“What Would You Warn Someone Before They Got Your Type Of Pet?”: 46 Honest Tips From Our Community
Pets can bring endless joy, companionship, and sometimes chaos into our lives—but every type of animal comes with its own surprises. Some challenges are obvious, while others only show up after you’ve welcomed them into your home.
So, I asked the Bored Panda community: What would you warn someone about before they got your type of pet? From quirky habits to unexpected responsibilities, their answers reveal the truth behind life with furry, feathery, or scaly friends—and might make you think twice before adopting.
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When you adopt a dog, it's for the rest of their life, not just whenever you stop finding them fun. If you aren't going to commit to caring for a dog properly—providing fresh food and water daily, regular yearly vet visits and vaccinations, treating them as part of the family, and emergency visits as needed—then don't get one.
And please, for the love of whatever is holy, research your breeds. If you pick a working breed then expect it to want to work.
Someone I knew liked running 10k a day, and then focusing on work. After a lot of thought he got a lurcher - a dog that enjoys a burst of exercise and then happily flops. They're so well suited.
Load More Replies...For years I said I'd get a dog when I retired. Then I retired and three separate people who know me well sat me down to explain that I was in love with the idea of having a dog, not the reality of having a dog. They were right so I got a kitten instead. One year old next week. Spooky-9-2...a3516e.jpg
Yeah, be prepared to think thoroughly about it and accept it when the answer is: not yet / not at all. There are many nice pets out there (your lovely kitten, for example).
Load More Replies...And if you are elderly just looking to get a dog for companionship, be sure you are physically able to take it for walks, bend over to pick up its waste, and clean up the floor and house of all its fur. And of course, be able to lift the dog in case you need to get it to the vet in an emergency.
Don’t forget taking care of them when they get old and slow down instead of wanting to play all the time. We are ALL going to get old one day and slow down and not want to play all the time. That doesn’t mean we don’t still have value and don’t matter to our family, just because we have aches and pains and can’t keep up anymore. You adopt an animal for THEIR ENTIRE LIFE, which is only a fraction of your own life. If you can’t make them happy until the day they pass on, then you should never bring them home in the first place. Let someone who will fulfill ALL their needs their whole life adopt them.
My baby (Rat terrier) is no trouble at all. Peace everybody ❤️
When you have a dog, that dog only has you. Their whole life comes directly or indirectly from you. All their relationships, all their companionship, their work, their play, their education, their stability, their home. You choose if they have other dogs and other people in their lives to help fill those needs. Everything in their life depends on you.
AND TRAINING. For the love of God, train your dog. Teach them how to walk on a leash. Make sure they are well socialized. And research, research, research. A lot of breeds have been selected for years to do a specific job. That job may be running miles per day. Or barking at intruders.
A friend of ours only adopts elderly dogs and gives them a few more quality of life years. His last one died recently. She was a ten year old Labrador that was given up and replaced by a puppy because she wasn’t fun anymore. He gave her three more loving years before she succumbed to cancer.
Ferrets. Cute, funny, playful, affectionate. BUT… too intelligent for their own good and safety. They have the intelligence of a toddler and are extraordinary problem solvers. They are never reliably litter-box trained. If you allow them into a room once, they will always want back in—sometimes digging through carpet and padding just to squeeze under the door.
They steal and stash things. Females mostly create secret food stashes, like in dresser drawers. Males go for socks and similar items. They must inspect the bottom of every cup, full or empty, often tipping it over to do so.
And the scariest part: if they escape the house, they are brave and bold enough to approach any other animal—size be damned—to say “howdy.” The terror of not being able to find your little carpet shark after checking the whole house and running around outside calling for them… then you come back inside, and there they are, sleepily blinking at you, wondering what all the excitement was about.
100%. I have had several ferrets, and I would like to add this: they will steal, and break, your heart. When they pass on, it hurts like holy hell, especially if they were unwell. It hurts so much to see your hyper-hyper fuzzy slow down. They don't live long enough, which is terribly unfair. And they ARE NOT RODENTS. They CANNOT eat ''rabbit food''; they need MEAT. I cringe to think of how much I spent on fresh beef roasts, which I would slice up at home into tiny pieces and freeze in zip-loc bags, and top-quality dry cat food, and, for a treat, pet milk. I don't begrudge a single cent but I willingly admit ferrets are expensive. They need lots of room, they can't be confined in a cage. You need to have AT LEAST TWO ferrets at all times. You MUST have a female ferret desexed, or when in heat she will become anaemic and there's a very real possibility she could die from that, unless she is ma ted. They are an absolute delight, if you have the time, space, patience, money, and willingness.
I don't have any at this point but what I really miss is making the bed or changing the sheets with weasel assistance.
Load More Replies...Carpet shark! ❤️ That does sound kind of terrifying though. Brave little things for their size. Is it true that they have a bad smell? I've heard people complaining about it (I suppose as an owner of ferrets, you might be accustomed to their scent, though) but frankly, all pets smell of something (everyone smells of *something*!) so no judgement!
If you purchase from a reputable breeder, your ferret will come neutered and descented. You never (trust me) never want an intact ferret as a pet. Females go into heat and never come out of it unless bred. Eventually it will end your pet. And males will stink and spray.
Load More Replies...I had two, Tas and Hoff. Pretty much all true. They will have a stash and steal nearly anything. The trick is finding it, taking back what you need, but never all of it. Let them have the odds and ends that fascinate them. If you take everything then you have to find the new place they're stashing stuff. Also, ferrets don't live very long, about 10 years. One thing is for certain, they will lighten up your day with their batshit antics. Also, nothing is ferret-proof.
I've wanted a ferret as a pet for as long as I can remember, but ferrets are illegal to have as pets in California :( I really wish that they were allowed as long as they could be imported from another state/area already spayed/neutered! (Since the major concern, I guess, is intact pet ferrets escaping captivity and breeding in the wild and decimating our native small-animal population.)
I live in CA and found a ferret in my driveway. spent some time finding the owner by placing an ad on a hypothetical ferret owner's site , about a hypothetical ferret I hypothetically found
Load More Replies...Excellent points all. You'll never meet a cuter kleptomaniac. Ours tried HARD to drag the mop under the dishwasher.
We had several ferrets when I was young and I always thought they were very reliable with using a litterbox.
I love them think they’re adorable but I just cannot get past the smell…even descented they have a distinct odor.
Chihuahuas are more than an accessory. They are very smart but stubborn and usually bond with one person more than the whole family. Be prepared for health issues—my first one had teeth problems and then heart issues, and my current one is suffering from tracheal collapse, even though I only use harnesses and never a collar.
But they are incredible companions, loving to be next to you and to touch you. Lexie loves to sit on my chest and put her face in front of mine, which makes watching TV a bit tricky.
They need to know that you are in charge; otherwise, they try to take control, which can lead to aggressive or bitey behavior. They have no idea how small they are and will boss larger dogs around.
Love them.
We have a Chihuahua/Papillon mix. She is cute as the proverbial button and has latched on to me very strongly. Just about turns herself inside out when I come home if I have to leave her at home. The rescue group we got her from said they usually don't list dogs like her on their webpage as "it brings out the crazies" who are looking for a fashion accessory.
Some Chihuahuas have been bred to unhealthy size, they are difformed and suffer from it. I've had three of normal size and weight (above 2,5 kg) and they never had any significant health issue except a bit of joint weakness in their old age. (Still that personality though) DO NOT BUY "TEACUP" ANIMALS, it's just cruel.
People that use any animal as an accessory are gross. I would love a Chi if I ever got a dog (or a Pom). I love the small but with personality dogs. (Not saying that other small dogs don't have a personality, but those two have always particularly interested me.)
Come see me Emilu! We’ll find you the perfect Chihuahua for you! :))
Load More Replies...I agree with this except the health problems…bad teeth are common because of how small their mouths are but is preventable with yearly cleanings, but the trachea collapse and heart problems are often hereditary conditions. You should NEVER breed a dog with a genetic history of these conditions! This is EXACTLY why my dogs are all genetically tested before I’ll consider them for breeding.
Bothb my chi's were rescues, the second one came from an a*****e home. Found out on her 1st vet check up that she was missing 5 teeth, either hit or kicked as a puppy. Poor nutrition, bad hair & ears like leather. After good food & love, beautiful coat & hair grew back on her ears. Amazing that after that bad start in life, she loves people & craves pets
Load More Replies...Picking the right breeding is essential. Chihuahuas skulls are so tiny that it often forces the skull into a domed shape with a gap in the skull. This is a major deformity and is painful for the poor wee mites. The more domed the skull, the worse.
I’m not understanding what you’re saying here Becky….there are two types of chihuahuas skulls deer head and apple head. I think you are referring to apple heads as most of them are born with a molera (soft spot). This is normal and not at all painful for the puppies. Most close by the time the pup reaches adulthood. I have two that theirs never closed. My vet has assured me that it’s normal and not a cause for concern.
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To anyone who hasn’t been around indoor pets before, such as cats or dogs, please know that they do shed. There will be cat (or dog) hair on just about every surface in your home—and on you, too.
Another important consideration, especially before adopting a cat, is to think ahead 20 years. Many cats can live that long, and some even longer.
Because of my age, I won’t be adopting cats again. I’m not sure I’ll be around in 20 years, and what will happen to them if I’m not?
Yes, I mentioned that earlier. Be aware of how old and ill you are when you get a new pet. And have emergency plans and backup people for them anyway.
