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Many men fall victim to toxic masculinity, an undesirable trait, to say the least. Women also have their fair share of unhinged moments, which you will see on today’s list. 

We’ve compiled a list of screenshots from the Nice Girls subreddit. Don’t let the name fool you. These show the ugly side of being a female, which, for some men, is the stuff of nightmares and trauma

You’re about to read posts featuring toxic text exchanges, ‘entitled woman’ tendencies, and unhealthy attachment behaviors. Consider these the glaring red flags you must avoid at all costs. 

#1

Wlw: My Charming Ex Girlfriend Gets Scary

Text message exchange showcasing delulu behavior in relationships needing a reality check.

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Zephyr
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Loool "il I hope you find peace" wooow I'm keeping that for my breakup speech

Chuck
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS is how you tell me, Zeph?!? 😭

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Binky Melnik
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“If I can’t have you, no one will”: These words have often been uttered by someone who’s about to kill the disinterested party. If anyone utters this to you, RUN as fast as you can to the nearest police station! And good luck to you if someone has said this to you!

Skogsrået
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Abusive af.

Snazzy Smurf
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fatal Attraction episode

Senjo Krane
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

well that went downhill real quick.

Crystalwitch60
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow lunatic alert right there ! and that if I can’t have you no one can is a threat basically delete her no after blocking her and block on all sm might even need to change no in all honestly she sounds deranged ! It not before saving her threats and showing them to the police ! baby reindeer vibes

Adrian
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yikes, someone dodged a bullet!

Janissary35680
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not quite yet dodged unfortunately.

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Saphyre Fyre
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Keep the threats for police in case she starts acting on them

JP Purves
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Great way to get a guy back. Threaten him with all the personal things he told you in confidence.

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    #2

    One Date And Hardly Spoke

    Text conversation showcasing a "delulu woman" asking for another chance after being ghosted.

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    Faramir10
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No means no - not try harder.

    Corwin 02
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sigh she apparently is looking for free meals instead of a relationship, so many red flags

    Taibhse Sealgair
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bingo. And not just any free meal. A nice steak house.

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    Adrian
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first "your" should have been a clue...

    Richard Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. There are "warning signs" then there's THIS fireworks display.

    Jason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She just wants another free meal and no back up guy

    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This just awkward, I begin to think that some sex workers have more self respect than most ladies, this was hard to read

    Disgruntled Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why wouldn't sex workers have self respect? Just because you don't think they should?

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    #3

    Invest In Cat Food Fellas

    Chat conversation highlighting a reality check for a woman demanding sneakers despite not having money.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This what happens when parents don't teach their kids about value

    Ebony
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What Chipotle they're going to for a $9 meal? Can I get an address???

    Littlemiss
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Definitely recommend a cat. They aren't as snobby and obnoxious as people believe. Mine have all been loving, caring, supportive and give as good as they get. Slightly biased, I have a spare human, a cat whisper in training, and 5 cats.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I also recommend a cat (or two! or more!) XD I had two dogs and two cats - and recently (finally) escaped the abusive relationship I was in for 23 years. I've adopted 3 kittens since moving back home! I allowed my ex to keep my precious tuxedo boy - *I* was the one who adopted Preacher, and while Mr. Peepee does love me, he loves my ex WAY more. And ex is an excellent cat dad (but a horribly abusive partner.) It broke my heart to leave Preacher with my ex, but it was the best thing for Preacher. He is happier with my ex than he would be with me - he'd miss my ex terribly. But - I wouldn't have made that decision if my ex wasn't also in love with Preacher. He hated my other pets, and Peps was his favorite. But now I have four cats and am happily free <3

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    Sara Shamsabadi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how do you prevent this as parents??! It boggles my mind that this young girl's parents/family taught her it's ok to think or act this way?!???

    Panda Panda Bo Banda
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would love to see her reply

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love the apology lol

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    Many of the screenshots you’ll see on this list feature what experts refer to as an anxious attachment style. The Cleveland Clinic defines it as an insecure attachment that begins in childhood, where a primary caregiver fails to provide ample care and attention. 

    In adult relationships, it may manifest through clingy and needy behavior. It may also come in the form of its polar opposite, where the person is untrusting. In both cases, the fear of abandonment is the common denominator.

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    #4

    Gave My Number To A Lady At Church That I Was Told Was In Charge Of Coordinating Ministry Programs And Events. I Later Found Out That Was A Lie And She Was Not Involved In Any Of That

    Text exchange showing frustration: one person accuses another of blocking; reply suggests frequent number changes.

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    ShadeCalico
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't people just accept a simple NO?

    Stephen Hutchison
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this woman was actually a member of his church he needs to let the clergy know what she's doing.

    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So a couple questions that I have here, are; was he told but this woman was in charge of those areas by someone else? Or, was he told that this woman was in charge of those areas, by the woman herself? He does not say that she lied to him. He just said he found out later that it was a lie. So did someone else actually lie to him, and if so, why?

    katiekat0214
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's hope you stopped going to that church...

