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OCDRobot • upvoted 37 items 10 months ago

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People Share The Strangest Unexplainable Things That Have Happened To Them

I've got goosebumps

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

@Aliquid A, well if his first reaction is to get mad and post about it on internet, I guess its hard to share anything with him.

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

I don't understand that why a stay at home spouse is called or considered a free loader. My mom was is a stay at home person but she took care of the household. If anyone feels that a stay at home spouse is lazy, then just imagine this lazy person takes care of all the work, cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing the clothes, ensuring the house expenses r well under control, everyone in the house is eating healthy, is healthy, all the groceries r full n available. The management of house is equally hard as is doing a job. May be the above couple is not compatible. But please donot underestimate one spouse just because he/she is not getting money on table. If one spouse takes up the whole responsiblity of the house n other is the earning member, then it is still a balance. It should be the choice of both the people in the relationship as to who and how they want the balance.

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

If I earned enough for my partner to do this, I would totally support them staying home! God, imagine not having to worry about groceries or keeping track of when the cat needs it's checkup,or all the annoying grownup stuff that ears into your time off.

50 Of The Best History Memes For Anyone Wanting To Learn More About Our Past

lol, the 250 still won't even cover the cost of one book.

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

I wish I could afford a house wife..imagine having all your meals made and a clean home with out having to lift a finger. It's not for the "lazy".

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

I have met oodles of Europeans who turned downs better paying jobs because they preferred a nice life without stress and loads of free time over status and money. Search "work culture Europe vs USA".

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

Exactly. I took a long break from working a 9 to 5 when I got married. I was able to drive into my crafts and make money without having an overseer.

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

Yeah, instead of asking her if she is okay, he just calls her lazy. Maybe her work environment is toxic or she is depressed. How can you not have empathy for someone you supposedly love and want to marry.

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

No it's not too late. Like the guy wrote it wasn't discussed until he proposed. European has a lot to do with this because they aren't so obsessed with status and money as most Americans.

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

Guess I'm too European to get this. If your partner, regardless of their gender, wishes to stay at home because it makes them happy and you can easily afford it, why not? Some people are just not cut out for the rat race. I'm sure that after a few months, staying at home becomes boring and they'll want to get a part time job again or a job without a lot of pressure and stress or even start their own business. Not taking your partner serious makes you the asshat.

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

Is it possible to hear what she has to say? I am always cautiously interested in making sure the story as presented represents all the facts.

Viral Video Captures Landlord Complaining About "Filthy" Apartment When It's Clearly Spotless

Told you landlords aren't people.

26 People Are Sharing Obscure Facts From Their Lives That Make Others Go "The What?"

Jesus. A guy misses out one word and you accuse him of being an animal cruelty case. Kick him *out*. That's it. Performative outrage is getting pretty old.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

And while they were on their walk they were hit by a car and lost both legs, among other injuries. I mean, as long as we’re making up scenarios and all.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

Lol maybe the guests were Dutch.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

Again you are bringing up "social obligation" which is an unknown concept in Dutch culture. Let's just agree that our cultural differences are too far apart to come a consensus but the fact that in your culture as well in mine we do not feel any obligation to pay anything.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

In Dutch culture no one has the audacity to assume they have the power to control someone else's time or life. So no, in my culture "social obligation" doesn't exist and thus it is incomprehensible to me. Honoring a RSVP in my culture is nothing more than a vague promise that you maybe will or won't show up. In the end no one is going to get a bill for not showing up. You can send those bills if you want to be the risee of the town for the next few years to come, but there's absolutely no chance you'll ever collect the money you (falsely) think is owed to you.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

Not even a social obligation. There's nothing like a "social obligation". It's a pathetic attempt to lure people into mindlessly subduing themselves to some idiotic standards set by morons who think that they can control other peoples lives. You can invite me to your party. I might accept your invitation, but if I don't feel like partying on the day, I will not be present at your festivities, and there's nothing you can do about it.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

Weddings are about personal relationships. People throwing weddings like these essentially abuse those relationships to force people to come with large gifts. RSVP'ing not to come is not done, spending money you don't have is not done. If you want to have a big wedding, pay for it yourself and accept guests are there to celebrate the new marriage. They are not there to reimburse you for it. And if you live by that rule, then it all of a sudden doesn't matter if people don't show. I for one would care more about why my guests aren't there and worry. But then I don't feel like throwing money away like that is ok in any way and feel that people showing off like that are asswhipes to begin with.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

How on Earth? You know what's a jerk move in a world that's literally burning through its resources? Having lavish and overly expensive weddings to show off. They essentially force guests to pay for a party like that on the count that not showing might damage personal relationships. How is thát ok? I remember the person being "invited" to join a nephews wedding in Jamaica or somewhere else that would have cost them a lot of money they don't have. Now imagine you don't have the money to give a gift appropriate of such a lavish wedding, but not coming will hurt your relationship. Who's in the wrong to start out with? Utter, utter BS. If you want a big party, you pay for it yourself.