I rarely just go out and "get a pet". Every animal I have was either found outside as a stray or in a poor situation. Unfortunately, at the age of 55, and not in the best of health, a couple years ago I found a mother and her three kittens eating out of a garbage can. The kittens were about four months old and terrified, but have since, after a lot of work, have come around to me. But the mother, even after all this time, is still pretty feral. There was just no way to rehome them, as not many people want cats who won't allow you to pet them. Unfortunately, you can't always plan what pets you take in. Unless you're willing to ignore animals in need.
Load More Replies...In the UK there is a charity called The Cinnamon Trust that will work with older people to bring them peace of mind about what happens to their pet after they die. They will also help if someone becomes ill and can’t look after their pet properly. Of course it is the responsible thing to do to plan ahead and not bring a long lived animal into the home at age 85, but unplanned things happen and health changes.
That's wonderful to learn about. In USA here. We need something like that for pet owners.
Load More Replies...Yes, it's very sad but I completely understand how an older person might not want to take on the responsibility. Being on my own since my wife dies last December, and now having one diabetic cat who needs injections twice a day (and indeed we'd had others needing long-term meds, just not jabs) I'm very much aware of how much they are a limiting factor. Youngest pair are four now, so I can look forward to at least another ten years with them, but after that... yeah, I'll see.
Ace, I adopted a male cat, five yrs. later discovered he was diabetic. I, too, had to jab his neck with insulin twice daily. He lived another ten yrs. But the cost of insulin climbed so high it was very difficult to afford it the last yr. Almost $100 for a months supply. Best of luck to you with your special needs kitty.
Load More Replies...The proper reply to any visitor who complains about pet hair is to warn them not to let the door hit them in the a*s on the way out.
Pet hir is like the pine needles from the Christmas tree that you’re STILL picking up in the vacuum the following July. I’m still finding single hairs, sometimes even a whisker, that were stubbornly stuck way down in the nape of the rugs, from the cats and the dog we’ve had living in this house over the past almost 20 years—-several of whom were older when we moved in, and long ago passed on.
Load More Replies...I did not want to take in my stray for precisely this reason. But now I am trying to make sure I live long enough to take care of her.
Same here. I've no family to take my two cats if/when something happens to me. There are no shelters or safe places in my area for the cats to go. I'm now a senior citizen which is so weird to say! I can never, in good conscience, adopt another pet. I have a six yr. old and a 12 yr. old to take care of as it is.
Load More Replies...Me, like an idiot, bought a cream colored rug last Saturday. My cat is blackish. Doh!
Load More Replies...Wonderful idea, if one can afford to do so. Most folks around my age are on a limited income, or a very fixed budget. Personally I'm barely able to keep my two cats properly fed & vet bills are another consideration. It all boils down to money. Some senior cats require more expensive care, and medications. All the best to anyone who can adopt pets.
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Tortoises, especially Hermanns, are escape artists—they will climb fences. They will chase you, bite your toes, and sneak up on the cats to nibble their tails.
They are complete and utter cookwombles. Needless to say, I love mine to bits.
They can also live a LONG time, and will not always be the cure little turtle in a terrarium. They will grow and grow. They’re a very long term commitment, like a parrot is, so be sure you have someone who’s pretty young and ready, willing, and able to adopt them and take good care of them for decades if something happens to you. You should do that with all your pets, of course, but especially the very long-lived ones.
An acquaintance of mine has a tortoise (not a Hermann) and he is quite a delightful pet. He lives outside in summer and inside in winter. He comes when called. Just don't paint your toenails red-- they look too much like strawberries, and he can't resist a strawberry!
All that stuff you’ve heard about Belgian Malinois? All those memes you’ve seen about the breed? Yeah. It’s true. It’s all true. You can’t handle a Malinois. You may think you can, but you can’t.
What’s that? You’ve had German Shepherds for decades, so you’re prepared? Cool, cool. But no—you still can’t handle a Belgian Malinois.
It’s like owning an F1 car as your everyday vehicle for driving to work and the grocery store. Except you can at least turn off an F1 car and take the keys out. You can’t turn off a Belgian Malinois.
...but they'll be your best friend anyway as you muddle through learning how to handle one ;) fenringus_...58bc79.jpg
It takes a lot of personality to handle a Malinois, but I think you've got this! Such a cutie! That nose !
Load More Replies...You can do careful research and get a malinois from working line (like nose work/sheep herding) instead of defense oriented. You will still get F1 car, but now you have better chances to manage the wheel, LOL. Forget the brakes, tho. They don’t exist 😂
(late reply, sorry!) Oh, I totally agree XD My heart-dog GSD was from German championship working/schutzhund lines and she was amazing. For Fenring (my Malinois) I researched my "relatively local" breeders and found one whose doggos are from working lines. He also does early stimulation/exposure on all the pups - picking them up, touching their paws (delicately) and ears and tails when they're just a few days old, exposing them to sounds and weird textures and different types of terrain when they got older, etc. I STILL asked him for the lowest-drive, most chill puppy of the litter... XD And I got the most laid-back puppy for sure (Fen never nipped or bit us, even while teething; total unicorn puppy!) But he is STILL an insane-áss cráckhead with an infinite "gas tank" XD
Load More Replies...jup. both my siblings want one. one is a choleric chaos, the other one way too insecure to project calm onto a reactive breed. just no
My advice: never get a pet for its looks or coolness factor or prestige. About dogs: each breed has been bred for a job - and its personality will be part of that.
Load More Replies...Beautiful dogs, had a colleague in germany who had one. It allways tried to bite me, you could not pet it or come to close to her, it would end in being bitten. I allways thought that dog is unusual aggressive but according to the owner, they are like that. I love dogs but i would not want a dog where i have to worry that it is mauling my guests
My GF’s family when I was 22-23 had one. In fact, the woman became my GF because when a group of visited her family’s house (me for the first time), everyone warned us to not approach the dog as it would bite. I was sitting on their couch and the dog came up to me and put his paws on my knee and wanted me to pet him. I could never go over to the house w/o playing with him for an hour. The family said they’d never seen anything like it. I was a pretty disoriented American war in Vietnam combat veteran at the time and have no idea why the Malmois liked me. Kindred spirit? Past lives? My boots smelled like a dead squirrel? At any rate it made an obvious impression on me as I’ve remembered it for 55 years.
Load More Replies...I had a Malinois/Rhodesian ridgeback mix. Now THAT was interesting! He was amazing and wonderful but a lot of work. Miss him every day.
I can only imagine, my goodness! A dog that is a mix of two working breeds is always a lot of work XD (My other dog is a German Shepherd/livestock guardian dog mix. He's DISABLED and is still a lot of work!) I bet your boy was an incredibly handsome fellow as well :)
Load More Replies...Same with Jacks. Love those dogs, but Im too old to chase one anymore.
I had one and absolutely loved her. But, I was young, energetic, never sat still, and loved training dogs. That's the only personality type that thinks these dogs are a breeze. Everybody else, well, they're basically giant hyperactive terriers with a human-,like intelligence. Are you ready for it,?
Parrot owner here. (Well, to be honest, I'm not sure who owns whom)
These birds are highly intelligent and will challenge you in ways you'd never imagine. They need to be active, to interact, and to have various toys and playgrounds—otherwise, they develop behavioral and health issues, such as screaming or feather-plucking. If you cannot match their energy, get them a bird companion.
They are very messy and require daily cleaning. They can—and will—chew, break, or destroy things in your house, even when they have plenty of toys. That’s because they are extremely curious and like to explore your house (which, by the way, is now theirs).
They bite—often drawing blood (even budgies can do that). Even if you’ve earned their trust, they can still bite for reasons you can’t foresee: they may be hormonal, want to be left alone, dislike something about you (clothes, color, hairdo, perfume), or be upset that you’re eating without sharing. Or it could just be bedtime—and that’s totally unacceptable.
They are loud. In the wild, parrots communicate with loud calls; they call, chirp, whistle, and mimic sounds to express themselves. If you want a quiet pet, don’t get a parrot.
They have a long lifespan—up to 30 years or more for medium-sized parrots such as Senegal, conures, and caiques. Talk about a lifelong commitment…
The joy and color they bring to your life is absolutely amazing. However, if you cannot handle what I’ve mentioned above, you might want to consider getting another type of pet.
Makes me smile, he is beautiful and very smart!
Load More Replies...I have 11 parrots at home, and they are not as loud as OP said. Lovebirds can be a bit of a bully, except for one of my nicer lovebirds, who gets along well with my other parrots and is a good friend to my only conure. A small parrot can live from 15 to 30 years old, while the biggest one can live up to 75 years. You can spread perfume or anything at home, but don't put your parrots near the kitchen when you cook, the gas will k**l them. They are fun to play with, I love them, imagine keep a 3 year old ADHD kid at home. I have 5 cockatiels, 3 lovebirds, 2 budgies and 1 conure, I love them. I even got a youtube/tiktok for them. 467323795_...7e7fae.jpg
The head of my library's Youth Services department used to bring her African Gray to work with her. So surreal to walk into her office and hear "who's a pretty french fry?!"
