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Breaking news, extroverts – we introverts are happy even if we don't look it! And it's not just my introvert bias talking. While it's true that, on average, extroverts are happier than introverts, it's hard to really measure happiness. In a 2015 study, researchers found that extroverts had higher scores of happiness, quality of social interactions, and the ability to regulate their emotions.

Researchers emphasize that the difference between introverts' scores is not significant, yet still persists. Some experts say that such research is inaccurate. Happiness-measuring metrics, for example, tend to be biased toward extroverts.

Sean Seepersad, Ph.D., points out that introverts realize themselves better socially in cultures that aren't so individualistic. Introverts also want and need deeper connections; they have few friends, but they form stronger bonds. And for some, that's enough to create happiness.

However, there have been more studies about how extroverts are happier and healthier than introverts. And, as an introvert, I feel personally attacked. A 2024 study found that extroverts experience a greater number of and more intense "uplifts." Uplifts are basically moments of happiness, the opposite of "hassles."

"Introversion was associated with reporting less frequent and less enjoyable uplifts, but not with overall hassle frequency or unpleasantness," the researchers write. They did take into account that an uplift for an extrovert might be socializing with friends. While for an introvert, an uplift is reading a book with a cup of coffee in hand. Still, extroverts seemed to get more benefits from uplifts than introverts.

Some psychology researchers suggest that acting extroverted can help introverts feel happier. In 2020, two researchers from the University of California, Riverside, had both introverted and extroverted individuals participate in extroverted activities. They found that when introverts acted more "talkative, assertive, and spontaneous," they reported better well-being. Essentially, when "pretending" to be extroverts, introverts felt more social connectedness and more positive emotions.

Interestingly, a similar previous study found the opposite. In 2019, researchers from the University of Melbourne conducted a very similar, but longer, study. While the introverts in their research reported being happier at first, too, they reported increased negative effect and tiredness as time went on. One of the co-authors of the 2019 study, Luke D. Smillie, suggests that the outcomes differ because they sent daily reminders to their participants. The authors of the 2020 study, on the other hand, only sent three weekly e-mails to theirs.

The co-author of the 2020 study, Sonja Lyubomirsky, told Scientific American that she sees the potential shortcomings of the research. "It could be that if we did it for a month or longer, the introverts would have been depleted or fatigued," she admitted. She also notes that her research might indicate something different: perhaps introverts benefit from just a few minutes of extroverted behavior a day.