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30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship She poisoned my cat Mr Noodle

RIP

Thanks everybody for the support, and if you're asking: yeah I got the police involved

GrumpaSpaceGoat , pxhere Report

Final score:

204points

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TheAquarius1978 2 years ago

Dude.... The police would come for sure but it wouldn't be to arrest her, it would be to arrest me, Touch my cats and i Will f*****g murder you

135points

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship The day my mom passed away (the coroner hadn't even come for her body yet) with zero consideration on how I felt and what I was going through my ex-fiancé thought it was great idea and a good time to tell me he has been cheating on me for the last 6 years, and how sorry he was for it.

He wasn't sorry he did it, but he sorry because the other woman had lied to him about who she really was and he wanted me to comfort him because he felt betrayed by her....

When I promptly broke up with him, he asked "wait is this really goodbye?" how could you do this to me now?

OpenRepair4390 , Shannon Report

Final score:

186points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

Oh my gosh! The audacity!

67points

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship I was at my best friend's wedding. When he saw his bride walking down the aisle, he had a grin so big it looked like it could have exploded right off of his face. He was so happy to be marrying this person. And when I thought about my, now-ex, gf I realized that I just didn't feel that way about her.

I will say, when I married my wife, I was grinning like an idiot.

kitskill , Elliot Harmon Report

Final score:

176points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

It’s not ‘grinning like an idiot’ it’s ‘grinning like a man in love’

60points

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When I was going through a miscarriage and he couldn’t take me to the ER because he was in fantasy leagues and football was on.

amadileirbeer , Dennis Jarvis Report

Final score:

168points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

Jerk. I’d like to personally punch him in the face!

82points

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship Married for 21 years. The last ten were devoid of any love, warmth, or caring. I (M53) did not want to get divorced and figured this was just the way the rest of my life would be.

We were taking our third shot at marriage counseling and after a few months, my wife says she has to quit counseling because she wants to attend a meditation class at the same time. She had something better to do than work on our marriage.

That's when it hit me that she didn't GAF at all about our marriage and I decided that I did not want that to be the rest of my life.

We're currently 2 1/2 years into divorce. It's painful and expensive. But personally I've never been happier. I am leading my best life. So so glad I decided to move on.

FroggyB , Amy Truter Report

Final score:

160points

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Weed in the Garden 2 years ago

Comgratulations on the next chapter. Hope it's a long book!

31points

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When after 7 years, a particularly cold conversation, and with tears in my eyes I said, "I just want you to love me" and she said

"Well I dont, and dont you feel pathetic for having to ask?"

Edit: This was 5 years ago now and I am doing so much better. The best love is self love.

FunMath2 , Cristian Ungureanu Report

Final score:

156points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

Jerk! B!tch! Lowlife scum of worms! She’s awful! I’m glad you’re in a better space now, she was awful.

52points

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship My ex & I were not living together, but he had the key to my place. I told him that I was gonna go see my parents for the weekend, but then changed my mind last minute because I started feeling sick. I forgot to tell him & just went home after work & went to bed. I woke up around 10pm to get a glass of water & while I was in the kitchen I heard someone fumbling at the door with the lock. I freaked out because I lived on the 17th floor, so if it was a break in, I was f****d. All of a sudden he walks in..... dragging a tipsy girl in behind him.

I just stood there while he tried to make up some sort of excuse as to WHY he was there. The girl was pretty shocked too.

UrszulaG , Brent Johnston Report

Final score:

146points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

Oh gosh!

26points

sexychocolatethunder , Susanne Nilsson Report

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When you dread her name coming up on caller ID because you knew it was an argument about nothing. Don’t settle for an angry life.

Final score:

132points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

She might be a narcissist. They’re the worst!

20points

#10

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship 3 weeks before we broke up she described the kind of guy she would date if we broke up. She described her coworker and I honestly thought they had hooked up by this point. To my delight, he was a good noodle and never wanted to be more than work friends with her. When he found out she left me to be with him he reached out and told me he was sorry for everything even though it wasn't his fault. I told him I'm not holding anything against him, but thanked him for being a good person

JuanTheNumber , PEO ACWA Report

Final score:

132points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

The coworker was a good guy!

