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50 Times People Didn’t Hold Back Shaming The Worst Brides, Grooms And Wedding Guests (New Pics)
There are a whole lot of people who have a very specific wedding in mind when they’re getting married. Beauty, and, at times, class, are in the eye of the beholder, but sometimes people put together such a strange and gaudy collection of decorations, outfits and activities that netizens had almost no choice but to document it.
So we’ve gathered some of the most unhinged, cringey and just unfortunate wedding moments that people have encountered and shared online. Settle in as you scroll through, prepare to ask how someone could think this was a good idea, upvote your favorites and be sure to add your thoughts in the comments down below.
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#1
My Older Half-Sister Doesn’t Invite Me Too Her Childfree Wedding As I Am Nineteen, Expects A Gift
Ace 2 months ago
Yeah, although I can just about get my head round the idea of a "child-free" wedding (I can't really) she's using it deliberately to taunt and bully her sister. And despite the USA#s ridiculous drinking age laws, it's generally accepted that adulthood starts at 18 anyway.
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sturmwesen 2 months ago
this! if you are considered a child you shouldn't buy a gift. that's what adults do. maybe send her a very bad painting for her fridge?
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Max Robitzsch 2 months ago
If your SISTER doesn't invite you to your wedding... well, she's clearly not your family.
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#2
These Are Probably Going To Last Longer Than Your Marriage (Images Taken A Year Apart) - Stop With These Balloon Starts!
The region I live in is quite popular with weddings and so many people just don’t care about others and the environment because it’s their big day. Besides the fire works several times a week (who cares about the animals of locals when you’re from out of town?) these balloon starts are starting to get on my nerve. If I ever find one of the cards attached I‘m going to make sure they‘re going to be fined for littering.
Joke Vermote 2 months ago
Lets ban plastic bags, plastic straws etc... but balloons the fly up in the air, what could be the problem with that... /s
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GalPalAl 2 months ago
There are no consequences for people behaving badly and now we have someone in office who reinforces this thinking. Being inconsiderate and rude aren't funny. And blaming your shortcomings on other people needs to stop. I would love to follow these people around and leave the remnants of their destruction in their house, car or anyplace inconvenient for them for not caring about other living beings on the planet. Makes me hostile. This is exactly why I hate people and choose animals. People will never stop disappointing until they destroy all of the good things we have.
Jenny Barton 2 months ago
We must give up on balloons filled with helium. It is an important element in medical imaging and for research and the world is running out. https://www.acs.org/green-chemistry-sustainability/research-innovation/endangered-elements/helium.html#:~:text=Once%20helium%20is%20released%20in,sources%20are%20being%20rapidly%20depleted.
#3
Priest Cancels Wedding After Seeing Cry For Help On Groom's Shoe And Says Church Is No Place For Jokes
A video of Father Fábio Marinho went viral on social media after he reported, during an interview on the "LendaCast" podcast, that he annulled a wedding due to a joke the groom made at the altar. The incident took place in Uberlândia.
According to the priest, during the blessing, the guests began to laugh. Unable to understand why, he noticed that the groom had glued the phrase "Help me, get me out of here" to the sole of his shoe. This behavior was interpreted as an impediment to the wedding, leading the priest to cancel the ceremony.
"They knelt for me to give the blessing, and the church started laughing. I thought: something happened. When I saw what was in the groom's shoe, I took it off and got it. I said, 'Look, this is an impediment to me validating your marriage. Therefore, the wedding is canceled. You'll have to go through all the necessary procedures and decide if you really want to marry her, because you're asking for help,'" the priest said.
He also stated that marriage must be performed consciously and spontaneously, with no room for joking.
"When I asked if it was of your own free will, you said yes. But now you're asking for help. This isn't a joke or theater. Leave the joking for the party with your guests. I'm not there to celebrate something that isn't serious. If the groom is asking for help, he doesn't want it. In the name of the Church, I am obliged, by canon law, to suspend the marriage. The marriage becomes invalid," he explained.
The incident generated significant attention on social media, dividing opinions among internet users.
While some defended the priest's stance, others believed the groom's actions were merely a joke with no intention of invalidating the marriage.
amy lee 2 months ago
Gives the bride time to see she doesn't want to be saddled with this for the rest of her life
Load More Replies... Lorraine R 1 day ago
I have heard about weddings where one of the groomsmen wrote "help me" on the soles of the groom's shoes without his knowledge. One would hope the perpetrator would come clean if the priest thought the groom was resposible for it and was going to stop the proceedings.
Load More Replies... Foxinamug 2 months ago
Whether he has no sense of humour or he finds it funny in private, in many jurisdictions you legally cannot continue if there's *any* suggestion that both parties are not able to enter into the union willingly. 'I object' jokes can also cancel a wedding as in both cases the officiant needs to reconfirm everyone's willingness and capacity to legally marry.
BeesEelsAndPups 2 months ago
The law in Brazil is not so direct in this matter. But ultimately this was a religious service. The law does not apply. You can be legally married without being married by the church.
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Michael Largey 2 months ago
The groom said "Help me, get me out of here". So that's exactly what the priest did for him. Be careful what you ask for.
Nancy Bania 2 months ago
My ex-son-in-law tried this. I made him scrape it off before the wedding. Should have left it, maybe the priest would have canceled the wedding!
Rosecrucian Roeth 2 months ago
I am not religious BUT the priest is right.......if you are going to get married in the church, leave the jokes for the reception!
Weddings are typically envisioned as upscale affairs, candle-lit dinners, string quartets, beautiful flowers, and carefully chosen color schemes that harmonize with the time of year. But in life, weddings are where good taste sometimes takes a day off, and where "personal style" is allowed to go off in what polite guests afterwards refer to as "memorable."
Trashy and tawdry wedding choices are the bane of wedding tradition, and to every couple that aspires to delicate elegance, there's another which looks at a smoke machine and says, "yeah, that's in front of the altar."
#4
Sighted A Good One Today! Entitled Bride Tells Photographer To Bring A Wedding Gift
Joe Publique 2 months ago
Give them a $50 Amazon gift card. Bill them for $100 (card + gift processing fee + late request fee).
Babs McGurk 2 months ago
Are they expecting gifts from the caterer and waitstaff, as well? You are a paid employee, not a guest. You do not 'owe' them a gift.
Renaissance man 1 month ago
Tell them you're not a guest, you're the photographer. Your gift as it were, will be the result of good photographs.
#5
My Friend Is A Wedding Photographer. Everyone Thinks This Is Cute. I Think It's Gross
Imagine spending 60k on a wedding and your groom would rather be playing video games.
Mreoww 2 months ago
I personally don’t like it. But if the bride and groom are okay with it, then who am I to say no?
lenka 2 months ago
I do agree with the "you do you" approach, but I also find it incredibly frustrating that the continuation of these tropes serves as an extremely low standard to which women are expected to simply accept. We should be pushing back on them if for nothing else than to tell women that they do not have to settle for this kind of man/relationship/husband.
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Coupon Holder 2 months ago (edited)
Had the exact same topper on our wedding cake, minus the Xbox, Coke cans, etc. almost 20 years ago. Still makes us smile when we look at it. Everyone at our wedding had a good laugh. It's obvious tongue-in-cheek humor. I have diplomas and certifications hanging in my office. Fits what I do for aliving and makes a good background for Zoom calls. Right among them, I have my "Perfect Attendance" certificate from first grade which I found in a box at my parents' house years ago. I had it professionally framed to match the others, and unless you look closely it looks like another diploma. It's a joke. I just don't take myself that seriously and it's my subtle way of saying I think diploma walls are pretentious. I've never met anyone that didn't get the joke and thought I was actually bragging about first grade. Tongue-in-cheek.
