People Ask Americans If These 44 Things Are Actually True In Real Life And Get Surprising Answers
InterviewAmerican culture has permeated the rest of the world so deeply that even people who have never set foot in the U.S. are familiar with it. Many people grow up watching American movies, following American influencers, and absorbing many aspects of American culture in the process. However, there are some things about the U.S. that are exaggerated, whether in fictional stories on the screen, comments online, or other forms of media.
Not every high schooler's experience is like that of HBO's hit show Euphoria, but some Americans are really afraid to call an ambulance because of the high medical bills. In fact, 23% of Americans admitted in 2024 that they didn't call 911 during a medical emergency precisely because of that.
Recently, one Redditor asked people all around the globe: "Non-Americans, what is something about the US that you've always wondered if it was real or just myth/hyperbole?" And people got a chance to dispel any misconceptions they have had about the U.S. and what life there is really like.
Bored Panda also got in touch with the Redditor who posted this thread, and they kindly agreed to have a chat with us. Read our conversation below!
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For those that are against universal healthcare because they don't want to be paying for other people's treatment, do they really not understand how medical insurance works ?
AllRhythmNoBlues:
Yes. They really do not understand. At all.
ETA: I should clarify that the health care system in the U.S. is purposely convoluted. There are a multitude of reasons for this thought process. Some, for example, may think everyone should simply be responsible for themselves, even though that is impossible in a functioning society. Mostly, it's corporate greed driven. Aside from the money structure which has been discussed in another answer, health insurance is tied to employment. It's seen as something to be earned or deserved for working. If you don't work, you supposedly don't deserve to be healthy? Very broadly speaking, the American perspective is that things should be earned and for some reason, your health is included in that. It's depressing on a whole new level because it's self-inflicted.
Once had a MAGA type tell me, after I explained how making Obamacare mandatory brought down the costs of insurance for everyone, that I needed to stop making sense. *sigh* It ultimately wasn't made mandatory and now makes less sense, but is still better than nothing. Stopping the subsidies will make it even more senseless. The US health system is so screwed ...
While I'm sure a significant number of people oppose it because they don't want to pay for other people's health care, but I believe many of them oppose it because they don't trust the government to make their health care decisions. I don't see how it could be much worse than having insurance companies do it, but that's just me.
The reality of single payer is that the governments don't hire people whose job it is to reject health insurance claims. Other than highly expensive treatments for rare diseases (which have a special approval process) there's a list, and the government pays for treatments on that list. All of them. You get your treatment, and then the admin person swipes your health card. All done.
Load More Replies...From what I heard, even having health insurance though your job can leave you in massive debt. So much for earning it...
Oh absolutely and the monthly cost for the insurance is huge. The job only pays a small portion and you pay the rest. Example I am a teacher. To put my whole family of 4 on insurance through my job wold cost me $1260 per month in premiums. Plus the insurance would not start paying for medical care until I had spent $7500 in care costs first.
Load More Replies...IT has been calculated that the average health insurance premiums in the US equal about $7000 a year. Then it was calculated that single payer healthcare would increase taxes to each person about $3000 a year. I guess the average American is so bad at math they do not realize that 3000 is less than half of 7000.
A burger company ( A&W ) ran a promotion with 1/3 pound burgers to compete with the 1/4 pound burgers of another company. Most Americans avoided this because they thought 1/3 was smaller than 1/4. Yes we do teach them all this in school, but a good percentage of our country believes education is worthless and strongly encourages kids to avoid learning.
Load More Replies...The explanation is good, but misses one key point - everybody needs someone to look down on. So they'll vote against anything that might allow the more downtrodden to get a better deal, even if it would help themselves too, just to make sure there is still somebody worse off than they are.
"Give a man someone to look down on, and he'll empty his pockets for you." -Lyndon Johnson
Load More Replies...This is basically wage slavery, or serfdom, re-enacted. It's quite sad to see a wealthy country revert like this.
the USA doesn't have a medical healthcare system. We have a medical profit making system. Any healthcare you get out of it is purely coincidental.
Universal health care also makes the entire population of the country healthier. However, the benefits will come from improved health outcomes for the bottom 50% and the top 50% will receive the same or poorer health care outcomes (because the number of doctors doesn't change, if a country has more patients, this will lead to longer wait times for everyone. Or each doctor has to render care faster, spending less time per patient) On average, this health care outcomes will be statistically better for the whole country, but there will be winners and losers. Please note, this is not a moral argument for or against health care, it is simply helping provide data on why large number of people do not want single payer health care.
Load More Replies..."Death panels" already exist: if an insurance company doesn't want to pay for an expensive treatment they will fight tooth and nail to not allow it or to assert it was never part of the terms of the agreement. Protestors against UHC are supposing with religious certainty that the government will do this and that it will be a totally new thing. Also they deeply believe everything the government does must be wrong and must be done expensively. This doesn't stop them from nodding with approval when the US military pays 2000 USD for toilet seats and 7000 for hammers, both of which are available in a hardware store. So, deep down, they are of dead certainty that people absolutely have to be sick and must suffer and die. They're hoping it's not them. But fkcuit if anything that helps them also helps other people because the pain suffering and death MUST EXIST in their minds.
Is it true that prices of goods in shops is displayed without the tax and you have to work that bit out yourself? Surely not.
ItsNotKenough:
The sales tax also varies from state to state and can even vary from counties and cities within each individual state. Typically people don’t take the time to calculate the sales tax and just know it’ll be more than the price tag.
It varies state to state. I've mostly lived in places with no sales tax and I am always angry when I visit states that do this. And you never know what things are going to be taxed at what rate. Absolute clown show
Just go on with it and divide your states into different counties already 😑 united nations of america. UNA🫡
Load More Replies...For instance; in Iowa, Midwest region of the United States, there's no sales tax on 'most' food. But if you get a rotisserie chicken hot and fresh, that will be taxed. It's confusing to be honest.😕
It's not confusing. Food that needs to be prepared at home is not taxed. Food that's already cooked and ready to eat is.
Load More Replies...In Manitoba, we're taxed Provincial sales tax (7%) and General sales tax (5%) of the total bill, and there are tax exempted products, such has bus fare, milk and children's clothing. But that's only the general sales tax. The provincial sales tax may still be present. Since I suck at math, I just add on an extra few or several dollars when I'm adding up my cart. The more expensive the bill, the more tax you pay on it.
Hotels advertise a room price and then there are taxes and fees as add-ons, which to my mind are the same thing, which leads to a fee being taxable. In New York City there is a city occupancy fee, which is subject to the 10% sales tax. So, a tax on a tax. Most chain hotels fogure all this up when you book, and give you the final price.
Where I live in the US, sales tax is typically around $0.075. If you are keeping track of the price of every item in your cart then it isn't hard to figure out if need be.
I remember this as a child in Canada. I'm grateful to be in the UK now. The price on the label is what you pay.
Are house numbers really as big as they are in movies. Every house is like 51234 something or other street. It's a rare road here in Oz that cracks more than 200.
Flame_MadeByHumans:
The beginning number of a house in the US usually relates to the cross street.
So all the houses between 42nd and 43rd street will be 4210, 4220, etc. It’s typically a codified system instead of houses 1-20 specific to a single street.
Probably bc it's not true. Very few cities have streets that are numbered.
Load More Replies...We have the system in rural Australia (not urban) where the number is the meters from the road start divided by 10, odd on left, even on right. Helps emergency services find rural addresses easily (if too many driveways, they just bag the next number). You can get into the thousands very easily!
Rural in NZ would be (for eg) 4245, Forty Two kms Forty Five meters :-)
Load More Replies...Depends where. I grew up in the St Paul, Minnesota area and was surprised at 5 digit addresses in Indianapolis. Now I live near Joshua Tree Natl Park in Southern California, and the highway is the center of the valley. I guess they started in the town at the western end and kept going to the 70,000s at the eastern end. There aren't numbered cross streets. Come visit! Spectacular, otherworldly scenery and so many stars!
It can depend on how long the street is or how many times it is broken up, but 5 digit numbers are not entirely uncommon especially in the cities and along interstates and highways.
Where I grew up the house number was originally three digits but about 20 years ago it got turned to five digits to assist with the 911 call system. I lived in a semi rural area.
Flame_MadeByHumans is mostly incorrect. In certain large cities where the streets are numbered like that, yes. But very few cities are so orderly. But it is fairly common for the streets to over at the next hundred when there are regularly spaced cross-streets, so you can guesstimate how many blocks 4210 is from 3210.
Much of the length of house numbers depends on the size of the town. Seldom see large house numbers in small towns, or even small cities.
I live in a subdivision in PA, the house numbers go well into the 1000's. No numbers are repeated on any of the streets within it, hence the ridiculously high numbers.
Depends upon the size of the area. My street has only a few houses and the numbers go from 1000 to 1016.
Before all the internet map stuff being available, I delivered pizzas for a while as a teenager. Even when the streets aren't numbered, you can figure out where a house is based on the number and direction. So a town starts numbering based on East and West of Main Street, then someone living at 2346 West Blueberry Street, lives on Blueberry Street...23 blocks West of Main Street. Most US towns and cities even from the 1800s are laid out in grids. This does not necessarily work in the oldest states on the East Coast. (So Virginia and Massachusetts might have towns that don't work like this)
The Redditor u/Bush_Hiders says that most of the responses in the thread weren't very surprising. "America is one of those countries that gets dogged on a lot, so I would be only feeding into the 'Americans being dumb' stereotype if I didn't see those responses coming from a mile away," he tells Bored Panda.
"That being said, I enjoyed reading the less expected responses, and I'd have to say my favorite was someone asking about Cheez Whiz. It's just kinda silly and random, and I can totally see how to someone who doesn't have it in their country, Cheez Whiz is this crazy bizarre thing."
Is it really a common thing that the police busts partys of high-schoolers? Do young people get arrested then because of underage drinking?
ugh_this_world_sucks:
I have ran and hid from the cops many times as a teenager. Almost always exclusively at parties
It has nothing to do with freedom. Parties only get busted if they are disturbing the neighbors who then call the police. Quiet kids don’t get caught.
Load More Replies...So many young Americans have stories about busted teen parties and how they escaped ... or not. In my day, the police just said, "Party's over. Go home."
Same. The cops broke up the parties, but no one was arrested for underage drinking or anything.
Load More Replies...I grew up in the country. Mostly the cops would run by, flash their lights and run the siren a bit and we knew it was time to go home.
Yep. My bff and I were mildly famous in our small high school because we had a huge party that got busted and kids were jumping out all of the windows and running down the alley with cases of beer 🤦🏽♀️
Not just the States. Happened all the time in Canada (Ontario, at least) all the time when I was a teen.
Yeah, but only when they got out of hand and it would be called in by annoyed/concerned neighbours, and it was more illegal if the folks weren't home and teens under 18 were drinking and doing d***s.
Load More Replies...I think it's wild they bust college campus parties and charge young adults with "underage drinking". I saw on Campus PD cops pulling over a woman who had just stepped out of her cab, or DD ride, she said her house was right there. The cops arrested her and charged her with public drunkeness and underage drinking. What??? Are cops, then, following everyone who leaves a bar?
It was a different time (1970s), but the police were directing traffic for people leaving the largest keg party I attended. It was in some abandoned gravel pits and featured a live band (gasoline generator for power), plenty of beer and a motorcycle gang providing security. The pits are now a large community in Northern Virginia called "Kingstowne." I'm not on FB, but there is a group there called "Friends of the Hayfield Pits." We also used to ride motocross there 😀
Oh, it was a rite of passage in the 70s, which is why it was later portrayed in movies. Police would break up parties, but no one I ever knew ever got arrested for underage drinking. Cops weren’t sneaky about their arrival, so a lot of kids ran. I think it was a bit of a sport for both sides. Today, they take it way more seriously.
Is it true that millions of sedentary obese American citizens drive huge pickup trucks and hate cyclists & vegans?
AllieLoft:
If the other comments haven't answered your question- yes. All of those things: pickups, cycling, veganism, are tied to identity and politics at least loosely in this insane current political climate we have. At this point, a lot of us are programmed to make assumptions about people based on their car, eating habits, etc.
Basically, we're drowning in propaganda over here.
That word is so overused and often incorrectly that's it's lost all meaning
Load More Replies...Well there are a lot of men who drive pickups for purely ego reasons. They don't need the truck for work or recreation but it makes them feel like BMOCs.
I used to bike 3 miles to work each way for 10 or so years. Recently rode into town as I used to do on our busy county rd. Never again, these folks no longer care about giving space. Fortunately, we have an abandoned rail corridor that has been designated as a linear trail by the state and runs a total of 70 miles to ride on.
Wait, are there countries where vegans and cyclists aren't hated?
Iirc India has a relatively large number of vegetarians/vegans in some regions. Countries which embrace cycling and/or do not care what you eat are dime a dozen. TLDR: yes.
Load More Replies...It's not just a propaganda problem. It's a culture problem, in the sense that there are so many different sub-cultures, and most people want to feel they belong to a like-minded set of people. The propaganda, most especially political, demonizes different sub-cultures. Obesity is much more widespread than it was when I was a kid, decades ago (thanks to heavily processed foods and addictive, but legal, food ingredients and formulations). The big truck (and Country Music) sub-culture is very prevalent with people who grew up in rural areas. Where I live I'd guess it's about 20% of the population. My guess is that having a big truck 'proves' you fit in with the subculture. But there are many other sub-cultures: motorcycles, skateboarding, computer gaming, artists, etc. and sub-sub-cultures of each of those.
this is complete BS. probably answered by a vegan bicycle owner. half of americans own an EV or hybrid. half of bicyclists ignore stop signs and stop lights.
I don’t think the obese part has much to do with trucks, cyclists, and vegans. The meanest, most bigoted people I know are skinny as h*ll. Maybe they’re just hungry? I don’t think anyone should have a big truck unless they can drive it. Here I’m surrounded by people in big trucks and they can’t drive park back up or signal. I don’t hate cyclist or vegans. I’m glad they’re doing what makes them happy. However… There are an uncountable number of cycle lanes where I live and most of the cyclists REFUSE to stay in them. Vegans? I just wish they wouldn’t bring it up in every. Single. Conversation. I don’t walk around bragging about being an omnivore all the time.