70points

#11

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship She had picked on me for months. Constantly criticizing everything. I couldn't do anything right. I tried. I kissed her a*s and apologized for every single perceived wrongdoing.
After months one day I told her, calmly, you're mean to me.

She blew up. Veins came out and she did that weird growl/yelling thing and told me she'd cut my throat and burn down my house.

I left with my kids to my parents house. Came back the next day she was gone. Haven't seen her since. And strangely, my anxiety is all but gone

suburbanoutrage , laurawashere95 Report

Final score:

128points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

She was DEFINITELY a narcissist. Once they realize they don’t have a grip on you anymore, they rage and go bonkers.

53points

#12

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship The moment he "accidentally" sent me a text that was supposedly meant for someone else, making plans to hook up at his house. My only response to that was "OK, be safe".

I added quotes because I suspected that he did this on purpose to try and get me to break up with him, expecting some sort of angry response from me. He didn't get that, although I did get an earful from him a couple weeks down the line about how he "never found me attractive physically or romantically". To which I responded, "OK" and never talked to him again.

To this day, I will never understand why some people choose to play games rather than just be upfront. No matter, I'm now happily married to an amazing person!

CraigFL , Jason Weaver Report

Final score:

122points

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sreneeallan@yahoo.com 2 years ago

This is called avoidance - he doesn't want to be the one to end it and have to take the responsibility for the decision. Plus - you're no drama queen anyway, so - well played!

36points

#13

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship She told me that I had a choice. Either I completely cut ties with ALL of my family and ALL of my friends. Or I cut ties with her. That was when I decided that her psycho had crossed a line that I wouldn't break. Very glad I dodged a bullet, very sad I lost close to 4 years of my life before I realized she was psycho.

imunclebubba , Wyatt Fisher Report

Final score:

118points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

What a control freak she was.

23points

#14

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship You can see it in their eyes when they don't love you anymore.

I'll never forget that feeling.

escape_of_da_keets , Renam Lima Report

Final score:

105points

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Gabby Ghoul 2 years ago

I remember that feeling only it wasn't that she didn't love me, it's that in our case love just wasn't enough and we both knew it.

34points

#15

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When she came up on caller id and my first thought was "Ugh.".

LiterallyOuttoLunch , miniyo73 Report

Final score:

98points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

This also happens with narcissistic friends! I know cause whenever she would call/text me I’d also think ‘ugh’

16points

#16

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When she said “ you don’t look like you are going anywhere with your life “
I was 18 in the middle of college where the hell was I suppose to be at that point

Vamip89 , Wyatt Fisher Report

Final score:

97points

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Mindghost 2 years ago

Not by her side anymore, that's where you were supposed to be. And you did

28points

#17

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When I had fertility tests done after 2 years of trying to fall pregnant.

He left me the same day I found out I was infertile.

LuckyCaticorn , Daniel Lobo Report

Final score:

96points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

What a f*****g twatbasket. Your only worth was a breeder? He wasn't a man worth knowing.

93points

Kate 2 years ago

My grandfather left my grandmother when my mom was a few months old -- because she was the third daughter.

15points

NsG 2 years ago

Part of me is hoping that it was just unforunate timing and he was just a regular twatbasket instead. But most of me agreed with you.

6points

LJ Robinson 2 years ago

Some people have certain things they want in their lives. Perhaps it was better that they split right away. He wanted/needed something to complete his life, and she was unable to give him that. It was a shitty thing for him to do, but bless her heart, I'm pretty sure she's better off without him.

1point

BENOFTHEWEEK 2 years ago

why are people so flipping mean???

5points

Allen Packard 2 years ago

I'm so sorry.

5points

Vanja Vidovic 2 years ago

Girl, you were actually really lucky!

4points

Barbara Skolly 2 years ago

My coworker did this to his wife. He was cheating and looking for a way out so when he found out she was infertile he used that as his excuse. I have no time for that oxygen thief.

3points

debrina blackmoon 2 years ago

Ha-"oxygen thief"! Yes, a total waste of atoms assholecurse.

2points

Lkmarr 2 years ago

The opposite happened with me. I could have kids and my husband couldn’t have cared less. I finally told him IVF or the marriage. We have 2 kids who I wouldn’t trade for anything but sure wish I had walked away back then.

