Woman Debates Reporting Neighbors After Their Young Son Crawls Into Her Home Twice
Kids can be a whirlwind. One second they’re right in front of you, and the next they’re off doing something wildly chaotic or even dangerous.
That’s exactly what happened to this Redditor, except she wasn’t the parent chasing after the little one. Instead, she found herself on the receiving end when her neighbor’s young son managed to sneak away from home and break into hers—not once, but several times. Inside, he played with her dogs, flipped on the TV, raided her fridge, and acted as if he lived there.
What made it worse was that his parents didn’t seem nearly as alarmed as she was. Frustrated and concerned, she turned to the internet for advice on how to handle a situation that was quickly becoming more than just an innocent game.
A neighbor’s little boy slipped into the woman’s home and made himself at ease as if it were his own
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What stunned her most, though, was how his parents reacted
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Readers agreed she wasn’t overreacting and urged her to take the situation seriously
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In a follow-up, the author addressed readers’ questions and explained what steps she plans to take moving forward
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Commenters expressed understanding for her frustrations
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WHY does everyone immediately jump on the ''autism'' excuse?! And a fkn excuse it is. It's just a greedy, entitled little b*****d. I'd wait until I saw it coming, then spread many, many thumbtacks on the floor on the inside side the dog door (having first safely removed the dogs) Or ''accidentally'' dump a very large bucket of ice and water from an upstairs window. By the time it's thirteen it'll be an armed burglar.
CPA!!! That child is ripe for kidnapping, running around unsupervised. Also, a neighbor's house was broken into by a pair of crooks, one of whom was skinny enough to use their dog door (with a lot of shoving from his accomplice). Locking dog tags sounds like a good idea.
A flamethrower to get rid of à spider? Talk about overkill! Unless OP lives in Australia. In that case... nuff said.
I'd probably use a propane torch on a wolf spider with babies on her back too!!
Load More Replies...This is totally unacceptable, but man, little kids can be sneaky mfs. More than once as a toddler I slipped out before my mom noticed and was sent in panic mode. Once, I heard the high school band practicing down the street and took off. Mom knew just what direction to take to find me. This little dude likes her dogs. Maybe if she took them to visit or invited him for play time he wouldn't break in? But, he is not her responsibility. She needs to secure the gate and the dog door and have the parents on speed dial.
Reading comprehension. He has dogs and other animals. Let him play with his own d**n dogs. Speed dial for the cops, since the parents are obviously s**t.
Load More Replies...First time some random child turns up, call the police. Second time, call child protection. If there's a third time, press charges. Because it doesn't matter if the little brat invited itself in, if anything were to happen (like attacked by a dog), your dog would likely be destroyed *and* you'll have a hell of a legal battle to fight. The whys and wherefores are not your problem, it's not your child. Don't waste time with the parents, they'll do the least they can get away with. Create an official paper trial (it may help later down the line).
I'd be hot wiring the entire boundary fence line and all gates.
It takes a village my @ss. Be responsible for YOUR kid and what they get into. This "takes a village" mess is drivel that's parroted by people who refuse to take responsibility for their kids.
We should take all the "takes a village" people, and ship them off to their own village. Problem solved
Load More Replies...All I can think about is how they burned that spider alive with all her babies on her back.
The quick and reasonably cheap starting point is to put a lock on your gate, and get an automatically locking dog-door that is controlled by your dogs collars or microchips. Second thing to do is to put up no-trespassing signs, and issue a cease and desist letter to the parents. Third is to document each incident, report to the police, and raise the concern of child neglect with CPS. A five or six year old shouldn't be able to disappear for what sounds like must be an hour or more without his parents knowing where he is. Also - any time you see the kid without his parents, tell him off!None of this "calm him down, don't scare him" be "Where are your parents? This is naughty behaviour, go straight home!"
Oh I'd be installing an electric fence with plenty of signage on top of the locking dog door. I'd also be sending a certified letter to the parents warning them that it is in operation and any further egress (by child or animals) will result in civil and/or criminal action..
