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BrownEyedPanda • commented on a post 3 months ago

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Don't respond to them. It feeds them.

BrownEyedPanda • upvoted 39 items 3 months ago

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

Who the heck voted for "somewhat justified"? It was totally, utterly and absolutely justified and should probably have included a ban from the store for good measure!

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

So happy you charged them for your hard work & shut them up with proof. Top sales for the day.

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

Who the heck voted for "somewhat justified"? It was totally, utterly and absolutely justified and should probably have included a ban from the store for good measure!

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

So happy you charged them for your hard work & shut them up with proof. Top sales for the day.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

But autism IS a spectrum. There isn't just one brand of autism. As a comparison, if you are infected with the COVID virus, you have COVID. There isn't a "spectrum" of being infected with COVID (only differing levels of severity) but if you have the COVID virus, you have COVID. You're not "on the COVID spectrum". But having autism is NOT like a viral infection. It is not as simple as "yes or no". It is a condition that has to do with brain development and thus absolutely IS a spectrum.

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

PSA: For spam notes like the one below you and click on the tree dots to the right of the name line and report it. Maybe if enough of us do it they'll ban them.

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

Poor dog, his master plan was ruined. Got the kid to wreck the treats, forcing the parent to pay for them, and they left them in the store.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

I have a hiatus hernia that causes me to get trapped wind and I often have to burp, annoyingly. I do not do it loudly, that ISN'T necessary, people can be discreet and keep the burp quiet. You don't have to open your mouth and let rip (though go for it if you like when alone!) and I would never, ever do it in someone's face.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

You're daring to the farthest corners of the planet? So an AI wrote this.

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

Great story

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Maybe not fake... but definitely doesn't care.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

AND that's the difference.... 'I absolutely wouldn’t continue'. Your consideratie enough and smart enough to know that there is a boundary. As a late diagnosed ADHD person, good luck with your diagnosis. 👍

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

When I was 7, I somehow managed to pull a tall display of kitchen knives and scissors onto myself. I wound up standing, unmarked, in a tiny circle of uncluttered floor while sharp blades lay all around me. I wasn't certain who was more freaked out, the hardware store owner or my dad. Until we got home, anyway.

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

This kind of story really really s***s me. I have 3 kids - 2 with ASD and all 3 with ADHD. As difficult as it is, I make a point of taking them the the shops with me at least once a week and getting them to do little jobs and errands because a) I have to and b) they need to learn these basic skills. Since they were tiny I have worked SO FREAKING HARD to teach them to be considerate and responsible citizens in public - to stand to the side if they need to stop in walkways, not to fiddle with breakable things or things they won’t by, to use their manners and to help others if they can and, by and large they do a lovely job (occasionally one might start reenacting the space battle game going on in their head or get a bit jumpy and excited about something fun, but will calm down quickly). So it utterly blows my gaskets when we have not one but TWO parents that can’t be f****d keeping one small child supervised and behaving themselves for one small outing. Utterly ridiculous.

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

At least Karen paid for the damage caused by her groin gremlin.

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

Forgot the lifetime store ban.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

The trying to hug while the person asked to be let go is just manipulative. If someone asks you to stop physical contact, then stop.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

As someone on the spectrum, this guy was just using it as an excuse to be an AH. Which he likely would have been even had he not had autism. Especially if he lives independently, drives a car, holds down a job. I'm 70 but wasn't properly diagnosed until I was 69. It was very hard for me growing up, especially when I didn't know why I needed certain things to be a certain way, but I did learn how to act and react. I still drive my own car and live independently, and did work when I was younger. My diagnosis was an explanation and a relief.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Quote from my late husband about our autistic Best Man "I've known him long enough to know the difference between things caused by his autism and times when he's just being a d**k". ANYONE Can be a d**k, neurodivergence is no excuse.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

I'm likely on the spectrum. I'm awaiting testing, (will be a later in life diagnosis as I'm in my 40s) but anecdotally I've had signs since childhood that would have been considered autistic now, but because I'm female and born at a time when girls 'didn't have autism', I was just seen as quirky. As a child I was taught boundaries. If I overstepped those boundaries there were consequences. Occasionally as an adult I've overstepped (not to the extreme as in the post), but I fully expect people to tell me that something is not acceptable and I will take it on board. You may have to explain why, as I genuinely don't always 'see' an issue but I absolutely wouldn’t continue to disrespect the situation.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

I know. I wish it wasn't because I personally feel there's a difference between it and autism, but again, not a doctor.