G A 2 months ago
If you are both in on the joke, which I'm guessing you would have to be to choose it, what's the problem?
Jrog 2 months ago (edited)
It's an old trite and sexist stereotype. With roles inverted, there would be vocal outcry. But hey, you do you.
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Tobias Reaper 2 months ago
the Division is a pretty good game im not saying its right im saying i get it
Laura Gillette 2 months ago
Does she really think he's going to stop playing video games after he's married? Does *he* think that??
Namea 3 days ago
I hope not. Maybe it's because I'm also a gamer but I love the fact that my husband and I play games together and with our son.
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Bride And Groom Auction Opportunity To Eat First
tresgatos72 2 months ago
I would have walked out of the reception the second they started auctioning off the food. And I would have snagged my gift off the table ad I went. 😡
moggiemoo 2 months ago (edited)
And taken 3 more to sell to cover your original expenses.
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Granny's Thoughts 2 months ago
Not so different than the "money dance" which I never understood anyway. Money grubbers, all of them.
DowntownStevieB 2 months ago
This is stupid. If me, as a guest, has a dress code, I'm not going.
Bryan Wright 1 month ago
Talk about bad taste. I hope any that refused this scam took their gifts back too.
Its most common offender is the décor. People envision classy centerpieces and understated lighting, but what arrives on the scene are glitter bomb eruptions, giant plastic swans, or balloon arches that look like discarded party trimmings from a children's birthday party. Inspirational quote neon signs are also trendy, because nothing is more romantically timeless than "Live, Laugh, Love" flashing over the dance floor in migraine-inducing pink.
#7
My MIL Cried The Day We Got Married
Crystalwitch60 2 months ago
That’s a monster in law right there ,poor woman’s gonna have her work cut out with that thing around
Harry Gondalf 2 months ago
Soon we'll be reading some BP article about this woman asking "AITA for mūrdering my MIL?"
Nancy Bania 2 months ago
This is when you need a good friend with a glass of red wine to be clumsy.
Granny's Thoughts 2 months ago
As soon as I saw MIL'S dress, I wouldn't have walked down the aisle.
#8
When The Hydrangeas Run Out, Get Some Cauliflower!
Deta Rossiter 2 months ago
at the cost of them currently... Maybe they were thank you gifts for the attendees?
#9
Audacious Couple Scams Vendors Into Supplying Goods And Services For Free
Rafael 2 months ago
Make the cake savory (or just plain salty) for styled shoots. Insta has no flavor (at least not yet)
nicholas nolan 2 months ago
My mom used to decorate styrofoam blanks for photoshoots back in the 80s. They can be washed and reused, reducing food waste. Surprised they don't do that here.
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Ace 2 months ago
Well I think the obvious answer is to take the cake away with you - no payment, no cake.
Fellfromthemoon 2 months ago
There are (or used to be) a few marzipan museums here. The cakes in these museums are made of cardboard, only the decoration is real marzipan. I happen to read that commercial shots of vanilla icecream is made of mashed potato. So, as Rafael had already stated, for a commercial photoshoot, the cake shall look good, but it's not necessary to be edible.
Lorraine R 4 hours ago
I forget what the commercial was for, but the shot was supposed to be a dish with scoops of ice cream in it. What they actually use was meringues.
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And then there's the dress. Brides' gowns can be beautiful, but sometimes they're beautiful for all the wrong reasons, sequins that dazzle guests when hit with sunlight, trains so large they require their own seating chart, or décolletage that requires the minister to strain his neck to see over. The grooms aren't exempted either, there's always one who feels the need to arrive in a rhinestone-encrusted tuxedo even Elvis himself might have found too flashy.
#10
Quite Possibly The Worst Dressed Guest I’ve Ever Seen
tresgatos72 2 months ago
It looks like they ran through a chicken yard on the way to the wedding. 😆 Someone should've gone up to her and said "F-kaw-f!"
Robert T 2 months ago
I had a sausage for dinner last night that was better dressed than that!
#11
Wedding Guest Wore Custom-Made Gown
Bartlet for world domination 2 months ago (edited)
You no like? I'd love to wear that, if I weren't so white that I'd disappear.
Load More Replies... Roshan Kassan 2 months ago
She was there JUST to show off. I am beginning to understand eloping
ॐBoyGanesh 2 months ago
Oh dear. Let me make sure my soapbox isn’t anywhere near. I firmly believe that the vast majority of entitled “Karens” aren’t just people who were never told “no,” but daddy’s little Disney princess. They’ve been taught since birth that they’re more worthy than anyone be use they are a true princess and that’s been reinforced not only by Disney princess movies, but far too many fairy tale films targeting little girls & young women. Of course they don’t recognize they’re not a Disney princess when it’s been consistently engrained that they are. Even forays outside of the home, parents take a “it’s not my child’s fault; my child can do no wrong” stance, deepening the expectation that they are always to be treated as royalty. So, to answer your question: no. She doesn’t recognize that and she simply can’t.
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#12
Friend Thinks It’s Cute To Be Showing Up To My Wedding Wearing A Revealing Dress And Than Try’s To Justify It
I (24F) just got married recently. I invited this girl, Ariana (fake name, 19F), to my wedding since she’s a family friend that my family and I have known for years.
Ariana has always dressed in a revealing and skimpy way, which I knew. But when I invited her to my wedding, the invitation clearly said to dress elegant. I thought she had the common sense to dress appropriately for the occasion.
Well, I was wrong. She showed up to the ceremony in one of those Poster Girl-style dresses with slits in the front but this one was even worse.
After the ceremony and reception, I texted her asking why on earth she would wear that kind of outfit to my wedding. She responded with, “Because I can.”
I’m going to show the text conversation and the dress she wore so you can get a better idea of what I’m talking about.
Johnnynatfan 2 months ago
If you think that's lingerie you have lived a sheltered life. I'm not saying the dress is appropriate but get real.
Load More Replies... Glix Drap 2 months ago
How do you know if she plays at position 9 in rugby (union)? Did the thunder thighs give it away?
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tresgatos72 2 months ago (edited)
"If that's your idea of 'cute', then you should Google the definition of the word. I think the term you were looking for was either slutty, skanky, trashy, or desperate. Why am I telling you this? BECAUSE I CAN." Then block that manky slag!
TheGoodBoi 2 months ago
"Because I can". I have unfriended people and made them upset before over that phrase. "Why throw our friendship away over (reason)??" Because I can :).
Megalodon Meg 2 months ago
How about everyone stop being misogynistic a******s? If this girl wanted to wear that dress to a date or a club or whatever by all means, I'll be the first to compliment her. It's not appropriate for a wedding. But to call her such horrid names for the dress itself makes you a d**k. Call her out for wearing it to a wedding not for wearing it period.
Nizumi 2 months ago
Don't worry about it too much. There were people at your wedding who agree with you. And those who think the outfit is cute are people whose opinions wouldn't matter to you anyway. Also - she's 19. It's going to take time, and you won't be there to see it; but rest assured, at some point in her life, she's going to look back on that and cringe. I think back 30-some years at some stuff I wore in public and... wow. I'm so glad none of those people are in my life now to remind me how trashy I was back then.