Is it actually true you're scared to call the ambulance or go to the hospital?
Lily_Lupin:
Called the ambulance in college once. Got a bill equal to several months’ rent afterwards. Haven’t called one since - uber or friends it is.
True for most. Even with insurance it can be steep. When my son hurt his knee I called an ambulance because I couldn't lift him into my car (he was 6'2" at only 14). The drivers were nice enough to bandage him up and get him in my car for me so I could take him to the ER. With insurance we were lucky our 5 hour ER visit was only $250, but the ambulance for a non life threatening emergency would've been $1,500! So thanks to those wonderful EMTs we only had to pay $100 to the local fire dept where they were dispatched from.
That's so thoughtful of them. Proves that the people are good even if the system isn't.
Load More Replies...I was in extreme pain once, and my ex drove me to the hospital where he worked as a nurse. We parked and I told him to give it a half hour, and if I wasn't feeling better, I would go in. I couldn't bring myself to go in and then come out thousands of dollars in debt. Fortunately the pain eased (a kidney stone that shifted). Later, when I was pregnant we qualified for state insurance and have been on it since. The utter relief of being able to go to the hospital in an emergency and not be in life-crippling debt is enormous.
Yes, I have friends who've sat in the ER parking lot waiting for the kid's fever to either go down or spike. Walking into the ER can mean hundreds of dollars if you have no insurance, or the now common high deductible insurance. I took my kid to the ER when I was on one of those plans, and it was an $800 charge for what turned out to be really bad constipation. An Ex-Lax would have solved the problem for far less. Luckily I am doing well financially so it wasn't a huge burden, but I am not the norm.
Load More Replies...I'm in Canada. Even though I pay into my work health insurance it doesn't cover me for anything because I'm paying the lowest premiums. Our ambulance service in Manitoba is not entirely covered under our provincial health insurance. Although it does pay the majority of the bill. Now, the province did lower the ambulance fees. Right now the patient pays $250. Some people only rely on the ambulance if necessary.
In the US the average cost of an ambulance is around $2500-4000 for one ride.
Load More Replies...I fell off of a high porch in 2018 and landed on pavement, breaking my pelvis in 3 places. No way could I drive myself, so I called 911 in spite of knowing what it would cost. To add insult to injury, they bashed a dent into my car with the gurney I was on before loading me into the ambulance!
If you are significantly injured in a car crash, you'll go by ambulance. However, by law, hospital emergency rooms are supposed to treat anybody, whether they can pay or not. Some Republican politicians are trying to stop that, pretending that it's a waste of taxpayer money.
Let's just have a two state solution. Republicans can have a part of the US, we'll do an international aid effort to move anyone out who doesn't want to be there, and they can fight over who does the work and pays for infrastructure among themselves.
Load More Replies...I thought I was having a heart issue. Called 911, prompt response. EKG showed no issues. That was it. No bill from them. I live in Minnesota.
It still blows my mind that ANYONE would have to pay to use an ambulance, I watch American police body cam videos on YouTube and if there is a car crash for example the officers ask if anyone needs the paramedics and almost all the time it’s a loud ‘NO’
Well average cost is $2500-4000 so yeah most people will say no.
Load More Replies...I'm Australian and called an ambulance once when I did not have insurance. It cost me $700 (about $350USD).
I started getting dizzy spells that would last about five seconds, then go away. A couple weeks later, it didn't stop. My wife wanted to take me to emergency. Due to our insurance, it would cost us more to go to the er 5-10 minutes away than the one 30 minutes away. By the time I was dressed and started heading downstairs, I was asking how much an ambulance would cost. By the time I got downstairs, I needed an ambulance. The first ambulance called a specialist ambulance. I asked if they could take me to the farther hospital - no. When they got me to the hospital, they found I had multiple blood clots in my lungs and one lung had an infarction (part of the lung had died due to lack of bloodflow). Every doctor and nurse told me I was lucky to be alive and I might not have made it to the other hospital. Even then, I was more worried about the bill.
My wife works in healthcare and used to do insurance contracts, even with excellent health insurance and insider knowledge, it was still ridiculously stressful. I can't imagine going into it from the outside. Our bill ended up being $2200... between the er, scans, multiple doctors, and three days in icu/critical care. It would have been $0 at the other hospital.
Load More Replies...Not here in Canada in the part of living which inebriated is an $80 flat fee
We can't deny that Cheez Whiz is a very American thing, but, surprisingly, other countries have it too. It's also marketed in The Philippines, Canada, Venezuela, and Mexico. What's perhaps even more surprising, is that Cheez Whiz was originally created for the British market, not for Americans!
In 1952, Cheez Whiz came to Britain as an ingredient that would help make the Welsh rarebit quicker. According to legends, the dish was considered tavern food in the 1700s, almost an old-timey version of cheese fries. It's a fairly simple recipe: rye or pumpernickel toast with a cheddar cheese sauce poured over it. To make the recipe even simpler, James. L. Kraft came up with a pre-packaged cheese sauce: Cheez Whiz. And the Brits liked it – Cheez Whiz is still available in Britain today, only, it's not as popular as it is in America.
Do you just hang up the phone without saying goodbye, like in tv shows and the movies?
keirmeister:
No. That’s weird to us as well. I’m not sure where that concept in movies came from.
Can't stand when people just hang up without saying goodbye! Although I think I've only encountered 1 or 2 in my life.
The other TV trope that really bothers me is the mother making a huge breakfast. But everyone in the family just grabs a piece of toast and goes off. Hell no. If I make you pancakes and bacon, you're gonna eat it.
Load More Replies...It's because they want to save time and not bore audiences with daily minutiae
They only skip it in the movies because it's faster that way, apparently.
It's usually because the call dropped! My friends and I usually say "Loves ya! Bye!" We don't say Goodbye. Goodbye is final. Bye is "Seeeee you later!"
They do it in movies and tv for time. Bit there are a few people who do this. My aunt who was like a mom to me was like that. She wasn't a rude person she just never did. I think it's probably because they didn't have a phone when they were little and were busy on the farm or taking care of siblings 😂🤷🏻♀️
No. That's just rude. I sometimes do hang up with a "I'm hanging up now" with a friend of mine who always finds just "one more thing" to say after we've said goodbye 15 times already. LOL
Only if I'm mad and deliberately hanging up on them! Not the same satisfaction of slamming down an old school receiver though! Or if it's a telemarketer or a scam call...
Are there really beer kegs in big parties? Where do you even buy kegs?
GeorgeCabana:
Yes. Many liquor stores offer kegs (you have to return the empty keg and taps).
And across Europe. Funny how they thought it was an American thing, I wonder where they're from?
Load More Replies...In my first year of college, in the dormitory I lived in, for many weekends there would be some guys who went around getting people to contribute funds to purchase kegs of beer (the kegs themselves were returned to get back the 'deposit' money). They would set up the beer kegs at one section of the hallway, and a huge line of students would get in line to get a cup of beer. The line was circular, so that they looped around to refill their cup. No one ever called the police. The following year the college banned it, but it still happened in a more hidden way. Fraternity parties took over most of the load. The college had to clamp down on that, too, and actually banned least one of the fraternities. Off-campus parties became more common.
this is a college party thing. never seen a keg in a private home since i turned 25
You can buy kegs at these cool places called "party stores." There's one that's a drive through in my hometown!
Do you really throw garbage down the sink? Doesn't it get clogged?
Kent_Knifen:
Some sinks are equipped with a garbage disposal. Think of it like a blender hidden just past the drain. It will chop up food particles small enough where they can go down the plumbing.
You would NOT use this for all garbage, just discarded food.
20 years using a heavy duty disposer under our sink and it's still going strong. Can't say that for all our appliances!
I live on a well/septic, so the softener salt eats away at mine. But with a lifetime warranty, I have had two free replacements in 20 years.
Load More Replies...I use mine only for "incidental" food waste, like what comes off an already-scraped plate, or stray leaves from rinsing herbs. It is NOT for routine trash disposal.
Very common in NZ. If you want one you get one installed. I think the only time they aren't allowed to be installed is in certain types of septic systems in rural areas?
As a kid in NZ I remember ours happily munching the little spoons that were forgotten when washing up. Awful noise! And artitic formed spoons!
Load More Replies...Stor sjanse for at det enten kommer mus eller rotter opp av sluket.
I was in my 20s before I saw a garbage disposal, and I've still never seen one in person anywhere but California. I broke the first one I used because the way it was described to me, I understood it to be for anything I would compost. I still don't understand what goes in them or why they exist I'm pretty sure you need city water to have one
Mostly vegetable scraps and it does not require city water or sewer. Actually they are really great if you have a septic system, think like a stomach a septic decomposes waste, the food feeds the bacteria in the septic tank.
Load More Replies...? You think obliterated food waste is the nastiest thing in a sewerage system that could fester?
Load More Replies...sending green beens, broccoli, and uneaten fish down the disposal is more ecologically friendly than having it simmer in your garbage can all week.
Should be illegal here too, our wastewater systems aren't designed to handle it
So, it's slightly a myth that Cheez Whiz is an American-only food. It also feeds into stereotypes that all Americans each junk food only. u/Bush_Hiders tells us that he's seen a lot of exaggerations about the U.S. online, both for misinformation purposes and for comedic effect. Yet, he believes similar misconceptions are floating around about many countries. "Pretty much every country has their fair share of people exaggerating their culture," he says.
One of such stereotypes is that French people apparently smell bad. "I've always wondered where [it] comes from," u/Bush_Hiders adds. "What's the deal with that? France has a lot of stereotypes to its name that I'm curious of the origin to."
Do your police systems/databases not talk to each other? Like you always hear “they crossed state lines we lost them” whereas in australia everyone is in the one database. You do something in one state? You’ll show up in the next.
protomanEXE1995:
We are remarkably divided among states and localities. The cultural demand for various levels of local sovereignty means that centralized control is heavily discouraged and rather uncommon.
The issue is also local police don't have authority outside their actual area. That's why the predecessors of the FBI were created. If you are found in anither state you have to be extradited to the place of the alleged crime, just like if you crossed international boundaries. The states came first the United came later
Yes, unless you've committed a federal offense or serious crime, but if it's a routine traffic offense? You're pretty much Scott free - not that I speak from experience 😏
Scott free, unless you happen to return to the jurisdiction and get caught. Then your unpaid ticket (and subsequent court order) land you in jail.
Load More Replies...In a very very loose sense, think of the US federal government as an overreaching version of the EU and, as far as state’s rights & sovereignty goes, each state as a member nation. Again, a very basic comparison, but California’s local law enforcements or state highway patrol connect with Arizona’s much in the same way France’s Police Nationale confers with Spain’s CNP.
If you're speeding in another country of the EU tgan your own you can be d**n sure that you'll get a letter home.
Load More Replies...We have city, county (aka sheriff department), and state police. Each one is restricted to acting only within those specific boundaries. Once it crosses state borders, it becomes a federal problem, which (depending on the crime/circumstances) then goes to one of the federal agencies like the FBI or US Marshals. There are exceptions, of course, where there are jurisdictional grey areas, but that's generally how it works.
Police can and do cross state lines if in “hot pursuit”. Once the arrest is made, the prisoner is taken to the local jail and dealt with by local police until extradition.
Load More Replies...And when you watch a cop show on TV and they look in their computer to match the serial number of the gun to its owner, that never existed. Congress and the NRA outlawed having a computer data base of gun ownership. But ironically Trump is now promoting the creation of such a data base. A dictator needs to be able to confiscate the guns of anyone who disagrees with them. And at the rate Trump is going, even Republicans and MAGA will end up hating him.
There are certain databases that are shared by all. They follow state law. The rest, everyone in law enforcement can easily obtain information from with some minor hoop jumping. It's not like it was in the 70s.
police are not allowed to cross state lines to pursue suspects. just like french police cannot cross the channel to pursue french criminals
Crossing state lines doesn't evade you from a ticket or the problem. Interstate departments do communicate with each other. Keep in mind our states are sometimes larger than European countries, so it's likely similar to someone escaping into another country, but warrants follow you everywhere, and if your crimes are severe the departments give surrounding states a heads up. Crossing state lines isn't a get out of jail free card.
Can you really pull yourself up by your bootstraps all on your own and achieve the American dream?
Amenmeit:
Unless you get extremely lucky or severely neglect your health, not anymore. Round about the mid to late nineties that fizzled out.
Yes absolutely. My hubby and I were both very poor growing up and we achieved it. But what they don't tell you is that the American Dream is really 3 very tired, debt laden, stressed out owls in an overcoat
There will always be super achievers who raise themselves above expectations. But my view of a healthy society is one that allows for average people to easily reach a level of independence and a comfortable life.
With generational wealth and access to resources & networks, you sure can!!! /s
The claim "pulling yourself up by your bootstraps" is a silly idea. The phrase originated to describe a physically impossible or ludicrous task according to the laws of physics. It is believed to have originated from a physics problem in a late 19th-century textbook that asked, "Why can not a man lift himself by pulling up on his bootstraps?". An earlier version of the tale from the 18th century told of a character who pulled himself out of a swamp by his own hair, which is the same concept of an impossible task. Over time, the phrase's meaning shifted to praise self-reliance and hard work to achieve success. However, this usually isn't possible without the interaction or participation of others. Example: A successful merchant or business would not be so if not for consumers; a successful athlete needs others to compete against, etc.
I agree with Amenmeit: Things are much different in the US than they were a couple generations ago.
Only if you are very smart and somehow can afford to go to at least a two year technical college. There is no such thing as learning on the job anymore.
It's not easy to start a small business, and how to navigate the tax systems is difficult since it's not taught in most schools. The societal needs of a person's community generally dictate what kinds of jobs they can get, and when an old business declines a new entrepreneur usually starts up. This is my experience in my hometown.
Do schools really have their own police/security?
CuriousCuriousAlice:
Yes, the bigger ones. In my city you will see them in their own police cars that say ‘[school name] campus police’ on the side. Honestly, most of their time is spent dealing with traffic before and after school.
When I went to school here in Australia the tough guy on staff who dealt with a parent who became physically violent was the janitor!
American here. I've never seen seen (or heard of) a public grade school (meaning an elementary, middle, or h.igh school) that has its own campus police. That's usually what's called a resource officer, and they're just a regular city police officer(s) assigned to the school. But universities do often have their own campus police force.