    #5

    Alcohol Or Unhinged

    Chat screenshot illustrating delulu women's unrealistic expectations in relationships, seeking a reality check.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is no situation or problem that alcohol won't make worse

    CalamityOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alcohol is a hell of a d**g, kids...

    Snazzy Smurf
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Talk about a Hot Mess Express!

    Edda Kamphues
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no idea what is going on here.

    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alcohol and prescribed mental health medication do not mix.

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    #6

    Had Me In The First Half Ngl (Not Mine)

    Facebook post by StoryTime WithTy about relationship drama and self-reflection.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I say dumb you say b***h.......DUMB!

    zububonsai
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "oVEr stUpId...hOrmONes" ... No lady, over stupid cheating.

    Annik Perrot
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even "pregnancy brain" can't account for that.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope it really really really can’t can it not even a little bit

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    Snazzy Smurf
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It would be surprising if anyone had stayed after that confession of love for an ex.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Erm look lady I’m a mother and you can’t use the bloody hormones s**t at that omg ! You made your bed go lie in it pregnant or not your a complete a*****e end off and your poor husband who’s done nothing but treasure you look after you love you unconditionally and you do this to him wtf is wrong with you ! Your messed up and tbh I don’t think your ready for a child hand him over to your now ex husband ! there is no getting past this NONE that poor blok e will never trust another woman again thanks to your pathetic selfish s**t 🤬he gave you the world you threw it all back and then some your I my eyes a childish skank !

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I face palm'd too hard, ow

    Jason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I knew a girl like this, so hung up on her ex she had a plan we make him jealous. Dirty game right!? I played along, it was fun. She was always angry and verbally abusive and "treat me like a queen and give me all your money." I kept every text, email and kind of communication regarding her trying to eff with his head to win him back. Knocked on his door when I was done with her we sat had some drinks talked about it all, now she's single and 30 single mom living in her parents undeveloped basement.

    Steven Meyer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't expect your husband to be with you when you profess wanting to be with another man, I would leave you too.!

    Melinda Flick
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't understand her mistake??? Good god woman, what would you EXPECT after that insanity?!

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    Recent research has shown that women are more prone to developing an anxious attachment style. Men, on the other hand, develop an avoidant attachment style where they tend to distance themselves from romance-related anxieties. 

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    According to brain science innovator Dr. Srini Pillay, it’s how humans are naturally wired, and both sexes deal with adverse reactions differently. 

    “Because the brain is geared to focus on negative things (presumably to protect us), we all tend to see the negative things under a magnifying glass,” Dr. Pillay wrote in an article for HuffPost.

    #7

    I Used To Be A Nice Girl

    Text conversation humorously discussing sending 30 messages during a meeting, highlighting a misunderstanding.

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    Kris
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This doesnt tally. The green bubbles are from the "screenshotter" so that makes the person who screenshotted the crazy one..

    Hyacinth (Any pronouns)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The title says 'I used to be a Nice Girl', so this is someone who changed, and recognized their old behavior and posted it.

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    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Twenty-five instead of thirty. That's SO much better.

    Ryan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I misread it as "thirsty", which made it funnier to me.

    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh so it was only 25 messages, instead of 30 messages, so that makes it acceptable and better?

    #8

    Speaking For Less Than 1 Day After Matching On Hinge, Have 1 Facetime Call. Asks For Money

    Delulu women text exchange about an inappropriate request to pay for a meal after one FaceTime call.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's used to getting her meals paid for

    Charles McChristy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shoot, I matched with this one woman, opened the chat and asked how she was. She started with "my car just broke down, and I don't know how I'm going to get to work tomorrow to feed my kid." I have never hit the block button so fast in my life.

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a question for them, what the heck is that?

    James Misson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dunno what she's eating but it doesn't look like it's worth paying for!

    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The number that you are trying to text is currently unable to receive text messages at this time.

    Ravenkbh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't think that was food

    #9

    What In The Actual F#*% Lmao

    Text message conversation with humorous and awkward exchange about dating preferences.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How does someone reply to this? Cos "f**k off" sounds ideal

    Skogsrået
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    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She hates men and white people? How about "I don't want to date a misogynic, racist POS like you so no thanks"? Why do some people think it's ok to spew out hateful racist c**p against white people but god forbid they would ever feel someone even might be racist towards them?

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    Dragons Exist
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'm a sexist racist, how do you feel about that?"

    Richard Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I appreciate her taking the time to tell him she hates his race and gender. That's thoughtful.

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this an interview?

    HTakeover
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I think... if I were a therapist I would make SOOOO much money from all of your issues."

    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please seek mental health counseling at your earliest convenience.

    Sara Shamsabadi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if she hates men why is she dating men on a dating site? LOL

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The reply to her first message should have just been "Okay," and then nothing.

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    Dr. Pillay says the differing attachment styles between men and women typically push couples to bail from the relationship instead of trying to get to the root of the problem. 

    “Women may become resentful that men are ‘clueless’ or not feeling the anxiety that they are feeling,” he wrote, adding that a man’s usual reaction would be to resent their female partners for being too “high-strung” about “simple issues.”