The entertainment column is also filled with choices to be questionable. Having a DJ is par for the course, but there are couples who demand their first dance just has to be surrounded by pyrotechnics. Others choose choreographed numbers so elaborate that you can't help but feel as though you've wandered into a low-budget talent show.
#13
Held Hostage At The Reception By An MLM Hun
Anne Roberts 2 months ago
It doesn't say much for the guests either. Imagine being more interested in buying makeup than enjoying the reception. I wonder if the newlyweds were ok with this?
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Ariom Dahl 2 months ago
If I'd been at your table I would have (1) asked you to remove your demo items and if that failed (2) 'accidentally' knocked them off the table onto the floor.
#14
Where In The Whole Universe, Did She Find The Audacity
My mom recently got married. This is a second marriage for both of them as they both lost their spouse; one to cancer and one to early onset dementia.
It was a small and intimate wedding to celebrate finding their love again. This lady is not even related to the grooms side. She is just a friend and I had no idea that anyone could have this much audacity!
She had been told 3 times by this point to sit down by the photographer because she kept moving and getting in the shots. I know this is going to sound bad but verbatim, she said “oh, sorry, I don’t understand…” She is a smart lady. An international student with 2 degrees who perfectly understands English. The photographer didn’t know her so didn’t want to assume she knew English and kept trying to communicate to sit down.
I am so mad. My mom’s pictures will always have her in them now. By the end of the night she had been told 6 times to stop taking pictures. My husband finally yelled at her because she was taking pictures of the kids who were there. She always posts onto social media and we didn’t want those out there. Finally she stopped, with the threat of being kicked out…
Celtic Pirate Queen 2 months ago
True, but what a b*tch. After being told ONCE she should have gotten the clue. The last wedding I went to (my husband's grand niece, sweet girl) we were told in advance that cell phones were not permitted during the ceremony - PERIOD. If that was a problem, we were free to not attend.
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Jac Carr 2 months ago (edited)
What is wrong with people who won't stand up for themselves? If she doesn't "understand" English, you help her up by the arm, take her to her seat and put her in it; multiple times if necessary before she's removed from the ceremony. These people have the balls to pull all this s**t so someone needs to have the balls to stand up and deal with it
Trillian 2 months ago
Seriously. My friend got married recently and was worried about her mom acting up during the ceremony. Me and another friend were seated close to mom to step in should it happen. Including escorting her outside if needed. Wasn't needed, luckily.
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Paige Merlin 2 months ago
We had a phone free wedding ceremony, there was still one relative that pulled it out and yes made it into photos 🙄
Load More Replies... Granny's Thoughts 2 months ago
Should have asked her to leave when you had to talk to her the 2nd time.
Anne Roberts 2 months ago (edited)
I was a music teacher for 42 years. At class performances I had so many people want to photograph and video their kids that would actually ask me to move so they could get a better shot. Like, I'm the director! Anyway, why not enjoy the performance lice instead of taking a video to watch later?.
#15
Did A Double Take At This Guest’s Outfit
tresgatos72 2 months ago (edited)
*singing* "Red red wine, you make me feel so fine, you dumped on rude guests all of the time"🍷😆
Arenite 1 month ago
And this guest should have been escorted out as soon as groom/bride/bridesmaids/groomsmen laid eyes on this b***o
Crystalwitch60 2 months ago
Now where the hell is that bouncer at the door ,with that red wine I asked for 😂
Sweet talk is nice, but when the best man devotes three pages of locker room humor to the groom's college life, the audience giggles less and scowls more at the open bar. Food and drink generate their own brand of wedding pandemonium. A candy buffet can look frivolous, but by the end of the night it's sticky fingers and sugar-high kids.
#16
She Wore A Floor Length Silky White Gown To Her Step-Sisters Wedding
We ride at dawn biatches 2 months ago
This is where the bridesmaids need to step up and spill red wine on it
Eggwodd 2 months ago
For gracious sakes women! Cut the dress hanger loops off dresses prior to wearing them, they ALWAYS work their way out and make any dress look cheap!
#17
Just Got This Email And Mad Enough To Make A Reddit Account
Alex Meurissen 2 months ago
I don't think there is anything wrong with what they say about having everything and asking for cash. But you can't decide how much :o My mouth fell open when i saw the 250 lol
Amy S 2 months ago
Same, I started reading thinking this is fine, I don't want to buy someone a useless item, until I got to the minimum suggested gift!
Load More Replies... Ange Marsden 2 months ago
We've greedily calculated how much cash we can squeeze out of you all because the point of marriage is to get a TV upgrade and a spa day
Rafael 2 months ago
This is tacky as héll, sure, but if you thj k about it, the idea is not as bad as it looks at first. Many cultures had exactly that, family and friends pooling resources so the new family had a head start at life. If we replaces the wanton spending and social parading with something like that, wouldn't life be easier for everyone?
Earonn - 2 months ago
It's not the idea. Is the effin audacity to tell the guests how much to give minimum, plus make that such a ridiculous sum.
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CanadianaKa 1 month ago
If you have everything you need, you say "In lieu of gifts please donate to..." and choose your favourite charity. Insisting on a minimum $250 gift *from each guest* (ie, $500 from couples) is in-freaking-sane.
Seadog 1 month ago
When I got remarried, we had a reception a few months later and told everyone to NOT bring a gift. This is a meet and greet. We were both pushing 50, we didn't need anything. A few still brought something small but generally we all had a good time in spite of the USPS loosing nearly half the invitations.
#18
My Sister In Law Made Me Feel [Awful] Over My Allergy
For context, I am deadly allergic to a lot of seafood. Some of them are okay, some make me feel like death. So, when I saw what they were serving for their sit down dinner at the reception, I noticed 70 percent was seafood, and the rest could possible be contaminated. They have a salad bar and sundae bar planned, but my brother mentioned a while back they were concerned about having enough food.
Anyways, I sent these messages to my SiL and it made me feel [awful] for even bringing it up. I guess it wasn't a huge deal, bur definatley made me feel bad for even asking.
(Shes blue, im yellow)
Sorry for all my typos. Im.. really bad at texting. Lol.
Ange Marsden 2 months ago
Its one thing to refuse to cater to allergies but its something else to ban a guest from eating all night for aesthetics 🙄
PunnyPanda 2 months ago
Omg, 90% of caterers and venues will gladly provide a few dietary restricted meals for the same or only slightly more than your per head cost! And if its a severe allergy like seafood, I guarantee they have a go-to partner that can accomodate from a clean, certified kitchen to supplement. And at the very least, they will gladly re-plate whatever you bring for yourself, due to your dietary needs, and serve it with everyone else's food (tho not necessarily heat it etc, due to cross contamination issues on either side). This gal just refused to even ask. Obviously this stuff comes up all the time and any caterer that can't make reasonably priced accommodations should get out of the biz.
Debby Keir 2 months ago
I'd just bring something and pop out to the car to eat it (as he suggested in the first place) as it's unlikely that anyone will notice later in the evening.
Signature drinks can be playful, but dubbing them such monikers as "The Blushing Bride-tini" or "Till Death Do Us Daiquiri" ensures at least one or two guests will be sorry they did come morning. And while food trucks may be a fun twist, there is always that one instance where a guest who's all dressed up ends up dripping taco sauce across the dance floor.