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

I was once at a fast food place when those two thug-looking teens (16-18) came in and started to grab beers from the shelves. They obviously refused to pay and started threatening the owner to beat him up. He said they might wanna rethink that because he had been stabbed a couple of times, he sure wasn't impressed by them. Their mother then showed up saying she was gonna pay for them and she asked her boyfriend for money because she didn't have any. The guy was upset but he handed out his wallet when she said, "Do you really want the cops to get involved ?!" She paid and dragged the teens out while yelling at them. Apparently, the whole family had warrants out and starting drama in a public place over a few beers wasn't a good idea.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Asperger's was removed from the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of mental disorders) in 2013, hence the ubiquity of the term 'spectrum'.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

The guy's reaction was obviously exaggerated, he was trying to fake being mentally disabled to avoid the consequences of being an AH. He might have some issues, but if he's able to live on his own, drive and even keep a job, he's clearly able to understand that he shouldn't play with medical devices (or anything that doesn't belong to him.)

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

Go OP and her shiny shiny spine. Retail workers don't get paid near enough to sit your cro‍tch-spawn. Be grateful the staff didn't call child services on your a‍ss for leaving the sh‍ithead kid alone.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

I have to admit I've defaulted to 'on the spectrum' over time simply because it potentially differentiates people with autism versus people who would traditionally be diagnosed with Asperger's, which, whilst I see the similarities I personally see them as sufficiently different to warrant different names (but obviously, not a doctor, so what do I know 😂). If it's more widely seen as offensive though, I'm more than happy to change.

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

The kid was nine, not four. At nine, if they don’t know better, it’s just terrible parenting

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

ND is used now to describe anyone who is eccentric. From the information provided, I have no idea where they are on the scale or if they’re even autistic. OP was fine to boot them out

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

That will be 149.76 and for another $10 I'll throw in this shock collar to prevent things like this in the future.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

There are many instances where people have had excuses made for their poor behaviour because they have not been held accountable due to being on the spectrum. Difficulty understanding social cues should not be used as an excuse for being an arsehole.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

It doesn't matter what type of mental or physical "difference" you have. That doesn't give you the right to be an inconsiderate jerk. And you also don't get to shout "discrimination!" because someone calls you out on the behavior.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Somebody can be neurodivergent, handicapped, etc. and still independently be an a**hole.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Perfect response!

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

There is being autistic and being an a*****e and sometimes a person is both. I wish people could understand the difference. For everyone involved, including the a*****e, it's better to recognize and deal with the behavior than to justify, excuse, or forgive it to avoid being labelled an "ableist".

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Your coworker sounds like a gem. This guy is a jerk. I'm wondering how this jerk can hold down a job. Does he continually burp in his coworkers or before his boss? Doubt it. If he can behave in one situation, he can behave in another. And if he's told that it's appropriate and continues to do it, then he needs to leave and not return. As for the hearing aids--I'm sure he doesn't handle things at work that he's supposed to keep his hands off, so he does know the difference in what's appropriate. Again, he was asked not to touch and didn't listen. GTFO then

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Being ND and being an AH are not mutually exclusive. You can be both. It sounds like the friends coddle the ND person "because he's ND/doesn't understand/sees things differently", which sure -- someone on the spectrum does see things differently and may take longer to understand some things, but "do not touch my things" and "do not burp in my face" are not particularly hard for anyone to understand -- they're not social cues; they are requests/orders/there's nothing to misinterpret -- and frankly if the friends treat every ND person like the ND person here I hope a decent chunk of them would be insulted, because that's just infantilising to them to think otherwise. They're autistic. Not stupid. Also, the ND person is foul, because burping in someone's face is rude and gross. Especially so after being asked to stop and not.

9YO Breaks $150 Worth Of Goods In Store, Parents Shocked When They Have To Pay For It

I understand that some kids are naturally chaotic. I will never understand parents who refuse to take responsibility for their children's behavior.