No, public schools don't have an official police force. They have police officers who serve as resource officers. But yes, a LOT of colleges have their own police departments.
Load More Replies...Small cities also have security; often comprised of off-duty police, retired police, or trained security personnel. One school I know of has hired 2 retired Military Police officers. Schools often have cameras at every entrance, at entrances to restrooms, at entries to school athletic locker rooms, and outside, facing windows. It it's big enough for a body to enter, it has a camera. Parents and citizens demand them. Governments complain about the price, as though thousands of children's lives aren't worth it. And people ask me why I didn't have children.
When I was growing up in the 60's and 70's you didn't hear about school police at schools or colleges. You didn't need them. This probably started in the nineties when school shootings started.
In my state, most K-12 schools have a school resource officer that is a deputy from the sheriff's departments. The local University has it's own police force, as does the local theme park, but most of the colleges have a private security force except for the really small ones.
in-school narcotics sales are a problem. especially in communities controlled by gangs. the theory is that onsite police, d**g sniffing dogs, and metal detectors keep most of the gangs and dealers outside in the parking lot.
What about you, Pandas? What stereotypes about America have you always wanted to check? And which myth or misconception about your own country would you like to debunk the most? Let us know in the comments! And if you can't think of any, check out which stereotypes about their home countries these folks came up with!
One of our exchange students was floored when she found out that the yellow school buses are real.
The US has so many rural areas where public transportation just isn't available (and it's not always because the area hasn't invested in it, it's sometimes just that homes are so spread out, it's not practical).
This is very true. Even our cities can sprawl out with long distances from home to local school.
Load More Replies...I keep hearing this on such threads. What is so hard to believe about a yellow school bus. (They're yellow for visibility. It's been so successful that they've changed the color of fire trucks from red to yellow a long time ago More of a cream color, though.)
Our school buses are just normal ones but doing the school run at that time of the day, with the school's name on the destination panel at the front. I think the yellow just seems cute to non US people, the same as red London buses are interesting to non UK people.
Load More Replies...Visited America and saw those buses with my own eyes for the first time and it just blew me away. No idea why, but there ya go.
Safety. Everyone can clearly see the vehicle filled with children
Load More Replies...The closest public school to my house is a 35 minute drive. We have one public bus (which is free) that comes by once per day in each direction. It would take over a hour for a kid to get from where I live to the school. Also, they’d be very late as the bus stops by at 8:25 & 6:55. Many locals don’t have the time or resources to drop off a pick up their children. The only way for these kids to get to school is the school bus.
What does that have to do with the colour of the bus? School buses work quite well in other countries without having to be yellow…
Load More Replies...her homeland must be one of those places where the regime controls everything you see on TV, and most people assume it's a lie?
In 6th through 8th grade, I had an hour ride every morning to get to school at the other end of the county.
In rural areas, there used to be a lot more local schools with VERY small populations. It's all been consolidated down into districts, so kids need transportation to/from school. I recall having an hours' bus ride (with all the stops).
Does your front door actually lead directly to the living room? that's so wild to me. Like if I'm lounging on the sofa and my room mate comes home with maybe even another guest in tow, they'd be entering right into the living room and the door is opened to the outside?
Ironhold:
Depends on region, age of house, design of house, and lots of other things. Most of my apartments had some kind of entryway, at least. A few of my friends' houses front door was straight to the living room/front room and the back door was straight to the kitchen.
I only know one house like that (the oldest). Everyone else I know has a hallway.
Load More Replies...I've lived in 16 different houses and apartments. The front door opened directly to the living room (no door or wall separation) in 12 of them. Two of them had a short connecting hallway. One had the living room in the back of the house.
Some regions, if there's more than one entrance, you wouldn't use he front door unless you werea stranger or on some kind of official business. The stairs at our back door broke so we had a year of people coming in the garage because friends (even when explicitly told you can use the front one) was comfortable going to the front.
I've lived in three homes with direct entry to the living room. Two homes with foyers. One home with two front doors; one door to the living room and one door to a parlor. Most inexpensive modern homes lead straight into living rooms. My current house has such an entrance, but we also have a back door, as well as a door from the garage into the dining room. It's crazy!
When I think of all the places I've lived in the US, and the all the houses I've visited, I can safely say that there is generally a living room or some sort of sitting room pretty close to the front door, and in some circumstances, the door will open directly into the living room.
My SF (rental) house is an Edwardian, so the front door opens to a foyer with a parlor to one side, library to another with a long hall towards dining room, kitchen and “living room” at the back. Midway down the hall is the staircase leading to an upstairs landing. My (primary) Hawaii home is a shipping container lanai house, with living spaces connected by open air outdoor covered walkways. Think of a hallway with no walls. The central open gathering room is the living room. It is connected by covered patios in both sides to bedrooms/bathrooms on one side, gaming room, dining space, office and bathroom on the other. Houses in the USA are just as varied as homes anywhere else.
Yes, very common in small or moderate size houses. But I gotta say, when visiting the fancy chateaus abroad (like Versailles, etc), I was shocked to fine BEDROOMS opening directly to the ballroom or other highly public spaces. I guess I imaged royals would build their palaces with a little more thought to privacy?
this was style from 1945 to about 1955, when there was a building boom to add houses for returning world war 2 troops. in warrmer climates you don't need a foyer to keep the chill from entering the house anyway.
How common are basements and attics in houses?
Is it exclusive for middle and upper middle class and above or most houses have them?
atomiku121:
Depends on the area you're in. In my area (Midwest) both are quite common for a couple reasons.
Attics are common because we can get a LOT of snow, so sloped roofs are needed to handle the load. Depending on the slope, the space may not be usable for much outside of storage, hence the attic. My home has an attic that was large enough to convert into a large master bedroom.
Basements are common here because the soil has a lot of clay and is generally soft enough to dig through without too much issue, and having a portion of your home below grade is very nice to have in the event a tornado comes through.
What I think is wild is that you can fall through the attic fooor. In Europe attic floors are made out of reinforced concrete. There's no falling through there. Also, you can't punch through a wall. You can try it. Once. After that you'll wish for a better health care system (again).
Not in the UK, unless you've professionally converted the attic it's only boards and insulation blankets and you will fall through
Load More Replies...I grew up in California and actually hadn’t seen a basement until I visited the East Coast.
Almost no basements in Florida due to high water levels. Some attics but we only had a small bit of storage in ours.
Depends on where you live. Most homes don't have basements or attics in Arizona.
Yes. But I've noticed in warmer weather states like Arizona basements are uncommon.
I always assumed caliche was why AZ doesn't tend to have basements.
Load More Replies...What @atomiku121 stated. My current home has no basement, which is a bad thing for Midwest America and its' propensity for tornadoes. But we can't afford a basement home, so we rely on prayer and a center hallway.
They are not common in my state because we are so close to sea level.
Some homes don't even have a real basement, just a crawl space. Some homes have attics turned into loft spaces. It not only depends on the region, but the era and design of that type of home.
Common enough that it's unusual for a house not to have either.
Can confirm. Every house I've lived in has a basement and attic.
Shark Week.
Is it really just about sharks?
vixiecat:
Sure is! It’s great! All day and night, nothing on that channel but programs about sharks.
This is a Discovery Channel thing. If you have access to Discovery Channel, you have access to shark week.
And if you have a streaming movie service they may have an overabundance of shark movies. Jaws will ALWAYS be on. LOL
Load More Replies...Shark week in the UK is a way of telling someone you're on your period 😆
It is. Still remember blocking out the whole week as a kid to watch this 😂
shark week started shortly after the film Jaws became the movie of the century. This was no boating accident . . .
Do people really drive drunk as casually as they do in tv and movies? It seems like in tv shows even cops just get behind the wheel after slamming a few whiskeys, and regular people drive black out drunk.
peternormal:
Absolutely. It is not as common as it used to be, but like, for example... When I was a kid in the 80s it was legal to drink a beer while driving in Texas.
Yes. Makes me sick to think how many times we did as idiot "kids" and I'm so thankful nothing bad ever happened. Also makes me happy to see how the culture is changing (even here in WI!) that more people are choosing to take Uber and people younger than us (Gen Z) really don't drink like we used to.
It depends on where you live I grew up in New England and we always had a designated driver or you just stayed where you are. In Alaska everyone on the roadbelt knows at least one person whose been k****d by a drunk driver
Had a friend who drove into a tree on a school campus while 3 times over the limit. He kept blowing higher and higher numbers but talked like he was perfectly sober.
I had a friend (not America) who was very cavalier about drinking and driving. It will forever be a truly sickening irony that he later died in a road accident... caused by someone ELSE who was drunk behind the wheel.
Yes. And it's due to America's crazy attitude toward alcohol. Legal drinking age in my state is 18. Legally, parents cannot give alcohol to their children to get them used to its effects in a safe environment. Then again, drunken parents don't make good role models for moderate behavior. It's crazy here. Some counties in some states do not allow alcohol sales at all. And unlike some European countries that have limited times stores are open, we have 24/7/365 stores, and a lot of theft.
Yup. And then, after years of doing it without any mishap I got caught. I was so blitzed my fine was enhanced and I would have had to do three months of "DUI school" (a fekkin' scam is all it really is). So, I never tried to get my license reinstated. I just gave up driving instead. That was over fifteen years ago. It was the best choice at the time and scarcely affects me today, and I'm now seventy. I figured that since millions of other Americans can live without driving a car so can I. I don't miss it.
Watch police body cam videos on YouTube, the amount of drunk drivers is astounding from a bit tipsy to ‘ how do they even know where the steering wheel is’ drunk, it annoys me so much when the police play it down …’ you will be home in a couple of hours’..’ at least you are ok’ …’ it’s only a ticket’ ..’ who can we call to pick you up from the station’ 😡😡😡
this is BS. America people do not regularly drive with open containers. they do not carry concealed weapons on their persons. they are not ninjas wearing office attire. We don't even vote.
I graduated high school in the late 80s, and my class was determined not to have any drunk driving deaths. We all agreed to rules about graduation parties especially, and the actual graduation night we had parents make this all night party inside the school with games/prizes and literally locked ourselves in all night. Because for the 20 years before, usually two or more kids in the same car died in a car accident, at least once every two years. And the class two years older than us lost two kids in a drunk driving accident. We kept safe.
In The Sopranos, Tony quotes another character saying "Nowhere else in the world [do] people expect to be happy except here in this country and still we're not."
Do most Americans actually have that expectation?
jimb575:
As an American, I can unequivocally say that this is 100% true. I never understood this drive that people have here that they need to be happy. Not content, but happy. We’re taught that if you’re not happy then there is something wrong. In my view, this causes all types of issues - hyper-materialism, self doubt, false competition, etc…
And the worst part is that the people that expect to be happy usually expect someone else to make them happy…
Even with half the wildlife in your country trying to k**l you?
Load More Replies...In America you just have to BUY all the stuff that is supposed to make you happy, right?
Yep! I think the majority of this materialistic view of happiness is driven directly by advertising.
Load More Replies...I don't agree with this answer at all. Yes, there are people that have literally no idea what things are actually like in other countries, mostly because the schools and public media rarely talk about it. I'd guess the percentage would be 20-30% of people, depending on where they live, their income, and level of curiosity. I do think it's getting worse with Facebook and TikTok replacing people's exposure to the real world.
Personally, I like the feeling of being outrageously content instead of "happy". "Happy" is transient. Contentment lives forever.
our constitution guarantees the right to "life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness". its why people keep sneaking in from everyplace else. and the jobs, too.
Happiness based on outside forces is bred by consumerism and encouraged by the same evil. Contentment and at peace are bred by gratitude, minimalism, and sustainability in your current dynamic. It's a shame these are not more highly valued
From watching (admittedly too much) reality shows - how common is lip-fillers/Botox in people in their 20s/30s?
FluffyOwl30:
In every day people? Probably not high. In people who make money off their appearance? Probably high.
I was going to say that, I see women with lip fillers basically everyday, it's becoming as common as getting your nails done
Load More Replies...Los Angeles has a high number of people who were 10 out of 10 where they grew up and are 6s and 7s here because they all moved here to be an actor in the movies. So boosting your tiny chances with surgery is totally a thing. So... yes! around here yuppers.
Apparently I’m a younger version of Anderson Cooper. Enough so that I’ve actually been mistaken from him on many occasions. Not only am I actually younger than him, but the Botox makes it apparently so. As in much fewer wrinkles. So, yea. We do get enhancements. But to be fair, I first got injections for migraines. The smoothing of crows feet & forehead is just an added benefit. - Your body is your home. You should never have to justify renovating or upgrading it as you see fit.
Also depends on where you live. I am thankful to live in a community where people have money but don't generally care about looks. Go to the East and West Coasts and it's such a normal thing, even if you don't have a ton of money.
I live on the east coast, mid-Atlantic, and I've never seen this. At least not done so it's obvious.
Load More Replies...it's impolite to ask any gir. or about breast augmentation. or if her hair color is natural. or her age. or if she's a virgin. we're very polite about these things.
I had Botox in my rib cage, it hurt like a M**o! It was to try to paralyse the nerves that cause me so much pain after my lung surgery -- it didn't help the issue 😒
Yeah, it's becoming more and more common - even in the Midwest I'm seeing way more young women "in the wild" that have fillers etc.
That you have to "earn" your sick days at work.
ATLDeepCreeker:
Not earn, "accrue".
When you start a job that pays by the hour, you accrue a certain percentage of PAID sick time per week. The same holds true for vacation time.
You can also take unpaid sick time. Some companies are flexible also, allowing you to use un-accrued sick time, before you actually earn it.
If you are on salary, its a bit different. All of my sick and vacation time is available to me on January 1st.
In Australia you get a set amount of sick days you can take... *without a doctor's certificate*. So if you're off sick for... I think three days in a row, after that you need a certificate. Which is easy to get and doesn't cost anything.
Same in the UK, but I think it's 7 consecutive days before you need a doctor's note
Load More Replies...This depends on the size of the company and the type of the job position. For every amount of hours you work, you earn a certain amount of sickleave. It’s disgusting when compared to time off and other developed, fully functioning nations.