#19
I Guess I Wish I Could Be This Shameless LOL
Zephyr343 2 months ago
Our wedding was a total of $4k. Venue, food, etc. We paid out of pocket, told everyone to wear what they wanted and dont bother with gifts. Seeing them was what we wanted. We did our honeymoon 2 years later. It was perfect. She is perfect (wife....together for 19 years, married for 10)
#20
Damn...whats That For A Request. Bridezillaaaaa Alert
PunnyPanda 2 months ago
Maybe they have bigger priorities for that $190? Maybe they planned to get the $50 item on your registry cause money is tight?And maybe pick up the phone and call him directly if you're concerned about his welfare?
Seadog 1 month ago
Phone may not be a private conversation. Best to meet him somewhere you now he'll be alone.
Load More Replies... Celtic Pirate Queen 2 months ago
When will brides learn they don't get to dictate what/how much a guest spends for their wedding?
Daniel Atkins 2 months ago
These minimum amount posts show how little they value friends and family.
#21
Wow Who Does This Mother In Law With A White Dress As A Surprise
Kate Johnson 2 months ago
So strange that these women are so stupid they don't realize everyone at the wedding will be mocking them and speculating on their upbringing. They just embarrass themselves.
GalPalAl 2 months ago
Maybe making fun of people who do try to upstage the couple should be mocked openly. Maybe even make it a game at the wedding so they don't miss the irony
Load More Replies... Anne Roberts 2 months ago
There must be a lot of wacko mothers-in-law out there. I would never wear this to my daughter's wedding. I have to admit my son-in-law is amazing and he and my daughter make a great team. ♥️
The truth is, cheesy weddings aren't necessarily disasters, they're stories. Guests will groan at the ice sculpture of two figures riding dolphins, but they'll never forget it, either. Sophisticated weddings can be a haze, but tacky weddings stay with you. They're recounted over guffaws at dinner and discussed for years to come. Finally, a little chaos and glitter may not be classy, but it will definitely guarantee that nobody is walking away muttering that the wedding was boring.
#22
Bride Charging $60 Per Person To Attend Her Wedding
p4dxqkmtqw 2 months ago
My friend did the same. She wanted people to pay to be at her wedding but I couldn’t make it because I have economic problems.
Fat Harry (Oi / You) 2 months ago (edited)
My best friend was the opposite. He's not particularly well off, although not poor, and at his reception he kept putting more money behind the bar so everyone could enjoy themselves. I felt bad that I couldn't afford a gift at the time, but sent him some cash when he had a baby recently because it had been playing on my conscience for so long.
Earonn - 2 months ago
Your best friend sounds like a good person and surely was more happy to have you at his wedding at all!
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"I May Look Like A Bride, But I'm Still A Woman In Sales"
Veronica Jean 2 months ago
Imagine being genuinely proud that you identify more deeply with your job than the largest commitment you will ever make in your life outside of children.
PunnyPanda 2 months ago
Wait, was she the bride? Why was she wearing ivory? And ffs, can we please elevate meaningful social gatherings/life events above "the hussle" for one dang second? Work to live, darlin, not the other way around.
Kat 2 months ago
I think she was the bride and it was her way of artistically eluding to the fact that she was at her wedding? That's what I got from it
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Attended The Bachelorette…. Didn’t Make The Cut For The Wedding
Dusty's mom 2 months ago
Was invited to bachelorette party. Likely assumed it meant a seat at the main event.
Load More Replies... Roshan Kassan 2 months ago
Friendship done and dusted. if that were me, the number would have been deleted
#25
SIL Wore Near White Wedding Dress To The Wedding
The dresscode was summer pastel chique, so think easter colors. The gf of the grooms brother wore a sage green (wedding) dress that in no way, shape or form appeared to be sage green, or any other color.
The veil she's carrying was the flower girl's (her daughter) This was after the MIL had asked the bride if she could wear a white jumpsuit to the wedding. To which the bride obviously said no.
Anne Roberts 2 months ago
There's also the fact that it looks like it's about to slide off her shoulders. If she bent over it would fall right off
#26
Bride Cancels Catering Because She Wants To Only Spend $4.16 Per Guest For F&b
Mrs Irish Mom 2 months ago
Something simple would be to only invite 20 people and give them something decent to eat
Ace 2 months ago
Last wedding we attended (my niece) was in a village hall and self-catered, lots of salads, cheese, pies, quiches, couple of kegs of real ale (and wine as well). Clearly a lot of friends had clubbed together to prepare everything, but they'd done so beautifully and it worked really well. No idea of the total cost per person, probably a little more than that (with the alcohol) but the whole thing was beautiful and show that you really don't need to spend a fortune on it.
V 2 months ago
At one stage we thought we were going to need to order from the local Pizza Hut and Chinese Restaurant for our wedding. Luckily we managed to organise with a local pub (we didn't want to have to clean up afterwards if we could avoid it). But if we had to order in takeaway food we had to.
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LaurieAnnaT 2 months ago
Nothing says you have to have a meal. Serve the wedding cake with punch, cookies, nuts, etc. That’s perfectly acceptable for an afternoon reception.
Dusty's mom 2 months ago
That's what we did. Our parents did it. We also kept the guest list to just family and closest friends. Weren't out to fleece anyone. Got lots of compliments over keeping it simple.
Load More Replies... WindySwede 2 months ago
Here you could just afford one of the Chili Cheeseburgare. Nothing else. For 39 sek. 4,16 USD.
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This Is What Our Officiant Was Going To Wear Without Telling Us
We implemented a handfasting into our ceremony because we liked it and we’re not following any particular traditions. This is the only Celtic thing really involved. Our officiant is a family member of my partner who is into Celtic stuff.
We asked him to write some small pieces in the ceremony script, just stuff like welcoming the guests and any personal anecdotes. He didn’t do that; he waited until we asked what he had 10 days before the wedding and then sent us a google copy-pasted highly Celtic inspired ceremony (like, including rune stones). So we had the realization we should ask what he’s wearing. This is what he sent. I really thought wedding planning might not drive me to insanity but with every day the universe tests me a bit more.
Officiant has been told he needs to wear a suit. He said he didn’t have one. We told him to buy one. He said fine, but he’s not wearing a jacket because it will be too hot. I am not going to bring up the fact that his original outfit is literally a jacket.
Ace 2 months ago
No idea (until I just looked it up) what a "handfasting" is but if he's acting as an officiant, like a priest, in a Celtic-inspired ceremony isn't it reasonable to expect a relevant costume? I mean, if you had a catholic (or other religion) priest wouldn't you expect that he'd be wearing a cassock (or other religion's accepted priestly robes) and stuff?
Charlotte Ingle 2 months ago
They wanted their officiant for a handfasting to wear a suit? Makes as much sense as expecting a RC or Anglican officiant to wear a suit
Yrral Spavit 2 months ago
If you ask for a handfasting I should think you'd almost expect the officiant to wear something like this.
Marnie 2 months ago
I totally get why the officiant shouldn't have just assume this was okay. But I LOVE this outfit. (Why can't guys dress like this all the time instead of the c**p they have been wearing for the past 20 years?) I know about 100 young people who would much prefer this over a suit.
Princess Possum 2 months ago
I want the jacket. But he was a jerk for not following the bride's and groom's request.
#28
Not The Bride And Groom. Comments Welcome As I’ve Always Wondered If I Was Being Unkind By Thinking It Was A Bit Of A Statement!
Syrah 2 months ago
in the UK men almost always a wear suit to a wedding, so not unusual to me.