    #10

    What A Nice Girl, Right?

    Text screenshot with a person begging for a relationship in a desperate tone.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If DON'T was a person

    Sian E
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's the definition of red flag.🚩🚩

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    Binky Melnik
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    PERFECT example of how NEVER to speak to someone EVER. Terrifying people is NOT an effective way to get a date!

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dear god that asylum is getting so careless ffs it’s lost another lunatic hasn’t it

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Allcaps are SO SEXY /s XD also holy frig, how DARE anyone say "I'll kill myself if you don't date me"?

    Fellfromthemoon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still blame Goethe and his young Werther, although definitely he wasn't the first with this romanticization of a huge flaming red flag.

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    Dragons Exist
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every red-flag-message ticked: all caps, threatening suícide, saying the suicide will be their fault, "I hope you know that", begging, trying to be self-aware ("I sound like a psycho rn") but failing, weird dreams, and not even friends on the site

    Joe Bloe
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know we can see Alexis name, right?

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, so let’s dox Alexis with all this info. 🙄

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    Spacey Stacey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Time to pack up and relocate far, far away

    JP Purves
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She said it herself, she's a psycho.

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    #11

    Matched, Immediately Went To Snap. This Was About 10 Minutes Into Talking

    Text conversation highlighting delulu women discussing relationship goals and expectations.

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    Ripley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you feel like you need to tell people that you deserve [insert thing here] then you probably don't.

    LuckyL
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the situation. If somebody is actually rude I think it's fine to say I deserve respect and I've you're not able to do that, then we will end this situation.

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    Casey Payne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't put your kids through meeting your dates. Depending on how many dates you introduce them to, it can be really confusing. "Uh, hi. Am I supposed to call you 'daddy' too? That guy last week freaked out because he wanted my mom to call him 'daddy' and not me."

    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Run away. She seems like the person who only gets her way.

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You do have to kind of get to know the person before getting into a relationship. Or has something changed?

    Chris Henderson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah - nope. Finding myself dating after 40 these days. I have a hard rule. They don't meet my kids, and I don't meet their kids until at least 6 months into dating. I don't want my kiddos seeing women come and go after getting attached to them, and I sure as heck don't want to be the guy on the other end.

    #12

    Finally Blocked Her.. (I Feel Like Im Being Trolled Now)

    Text conversation showing intense and confrontational messages, including blocking threats.

    Told myself i’d block her when it stopped being funny. Spoiler, it’s stopped being funny. I don’t know if i’m being trolled but the way she is so angry from not responding for two hours is very concerning. I feel like she may have some mental health issues because this isn’t normal behavior.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like i need more context.

    StrangeOne
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do want more context, but if you're really that disappointed in someone so much you send all that hate, knowing they will not every like you back and they're not pursuing you further, might as well say nothing and block them, yourself. Both these people could possibly suck.

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    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you don't know how to spell the big words, and you're too lazy to look them up, don't use them.

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Turning on autocorrect would easily solve the problem.

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    Janice Sanz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mental health issues for certain.

    Liz Butt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm disgusting by you. I guess you are.

    Susan Raskin
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    she certainly flipped on a dime. Run

    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This whole situation, definitely needs a lot more context. Because one of my question is, what exactly did he say to her and/or promise her while he was just having "fun"?

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol I might've oinked at her if she called me a pig. I know, sometimes I'm bad...

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    To avoid unnecessary arguments from happening, Dr. Pillay advises understanding these default behavior patterns. And instead of throwing criticisms, recognize each one’s need for commitment. 

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    “The more we are aware of how we respond in romance, the better we will understand both ourselves and the partners with whom we have chosen to explore this life,” he wrote.

    #13

    Girl Blew Up After I Told Her We Were Done

    Text conversation with emojis, audio message, and an exchange of playful yet serious remarks; theme: delusional women.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It took me while to understand that if you have a healthy amount of love and respect for yourself relationships become infinitely easier

    CP
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately the only teacher for that is experience.

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    Multa Nocte
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is also a little confusing about who is who and what went on.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The emojis are confusing me and change the tone.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She literally threatens him because she can't handle that he's not into her. Wow. Classy.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lovely lass ain’t she lol just the kid to take home to meet the parents NOT ,

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    Zinti
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's right. The poster is an immature POS.

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well?? Oh come on, what happens next!??

    #14

    Met This Girl The Night My Grandma Died She Was Aware Of Both Dates

    Text conversation illustrating delulu women in a misunderstanding over funeral plans.

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    Kaa
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    1 year ago

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    If I was super interesting in someone I would have taken 20 seconds to at least text good morning and a "I'll call you when I'm home again from the funeral" or such. - And if I was the person not going through a personal loss, I would have given my crush some time and would've waited some days.

    Neb
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, "super interested". Here, it seems, a regular fresh meeting yet. Unless he promised he will reach out at specific time or specific date, you can't hold against him. People in grief not always think logical and not always remember a new "maybe will connect" girl.