To a European, this simply sounds strange. Insurance companies pay employers a portion of the wages lost due to sick employees, and ANYONE can take as many sick days as they want and still get paid. Of course, employers will eventually become skeptical if they suspect you're faking something. But in principle, you can always take paid sick days and get an average of 30 paid vacation days per year. In addition, parents get paid sick days for their children.
To a European, almost everything about the USA is strange.
Load More Replies...This is true in Canada, too. I accrue hours to sick time, vacation pay and time resets annually, around the anniversary of when you started. It doesn't mean that if I don't have enough sick time and I call in sick I'll get fired. It goes "unexcused" though, and you'll go back with a counselling or fyi. The worst that happened was when I had the worst lung infection of my life that sent me to urgent care. I was off work for a week. My position relied heavily on my ability to speak very clearly and smoothly. I was forced to go back the following week, still sounding hoarse. I wasn't coughing, although a nasty lady accused me of coughing and worried I was going to get her sick. I wasn't sent home, but my team leader tried brushing it off that I was sounding like that on purpose. HR refused to believe I was sick at all, or that I was sick cos I "can't handle working 5 days a week", forcing me to reduce my hours to 3 shifts a week and made me sign a last warning. Still angers me.
This is true, and only for some states. Most states STILL don't require companies to offer paid sick leave.
I Norge er det ingen fast kvote for sykedager i året, men det finnes regler for hvor mange egenmeldingsdager man kan bruke. Som hovedregel kan man bruke inntil fire egenmeldingsdager (hver på maks tre kalenderdager) i løpet av en 12-måneders periode, noe som gir en total på 12 dager. For virksomheter med IA-avtale kan grensen være høyere, ofte opptil 24 egenmeldingsdager i en 12-måneders periode. I tillegg finnes det egne regler for permisjon ved barns sykdom, som gir rett til 10 eller 15 dager per år, avhengig av antall barn.
We use a Personal Time Off system, where it's a single pool of time, but you don't need to give a reason for your absence.
you don't get time off starting the first day you work. about half of new hires are recently fired from another job - sometimes for cause (absenteeism, sexual harassment, drinking on the job). new employers give them 90 days or so to reveal their flaws before signing them up for all the extras.
Exactly how and when you gain and/or use your PTO (Paid Time Off) depends entirely upon the company policies. As a truck driver I got no sick time. If I was too sick to drive, I didn't get paid. If I was really sick or needed an operation, and would be off for several weeks, I had short-term disability insurance. Where I am now, I accrue PTO at around 0.9 hours per 8 hours worked. I can call in and take time off, even if I don't have any hours accrued, I just don't get paid for it.
The pledge of alliance, is that something that is children actually have to say daily?
Elegant_Bluebird_460:
Yes, in public schools and many private schools. I can't think of a time in my adult life I have ever said it. However, kids cannot be forced to say it according to the Supreme Court.
You cannot be forced to recite it. It’s also interesting when the “under God” was added to it. That’s not part of the original pledge. So someone will recite the pledge without saying that part.
Neither was "indivisible" (added after Civil War).
Load More Replies...A flag is a symbol. You don't have allegiance to a symbol, only the thing it stands for. The bald eagle is another symbol of the US. Has any American ever pledge allegiance to it?
Exactly right. If you have to pledge allegiance to anything you should be pledging allegiance to teh Constitution. .... "I pledge allegiance to the Constitution of the United States of America and to the Republic which it founded. One nation, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all."
Load More Replies...The government gave us a flag when Dad died (served in the army). It has lost a lot of meaning since the Orange Menace took office. And I am angry at him for what he's done to tarnish something I held dear.
This answer is wrong, or at the least overstating things. I've been a teacher for 20 years, most of it in the US, and I've only worked in one school where the pledge was recited.
Technically yes, but I refused to say it after a certain age. I stood, but refused to cover my heart or recite the oath. They finally gave up after writing me up several times.
It really depends on the school district. Most elementary schools will teach it to the kids their first year, and maybe say it once in a while so you know it, but in my area it's not a daily thing for most students. I would guess schools that play the national anthem before games (I've only ever seen professional teams, or college teams whose games were televised do this) would be the type of places who have the kids pledge allegiance to the flag. Ironically they will also be the schools where justice for all is not a key value.
I grew up as a JW, so for religious purposes, I was exempt from saying the pledge. But pretty much all my other classmates had to while I sat and watched. And because I did that for so many years, I still know the pledge by heart, though I've never actually said it haha
Nah, my kids go to a public school and they don't say it. Maybe at the veterans day assembly but that's about it.
Is it true Americans have no job security and your boss can just fire you for no reason, like Trump in the Apprentice?
tstackspaper:
Yes this is true. It’s called “at-will employment”
It is illegal for an employer to terminate an employee for reasons that violate federal or state laws, however you’d be burdened proving this in a court of law so typically people just move on instead of waisting time trying to sue over it.
Depends upon what kind of job you have. Some have union protection.
many jobs feature a contract, or union guarantees. for exmaple, teachers and police officers must be convicted of a felony to be dismissed. the only people who work in "at will" industries are doing things like cashiers, janitors, construction workers, etc. officer workers can be dismissed enmasse when AI shows up.
There are some things that help. You can collect unemployment if fired. Usually your employer contract outlined what happens in termination
Well, it's not as much an absolute as the respondent asserts. There are a lot of exceptions to the "at will" rules.
And then you can qualify for unemployment benefits, 6 month of partial wage replacement while you search for employment.
This is only partially true. I am a middle manager in corporate America. It's hard for me to fire someone. It takes a lot of documentation, the person has to be ran through a performance improvement plan. It can take several months and if the person is a minority, it's almost impossible.
But what you describe is company policy, not legal rights. And the company can change or merely disregard that policy at any time.
Load More Replies...No. In most states after an employee passes 90 days. you need justification to fire them. Day 91 is usually when they show their true colors and you have to start documentation in order to get rid of them.
That's incorrect. Every state (except Montana) is a "right to work" state, meaning employment can be severed at anytime and for any reason, by either party. The only exception to this is if someone is fired for a legally covered reason (FMLA or retaliation, for example) or because they are a member of a protected class (race, s*x, religion, disability w/o accommodation etc.). Or, if a company is laying off a large % of their staff they must give 90 days notice (I could be wrong on # of days). Otherwise, as I tell my clients, a person could literally walk into work wearing a blue tie, their boss could say "I hate the color blue, you're fired" and that is perfectly legal - because what is right isn't always legal, and what's legal isn't always right. I've been an HR pro with consulting clients across the country. However, most good HR will require documentation to ensure they are minimizing legal exposure for the company
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Do school kids really sell wrapping paper and cookies to make money?
budgie02:
Sometimes, school fundraisers are common. At least when I was in school we got a magazine of home items like candles, blankets and such and would have to canvas the neighborhood and our family to sell it. The kid who sold the most would win an Xbox, or something like that.
Chocolate bars are the thing here. Mums and Dads all over NZ bringing boxes to the work site to sell them for the kids. :-)
Someone has their kid's chocolate bars sitting in the break room at work right now. They have a sign saying the chocolate is $1 a bar, just stick it in the envelope that's in the box.
Load More Replies...Yes, at least in my kid's schools. Proceeds go to the PTO, which supports the school.
From US and I think the thing that has not been stated yet is it is for extra activities not school funding. Think end of year events and things like that.
We did this too in middle school, but with pins for cancer charities and research, because our schools are government funded by law. (CZE)
no more. at least not door to door. insurers won't cover any crimes perpetrated on kids being sent door to door for small change.
Overpriced wrapping paper. Cookies & chocolate do better My high school sold liquid soap when it was a new "thing." $6 per bottle in the late 70's. My mom didn't buy. I went to a school with a large number of Jewish kids, so we got to buy bagels in class. I just wished they had cream cheese or onion bagels too. They're pretty dry by themselves.
Haven't really thought about it "always", but become wondering some time ago if americans really can't go anywhere without car. Do they really can't come outside their homes and go by legs with friends to nearest park or some shopping mall to just chill there? Are they really imprisoned in their suburbs untill some parent drive them on their hammer 100 km to the nearest "fun place" or untill the same parents buy them a car?
LakeExtreme7444:
The more rural you are, the more dependent on a car you’ll be. Where I live, the closest gas station and grocery store are about 10-15 minutes away and I live 30 minutes from my work (this is all by car). We don’t have public transportation where I live, so if I didn’t have a car, I wouldn’t be able to work or buy things without a full day’s walk, at the very least.
Timtronic125:
My local park is about 1.4 miles away. That's 4 minutes by car, 35 minutes to walk.
I work in the next city over. 26 miles by interstate @ approximately 40 minutes commute time. Walking to work would take 9 hours. America is huge and really spread out. And I live in the suburbs. Couldn't imagine living in the Midwest.
Unless you live in a major city, public transportation and sidewalks are almost non-existent. I would love to walk to shopping centers!
Same! We have tons of shops near our house, but can't walk or bike because of the huge highways. I'm so jealous of my coworkers who live in the city and don't even own a car.
Load More Replies...I thought this thing that America doesn't have sidewalks was the most bizarre gaslighting b******t. Until I spent some time in Tennessee. Sidewalks aren't a thing in Tennessee, and you pretty much do need a car to go even a few blocks away. It kinda s***s. The big cities all have subways, and the mid-sized cities all have bus networks, but when you have to wait 45 minutes to switch busses, a commute with even one or two transfers is s**t.
Particularly if the temperature is 110F (43.333 if you count on your fingers).
Load More Replies...My dad was floored when he was in the US for work. He wanted to go from the hotel to a restaurant literally directly opposite on the other side of the free/high way (not sure of the difference). It wasn’t safe to cross so he asked at the front desk which direction to walk in to get to a pedestrian bridge or subway and was told there was no such thing. He would have to get into his car and drive there. For something literally on the other side of the road!
See, that's an outlier. Most of the time, you can walk across roads. Just not the 70+mph interstates.
Load More Replies...Public transport is scarce in much of rural Ireland too. It is improving, but for the most part of you live a distance from work or school, you'll need a car.
you can't own a car in cities lie NY or San Francisco. there is separate rent for a parking space, and insurance is as high as the moon. if you own actual land (one quarter acre, in the suburbs) you need a car, because your 2 miles away from any shopping district or train station. people in america don't ride bikes because they either live in the snow belt, or they're south of the mason dixon line where its 90 degrees for 6 months of the year, with an afternoon thunderstorm.
This country was built around the automobile. In some communities you have to drive for miles before you are even out of the suburb. Then another 5 to 10 miles minimum to your destination. It really bites because our public transportation generally s***s too.
Little-known fact: automobiles have existed in North America since the 16th century!
Load More Replies...Its a really big country and people are very spread out. I think it would almost impossible to make most places accessible by public transportation. The cost would be enormous. To allow most people to be able to walk to a store, you would have stores everywhere. There are huge areas without any businesses or people.
I live in a metropolitan area of around 1.5 million people and public transit is pretty limited to the town that operates it, even though it's really just 1 big continuous area. The problem is you often have to travel to another town to find good work so you still have to rely on cars.
I've always wondered if people really do have endless refills at restaurants or if it's just a thing in movies.
DonovanSarovir:
Yeah that's real, but generally only applies to fountain drinks like soda and cheap lemonade (NOT SPRITE), as well as black coffee. You'll pay once and they keep you topped up, or sometimes you can refill it yourself. Expensive drinks like cocktails and stuff are one-offs like other places though.
Soda is just so cheap because of corn subsidies that each glass costs them like five to ten cents.
I'm absolutely puzzled by the response ("NOT SPRITE"). I have never, ever seen sprite exempted from free refills. I don't even know how that would work.
Some places call Sprite lemonade (I think it's in the UK, but I'm not sure). The OP was trying to clarify that they meant the non-carbonated drink made from lemon juice and sugar, not the lemon-lime carbonated drink brand.
Load More Replies...Sprite is also free to refill at any restaurant I've encountered. What do you mean by "cheap lemonade"? Lemonade in the U.S. is a drink derived from real lemon juice, sweetener, and water. In Europe, lemonade is usually meant to mean Sprite, 7-UP, and similar carbonated drinks. What has happened to many fast foods in my area is to remove the means for people to serve themselves refills. Now one must take their cup to the counter where the staff refills it. It's to cut back on theft. This goes for coffee and iced tea as well. I once had a very snazzy looking businessman come in, refill his enormous coffee canister, and leave. The canister had the McDonald's logo on it, and he thought that meant free refills forever. When I confronted him, he tried to gaslight me into feeling embarrassed at what I did. Didn't work. I didn't brew fresh coffee just so he could have a free caffeine rush at his office.
How much does a glas of say Coke cost? I mean, they have to calculate the refills in somewhere
Some places in Canada have free refills, but not all. Sometimes coffee is also "bottomless".
Uh , no. Sprite is absolutely unlimited refills if it is a fountain drink. Not sure which region this guy lives in, but they must really must love that lemon n lime soft drink.
I often wondered if people really go to places in their pajamas sometimes. Ive lived in the US now for a long time and I know that that answer is "sometimes yes in certain places".
I also heard that highschoolers sometimes would go to their classes in PJs, I dont know if this is true or not (or for college classes for that matter).
AngryKitty57:
I see people at the gas station and Walmart in Pajama pants very very often.
Leisure wear (sweats, leggings, slippers, pajamas) is seen everywhere, from stores to classes to airplanes. I get feeling comfortable, but there are so many stretchy clothes options now that can't you just wear something that's meant for public view?
We got tired of dressing in uncomfortable clothes for a trip to the market, just to return home and crawl back into comfy stuff. It just grew from there. As long as the body is covered, what business is it of anyone else? Try it, you may never want to go back.
Load More Replies...I don't know about today if kids wear pj's to school but back in the 60's and 70's you didn't do that. I see more pictures of people in pj's at Walmart and not anywhere else. I don't know why but I see pictures of people at Walmart wearing all types of crazy clothes but not any where else..
this is a girl thing. most teenage girls, or ethnic 20-somethings in the urban centers. some also wear crocs or slippers. if you're just going to the ATM, then KFC and the Liquor store, you don't dress up for the occasion.
I'm assuming the PJs thing is a fad. fads come and go. When I was in High School wearing hospital scrubs was, for some reason, a thing for a year or so.
It was very common for girls to wears pajamas to class if they lived on campus (I'd assume) at my university, nobody would bat an eye. Can't remember ever seeing a guy in pajamas though (but I probably wouldnt even notice what a guy was wearing, tbh).
