The savage art of the comeback is something that we should all take the time and dedication to master. There are very few things in life as satisfying as completely and utterly decimating someone with your wit, your snappiness, and your banter. And if you throw some good old-fashioned logic and common sense into the mix? Whew, you’re a legend.
The place that celebrates these “well-constructed put-downs, comebacks, and counter-arguments” is the legendary ‘Murdered By Words’ subreddit. Boasting a whopping 2.5 million members, r/MurderedByWords shares the best comebacks that we all wish we came up with ourselves. And, well, during the actual arguments, not days later while we’re shampooing our hair in the shower.
One of the moderators helping manage the vast r/MurderedByWords community answered some of my questions about the community. "The way we see it, a murder should (but doesn't always have to) be more than a quick response or retort. The best murders are well-constructed, thought-out responses that leave the opening argument completely without any ability to reply. In other words, their point has been totally demolished," the mod explained to Bored Panda.
"Now, obviously there's more than one way to murder with words, and sometimes a quick rapier thrust or stab to the heart (a short, swift reply) can be just as deadly as a drawn-out murder, and you'll frequently see both types in this sub," they added. Scroll down for the moderator's insights about how they and their colleagues tackle the challenges that come with managing such a large online community.
Check out the best online verbal put-downs, upvote the ones that impressed you the most, and be sure to give r/MurderedByWords a follow if you’re a fan of their stuff. When you’re done with this article, you’ll find some more inspiration for your future epic comebacks by checking out our previous features of the subreddit here, here, and here. Somebody call the police and the coroner because these ‘word-murders’ are out of control.
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Red Shirts Everywhere...
I Think This Belongs Here Too
Women Aren't People, Apparently
The moderator representing r/MurderedByWords shared with me that they have a very thorough vetting system in place for new mods. "We manage the community by being a tight-knit group of moderators who are all carefully vetted before being given the position, to ensure the stability of the subreddit and that good content gets through," they said. However, it's not just the mods who decide whether or not a comeback can be classified as a 'murder.' That honor is also given to the community members themselves.
"Overall, we believe in letting the subreddit determine what is or isn't a murder, and try to step in or remove posts only when the rules are broken or we see the same post for the gazillionth time," the mod explained.
According to the moderator, the community has its own challenges, just like any other large subreddit. "Every single post will always have someone who says, 'Not a murder,' 'This sub is dying/dead,' 'Mods suck,' etc. That comes with the territory of any subreddit, from smallest to largest," they told Bored Panda that these sorts of comments are completely unavoidable, no matter what the community might be. However, a bigger issue is... politics.
Yes, The Answer Is Yes
Who Doesn't Love Irony?
Far Too Many People See The Answer To This As Being "Yes"
"Another challenge that came up was when we decided before the US Presidential Elections to ban politics from the sub (there is a sticky at the top of the subreddit outlining what is/isn't allowed). Somehow, we managed to have both sides of the political spectrum pissed off at us for that one. Democrats complaining we had caved to the Republicans who kept getting 'owned,' and Republicans complaining because this was one big left-wing [echo chamber] and now they couldn't even respond with their own posts. We then made the ban permanent, but we still have to remove plenty of posts which fit the criteria for the no-politics rule."
But at the core of it all are practical challenges like finding ways to keep the subreddit growing and full of fresh content that will keep redditors happy. "We're lucky in that we frequently create posts that reach the front page and receive tens of thousands of upvotes (many have even passed the 100k upvote mark), which in turn helps draw attention to the sub, which creates more content, etc."
The Media Makes It To Be A Feel Good Story Over A Dystopian Nightmare
You’re An Asstrovert
Let’s All Make A Pledge
Nearly two years ago, I had a friendly chat with redditor Xor50, who’d been one of the moderators helping run r/MurderedByWords. They told me a bit about the community that has been running since December 2016, the type of content the subreddit features (and how it differs from similar subreddits like r/clevercomebacks), and how to give your put-down more substance.
“A ‘real murder’ in terms of this subreddit would be [this]: A murder should be a response to something or someone that totally, for lack of a better word, destroys them. They are, of course, subjective, and should be more or less based on fact,” Xor50 told Bored Panda previously.
