Many of us have experienced the desire to present ourselves in a more favorable light to our significant others, bosses, and friends. It's natural, and there's no harm in it. Human pride can be a powerful motivator, leading us to act or speak in ways that may not truly reflect who we are. Some of these moments have been captured on the subreddit 'Not Like the Other Girls' in some funny and entertaining posts.
The subreddit has a thriving community of 860k members who share posts where people attempted to appear cool but came across as cringy. We've gathered a collection of our favorite ones so without further ado, let's dive into this cringe-fest and have a sneaky chuckle. Don't forget to upvote the ones that brought you the most laughter.
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Been Seeing This Woman's Tweets A Lot
At times, we tend to think of ourselves as smarter, funnier, kinder, and paradoxically, even more modest than we truly are. This is called the Dunning-Kruger effect. But in psychology is it known as the Superiority Illusion.
Golden Skin Shimmering In The Summer Sun
This Probably Doesn't Fit Here But
In 1995, McArthur Wheeler robbed two banks in Pittsburgh in broad daylight wearing no mask. He was identified from security cameras. When police asked him about it, he said he rubbed lemon juice on his face. It supposedly should have worked as an invisible ink. He tested it before the robbery by putting juice on his face and then taking a Polaroid picture - it showed no face. Let's just say this man is as good at robbery as photography.
"I'm Not Like Other Girls I'm Sick In The Head"
Some Of You Honestly Just Use Nlogs As An Excuse To Flex Your Inner High School Bully, It’s Nasty And Awful
Rude and hateful words coming out of a mouth just really ruins a face too
She’s Got Like 6 Days To Eat All Of That
Then she should know better than to put tomatoes in her fridge. 🍅
A few psychologists, Justin Kruger and David Dunning, were so intrigued by McArthur Wheeler's funny robbery story that they held a social experiment with psychology undergraduate students. They performed problem-solving tests using logic, analysis of grammar, and assessment of whether jokes were funny. Surprisingly, the results revealed that those who scored the lowest overestimated their performance. In their research paper, Dunning and Kruger wrote that "…people who are unskilled in these domains suffer a dual burden: Not only do these people reach erroneous conclusions and make unfortunate choices, but their incompetence robs them of the metacognitive ability to realize it." The phenomenon subsequently became known as the Dunning–Kruger effect, sometimes called ‘the unskilled and unaware effect.’
It is also interesting that the Dunning-Kruger effect involves smart people underestimating themselves.
Found In The Wilds Of Instagram
A short time ago, Bored Panda taught me that Colleen Hoover is the last author in the world that I would want to read. We are not the same.
Okay Then Make Friends With Girls Who Want To Do This???
Me too, but then again I have girlfriends who would all rather do this so that solves that problem, but I also have girlfriends who would rather get their nails done which is fine and they can show me after or maybe I will go with them just for shits 'n giggles, who knows? It's like we're people.
Found One Out In The Wild
Unfortunately, the Dunning-Kruger effect is part of being human. The good news for us is that it can be remediable. "Paradoxically, improving the skills of the participants, and thus increasing their metacognitive competence, helped them recognize the limitations of their abilities," Dunning and Kruger wrote in their paper.
Tell Me You're Insecure Without Telling Me You're Insecure
A Facebook Gem Shared By A 14 Year Old Girl
Did You Win? Do All The Men Like You Yet?
Perceiving yourself to be better than you are is also linked to optimism. It is considered by many to be one of the most desirable traits to have. We just don't want that negativity. However, according to Leuven University’s Vera Hoorens and colleagues, it can come at a price: "It may make you look naïve, and you may be in for disappointment when your sunny predictions fail to materialize."
Someone Actually Made This List On Twt
Apparently Only This Girl Wants To Get A House
Found One In The Wild
Another pitfall linked to optimism emerges when you become ensnared by the hubris hypothesis. According to the above mentioned Belgian scientists, it involves "comparing yourself favorably and explicitly with other people. This leads others to believe that you hold disparaging attitudes toward them because you’re letting them know that you think of yourself as superior. It’s a particular form of pride in which the claims you make about your worth come at the expense of acknowledging that of other people."
Found On Facebook
Women shaming, degrading and abusing other women. If men were doing this, we'd be horrified.
Im Not Like Other Girls Because I Love Harassment And Have A Real Womb
I Drink Beer, Not Fruity Drinks!!
So it's not positivity or negativity, arrogance or modesty that matters. It is the fine balance between all those things. Keep scrolling to see all those 'not so modest' people, as featured on r/notliketheothergirls. When you're done, feel free to delve into our previous posts about the subreddit here, here, and here.