LadyKing 2 months ago
Him doing black face is a bit questionable though….😂
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Matthew Savestheworld 2 months ago
the only error here is the color of her dress. Generally its better to let the bride be the only one in white
Veronica Jean 2 months ago
Everyone keeps saying he's fine, but he matched his tie to her dress. They planned for her to wear white together.
We ride at dawn biatches 2 months ago
It's a lovely dress, but I would not wear it at a wedding
Crystalwitch60 2 months ago
The man looks in normal attire well here in uk it is , the woman , ohh hell no lady 🤦♀️gotta be a monster in law lmao
#29
Insane The Bridesmaid Had To Ask If This Cape Was Appropriate For A Bridesmaid For An October Wedding
Alex Helm 2 months ago
At my sisters wedding, I started to get cold. I had a lovely purple cloak in my car (I’m a larper), so I put it on. When it was time for the photos, I started to take it off, but my sister told me to keep it on as it was very me! She wasn’t wrong, :)
#30
She Said It Was The Lighting (It Wasn’t)
kissmychakram 2 months ago
I'm not a dress expert (or fan) but that cream dress looks quite lovely to me. Nicer than the wedding dress imo. Maybe that's the actual problem?
Nikole 2 months ago
It’s definitely better than the wedding dress, and is indeed cream. I’ve never understood brides who wear boobly wedding dresses… Like, your whole family will be there…
Load More Replies... Jo Firth 2 months ago
I'm soooooo over brides biatching about someone wearing white (or in this case, cream) to their wedding. Everyone knows who the bride is, get over yourselves. And yes, two or three of my friends wore white to my wedding and guess what, I didn't even notice.
Spencers slave no more 2 months ago
The bride has flesh coloured panels at the front and on the sides of her dress. It's really not tacky at all.
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My Dad And His MIL At My Parents' Wedding
We ride at dawn biatches 2 months ago (edited)
I would ask a photoshopper to turn the top part of her dress into a little dracula cloak
Historyharlot93 2 months ago
Hold off on the judgement: Based on this photo, the 1980s, wearing white to a wedding wasn’t the big slap in the face like it is today. Even my MILs wedding in the 60s had people wearing white, including her mom and new MIL. This mom’s dress is lovely. But “today’s” rules are “no white”, and women who wear it know exactly what they’re doing.
Otto Katz 2 months ago
I got married in '84. It was just as much a slap in the face then as it is now.
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Mother Of Groom Posted Her Dress Beforehand. Didn’t Like Me Pointing Out Obvious
#33
My Aunt At My Moms Wedding - Guess Which One's The Bride
Jo Firth 2 months ago
I'm guessing the one that stood up at the alter with the groom long before this photo was taken.
#34
Mother Of The Groom At My Sister’s Wedding
moggiemoo 2 months ago (edited)
A terrible waste of red wine. Smack her with the empty bottle instead.
Load More Replies... Max Robitzsch 2 months ago
I do think the clown face would distract a bit during the ceremony.
#35
She Wore This Floor Length Dress To A Wedding
#36
When A Guest Brings Their Own Confetti That Not Only Doesn't Match Yours But Violates Your Venue Contract
My now aunt-in-law is a super crafty person and we knew she'd want to be involved in some way so we had her make our favor bags, which she finished about 4 months early. Our style and hers don't really match and that felt like something that would be okay. They weren't what we would have chosen but they were alright and we used them.
After making those she asked if we needed any confetti. We told her no, we had tons already made from flower petals and leaves. We assumed that would be the end of it but apparently she decided she was going to make some more anyway and not tell anyone. She punched hearts out of white tissue paper, brought it with her, positioned herself to be first in the throwing line, handed some to another aunt next to her who didn't know what was going on, and two of them threw it out. Of course the wind caught it and blew it out in front of us so it's in every photo. We had almost no white in the wedding at all and our own confetti was all natural colors, nothing stark or bright.
We also hadn't mentioned (because we didn't think we'd need to) that they venue doesn't usually allow confetti outside. They only made an exception for us when we told them the confetti we were bringing was 100% natural materials. I'd dried and saved all the flowers my now-wife has given me over the years, we collected and preserved leaves from both of our yards and some vacations we'd gone on together, and then bought some more flower petals to fill it out.
My brother, bil, and a cousin had to go outside between photos and dinner to pick up all of the little white hearts so we wouldn't get in trouble with the venue. (We've since bought all of them gifts as a thank you).
All-in, hardly a big deal in terms of things that could go wrong on a wedding day, but just annoying enough that we're definitely going to remember it.
#37
My MIL Wore A White, Short Dress To The Wedding. She Also Told Me To Get Out Of The Frame For The 2nd Pic
Seadog 1 month ago
He's pointing at her a$$. Is that because she's being one?
Load More Replies... tresgatos72 2 months ago
*singing* " Red red wine, dumped on that dress, makes me forget that you, just stooped so lowww" 🍷
Crystalwitch60 2 months ago
Oh boy ,don’t envy you going forward in that marriage,she’s gonna be a vile nightmare mil
#38
Husband Backs Out Of Officiating To Go To Adult Band Camp
Ariom Dahl 2 months ago
Hmm, maybe he and you should have checked the date of the wedding before he agreed and you you RSVP'd.
tresgatos72 2 months ago
I would've been saying, "This one time, at Band Camp, I bailed on my best friend's wedding" every time he walked in the room after that! What a d*********e!
Seadog 1 month ago
Not taking sides but if BFF is really that close to the hubby, he would know about the annual camp and when it takes place and wouldn't have planned the wedding for that weekend. Or if that date was unavoidable then certainly would not have asked him to officiate. I say MFF is not as much of a friend as hubby thinks he is.
Bartlet for world domination 2 months ago
Yes because he knows all that and wanted some sympathy.
Brandi VanSteenwyk 2 months ago
No doubt that the husband is stressing out about the situation too. He could probably use some support and discussion about how best to handle the issue. Attempting to pound the desires of one person into another will only result in resentment.
Colleen Glim 2 months ago
Or maybe the husband act like a grown up and understand that his best friends wedding is more important than band camp
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Parents Let Their 3 Sons Ruin Mom’s Sister’s 1st Dance, Then For Good Measure Allow One Of Their Sons To Get Burned So Badly On A Firecracker Emts Must Be Called
Mom just filmed, dad conspicuously absent from whole affair.
SouthernGal 2 months ago
This. This is the reason so many prefer child free weddings. Though it’s more of bad parent issue than a child issue.
Auntriarch 2 months ago (edited)
The sort of parents who insist that their children should be included are generally exactly the ones who can't be trusted to supervise them.
Load More Replies... tresgatos72 2 months ago
The mom and her spoiled rotten c****h goblins should have been kicked out of the reception.
Celtic Pirate Queen 2 months ago
My ex & I decided on a child-free wedding because of one friend in particular. She had 3 boys under the age of 10. The most unruly, feral monkey brats you can imagine. She constantly asked me if she could please bring them. NO, you can't. It's a child-free wedding. Pestering me non-stop. I finally just exploded and told her that HER babysitting problems were not MY problem & if she couldn't get a sitter I guess she just couldn't attend. The day of the wedding & I just had this sneaking suspicion, so we posted a groomsman at the door of the church. Sure enough, here she comes with all 3 Satan's spawn in tow. She tried to tell our guard that I had given her "special permission" to bring the kids. He just laughed in her face and said, "No, Ma'am, you do NOT have special permission to bring your children to this CHILD-FREE wedding. You are the reason I'm standing here and you need to leave." I ended up returning her gift with a note terminating our friendship.