My goofball Gandalf.(funny, Alexia, I walk into my birdroom and tell them "Hello, goofballs!" every day) . Rescued from a hoarder. One of 6 second hand or rescued parrots. Image7-68c...81-png.jpg
Hello, Gandalf. You're a sweetheart 😍
Load More Replies...I agree with everything above, but I can't imagine my life without a bird. I had a lady budgie and she'd bite me and draw blood every time. Did more damage than my cockatiels over double her size/weight. (She was 30ish grams, so on the smaller even for a budgie). The cockatiels were scared of her. Thanks for your insight. I love reading thoughts of fellow bird owners ❤️
Alexia, you said it. Parrots are not for everyone. They are, after all, wild animals. They are not toys that talk. You interact with them on their terms. I have two birds that were a-b-us-ed and they have lifetime emotional scars that they cannot express except by fear biting, so you have to figure out what triggers them. ( My blue and gold- the word "no", my Moluccan Gandalf: nail polish, gloves) . And you WILL get bit, regardless.
Moluccan and macaw, both rescue? You are my hero 💜
Load More Replies...Alexia is absolutely right in all aspects. And don't forget: These birds are swarm animals, so they need at least one companion. Do them this favour and you will see them blossom. 🐦🐦😊
6 birds in my bird room, even though they are different species, they exhibit flock behavior and talk to each other :)
Load More Replies...They can be, yes, particularly if they have a 'favourite person'. Some breeds are more known for this, such as conures and cockatoos. This can exhibit itself in either the bird biting anyone stealing the attention of the favoured person, or sometimes you get 'lucky' and get a bird that bites the favoured person ("oi! Attention me!"). My conure isn't so bad nowadays, but yeah, I was always the one that got bitten. (Edit: Adding an extra word for correct grammar before the grammar police get me 😶)
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If you have a cat, be prepared for constant “help” while working on the computer.
I found that the solution was to wear a hoodie, one cat will end up on lap, the other will coil in the hood, and my tablet stays cat free. Though sometimes one does lay on the keyboard but that is usually when I am not using it.
Cats don't lay, being mammals. Are you keeping hens indoors?
Load More Replies...I've had a cat for 57 years (not the same one) and I haven't been to the bathroom at home alone in 57 years.
Load More Replies...And the Good Lord help you if you're like me and do handcrafts, they'll "help" there too.
Mine like to 'help' change the bed sheets. That's always fun.
Load More Replies...My six week old kitten arrived knowing two things: No! and Off the keyboard! A year later, she still delicately walks along the thin strlp of plastic next to the keys.
Or going to the bathroom, or cleaning house, or cooking, or watching TV, or reading, or sleeping….. Need I go on? You have a constant companion. One who will stay up on the bed with you when you’re sick, who will be right by your side purring and being sweet when you’re crying, who will snuggle up to you while you sleep like a stuffed animal come alive. You may get a bit irritated at all the companionship sometimes, but I guarantee you will miss it terribly when they’re gone.
Mine taught me what ctrl-i does on a chromebook... during a Zoom meeting
oh yes definitely my boy is sitting next to me just watching me like he is my supervisor or something
Border Collie: extremely high energy. Don’t get one unless someone has the time and energy to keep up with them. They are also prone to seizures.
Note: we just left ours at the emergency vet after having back to back grand mal seizures, along with a $1k deposit. Yes, he's on meds. Looks like he needs more meds. Oh, and he's only 3
Fingers crossed that he is okay :( My GSD mix is on Keppra (he had distemper as a puppy) so I know how scary doggo seizures are for us humans.
Load More Replies...But the rewards for a well trained border collie are great. Loyalty, obedience and , unconditional love. Farewelled my fourteen year old furry boy , Piper last year after a battle with cancer.
They are adorable and so smart. I’m sorry for your loss.
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I hadn't heard of this defect. Thank you for sharing. I'll discuss genetic testing with his vet.
Load More Replies...I'm almost tempted to say, if you don't have sheep, don't get a border collie. They need training and they need work of some kind.
these are best kept as pets by people who have a herd of sheep or cattle.
I have one, along with 2 Aussie Shepherds. The border will run for mile after mile, she never seems to tire, I'm glad I have a farm for her to run around on. The Aussies will be under my feet or right behind them, I dont know how many times I have tripped over them. Borders do need a lot of space and are extremely active. Aussies on the other hand are more laid back and are known as velcro dogs because once they have bonded with you, that's it, they want to be in your pocket 24 hours a day
Again, these are working dogs, not family dogs. If you don't have 8 hours per day to really work with the dog, don't get one
Cats: Learn their body language. Learn how to interact. They are not dogs and show affection, trust, fear, and stress very differently. Cats are subtle. Cats do care—they are not aloof or uncaring.
Hence My Cat From Hell, where the cat educates the owners, not the other way around.
This is the most important thing: cats respond to how you treat them.
I think this is part of the reason I'd love a cat (except, y'know... bird-owner). Dogs are a bit clingy for me at times. I like pets that are affectionate but not "I need to be glued to your side and have 200% of your attention" affectionate. And also... y'know, toe beans.
If you ever get a cat, go for an adult, and talk to the fosterer or shelter staff first, or research cat breeds. Some cats attach like velcro. Some refuse to be cuddled, but will sit 30 cm away from you and meow every 3 seconds until the get pets, which are not allowed to stop until kitty is done. Some will just want to be coincidently always in the same room as you, but not want to be touched.
Load More Replies...You need to earn a cats trust, before they show any love and affection. Dogs are easy they love anyone who feeds them or gives them attention, cats make you earn their love. Cats seem to know who wants their affection most and will refuse to give it to them, but they love people who hate or are scared of cats, they'll be all over them!
That almost sounds like spite 🤣 “You don’t like me? Take *this*….”
Load More Replies...'My cat from Hell' is such a good show. 4 out of every 5 times it was the owners who needed adjustment :D
My daughter-in-law's ginger boy hates me, except when I feed him. I always talk to him sweetly, just as I do to my 2 tuxie girls, but I still get open claw paw swipes when we pass each other.
You may find that there's something irritating them - in our girl's case, it was a dental issue. Once that was sorted, she still had her limits, but she was much calmer.
Load More Replies...Cats are not dogs is so important. Dogs have been bred over thousands of years to be of use to us. They have the ability to regard themselves as subservient (in most cases, LOL). Cats moved in because it suited them and they regard humans and themselves as equals. I find it telling that to many people an animal that thinks it is our equal must therefore be an årsehole and think it’s a god.
my cat Oscar is part maine coone so long hair that gets everywhere he is also very curious and anytime i have a drink he has to see whats in the cup and have a little sniff. He loves to cuddle and doesnt wait to be picked up he will literally climb up onto you for a cuddle.
In my experience, males (neutered) tend to be more chill. They are more patient and affectionate. Females can be loving but can also be hissy and only affectionate with their person and no one else. Of course there are exceptions and personalities run the gamut. Also, get them fixed! Shelters are full of kittens and adults and there’s a small window to socialize them before they can become unadoptable.
Vaccines are a yearly thing, so if you want to have a pet, be prepared to budget for them. Also, have insurance or set aside pet funds for unexpected trips to the vet. I have three doggos, and they’re part of my monthly salary—haha!
Do not house 2 male bettafish in the same tank. They will fight to the death.
If the tank is large enough, they get along fine. I saw three in a 100 gallon community tank and they ignored each other
Load More Replies...And be prepared for some of those unexpected vet visits to be for nothing but your pet wanting more attention. We recently took our GSD to the vet because she was limping, and it looked like the pain was in her rear right side leg. I examined the leg—-and she let me!—-and couldn’t see or feel a splinter or stone in her pads or between her toes, or any irregularities on up the leg, which looked just like the other leg. The vet couldn’t find anything either, but had the tech walk her down the hallway where he saw her slight limp. She’s on a couple meds to help her stay calm and not hurt the leg further, and if she doesn’t improve by the end of the course of meds, to make another appointment for x-rays. Thing is, she hasn’t really been limping since we got home from the vet, and she runs and jumps around like she always did. So she may have been playing us. Who knows. Just be prepared for mysteries like that which could turn out to be nothing at all.
Care credit is great too my now deceased male boxer Kai had health issues since a pup and was uninsurable so the care credit helped a lot we had to bring him to get multiple mris X-rays surgeries. He lived to be 11.5 and had internal bleeding two weeks ago after a complicated uti. He was on hills prescribed diet and could only eat boiled chicken as treats. He cost 10s of thousands probably throughout his life but was worth every dime. We still have his liter mate sister, we are all doing the best we can to adjust to life with out our little Mr.man 😔
It's another word for 'Dog', Omar. I don't like it, it's silly.
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You will spend more time and money ensuring the quality of their food than you do on your own.
I had to forgo food this weekend (because I am owed money) so that I could get a sack of very high quality cat food for my three chonks. I would always do this without regret.
Can you email me? I'd love to send you some money for food for *you*, if you're willing. (I'm all for feeding the chonks, but the chonks can't get fed if you starve 😢) My email is in my profile. Please, if you need/want to, I'm here. I don't want to see people go hungry if I can do something, even if it's small ❤️
Load More Replies...Nah. That's a personal choice. I've always fed my animals cheap brands. Think meow mix and pedigree. The animals have lived forever and been healthy and fine. Personally I think expensive pet food is a waste of money. The major brands have to make sure they meet basic nutritional requirements and that's good enough.
