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Confidence is a fragile thing... It can take years to build yet mere seconds to completely obliterate. Sometimes, it's a major social or work failure that destroys your confidence. But other times, it's a single sentence, delivered with the weight of a wrecking ball wearing a dash of red lipstick. Especially if your ego was stitched together by vibes, delusion and one solid compliment you received back in 2013.

Someone recently asked women, "What’s the one thing you did that DESTROYED a man’s confidence?" And "savage" doesn't even begin to describe some of the responses. From plain and deliberately cruel to accidental psychological warfare, these girls have tongues that could cut through cold steel. It's possible they didn't just hurt feelings but triggered full personality reboots, and left men staring at a blank wall for 30 minutes while their souls tried to buffer.

Buckle up, take a deep breath and prepare for a bumpy ride of emotional damage. Bored Panda has put together a list of the most brutal answers for you to scroll through while you hug your own fragile ego. Whether these guys deserved it or not, we may never know. But if not, we hope the girls go to the naughty corner to think long and hard about what they've done.

We also unpack the results of a few surveys that revealed surprising rates of overconfidence in some men. Hint: 13% of those polled believed they could land a plane without any prior experience. Yes, really, Susan! You'll find all that info between the images.

#1

Muscular man with arms crossed, standing confidently in low light, representing female roasts hitting men hard. Asking if it's a furry thing when he says he's an alpha male.

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Pandora
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6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you have to tell people you're an alpha male, you're not an alpha male.

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Are men becoming too confident for their own good? Some people seem to think so, thanks to the results of a 2024 Continental Tyres survey that revealed "alarming" levels of overconfidence in Australian men.

To put it into perspective, 13% of the guys polled believed they could land an airplane with no previous experience. Yes, really... And the same percentage said they could take on an elite athlete in their professional sport and come out with a pretty good chance of defeating them.

77% of men surveyed think they are better drivers than women. No surprises there... But here's a kicker: 27% of guys genuinely believe they could fight a horse and come out the champion. 5% said they'd win against a crocodile, while 4% were confident enough to take on a gorilla.

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    #2

    Young woman looking upset and thoughtful on bed while man sits in background, illustrating female roasts hitting men hard. He said "you act like a man" I said " then watch and learn maybe you'll become one too."

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
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    6 days ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My favourite line in Aliens: "Vasquez, have you ever been mistaken for a man?"asked by a male soldier. Reply:" No. Have you?" instant burn!

    Crystalwitch60
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😂😂😂😂😂 I’m so stealing this one 😂

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    Cute, in this case she needs another woman LOL

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    Of the 3,005 males surveyed, 77% said they were above-average drivers, with only 22% claiming to be average, and just 1% admitting they were bad drivers. But wait, there's more... 44% of those polled suggested that they could drive a semi-trailer truck if necessary.

    Speaking to Australia's Channel 9, advertising executive Dee Madigan called the Continental Tyres Australia report "the least surprising survey result" she's ever seen.

    #3

    A woman and a man sitting in a theater holding popcorn, representing female roasts hitting men hard in conversation. When he told me “you have no taste“ and I said “that explains how I ended up with you.“

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    “Men can score higher in the illusion of control bias, which is when we overestimate our ability to control outcomes that are largely determined by external factors or chance,” said Blokes Psychology men’s psychologist Craig Hyde-Smith.

    “Research has also shown that testosterone can be linked to increased risk-taking behavior," he added. "Finally, social norms and expectations can increase pressure on men to appear confident and competent, and this can translate into overconfidence.”

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    #4

    Young woman talking on phone with a surprised expression, capturing female roasts that hit men hard in conversations. When I got cheated on I said "when you admitted to sleeping with someone else- I was genuinely surprised it was a woman" he did not appreciate that.

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    #5

    Woman and man outdoors laughing together during a casual moment, illustrating female roasts hitting men hard. He told me my breasts were too small one time, I said I know right! They're smaller than yours.

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    A separate 2025 YouGov survey found that men are more likely to say they're above average in dozens of areas, compared to women. The company focused on 60 areas when conducting the poll... It included things like time management, athletic ability, nurturing, tidiness, cooking, courage and more.

