I had two of my own very young children. I told him while we were dating I wasn't sure I wanted more children so if it was what he was looking for we should split. About 8 months later, he asked me to marry him. The more arrangements we made he kept talking about growing the family. I agreed when my youngest was in school I would have one more so he could have a bio child. He kept talking about having 5 more.

I kept telling him it wasn't too late to call off but I wasn't having five more. He insisted he loved me and didn't care if we had any more but he always dreamt of a big family. A WEEK out from the wedding I heard him talking to a buddy that planned on forcing me into creating his family.

Four days from the wedding, I canceled and ended our relationship.

27 years later, he is married w/6 kids and one on the way.

I am married w/ my 2 adult kids in their 30's and my nephew in his early 20's.

We were out thousands of dollars but it saved us both from being unhappy.

If you are asking because you are considering it. DO IT.

Trust yourself and do not worry what everyone else will think.