I ended my very short lived engagement because of Reddit. I kid you not. I posted on engagement rings about hating my ring, and then people started asking questions about my relationship and after figuring out that he was much older than me, made me understand I was being manipulated. It was mind blowing. I received so many messages from concerned women of that sub that I could barely keep up. In the beginning I thought every one was exaggerating, but then I started reading stories and links they sent me and finding so much in common. I told him I needed some time to think and he changed 180 degrees and made me realize what a f***k he was. Haven’t looked back honestly. I am applying for Medical school and I am so happy I didn’t stay with him.