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BrownEyedPanda • commented on 20 posts 3 months ago

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Don't respond to them. It feeds them.

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Those bodycam videos are more entertaining than a year's worth of HBO and Showtime.

“Deal With It”: Woman Breaks Into Friend’s House And Claims She’s Lived There For Months

Squatter Squad would have had that creature out of the house in record time. OP could have made that girl's residency absolute hèll if he knew how. Just have some friends move in and occupy the common areas. Put a lock on the refrigerator (perfectly legal),disable the stove, washer, and dryer unless he's using them (also legal), hold frequent get-togethers, and install cameras everywhere except the bathroom. The Tenant From Hèll would be out in less than a week.

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Sometimes, it helps to drop a bug in the ear of the local media. Having a story about your neighbors' antics (and the inaction on the part of the landlord/owner and law enforcement) end up in the papers and/or on the 6 O'Clock News may prove to be an excellent deterrent.

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Any parent who's dismissive regarding their child's academic achievements doesn't deserve to be part of any other milestones in their life (engagement, wedding, baby announcement/birth). All they deserve is getting grayrocked when they ask.

Woman Debates Reporting Neighbors After Their Young Son Crawls Into Her Home Twice

The only thing a village can raise is the village idiot. There's a big difference between communal support and negligent parenting.

“Unacceptable”: 18 Arrested After Female Police Officers Go Undercover To Expose Men While Jogging

You sound mentally deficient.

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Let OP'S parents look to the golden child for their income.

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What goes around, comes around. Newton's 3rd Law of Motion is always in effect.

“Thought She Owned The Street”: 47 Times Neighbors Took Pettiness Too Far

Seriously..

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This is why I'm getting a second opinion regarding my knees. The first orthopedic surgeon I encountered was rather dismissive, preferring to talk instead of listen (if one more doctor tries to sell me on Ozempic.....), while I'm still in pain. It burns me that it takes drastic action to get doctors to take you seriously if you're a woman.

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If the husband is caught between supporting his wife and his mother, he's already decided. OP should return his ring and move out. Either he'll see what he's losing and draw the line with his mother, or he'll let her keep his jewels in a vault.

MIL Puts Condo On Market, Plans To Move In With Couple, Bride’s Refusal Sparks Family Conflict

Asked and answered, my friend.

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“Unacceptable”: 18 Arrested After Female Police Officers Go Undercover To Expose Men While Jogging

Seriously? Is that all you gleaned from this article? Even if it was sarcasm, it isn't funny. Maybe you should reread what you posted and ask yourself this: would you be so nonchalant about this if someone you know was harassed in this manner?

“Unacceptable”: 18 Arrested After Female Police Officers Go Undercover To Expose Men While Jogging

Bummer.

“Unacceptable”: 18 Arrested After Female Police Officers Go Undercover To Expose Men While Jogging

The point is that this kind of behavior can easily escalate to violence. Some men don't take kindly to being ignored, particularly by women who, in their minds, should be finding them irresistible. If catcalling doesn't produce the desired effect, they would have no qualms in cutting off the jogger's escape route and forcing them into their vehicle.

“Unacceptable”: 18 Arrested After Female Police Officers Go Undercover To Expose Men While Jogging

Oh no they're not. They KNOW how rampant it is. They just want to minimize it in order to justify continuing this tasteless act.

“Unacceptable”: 18 Arrested After Female Police Officers Go Undercover To Expose Men While Jogging

🤣🤣🤣

BrownEyedPanda • upvoted 20 items 3 months ago

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

I know. I wish it wasn't because I personally feel there's a difference between it and autism, but again, not a doctor.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Asperger's was removed from the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of mental disorders) in 2013, hence the ubiquity of the term 'spectrum'.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Maybe not fake... but definitely doesn't care.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

"There's nothing about being a member of a minority that precludes one from being a small minded little jerk." ~ Terry Pratchett (paraphrased)

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

Autism - the universal excuse.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

He literally told them not to do that. There were no ambiguous social cues to pick up. They are being an a*****e and using their nd as an excuse.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

The trying to hug while the person asked to be let go is just manipulative. If someone asks you to stop physical contact, then stop.

Man Has Enough Of Neurodivergent Guest Crossing Boundaries, Kicks Them Out

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