I was surprised that people wear shoes indoors in the US. I thought it was only a movie set thing.
LetsGoGators23:
It is very climate dependent I find. I grew up in snowy, muddy upstate NY and you absolutely took your shoes or boots off. The last 21 years in Florida, not nearly as necessary and you are in/out a lot more that makes it more impracticable to take them off. Not impossible, my Indian and Asian neighbors absolutely always take shoes off. It’s also heavily tiled indoors and it’s really hard on the feet/back to not have shoes on.
We wear "house shoes" in my home - in muddy/snowy Midwest it's a must. If it's summer time we'll usually wear our sandals inside and take them off when we get to our bedroom
Here in the UK, most people do not take their shoes off when going into a house - either their own or belonging to others...I know hundreds of people and can only think of one family who takes shoes off in a house.....Very rare here.......It would never occur to me to do it, seems weird!.......
we don't wear shoes inside the homes of asians who have moved to america. we wear shoes in our own homes, though. visitors remove their shoes in my home if they're muddy or snowy.
In my house (and every home I lived in growing up) door opens = shoes off!
If you didn't wear shoes indoors (according to my parents) then you would be revealing to the neighbors that you couldn't afford them and only wore them outside when you needed to to reduce wear.
I wear socks - so when I take off my shoes at the door, I'm covered.
We're in GA and don't wear shoes, partly because my parents want to keep their house clean
Grew up on American movies thinking prom was this glitter-bombed fairy tale with slow-mo entrances and no awkward dad dances—turns out my US cousin's was just sweatpants and pizza in a gym, but hey, the myth kept my teen dreams alive longer than reality ever could.
rancidmilkmonkey:
Prom really is like that (without the slo-motion part) depending on where you live. Every school does their prom differently. I went to a public high school school with a disproportionate amount of wealthy kids in Tampa. We usually had our proms in a nice hotel or large restaurant with everyone in full tuxedos and expensive dresses. It's not uncommon for a groups of kids to arrive in a limo. It was like that when my wife and I went there, our parents went there, and when my oldest son went there 7 years ago. I was a poor kid in a rich kids school, but anyone from Tampa can tell you the name of that school without me having to. Honestly though, most of the other local high schools have their proms hosted somewhere outside the school as well. Tuxes and custom dresses are common, limos not so much.
When I was in high school, graduated 1988, the junior class decorated the gym and the parents fixed a sit down meal. It was a great experience. I was voted prom queen and I still wear my tiara around the house sometimes.
That actually sounds like it would be a very nice experience.
Load More Replies...I hate the current prom culture. Just decorate your school gym and keep the cost down! This is not the most important time of your lives!
What's the alternative? My school rented a ballroom in a hotel. Our gym would have been way too small for the 400+ of us with tables and dancing and things.
Load More Replies...it depends on how wealthy the school district is. inner city schools have less resources usually. suburban school parents hire limos for their kids to attend the prom.
Our prom was a dress-up occasion: gowns and tuxedos. And nobody went to prom; we went to THE prom. I'd be interested to learn when and why the definite article fell out of favor.
I taught in several high schools over my career and never heard of dad dances at any prom. They do take place at what are called "purity dances", affairs too weird and disgusting to be believed.
Their cousin definitely didn't go to an average prom. Mine was gowns and tuxes. I don't think I've heard of one being less dressy than that.
Columbus Day is that a thing you guys still celebrate?
km89:
"Celebrate" is a strong word.
Schools, banks, and some workplaces are closed for the day, but there's no particular celebration attached to it. The vast majority of the country treats it as somewhere between "business as usual" and "a random day off." Nobody's booking a reservation for Columbus Day dinner.
Columbus was a Twàt. It's unfortunately still a "federal holiday" but a great opportunity to celebrate Indigenous Peoples Day instead.
Do Europeans have Indigenous People's Day, seeing as most European countries were founded by being invaded by someone else?
Load More Replies...It's still popular in cities with a significant Italian heritage population
I thought most people didn't even realise he was Italian!
Load More Replies...And nobody aside from maybe grade school children being taught about the discovery of America even thinks about his significance. Day off work ... yay!
I do not celebrate that man, or any of those who came to steal indigenous homelands, including my own ancestors. They laid enough guilt on me to last forever.
most schools are no longer closed. it's now alternatively known as "indigenous people's day". we also don't celebrate Lincoln freeing the slaves, Eid, Channukah, Passover. we do celebrate Martin Luther King's birthday, and superbowl day.
It's as deeply important as the rhyme "in fourteen hundred and ninety-two, Columbus sailed the ocean blue." That's about it, really.
When I was in the single-digit age group, we finished up that rhyme with "He sailed around the toilet bowl, discovered number two!" (Cue the snickering children)
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I had someone ask me if I live in a dorm "like in the movies." (Yes).
We have them in Australia too, but we call them "rezzies"! Short for "residences". My parents met in one, luckily for me.
For college students in their first couple of years... Wait, is that weird?
These hugely vary by size of the university and size of the dorm itself in terms of numbers of people. I lived in a dorm in Michigan that had 1400 students. Each hall had 40 students (same gender) and one huge shared bathroom (that nobody liked), and the cafeteria mass produced somewhat okay food. In the same university, in small dorms, you'd have "suites" where two rooms would share one bathroom, and the cafeteria would gave great food. So when possible, I would go with friends to the small cafeterias my first year. After that, I lived off campus in a house with six other students. My university also had a few dorms that were women only, and technically you could eat at any dorm. A friend of mine invited me to eat at her women-only dorm, and I got nothing but annoyed glares when I did, so yeah I didn't do that again. :)
Yeah, if you go to a larger university, it completely depends on the dorm. I went to Northwestern and some dorms were suites as you described, but mine was two people to a room, and three large, shared bathrooms on each floor. We didn't have any single s*x dorms though. Mine separated genders by floor but others combined them. The cafeteria in mine had an awesome salad bar :) Junior year, four of my friends and I rented two apartments in a house.
Load More Replies...Absolutely true, though there are more different kinds of dorms than I had when I was in college. Some dorms require the students to keep their grades high to continue living in them. These are required to be very quiet, and the rooms and facilities are better.
Yes, but they are not like they are in the movies. Several that I've seen at one of our major universities basically look like storage closets with beds bolted to the floor.
Halls of residence in the UK. Each student rents a room (usually a single room), and if you pay more, you can have one with a shower room. Many students choose to share a privately rented house after their first year of study. My son was lucky enough to be able to stay at home with us as his uni was a 20-minute bus ride from our home town.
A dormitory in the UK - like in boarding schools - is a room with 4+ people in it. More like an army barracks.
Dorms in TV and movies are always waaay bigger and nicer than real dorms though. Real dorms are like, very cramped, concrete walls, thin carpeted floors, low ceilings. Not comfy.
Where else would college students live? Tents in the middle of the Quad?
How you guys are able to punch a hole through a wall. Where I’m from, all our homes are brick and concrete so if you punched a wall you’d be pretty screwed for life.
arrius01:
Most residential walls in the US are sheetrock which is fairly easy to punch through between the studs which are generally 16 in apart.
Before sheetrock, many walls were strips of wood covered in plaster. I think hitting one of those would not have gone well for the person.
There are lots of homes here with brick as well, but that is not as common, particularly portions of the country that aren't constructed pre-turn of the century
I live in pretty much the middle of a tectonic plate. If I get an earthquake, I've already been through the apocalypse.
Load More Replies...If I punched a wall I would break my hand and then have to call for an ambulance ( not American. Phew)
In Australia, just breathe hard. Seriously, though, we seem to have invented 'knock down / rebuild' as the ultimate in throw-away culture.
I grew up in lath-and-plaster homes. Almost like rock. My current home is sheetrock. I feel like I'm living in a cardboard box.
Our houses are made to be temperature controlled. Hard to insulate stone.
Bricks have hollow chambers in them. Air is a really good insulator! Also, the thicker the wall is the better it is insulatet. Here in southern germany the houses are buit for -20° to +40°C. 40cm thick walls are perfect
Load More Replies...EXTERIOR walls are sometimes cinder block, some times brick, sometimes wood panel, more often are vinyl sided. The part that makes me nervous is that there is no underlayment(vinyl siding), for the most part. Siding goes right over studs with nothing underneath. My home has 5/8 wood siding exterior. INTERIOR walls are indeed sheet rock.
Sheetrock is basically giant chalk slabs wedged between cardboard for insulation and form. So its as easy as breaking a box of chalk.
It is also known as gypsum board, due to its makeup.
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Do y'all really drink soda a lot? Or is it just when special occasions or travelling or things?
Character-Lack-9653:
IME people either drink lots of soda or very little soda and nothing in between.
Personally I never drink soda, I think it's sickeningly sweet. Most people in my social circle don't drink much soda either. OTOH I have a few (very overweight) coworkers who continuously drink soda all day.
OP has it right. We rarely drink soda, usually only water, coffee, or tea, but I know a lot of people that drink mainly soda.
Had a college roommate who live on Benson and Hedges cigarettes and liter bottle of Coca-Cola.
Load More Replies...Same here, since I don't drink coffee or tea, and I'm down to one 7-ounce can per day.
Load More Replies...drinking soda is seen as a less obnoxious alternative to stopping at the pub for 10 beers before the soccer match, and again afterwards.
I have one at the movies. Might have a Jarritos orange every now and then. Mostly water and one cup of joe a day.
Some (possibly even most) do. I don't. It's not 100% banned, but I don't particularly like it. I have one a few times a year, generally if there's nothing else readily available.
Although there are plenty of obese people who drink soda, they usually make other food/beverage choices that contribute more. There are diet beverages after all. My morbidly obese sister doesn’t drink soda and eats much larger food portions than I do. I am not obese and my water supply tastes like chlorine. If I have a beverage, it is bottled, mineral water or soda, one a day or less.
I might have been an in betweennn person at one time. I did drink soda at one point in my life but it wasn't something I drank all the time. I also drank tea to. Now I mostly drink water with lemon juice.
Do you guys really get mad when people speak other languages?
RandomGen-Xer:
Most don't. When they get mad is when you and your friend obviously look them up and down, then turn to each other and speak in another language, laughing about them.
In general, no. MAGA folk get triggered, though, and forget about FREEDUM.
No, never. Only àsshats do. And I've never been around people speaking a different language who looked me up and down and laughed at me??
Is it unpleasant if I ask your first language? I find accents delightful, and I like to learn about your home country..
I would be delighted. I'm not an American though. Many years ago three friends and I were in Canada, having breakfast at Tim Hortons and talking. A lady from another table turned around and asked us what language we are speaking since she couldn't recognise it. We are from Austria, so we were speaking German. She laughed and continued to talk in German. She was originally from Switzerland, her husband from Scotland and they've been living in Canada for 30 years. We had a really pleasant talk, and before they left she gave us her telephone number and said if we're ever near Toronto we can give them a call, we could sleep at their place. Since the last stop on our journey was Toronto we actually did just that. Lovely couple all around. Canadians really are the nicest people on the planet.
Load More Replies...I come from the Midwest, where Bibles and Church are huge and so is MAGA, But no, it doesn't bother me that my neighbors (both sides) speak Spanish. I just try to be a good neighbor and hope they don't have anything bad to say of me. It's their homes and their business. At work a Mexican immigrant who worked with me told me I was Mexican, and I thanked him. All the Hispanic people I worked with were the kind of people who really made America great. They worked hard, seldom complained, were reliable, paid their taxes and bills, and were extremely honorable. I love my Hispanic neighbors and the people I worked with. And if they're here illegally, it hasn't hurt me in the least.
The US has no official language. In short, it's usually older conservatives that get angry, especially about Spanish. I speak 3 so I don't care.
only if they're calling us names. we're better than you think at recognizing foreign curse words.
Of course not. Why would anyone get angry at someone speaking a "foreign" language? Although I probably won't understand it.
Visiting the US after my first three years in Turkey, people who knew me before I went abroad would stare at me in astonishment like I'd suddenly grown a pair of horns or a third eye the first time they heard me speaking Turkish on the phone or to someone. 😄
When I was a kid, I was taught by my French teachers (and my friends were taught by their Spanish or German teachers) that it was INCREDIBLY rude to speak English in a foreign, non-English country if you knew the native language.
And yet you are incredibly rude to people not from the USA. What gives?
Load More Replies... Do kids really go on camps for months over summer? Supervised by teenagers/very young adults?
mightknowbackback:
Not all kids, but it’s a thing, or at least used to be. Parents that are used to having the kids out of the house at generally need a break, and the kids get to do fun stuff. There are definitely adults in charge at some point of the chain of command, but teenage camp counselors that lead activities and supervise things are common. These days people seem to have less extra money, and everyone is more worried about getting sued, so it’s probably less common. But if it’s in a movie set in the 1980s or earlier they’re pretty much bang on
I feel like it was more common for kids' summer camps to last a month or more many decades ago (I'm talking 1950s, 1960s, before my time). Nowadays most are for just a week. Although I'm sure many parents would love to get rid of their kids for a majority of the summer so they could have more free time for themselves, lol.
Same, except my upbringing was on a ranch. Never even heard of summer camp until I was an adult.
Load More Replies...It exists (or did at one time), but summer camp costs money. To go for the entire summer, or even "months," you had to have parents who were both willing and able to spend that money. I was one of four kids, and both my parents were teachers. So that wasn't happening.
I wish! At least for me and those I knew, months long summer camps didn't exist. We did go for a week or so once a year usually for girl scouts/boy scouts/ 4H but I don't think most kids did (this was mid-90s)
I once broke my arm at a camp on the first night and my mother wouldn't let me come home until the two weeks were up. It was hell.
the usual camp duration is one or two weeks. in the case of dual income parents, there are camps which function as "summer schools" (baby sitting services), so they won't be home for 2 months watching tv and getting into the liquor cabinet.
I went to a music camp in the 80s that was awesome. Two choirs, multiple jazz bands, famous musician guest concerts (I remember seeing Buddy Rich, a famous percussionist, walk out and "play" the entire stage, hitting pretty much every object with his drum sticks.) But I don't think I would have like just a sports camp or general camp. The music camp had four two-week sessions, so I only went to one.
