1. Girls are much nicer than what I thought.
I was in it because of my insecurities. I accept that I am insecure, even though I am doing reasonably well financially, I am very fit., etc. I routinely ask my girlfriend, "why would you want to be with me? I have an uncertain future, I am not so rich, etc." She has always replied with "you work hard, you love me and are kind, you are cute and take care of your self, that is all that matters.” That helped me snap out of the toxic masculine thinking of girls only date because of money, height, etc.


2. It is okay to make mistakes and learn from them

MAking mistakes does not make you weak. Makes you human. Learn, reflect, move on.