Don't B Confused
More C-19 Experts..
Am I So Out Of Touch? No, It's The Children Who Are Wrong
“What is the difference between a ‘murder’ and ‘burn’ anyway? The mod team and even the MBW community has struggled for over a year to try and define the difference. It’s quite subjective and nearly an ‘I know it when I see it!’ situation, however, there are some generalities,” the redditor explained that there have been debates about the details of what constitutes a ‘murder.’
“Murders tend to be longer. It’s nearly impossible to ‘murder’ someone inside of a tweet. It’s just not long enough. You can burn them pretty good yes but a ‘murder’ is far more complete,” they said.
“Basically, anything that you would think is a witticism, one-liner, snappy comeback, or hot take is going to be a burn. Those may be a better fit for /r/clevercomebacks. Murders tend to be long-form, taking a minute or several to read, and thoroughly deconstruct an argument and/or the person making it.”
Columbus Day
🤣 That reply has some zing to it, anyone know where I can find that spcie?
Murdered By Wit
I Like The Second Guy’s Energy
Xor50 added that your personal passion for a topic can help inspire you to find a clever way to put down someone’s bad arguments. “Think about a topic you’re really passionate about and imagine you’re talking to an idiot who just doesn’t get it. That’s how I imagine it,” they said.
The art of the comeback isn’t out of reach for us, no matter how epic and unreachable some of these slap-backs and roasts might seem.
Classic Karen
Yeah, That'll Work
That’s Got To Hurt
British comedy writer and stand-up comedian Ariane Sherine explained to me during an earlier interview what the most important parts of a comeback are. “I think the most important thing with comebacks is speed. Even if the joke isn't a total zinger, people will be impressed by your quickfire response," she told Bored Panda.
According to Ariane, most stand-up comics actually have a “repertoire of comebacks” that they rely on while on the stage. This way, they can be prepared for hecklers and (at least some) unexpected situations. There’s a lot of prep that goes into being a good comedian!
“We're not all as fast and talented as it seems! But if we're doing stand-up, our own routines will be original—it's just heckle putdowns that might not be," she said.
How Dare We Give You The Correct Amount Of Changes
Bit Of A Stretch
What's with people and body hair? If you like body hair, good for you. If you don't, also good for you. No need to body shame someone for something that occurs naturally. It's like insulting someone for having legs. I'm looking at you, female beauty standards
Seriously What Is Wrong With You
Ariane revealed to Bored Panda that comedy professionals build up emotional resilience with time and experience.
“Heckle putdowns are generally shared among comics so there's no code of honor when it comes to using them (but you mustn't nick original stand-up material!),” Ariane told me where we can find some inspiration for clever comebacks.
Good Luck To The Women In Your Future
Entitled Karen Getting Stabbed By Words
Get Wrecked...
The comedy writer also pointed out that comebacks can either be spontaneous or more planned out (if you’ve got the time), depending on the actual comic.
"It [the comeback] needs to be very fast, well-timed, and take people by surprise as well as being clever, witty, and immediately understandable,” she said, adding that it’s relatively rare in her experience to have spontaneous eruptions of genius all the time. “That's relatively rare in my experience. I'm sure many other comics are more natural than I am!"
Research Before You Sprouts Anything On Social Media
Better Check Those Facts
Handle With Care
'As a man, the only emotion you should show is forest hack-saw domination', said, a conservative.
Why Go Out Of Your Way To Be An As**ole?
This Doubles As A Til About The Spanish Anthem
Once Wasn't Enough, He Came Back For More
Rip Sportsball Fan
I completely support LGBTQ rights because LGBTQ people are the same as us heterosexuals, they just have different romantic preferences. They don't deserve to be treated as less than us...
God vs. Humanity
Trying To Gatekeep Conversations
What the actual f*ck is the original poster thinking? This must be one of the stupidest things I have ever read.
I've Had A 32" TV For Longer Than I'd Like To Admit
Oh, No! Anything But That!