Both my grandsons are jr camp counselors for weekly and daily Y camps. The love it.
70's - we went to camp every summer for 2 weeks or we spent a lot of time at Grandma and Grandpas. I spent all summer there.
Honestly, I always wondered if high school really had cliques like jocks, nerds, and cheerleaders or if that was just a movie thing. Also, are red Solo cups actually a party essential, or just Hollywood branding? 😄.
dontforgettowriteme:
Lol in my experience, it wasn't like Breakfast Club in terms of intensity and strict social order. Social circles were always fluid.
For example, I was a cheerleader but I had other interests as well, so I had friends from all of those circles and I was never mean to someone just because I was a cheerleader and they weren't or some such nonsense. It's not like people would gasp if you communed with people outside your "circle."
But it's also a normal part of human nature to form community with people who share your interests.
OhHowIMeantTo:
Nobody feels particularly drawn to red Solo cups, but they are essential to parties. They're good quality, can last all night, but are cheap enough to toss the next day. If you buy a store brand of disposable plastic cups, they do feel inferior in quality.
Most people don't have enough glassware for more than 8 people, and also don't host often enough to warrant dedicating an entire cabinet just to glasses for parties. It is kind of amusing how obsessed non Americans are with the red Solo cups. It's not something that we really think about or derive joy from, it's just something that you do.
FYI: There re 3 lines molded into the Solo cup. Lowest line is for 1 serving of hard liquor. Middle line is 1 serving of wine. Upper most line is 1 serving of beer.
Yes to both. But cliques are less of a thing nowadays (according to my teenage son, lol)
Also depends on the size of the high school. Mine was pretty small for the US (around 100 kids in each grade) and so there was huge overlap. I was definitely a nerd, but also a choir boy, but also a varsity athlete. We didn't have enough kids to fill out those roles. :) When I was a student teacher at a *huge* high school (with like 800 kids per grade), I saw most kids sticking to one role (the choir kids, the jocks, the nerds, etc.)
Exactly this. With 80 in my graduating class, we didn't have enough people to avoid crossovers in the cliques. But a friend in college grew up in LA, with thousands of students in high school, and they had cliques just like the movies & TV.
Load More Replies...Cheerleaders are a thing? I genuinely thought they weren't used as much or were sparser after the 2000s.
I haven’t been to or hosted a house party for nearly 2 decades and yet there are red solo cups in my cupboard. They are just so handy!
in suburban high schools, jocks are the elites. possibly equalled by any rich kids whose parents gave them cars, but couldn't afford private school there are really no nerd/braniac clubs in public high schools.
In my high school, yes, to a degree. We did have one big fight break out between some group (jocks?) and Hispanic students. This was in the late 1970s though.
" how obsessed non Americans are with the red Solo cup": I'd never heard of them (59-y.o. Brit).
You must be thinking of the game beer pong with the red solo cups. That's more of a college fraternity kind of thing. To drink out of? Any color will usually do, but it's easier for cleanup if there is less to wash. As for the cliques, I come from a small community and we had several cliques: chess pro level smart, stoners, jocks, etc but none of the lines were solid walls. I had lots of friends in every clique.
I fit in all those groups. Played football, smoked pot, member of the chess (and math) club.
Load More Replies... Are high school/college/university guidance councilors/advisors actually a thing? Like, is there actually someone who talks with you about which colleges/universities to apply to, about which classes you take, which course load to plan? And not just in a "well, there is someone you can get an appointment with if you really need to" way, but as an actual sceduled part of your education?
RogueRedShirt:
They are a thing. In high school, they help you make choices about what schools you should apply to and help with that process.
At the university level, they help you figure out what classes you need to take to complete your major and generally help the freshmans declare their major and things like that. Using them is mostly optional.
Ha ha! When my children got 'career advice' at school (yes, in Australia and in the UK, it's not weird) I pointed out that my job didn't even exist when I was at school, so don't take it too seriously!
Most of them are so busy doing scheduling that they don't have much time to counsel, whether about college or mental issues.
Load More Replies...They exist, but are totally useless. Most kids will never interact with one more than twice (first is mandatory, and perhaps for seniors when graduating and deciding what to do next)
This is incorrect, at least for me. My guidance counselor has been extremely helpful in giving information about colleges, their classes, what I need to do to apply to them, etc.... don't write them off.
Load More Replies...Was heartened yesterday at a HS volleyball game to see a counselor standing at a table promoting trades vs the HUGE push for college over the last 20 or so years. "We' have finally discovered tradespeople are going into retirement by the busload and there are no apprentices coming up.
This. The average age in my shop is about 50 (toolmaker) and we have no kids wanting to be apprentices. My last two were 33 and 29.
Load More Replies...my guidance counsellor told me if I became an account I would always have work. I refused his advice. A friend who became an accountant is now working at Starbucks as a barista.
We had guidance counselors in my high school. They were not useless. There were none at my university, but we had "faculty advisors." These were professors who could advise you on what classes to take, etc. We generally had to get our advisor to sign off on adding or dropping a class.
High school guidance departments handle many bureaucratic responsibilities, such as making master schedules, sending out report cards, and verifying graduation requirements.
Yep. Mine was instrumental in getting me to raise my sights. They also write recommendations to those colleges.
The careers master at my school (in the UK) was ex-army. I used to joke that his only question was "which regiment do you want to join?" Perhaps not so far from the truth. It was probably at university that I was advised to apply to GCHQ (the successor to Bletchley Park): might have been a good idea, but I didn't follow it up.
Are there really no public transportation like subway or train except some big cities?
cwsjr2323:
Each State is divided into smaller political units called counties except Louisiana calls theirs parishes.
My county has one passenger train stop at 105 AM. We have zero buses, taxi, or Uber available. There are no pathways for bikes or walking between communities and no dedicated bike routes in the cities and towns.
This county is 565 square miles in size, 1463 square kilometers.
If you don’t have a car, you can’t go anywhere.
I live in (Phoenix, Arizona). My commute time for work averaged 35-40 min. My workplace and home are in suburbs. Very few direct bus routes go between suburbs. I once tried taking a bus to work one day. It took me about 2 hours and 50 minutes to get to work, partly because I had to change bus lines downtown (distance about 2X as far as driving). Going home the 1st bus was late, so I missed the last run of the 2nd bus and had to take a taxi home. My employer had about 2500 people at that site. Perhaps 100-200 people car-pooled, but it's not very practical, because (a) we don't finish work at the same time, and (b) people often have errands after work (groceries, pick up a prescription, etc.). Nothing is within easy walking distance. It's about 5km to the nearest grocery and 12 to the nearest general store (Target), and the roads are not bike friendly. I've never seen anyone bike to the grocery store. Also, Phoenix usually has more than 100 days per year with temperatures over 100F/37C.
What a lot of Europeans don't really get is how spread out things are here. The contiguous US occupies about 8 mil km2. In that space live about 330 mil people. In mainland Western Europe, those numbers are 2 mil km2 and 200 mil. The population density of the US, then, is 40 people per km 2. In Europe it's more than double that, at 100 people per km2. On top of that, the small villages of Europe that existed independently for so long have the infrastructure to support themselves without a lot of driving. The US was connected BY the automobile. That all changes things.
there are plenty of surface trains from suburbs to cities. it beats driving 50 miles. but you have to take your car TO the train station, then a bus from the train station to your employer.
Bigger cities have subway transportation. Indianapolis do have bike paths but not sure if it is for work or for leisure. I believe it is more for leisure. The main town of the county I live in has over the last few years have put in bike and walking trails, but they are for pleasure.
The cities which were large before everything was car-based have subways or light-rail networks: New York, Boston, Chicago, Washington, Philly, St Louis, Pittsburgh, Detroit. Basically, any of the cities that hosted one of the first 16 baseball teams. Most of these stretch way out to the suburbs with commuter rails, but you often have to drive to these. Newer cities have wider roads, are more spread out, have more parking, etc., and if they have public transportation tend to rely on busses, but transferring between buslines is impractical for daily commutes.
Those sitcom cars that look like they have wooden panels on the sides, is that actually wood?
Either way, the frick is up with that? .
wexlermendelssohn:
Nowadays cars are boring and nobody does it. But historically yes, first with actual wood and later with decorative faux wood panels.
"Station wagons" were popularized as wooden coaches that brought people from the railroad station into town. When they were replaced by privately owned, family cars, wooden panels became a nostalgic nod to the evolution of family cars.
My family's early 70s station wagon with the faux wood panels ... epic! Wish they still made big station wagons!
Uk had (part) wood sided vehicles in the 50's - Morris Minor station wagons.
'Station wagons' all over the world were commonly made with a lot of wood around the rear - more solid and durable than metal, less likely to get bashed out of shape. This was a hangover from when that term referred to real tough utility vehicles on a 'Station', meaning uke a ranch or plantation sized farm.
In the US it was for people on country estates picking people up from the train station.
Load More Replies...We had a Country Squire in the 70's. Wood like panels and a big cargo area that kids could slide around in (depending on how your parents drove) basically free range car rides.
It was just a cosmetic style, like whitewall tires was a style, and more recently, spinner hubcaps and LED undercarriage lighting.
those were called woodie's. what you're probably seeing is the 1980's jeep wagonneer, which became a collectable in southern california where they make a lot of movies. this shows up in california 20th century TV shows like "Breaking Bad."
On the internet and social media, I always see Americans talking about fast food and fast food chains, the ones they love and dislike, and this discussion seems to pop up in completely unrelated topics.
How often does the average American eat fast food? Is it more than once a week? And how often do they drink Coca-Cola and other soft drinks?
elliealafolie:
I think you’d have a hard time finding a meaningful average. There are those of us who don’t even have fast food or soda once a month (some not even once a year) and there are those who eat 3 meals a day from fast food restaurants.
I don’t drink soda at all but my mom lives alone and buys a 12-pack per week.
The average American eats way too much fast food. As a kid it was a special treat for my family. Now it's "Eh, don't have time to cook - let's grab something at the drive-through."
That's 100% work culture related. Unionize and watch the fast food consumption drop.
Load More Replies...Once every month or two. I have a friend that will eat it for every meal of the day, then wonder why he has gastric issues.
Once every year or two I crave taco bell or burger king and then regret it for 3 days. I cook at home or we eat at places with decent, quality food. Like our local taqueria that always has fresh ingredients.
Load More Replies...There are a couple of factors here. One is that the quality of fast food has improved over the last 50 years. I know, feel free to yell at me that it's still s**t. I don't disagree with you, but it has improved. The other issue is that franchising pushed out small diners. Now, if you want a hamburger, your choices are ten fast food places, one kind of fancy place (where it feels silly to order the burger), making it at home, and a last hold-out diner if you're lucky. So, people eat fast food for its convenience and availability.
We have fast food about twice a week. My wife has it more often because she' works outside the home and she gets the $5 meal deals for lunch. she has a caffeine a*******n so she's drinking bout a liter of soda or coffee a day. I generally have a half liter about 3 or 4 days a week and that include zero sugar soda. And at least one frozen Coke. It's like a slushie.
I drink Coke a cola for the caffeine. I use to drink coffee and I went off caffeine for about a year. Life still sucked so I went back to caffeine. I will say that Coke is the only vice I have left. No alcohol, cigarettes, recreational d***s and sweets once a month.
Same for me. I drink cola as medicine when I have a migraine (I don't really like coffee). I much prefer the one by Red Bull to classic Pepsi or Coke though.
Load More Replies...Fast food used to be an important convenience, at least until coronavirus drove the prices crazy. It used to make my blood boil when people would derisively sneer at McDonald's. Ya know what? Every last god-d****d soul in America knows it ain't great for you, and every last GD soul would rather have steak (well, except the vegans) at Morton's steak house. It was (until recently) cheap, and designed to give you a full belly.
Unfortunately, fast food chains make their prices so easily met that low-income families resort to having to eat it because it's cheap. A family of five can eat moderately cheaply there. It's much easier economically on a lot of Americans then buying healthy food to cook. It's very sad.
Yeah, for a lot of people it's every day or several days a week for fast food and soda. But for a lot of people that's their only option due to lack of time/money/ etc. We mostly eat at home but usually order in pizza or get fast food as a "treat" once a week.
And those people that live in food deserts. Statistically, you see obesity increases with poverty. The states in the US that are the most obese are also the poorest and least educated. And there is high crime. So the nice grocery stores aren't going to build there because of the crime. And it costs money to get to the nearest grocery store. So all that is available to them are fast food places and bodegas. Both of which are small and more easily secured against crime. All they have is junk. There's no where to get healthy stuff, produce and such. Just cheap and unhealthy. So many problems that could be tackled if we deal with the poverty over here.
it's a bell curve. some people not at all. some people daily. Most people go to mcdonalds or KFC once or twice a week.
Pancakes for breakfast, also stacking a tower of them instead of eating each individually
I could get the first one, but the second just seems weird.
Cavfinder:
Yes to both but I only did those as a kid. I can’t eat wheat as an adult.
Lol, but yes, pancakes for breakfast is super common, stacking them 3-4 high is normal. I used to eat them 1 by 1 but my grandfather definitely cut into a stack of them.
Stacking them helps melt the butter between and keeps the inside cakes warm.
We have lemon and sugar on pancakes - or occassionally (sp?) fruit - never tried them with butter
Load More Replies...Ah, but American pancakes are what we'd call scotch pancakes, and our (UK) pancakes are more like crepes.
The word cake is the clue. Think about the interior of a cake, rises as it cooks, light, fluffy, full of itty bitty air holes. Then think about a crepe. Doesn't rise, and flat and thin. Good for rolling up with fillings. Pancakes don't roll up. But they soak up the butter and syrup.
Load More Replies...Pancakes are a treat. Doubt most people eat them regularly for breakfast.
It's not super common. It's more like a special treat to most, unless you are morbidly obese... which is pretty common...
As I aged out, lots of wheat carbs for breakfast loaded with sugary maple syrup just makes my blood sugar spike and then drop drastically. Ultimately makes me tired and sleepy.
One thing you *won't* find in the USA much anymore, is eating a breakfast at home, with the family. That used to be common, but parents overschedule their kids' lives so much these days, and they are probably working a lot more hours themselves, so at most it's probably a cup of coffee and a bagel (or granola bar) as you rush out the door. (I always laugh at the stereotype of a family making a HUGE breakfast with at least 6 different types of breakfast food, and then half of them just rush out the door anyway before finishing it, lol.) When I was a kid, my family all ate breakfast together before school/work, which could be as simple as cold cereal and toast, or some eggs and bacon. And we ate every evening meal together at the table, as well -- which is also becoming far less common.