Why yes, your obligate-carnivore cat and mostly-carnivore dog should absolutely should be consuming wheat gluten, rice gluten, corn meal, and soybean meal /s Sometimes when a pet food "meets basic nutritional requirements", all that means is that they've added synthetic vitamins, nutrients, and amino acids that the animal needs into a pile of indigestible and non-species-appropriate ingredients such as corn. You don't have to break the bank to feed non-sh!tty foods - Fancy Feast Classic canned cat food does not contain grains (which cats cannot digest), etc. You don't have to buy a dog food with gold flakes on every kibble, but "cheap" brands are full of fillers and by-products. Pet animals live longer lives these days, and I'd rather mine eat foods that aren't full of things they cannot digest or derive nutrition from.
Load More Replies...Absolutely true. I actually cook most of my animals' food while I eat a bowl of cereal for dinner.
A couple weeks after adopting my two kittens I was at the pet store with my sister and brother-in-law (we all live together) and we spent a solid half an hour comparing pet food brands before choosing one... And then went to the grocery store next door and bought hamburger helper for ourselves
I found the sweetest rabbit, who had been left behind by her owners. I had to adopt her a buddy, though, because rabbits are not happy alone. But if one of them dies, I’ll have to get another one again. You see where this is going? I’m stuck with rabbits forever!
Lucky they're cute! Random fact (unless it's changed) QLD, Aus has banned bunnies as pets because they're too rampant as pests. Even in Victoria the responses I get are "just shoot them" or "you can take them", but... I love seeing the wild bunnies 😖 I tell everyone that they can send me all the bunnies; I can live with bunny-holes and possibly more broken ankles 😆
Tried posting a pic of the wild bunny in my yard but it didnt do
Load More Replies...This doesn't really explain the reality/aspects of owning a pet rabbit, though.
"Left behind" by her owners. It infuriates me when people abandon pets.
If you get a Golden Retriever, be prepared for a goof. They love to play and cuddle, and they get their feelings hurt easily, so go easy on the reprimands. They will follow your commands when taught and are easy to train because they are such pleasers and jokers.
My wife and I have adopted many Golden Retrievers over the years, and each one had its own personality. They were all joys in our lives.
Goldens are beautiful. My bestie has one and she is so good-natured and also such a goof. Here's her failing to catch a carrot 😆 Sophie-68b...e17251.jpg
My girl dog is getting old and i think about getting a puppy to keep her active and i think having two dogs is a god thing in general. Golden Retrievers are number one on my list of breeds i consider because they are so friendly and easy going. But from what i hear from other owners they shed fur a lot! That is a bit an issue for me because i do not like fur in my food or on all my clothes. I wonder if it is really that bad or if people are being dramatic. I would get used it surely but i would like to know if that is something i can do something about or have to live with it
I worked at a vets for five years, and every, I mean EVERY golden that walked through the door got diagnosed with cancer at some point while I was there. They are wonderful but heartbreaker's. Be prepared.
Years ago there was a research project to find out why Goldens are dying so much younger now. All of my Goldens had cancer. I cant remember the name of it.
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Orange cats: they’ve either never seen The One Brain Cell in their lives, or they’re diabolical geniuses. There is no in-between.
I like to believe they're all geniuses and the seemingly dumb ones are just lulling us into a false sense of security.
Snafu would agree with you. Considering, however, I had to rescue him from an ant last night...I'm not so sure. 😂 Snaf-68bf5...27acdd.png
If you get an orange kitten.... Be prepared for 2 years of chaos before they take a breath :D
Thats why you get three, then they can play together and tire each other out.
Load More Replies...Wh-what?! How did you get a picture of Fred?! (Looks almost exactly like our cat Fred). He was the stray cat that we adopted that the only thing we had to do to convince him to come inside was open the door. The most adorable part of him is that when he moved in, we had a cat named Gizmo and her baby Gadget, and Fred kind of just decided to be Gadget's father. They still have family grooming sessions, even though Gadget is older now. She does, however, start to b!tch at him if Fred licks her head too much.
Aw. I lived next door to a huge, bossy, orange menace named Frank. He'd sit on my porch and survey his domain--I always referred to him as LotM (Lord of the Manor).
Load More Replies...I'm so glad you mention the genius! I had an orange cat and he was so incredibly smart. RIP Dizzy.My tuxedo cat was a complete and utter floof-head though. Not a working brain cell in sight.
I've known a lot of orange cats and over the years we've had four as family members. I'm so puzzled about where the "One brain cell" jokes come from. Ours were incredibly smart and empathetic. Hilarious too.
It's so weird. My friend's orangie can open any doorknob in the house--even round ones--and will actively distract his humans so he can get into mischief unnoticed.
Load More Replies...My little Creamsicle menace is so clueless and sweet I dont even know where to begin
That cat needs to go on a diet ⬆️ Male Ginger cats will overeat if given the chance. They are also lazy.
Do your research before getting a tarantula. Some species are wonderfully docile with weak venom, while others are super fast, super aggressive little escape artists with venom strong enough to harm your curious cat. And don't think kitty can't get at Mr. Spider—I once had a six-month-old kitten smash a huge, heavy glass enclosure to pieces by somehow knocking it off a shelf. Thankfully, Lady Eats-a-lot was a big softie who was woefully unprepared to become a play toy. (Poor girl didn't survive.)
Again, be aware of lifespans. A female tarantula can be in your life for decades.
Also, if Parker falls just 3 feet from table to hard floor, he will die.
I rescued a Dalmatian from the local shelter. Her previous owner was neglectful and wouldn’t feed her, so she was half the size she should have been and only a quarter of the expected weight. At her age, she should have been about 60 lbs (27 kg), but she was only 19 lbs (8 kg). Here’s what I discovered:
• Food insecurity: She will always be food insecure. If she’s awake, she’s looking for food. If I let her eat as much as she wants, she will eat until she vomits—and then eat the vomit. It’s heartbreaking to watch. Even though she’s well fed now, she’s always scared she won’t get her next meal. She will eat anything she can get her mouth on. I have a gate to keep her out of the kitchen; otherwise, I’d have to hide everything remotely edible. She even ate a cake wrapped in tin foil—foil included.
• Hearing issues: Dalmatians are often deaf, and she fits that profile. She doesn’t know her name and won’t respond to noises or verbal commands. On the bright side, she’s not afraid of fireworks or thunderstorms. On the other hand, I’ve had to spend a lot of time and money developing alternative training methods. I even hired a professional to help me safely take her for walks without risking injury and ensure I can call her back if she gets outside.
• High energy: Dalmatians have a lot of energy. They need plenty of time to run and burn off energy. They also like to chew, so make sure to provide plenty of toys. I rotate her toys so they feel fresh and fun to play with.
• Sweet personality: She is the sweetest dog on earth, and I love her to death.
My bestie had a liver Dalmatian when we were growing up. Sweetest dog on earth, but dumb as a box of rocks. Would often try to eat rocks, actually...
She's not the smartest dog, lol. But she makes up for it in personality.
Load More Replies...Our rescue dal loved to dig holes in the yard. Burrows, actually. And we have had several breeds (rescues) that were food insecure. Lost a pit puppy last year who would eat anything. Then he ate a toadstool. RIP Boo.
Bengal cats. My friend has them; I’ve only cat-sat. Don’t get me wrong—they’re beautiful and amazing cats, but there are many Bengal rescues for a reason. Super smart and curious.
Things my friend has dealt with:
• No longer owns anything breakable—no vases, no knickknacks.
• Child locks on all outside doors, cabinets, fridge, and freezer. Prior to the locks, the cats pulled all the food out of the freezer while she was at work—more than once.
• Pulled up vents in the floor and tried to go inside.
• Pulled paintings off the wall to see what’s behind them.
• Fell into the bath multiple times while walking on the shower rod.
• Stole my gum (mint) out of my purse.
• Took my wallet out of my purse to get the gum.
• Opened the door and left the vet exam room while people were talking.
When I sat for them, they threw a huge tantrum—purposely pushing a block of knives off the counter—because I wouldn’t let them outside (on the balcony) in the middle of the night.
These are not just cats—they are a full-time job.
True XD but Bengals can be larger, stronger, and "crazier" than a normal domestic shorthair, though - because they are a wild animal hybrid. The original breed was created by breeding the wild Asian Leopard Cat with domestic cats.
Load More Replies...Both mine are bengals, they slow down a bit at about 10. Morning showers are fun because Mia will join you and sing the song of her people.
Siamese cats are reading this and going, "uh huh? Have they eaten your woolly jumper? Have they deposited live mice on a house guests laps? Have they learned to play pass the ball?!"
Huh, my Bengal was the coolest cat in the world. He did terrorize other cats, but he adapted to a puppy fairly well, eventually. Broke my heart when I had to put him down.
I always wondered why my cat seemed to love water. I’d had cats my entire life and had never seen any of them enjoy water like Lucy.
I had to tighten all my taps as much as possible every time I left the house—and she’d still find a way to open them. I’d come home from work to find her running around my flat, soaking wet and loving it. She’d even jump into my bath water if I left it unattended for a second.
It wasn’t until she got sick that a vet told me she was a Turkish Angora, a breed known for their love of water and affinity for joining people in their baths!
Unless you have a pedigree/papers, Lucy is not a Turkish Angora. Unless you got her from a breeder, it is extremely unlikely that your cat is a Turkish Angora (which is a rare breed.) Even cat-breed DNA/genetic tests are still unreliable. 99% of cats are "moggies" - basically no particular breed at all. I understand the appeal to want an explanation for her love of water and the appeal of having a breed label, but she's not a Turkish Angora unless you have papers on her. And vets are experts in the medical field, not breed genetics - I had a vet tell me that my gray cat was "for sure" a Russian Blue, when I knew for a fact she was a backyard "accidental breeding" of two random moggies that were my cousin's neighbors' cats.