US heath insurance is a scam... And textbooks are a scam... And minimum wage is a scam... Basically everything is a scam
The Ol' Switcheroo
Who Ever Will Fight A Wolf ?
But How Will They Make Money If They Can't Take Advantage Of People?!??
What Are Crab Cakes?
Eh, he started it by asking the question in a rude way. Can’t blame Americans for that.
*Insultingly asks a question that could easily be Googled* *gets responses in similar "tone"* "WAHHHHH AMERICANS ARE MEAN"
I hadn’t even realised crab cakes were a US thing; I’m an old lady in the U.K. and they’ve been around here all my life. Then there’s Thai crab cakes; I’d put money on anywhere with a coastline having something similar, so yeah it was a silly question. Slightly off topic but my mam was sacked from her first job in the 30s for putting too much fish in the fish cakes.
Load More Replies...Then just ask “what are crabcakes?” without the attitude. You’d probably have gotten a friendly reply, with a description and maybe even a recipe to boot. But the initial question was asked in the offensive, so was naturally answered in the (rather droll) defensive. I mean, what else did you expect? So why would you then double down with a long and even more offensive diatribe attacking the character of an entire country, because of the name they gave to ONE type of dish they eat?
Wow, that's a lot of anger over what was essentially the correct answer.. A cake is anything compressed into a flat form ---- soap, crabs, chocolate-sugar-and-flour with frosting on top, whatever.
Don't forget urinal (although you don't see them as often as you used too).
Load More Replies...Had a customer today at the deli I work at (in Minnesota) ask what Tatertot Hotdish was. Like, what was in it and such. He was Somalian, so I get it. Told him what was in ours there, and he said it sounded good, but asked if I personally liked Tatertot Hotdish. I told him that I'm biased, since I'm Minnesotan born and raised, but ya. He decided to try it. Came back 30 minutes later and told me that he will be telling his family about this great food, and thanked me for helping him. Best part of my day, no lie.
Nice! Nice you, nice customer, nice interaction! Would have made my day too.
Load More Replies...It's almost like this dude flaming American cuisine doesn't have access to Google. How tough for him.
Wow... uses presumptuousness to "burn" a presumptuous American. The U.S. isn't the only country in the world where "cake" refers to a baked food of a particular consistency and which is not necessarily sweet.
Especially considering... "The origin of fishcakes is said to be in England in the 19th century when the leftover fish was mixed with potato, dipped in batter was fried and served as snack"
Load More Replies...This dude got way too angry about crab cakes...calm down man, there are real things to be angry about.
Mohammed, try behaving like an aspiring adult and not a pissy little brat throwing foul-mouthed tantrums because you fail to grasp our language.
Hell, I always wondered the same thing. Why the hell is it called a cake and not a patty?
Because then it would be a "crabby patty" and mister crabs would sue for copyright infringement
Load More Replies...What a weird thing to get pissed about. Both of them need to simmer down.
A crab cake is a variety of fishcake that is popular in the United States. It is composed of crab meat and various other ingredients, such as bread crumbs, mayonnaise, mustard, eggs, and seasonings. The cake is then sautéed, baked, grilled, deep fried, or broiled.
Load More Replies...Um no. 'cake' is about the form, not ingredients or taste. A sand cake is a cake.
The arrogance of some Americans. In Canada we also have crab or fish cakes. The protein, blended with spices, onions and potatoes and/or other vegetables. Can be breaded. Deep fried or pan fried. Can be baked. Yum. Because of the way they are made, they're referred to as cakes. Pretty sure they originated in Britain. You could also try with hamburger, but that's usually put in a big shallow pan with meat on the bottom and potatoes on top. Usually a rectangular pan. That one we call shepherd's pie. It's not usually breaded. With chicken or beef or turkey, cooked in a crust, it's called a pot pie. All good. Hope this'll help.
I don't know... I recently bought a Betty Crocker "Fishy Cake with Claws" mix to make for my nephew's birthday. You can get ANYTHING in America.
I'm gonna throw the flag on this - every culture does this , try going to Egypt and asking "What the f**k is humus ?"