Not One Of The Kardashians
Do they have a mold where they make Kardashians? I can’t tell them apart 🤔
Stumbled Across Someone's Ig Story
So Cute And Quirky !!! Gross, Men Have Feelings? 😩
Just Why
That’s bcz everyone else made smart life decisions. Xoxo, me, who once forgot my sneakers on a hike and regretted it immediately.
Party Bad
I’m Not Like Other Girls I Make Bone Broth
Not Sure If This Has Already Been Posted But 🥴
Dear Candace Owens, if you do not like women in the workplace, why don't you lead by example. Go home and shut the f**k up so everyone can forget about you. Thank you for your cooperation. Sincerely, Society.
Exactly. And if women are supposed to leave the workforce, does that mean that women should be at home, voiceless, powerless, and totally dependent on their "man"?
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oh my god poor men i feel so bad for them (/s in case u needed it)
So, Candace in your logic you better go home. You are distracting the grips and camera operators. Oh, Gary, the PA is Gay but you're distracting him with your ignorance. You are a landmine.
I'm a woman in the oil gas industry and she's not wrong but, it depends on the type of woman. The ones who dress appropriately and are there just to make a living don't have problems. The ones who dress provocatively and are fishing for a man always have problems. I see it all of the time.
That woman is well paid to hate women and blacks. It is the grifter way.
I’m not responsible for men who can’t work with women around. Maybe they need to work on controlling their urges and general crazy. I’m mostly just trying to get things done and go home. (And I believe most men are very capable of regular interaction with women) the ones who struggle are the sick ones trying to hold us back so they don’t have to acknowledge their dark thoughts.
You're more than welcome to go back to the kitchen while barefoot, Candace. In fact, do all women a favor and never, ever open your mouth in public again.
It no longer amazes me that no matter how hurtful, ignorant, or factless one in this modern world can be, they somehow gain a hugh and loyal following. And with their increasing audience, the more these social media geniuses believe their own B.S. and the cycle never ends.
Oh! C'mon I never notice women in the workplace. Wy Wives would've De-Lifed me!
If a man cannot handle having women in the workplace, then HE is the problem.
Landmines? You mean like having to show respect to the women around them? You mean like not making disgusting sexually explicit advances or comments to/about them? You mean like having to resist the urge to unwantedly touch a woman without permission? You mean like having to pay her a fair and equitable wage? Those landmines?
If men are so shallow that they can't focus on work with a woman in the office, they have the problem.
Yeah, all men are slathering dogs who can only objectify and exploit all women we come into contact with. We have no self - control. Come on. We are all sexual beings. I have fantasies quite often and can even develop crushes, but have been and will remain faithful to my wife of 49 years.
Landmines left over from the war on women. How about we accept the war happened and work together to remove the mines instead of blaming the oppressed for left over munitions.
Used to agree with Candace's views, then saw a few more of her videos... She just gets ruder and ruder with each one.
I Can’t Even-
She eats while doing cardio? And on top of that she exercises wearing a turtleneck, hair down, wearing earrings and a necklace that don't even go with each other? Mmm, that sounds...odd.
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Anti-vaxxer that won't use birrh-control? Her gaggle of future children are doomed
Mascara Trend Nlog
So Brave - Inspiring
#differentbreed
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Real feminism is letting women do what they want (as long as it's not hurting anyone) without shaming them for their choices.
THIS! Everyone has different priorities and interests, just because you do something doesn't mean everyone has to be that way.
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Aaaaaaand I only made it to #10 this time. You know, instead of attacking each other, maybe we can accept the different people like different stuff and move on.
i’m reminded of that comics post from a while ago. perfect solution: https://preview.redd.it/l9nlm90frmx51.jpg?auto=webp&s=57af6abcef83777cc2870b5d02ea4f3380bfe250
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I think any posts that contains the phrase "We are not the same", where the post isn't either satire or a joke, immediately disqualifies the author from being taken seriously.
As it should, its 2023 we shouldn’t be pitching anyone against anyone. We all like what we like and live and learn at our own pace. Life isn’t a race nor a competitive sport
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I am honestly confused these days. I was a tomboy as a child in the 80s/90s, and I didn't have ANY female friends growing up; all my friends were boys. I don't hate or dislike other females. I ended up having what were then-considered "stereotypically male" hobbies/interests like playing video games, chasing insects, and watching football. I tell people that when they ask about my childhood and I get called a "pick me girl". Am I? I don't understand the term, exactly, and I don't know what I'm doing/saying wrong :/ I didn't hate the other girls or feel superior/different from them... I was just a weirdo regardless of what my gender/sex were/are XD But in all seriousness, I don't really understand what a "pick me girl" is and whether or not I am one.