It's gonna be a hard sell to convince people not to assign their cat the breed they look like. Most people just don't care about pedigree, and care more that the cat seems to have a large portion of the breed in their genes. Not technically correct, but less of a mouthful than saying "My cat is a shorthair grey moggie with predominantly Russian Blue genetics."
Load More Replies...It's known that when a cat's food & water are placed next to each other, they don't drink as much which in my opinion, may explain so many kidney issues in pet cats. Get a water fountain instead especially for tap drinking cats but place away from food. All my fosters love a water fountain
Turkish Van cats originally from Lake Van in Turkey. They love to swim.
My best cat loved water and would lie in the sink-you could turn the water on and he'd let it pool around him for a while before bothering to get up. When we moved into a house he would go on the deck but stayed off the grass-until he learned that we had a pool so he would march over to the pool and demand someone place him so he could dip his paw into the water. Miss that guy.
Lovebirds. They are LOUD and smart. They are clever enough to open their cage—they can figure out which way to rotate the door, and if there’s a padlock, they understand it’s the key to opening it and will try to break it with their beak.
My cockatoo , on his second day, opened his cage and went walkies, terrorizing the cockatiels before he freed them and stole their toys. Ate my painter's easle. Went back in his cage and locked the door behind him. LOCKED the door. When I put a padlock on the door he proceeded to unscrew the hinges. Good times.
they're quite smart I think that if they could access the keys would easily open a padlock
Load More Replies...I think my comment got eaten, so I'll post again and hope it doesn't double-post later. Lovies are beautiful, and I still stand by if anyone calls any type of bird stupid/'bird brain' etc, they've not had the privilege of owing/being owned by one of these gorgeous creatures. On lovies specifically, I just wish they lived longer 😢
I have 8 of them and they are SUPER smart... it's incredible... We had to padlock all the doors/bays because they could open it. They also are able to "provoke" a reaction from humans... My dad toke off the nest too early (he didnt want 3 hatches in a single summer) and the couple started mating (or pretended to) till he putted the nest again. Enough said once he putted the nest they stopped...
Load More Replies... Hi! Shelter volunteer here — three big pieces of advice I always share:
Do your homework before adopting. Make sure the pet you choose matches your lifestyle. For example, bulldogs or chihuahuas may not be the best fit if you’re very active. Boxers can make amazing companions, but they need plenty of exercise and attention — I learned that the hard way when mine decided to destroy a chair and a few trash cans out of boredom! If you’re rarely home because of work or a busy social life, consider a more independent pet (reptiles can sometimes be a great fit).
Don’t adopt just because it’s cute. Puppies, kittens, and other baby animals eventually grow up. Make sure you’re ready for the commitment beyond the adorable stage.
A pet is a lifelong responsibility. Adoption isn’t just until you get busy or lose interest — it’s for the animal’s entire life. And if you absolutely must rehome your pet, please do so responsibly. Never abandon them outdoors to “fend for themselves.”
I have a West Highland Terrier. Budget for vet bills—almost all of them suffer from skin issues. As much as I love my boy, I would not recommend a Westie to a first-time dog owner. Although they are very bright, they are also quite stroppy and can be very hard to train.
I can be stroppy and I'm quite stubborn, and I have psoriasis - is this my spirit animal? Do they like naps?
No. They're demons on four legs. All of the small terriers are. They were bred to hunt vermin. They're incredibly stubborn. I showed Westies (how I found out I was allergic to chalk). I'm so not a small terrier person because almost every one that I met were aholes. I've only met one small terrier that wasn't.
Load More Replies...I am on Westie #3. I love my Westies, but they have all been vastly different. The first suffered from horrible skin allergies that we could never really get under control. The second was a complete knucklehead that had he been the first Westie I owned would have definitely been the last - he was the epitome of the breed plus more. The one I have now has no allergies, and I wouldn't trade for the world!
1. There is no such thing as a “tame” reptile. Some will get used to being handled; some won’t. Even the ones that do can still cause damage unexpectedly.
2. If you want to keep reptiles, take advice on species and prepare their environment well in advance. Don’t just buy a cool-looking snake on a whim and spend weeks preparing the terrarium, planting foliage, letting it bed in if necessary, and checking temperatures and humidity to ensure stability.
3. Read up thoroughly on reptile diseases and care. Snakes and lizards often have unusual issues that aren’t readily identifiable.
4. Source your animal from a reputable supplier. Reptiles are among the most illegally trafficked animals in the world, and buying from the wrong person can land you in serious trouble.
5. Avoid venomous reptiles at all costs. Leave Gila monsters, vipers, cobras, and the like to professionals.
I had a friend once who had a very large iguana that he just loved. The issue was that the thing hated it's enclosure (and the warmed rock et al) and would escape at every opportunity. He also loved his music and loved it loud so had pretty high end stereo equipment. The amplifier generated heat while it was on and the iguana loved laying on it. It was great until it took a massive dump into the amplifier causing it to short out and ruined it.
I also had a very large iguana. Raised him from a baby. Floyd attacked me one day. I had to go to the ER. They carry salmonella.
Load More Replies...Thanks for posting this. I've not known many people with reptiles so it's awesome to read first-hand accounts.
They are hugely rewarding but take effort. The differences between species is vast and care needs vary massively. I encourage people to get into it but with very careful research and planning first. They will never 'love you' the way a dog or cat might but if you have the fascination bug (as most hobbyists do) then you will find the experience amazing.
Load More Replies...100%. As someone who got a crested gecko and hermit crabs without knowing what I was getting into, it's a LOT. Now that I'm looking into getting a ball python I'm doing my research first but ALWAYS do your research BEFORE getting a pet. I love them but I wish I had researched first
I find crested geckos to be the lowest maintenance pet imaginable. Look into building a bio-active tank. I would say that my trio requires less than 5 minutes a day of attention, far less than a goldfish.
Load More Replies...Some lizards do become very tame and enjoy being handled. If you want a 'cuddly' lizard your best bet is a bearded dragon. They seem to have the most friendly temperament. Some iguanas do become soppy tame, but their behaviour is generally less predictable.
I hear Tegus can also be friendly
Load More Replies...Sooo... No Komoda Dragon? Though I can't remember if that's more bacteria than venom. Either way, given how they communicate, maybe it's best not to own one.
i had a burmese python several decades ago. acquired at 18 inches, sold to another person at 6 feet. it smelled a feeder rat on my hand once, and bit me immediately. then wrapped 2 coils around its head for good measure to lock it's jaws down. Took a trip to the vet and 30 minutes to get the jaws free. Then removal of several dozen python teeth from my hand.
Apart from the usual caveats about costs, be warned about dachshunds. I have three (had four until recently). I found training my Siamese cats easier than training dachshunds. They’re known to be extremely stubborn, and toilet training is a slow process.
Mad Max was nearly two before he had reasonably reliable recall. Jasper has none—and he’s seven. He does come back, but only when he’s had enough. He once wandered for nearly three hours in my local woods. I gave up and went back to the car park with the others. Much later, he came trotting out, wondering what all the fuss was about.
I can only let him off the lead in a safe area. I tried a couple of trainers, but saw no improvement.
However, I wouldn’t be without them.
Mad Max 😆 Does their... longness (can't think of a better word; I'm sleepy, lol) cause you any issues/affect them at all? I'd imagine it could affect their ability to climb stairs/jump onto things?
"Dachshunds are prone to health problems including Intervertebral Disc Disease (IVDD), hip dysplasia, patellar luxation, obesity, and various eye conditions, such as Progressive Retinal Atrophy (PRA). Other concerns include dental problems, epilepsy, and heart issues. Maintaining a healthy weight, preventing jumping, using ramps, and regular veterinary check-ups are crucial for managing these conditions. "
Load More Replies...Never let them climb stairs. They already got issues with their long spine, and steps are the worst
Guinea pigs are not starter pets. There’s a lot more care and expense involved than people realize. You’ll be cleaning poop every day, changing bedding at least once a week, and providing fresh vegetables daily along with hay—which is necessary to keep their teeth healthy. Cage size matters too; the ones sold at pet stores are usually way too small, especially if you have multiple pigs.
That said, they all have different personalities, are little cuddlers, and are great for just chilling on your lap. Basically… tiny hobbits.
Also, Guinea pigs don’t live just a year or two. My two girls lived to almost 8 and almost 9. So expect a long commitment. If you get long haired ones, there’s a lot of maintenance of their coats - brushing, trimming, baths sometimes.
Wow - 8 & 9? Congratulations. Hairless also require maintenance for their skin. Special lotions and cleaning.
Load More Replies...I still feel bad about how we treated my childhood guinea pigs. I was a child and in the end not my responsibility but the adult's, but I still feel bad. They deserved much better.
And remember to always have at least two, they get lonely if they are on their own.
I've had Guinea Pigs for years. It's the hay. You will eventually have it literally EVERYWHERE in your house. I've found it in things that have not been anywhere near my little piggies. They can also bite - hard enough to draw blood - without warning. But, I love my little furbabies as much as anyone with the bigger kind. They are very sweet.
Long-haired Maine Coon.
You will find yourself trying to hold a 9 kilo squirming giant fur ball in one hand, while trying to clean off the bits of p*o that is caught in the long fur on his backside.
I still love the massive floofzoid to bits though!