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    Zephyr
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    1 year ago

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    The fact that she wasn't there says a lot

    Nikole
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They just met… Yeah her response was shít, but…

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    #15

    If "Nice Girls" Was A Couple Shirt. This Makes Me Cringe So Hard

    Couple wearing matching shirts with playful messages, hand in hand, expressing relationship dynamics.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wtaf....

    DowntownStevieB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Toxic fem, like toxic masculinity, is also not cool.

    Renée Parry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seen a couple. He was wearing Make my dinner. And hers said Make your own fucken dinner. I know its cringe but l still laughed.

    Xenia Harley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, tears ago, when I divorced my husband had a whole group of about 6 friends who said this to me. "He's half trained already!" Yikes, no! I got divorced and got new friends! These were all single mothers who seemed pretty independent!

    Fellfromthemoon
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The "I'm with stupid-->" seems tame after these abominations.

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    Now, we’d like to ask our readers. Gentlemen, have you encountered these unhinged reactions from women you’ve dated? Ladies, what do you think brings about these behaviors? Let’s start a discussion in the comments!

    #16

    Went To A Family Event And Didn’t Text For About 3 Hours

    Text conversation with blurred names expressing frustration and impatience over delayed responses.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where do you find people like this

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another reason I refuse to use dating apps lmao they all full of bloody lunatics ! They cattle markets for em eugh at 60 I’d never degrade my self to use one ty these posts say everything LITTERALLY

    Edda Kamphues
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jeez, if I did that every time he doesn't get back to me within a few hours I'd never get anything else done. Because he has a life (and a job) too.

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You care don't you you don't care you f*cking care?

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    #17

    Memories Of My Bpd Ex

    Text conversation highlighting irony; a person seeks validation while ignoring the blame game in relationships.

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    hungryghost
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honest question, what's bpd? Bipedal?

    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am sorry, but Bipolar Disorder & Borderline Personality Disorder immediate red flags of NOPE. I have enough trouble just dealing with my own, non-medication needing issues.

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    #18

    This Reaction To Not Giving Her Money For Nudes

    Text exchange highlighting a delusional reaction with a reality check response.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally unhinged.

    A dude who likes to drum
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Holy Sh*t, that is possibly the worst thing you could ever say to someone

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That would have me going round there and giving her a beating I’m female to but that is dispicable I’ve had people use the I’m gonna f u mother mine was killed when I was 8 mths old ! I’m now 60 n it really gets to me as for she sister s**t added to line crossed time for s**t to get real ! Painfully real for asswipes like her

    Joyce Berman
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe texting is a good thing because you can find out how self-absorbed and crazy some people are.

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seems like a pleasant person.

    #19

    The Whole 3 Hours We Were At The Restaurant, She Was Kinda Laying On Her Seat, Constantly Texting

    Chat conversation showing a person feeling underappreciated in a relationship exchange.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Leaving the date early if it isn't working out does not make you less of a man, it just means you probably have something better to do

    Melinda Flick
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And recognize warning signs of 'avoid at all costs'!

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Try your best this time", take your own advice lady.

    Jane No Dough
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Far too many people out there using apps to use people for free food and drinks. Don't offer to go to dinner, make any "date" dutch until you know it's a decent person!

    olaff 422
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, if I was texting a president, I might be a bit distracted as well.

    Binky Melnik
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I cannot fathom why he put up with this 🐂💩 for nearly THREE HOURS. Folks, if it’s not working out, if you have no interest in trying too see whether there could potentially be a future spark, cut bait after NO MORE than 45 minutes! The longer you wait, the more interest the other person will develop, and the more promise they see. DON’T ENCOURAGE THEM or GIVE THEM FALSE HOPE! Dating these days can potentially be dangerous, so keep yourself safe by not giving hope to people you’re not at least QUITE interested in! (And if you don’t receive interest back, again: CUT BAIT. All of this advice works in both directions.)

    Flavia Slag
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some day they get a rude awaking and find out that it's not all about "me."

    Jason
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she's actually into you the phone won't be picked up once

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Laying"??? For 2-3 hours?? Check please.

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    #20

    My Ex’s Character Is On Full Display After We Broke Up Almost 3 Months Ago

    Text message exchange showing a conversation where someone demands better boyfriend material.

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    Jayeff Vee
    Community Member
    12 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was I needed in this conversation?

    zims
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not even accusing him of talking smack, just assuming that everyone who hears they broke up will think it's her fault.

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's the reason? He should've been more boyfriend material?

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    #21

    Four-Is Years Ago I Was Seeing This Girl Who Decided To Go Hookup With Some Guy Cause I Left Her On Open Cause I Was Busy

    Text conversation showing relationship drama and conflict over perceived infidelity.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I don't wanna lose you, but could you please overlook the fact that I fücked another dude while you and I were in a relationship and put you at risk of catching STDs because I fücked a rando guy? thx"

    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay so I need to ask, because I am not quite sure, does the term "left me on open", mean that they did not immediately open and read their message?

    Crep 105
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I don't wanna lose you" Then don't bang some random guy while you're in a relationship?? It's really a simple solution! 🙄

    Greyling Streets
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What does that mean, “left me on open?”