I guess what this person needs to understand is that "cake" usually describes the format the dish resembles and not the ingredients. Also we dont usually care what you think or why you are confused because from one coast to another, Americans will call the same recipe by a different name. Pro tip: Look at the description of the dish or ingredients before ordering.
And all of that over a freakin crab cake.... excuse me I think I'll go do something important like pretend I didn't just read that
Mohammed, Please stay where ever you are located until you learn how to use an English dictionary or "Google" to look up nouns like the word cake.. And Yes we Americans Do think that we are the center of the universe for good reason. Oh, you can look that last statement up also.
What about fishcakes? (I live in the UK and wish our fish fingers were called 'fish sticks', because that makes more sense. Tired of people saying they didn't know fish have fingers!)
Where does he live? He writes like a native English speaker and we have fish cakes in UK.
Crab cakes are awesome, BTW. Says this guy who had has them in Maryland.
cake can have multiple meanings. The term cake is very much correct here. Now let me ask you this "WHAT THE HECK DO BRIT'S DEFINE AS A PUDDING ALSO SPOTTED D**K". Sorry great british baking show been doing me a confuse on the pudding. Also what is spotted D**k and why.
wait, does that mean he ate urinal cakes and found that they are sweet?
But I mean.... The first reply is better than his rage rant. Im Swedish and if someone said crab cake I would assume its a cake with crab in it.
Cakes don't mean sweet, though. Your own world view is coloring this more than the people who say crab cakes...which aren't only American. I realize it is easy to attack American as wrong instead of different. Reality is so much less lazy.
Kind of similar but not, I refuse to eat meatloaf because it just sounds unappetizing. I’ve heard I’m not missing mush so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Why wouldn't you just describe it politely, though? I don't get this kind of behavior.
The question was asked in a rude, confrontational tone. The asker got what he gave, and deserved it.
Load More Replies...Behave like you're a fraction of the world and not the whole thing. Yes, brother. This.
Because no other English-speaking country uses the term "cake" to describe something that isn't sweet and flour-based. /s
Load More Replies...I feel for this guy. I hate it when people shame me for asking something I really want to learn about.
Then he should have asked more politely. When someone gives me attitude, I'm going to give it right back.
Load More Replies...I would had described crab cakes as basically flattened hushpuppies with crab pieces in them.
There used to be a brand of comfortable older people's shoe called Hush puppies. Shall we mess with his mind some more
Load More Replies...Pizza *isn't* pie. I have no idea why Americans think that it is.
Load More Replies...You can Google plenty of Maryland crab cake recipes and educate yourself if you like.
Load More Replies...100% on his side. While I do know what "crab cakes" are, I wouldn't consider for a moment that they're anything like "cakes" in the normal term any more than "black pudding" from the UK is anything like American "pudding".
But we have fish cakes. It's not a big leap. Unless you are spoiling for a scrap, as this chap clearly was
Load More Replies...Doctor Of Reading?
Sounds like the symptoms of covid...so people without vaccination tend to get covid symptoms ... Who'd ave guessed?
I Don’t Really Know If This Counts But..
1) why would you be this pretentious in the first place 2) why would you be so pretentious on a god damn memes page...
Just So We’re Clear
It's Almost As If
You Can't Justify Her Actions No Matter What
He was trying to create a new line of skin care products...to sell in baskets....
I Once Knew A Peacock
Why Beat Around The Bush?
I'm Pro-Control Over Women
On The Right Track
The lines look pretty straight to me. I would say that train represents everything
He Should've Been Wearing A Helmet
That's Exactly What You Are Supposed To Do
Is There Even One?
Wait, Are They Not Supposed To Do That?
He's Got A Point...
It is a shame he died, and a bigger shame that this will not be a wake up call and many more children and adults will die because of it. I mourn for those who can not be protected - for them I will continue to wear a mask and physically distance for the foreseeable future... Same thing I said March 2020 ( except now I am vaxxed).
