamar Suess
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How would he lower it? Do you raise it. Is it awful to take a shower when the head is 2 feet above you? Seems like it'd still work that way.

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#53

The Way My Husband Wears Socks When He's Relaxing

Feet in tattered socks resting on a couch, showcasing a common boyfriend annoyance at home.

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Nikole
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hee hee his feet look like they’re wearing old timey sleeping caps.

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#55

How Boyfriend Has Been Eating This Brownie

Cake with uneven piece missing, showing an example of frustrating boyfriend behavior.

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Lyoness
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is he leaning in and biting it? Because I swear those look like bite marks.

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#58

The Way My Fiancé Puts Away Cereal Boxes

Messily opened cereal box, a relatable scene from infuriating boyfriends or husbands.

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MsPlants
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ok that takes some muscle to roll the box down instead of the bag, I am impressed and annoyed

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#59

My Husband Says "I Help You At Home". The Help At Home:

Stacked plates in a kitchen cabinet, illustrating infuriating boyfriend's organization habits.

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paddingtonvg
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He "helps" at home. You live there too asshat, you're not helping!!! Argh makes me so angry 😡😡

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#61

I Hate My BF

Tangled earphones on a countertop, representing infuriating boyfriend habits.

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Alex
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's a reason why there are multiple jokes in different sitcoms about iPhone cables. if you have them closer than 2 feet to each other without the lights on this will inevitably happen.

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#62

Hubby Is Letting Our Neighbor Use Our Oven…

Roasting meat in the oven with fat dripping onto foil, highlighting infuriating kitchen habits of boyfriends and husbands.

I’m good w him borrowing the oven but thought maybe since he was cooking several things, he would use our oven for one of his less messy items. Like, something inside a pan or dish or…

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#63

The Way My Boyfriend Eats Pizza

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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nothing wrong with that. I've done it. If it's all for me, who cares if it's cut or not?

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#64

By Boyfriend Broke The Stove Top With A Cast-Iron Pan

Broken stovetop with exposed wiring, illustrating a frustrating household mishap by boyfriends or husbands.

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#65

The Way My BF Holds His Glass

Man holding a glass of water near his pocket, showcasing boyfriends' infuriating actions.

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Back when I worked in restaurants and bars, putting your fingers in the glass, even if it was empty, was a huge NO-NO. That's how diseases get spread.

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#66

My Boyfriend Left A Smushed Up Soap Bar And A Leaf In The Drain After Taking A Shower

Soap and leaves clogging a bathtub drain, illustrating infuriating boyfriends' habits.

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#67

How My Boyfriend Drinks A Capri Sun

Capri-Sun pouch opened incorrectly by boyfriend or husband, next to a glass of juice on a wooden table.

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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ok in all honesty this is kinda brilliant and I never thought of this for when that damn little straw wont go in the damn bag for me so I stab it and stab it and then instead of going IN TO the bag it goes THROUGH the bag and then I just want to throw the whole thing against the wall. so maybe this avoids all that

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#69

How My Partner Stacks The Dishes To Dry

Messy kitchen counter with dishes and pots scattered, showcasing infuriating boyfriends' husbands' habits.

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Tyranamar Suess
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5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is f e. You don't have enough room there for him to stack the dishes any better way. Get a bigger dish-rack.

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