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reading these, I wonder where these people are nowadays. Have they changed? Are they happily married? Stuck in their ways?

    #22

    I Went On 2 Dates With This Girl And The Chemistry Was Atrocious

    Text conversation showing relationship misunderstanding, highlighting "delulu women" needing a reality check.

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    Nikole
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tucker? If he means Alan Tudyk, fair.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm female, but if I were a guy, I'd totally be gay for Alan Tudyk. I loved him (instantly) after watching A Knight's Tale. I was even more in love with him as Steve the Pirate and don't even get me STARTED on Wash from Firefly. Whooooof. XD I even got the butterflies-in-the-stomach hearing him voice Sonny in I, Robot. He's super-attractive, but his VOICE too, GAH!

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    Melinda Flick
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This entire thread is letting me know how fast obsession can happen, and how little interaction it takes. JFC.

    #23

    Dealing With Old Ex

    Text conversation between individuals about needing a reality check in a relationship.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I took that as a challenge"? Ugh, no thanks to mindgames and people challenging or testing you like this.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not normally pedantic, especially on the internets, but I extra-cringed at her saying "when we was on the phone". >_<

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    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So she decided to "challenge" his declaration by pulling a "Hold my beer and watch this." stunt? Bye Felicia.

    Lady Miss Pie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “We was on the phone” …I weep for humanity

    zububonsai
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for the green one having moved on; The grey one really sounds unhinged (dramatizing/lying/...).

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Challenge Accepted. BOOM, I made love with ***"

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    #24

    Flirting Is Lovebombing?

    Text exchange showcasing delulu women needing a reality check, discussing snow and relationship boundaries.

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    Corwin 02
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One rather sickly sweet remark is a love bomb these days ?

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, it’s not. Not for normal people, anyway.

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    Crystalwitch60
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wtf was wrong with what he said 🤷‍♀️I’m 60 n I don’t see an issue with that it’s flirty n sweet nothing more 😂

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good on them for keeping the kindness up and not replying with insults.

    SCamp
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ‘Lovebomb’? 🤔 Is this a thing?

    Catlady6000
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. It's when someone is abusive. Then showers you with gifts, words, gestures in hopes you forget or minimize the abuse,

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    Ben
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can tell from her text messages she was hoping he would cancel the date. Her saying the lovebombing thing was a last ditch effort to get the date canceled. She could have just been honest.

    Crep 105
    Community Member
    12 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Flirting isn't lovebombing. This is why people don't take claims of abuse seriously anymore.

    Nikole
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    1 year ago

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    Honestly that would have made me cringe as well.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet, so many women/girls get p!ssed off that the guy doesn't say cute/sweet things to her. It's fine that it's not your thing - we all have different feels and opinions - but I have seen many, many fellow females get super angry that men don't flirt/say cute things like OP did.

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    #25

    My Buddy Dodged A Nuke

    Text conversation highlighting delulu women's exaggerated self-perception needing a reality check.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oooh, sounds like someone doesn't take rejection well.

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably better not to say anything back if you get rejected, if you can't say anything nice.

    Jason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's hilarious that rejected people always find the unchangeable imperfections of a person and just attack. I can't believe people are that shallow, just shows how much self respect they have

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not saying he DIDN'T lie about his height, because I don't know these people, but - a lot of females wear high heels/shoes with soles/heels that are like 3" thick. Unless she whipped out a tape measure and measured the dude's actual height during the date (and she was wearing flats/sneakers) then I don't trust her that she's being honest.

    DowntownStevieB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She shouldn't like about the energy she gives off...

    #26

    Found This Gem From 4 Years Ago. We Lived Together. I Went For A Haircut

    Text message from a frustrated person, expressing confusion and seeking answers.

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    CalamityOne
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did she have a stroke partway, or is this another "alcohol is a hell of a d**g" post?

    Richard Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "We've gone to acronyms, Captains! Raise shields!"

    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like the person had a stroke mid text

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL I actually tried to decipher until I realized they were just spamming letters

    Mr.Mister
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The hell is that? Some kind of code you need to decipher first?

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Angry random-letters screeching XD I admit I've done it a few times, but in jest or reaction to a text from a friend like "omg I adopted a new cat" and I'd reply "FSDFSDSDHSD SEND ME PICS AAAAAAH" - so, usually it's not an "angry" thing but an "I can't even form proper words because I am so excited/happy" thing. Obviously this lady was just super enraged and smashing the keyboard XD

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    #27

    Ex-Friend’s Last Rant And Hoover Attempt A Few Months Later It

    Text exchange showing a person expressing feelings of not receiving reciprocal energy in return for their kindness.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just over pouring with humility

    Nikole
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “The thing about me that’s so impressive is how infrequently I mention all of my successes…”

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    xcooba
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Repay my selfless gift NOW.

    royal crablets
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she were any further up her own butt she could see out her mouth.

    Lady Miss Pie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who talks about themselves like this?!

    Deborah
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are some serious mental health issues on display.

    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one was a TRIP, it went over a couple, perhaps 3 days.

    Maartje
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    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did my sister take lessons with this guy?