3points

Lkmarr 2 years ago

**Should say couldn’t

1point

Phoebe Bean 2 years ago

Sad when a woman is just wanted as a breeder.

3points

Lenka Smetanová 2 years ago

in this case, yes. This is definitely wrong... but... I can understand it as, ots one of the things that can be important to that person. And even if not that moment, lately it could destroy the relationship fully. Its understandable that some things can deconstruct the whole relationship. And its better to end it sooner, and for example just stay distant friends or something, than destroy the whole relationship fully. Of course, not in this particular example- here the man is an ***hole. But wanting biological kids can be a problem in relationship later on. And its actually quite important to think it through about it, when you find out about infertility. Many people think, they can overcome it, even adopt a child and then find out, they just want their own child.

-1point

sreneeallan@yahoo.com 2 years ago

Doesn't sound like parent material anyway. You have options, he's just a loser.

2points

Melanie 2 years ago

This is awful

1point

Jessany Trotter 2 years ago

You’re a hell of a lot more than it’s an incubator. It isn’t your fault you’re infertile. Hugs

0points

Shelby Minchew 2 years ago

How heart-wrenching. I really don't know to do thumbs-up or thumbs-down on these!! Thumbs up because some are so sad and painful and my heart to those people for sharing and thumbs-down b/c some people are just such assholes!!!

0points

#18

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship I was going through a cancer scare. She didn’t come with me to any appointments because she didn’t want to miss class. She was my best friend and the only person in the city who I told about what was happening. She, however, told several of her friends and classmates and let the news spread through our program (I think she liked the second-hand sympathy). She minimized everything, told me I was overreacting when I went to her for support, and told me I’d feel better if I just stopped touching the mass. When it came time to decide what to do when our lease ended, I chose to move home to be with my family. We broke it off, she moved out, and two days later I was diagnosed with cancer.

I know it sounds bad, but I’m better for having gone through it. I’ll always hold that cancer was one of the best things to happen to me.

jakelth , GastroyPolitica By FB Report

Final score:

96points

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liyanee 2 years ago

I hope you make a full recovery and find a woman, who will treat you right and support you with all of her heart.

42points

Kenrenkins , Michelangelo Carrieri Report

#19

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When he proposed to me in front of a crowd of over 3,000 people, at a job we BOTH worked at, just two weeks after we had gotten into one of the worst fights we had ever had. What was the topic of the fight? He had joked about proposing and I told him I didn’t feel ready to be married.

The relationship lasted for about 6 months after that, but the ring never felt like anything more than a shackle.

Final score:

93points

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Weed in the Garden 2 years ago

He cornered you like an animal and didn't think you had the courage to get out.

46points

#20

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship Found nude pictures of her and some other dude on the family camera and they were taken on our couch in our living room in our house.

ChyCheck , Roban Kramer Report

Final score:

91points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

Oh gosh she’s awful

26points

#21

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship He had a can of drink, asked if anyone wanted any (we were in a group)..I said yes please so he poured it in the bin.

Sounds minor, but this was the last thing after alot of s**t.

Limp2myLoom , Nenad Stojkovic Report

Final score:

90points

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Deborah B 2 years ago

That level of disrespect and contempt? There's no relationship left to work on.

58points

#22

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship I would always be the one to initiate talking and taking part in activities together. I realized I was the only one putting effort in.

ilovemydogpeanut , amir appel Report

Final score:

88points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

Ughh this is me in like every relationship even friendships. I’m so done initiating

32points

#23

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When I realized I dreaded Fridays, our standard date night, and saw it as something I needed to get past before I could start enjoying the weekend.

Always_Trying01 , Kate Ter Haar Report

Final score:

87points

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sreneeallan@yahoo.com 2 years ago

LIfe's too short to waste a day - end it now and say what you need to say.

14points

N_Who , My United States of Whatever Report

#24

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship We used to get in some real bad arguments. These arguments would often end in her hitting me. Once in a while, she'd really go to town on me. I can take a hit, but she could throw a punch. Girl had a hell of right hook. Years of that, off and on.

Anyway, one evening, one such argument turns into her just wailing on me. And I finally snapped. I pushed her up against the wall and was ready to hit her back. Just for a moment.

I didn't. I walked away. The fight didn't end there, and the relationship didn't end that night. But I walked away for good not long after.