Maine C**n is censored? Can we start being niggardly with the censorship.
I have a longhair moggy and we take him in for (ahem) a "sanitary shave" on a regular basis XD We love his floofy pantaloons SO much but it's much easier to care for his heiny when it's shaved short XD (plus he is prone to clogged b*m glands, which I clear myself every other week... yep, stinkiest stuff EVER lol)
Love my MaineCoon! Cutting off the dingleberries is much better than finding them smeared everywhere.
I get the vet to shave a circle around long haired cats' butts if I happen to foster one
The "sanitary shave" is absolutely necessary for longhaired cats, imo XD
Load More Replies...I have two half MCs and the are the most gorgeous cats. Not too big but I totally get the part where they come in with leaves, twigs and bits of poop hanging off their trousers. One is a tripod - lost his front leg while climbing a razor wire fence. Does he give a f¥ck? Not on bit.
my boy is prone to tats on his tummy and my mum cut them off he wasnt best pleased and promptly came to tell me
I’ve had rats and degus, and they are wonderful pets—smart, fun, clean, and they’ll bond with the family like tiny dogs!
Both species must live in pairs at a minimum. Start with three, if possible—I learned that the hard way. It’s possible to introduce more, but both rats and degus are quite territorial, and it’s a long process with a good chance it won’t work.
They need big cages, as large as you can possibly provide, lots of toys, and—most importantly—time with people, as in hours. They can be trained to do simple tricks, which is fun for both you and them!
Degus will chew through anything, so their cage must be all metal. Rats are slightly better behaved but can also chew destructively if bored. Degus can live 8–10 years, so they’re a long-term commitment, and their diet is very specific—you’ll need to learn their nutritional needs.
Cages must be kept very clean (weekly cleaning, bedding changes, and disinfecting surfaces) or it will stink. Oh, and both species are probably noisy at night.
All worth it, I promise!
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Rats should have their bedding changed daily. I always offered bathing water every day too, which they all used and enjoyed. Rats need just as much attention as cats if they are to be good pets.
Rats have short lifespan (a two-year-old animal counts as old, but sometimes they can live three years.) The most common cause of death is tumor.
I had two Degus: Eek & Squeak. Squeak was my chubby, good kid. Eek earned the nickname Eekdini. He'd escape the cage quite often. I used to let them out onto my couch to spend time with me. Once Eekie got into the sofa. Had to turn it on it's back and he still wouldn't come out. My husband (at the time boyfriend) tried to get him and got bit. I was able to grab him (no biting at all). He was very smart and clever. I did find out I was allergic to them as I'd get scratched by their claws when I held them. Afterwards, I'd itch. I did keep them until they both passed. They were good boyos.
Peacocks are beautiful creatures, but they are violently territorial and can deliver a vicious, bloody blow—often inadvertently, especially during mating season.
You forget the noise they make. If you have neighbours you'll get complaints.
Back in the 70s one of our neighbors had peacocks. It was delightful to see them in unexpected places, but their calls/cries were a bit disturbing at first.
they screech at an incredibly loud volume. many places have laws restricting them.
When I lived in Mich. I had a couple/neighbor that had peacocks. I lived out in the rural area. There was quite a bit of distance between me and the neighbors so it wasn't that bad.
Two places in Austin, a restaurant in south Austin, and Mayfield park in Central West/ Tarrytown out by Mabry, Mount Bonnell, and Laguna Gloria keep peacocks, the eggs have to be stored and incubated or else raccoons eat them..Austin has become Los Angeles exurb except in that one area.
I’m currently typing this with Roll on my shoulder—a green-cheeked conure (“GCC”), not an actual bread roll or anything. I adore my birds, but birds aren’t for everyone.
In a previous thread, I mentioned how I completely avoid non-stick pans because the fumes can k**l birds extremely quickly. You also can’t spray perfume or deodorant near them—again, because of the fumes. Scented candles and incense are out too. That’s probably the main thing I miss now that I have birds again.
Birds, in general, are bred to be pets, but they aren’t truly domesticated the way a puppy is. Even if they love you, you’ll probably get bitten at some point, depending on the type of bird you own. My GCC, for example, adores me and hides from everyone else, but he still bites me and draws blood regularly. My cockatiels are gentler—they’ll give what I’d call a “friendly nibble” before biting harder. Honestly, I’ve never been properly bitten by them because the nibble is usually enough.
So, what would you tell someone considering a pet you have lots of experience with? I was thinking about getting a dog, but posts here convinced me I wasn’t ready. I’m sure I’m not the only one in this position, and I’d love to hear others’ thoughts.
Ooh, the one in this picture is a turquoise variant. Beautiful! I only have this stinkin' one... (this is sarcastic, by the way. He's my sweet baby.) The picture of him was the day I brought him home. He was hand-tame even then, so easy to handle. Conures get harder to manage when they hit their 'teenage years' because they get nippier then. They are still beautiful (albeit more often than not, one-person/one-bird birds. I wouldn't recommend getting two if you're aiming for a pet that primarily wants to interact with you, though of course this depends on the actual birds and their personalities). Roll-2-68e...41e238.jpg
I have crested geckos (Correlophus ciliatus), and one thing people don’t realize is that they are arboreal—they like to climb and hide a lot. Pet shops often sell very small vivariums, which don’t offer much space or height. I always recommend getting the tallest vivarium possible, with lots of places for the gecko to hide, such as artificial plants, hides (coconuts are perfect), and so on.
One last piece of advice: be prepared for the long haul. Cresties have an average lifespan of 10 to 15 years, so they are a long-term commitment.
Sadly, I don't have as photo of the set-up, if yoy want to see one of my geckos, my profile photo is one of my geckos that I lost a couple of years ago, Paul - he was a huge character, addicted to TV and loved to watch sci-fi, especially Star Wars.
Load More Replies...We have wild geckos in central Texas. Another reason to not use glue traps. I always feel bad if trap one
Cresties, if set up correctly, are the lowest maintenance pet you can possibly own. You can set up a bio-active tank which needs no cleaning other than wiping down the glass once in a while.
Well, I thought they were low maintenance, but several of my lot are addicted to TV. Paul was also addicted to the Xbox as well, so I needed to have a good TV, movie package and get regular new games for the Xbox - not low maintenance at all!
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Rabbits love to chew and dig. We had to cover all the wires in the house (spicy hay works) and move all the small toys out of reach. His favorite thing to play with is a paper bag, which costs us pennies compared to the toys he ignores. We keep a few bags in his playpen, and he’s perfectly happy.
I love how pets gravitate towards the cheap stuff after you've spent a fortune on awesome toys for them. One of my birds (Roll, funnily enough) likes chewing on toilet rolls.
OMG, I buy toys for my lovebirds, guess what they love to play with, my books, papers. They bite on the library book that I borrowed, luckily I saw it before she destroyed the book.
Load More Replies...Rabbits are seen as a beginner basic pet, and they are not. They are super difficult, super delicate and fragile, and super destructive if not correctly protected. They are beautiful and worth all the work, don't get me wrong. But they are not a basic pet. They need a lot of responsibility and care.
Oh my goodness, yes. I know at least some of us look back at pets we had/saw as kids and in hindsight go "fuck I was a shitty pet owner then". My childhood best friend had rabbits. Outside, no attention, lived mostly off grass and carrots. Obviously they didn't like people because they had had no interaction with them. I'm guilty of being a crappy pet parent as a kid too, don't get me wrong (my plethora of dead fish and hermit crabs will tell this), but even back then I thought they deserved more attention than they got. I've always thought since then that rabbits (bun-buns! ❤️) would be one of the harder pets, personally. It amazes me that so many people still shove them into the 'beginner pet' category.
Load More Replies...Spicy hay! I rabbit-sat for a friend and the bunnies would get so angry at...the wooden floors. Apparently they took "the floor is lava" literally and would only hop onto the throw rugs and towels I scattered around for them.
Bunnies also are animals that don't want to be alone, and I mean no guinea pig as a companion, these two are different species who both need one or more buddies of their own species. Bunnies don't belong in cages, they need space 24/7 where they can run and hop, inward or outward. And they have to be watched carefully, my bunny "Topsy" got constipation every now and then, and if you hadn't reacted in a few hours, it would have died. They have to be vaccinated every year which is expensive, and males must be spayed, better neuter females as well. And there are many other problems.
I have a Pomeranian that I used to get Barkbox monthly for. She's happiest shredding the carboard tube from a roll of toilet paper
Bengal cats. If you are not a VERY EXPERIENCED cat owner, don't make this your first cat. It won't be good for you or for them. They are all different of course, but the fact is male and females both spray in the house. They are VERY vocal. They are relentless about getting what they want from you. They are beautiful and can be very loving, but it's always on their terms. I've had 4, so I know what I'm talking about.
I have a male and female, neither have sprayed inside the house. I do walk them (leash training is easy when they are young) and they will spray everywhere outside. Yes, they will have full on conversations with you. Also, nothing is out of reach to a Bengal, they can LEAP.
Turtles, especially red-eared sliders, are popular pets. When they’re young, they’re cute and small, and it may seem easy to care for them—but they require proper heat and UV light. Without it, they can develop respiratory diseases and may die within a few days.
They also need a large tank as they grow—really big. Some people may be tempted to release them into the wild, but that’s a big no-no. It’s illegal to release non-native animals into the wild, and this law applies in many countries.