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    #28

    Idk If This Belongs Here But It’s Funny

    Text message conversation with someone requesting lash expenses, needing a reality check.

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    Lyoness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why does anyone feel entitled to someone else's money? I don't care how long you've been together, you're not entitled to having your personal grooming paid for.

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    #29

    One Of My Favourites From When I Was With My Ex

    Text message exchange illustrating overconfidence and unrealistic expectations.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From when you were with your ex? Nah bro it was from when your life was in danger

    Nichole Harris
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I'd be willing to bet she's already humping Jaimie

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this one of those "i can have male friends but i forbid you to have female friends" kinda situation? If so i wonder why she's an ex... 🙄

    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh I see she subscribes to the Russian Roulette style of dating.

    #30

    I Love Being Single

    Woman in gym clothes posing next to a dating profile, highlighting fitness interests.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel sorry for her guy

    Damned_Cat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope her boyfriend sees it and moves on because he doesn't want to hold up the line.

    Cpt. Christan "Panda Bombero"
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you, but no thank you I am on a strictly "No Telenovela Drama" in my life. And at least you realize that you are so toxic yourself, that you do not need any other toxic people around you, to create a Hazmat zone.

    #31

    Not Sure If This Counts…

    Chat exchange about expectations and dating dynamics, highlighting differing opinions on who should pay.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh the irony....

    Tiffany Munday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I bet you… it went right over her head!😂😂

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    Rosie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never understood why the man is expected to pay. I can pay for my own meal.

    Jason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet they fight for equality

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    #32

    One I Found Looking Through My Photos

    "Text exchange between two people with one person expressing frustration over delayed replies, highlighting expectations."

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    #33

    Laughed At Meme On Their Timeline

    Chat exchange with criticism and offensive language, featuring delulu attitudes.

    MesoIT Report

    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like it's a kid that wrote this

    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, was written by someone who's main language is not english.

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    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone needs a chill pill

    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This culture, where if you don't reply ASAP, it escalades very quickly.

    #34

    My Ex Wife Got Her Car Stolen, Still Titled In My Name, And Wanted Me To Pay To Get It Out Of Impound

    Text exchange between two people discussing car retrieval and payment responsibilities.

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    A girl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are so many of these like the pair are having completely different conversations?

    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who uses the car? Who pays for gas and maintenance? Tbf it sounds like he was using it and fûcked up by leaving the keys in the car wich ended with the car being stolen?

    Nikole
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the ex wife is the grey one. He needs to get that title changed or take the car back.

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    #35

    Is This What We Have Come To

    Chat exchange showing delusional expectations in a dating app conversation.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't this called being an escort?

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    #36

    Im Still Trying To Figure Out If I Did Something Wrong Here Of If She's A Nice Girl. Everyone I've Showed This Convo To, Say They Can't Figure Out What She Was Trying To Do. Any Advice If I Did Something Wrong Is Appreciated

    Text exchange highlighting delulu women needing a reality check, with messages about communication misunderstandings.

    Thicc_Gas_Dad Report

    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Context, Bored Panda? This is the last page of a four-screenshot conversation on Reddit ( click on the "Thicc_Gas_Dad link under the image).

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know that feeling very well unfortunately it’s called coercion basically lived it for to many years way to many

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    #37

    This Isn't Even The Beginning Just The End Of The Texts

    Repeated message saying "Block me" with a demanding final statement, highlighting delusion in expectations.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omfg, just block them already and be done with it.

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahh but the sender doesn't really want to be blocked. If I were the receiver, I would just be entertained by now lol. See how many times they'll say "block me". I'm being bad, I know..

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    katiekat0214
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, I've had idiots like this message me over and over and over. They want attention like a bratty toddler and it is a definite power game. Give them nothing. Yes, it is super annoying, and there will be an extinction burst, but they can be trained into complete silence. The most I've ever said is, not blocking you, you have the responsibility to be an adult and CHOOSE not to text me. I don't want to talk to you. Have some self-respect and just move on. Then go no contact forever. As I said, they can be trained into silence if you give them no attention at all.

    #38

    Why Is He Ignoring Me?!

    Cartoon character with big eyes and text about expecting messages, calls, and emails; highlights women needing a reality check.

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    Damned_Cat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never understood my friends that reject a guy and then complain for weeks that the guy was a jerk because they didn't respond or just said "Yeah, OK'. Girl, you dumped HIM, what more do you want?

    Rizzo
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    B!tch wants you to fight for her attention even after she dumped you. Classic!

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do we hmm dam it if I got that many the no would be blocked and deleted !

    Nikole
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah… The vast, vast, vast majority of women are not like this.

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    Zephyr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The male urge to do something else

    #39

    We Had Just Matched, No Conversation Yet. (Didn't Notice Fb Reset My Distance Preference)

    Text conversation about distance in dating, with messages discussing the challenges of meeting someone 110 miles away.

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    ghost gurl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i DoNt DrIvE nOr Do I hAvE a VeHiCle

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    #40

    Nice Girl's Double Standards At Its Best

    Social media post discussion with delulu women debating dating standards and parenting expectations.