Final score:

87points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

Good for you for stopping yourself, and good for you for getting out of an abusive relationship.

65points

#25

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When her Dad, who i had just met, told her to stop being a b***h or she would lose me. (looking back at it, she was being a total b***h, but it was her dad saying it that opened my eyes.) We broke up after her parents left.

Trogdoryn , Quinn Dombrowski Report

Final score:

84points

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Mark Kelly 2 years ago

Well obviously the dad lived with her so he would know the best

20points

everybody-meow-now , Gareth Williams Report

#26

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship I got into a car accident and called him and he didn't care

Jello_Such , Morgan Report

Final score:

83points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

Jerk. I’m glad you got out!

22points

#27

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship He stopped talking to me 3 days into a 3 week holiday, I made the best of it, once home the silent treatment continued for another 3 weeks. He rolls over in bed one morning and starts talking like nothing happened. I should have ended it long before, but THAT was the moment I knew it was over.

Final score:

79points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

Why the silent treatment? Was it because you had done something "wrong"? It is not helpful, just childish.

39points

Ok-Juggernaut-5920 , Presidio of Monterey Report

#28

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship I hadn't slept in our bed for 18 months and asked "Don't you even miss me in here?"

"No"

Edit: I offered to sleep in the guest room due to my snoring (weight gain, stress of working several jobs, and general stress of life/marriage). We never slept in the same bed again.

I now know after therapy I was immensely depressed and am much better at taking care of myself both physically and mentally.

While the marriage didn't recover, we have 2 amazing kids and my headspace is much more free.

Final score:

73points

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LoudMansLover 2 years ago

This is sad, but a side note: some couples prefer sleeping alone. My husband snores terribly and has restless leg syndrome. I take forever to fall asleep & am an insomniac. We have seperate rooms & have been happily married going on 17 years now :)

83points

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#29

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When we were arguing for the umpteenth time and I lost the will to continue. I usually begged her to stay but I just told her to go

PM_ME_SOME_LUV , Don DeBold Report

Final score:

72points

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Anton 2 years ago

I'm there now...

21points

#30

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When I saw how she completely changed when her boss was around. She became much more pleasant, flirty, and amenable. That's when I realized the only reason she was dating me was in hopes it would make her boss jealous enough to leave his wife for her.

anon , Bart Everson Report

Final score:

71points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

B!tch! That’s awful!

24points

#31

When she repeatedly slammed her head through the wall claiming a demon was telling her to do it, and then threatened to call the cops and say I beat her up.

CottaBird Report

Final score:

27points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

This person had issues that's for sure. Was she suffering a mental illness? Does not excuse the threat though.

19points

#32

I was engaged to my girlfriend of 5.5 years (3.5 dating 2 engaged) I noticed that out of nowhere she started acting very suspicious and more cautious of her phone around me and not wanting me to be around her when she was playing games with people on discord which I didn't really care about. I knew something was up when I would tell her I loved her and to have a good day when she would leave for work and she would just kinda smile and nod. One day I was cleaning up around the house and noticed that she had left her computer open and saw some messages between her and a guy she plays games with talking about some things that I would rather not repeat. When I confronted her about it, I was gaslit and made out to be crazy. I knew then it was the beginning of the end. A year and a half later I finally had enough evidence and she admitted to cheating on me for a year and a half. 6 months before our wedding. I'm still not over it after a year and a half later and I genuinely don't think I'll be able to trust the same again.

block_hopper24 Report

Final score:

27points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

I’m so sorry that’s awful

8points

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#33

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When she choose the night before my finals (exactly 2am - finals were at 8am) to confess to cheating basically. Ruined my final exams that sem.

Ragefakar , Denise Krebs Report

Final score:

26points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

That Lowlife probably did that on purpose. I hope it didn’t set you back!

8points

Unemployed_Fisherman , Ivan Radic Report

#34

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship Hanging out with them feels often like a chore than something you’re excited about

Walking on eggshells to avoid them getting mad

They don’t match your efforts like they used to

Noticing they don’t listen when you’re talking

They don’t feel like ‘home’ anymore

They download Tinder and see people

They cheat on you

Final score:

25points

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Polly Hart 2 years ago

I can relate to them not feeling like home. Like, I'd dread coming home to my ex after a day of work because I couldn't relax in the house.