Sorry, if their dogs killed my animals, I would shoot them. I would call animal control for the wandering animals and most assuredly CPS about the kid. These people are obviously very f'ed up and not good parents or pet owners.
Don't be sorry, that is your right. Because it's a cute little puppy I should stand idly as it mauls my beloved family pets, or the livestock my business depends on? I'd shoot the dog too. Then I'd sue the humans for damages caused by the dog. The kid issue would never have arisen, because the parents would rightly worry that I would just shoot their kid and sue them.
Load More Replies...The thought of having dog doors that are unlocked when you are not home while living in the country where there is wildlife just seems like a bad idea anyway. I mean best case scenario she's going to come home to find a not-my-cat making itself at home, but it could also end up with a fox or something similar that, given the sizes of her dogs, could easily harm them (plus fox urine and poop is horrendously stinky and male foxes pee everywhere)
I see it more from a parenting standpoint, I am very scared for my kids, but indont want to teach them to be scared, so I try to knownwhat they do without them realising (I don't snoop, they know about the general system) So my youngest has a smartwatch since he is the one who likes to go on hikes ... in the middle of the night. ... in the woods. After this he got the watch. He loves it and it's on him all the time. With the other others it's even easier, since the basically are physically connected to their phone, so I can see where they are and they see where is m
Create a scary display inside your house - killer clown etc. Give the kid a good scare when he enters via the dog door. (The downside is you'd have to have this up for a while as he doesn't come on a set time). Maybe then he'll learn it might not be safe to enter a strangers house uninvited.
At a minimum, I'd get a simple combination or key lock for the gate. If somehow the gate is left open and OP's dogs get out they could easily be hit by cars. Too bad the parent's of the kid don't have the same concerns for him.
Go South African on them. Lock all gates, put razor wire or an electric fence on your walls/fences. Get a bell/camera system and mount it on the outside (in a locked, steel box with bars if need be) so people who deliver or visit can alert you to their presence.
Neither my siblings, nor I are autistic. Each of us, starting with me the eldest, went on a walk about at some point. My mom fully admitted that her attention was elsewhere. However, we did it once. Maybe twice and that was it. My mother put the fear of god into us, that we didn't take off again. Now, I'm genX, so we were feral and allowed to go ogg and play but not at a young age, like 4 or 5.
The only thing a village can raise is the village idiot. There's a big difference between communal support and negligent parenting.
Load More Replies...WHY does everyone immediately jump on the ''autism'' excuse?! And a fkn excuse it is. It's just a greedy, entitled little b*****d. I'd wait until I saw it coming, then spread many, many thumbtacks on the floor on the inside side the dog door (having first safely removed the dogs) Or ''accidentally'' dump a very large bucket of ice and water from an upstairs window. By the time it's thirteen it'll be an armed burglar.
CPA!!! That child is ripe for kidnapping, running around unsupervised. Also, a neighbor's house was broken into by a pair of crooks, one of whom was skinny enough to use their dog door (with a lot of shoving from his accomplice). Locking dog tags sounds like a good idea.
A flamethrower to get rid of à spider? Talk about overkill! Unless OP lives in Australia. In that case... nuff said.
I'd probably use a propane torch on a wolf spider with babies on her back too!!
Load More Replies...This is totally unacceptable, but man, little kids can be sneaky mfs. More than once as a toddler I slipped out before my mom noticed and was sent in panic mode. Once, I heard the high school band practicing down the street and took off. Mom knew just what direction to take to find me. This little dude likes her dogs. Maybe if she took them to visit or invited him for play time he wouldn't break in? But, he is not her responsibility. She needs to secure the gate and the dog door and have the parents on speed dial.
Reading comprehension. He has dogs and other animals. Let him play with his own d**n dogs. Speed dial for the cops, since the parents are obviously s**t.