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    Crystalwitch60
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Excuse me you don’t wanna be a step mum but expect him to take yours on GROW UP B***H from a mother and a stepmother ! Your deluded

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    #41

    Honestly Just Confused About This One

    Text conversation between two people discussing feelings and misunderstandings; keywords: delulu women.

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    Zephyr
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Toxic relationship be like that

    GlitterPanda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one really doesn't seem that bad

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    #43

    Should've Just Ghosted Her! Wild Date

    Text conversation with Kimberley on Tinder, discussing romantic connection and advice on dating challenges.

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    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had to read this again.

    DowntownStevieB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like most of these are woman who want to be right and can't stand that a guy won't feed into the drama. Just let it go!

    Jason
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love these messages lmao you can always see who's the hurt one and who's pride got checked, immediately defensive and attacking and angry. People like this make me laugh and I just gaslight for humor

    #44

    My Cousin Posted This After Cheating On Her Husband

    "Text reads 'Relationship Advice' with insights on handling disrespect and reactions, set against a nature backdrop."

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, the "you made me cheat" bûllshît.

    Jason
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dunno from all the posts on here the he's should be changed to "shes"

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    #45

    Apparently "Applying Pressure" Means Paying For Your Expenses

    A candid text post about dating frustrations and social media boundaries.

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    Crystalwitch60
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So basically skank all you want is a meal ticket guy ! Men steer well clear

    Drsmotch
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perhaps she should post a price list

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    #46

    This Lady Is 44

    Chat exchange with emotional reactions, reflecting unrealistic expectations and reality check need.

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    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of these I want to know why they don't want to see one another again.

    #47

    How Do People Seem So Normal At First And Then This?

    Text conversation about a playlist lacking diversity, leading to a heated argument and personal criticisms.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whatever happend to listening to the music you like despite who made it?

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There it is! I was waiting for "racist" to be said. Watch your playlists people, you could be racist and not know it!

    m6nbtfpx7q
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly couldn’t even tell you what the majority of singers I listen to look like. I could be standing next to most of my favorite artists and wouldn’t have a clue.

    Ace
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    TBF there is a lot of discussion within the field of "musicology" about about how music has been affected, indeed defined, by cultural, social and political systems and ideals, I've often wondered if the fact that I don't like 'black' music is somehow inherently racist - did I start disliking it back in the 1970s because I thought of it as black, or just because it didn't resonate with me, or maybe because it (the music I disliked) was so inherently American? And rap, hip-hop etc. is violent, American, gang related, but also black, so what is the real reason I hate it? I don't know all the answers, but it doesn't mean the questions are not valid.

    Richard Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That'll teach him not to run his playlist through DEI...

    #48

    An Oldie From The Drafts

    Text conversation highlighting a request for Instagram and a discussion about personal boundaries.

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    Ace
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh lordy. Out of interest, would the fact of having no IG, no FB, no Snapchat, no social media of any kind, automatically disqualify one from the modern dating pool?

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once was told to take a selfie while holding a fork in order to prove I am who I say I am. So yes!

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    #49

    Ex-GF Was A Serial Cheater. When I Found Out And Confronted Her; She Screamed Insults At Me, Broke Up With Me, And Kicked Me Out. This Is The Aftermath

    "Text conversation about taking a break; missed call notification from Telstra."

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    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guess someone wants to tell you to come back, but not tell you they want you to come back..

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    #50

    Do I Even Reply To This Or Try To Salvage This? Am I Crazy For Seeing Huge Red Flags In This Kind Of Behavior Already? We Haven’t Met Yet Btw

    Text exchange discussing communication dynamics and relationship expectations among delulu women.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Red flag, trust your instincts and move on.

    #51

    Ladies And Gentlemen, My Ex

    Text message exchange discussing resentment and personal issues, emphasizing reality check.

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    TheGoodBoi
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well what did they do?? Need more info to call the woman crazy!

    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too little context.

    #52

    It's Been 3 Months... Tf Just Happened?

    Text exchange between two delulu women discussing avoiding drama involving a boyfriend.

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    Skogsrået
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I don't want drama", sure keep telling yourself that and wonder why drama is always in your life.

    TheGoodBoi
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A great response to the first message is "Sounds good.", that is all. The hellfire message I got back from my ex was amazing yet puzzling. Apparently new bf and his entire family were going to beat me up...5 years later, still hasn't happened 🤔. Think I'm in the clear

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don’t want drama hmm don’t bloody start any then just saying 😂

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    #53

    Got This Beauty Yesterday

    Text message expressing dissatisfaction with communication.

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    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, Ryan. Your communication sucks! 😂😂😂😂

    Richard Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah Ryan, , stop being thoughtful you jerk!

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    #54

    The Woman Who’s Engaged To A Guy That Killed His Family Members Now Wants Another Guy That Doesn’t Want Her Back

    Image of a phone screen showing a social media post expressing frustration and entitlement, with bold text and emoji.

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    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guy seriously dodged a lunatic bullet there

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is...is she not worried her dangerous fiancé will find out?