35 Divorce Lawyers Are Sharing The Most Ridiculous Cases In Their Careers

No not because of that. Because he immediately jumped to she's having an affair.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

If she can't afford her wedding, then she's doing it wrong.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

What kind of food were they ordering that wa 120 a plate? Sounds like an overly expensive wedding they couldn't afford themselves. You shouldn't expect others to pick up the bill to your wedding. Life happens, you can't expect everyone to show up, even with an RSVP. Though he should have at least said something if given the chance. Both parties are assholes, but the bride and groom are the bigger ones and should have stayed within a budget.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

While not warning them in advance is rude especially if they have RSVP'd, if you can't afford to invite guests then don't invite them. They are doing YOU a favor by showing up at your wedding and not the other way around. Get over yourself.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

You do realize there were probably people that showed up that weren't on the invite list right? They likely weren't denied food. Not everything revolves around this bride. None of us know why they didn't show up, maybe their dog was hit by a car. Maybe their house flooded. No matter the excuse, if you are the one holding an event that you invited people to, be prepared to pay for the event you want in the first place or don't go that big.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

Weddings are a massive scam to begin with. For $120 a plate that surf n' turf had better be gold plated. Not their fault that the couple fell for it.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

There are a lot of delusional idiots out there with lots of delusional opinions. " You have an obligation to show up." Sure, sue me for not showing up. /S

People Are Sharing The Most Laughable Excuses Not To Get The Covid Vaccine That They Saw On The Internet (50 Pics)

For some reason I can't reply to Rob Woodman so I'm gonna reply here: The vaccine protects themselves against Covid-19, but they could still get it and spread it to someone who isn't vaccinated.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

First, RSVP translates as reply please. It is a request to help you plan, no more. Second, it is no more legally binding than someone texting you they'll meet you for drinks on Saturday. Feelings may be hurt but that's because both parties think their time is worth more than the other. Third, the couple chose to spend $120 on a plate. They could have chosen 100 big Macs and bottled water. Either way its their choice, not their "guests". The only time anyone owes money or anything else for that is when they are charged beforehand for something like a charity dinner or told to bring something like a potluck. Any other time, the host is responsible for all costs and to stay within their budget. Lastly, they requested their presence to witness a civic contract. The standard rate in my state for a witness is $50. If they wish to claim that RSVP was a legally binding document for their attendance, the couple now owes every other "guest" the $50 standard fee.

35 Divorce Lawyers Are Sharing The Most Ridiculous Cases In Their Careers

Interesting comment field. All the ladies are calling him petty, pathetic, childish. All the men are wondering what she did to him to go full on Chernobyl over an ashtray of all things!

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

You are particularly salty about this matter, is it hitting you personally? Your being a bit unnecessarily aggressive imo. We all discuss it (calmly because no one here has a dog in this fight) and then you charge in there with insults. Take a couple deep breaths, it might help

35 Divorce Lawyers Are Sharing The Most Ridiculous Cases In Their Careers

Actually, I'd say everybody wins with this divorce! The wife wins, the husband wins, the wife's divorce lawyer wins, the husband's divorce lawyer wins...

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

I partially get where they are coming from. We had a backyard wedding on the 4th of July, and sent out invitations months in advance considering it was a holiday. We had a lot of people not show up. One didnt come because a friend was coming in to "town" from 30 miles away and wanted to attend a bbq with them instead. I only took it personal because everyone that didnt show up is the ones that my wife invited, and I felt bad for her and she didnt let us know until the morning of. I didnt send out invoices but was highly annoyed that I had spent money on food based on the amount of people who RSVP'ed. At the end of it, those who were meant to be there were and those are the same people we still have a great relationship with. Not because the others didnt go to the wedding but that is just how it turned out. The day was about me and her and we still had an amazing day. The others missed out on some amazing food.

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OCDRobot • commented on 3 posts 10 months ago

50 Of The Best History Memes For Anyone Wanting To Learn More About Our Past

lol, the 250 still won't even cover the cost of one book.

35 Divorce Lawyers Are Sharing The Most Ridiculous Cases In Their Careers

just imagine what that bedroom must have smelled like!

50 Of The Best History Memes For Anyone Wanting To Learn More About Our Past

lol, the 250 still won't even cover the cost of one book.

35 Divorce Lawyers Are Sharing The Most Ridiculous Cases In Their Careers

just imagine what that bedroom must have smelled like!

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

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OCDRobot • commented on 20 posts 10 months ago

50 Of The Best History Memes For Anyone Wanting To Learn More About Our Past

lol, the 250 still won't even cover the cost of one book.

35 Divorce Lawyers Are Sharing The Most Ridiculous Cases In Their Careers

just imagine what that bedroom must have smelled like!

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

50 Random But Funny Posts Shared In An Online Group Aptly Named ‘Delusions Of Adequacy’

Been watching my dad battle blackberries on his property since I was a kid. Soooo... Good luck with that.

50 Random But Funny Posts Shared In An Online Group Aptly Named ‘Delusions Of Adequacy’

The stories my hubby's aunt has told us about things found up people's butts still haunt me. Don't "slip and fall" next to light bulbs while naked, kids!