Found On R/Whitepeopletwitter
In Canada, violent offenders can legally use the excuse of being too high or drunk to be expected to remember that they aren't allowed to assault or end other people. It's insane. The Supreme Court of Canada issued a major decision on Friday allowing criminal defendants in cases involving assault — including sexual assault — to use a defence known as self-induced extreme intoxication. https://www.google.com/amp/s/globalnews.ca/news/8832723/supreme-court-canada-extreme-intoxication/amp/
You Could Say These Facebook Moms Got Murdered By Numbers
How about: Stop posting quotes that aren't your own or co-opting them out of their context?
Be Better Or Get Roasted
Eh, social anxiety isn’t required in order to respect someone (and I say this as someone who has social anxiety.)
How To Slay A Troll…
Someone Is In Need Of Some Additional Schooling
Amendments aren't "rewrites". They are additions or deletions of specific conditions regarding the framework of the federal government.
Local Dog Warden Gets A Fakely Horrible Review; Reviewer Gets Called Out On Their Bullshit
[zany game show host] It's time to play "GUESS THE IDENTITY OF THE FAKE REVIEW!" [monotone] It's PETA.
I Never Know What To Title Cross Posts
Some People Are Just Dumb
Linus Getting Roasted By His Wife
How Dare You Work Only One Job To Support Your Family?
Extremist Vegans
Sex And The Church Have Always Gone Hand-In-Hand
Decline Of Births In The Us
Birth decline is a good thing anyway. The world is massively overpopulated.
Shots Fired. Man Down. I Repeat. Man Down
Meg Does Not Understand Sunflowers
Maybe Don't Argue With The Writer?
Nothing But A Chalk Outline At The Murder Scene
Got Eeemmmmmm
Murdered By Facts
That's A Spicy Rost
All you need to do is show the ignorant a copy of the FCC frequency spectrum allocation map. The horrible "5G" is just a teeny tiny drop in the bucket of radio traffic. https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/c7/United_States_Frequency_Allocations_Chart_2016_-_The_Radio_Spectrum.pdf
Parent Of The Year
And Then Going To A Government-Funded Burn Center
Anti-Vaxxer Thinks Vaccines Are Dangerous Drugs
The thing is those companies aren't drug dealers. They''re manufacturers. The dealers would be doctors.
Comment From A Youtube Video That Was Generalising Millenials As Instagram Addicts That Only Care About Instant Gratification
I'm Gen X. Grew up fearing immediate nuclear holocaust, Reaganomics (1991, onward), had a lifetime of savings vanish in 2008, and saw friends and family at risk 9/11 onwards, replacing USSR nukes with terrorist nukes, and somehow.... somehow! .... after all that, and being able to, y'know, function without hand-holding... We're lumped in with boomers, zoomers, and Y-ners. Did I go generationalist? Yes, to show how utterly silly it is. We all have crap. The end.
Reply Is On Point
Do you know what the typical baby (older than a newborn) does if you put a blanket over their head while they try to eat? They fling it off! Or they wave it like a flag. Or they unlatch, scream like a banshee and flail about until the blanket is on the floor. All far less "discrete" than mom just feeding her baby however they are both most comfortable.
Gravity Falls Creator Alex Hirsch Murders Disney With Words
Out Of Touch
I'm in healthcare, and yes. The Delta Variant is killing adults in my area, aged 20-50, the people who largely given a pass by the 2020 virus. GET VACCINATED!!! And even if you're vaccinated, mask indoors, socially distance, and clean your hands at every opportunity, because the virus doesn't make you 100% immune.
The Entire Race Of Karens Would Like A Word
Everyone Just Needs To Make Love, Not Warcraft
Yup. Gaming is now, and has been for years, a job and a possible career. Not the easiest one to get the ball rolling, but hey it is what it is
Bandwagon Minister Getting Burned
I Love My Grandma So Much. She Got Her Point Across Without Being Mean To The Family Friend
Protecting White Cops
That One Might Sting A Little In The Morning
Yup! But truthfully, there are anti-mask protests in Germany now, so American turd-thinkers aren’t alone.
Mighty White Of You
Well He’s Not Wrong
How To Change Earth's Orbit?