People have released pets in the wild to either die a painful death or become invasive and destroy local wildlife. For example, goldfish are known to be assh0les that will take over.
I (perhaps naively) didn't realise how big they could get when they weren't confined to tanks etc. Like, that's a meal right there! /s Seriously though, for a "pet" species they are damned resilient.
Load More Replies...Yes, you are right. Had 3 of these turtles with 12, they were small and so cute. I did all the pet shop and a book said with tank and heating and feeding, but they all died after about 6 months. Was devastated. I didn't want to have new ones because my feeling told me that I could not provide what they needed for them. It was the 70es and no chance of getting more info about their needs. I loved you, Ramses, Nofretete and Agamemnon (it was my greek and egyptian ancient times phase then). 🐢🐢🐢
Sometimes I don't know how we existed without the internet, as sad as that sounds. Specifically, in this instance, I'm referring to us being able to keep pets alive. I had a book on budgies as a kid which gave a basic outline on how to look after them, but never touched on things like not getting rounded cages, don't feed all-seed diets, no non-stick/things that emit fumes etc. Looking back, I'm surprised my childhood budgie lasted as long as she did.
Load More Replies...In short, one of my teachers said that these turtles are often kept as pets not because they are easy to care for, but because they die slowly.
I'm an experienced owner of snakes, tortoises, frogs, lizards etc. The only one I couldn't keep up with was a year old red eared slider. Honestly you need a pond for them to thrive, I had a large tank and a filter meant for 2x the volume of water but had to do deep cleaning and a full water change once a week. I won't get a water turtle again. Our Russian tortoise is a much better fit for our space and time.
dogs:
money (I pay 120€ a month for a 22kg dog. addtionally there are emergencies like vet visits. operations or chronic illnesses can be thousands a year)
dirt and hair
organizing (and paying) sitters
puberty is a b***h (same as puppy destroyer phase and old and tired phase: every phase has it's issues)
... make sure you can offer the breed what they need (exercise, training, climate, city dog vs countryside dog)
... if you have no experience ask a trainer- not a breeder - what breed could work for you
Or get a dog from a good no k**l shelter. Those shelters get to know their dogs and know which ones will have the right temperament for you. I asked for a medium sized dog that would be good with cats and a 2 year old. They got me the sweetest, most chill dog ever. She's perfect. She's funny looking. Not some cute little breed. But she's a good dog.
Look to a k**l shelter first. Those dogs are living on borrowed time.
Load More Replies...I imagine finding a good sitter could initially be tough too if you don't have trusted friends/relatives that can do it? I know there are only two people I trust looking after my birds.
jup..and even then it has to match and they have to have time. my MIL gets older and has different issues every month. my second option has a 1,5 year old child which is stressfull for dog and sitter and not a solution for more than a quick walk. that means we need a plan C
Load More Replies... Before getting my type of pet, I’d warn people to really think about the time, energy, and responsibility involved. Pets aren’t just cute companions — they come with:
Daily commitment: feeding, cleaning, exercise, enrichment.
Costs: food, vet bills, toys, insurance — it adds up quickly.
Patience required: training, accidents, chewing/scratching, noise, or stubborn behavior.
Lifestyle impact: travel and long workdays get harder when someone at home depends on you.
The biggest thing? Don’t get a pet because they’re trendy or adorable — get one because you’re ready to care for them for their whole life. They deserve stability, not rehoming when things get tough.
✅ Bottom line: Every pet is a joy, but also a long-term responsibility. Make sure you’re prepared for the challenges as much as the cuddles.
And be aware of your own lifespan, don't adopt a pet that will live forseeable longer than you (except big parrots or turtles that may outlive their human). Especially cats and dogs that have deep bonding with their humans. It's a shock for them when they have to be rehomed. We are 65 and 68 with chronical illnesses and with two adopted rescue cats that are 5 years old now, and they sadly will be our last cats.
Theo is my last young dog. When Goldie 14 passes, only adopting seniors to replace her
Load More Replies...Yep, I haven't been on vacation in three years, which juuust happens to be the same age as my older dog XD (I in fact adopted him FROM the farm where I took my last vacation, lol..) He had distemper as a puppy, so he has a lot of disabilities/issues and I'm not entirely comfortable boarding him. For me it's fine, as I'm not a big vacationer/traveler anyway XD
This is why I no longer have pets. I work full-time, teach dance classes, travel for dance and work. I'm basically out of the house 7 days a week. I miss having cats, but it would simply not be fair to them to be alone so much. The spiders in the top of my curtain seem to not mind too much at least.
i adopted a kitten from "faithful friends" for $50 this summer. they were overflowing with kittens, and knocked down the price, which included a chip and neutering. voracious eater at 4 months. someone (not me) gave it two complete cans (5 ounce) one evening before bed to "try and encourage it to sleep". By morning there was vomit everywhere and Fang the Cat was semi-comatose. A vet diagnosis concluded "aspirated pneumonia" (inhaling its own vomit. Total vet bill came to $2,860 for xrays, hospitalization, and medication. behave yourself fang. you are now the worlds most expensive rescue cat. and no, you CANNOT have more food. You've eaten 3 times today already.
Cats need a lot more attention than you think.
You may feel the urge to call in sick too many times just to stay home with your kitty cat and pet her all day. It will almost mandatory if it's sleeping on you.
Definitely need extra days to snuggle. They love as hard as you do. Mine follow me around, talk nonstop and give me the news of the day on arrival from work. Our kitten plays fetch, tag, and hide and seek. They wait for us to get home and greet us at the car every afternoon. Slightly biased, I have 6.
"Yes, I'm feeling very ill today. It's a respiratory thing. It feels like something is pressing down on my chest and making it hard to breath."
Void cats when most of your clothing is black will hide the cat hair. It will also hide the entire cat if you leave your black shirt on the bed, resulting in a newly evicted void getting moody at you and your hair will later be the victim of a targeted attack once you sit at the computer.
This is why I am currently on bp instead of doing my work, I accidentally turfed Void off my hoodie because he blended in so well,, now my hair is a mess and my hair bun is over my ear instead of on top of my head because of his revenge.
And if a void wants to hide from you.... You will never find them. My girl is slim, agile, fast, silent.... I just have to wait until she decides to reappear! 20240223_1...dcb081.jpg
I'm not OP, but here is my older void, Kohl! One of her favorite places to hang out is my dish-drying mats on top of the high countertop, and my mom (who lives next door) has a conniption every time she sees Kohl up there XD I'm the only one who lives in my house, though, and I don't have friends/family over, so I'm the only one who consumes the inevitable void hairs that get on my dishes XD (Kohl is also fully indoors, so it's not like she is a filthmonger) santa_kohl...1c8ed7.jpg
Pets are a major responsibility. They are not like a child's toy that gets played with for two minutes and then shoved under the bed, into a corner or outside to be forgotten about.
Pets are not disposable. Don't go thru pets like you go thru shoes.
Pets are a commitment. Some pets only live for a year or 2. Most pets live 10 yrs - 20 yrs. Some pets live 80 yrs.
Pets need your attention, time, training, exercise, fresh clean water and food...Everyday. Not once a week or once a month, Everyday. 3 - 4 times minimum!
Pets can be Expensive.
If you're not willing to commit to a pet,
DONT GET ONE! And you probably shouldn't have kids neither...kids are needier than pets!
Cockatoos are a great example of this. They can live, best case scenario, over 100 years. And they're hard work. Think of having a toddler/slightly older child for 100 years. That's a cockatoo.
I am a cockatoo owner and I concur. Too's are very very difficult. I will never recommend male umbrella cockatoos, they are downright a**b**usi*ve when in season. I had my Charlie until he died of old age... loved him to bits but still. I have a male Moluccan now.
Load More Replies... Bearded dragons! Adopt, don't shop! They are the most surrendered lizard, possibly most surrendered reptile (next to ball pythons). If you see a baby at a pet store, do NOT buy it! Most pet stores sell them way too young, and do not provide good husbandry advice. These tiny babies are not well established and have questionable health/genetics. A juvenile to adult beardie needs a 2'x2'x4' enclosure, minimum. Babies need mostly protein and require a steady source of bugs. Adults need mostly fresh veg (not whatever dehydrated mix you see for sale). Some beardies are sweet and easily handled. Some are frightened and/or territorial and can bite, scratch, and tail-whip. My advice is always to contact your local reptile rescue. They have so many bearded dragons in need of good homes, give you good advice, and can help you find a beardy with the right personality and temperament.
On that note, most pet store reptiles are not worth the purchase price. If they do not provide the breeders name and information, I avoid at all costs. Babies are sold before they are established to maximize profits. Good reptile breeders know that, sadly, some just fail to thrive. I'm never surprised when I hear that a chain pet store baby lizard or snake passes away unexpectedly.
I had one for years, and as above it was surrendered to me by a dad who bought one for his son who didnt like it. A real show pet, as in had very little upkeep. not necessary to feed, just ensure their food bowl is topped up with fresh veg and pop in a couple of live meal worms as a treat. My biggest error at the start was thinking that as they originate in Australia my vivarium should be sand based, but they can (and mine did) get sand compacted, intake sand when they eat. put large stones as its base floor instead
100 lb pitbull mastiff..... Be prepared to have absolutely no personal space.... And they snuggle aggressively!!!! Also, buy a bigger bed
Some a*****e dumped a bull mastiff where we live. She weighed 58 pounds. So weak she couldn't hold her head up to eat. She'd just had puppies & had cigarette burns. The vet said she'd more than likely been used for breeding for dog fighting. My husband said he'd never seen a dog take to a person the way she took to me. We'd only had her for 6 years when she was diagnosed with cancer. She weighed 138 lbs. RIP, my Bella.💔
My pittie was a huge baby. The only things that got her dander up were the kids next door, they used to torment her with sticks and whatnot, and lawnmowers and vacuum cleaners. I'm guessing it was the noise and vibration. She would effortlessly toss a lawnmower across the backyard. She was great.