#40
The Mother-In-Law Wore ‘Silver And Grey’
JK 2 months ago
If you look at the picture, only the cape is silver. The rest is, at best, "dove white" which is the whitest grey you can get!
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Let’s Take Our Family Photos Directly Behind This Active Wedding!
Yrral Spavit 2 months ago
Almost as bad as the group getting married in front of a long planned reunion shoot :P
roddy 2 months ago
Easier for them to move than to move all the chairs and the arch. Surely the beach is big enough?
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#42
Spending 10-20x More For A Ring Because You Don't Want Your "Friends" Gossiping About You. The Groom Sounds Smart!!
Ange Marsden 2 months ago
The correct reply to those "friends" is "Yeah, so I got a diamond that's Fair Trade, slavery free, not a blood diamond and if you think those diamonds are better, youre trash"
Ali Sherlock 2 months ago
My ring is lab grown (my choice) but you can't tell the difference. My SIL has a smaller diamonds and and cost over $7k and mine was less then $1k
V 2 months ago
Mine is lab grown sapphire. I love it. My now husband saw it, then dragged me to the jewellery store to show me because he was so excited when he saw it. Lol.
Load More Replies... Ace 2 months ago
Yeah, I don't get it either. In what world is the price of the ring anyone's business except the couple themselves?
Load More Replies... PunnyPanda 2 months ago (edited)
If he said he'd put the cash saved into making your honeymoon well beyond expectation, would you still be complaining? Honest question. But less honestly, is your marriage for you and you hubby or just a spectator sport?
RiceRiceBaby 929 2 months ago
I'm more for the natural no ring. Nothing wrong with liking jewelry, just not for me
#43
Nothing To See Here, Just Someone Trying To Convince Other Hard Up Brides To Give Her These Items For Free In The Resale Group…
Seadog 1 month ago
Once again, waning beyond their means. Downsize. Reality is, most weddings are complete waste of money. Money the newlyweds will soon need for more important things.
Load More Replies... tresgatos72 2 months ago
How about some class and sense of decorum? Looks like you need that, too!
NJ P 2 months ago
Obviously no money for wedding. Wonder if you have money to live on later or are you a professional spinge?
Ali Sherlock 2 months ago
Anything else you need? like i can give socks and undies (there is your something borrowed)
Michael Largey 2 months ago
I have some available unopened wine bottles. Do you promise to return them in the same condition?
Brandi VanSteenwyk 2 months ago
I'm all for reduce/reuse/recycle but not in the name of entitlement.
#44
Let's Say, People *will* Talk If You Turn Up To A Wedding In A Poofier White Gown Than The Bride
tresgatos72 2 months ago
*singing* "Red red wine, I dump you right on that trash, make you help the dress match the red sash"
#45
She Turned Off The Comments Quickly
Auntriarch 2 months ago
Reminds me of my mother, who doesn't think serious news items (war, natural disaster, etc) should be read by women.
Load More Replies... The Big Bad 2 months ago (edited)
Wow. We were married by a woman officiant. Didn't even think about it. You can absolutely be sexist and a woman yourself btw.
Michael Largey 2 months ago
"We are not women haters lol" "Lol" was precisely my reaction to that claim as well.
PunnyPanda 2 months ago (edited)
Internalized misogyny maybe? But also their wedding, their choice, I suppose. Heard of worse bs just to make sure the pics were perfect...
DowntownStevieB 2 months ago
It's their decision to choose, while it does sound a bit sexist. I guess providing context would be better.
#46
I Know You Didn’t RSVP, But Still Send Me Gifts!
tresgatos72 2 months ago
I would have RSVP'ed with "The Beacons are lit! Bridezilla calls for aid!" 🤣
Barbara Panda 2 months ago
"I added the gift part because I was trying to fill space'. Sure Jan.
Michael Largey 2 months ago
A space on a table at the reception to hold presents.
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#47
Was Looking Through My Parents Wedding Album And Saw This Is The Dress My Dad's Mother Wore To His Wedding To My Mom
Scarlett O'Hara's Ghost 2 months ago
It used to be traditional for MOG to wear a champagne colored dress. The whole nobody else but the bride better have a speck of any light color at all in their outfit it's a more recent thing
Ace 2 months ago
Yes, it's really only through reading theses threads copied to BP that I've become aware of it. There do seem to be a lot of them though.
Load More Replies... Dusty's mom 2 months ago
25 years ago my MIL wore a knee-length white dress to her son's and my wedding. I didn't even register it until the pics came back. No big deal. She wasn't the one at the altar. I do cringe at the women who must try to upstage the bride. That photo, however, is not showing an upstaging dress, and it does seem to have peachy undertones. Who writes the rules anyway?
#48
Photographer Charging Extra To Not Be Posted On Social Media
Ange Marsden 2 months ago
Surely it would be better to put your price up by $500 and offer a discount to brides who are happy for their photos to be used for portfolio/social media
Ace 2 months ago
Yes, a solution so obvious it makes me doubt the veracity of the posted form.
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Daniel Atkins 2 months ago
What also gets me is the per day part. Are you supposed to pay thousands of dollars for the rest of your life to keep them offline? Sounds like blackmail.
#49
Woman Who Calls Herself A "Serial Bride" Throws Herself 7 Weddings In The Last 10 Years
Miss Tinker 2 months ago
If they’re happy and can afford it, what’s the problem? From the title I thought it was one woman marrying seven different men 😅
Ace 2 months ago
Likewise, that was obviously deliberate to mislead, AKA clickbait. And while I personally wouldn't like the idea of Disneyland I think it's quite sweet that they keep celebrating their anniversaries in this way
Load More Replies... Sally Moen 2 months ago
Is this the case of someone who loves getting married for the wedding excitement rather than being married for the life commitment excitement?
Earonn - 2 months ago
Since she's still married to the same man, you can answer your question yourself.
Load More Replies... Brandi VanSteenwyk 2 months ago
I can't be the only one thinking that there has to be soooo many other things that the money could be spent on. Make philanthropy on anniversaries a thing.
#50
My Cousin Expects Everyone To Wear These Specific Colours To The Wedding… Mob Is Deciding Whether Or Not To Object
tresgatos72 2 months ago
Is her name "Barbie", by any chance? That wedding is going to look like a "Fans of Pepto-Bismol" convention!🤮🤣
Anthony Elmore 2 months ago
Barbie and Pepto are more saturated hues than pastel.
Load More Replies... Jo Firth 2 months ago
It does say 'where possible' so maybe it wouldn't be possible? Just a suggestion.
Anthony Elmore 2 months ago
Yeah, I'm not actually seeing a problem with this entry on the list. Where possible doesn't mean you absolutely must.
Load More Replies... Brandi VanSteenwyk 2 months ago
"Pastel Formal"?? Why am I picturing a bunch of 70's-style leisure suits?
nicholas nolan 2 months ago
I mean I could probably find a tie in that coor scheme, or even a shirt, but I'm not getting a suit in that scheme to wear once.
#51
Stepmother’s Dress: Double Wedding Day
It’s been a few years but only just found this sub. At my wedding in 2018 at a registry office in Copenhagen my stepmum decided to turn up in a white lacy dress and I still can’t get over how our photos look like we had a double wedding… apparently she had a navy dress she was going to wear and asked my stepbrother‘s gfs opinion the night before and she pushed her into the „cream“ option.
The wedding was in the big city hall, which hosts multiple ceremonies a day with couples constantly arriving and tourists visiting the building. The most hilarious part was that there were some Chinese tourists who started taking pictures of me… and then turned and took pictures of her too!