5points

EchidnaOptimal3504 , Kevin Dooley Report

#35

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship We had been long distance for a couple of months and I actually felt relieved to be hundreds of miles away from him. He never called me or texted, it was always me who reached out. I got tired of it and started calling less and less. One day, after we hadn't spoken for a few weeks, i called him and he answered and sounded surprised to hear from me. Conversation went:
Me - "hey, it's me"
Him - "Oh...hi? ...why are you calling me?"
Me - "no reason. Just to say hi"
Him - "Oh, okay, well I was actually just doing something. Can I call you another day?"

And, after years of awful screaming arguments and stupid games, that's when I knew the relationship was dead.

Final score:

25points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

It’s when you’re happy to be away from them you know it’s over.

10points

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#36

We'd had our ups and downs for the better part of 8 months, one day we met for lunch and she sat down and started talking. All of a sudden it was like I woke up from a dream and realized I wasn't attracted to or interested in them at all.

There had been much worse moments so it was surprising it happened during everyday conversation.

mattkazz Report

Final score:

24points

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Sweetpotato314 2 years ago

This happened with my ex and me. She was hanging out at my place one night and asked if I wanted to go in the bedroom together. I even surprised myself when I said, "No. I don't." In that moment I realized I was no longer attracted to her, and I had been deeply unhappy throughout our relationship. She was so horrible to me in private and so amazing to everyone else in public. I thought I was going crazy. The day I ended it, I felt like a weight had been lifted.

5points

#37

when he went from spending so much time with me and giving me updates about his day without me having to ask him, to going MIA for days on end to the point where i had to beg for him to spend some time together.

found out from a mutual friend that he had started seeing someone on the side two weeks before we called it off.

notyobrownfren Report

Final score:

23points

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tara 2 years ago

He's a jerk.

3points

#38

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When even just asking to hang out, felt like a chore. It just wasn’t worth it anymore more.

Loves_me_tacos125 , Vincent Diamante Report

Final score:

21points

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Marcia Ferris 2 years ago

First line of lyrics for a new song!

5points

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#39

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship Everything starts an argument.

TheHentaiiChrist , Wilson Lau Report

Final score:

19points

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Emerald Ocean 2 years ago

Narcissist alert!

-2points

ricardobmf23 , Andreas Kontokanis Report

#40

We took a break and I realized I was so much happier just doing my own thing.

We were 23, had been dating for 6 years. She had graduated college and I was finishing up.

Deadlifts_n_Riffs Report

Final score:

19points

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#41

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship I worked the front desk in college, and would take my laptop down to play video games ( chill job). She wanted to argue and came down at about 11pm and gets mad and closes my laptop. She said she was done. I go out to get flowers after my shift, this is midnight, and go to her dorm room to give them to her. Another guy was already there in boxers…I’m almost sure the relationship had been over for a while, I just found out late…

Final score:

18points

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tara 2 years ago

That's terrible :(

2points

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#42

After I separated from my first wife, I was dating a girl who was also separated and goung through her divorce. Tried to keep each other out things. my ex wife was being ridiculous, using the children as leverage, trying to extort money etc it put me into a real bad slump/depression. Then I saw the girl I was dating, knowing how badly it was hurting me literally do the exact same thing to her ex.

anon Report

Final score:

18points

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censorshipsucks 2 years ago

just leave them alone and get used to being comfortable with being by yourself. your worth is NOT measured by having a partner.

5points

#43

When we bought a house together and I proposed that same dat we closed. The next day she did a 180 and was completely different person. Stuck it out for almost 3 yrs but I had enough of the horrible treatment. Tried to tell her that Im her partner and not another child in the house. Never got through to her.

hcmofo13 Report

Final score:

17points

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#44

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When she started being cold to me, and being unsure about our relationship. Then she started talking about this "guy" from her class. You know the rest.

charset00 , nedradio Report

Final score:

16points

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#45

Every time I did something wrong she could never tell me, it was always her friend that would text me/pull me aside to tell me. I had to grow and learn to be better so I cut it off

mr_2_cents Report

Final score:

16points

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#46

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship When I found out she was sending nudes to people on discord. Had a gut feeling it would go past just pictures and I was right.