Load More Replies...First time some random child turns up, call the police. Second time, call child protection. If there's a third time, press charges. Because it doesn't matter if the little brat invited itself in, if anything were to happen (like attacked by a dog), your dog would likely be destroyed *and* you'll have a hell of a legal battle to fight. The whys and wherefores are not your problem, it's not your child. Don't waste time with the parents, they'll do the least they can get away with. Create an official paper trial (it may help later down the line).
I'd be hot wiring the entire boundary fence line and all gates.
It takes a village my @ss. Be responsible for YOUR kid and what they get into. This "takes a village" mess is drivel that's parroted by people who refuse to take responsibility for their kids.
We should take all the "takes a village" people, and ship them off to their own village. Problem solved
Load More Replies...All I can think about is how they burned that spider alive with all her babies on her back.
The quick and reasonably cheap starting point is to put a lock on your gate, and get an automatically locking dog-door that is controlled by your dogs collars or microchips. Second thing to do is to put up no-trespassing signs, and issue a cease and desist letter to the parents. Third is to document each incident, report to the police, and raise the concern of child neglect with CPS. A five or six year old shouldn't be able to disappear for what sounds like must be an hour or more without his parents knowing where he is. Also - any time you see the kid without his parents, tell him off!None of this "calm him down, don't scare him" be "Where are your parents? This is naughty behaviour, go straight home!"
Oh I'd be installing an electric fence with plenty of signage on top of the locking dog door. I'd also be sending a certified letter to the parents warning them that it is in operation and any further egress (by child or animals) will result in civil and/or criminal action..
Sorry, if their dogs killed my animals, I would shoot them. I would call animal control for the wandering animals and most assuredly CPS about the kid. These people are obviously very f'ed up and not good parents or pet owners.
Don't be sorry, that is your right. Because it's a cute little puppy I should stand idly as it mauls my beloved family pets, or the livestock my business depends on? I'd shoot the dog too. Then I'd sue the humans for damages caused by the dog. The kid issue would never have arisen, because the parents would rightly worry that I would just shoot their kid and sue them.
Load More Replies...The thought of having dog doors that are unlocked when you are not home while living in the country where there is wildlife just seems like a bad idea anyway. I mean best case scenario she's going to come home to find a not-my-cat making itself at home, but it could also end up with a fox or something similar that, given the sizes of her dogs, could easily harm them (plus fox urine and poop is horrendously stinky and male foxes pee everywhere)
I see it more from a parenting standpoint, I am very scared for my kids, but indont want to teach them to be scared, so I try to knownwhat they do without them realising (I don't snoop, they know about the general system) So my youngest has a smartwatch since he is the one who likes to go on hikes ... in the middle of the night. ... in the woods. After this he got the watch. He loves it and it's on him all the time. With the other others it's even easier, since the basically are physically connected to their phone, so I can see where they are and they see where is m
Create a scary display inside your house - killer clown etc. Give the kid a good scare when he enters via the dog door. (The downside is you'd have to have this up for a while as he doesn't come on a set time). Maybe then he'll learn it might not be safe to enter a strangers house uninvited.
At a minimum, I'd get a simple combination or key lock for the gate. If somehow the gate is left open and OP's dogs get out they could easily be hit by cars. Too bad the parent's of the kid don't have the same concerns for him.
Go South African on them. Lock all gates, put razor wire or an electric fence on your walls/fences. Get a bell/camera system and mount it on the outside (in a locked, steel box with bars if need be) so people who deliver or visit can alert you to their presence.
Neither my siblings, nor I are autistic. Each of us, starting with me the eldest, went on a walk about at some point. My mom fully admitted that her attention was elsewhere. However, we did it once. Maybe twice and that was it. My mother put the fear of god into us, that we didn't take off again. Now, I'm genX, so we were feral and allowed to go ogg and play but not at a young age, like 4 or 5.
The only thing a village can raise is the village idiot. There's a big difference between communal support and negligent parenting.
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