I’ve never called her out on it and our relationship is otherwise good, but lowkey holding onto this grudge forever. Needless to say my relationship with stepbrother‘s gf though is non-existent.
#52
This Wedding Guest's Wine Stained Dress
Scrolling through Instagram stories and saw a food blogger post photos of a wedding she attended (woman on the right).
At first i swear, I thought she had a huge wine stain on her white-ish dress. I think the other woman in the photo is a bridesmaid.
Anyway, thought I would share coz I found it hilarious.
quentariel 2 months ago (edited)
No matter how much it looks like wine of blood, I think it's the design. It has brown/orange spot that might be a flower's center (forgot what it's called) and the stains might be petals and probabaly continue around the back.
tresgatos72 2 months ago
Either somebody "wined and dined" her, or she got stabbed and is bleeding to death. 🤯
Yrral Spavit 2 months ago
When your target is late and the hit does not allow you time to change for your BFFs wedding
#53
My (Now Ex) Mil Wore A White Lace Dress To My Wedding
#54
An Aunt With One Of The Worst White Dress Cases I've Seen
Yellow is her daughter and I genuinely was shocked thinking the mother had gotten remarried until I saw the rest of the photos showing she was actually a guest.
tresgatos72 2 months ago
*singing* "Red red wine, you make me feel so fine, dumped you on my mom, who was out of line"
#55
I Went To Someone Else’s Wedding Dressed Like The Bride
This was years ago but I had to share the story where I was tragically shame worthy.
I attended an Indian Wedding in the United States as a +1 to a very good friend who was going through a bad breakup and didn’t want to be around his Ex, her family, and her friends alone (same community, no way to avoid each other). Generally in Indian weddings, especially lavish ones, there’s NO WAY to upstage the Bride… But no one told me that the Bride had decided to forgo Indian attire and wear traditionally Western bridal wear. The ceremony was a small intimate, gathering between the bride, groom, and they’re immediate families. Most of us were only invited to the reception, which was MUCH LARGER with about 250 people.
We arrived about 20 mins late to the reception because of an accident near the George Washington Bridge. So there we were, entering about 10 mins after the Bride and Groom…. And me in my big puffy, WHITE AND BLUSH, very bridal looking dress. So horribly awkward that every woman who got near me glared like they wished I’d disappear. Believe me, I wanted to. I tried to stay in my seat as much as possible and only get up for things like toasts or to use the bathroom. It was so obviously Bridal looking that when I was exiting the bathrooms an old man said “oh excuse me, I didn’t know there was more than one wedding taking place here today”. I eventually told my friend it was best I left because the Bride didn’t deserve to feel disrespected. I asked my friend to please get her mailing information so that I could send her a big gift as my way of saying sorry and she told him “No Thanks”.
Even though it wasn’t on purpose, that day, I was definitely TA
Pic for reference
PunnyPanda 2 months ago
Still, why? Who wears that, in any color, as a plus one in the first place? Seriously, am I missing something?
Stardust she/her 2 months ago
In Indian weddings the bride typically wears red and it’s rather common for guests to wear this type of lehenga. I’m sure the reason OP wore that colour was because it suited them and they actually look very pretty in it
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This Is For Their Wedding…..just Why
quentariel 2 months ago
Look more fit to a kids party, but it's her wedding after all so my opinion doesn't mattet. I hope someone told her to buy a bottle of spray warnish to ensure her artistic bottles don't get ruined.
Celtic Pirate Queen 2 months ago
Are you actually old enough to get married/drink alcohol? Pretty juvenile decor.
#57
It's Been 11 Years, And I'm Still Upset About Her Wearing White To My Wedding
Ariom Dahl 2 months ago
I get that wearing white is a no-no, but you're still upset after ELEVEN years? Truly! That's silly.
#58
Thread On Destination Wedding Resort Fees
Charlotte Ingle 2 months ago
I would not know there was an off-site fee if you didn't tell me there was an off-site fee. So no don't ask me to pay for it - or to attend your wedding. If you can't afford guests don't invite yhem
NJ P 2 months ago
Since when would a resort/hotel charge for off-site people to attend a wedding or is this a fee the bride & groom are charging?
Paige Merlin 2 months ago (edited)
Happened to us10+ years ago, no-one including the couple knew until the day of. It was Cancun and everyone purposefully stayed elsewhere so the couple could fully enjoy their privacy at their resort.
Load More Replies... PunnyPanda 2 months ago
You signed the contract with that in the small print, girl. Sucks, yeah, but that's on you, not your guests. You're also the one that picked the venue with greedy policies in the first place.
Sally Moen 2 months ago
I think this is an educational moment for the guests. And no, do not cover the extra fee. Let them decide if they want to attend tho
nicholas nolan 2 months ago
Seems like it's an educational moment for the bride and groom, who signed the contract, not the guests.
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“Please No Comments About How This Is Rude To My Guests”
Michael Largey 2 months ago
Lubricate any exposed flesh with a clear gel to keep the body heat in. Or, just sane up.
Lisa Taylor 1 month ago
I actually thought of this for a wedding venue: Infrared heaters! Even if there is a breeze, if you have enough infrared heaters, you will be fine. Ever stand next to a bonfire or regular fire in the winter? The side facing the fire gets hot even if everything else gets cold. The heaters can be hidden from view for the guests, but still reflect on you. Groom may get a little warm, but does anyone ever *really* care about the groom?
Auntriarch 2 months ago
If you want a laugh, go to Icehotel and gawp at the weddings. I mean if ever there was an excuse to go full on ice queen with the floor length silver fox, but no, it's got to be the gownless evening strap, with the maid of honour covering up the poor silly girl with a fleece between photos.
#60
I Look For Gigs On Wedding Groups. This Is The First Time I've Seen A Fellow *visual Arts* Vendor Use AI Instead Of Their Own Work To Promote Themselves
Seadog 1 month ago
Sounds like a beginner who knows nothing about promotion/presentation. And he wonders why no one books him. Another case of someone deciding to create a business from something they enjoy doing but have no business sense. Friend of mine lost millions when his business failed all because he went from doing the actual work which he's great at to trying to run the business which he knows little about.
quentariel 2 months ago
This looked really great adverticement to me, before reading the title and actually looking properly. Idea is still good though.
#61
The Brides MIL 🤦♀️ Not A Real Surprise To Anyone LOL
tresgatos72 2 months ago (edited)
The dress is bad enough, but the denim vest over it just makes her look like one of Kid Rock's ex-girlfriends.🙄🤮
#62
Asking For Food $ 5 Days Before Wedding
Charlotte Ingle 2 months ago
While charging guests is tacky, I kinda get this. At least the amount is in line with (or Maybe less than) the cost of feeding people as opposed to "fund our honeymoon and spa days"
Anthony Elmore 2 months ago
Honestly, it's not a bad price. I wouldn't mind paying it.
Load More Replies... Fellfromthemoon 2 months ago (edited)
So, if I understand well, the couple doesn't charge for the wedding participation. If the guests want/need to arrive early and/or stay after the wedding, then the guests are not on their own, but their accommodation and food is taken care of, for a really low price. This is not tacky, this is very much helpful and caring, especially if the aforementioned guests don't need the caring because of a fancy destination wedding, but because one family is local and the other has to travel to the wedding.