BeatnikFink , Gage Skidmore Report

Final score:

15points

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Pillowarmidiloroku 2 years ago

Bro discord kitten extreme

4points

#47

30 Exact Moments That Made Folks In This Online Group End Their Relationship Life was stagnant.

We mutually called it quits after we had a talk, and it went better for both of us. We gave it the good ol' college try but we still grew apart.

Good times

pineappledaddy , Tony Alter Report

Final score:

13points

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#48

When she wanted to meet at a coffee shop. Never seen her drink coffee once.

Terdmuffin Report

Final score:

8points

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Cerridwen 2 years ago

2points

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

They said that pineapple does not belong on pizzas. I quickly showed them the door.

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FABULOUS1 2 years ago

You dodged a bullet.

8points

Cyndielouwhoo 2 years ago

Is it just me or are some of the accompanying pics kinda odd...

11points

Mimi M 2 years ago

Welcome to BP, the land of the random image.

8points

Whitefox 2 years ago

Things had been bad for years. I was super depressed, to the point that I often prayed to just not wake up anymore. He was an emotionally, fiscally and physically abusive serial cheater. I'd been talking to a catholic priest about my relationship expecting him to push for reconciliation, but even he said I needed to get out! Then a few weeks later, the sound of my car being pulled out of its parking spot in order to be repoed for the second time in 3 months just snapped everything into focus. I walked into the living room and told him the rent was paid for 3 more weeks, I'd be moved out by the weekend, what he did after that was not my concern. I'b been working crazy hours to try and keep us afloat because he quit his job and was not trying to find another while he was drinking and had gotten hooked on pain killers..I was just done. 12 years later and I am married to my best friend.

10points

Karmen vrt 2 years ago

I'm happy for you!!!

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Moezzzz 2 years ago

Mine was when I was in ICU with double pneumonia. I had two tubes in my chest to drain the fluid and had a very high fever. I didn't really come around until 4 days in, and that's when I found out he had been talking to someone else and he never came to see me. He did, however, call me to scream at me because someone at the hospital told him I'd had 2 blood transfusions and he demanded to know "what I had" because obviously I had to have my blood cleaned, so I better tell him. Yeah. Nevermind I almost died. He made my life a living hell but I had the last laugh. He'd been a fire captain but was a horrible drunk. He was fired from the dept for drinking on the job, then lost his side business and eventually married AND divorced within the next 5 years. Karma does not play

4points

Deborah B 2 years ago

My therapist asked me if I wanted to be in my relationship, or if I just wanted to be able to say that I was in a relationship. It was a gut check moment for me. This was several years ago, and I'm out as Ace and Aro, and much happier in myself. Being in a relationship that doesn't fit is like wearing shoes a size too small.

4points

censorshipsucks 2 years ago

That's a great phrase.

1point

InvincibleRodent 2 years ago

For me, it was realizing one day that either I break up with this person, or stay with them for the rest of our lives, and I just could not imagine the latter in any sort of pleasant way. Best I could imagine was a sort of... resigned acceptance, and that's not something I want from my life, nor do I want to waste either of our time trying to continue.

4points

Kat 2 years ago

Somehow it hits hard. I feel like that sometimes when we fight over stupid stuff and he gets so petty and does small petty things just to p**s me off... Currently I'm not sure if it's something I want to put up with for the rest of my life. It isn't a big deal, but...

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Seedy Vine 2 years ago

I played him some blues music. He made a racist remark. I was outta there.

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Sergio Bicerra 2 years ago

Never stay for the kids; never think that your partner is the best you can do; never say isnbetter thhan being lonely; never say 'it's just how he/she is'; never think you've invested too much time to loose it all; and if you have to leave but aren't in the best place: open new bank account, sace, get all your important documents, confide in some for a safe place until you arenback in your feet, LAWYER UP, screenshot everything, once again lawyer up and save as much as you can.

3points

Demongrrrrl 2 years ago

He wanted me to give him sex whenever he wanted it, even if I didn't. I had a horrible kidney infection and he asked my doctor if he could catch it during sex. He wanted sex even when I was in agony. He told me that no one else would put up with my mental health issues so I *owed* him. I spent a month in a psychiatric hospital because every time he f****d me, I would be contemplating the best way to kill myself. I left him 16 years ago and have no regrets.