Lakota, I can assure you that that is not a pick me girl - actually it sounds fun (side note,what kind of video games do you like to play?) And anyway pick me girls aren't self-aware lol so you're a step ahead. Pick me girls are ones who deliberately shun other women and try really hard to get male attention by slagging off their own gender and attempting to be "one of the guys". ACTUALLY being one of the guys is absolutely fine, of course. But these girls who go around saying it all the time can be compared to the "nice guy" thing - if you have to constantly tell everyone around you that you are one, then you're not one.
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to be different. The problem is only when you try too hard or you think you're superior to others because you are not like them.
this! if i'm a girl that simply prefers jeans over skirts, that's fine. but if i'm a girl that prefers jeans and then puts down girls that like skirts, that's when there's a problem.
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I'm me. I'm a combination of my experiences, choices and tastes. I don't go around bragging about them. Whatever for?
This entire post was toxic and disgusting, the fact this is becoming common place in thinking is why i don't actively try to date, it may be self defeating but i may compliment a woman and be genuine but there goes my job.
Why is this titled "people* when clearly the *author* is only targeting women?
H. Pearl Davis needs to delete her account, three terrible entries on this list
Girls. Ok. Please just be yourself. You don't need to broadcast how you are to the world to be noticed by anyone. Just be who you are and those who have the privilege of being around you will see it and appreciate you for you. Forget those who can't appreciate you, and enjoy those who can. But no one needs this kind of social media post to be noticed by anyone.
random question: are you sure you're *constantly* jon?
Load More Replies... Real feminism is letting women do what they want (as long as it's not hurting anyone) without shaming them for their choices.
THIS! Everyone has different priorities and interests, just because you do something doesn't mean everyone has to be that way.
Load More Replies... Aaaaaaand I only made it to #10 this time. You know, instead of attacking each other, maybe we can accept the different people like different stuff and move on.
i’m reminded of that comics post from a while ago. perfect solution: https://preview.redd.it/l9nlm90frmx51.jpg?auto=webp&s=57af6abcef83777cc2870b5d02ea4f3380bfe250
Load More Replies... I think any posts that contains the phrase "We are not the same", where the post isn't either satire or a joke, immediately disqualifies the author from being taken seriously.
As it should, its 2023 we shouldn’t be pitching anyone against anyone. We all like what we like and live and learn at our own pace. Life isn’t a race nor a competitive sport
Load More Replies... I am honestly confused these days. I was a tomboy as a child in the 80s/90s, and I didn't have ANY female friends growing up; all my friends were boys. I don't hate or dislike other females. I ended up having what were then-considered "stereotypically male" hobbies/interests like playing video games, chasing insects, and watching football. I tell people that when they ask about my childhood and I get called a "pick me girl". Am I? I don't understand the term, exactly, and I don't know what I'm doing/saying wrong :/ I didn't hate the other girls or feel superior/different from them... I was just a weirdo regardless of what my gender/sex were/are XD But in all seriousness, I don't really understand what a "pick me girl" is and whether or not I am one.
Lakota, I can assure you that that is not a pick me girl - actually it sounds fun (side note,what kind of video games do you like to play?) And anyway pick me girls aren't self-aware lol so you're a step ahead. Pick me girls are ones who deliberately shun other women and try really hard to get male attention by slagging off their own gender and attempting to be "one of the guys". ACTUALLY being one of the guys is absolutely fine, of course. But these girls who go around saying it all the time can be compared to the "nice guy" thing - if you have to constantly tell everyone around you that you are one, then you're not one.
Load More Replies... There is nothing wrong with wanting to be different. The problem is only when you try too hard or you think you're superior to others because you are not like them.
this! if i'm a girl that simply prefers jeans over skirts, that's fine. but if i'm a girl that prefers jeans and then puts down girls that like skirts, that's when there's a problem.
Load More Replies... I'm me. I'm a combination of my experiences, choices and tastes. I don't go around bragging about them. Whatever for?
This entire post was toxic and disgusting, the fact this is becoming common place in thinking is why i don't actively try to date, it may be self defeating but i may compliment a woman and be genuine but there goes my job.
Why is this titled "people* when clearly the *author* is only targeting women?
H. Pearl Davis needs to delete her account, three terrible entries on this list
Girls. Ok. Please just be yourself. You don't need to broadcast how you are to the world to be noticed by anyone. Just be who you are and those who have the privilege of being around you will see it and appreciate you for you. Forget those who can't appreciate you, and enjoy those who can. But no one needs this kind of social media post to be noticed by anyone.
random question: are you sure you're *constantly* jon?
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