Our blue Grey pit is the sweetest baby with the biggest intimidation factor if you didnt know him. He sleeps with my son and sits on the feet of anyone that comes in the door.
Load More Replies...Pit bull type dogs are not good pets. They will be the sweetest thing for years and then one day SNAP. They were bred for fighting and recent reports of mailings and even killings are rife. Every day a pit bull will be reported as having attacked a person or another animal.
Stop spewing your misinformed bullsh*t. In fact, independent studies show pitbulls had one of the LOWEST instances of aggression against humans (although typically more aggressive towards other dogs) and are actually much much more affectionate than other breeds. It is because of their size and sheer jaw strength that if they are aggressive, it can be devastating, and makes the news. Which is why people continue to make such stupid comments like this.
Load More Replies...Rabbits are destructive as hell, spray pee high and wide and sometimes try to k**l each other Watership Down style. Also be paranoid on their teeth health.
Seriously?? Geez; I definitely didn't know that they might try and kill each other. Is it like a (eg) male + male thing, or is there some other way to predict it, or is more like "I don't like you, so..."?
Its a rabbit thing. Friend had a pet rabbit, it peed on and in the dogs water bowl deliberately. It ate multiple cords, tv remotes, mouse and would attack her couch. Unfixed males do mark territory just like any unfixed male. Females in heat will search for a mate. Saw one harass a child nonstop for weeks because he had male bunnies. She would run other children off, kick and jump at them. They can also be amazing pets if looked after and loved.
Load More Replies...Dwarf white bunnies are less destructive like being handled and are just more manageable.
Hedgehogs are cute but they are little jerks....very prone to cancer and tooth issues as well.
Pugs... They snore...
They snore because they're extremely brachycephalic and their skulls are so deformed that the majority of them cannot breathe normally. A significant percentage of them cannot even give birth normally any more (due to the deformed skull shape/size) and require Caesarian sections to deliver their puppies. They're not AS bad as Frenchies, but Pugs live a life of constant health issues and suffering (and their eyeballs pop out of their sockets way too easily during minor trauma.) We need to stop breeding extremely brachycephalic dogs.
I agree with this. I didn't really know what the deal was until I dated someone who had pugs. Their wheezing-breathing was awful to listen to. I adored pugs, and Frenchies, but I will never support the breeding of either; I'd get a different dog.
Load More Replies...If you want a unhealthy breed don't support breeders. chose a rescue. there is absolut no reason to increase their population and for everyone you buy you increase the incentive to breed more.
Rescues/mixed breeds are the way to go. But it is essential to know as much as possible about the parents to know if your lifestyle will fit the pup.
Load More Replies...As a rescue pug owner, there is so much more to know. Prepare for dental work at some point, expensive dental work. Ours is a schnauzer mix, but still has that squishy face. Luckily, he has not had the breathing problems that are also extremely common with pugs (possibly saved by his schnauzer side). They're also prone to hip problems, arthritis, and being overweight - so exercise and the appropriate diet is a must. They also make tons of noises beyond just snoring - snorting, grunting, and "yelling" are all pretty normal sounds we hear from our old man. For the schnauzer side of him (I also had them growing up) - schnauzers do not shed naturally, which is great for your house, but means a lot of brushing to keep their coat nice. They're also not great around strangers or little kids - although every pug I've known is the opposite. Luckily our little ewok is all pug in that way, so he loves everyone and although he's 15, deaf, and now almost totally blind (he only had 1 eye to begin with to be fair) he is still the friendliest, goofiest little dog.
Dogs (and cats) with squashed faces - brachycephalic- should not be encouraged. Avoid these poor things no matter how cute or appealing they are. It’s only by responsible pet owners not buying them that the breed will be allowed to either die out or revert back to their ancestral origins.
Corgi: Inherited one due to a friends passing. I compare them to Huskies where they have a mind of their own. Don't listen well to commands. The one I have is treat motivated.
Lots and lots of furballs so cleaning floors is a daily thing.
My son had a Corgi, and she was the sweetest thing ever! Cassie was very well behaved and sweet natured, she minded well, and was the best girl around babies and kids. She passed last year at 18. :(
I can't bck this up with facts, but I've always heard that small dogs live a lot longer that big dogs.
Load More Replies...Corgis are a working breed (herding), so of course they're strong-willed, independent, and need a lot of training, exercise, and mental stimulation to keep them occupied. They want to have a "job" because it's their literal bred-in instinct to be a working dog. They look cute (that heiny!!) but they are a working breed, just like Huskies are. You cannot expect the average Corg to just be a couch potato XD
I know this. He's not adopted but inherited due to a friends passing. I also have a German Shepherd mix who much better behaved and she is also a working breed..
Load More Replies...Don't et a beagle. All they do is bark
Mine doesn't bark - he bays. People can hear him from a hundred yards away!
to be fair: they are bred to hunt in groups (not packs) of dozen of other beagles and alert. that means they are loud and hunters, bonding is difficult since they are used to be thrown together for hunts and training exhausting
Yeah, my next door neighbour had a beagle called Barney for over 12 years (don't know how long he had had him before I moved in), there wasn't a single day he didn't spend barking his head off. Sadly Barney died last year, so about 6 months later he got Jack, another beagle, who is *slightly* quieter but still like to make his presence known. Fortunately I love dogs and don't mind a bit! I like to stick my head out the window and wave so he has something proper to focus his barking on.
Cats. Respect their agency and boundary. No means no and keep your distance. Respect their nature. They scratch, they jump, they run around, they hide, they bite. Don't force your will on them without good reasons.
Cats are both predator and prey. Better to keep them inside safe from the wildlife they eat or who will eat them. And that does include in the city, not just rural areas. I live in Indianapolis. We have coyotes, owls, and eagles in our neighborhood. All will eat a cat.
The only downside to our little Beanie was that she broke our bloody hearts, but we had 13 years of loving her.
That's the biggest downside to any loved pet. Been there many times.
Load More Replies...That's a very interesting post, thank you Emilu. Learned a bit about parrots, ferrets and others.
Thanks to you and everyone else that's contributed! I've learnt a lot too!
Load More Replies...The main thing, with any pet, is that you are giving THEM a good life. You should benefit from it too, but the focus has to be on what they need.
Absolutely. It's like (I'd imagine, anyway, as I don't intend on having any) a kid -- you do the best for *them*, not for you -- you signed up for this; you better make their lives the best they can be.
Load More Replies...How about if you're planning a family you wait to get a pet? Too many people get animals and end up rehoming or neglecting them as soon as a kid pops out.
Wolfdogs make excellent companions, but terrible pets. Yes, you may think its cool to have a pet 'wolf' like from Game of Thrones, but they have Very strict requirements that are difficult to meet. They need a LOT of space outdoors, fenced in with fences that are at least 8 feet high with dig guards. They need an all raw diet. They must have a companion animal, they don't do well alone. You can't keep them inside, they Will destroy your home. They'll literally go Through the doors to get out. And, despite the myths of Hollywood, if someone breaks in to your house, they're going to hid behind You and expect you to protect Them. Source: I work at a wolfdog sanctuary. And I love our animals, and they love us, but I would never try to keep one as a pet.
Here's Orion by the way. (He's the good looking one) Orion2-68e...c3c03f.jpg
They are not just pets, they are part of your family and deserve to be loved as such. Can't do that, don't get a pet.
The only downside to our little Beanie was that she broke our bloody hearts, but we had 13 years of loving her.
That's the biggest downside to any loved pet. Been there many times.
Load More Replies...That's a very interesting post, thank you Emilu. Learned a bit about parrots, ferrets and others.
Thanks to you and everyone else that's contributed! I've learnt a lot too!
Load More Replies...The main thing, with any pet, is that you are giving THEM a good life. You should benefit from it too, but the focus has to be on what they need.
Absolutely. It's like (I'd imagine, anyway, as I don't intend on having any) a kid -- you do the best for *them*, not for you -- you signed up for this; you better make their lives the best they can be.
Load More Replies...How about if you're planning a family you wait to get a pet? Too many people get animals and end up rehoming or neglecting them as soon as a kid pops out.
Wolfdogs make excellent companions, but terrible pets. Yes, you may think its cool to have a pet 'wolf' like from Game of Thrones, but they have Very strict requirements that are difficult to meet. They need a LOT of space outdoors, fenced in with fences that are at least 8 feet high with dig guards. They need an all raw diet. They must have a companion animal, they don't do well alone. You can't keep them inside, they Will destroy your home. They'll literally go Through the doors to get out. And, despite the myths of Hollywood, if someone breaks in to your house, they're going to hid behind You and expect you to protect Them. Source: I work at a wolfdog sanctuary. And I love our animals, and they love us, but I would never try to keep one as a pet.
Here's Orion by the way. (He's the good looking one) Orion2-68e...c3c03f.jpg
They are not just pets, they are part of your family and deserve to be loved as such. Can't do that, don't get a pet.