I keep them stacked as I cook them, to keep them warm and to not dry out. But usually I give my kids one pancake at a time, as I make fairly large ones. And yes, even though I'm living in Greece now, I keep up the pancake tradition. My mom used to make them in the shapes of animals. :)
Some do, but I don't If I'm preparing breakfast at home, it will be salt and not sugar. Eggs, cured pork products, buttered toast...
I prefer French toast but I like to eat them separately. I can get more syrup on then that way.
Do ya'll really egg people's house/cars?
Elegant_Bluebird_460:
It isn't as common now that there are doorbell cameras. On devil's night/mischief night (night before Halloween) it was especially common when I grew up for kids to egg/TP someone's house and to bologna their car. I was a forking kid, two thousand or more forks stuck in a person's lawn overnight. A real pain to remove, but actually more helpful for lawn health than destructive.
SmugScientistsDad:
Yes. This is a thing. The house across the street from mine got egged a few weeks ago. They have no idea who did it or why.
With the price of eggs you'd have to be very rich to do that these days.
People always talk about the price of eggs... It's currently 2 dollars a dozen at my local store. Is that expensive? I'm only 19, so I only recently began paying attention to the price of them. Were they really much cheaper in the past?
Load More Replies...This did happen, and to my house, in Michigan, back in the 1980s. And sometimes people would TP (toilet paper) people's houses. This slowed down and stopped as people got caught and had to pay huge fines. Eggs were really bad for the paint or aluminum siding on the houses, and you tried to clean them off as quickly as possible.
I still don't understand soda fountains. I've seen pictures from back in the '50s of people using them, but I don't understand how people use them, or how the staff operate them, or the attraction of them.
homebody39:
I love soda fountains. The fresh carbonation is what makes it so much better than a can or bottle of Coke. They are easy to use. Just put the cup under the valve for the flavor you want and push the lever until the cup is full. Easy peasy.
Real soda fountains had a waiter who would mix sodas and there was also ice cream for milkshakes, ice cream sodas, or sundaes. They were a place for young people to meet instead of bars. Some even served food, predecessor of fast food.
Soda fountains were a community gathering spot, like a public social club. Think of them as a bar, but without inebriation. People were in a good mood as they indulged their sweet tooth with a fizzy soda, hot fudge sundae or so forth. Throw in a juke box and you've got a real party in the works.
it was cheaper and more environmentally friendly to have a CO2 cannister to carbonate all your drinks, instead of storing 5,000 cans or bottles of refrigerated soda
"Fresh carbonation"? I'd like to see someone explain what that's supposed to mean, how it could make any difference how long the carbon dioxide has been dissolved in the water.
I think they mean you can choose how fizzy you want it, that makes a big difference
Load More Replies... I've always wondered what meat loaf actually is but not enough to look it up, my imagination is it's just a big loaf sized joint of beef.
I know I'm wrong and would probably be disappointed which is probably why I've never actually bothered researching.
achoosier:
😂 imagine a loaf of bread, but with hamburger meat and seasonings mixed together and shaped into a loaf pan and baked. You slice it like bread and everything. It's never been my favorite but a lot of people love it ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Ground meat (usually beef, but you can mix it with ground pork, veal, turkey, etc) mixed with eggs and seasonings. Can be great comfort food when prepared well.
Mom made ours with pizza sauce and other pizza condiments, and no bread crumbs. She didn't like the texture with the added crumbs, so ours just fell apart. Delicious! RIP Mom!
Load More Replies...I never liked the ketchup glaze. Although I do put ketchup on it when eating.
Load More Replies...I love meatloaf, with corn or string beans and mashed potatoes and a roll. Perfect meal!
The leftover meat loaf makes pretty good sandwiches too.
Load More Replies...It’s supposed to be a budget food to make, but I’m not sure how as it requires a lot of meat.
Lower quality, and price, cuts can be minced up, plus a lot of fillers like breadcrumbs can be used to pad it out. So yeah, it's going to be quite a lot cheaper than than a joint of meat.
Load More Replies...This is not uncommon in the UK or Australia, probably most of Europe in one form or another.
My mother makes the world's best meatloaf. She mixes three different types of meat and adds eggs and sauce and all kinds of stuff. I never understood why kids in movies hated it until I went to a restaurant and realized nobody's meatloaf is like mums 💜
This isn't a myth but something I see alot online. Using paper plates for a normal dinner at home? They are something you would only use for a party in Australia. Even if you work full time and have kids, which seems to be how most people defend it. Seems so wasteful.
SeekerOfSerenity:
In my family, and I would guess a lot of others, we used normal plates most of the time, and paper plates maybe once a week or less. If we had a pizza for dinner, we would usually use paper plates. But it's not an everyday thing.
Well... in my European opinion, paper plates are meant for outdoor activities. Picnics in the park or barbecues - for places where you can't do the dishes.
I've always threatened to go to paper plates, but no. We only use paper plates for parties (and holidays! So much better for Thanksgiving!)
You eat your thanksgiving dinner off paper plates? Sounds the wrong way round to me. Much of the world would use the 'special' china (and silverware) for celebration dinners, the stuff you don't use every day, the expensive stuff, the stuff you got for your wedding presents.
Load More Replies...I have limited energy. Living in a desert, water conservation is important and we now have municipal composting.
Same here. We don't have a dishwasher & everything gets done by hand. Using paper plates can mean the difference between a clean kitchen and being overwhelmed by a sinkful of dishes. When possible, we reuse the plates (for example, if all I had was a sandwich at lunch I'll brush off the crumbs & have dinner off it) as well.
Load More Replies...I wouldn't dream of eating from a paper plate unless it was at a picnic or buffet. I've catered large family dinners with multiple home-cooked dishes and still managed to have enough plates to go around. I also used to wash up by hand until we moved into our current rented home, which came equipped with a dishwasher.
My family uses paper plates daily. It's easier than having to wash plates after every meal.
this became a thing since the covid 19 pandemic, and still persists some places.
You might use paper plates if you have a large group of people over if you don't have enough regular plates to use for everyone. Plus it helps with cleanup. You have less cleanup with paper plates.
Does everyone go to bars after work?
kitsucoon:
Definitely not everyone. I feel like it’s more common in smaller cities and was more common in the 90s, 2000s
It was quite common back in the 9 to 5 days. Everyone got off work at the same time. Now most businesses are open longer hours and shifts are staggered so it's hard to get together.
This has never been a regular thing anywhere I’ve worked. The only times my colleagues and I met up for a drink after work was to celebrate a retirement.
This was absolutely never a thing in my lifetime, except on Fridays. On Fridays, young people do go to bars before going to dance clubs. But on any other night, the bars which would be packed with 200 people crammed into a tiny space would have four tables, with only one having customers. Bars in America are too expensive for the sort of people who have time to hang around in bars. "Cheers" (TV show) was completely absurd on every level.
Wrong. You'll find more neighborhood bars than the type you describe. Some beer and wine only due to liquor license costs. Drink costs are completely dependent on area, fanciness, and reputation. Popular meet (meat) clubs can be expensive but those are outnumbered by the normal corner bar.
Load More Replies... When you walk around NY do you see rats?
Working5daysaWeek:
You're most likely going to see rats in all major cities.
I've tripped over a rat walking to work in Baltimore. I find them endearing little vermin, part of city life.
Poor old rat just walking to work minding it's own business when suddenly... :-)
Load More Replies...I've seen them running down the power lines like squirrels in Tampa.
You'll see plenty of rats running around in Sydney, I can tell you that.
I've been to some big cities. I've never seen a rat in the wild. Mice, yes. Not rats. My daughter looked up what a rat sounds like chewing in the walls. Apparently they sound very eager and more aggressive. They're also more likely to spread diseases with their trails of urine, p**p and saliva.
we're on the lookout for Sqrats in NYC. they're a hybrid squirrel/rat. Climbs trees like a squirrel, but has a hairless tail. Peregrine falcons pick them off too.
I saw rats when I was walking through Amsterdam. This is hardly a US thing.
Do you really cut frogs on biology class?
didifallasleep13:
Yes and I almost threw up. I also had to dissect a squid on a school trip. Later in college, I took a human anatomy and physiology class and we had to dissect a sheep’s eye; I was too freaked out by the idea of the eye squirting to initially cut into it, so my lab partner did that part and then I took it apart after it had been opened which freaked her out
We still dissected things in the UK in the early 2000s. Don't know if they still do. But we got half a frog, some bits of heart and a sheep's eyeball stuck on the ceiling. We just chucked 'em. There was less dissecting after that.
Load More Replies...We had to dissect sheep's eyes in one science class I had. The teacher said, "there's one part of the eye that looks just like a raisin. Here's a whole plate of them!" Then he brought out a plate piled high with what looked like exactly what we had just removed from our sheep's eyes, grabbed a handful and shoved them in his mouth, and then went, "Oh, I guess these are just raisins." He had also painted a bunch of ping pong balls to look like eyes and threw them all up in the air so they'd bounce around the room at us. He was a wacky guy.
This was an awesome part of my education. Learned so much in advanced biology about anatomy due to dissections of frogs, fetal pigs and sheep's eyes. Do they still do this in high school?
I think so, at least to some extent. I did a fetal pig dissection in '03 or '04 for high school bio, and a couple of years ago, overheard a few kids at work talking about doing dissections when they were in high school. They were in their early twenties when I knew them, so their dissections would've been within the last ten years. I barely remember doing the fetal pigs tho. The smell of formaldehyde is what stuck for me. Not good or bad, just very distinct.
Load More Replies...Depends where you live. Especially in smaller towns that only spend money on football.
frogs are in short supply, due to over-harvesting/ consumption in india. they show you a video now.
We did fetal pigs. I got in trouble for using the veins like puppet strings to make my piggy dance.
I remember in High school dissecting a fetal pig my group named our Wilber as in the pig from the book Charlette's Web.
Load More Replies... Sorority/Fraternity culture at university.
IKnowAllSeven:
Greek life as it’s called exists at the majority of four years universities. The vibe of the Greek life depends heavily on the university itself, and the frat/ soror.
All of them have an academic, social, and civic (volunteer) component, but how much emphasis is placed on each varies significantly.
My kid is in a sorority for STEM majors. You have to maintain a certain GPA to stay a current member - they do study groups together, and set up various science booths with kids activities at local fairs and have networking events and bring in speakers addressing career pointers and advice. Very academic.
My friends kid is in one of the Divine Nine which are historically black Greek organizations. These were and are historically and socially important organizations and many of their members stay active in the organization for life. Again, it’s a social and networking club and also does philanthropy. The adult members often hold fundraisers to create scholarships and also serve as mentors for younger members.
There is one another friends kid is in - it’s mostly the frat parties you see on Tv.
And another friend goes to University of Alabama and her kid is spending thousands on clothes and jewelry so she has the right look to rush a specific sorority. I don’t know much about that type, just that it exists (I think it’s nuts).
Greek life is indeed very real and is taken very seriously at American universities. I have a quite a few friends who pledged fraternities and sororities, though I was never interested in that life myself
They always looked like they were more work than fun. Every fund raiser had a t shirt that each member had to buy. It looks very expensive plus all the hazing stories made me not even a little bit curious of how it is really like.
In the 1980s, the federal government used withholdin grants to force states to raise the drinking age from 18 to 21. At the same time, Hollywood blanketed the country with movies making fraternities look like rebellious fun. And, universities and police all across the country c*****d down like insane Nazis on kids privately having a beer, but turned a deliberate blind eye to posters blatantly advertising parties with simply implausible numbers of kegs of beer. Thing was to be in these frats, you had to do absolutely disgusting, s******y perverse things, and the sororities pretty much guaranteed s*x for the frats: rejecting the advances of a frat boy from a matched-up frat pretty much guaranteed endless horrible, disgusting hazing. If you want a reason to think America is pure, diabolical evil, learn about 1980s frats. eventually enough 100s of people ended up k****d by severe hazing, and 100s of 1000s of women came to see their experiences as r**e that lawsuits forced some limits.
Having a big coffee place (like Starbucks or something) on almost every street corner. Like, fact or myth? 🤔 I've genuinely always wondered if that's true, hyperbole, or something that Hollywood just likes to joke about.
I'm European, and we have Starbucks in my neck of the woods too. But there's like only two different big coffee chains like that in my whole country; sure, there's small mom-and-pop cafés everywhere, but not big box coffee places like that aren't really as common here. Starbucks is actually one of the two big chains in my country, and someone would have to at least commute a few minutes by public transport to get to even one of those in the first place.
It's also generally considered pretty upscale too in my culture to regularly go to those big coffee chains. Most people in my culture just go to those small mom-and-pop cafe's for a cup of coffee, lol.
Salamok:
It is not unheard of to have 2 starbucks at the same intersection on different corners, but you probably will only see that in cities.
So I have to wonder; are places like Starbucks and Tim Horton's REALLY more common in the US or nah? 🤔 Like, I've actually always wanted to genuinely ask an American that, but never had the chance, lol.
Meanwhile, in Australia, we can have several drive-through bottle shops (liquor stores) in a town centre. We win!
Starbucks k****d off all of the mom and pop chains that we used to have, and it really p*sses me off to this day. I used to love exploring all of the different coffee shops around the bay area at a late teen and early 20-something, but that's when Starbucks somehow wiped out the competition. Their actual coffees are terrible. Everyone has to add a bunch of sugars, creams, and flavorings to drink it.
Not uncommon to have Waffle Houses on opposite corners off of a highway or just down the road, too!
I live in a small southern town and we're getting our third Starbucks soon.
Americans are OBSESSED with coffee. And I count myself among them! The only thing that gets me out of bed in the morning is the promise of that delicious nectar of the gods.
people like to get a LARGE coffee to go on the way to the office. Starbucks, Dunking Donuts, WaWa, McDonalds. Work from home is destroying Starbucks' profitability
What surprises me as an American is how many other chain coffee stores exist. I can see that maybe four chains in a town of 10,000. but it seems like there is like ten. Just how much high priced coffee are people drinking?