    #55

    “Do You Believe In 50/50”

    Text conversation with questions about beliefs in 50-50 relationships and being a provider for a woman with a job.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm confused, does she want equality or a guy that will pay for anything she wants?

    Sarah Kathrin Matsoukis
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She wants equal rights but not equal responsibility and still be treated as a princess.

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    #56

    Shame On Me I Guess

    Text exchange showing a conversation about identity and relationship expectations.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is just shîtty, people are allowed to not be attracted to you cause you are transgender. Attacking their looks just cause they rejected you is petty and kinda pathetic tbh.

    ghost gurl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i dont think the reaction has anything to do with their gender identity. its peak "nice girl" behavior aka crazy girl behavior. That's all.

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    #57

    Follow Up To The Greasy Hair Post

    Apology text message from a woman explaining and apologizing for a previous message sent.

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    and_a_touch_of_the_’tism
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dog did actually once take a bite out of my physics review sheet lol. Only one question was damaged though, and the teacher thought it was hilarious.

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    Mobey Drunk
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What if that's the truth? I've dealt with people like that before. One time a friend of a friend looked at my list of phone numbers in my room (mid-90s cell phones weren't really a thing back then) and called one of my female friends and threatened her by saying she was my girlfriend. Funny thing is, she was stupid enough to say her real name. I had to get her number from my friend and told her to call her back and tell her she lied. I wouldn't question it one bit.

    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't even type, but please read both paragraphs. I want to know what was said lol

    Tempest
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like I need some more context here cause I feel like this apology sounds genuine. Checked the Reddit link but the original screenshot of what she said is missing but reading the comments under it suggests that she was extremely impolite. Also there is a chance the cousin story could be true. When I was younger my siblings and I used to take an older cousin’s phone and send random texts to her then-bf just to annoy her. No we never sent anything rude and the bf always knew it wasn’t my cousin texting. They’re happily married now. But if the original “greasy hair” text was on something the person’s cousin couldn’t have known about OP, it’s pretty futile to use the “someone else texted using my phone” excuse.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I so need to see that message “she’d send “ 😂

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    #58

    Still Has Me So Confused, Even Years Later

    Text conversation showing a misunderstanding and a need for a reality check between two people.

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    #59

    At Least She's Honest

    Delulu women meme featuring a humorous cartoon image with playful text about dating during the holiday season.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know how it is for other females, but physical appearance is the least important thing for me in a relationship, be it romantic or friendship.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same tbh beauty is only skin deep after all it’s what’s inside that counts isn’t it

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    katiekat0214
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Internalized misogyny is just so pathetic

    Richard Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For men it's mostly physical attributes. For women it's more money and security. But that's evolution not lack of morality.

    #60

    Instant Switch Up From A Normal Conversation

    Text conversation about emoji usage in punctuation, highlighting misunderstandings and reality check needs.

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    #61

    Mammas Don’t Let Your Babies Grow Up To Be Nice Girls

    Text conversation with delulu woman arranging kids’ dinner and cooking logistics.

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    #63

    Scrolling Through Top Matches, Realize She Hasn't Responded In 3 Months (Due To Fbd Glitching), Give Her Benefit Of The Doubt, But Then I Take Right Around 3 Hours And I'm The Bad Guy

    Text conversation showing a woman expressing frustration over delayed replies.

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    #64

    She Has Such Self Respect This One

    A series of text messages expressing anger and accusations in a confrontational tone.

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    Mr.Mister
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's a cheater who got cheated...and is now mad for being cheated on.....Ok thats .... wild....

    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, she's accusing him of cheating on her while she was with her boyfriend. Ok.

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    #65

    Had To Unmatch W This Nice Girl

    Chat conversation highlighting a misunderstanding needing a reality check.

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    #66

    I Was Unavailable For 20 Mins

    Text message exchange showing missed calls in focus mode and a conversation about responsibility.

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    #67

    This Situation Has Been Going On For About A Week And I Am Not One Of The People Involved

    Text exchange highlighting delulu women's confrontation and misunderstanding.

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    #68

    GF Talked S**t About Me And My Family And Expects Me To Take Her To Work And Is Threatening Me

    iPhone lock screen showing Instagram and game notifications, temperature 70°F, sunny at 14:35.

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    #69

    Repost Of Mine: A Friend Had Me Message His Friend, This Is The Result Of That

    Screenshot of a chat discussing women with large breasts, including a cartoon image and text exchange.

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    Skogsrået
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know, why did he text this woman he didn't even know if he's in a relationship already?

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    #70

    We Haven't Even Met Each Other And I Told Her I Didn't Think It Was A Match Last Thursday And We Agreed To End Things There Amicably. This Is What I've Received In The Last 24 Hours

    Text conversation showcasing delusional messages needing a reality check.

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    #71

    Can’t Just Reject Someone You Aren’t Attracted To..gotta Be An Insult

    A social media comment discussing men's preferences and self-perception regarding women's weight, with 2,574 likes.

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    #72

    Thoughts?

    Text message exchange about mutual blocking between two people.

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