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    "Men are more likely than women to say they are above average in most of the 60 areas, but the differences generally are small," notes the YouGov site. "On average, 2 percentage points more men than women rate themselves as above average."

    #6

    A woman giving a serious look while a man lies beside her, reflecting on female roasts hitting men hard. For someone who sleeps around a lot, I thought you'd be better in bed.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, it's just that he can't keep a partner because he's shît in bed....

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    The YouGov poll revealed that among the biggest differences between men and women were that 36% of men say their mechanical ability is far above average or somewhat above average, while only 17% of women said the same. 30% of men believe their athletic ability is above average and only 14% of women ticked this box.

    Men also appeared more confident when it came to mathematical abilities (40% vs. 25%), self-discipline (52% vs. 37%), and intelligence (63% vs. 49%).

    #7

    Man in striped shirt looking stressed while holding a tablet, reflecting on female roasts hitting men hard. A dude sent a [revealing pic], I asked "is it supposed to look like that?" He deleted it immediately.

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    Zig Zag Wanderer
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better to accuse him of sending a pic of a boy, and you'll report him for child pōrn....

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    #8

    Someone Asked Women How They’ve Destroyed A Man’s Confidence, And 41 Savage Ladies Didn’t Hold Back Him: "You'd look prettier if you smiled" Me"You first" (He smiles) Me: "Good boy" (walks away without smiling).

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    A 3rd survey conducted in Britain recently yielded similar results... The research from Ipsos revealed distinct gender differences in self-perceived abilities, with men coming out more confident than their female counterparts across various tasks.

    All respondents were given a series of potential scenarios and were asked whether they could or could not perform certain tasks. Get this: More than a third of men believe that they could land a passenger plane if guided by air traffic control in an emergency, compared to 24% of women.

    #9

    A woman delivering a sharp female roast to a man outdoors in a casual conversation on a sunny day. I can explain it to you. I can't understand it for you.

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    M O'Connell
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a plaque that hangs on the wall of my office.

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    Half of the men polled believe that they could score a goal against a Premier League goalkeeper, compared to 10% of women. 37% of men said they could referee a Premier League football game, but only 10% of women said the same.

    The survey also found that 16% of men believe that they could complete a marathon without training, compared to 9% of women. 22% of men were confident they could compete in a Formula 1 Grand Prix without crashing, and 36% said they could get elected as an MP in their local area.

    #10

    A stressed man in a blue suit sits on steps while a woman talks to him, illustrating female roasts hitting men hard. Awww, you're doing your best and that's really embarrassing.

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    #11

    Angry bearded man showing intense emotions in a dark setting, reflecting the impact of female roasts on men. Were you this angry before you started losing your hair?

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    #12

    Woman smiling and using phone in bed, representing female roasts hitting men with witty messages. You talkin a lot for an unsaved number ...

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    Lila Whatsoever
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Arcady Royzen getting mighty upset at every post. Must have had his confidence destroyed by a woman at some point, too.

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    26% of the guys considered themselves good enough to land a leading role in a Hollywood film, compared to 18% of women. And 24% of men firmly believed that they could record a number-one hit song, compared to 14% of women.

    A total of 1,028 adults aged 18-75 from across Great Britain took part in the online survey, which was conducted from November 13 to 14, 2025.

    #13

    Young woman with long hair sitting on bleachers, looking thoughtful and confident, embodying female roasts impact. I'm not interested in being disrespected by someone that I already lowered my standards for.

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    Arcady Royzen
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    your standards only exist in a fantasy land

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    #14

    Woman delivering a sharp female roast to a man in a car, capturing intense emotions and strong reactions. When asked, "what that mouth do?" I said, "hurt your feelings."

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    "What stands out in our latest research is that men consistently exhibit higher confidence in their capabilities, which raises questions about the underlying factors contributing to this disparity. Are societal norms and traditional gender roles continuing to influence self-perception?" pondered Peter Cooper, Research Director at Ipsos in the UK.

    "It's intriguing to note how even in tasks traditionally perceived as gender-neutral, these differences persist," he added.

    #15

    A focused woman and a thoughtful man standing apart, representing female roasts that impact men deeply. You have really big feelings! Let's use our inside voice.