TikToker Is Sharing 15 "Culture Shocks" That She Experienced After Moving To The USA From The Philippines

Not a big deal to me! I don't even own a hair blow dryer.

TikToker Is Sharing 15 "Culture Shocks" That She Experienced After Moving To The USA From The Philippines

lol I hate pancakes, but will fry up some spam and eggs for breakfast from time to time.

People Are Sharing What Makes Them So Angry, They Can't Think Rationally Anymore (40 Posts)

ugh yes, anytime my niece is over she's watching that crap and it's just annoying loud noise from grown man-babies.

People Are Sharing What Makes Them So Angry, They Can't Think Rationally Anymore (40 Posts)

You have to be such a freaking scumbag to do that s**t. It's easier to leave it in the car, but you choose to actively make things around you worse.

This Online Group Has People Sharing Only The Most Blessed Pics And It's Like Internet Heaven (50 Pics)

I wonder if they used a mold to create that. It's just so perfect.

30 Movies That People Didn’t Think Were Cringey Until They Rewatched Them As Adults, Shared In This Online Community

Teen Witch definitely belongs on this list! Loved it as a kid, tried to re-watch it a few years ago and had to turn it off. The level of cringe was off the charts.

Bride Wants Her Stepdaughter To Cut Her Hair For The Wedding, Is Livid When The Stepdaughter Refuses

So if someone could just punch that lady in the face and kick that dad in the balls... that'd be great.

30 People Are Sharing The Best Moments When Rich Kids Were Hit By The Real World

Props to the employees for not catering to his childish ass.

Man Makes To-The-Point Videos About Common Women’s Issues, And Here Are 50 Of His Best Insights

Wow, there's a handful of guys in these comments that needed to take these lessons to heart... and they totally didn't.

30 Couples Share Things They Realized Only After Moving In Together

Duh? Men only need it for #2... Women have to have it for 1, 2 and periods. It's pretty obvious to see why we need more.

Bride Shares Screenshots Of Cruel Texts She Received From Her MIL Who Said She’ll Be Wearing An Actual Wedding Dress To The Ceremony

Omg finally one where the fiance stands up to his terrible mother instead of just caving to it! I think this is the first one I've ever read where the son wasn't trying to placate the mother at the sake of his partner. The level of relief I had when I read his texts. Wow.

Woman Feels 'Violated' When A Man Uses A Gender Neutral Bathroom In Front Of Her

She's just looking for something to be mad about. If it really bothered her, she would have either left, or would have used a strictly woman's room in the first place. It's like being offended there's pecan ice cream at an ice cream shop because you don't like nuts. That's how stupid this is.

Photographer Breaks 43 Of The Most Ridiculous Laws In America, And It's Hilarious

Someone took 'painting the town red' too literally once I guess.

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories)

Sounds like he's not pulling any weight in the relationship if that's what he's worried about here.

Woman Receives An Accidental Email From Her Potential Employer Calling Her ‘Not That Cute’

Why is it always a guy that looks like a potato passing judgement on women's looks?

OCDRobot • upvoted 20 items 10 months ago

30 Spot-On Reactions To Outdated Abortion Restrictions In Texas

When were we EVER at the point that women had control over their own bodies?!

30 Spot-On Reactions To Outdated Abortion Restrictions In Texas

"Get to a point"? You've always been at that point!

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50 Of The Best History Memes For Anyone Wanting To Learn More About Our Past

lol, the 250 still won't even cover the cost of one book.

People Share The Strangest Unexplainable Things That Have Happened To Them

I've got goosebumps

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

I have met oodles of Europeans who turned downs better paying jobs because they preferred a nice life without stress and loads of free time over status and money. Search "work culture Europe vs USA".

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

No it's not too late. Like the guy wrote it wasn't discussed until he proposed. European has a lot to do with this because they aren't so obsessed with status and money as most Americans.

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

I wish I could afford a house wife..imagine having all your meals made and a clean home with out having to lift a finger. It's not for the "lazy".

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

Exactly. I took a long break from working a 9 to 5 when I got married. I was able to drive into my crafts and make money without having an overseer.

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

Is it possible to hear what she has to say? I am always cautiously interested in making sure the story as presented represents all the facts.

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

@Aliquid A, well if his first reaction is to get mad and post about it on internet, I guess its hard to share anything with him.

Woman Tells Her Fiancé She Wants To Be A Stay-At-Home Wife, And They Get Into A Heated Argument

26 People Are Sharing Obscure Facts From Their Lives That Make Others Go "The What?"

Jesus. A guy misses out one word and you accuse him of being an animal cruelty case. Kick him *out*. That's it. Performative outrage is getting pretty old.

Viral Video Captures Landlord Complaining About "Filthy" Apartment When It's Clearly Spotless

Told you landlords aren't people.

"Make Me Suffer": 40 Of The Most Painful Images Posted By This Online Community

we found the person with the Live, Love, Laugh sign, guys!

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

And while they were on their walk they were hit by a car and lost both legs, among other injuries. I mean, as long as we’re making up scenarios and all.

Person Gets A $240 Invoice From A Couple For Doing A "No-Show" At Their Wedding, It Sparks A Debate Online

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