There are about 700 Tim Horton's in the US, all in states bordering Canada. There are over 17,000 Starbucks in America.
Guess that's a bit like big cities in South Africa. Three malls within 3 k's of each other and they all contain a Wimpy, an Ocean Basket, a Poetry, a Checkers, a Dischem, a Clicks, a PNA, etc.
In american tv-series people near 30 can often be in a significant managerial position making big money.
Does that really happen with "ordinary people"?
As in, I can sorta understand that if you're some genius level guy, but a bright ordinary person? That's just unheard of where I'm from. All positions which actually pay money are taken by old (often incompetent) people.
nimblesunshine:
Yes, this is true. You can be nothing special and get into a cushy position with big bucks, in some careers. There are some industries where you can make a ton of money from a young age, sometimes even right out of college. But if you aren't in one of those industries, you might make shit and have few safety nets to fall back on + tens and tens of thousands of student loan debt that you may never be able to climb free of.
American tv series reflect little to nothing about American life. Do we really drop over to our friends' homes for breakfast?
some businesses are a merit based promotion system, not seniority. government jobs are strictly seniority - you could have discovered a cure for cancer and they wouldn't change your GS level. family owned businesses are neither. you will never become a top team member.
You can graduate from law school at 24-25 years old and start at $200k/year!
Back in the 50's/60's/70's most of the managers were in their 40's+. In the 80's a few bright thirtysomethings got into managerial posts. Nowadays, it seems that some uni graduates with no experience can go straight into a well paid job that someone older with years of experience in that field has been passed over for. It used to be the older emplyees who ruled the world, but now (politics being the exception) it's all youngsters. And don't get me statrted on the fact that all managers were male, and women were only allowed 'secretarial roles', up to the late 70's. (Grumpy gran here)
That's happening in my company now. I'm TOTALLY looking forward to when my 70+ YO boss retires and they promote a recent grad I'll have to handhold for ten years while they absorb cash. (They eyeroll I gave while writing that was so powerful I have a migrain.)
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Is it illegal to not have health insurance? Also, what happens if you don’t / can’t pay your hospital bill?
FreyjaTheMutt:
Not illegal, but certain states do have mandates and if you don't have health insurance then you can owe money on your tax return
Same in Australia. We pay a levy of about 1% if we earn over maybe $100k and don't have health insurance. Seems fair, although Medicare covers almost everything here. I called for an MRI appointment yesterday, got scanned this morning at 9am. Zero cost.
I just wish it covered dental. I lost my job and had to save up for a ridiculous length of time before I was able to afford to get this broken molar of mine fixed.
Load More Replies...It's not illegal. We do what we can to get it. Take the worst jobs to get it. Its like gold. I deal with medical bills at work. An ER visit in a city with ambulance, general ER, XRs/CTs, can be about $14, 000. Stay for a couple weeks or need surgery its more like $60,000 to $100,000. So if you don't have it, or you have s****y coverage, you can't pay the bill so you go broke. Ruins your credit so you have trouble renting an apartment, getting a loan...Remember, the only thing our government cares about is making themselves and their friends rich. Democrats and Republicans are guilty of this.
it's illegal not to have car insurance too, but about 20% of drivers don't. their rates were raised too high after a couple of accidents.
Yes. The "Affordable Care Act" made it illegal and in doing so allowed the insurance companies to triple everyone's rates thus making it unaffordable.
The Affordable Care 's federal penalty was eliminated years ago. The premiums go up becaure the insurance companies are greedy. If it is repealed, tons of people will lose coverage period, the premiums will double/triple, and now you are back to pre-existing conditions. I don't know how old you are - that meant i have cancer. I lose my job for whatever reason. So I lost coverage and cannot afford treatment. So I get a new job. But that insurance has cancer as a pre-existing condition - well you are s**t out of luck for a year, so hold off your treatment I guess. Read multiples sources for info, not just facebook.
Load More Replies...Is there an illegal "alien" in the room with you right now? You seem really scared of those harmless humans that you want to treat as subhuman. In general, do you ever have any idea what you are talking about or do you just have angry uninformed MAGA rants about everything. People like you make the world a worse place.
Load More Replies... Are people *really* as uneducated as the stereotype? Could you *really* pick a dozen random Americans and they couldn't identify their own country on a world map? I feel this is a bit exaggerated really, the videos must cherry-pick the worst they could find.
czarfalcon:
Definitely cherry-picked. Yes there are a lot of uneducated Americans, as you would expect in a country of 300+ million, but I feel like you could say the same of any country.
As a Canadian we would often say, "We know everything about you, but you know nothing about us". And that's true, but having lived in the States for 25 years now, I get it. It really is a case of if it doesn't happen in America, it doesn't happen.
I would guess that the USA is so big and so much happens here that there is little time left to learn about other countries. Unless you're planning a trip.
Load More Replies..."War is God's way of teaching Americans geography." - Ambrose Bierce
If you ask 100 random Americans where other countries are, then it's much worse. Maybe 10-15% know where Ukraine is, based on polls I've seen. The education system here is very US-centric. My geography class in high school required us to memorize the names and locations of every country in the world for a test, where we wrote the country names on an unlabeled map of the world. Of course, different students performed differently, but my real point is, this is the only time I recall being required to know the location of the majority of countries. I think this is because public school teachers are required to cover a specific list of topics, and country location doesn't make the cut.
Country location isn’t on the UK syllabus, and hasn’t been for decades. But I think it’s more down to taking an interest in the outside world. That said, I feel like there’s plenty of Brits that would be no better than the average American at locating countries once they’d done the UK, Ireland (Eire), France, the US, Canada, and Russia. Oh, and Australia.
Load More Replies...My thought has always been that the people featured on the trivia videos are either trolling, or they're put on the spot, so their brain just glitches, but normally they're a lot more educated than they can muster at that time.
The educational level / literacy deceases as people here get poorer. They aren't getting the resources for the schools. They are in Maga country usually. Republican states are typically poor. Which is also where the bible is a science book and books that might make you think are banned. The less educated are much easier to control. No critical thinking.
I sometimes wonder if the US is truly getting dumber or if the uneducated now have social media as a platform to make their ignorance known.
americans can identify the USA, Mexico, and Canada. Not so much ireland, france, portugal, greece, or Ukraine. But for that matter Europeans often pretend they don't know where Ukraine is, either.
It's really very simple: Americans have to know 50 states and their capitals in school. Asking an American to find Denmark is like asking a European to find Arkansas. And anywhere you can fly to in under five hours from middle America is going to speak English or Spanish and most people in Middle America consider Mexico to be a murderous hellhole of corruption and misery. (There is always Quebec. I love Quebec.) So they can teach our kids foreign languages as much as European nations do, but they'll never get a chance to use it. The funny thing is the same people who present America as a bunch of ignorant know-nothings are the same people who lose their f*****g minds if you criticize public schools.
True about we Americans not generally being well-versed in *world* geography. But we also would have trouble naming all the states just from their location and outline -- when you've got 50 of them, and many are basically just rectangle-shaped, it gets tough. I feel like Europeans probably know a lot more about US states than we know about European and Asian countries, though. Our education is typically very much centered on our own country, sadly.
Load More Replies... Do teenagers always get really nice cars as soon as they can drive? People turning up in like pickups and stuff. Can’t get a 20 year old 1.2L Toyota Aygo insured for a teenager without selling a kidney in the UK.
wexlermendelssohn:
Definitely not. In my high school, about 20% of my friend group even had a car and even people with licenses took the bus at least some of the time. The people who did have cars either bought cheap used cars or had hand-me-downs from parents or other relatives.
NastaciaLove :
I'm going to disagree with the others in the comments here. Obviously it's not every single person and probablydependson location. Im a barber and ALL the kids who's hair I've been cutting since they were basically babies have ALL got significantly nicer and newer cars than I've ever had. I don't have a single teen customer that's driving age that doesn't have a 2020+ year super nice car.
It depends on how rich/spoiled you are. My siblings and I were not given cars, but we were allowed to drive our parents' cars if we absolutely needed to be somewhere and neither of our parents could take us, for whatever reason. I did have a friend or two who got gifted a car for their 16th birthday--but in each of those cases, they were not new, fancy cars, they were used cars. Also, my husband said when he was 16, his parents let him and his sister "buy" their old car for $100. Then he and his sister had to write up a schedule for who got to use the car on which days.
you inherit your mom's car, provided it's not a mercedes or something ungodly expensive to fix after a fender bender. the usual first car for a 16 year old American is a Toyota Camry LE with 60,000 miles on it.
Back in the day mid 90's I git a pretty beat up car from my aunt as my first car. It was not uncommon to have a car that was a little rough looking as a first car, but i have heard rumors lately that there are kids that make fun of kids if they don't have a fairly new car.
My dad gave my sister and myself our first cars when we started college as we were commuting from home and public transport sucked back then.
Is it still so easy to coupon like in Extreme Couponing?
budgie02:
No, sadly. Couponing is actually a learned skill and extreme couponing like you’re talking about is incredibly rare.
But are coupons still available? How do they get them? They’ve completely disappeared in the UK, probably thirty years ago.
I think they are mostly digital now. Our closest major supermarket sends out ads/coupons periodically by mail if you sign up for it.
Load More Replies...Pretty much all coupons nowadays can't be combined, from what I've seen
I get a weekly rash of paper coupons in the mail, but they tend to be for things I don't buy. They usually go straight to the recycling.
To do what they do on that show is incredibly time consuming on researching at home, having to print all those coupons, and on the cashier's time, and doesn't always work. I don't know how a sale with a coupon on something, for 25% off, and buying so many multiples of that thing, would get you paying almost nothing.
I want to know if lockers have locks that are just a part of them? If so then like do you have the same locker the whole time? Can the lock code be changed? If not can't anyone who used to go there just open your locker? What if someone figures our your combo, are you screwed?
Probably depends on the school district (and the era). When I was a kid, I think all my school lockers used padlocks (which I'm pretty sure my parents had to buy). So you just had to remember your combination. For the ones which are built-in, I'm not sure if they had the ability to change the combination when that student was no longer using it, but I'd hope so. I think the padlock thing was more common, though, since in a worst-case scenario, they could always just cut open the lock and not harm the locker itself.
Load More Replies...This was surprisingly gentle for a c**p-on-the-US article. With a few ignorant exceptions a lot of these seemed like genuine, sincere questions and not “hur dur bathroom door cracks too big” repeats.
I know, it was a really refreshing read. I love articles like this (no matter which country is the one in question) because you get to learn new things and get clarification on stuff most media exaggerates/lies about.
Load More Replies...A while back the family and I were watching a movie made/set in 1982. I commented on the fact that the characters including the cops didn't use seatbelts. Curious I googled. I was shocked to discover that it would be at least 2-3 years more before the first state laws were passed and nearly another 15 years before laws existed for all (most?) states and even then, they are often conditional. In Australia seatbelts are compulsory nation wide and have been since Jan 1972.
Two of my comments have disappeared in the last half hour, anyone else having a problem?
Are most funerals in America Open casket? I've been to a few funerals and have never been to an open casket and I don't know anyone else who has.
I've been to a handful and it's kind of hit and miss on open versus closed casket, though there were more closed caskets with photos of the deceased up around the area versus having them open. I assume it's the preference of whoever is in charge of arranging the funeral, usually the deceased's close family.
Load More Replies...A lot of these seem to be questions from people who think that everything they watch on TV is true. Also, questions about things that happen in LOTS of places, not just the U.S.. Do you have basements (pretty much a given in any cold climate)? Do kids go to camp? Are high school guidance counselors really a thing?
TIL that nobody knows anything about anyone ... unless they saw it in a movie.
You sir are a moron, an idiot of seldom seen character. It’s easy to forget that not all people are of average intelligence even tho the name “average” itself states that a lot of people are bellow that line, people like you Bruno… And then mixed with your ignorance, ugh… makes one hell of a dumb person. You yourself strongly enforce the stereotype of americans being dumb….
Load More Replies...I want to know if lockers have locks that are just a part of them? If so then like do you have the same locker the whole time? Can the lock code be changed? If not can't anyone who used to go there just open your locker? What if someone figures our your combo, are you screwed?
Probably depends on the school district (and the era). When I was a kid, I think all my school lockers used padlocks (which I'm pretty sure my parents had to buy). So you just had to remember your combination. For the ones which are built-in, I'm not sure if they had the ability to change the combination when that student was no longer using it, but I'd hope so. I think the padlock thing was more common, though, since in a worst-case scenario, they could always just cut open the lock and not harm the locker itself.
Load More Replies...This was surprisingly gentle for a c**p-on-the-US article. With a few ignorant exceptions a lot of these seemed like genuine, sincere questions and not “hur dur bathroom door cracks too big” repeats.
I know, it was a really refreshing read. I love articles like this (no matter which country is the one in question) because you get to learn new things and get clarification on stuff most media exaggerates/lies about.
Load More Replies...A while back the family and I were watching a movie made/set in 1982. I commented on the fact that the characters including the cops didn't use seatbelts. Curious I googled. I was shocked to discover that it would be at least 2-3 years more before the first state laws were passed and nearly another 15 years before laws existed for all (most?) states and even then, they are often conditional. In Australia seatbelts are compulsory nation wide and have been since Jan 1972.
Two of my comments have disappeared in the last half hour, anyone else having a problem?
Are most funerals in America Open casket? I've been to a few funerals and have never been to an open casket and I don't know anyone else who has.
I've been to a handful and it's kind of hit and miss on open versus closed casket, though there were more closed caskets with photos of the deceased up around the area versus having them open. I assume it's the preference of whoever is in charge of arranging the funeral, usually the deceased's close family.
Load More Replies...A lot of these seem to be questions from people who think that everything they watch on TV is true. Also, questions about things that happen in LOTS of places, not just the U.S.. Do you have basements (pretty much a given in any cold climate)? Do kids go to camp? Are high school guidance counselors really a thing?
TIL that nobody knows anything about anyone ... unless they saw it in a movie.
You sir are a moron, an idiot of seldom seen character. It’s easy to forget that not all people are of average intelligence even tho the name “average” itself states that a lot of people are bellow that line, people like you Bruno… And then mixed with your ignorance, ugh… makes one hell of a dumb person. You yourself strongly enforce the stereotype of americans being dumb….
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