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    Dolevaal
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    1 day ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Arcady Royzen, noone wants to hear you hating against women. Suck it up.

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    #16

    Someone Asked Women How They’ve Destroyed A Man’s Confidence, And 41 Savage Ladies Didn’t Hold Back "If you have to keep telling yourself you're a good man, you're probably not a good man."

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    Arcady Royzen
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    that makes both of you - are you a good woman? LOL

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    Men's overconfidence is a global phenomenon, it would seem... A few years ago, a researcher called Kayla Jordan at the University of Waikato in New Zealand asked men whether they could land a plane in an emergency without crashing it.

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    "Again, the levels of over-confidence were striking," reported the BBC. "Half of the people she asked thought they had a one-in-five-chance of landing the plane successfully. And when those questioned were shown a three-minute video of a trained pilot landing a plane, they became even more confident, rating their chances at 30%. A quarter of respondents went even further saying they put their chances at 60%."

    #17

    Young confident female roasting men with a smart expression while standing outdoors in a modern urban setting "go find another woman to disappoint."

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    #19

    Young man in a plaid shirt reacting with surprise, illustrating impact of female roasts on men. If you're gonna scream in my face at least brush your teeth first.

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    #20

    Woman with short hair eating grapes and roasting a man in casual conversation at a modern kitchen table. You're here because I want you here, not because I need you here. You need me way more than I need you.

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    Arcady Royzen
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    alone, complaining on SM why no one wants you. That's why :)

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    #21

    Someone Asked Women How They’ve Destroyed A Man’s Confidence, And 41 Savage Ladies Didn’t Hold Back Him: "Will you fix your problem"
    Me: "absolutely" *blocked him.

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    Arcady Royzen
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    goes both ways. you just don't know how to take rejection. we do LOL

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    #23

    Man in a blue shirt looking thoughtful and reflective, possibly affected by female roasts hitting him hard. Your chin is not strong enough to speak to me in that tone

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    Daisydaisy
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have to say, I don't like any of these. Stand up to rudeness and aggression, sure. But trying to put down men because they're short or going bald, or accusing them of being unattractive in some way ... I don't like body shaming when it's done to women or to men

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    #24

    Woman in a casual grey shirt sitting on a couch, smiling subtly while reading female roasts on her phone. He said "it's over" and I replied with "it never started."

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    #25

    Someone Asked Women How They’ve Destroyed A Man’s Confidence, And 41 Savage Ladies Didn’t Hold Back "There's no need for me to wish you any bad luck, you are who you are and that's more than enough ". He got mad.

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    Arcady Royzen
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    I have to agree with this statement - his worst luck was to find a woman like you! LOL

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    #26

    Someone Asked Women How They’ve Destroyed A Man’s Confidence, And 41 Savage Ladies Didn’t Hold Back "So what do you bring to the table?" Me: "... listen, what are you lacking that you need from a woman..?"

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    DR Wils
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    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And yet Arcady Royzen feels the need to defend all men, or at least feels personally attacked, by these comments...........

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    #27

    Man sitting on couch looking stressed while holding phone, reacting to female roasts that hit men hard. If ya'll want to see an immature grown man throw a larger fit than a 2 year old who wasn't allowed to eat a random chicken nugget from under a restaurants table say this: "i lowered my standards for you, and you still couldn't reach the bar"

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    #28

    Close-up of a man grooming his hair with a brush, illustrating female roasts that hit men hard and leave an impact. For your own safety you should act like your hairline and take a few steps back...

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    #29

    Young woman in a beige coat smiling while reading female roasts on her phone outdoors in an urban setting When he said he wasn't ready for anything serious I said, "oh thank God, I didn't know how I was going to tell you that!"

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    Arcady Royzen
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    sounds mutual to me. is this supposed to be an insult? LOL

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    #30

    Someone Asked Women How They’ve Destroyed A Man’s Confidence, And 41 Savage Ladies Didn’t Hold Back The way you cannot communicate effectively is actually super unattractive.

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    #31

    Someone Asked Women How They’ve Destroyed A Man’s Confidence, And 41 Savage Ladies Didn’t Hold Back He asked me "you're going to the gym"? and answered "someone has to."

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    #32

    I'm not offended. I'm just really embarrassed for you.