I Too Hate Freeloaders
Maths Is Hard
Was Going Through My Screenshots When I Found This. Dunno If It's Appropriate For This Sub Or Not
Wendy’s Twitter Is Savage
Apparently I Own KFC And P*rnhub
You buy a big mac, you become the owner of a big mac. Renting basically means I'm paying a lot of money to own nothing. Seriously, in a lot of places monthly rent is higher than the mortgage payments on a place, for an inferior quality product because a lot of landlords don't perform basic maintenance or respect tenants' rights.
Not To Mention She Beat Out Two Other Drivers...
You See, Mexican Goats Are More Potent Than American Goats
Lil Nas X Claps Back At Yet Another Homophobe
She Doesn't Look Ancient Egyptian To Me
A Wonderful Secret
Tell Me You Have No Idea What Crt Is Without Telling Me You Have No Idea What Crt Is
Yeah, Well, That's Just, Like, Your Opinion, Man
I don't quite get this one, the person posting with the blue banner is the idiot. HDPE fuel tanks have been used in cars for at least 25 years now and HDPE has been used to make fuel storage containers for much longer, in fact HDPE is widely used to make chemical storage containers because of its high resistance to solvants.
"That's Not Fair!! You Cheated!!" *stamps Feet And Pouts*
Too Many Actual Flesh-And-Blood People Fail The Turing Test
He's a Gay Scientist instead of a Scientist Gay because that's literally how the language works.
Much Ado About Nothing
I didn't see the word man but I did see MANner, comMANder, deMANd.
When The Nz Opposition Thinks He’s Asking Important Questions On Total Healthcare Reform
Also, Shane Reti’s party is the reason why Andrew Little and Jacinda are having to dig our healthcare system out of such a big hole, and their voters are a big part of why the progress is so slow.
New Theory: The Earth Is Made Of LEGO And We’re All Being Mind-Controlled Into Thinking It Looks Normal /S
Shaq With The Smackdown!
I'm Not A Racist Asshole, But...
Robot Bugs. No Way That Could Ever Go Wrong
Yeah, scientists, it’s your fault that the environment is in such bad shape. It’s not like you’ve been sounding the alarm for decades or anything. Clearly the reason why you’re researching backup plans is because you just don’t care, rather than because those in power aren’t acting on your findings with the urgency that is needed.
He Had No Reason To Kill That Poor Guy Like That!
By definition the US is a 3rd world country. That's not even a joke. What "we" as "developed" countries usually do is send lots and lots of food, medical help and whatnot, but we can't help those who don't want our help. Don't kid yourself, (north) America is most definitely a 3rd world country! Google it if you don't believe me. (Edit: you can't tell me people aren't starving and deprived of medical assistence)
Step 1: Open Mouth. Step 2: Insert Foot. Repeat As Necessary
Gotta Love Sports Rivalries
He's Still Looking For A Model
Holy, I Didn't Expect Discord To Hit Me That Hard
I Still Don't Know How He Had -3 Yards For A Whole 16 Game Season
I Guess Cancel Culture Only Works One Way
Cancel Culture is only good when it aims at the right people. Twitter does not aim it at the right people.
Cooking Elitism At Its Finest
Literal Chad Murders Twitch In Steam Deck Launch Tweet
An Apache Helicopter Has Machine Guns And Missiles. It Is An Unbelievably Impressive Complement Of Weaponry, An Absolute Death Machine
Straight up lying and “disagreements” aren’t the same. Lethal misinformation like “Vaccines are government tracking devices that cause autism“ is not the same as “respect someone’s gender identity“ also just you suck.
Sometimes I actually forget that so many people are so completely stupid. Thank you for reminding me because it's important to remember.
Idiots being like "BP users are just looking to get offended" while being a BP user
I had to quit reading. I've never read so many stupid, uncaring remarks in all my life!
I keep hearing Only Fans on the internet lately, but I have a feeling I shouldn't bother Googling it.
Sometimes I actually forget that so many people are so completely stupid. Thank you for reminding me because it's important to remember.
Idiots being like "BP users are just looking to get offended" while being a BP user
I had to quit reading. I've never read so many stupid, uncaring remarks in all my life!
I keep hearing Only Fans on the internet lately, but I have a feeling I shouldn't bother Googling it.