Stephanie A Mutti 2 months ago
They are providing food for the weekend for $25? That is really generous. OR you can go fend for yourself somewhere,,,
#63
Acquaintance I Met Once Freaks Out About Attending My Wedding
Scarlett O'Hara's Ghost 2 months ago
This isn't freaking out. This is obviously someone who's been treated like family for a good part of her life due to some horrible things that happened when she was young. Bride sounds snotty and dismissive while the girl just wants to be last 5 on any small way
NJ P 2 months ago
Usually anyone can attend the wedding ceremony as it doesn't cost you extra.
Otto Katz 2 months ago
you are right. Church (if they are getting married in a church) is open to anyone, it is a public affair. reception is private.
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murmelinpaiva 2 months ago
I got married in a church, way back in the day, and there were lots of people (probably church members) attending who had not been formally invited to the ceremony. A church wedding is a community event. The reception party was elsewhere.
Auntriarch 2 months ago
In UK you cannot deny anyone access to a church wedding, people could literally just think oh look a wedding, and enter the church. It probably doesn't happen much though
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What do you think ?
Kathy Brooke 2 months ago
I'm always Mystified by these. Dress code for my wedding was "whatever makes you feel good about yourself" (denim, posh frock, full clergy, furry...) and gift code was "donation for the food bank", your local or ours. We had folk who couldn't afford much turn up with a couple of tins of beans. I was the best fun ever.
quentariel 2 months ago
Sounds really beautiful and fun wedding. These mystify me too, as I've never been a wedding with a strict dress code, a wedding where there was a cost to participate or demand for gifts. In the end Finnish weddings are usually significantly more relaxed and focused on being together instead of everything materialistic.
Load More Replies... Ellinor she/they/elle 2 months ago
Downvote me if you want but I think that not wearing white for 1 day on the 365 ones there is in a year is not that much of a big deal. I mean you can wear white the day before, the day after, and even everyday of the year except this one, it's not that hard.
Mike Barrette 2 months ago
These kind of lists are fun, but I would have enjoyed it more if it was half as long without all the 'MIL in a white dress' entries.
Sarah 2 months ago
Where are the posts from the grooms demanding free stuff/ ordering the grooms not to cut their hair / telling guests what colour they can/ cannot wear, demankng mkney for honeymoon etc
Anthony Elmore 2 months ago
Oh it most definitely happens, but in general the wedding is less idealized for men. I think? To be honest, I'm still trying to wrap my mind around the concept of someone being upset that someone else wore a white dress to the wedding. It's been explained, and I get the logic, but I can't picture myself. Partially because my dress would obviously just be better anyways, but also because I think for a lot of guys, the ceremony itself is important, but the extra planning and finicking over details actually takes away from the experience. Think it's somewhere in the camp of the argument that if you spend your vacation taking photos, you're missing the vacation.
Load More Replies... Seadog 1 month ago
I can't believe there wasn't one single entry about someone popping the question at a wedding. Which in my book is the dumbest place of all to propose. (other than maybe a funeral. That could be a tie) Why not propose as a tsunami or pyroclastic cloud approaches, it'd be about as stupid.
1LittleGranny64 2 months ago
I suspect my retired husband and I could make a decent amount of income renting ourselves out to carry supersoakers filled with red wine at weddings. Not the bride but chose to wear a white dress? Not on our watch!
Funhog 2 months ago
Hire a clown for your own wedding who is instructed to follow around the clownish guests who choose to wear white/wedding dresses to a wedding. Clown can even point at and relentlessly laugh at them until they're no longer having fun trying to ruin someone else's wedding. Hire another person to take bets on how long those guests stay. 🤡
Austzn 2 months ago
I know this isn't a popular opinion but, there is no reason outside of blatant sexism to clutch your pearls over guests wearing a wedding dress but not over nearly identical suits.
Marnie 2 months ago
I think it's a circular thing. At the end of the day, it matters very little if you look at it completely objectively and clinically. However, it has become to be considered rude and a dig at the bride to wear a wedding-dress-looking dress to a wedding when you aren't the bride. Whether the actuality of doing such a thing really matters, what DOES matter is the disregard, disdain, and narcissism that is displayed by the person doing it. It's kind of like giving the finger. From a completely technical standpoint, you aren't doing a single thing to someone by holding up only your middle finger in their direction. But in reality, it does mean something.
Load More Replies... Kathy Brooke 2 months ago
I'm always Mystified by these. Dress code for my wedding was "whatever makes you feel good about yourself" (denim, posh frock, full clergy, furry...) and gift code was "donation for the food bank", your local or ours. We had folk who couldn't afford much turn up with a couple of tins of beans. I was the best fun ever.
quentariel 2 months ago
Sounds really beautiful and fun wedding. These mystify me too, as I've never been a wedding with a strict dress code, a wedding where there was a cost to participate or demand for gifts. In the end Finnish weddings are usually significantly more relaxed and focused on being together instead of everything materialistic.
Load More Replies... Ellinor she/they/elle 2 months ago
Downvote me if you want but I think that not wearing white for 1 day on the 365 ones there is in a year is not that much of a big deal. I mean you can wear white the day before, the day after, and even everyday of the year except this one, it's not that hard.
Mike Barrette 2 months ago
These kind of lists are fun, but I would have enjoyed it more if it was half as long without all the 'MIL in a white dress' entries.
Sarah 2 months ago
Where are the posts from the grooms demanding free stuff/ ordering the grooms not to cut their hair / telling guests what colour they can/ cannot wear, demankng mkney for honeymoon etc
Anthony Elmore 2 months ago
Oh it most definitely happens, but in general the wedding is less idealized for men. I think? To be honest, I'm still trying to wrap my mind around the concept of someone being upset that someone else wore a white dress to the wedding. It's been explained, and I get the logic, but I can't picture myself. Partially because my dress would obviously just be better anyways, but also because I think for a lot of guys, the ceremony itself is important, but the extra planning and finicking over details actually takes away from the experience. Think it's somewhere in the camp of the argument that if you spend your vacation taking photos, you're missing the vacation.
Load More Replies... Seadog 1 month ago
I can't believe there wasn't one single entry about someone popping the question at a wedding. Which in my book is the dumbest place of all to propose. (other than maybe a funeral. That could be a tie) Why not propose as a tsunami or pyroclastic cloud approaches, it'd be about as stupid.
1LittleGranny64 2 months ago
I suspect my retired husband and I could make a decent amount of income renting ourselves out to carry supersoakers filled with red wine at weddings. Not the bride but chose to wear a white dress? Not on our watch!
Funhog 2 months ago
Hire a clown for your own wedding who is instructed to follow around the clownish guests who choose to wear white/wedding dresses to a wedding. Clown can even point at and relentlessly laugh at them until they're no longer having fun trying to ruin someone else's wedding. Hire another person to take bets on how long those guests stay. 🤡
Austzn 2 months ago
I know this isn't a popular opinion but, there is no reason outside of blatant sexism to clutch your pearls over guests wearing a wedding dress but not over nearly identical suits.
Marnie 2 months ago
I think it's a circular thing. At the end of the day, it matters very little if you look at it completely objectively and clinically. However, it has become to be considered rude and a dig at the bride to wear a wedding-dress-looking dress to a wedding when you aren't the bride. Whether the actuality of doing such a thing really matters, what DOES matter is the disregard, disdain, and narcissism that is displayed by the person doing it. It's kind of like giving the finger. From a completely technical standpoint, you aren't doing a single thing to someone by holding up only your middle finger in their direction. But in reality, it does mean something.
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