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    the proper response to this so am i but i feel more embarrassed :)

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    #33

    A dude said: You have to listen and respect me! Me: You have never successfully achieved or accomplished anything in your life I don't listen to pigeons!

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    #34

    Woman in a yellow sweater looking at phone with a smirk, capturing the essence of female roasts hitting men hard. It's hard to think your mom took 9 months to make a joke.

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    Arcady Royzen
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    goes both ways ladies - replace last word with an "w" word. how would it make you feel?

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    #35

    "Look I've left better men for less" he was trying to get back together.

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    DR Wils
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    2 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Arcady Royzen, some women don't like small carrots

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    #36

    Young woman in a plaid shirt with an expressive smile and open hands, delivering female roasts with confidence. I could insult you but Mother Nature beat me to it.

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    Arcady Royzen
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    When in doubt ladies, look in the mirror. enough said :)

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    #37

    "You keep coming back obviously I'm not the problem."

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    Someone really likes you... wow, such a sserious problem we have here... Dumb!

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    #38

    “It’s ok, your frontal lobe is just underdeveloped. It’s not your fault

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    #39

    "Was the barber rushing?"

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    Arcady Royzen
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    imagine if the guy said that to you? hahahahahah

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    #40

    Two women laughing together while looking at a laptop, capturing female roasts hitting men hard in conversation. "Why should I lower my standards so you can have a chance " also "for someone with your stature you shouldn't be so comfortable talking down to others." Not mine but favorites.

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    jude.scott
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    3 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Arcady Royzen I’m thinking all these things have been said to you 🤣

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    #41

    Woman making a sarcastic expression outdoors in denim jacket, embodying female roasts that hit men hard and memorable. Him: we should stop seeing each other Me: when did we start?

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    Arcady Royzen
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    oh wow... memoirs of an invisible woman. dumb!

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    #42

    No matter what they drive i say "omg I love your Honda civic!"

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    JB
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you see a Tesla, ask them, "Hey, that's one of those new Toyotas!" then play oblivious to what Tesla is and who hairplugs McGee is.

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    #43

    Young man with short hair and earrings, thoughtfully touching his face outdoors with blurred foliage background, female roasts. "You're balding" ends the convo really quick.

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    #44

    "you're not husband material"

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    Arcady Royzen
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    OK, so the husband material specifications belong to te same fantasy land as your so called standards LOL

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    #45

    8 seconds don’t make you a cowboy

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    i hope this refers to the rocking bull LOL otherwise, i would wonder why she had a stop watch in her hand :)

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    #46

    Young man wearing glasses and a denim shirt reaching for a book in a library, showcasing female roasts impact on men. Confident for a man that can't reach the top shelf.

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    #47

    "You never made me finish the whole time l was with you" he crumbled.

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    #48

    My mustache and beard are better than yours, so no, i'll not be taking your opinion.

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    I would never brag about this in public hahahahahahahahahah

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    #49

    I hear you saying you're looking for less and I wish you well in finding that.

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    Arcady Royzen
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    not a problem although you just said that you are the lowest of the lowest yourself. Your desire to insult him backfired spectacularly! LOL

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    #50

    Told him that his tampon string was hanging out.

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    Sally Moen
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    5 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of these insults or burns are equating having a quality of feminity or being a female as bad. It's weird to insult a man with this. Goes too far, I guess I'm saying

    #51

    "Omg totally fine you forgot to text me back. Your competition didn't."

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    Arcady Royzen
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    you present yourself as something to compete for... I have serious doubt that you are a prize more like a nightmare hahahahah

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    #52

    I didn't say anything. I just gave a dismissive "move on" hand motion.

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    #53

    "Do you need googly eyes for your receding hairline?"

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    #54

    Barely dating .... HIM: "I love you" ME "That's nice."

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    #55

    If I need a tooth pick I'll let you know

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    #56

    "you're the reason your mom left, not your dad."

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    #57

    A guy asked me don't you like anybody here (cause he liked me)" I told him "no because everybody here is just like you neither have a face and nor a personality."

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    #58

    him :* sends a long paragraph* me: i'm not reading that

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    you should have. it could have some $$$$ signs in there LOL

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    #59

    you don’t make enough to talk to me that way

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