Whether you are cis het and are confused about something or are having trouble figuring out your gender/sexuality, you can post a question here.

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#1

I don’t know if I’m asexual or bisexual, I like both boys and girls but they also gross me out. I’m just so confused. I’m having a proper full-on gay crisis.

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#2

why does the gender binary have to exist? I think life would be a lot easier if there was no binary whatsoever. People are just people.

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Mermeow Overlord (they/them)
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is all just a guess so don't assume that I know what I am talking about, gender probably originated from the physical differences of the sexes, transphobia probably didn't exist at the time therefore trans people like us were allowed to live as ourselves and no one cared, but at some point in history sexism and homophobia made it so the genders were divided by the stupid inconsistent rules, remember that this is all a guess based on logic and a bit of prior knowledge, if anyone can confirm this or tell me which parts of this are wrong, it would be greatly appreciated.

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#3

I have encountered a lot of trans and non-binary people on this site and at school, my question is, why are so many of us afab (assigned female at birth)?

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#4

How do you get in relationships so easily ? I am aroace and it seems to me that the probability of a crush actually being attracted to you too seems so low. Do you just go in the relationship and hope you catch feelings ? It makes me so confused

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Huddo's sister
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I tried the 'hopefully catch feelings' thing and it sucked so I don't recommend it to anyone! Some people are afraid to be alone, but I think they need some time alone so they can figure out who they are and what they like.

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#5

I don’t know if this type of question is what you meant but anyways here it is. if you are non-binary are you transgender?

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#6

What causes the feelings about gender identity, I read an article on this site that said chromosomes actually determine gender and one tiny piece of the chromosomes caused you to become the wrong sex (for example: a transmasc person would be born with XY chromosomes but would still appear biologically female). I found it on BP so I am not sure if it's accurate but it would explain the feelings of gender identity.

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No

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#8

“Spiderpunk, I see you're back.” WHAT U TALKIN BOUT WILLIS?

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