2points

Patti Vance 2 years ago

married for 32 yrs. over the last 5 i discovered just how deceitful he was and how far he was willing to go to be an a*****e. i was diagnosed with a degenerative disease but i wasn't an invalid. there were other issues that has been building up as well. he had a home office downstairs but apparently one night he was too lazy to go down to his computer and used my laptop...but didn't close it out. woke up to find an ad of sorts (way before tinder and those kind of apps, btw) in which he proclaimed that he really did love his wife but because of her disability wanted/needed a friends with benefit relationship. i figured if he was basically looking for a pity f*ck then he really had become someone i didn't know any longer. confronted him with it and, not surprisingly, he was at a loss for words. told him that he really needed to do some soul searching if he felt the only way he could garner attention was to try to play on some woman's sympathies. but, there is alway karma.

2points

Uber Mensch 2 years ago

Almost 4 years in, she tells me one day that she didn't love me and never had; she'd married me because she thought she was getting too old to NOT be married.

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censorshipsucks 2 years ago (edited)

All of these sound so standard I wonder why we have not found some cure for this, other than couples' counselling, which doesn't work and is just the precursor to separation. I mean I could just put my name next to any of them.

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ZenChickChristine 2 years ago

First strike was him coming on to a mutual friend (and then gaslighting me about it). Strike two was an actual affair. Still naively tried to make it work. Third strike and ultimate nail in the coffin was when he got jealous of the amount of time I spent helping my parents while my dad was dying from ALS. Stayed in that loveless shell of a marriage for another two years because I was just too broken to see any other way. Thankfully I finally got strong enough to walk, and today I am married to a loving and truly supportive partner.

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JayWantsACat 2 years ago

My ex didn't live in my city so would stay over from Friday through Sunday. I'm an only child and live alone. I started to resent her coming over because it meant I could never go out with my friends (she knew them but would always claim she had a headache every time we were on our way to meet them) like I used to nor catch up with my friend who live out of state online. We also worked together and always had lunch so I felt like not coming over every weekend wasnt a big deal. We spent every day together. In her defense, I dont like talking on the phone nor am I really a texter so when she wasnt or wat work I wasnt the most conversational person.

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Exotic Butters 2 years ago

Ya know, neither my hubs or I ditched. I don't think we're the perfect couple but t he is good to me and I am good to him. He has cancer now, kidney with metastasis to his lungs. Don't know what I'll do without this good man.

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Isa 2 years ago

I'm single for about 14 years and every time that I think that I would like to have someone to be with, I see this kind of posts and experiences, and that makes me realize that I'm pretty well as a single person. This experiences and the dating apps experiences..dear lord, I prefer to be alone than to handle the BS and heartbreaking of a relationship.

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kat lia 2 years ago

i think people are afraid to leave is because they are afraid of being alone. which is i never understand.

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Joshua Moore 2 years ago

I believe I've posted something similar to this before, but here goes. I've been divorced now for more than 6 years and I have 2 wonderful teenagers from my 11 marriage. I'm glad I got out when I did. We did counseling for a number of years, but I lost my faith in us whenever she brought up something in our counseling of more than 2 years, that she brought up during our very first session. I knew at that point in time, it was over, because she couldn't ever let anything go and we were just wasting money, time & energy at this point in time and we were doing nothing but fighting all the time. We both grew up in households where our parents didn't respect each other and we promised each other, we would never do that to our children. I waited for the school year to end for our children, I moved out and we were divorced roughly 6 months later. We have a very good co-parenting relationship and I'd dare say, even friendship as well. Don't stay in a bad relationship for any reason. Get o

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Nathaniel 2 years ago

They said that pineapple does not belong on pizzas. I quickly showed them the door.

18points

FABULOUS1 2 years ago

You dodged a bullet.

8points

Cyndielouwhoo 2 years ago

Is it just me or are some of the accompanying pics kinda odd...

11points

Mimi M 2 years ago

Welcome to BP, the land of the random image.

8points

Whitefox 2 years ago

10points

Karmen vrt 2 years ago

I'm happy for you!!!

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Moezzzz 2 years ago

4points

Deborah B 2 years ago

4points

censorshipsucks 2 years ago

That's a great phrase.

1point

InvincibleRodent 2 years ago

4points

Kat 2 years ago

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