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We welcome you, our dear Pandas, to an award show called “Man Of The Year,” where women are putting the most trashy and toxic behaviors men have exhibited in the spotlight for everyone to judge and shame. Now it’s up to you to decide which of these men wins the “Man Of The Year” title by upvoting those who, in your eyes, are the embodiment of a walking red flag.

#1

Screenshot of an intense and unhinged text conversation nominating men of the year by women.

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Mary August
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He made a whole relationship in his head.

Vinnie
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup. I think he was addressing himself most of the time. So who's the one who's potentially high maintenance, judgmental and afraid of commitment??

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Annabelle
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oodles of projection and red flags.

T J
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This dude broke up with someone he wasn't even really dating

Crystalwitch60
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Erm erm WTF now that’s deluded HUGE HUGE red flag behaviour 😱

Giraffe Sitter
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“You’re high maintenance and judgmental” - it’s only Monday morning and I’m already out of WTAFs.

Lexekon
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He sounds like he is trying to not duplicate a recent relationship, but is unclear how to discuss it. Quite possibly projecting from that.

Joanne Mendonza-Earle
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He's the one that's judgmental and high maintenance.

VNES101
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not gonna lie, I did this to a guy once. Made it clear I was interested. It took him over a week to actually ask me out. We hung out once. Went well but he was very slow to ask me out again. I basically said the same sort of thing to him via text. I could foresee him wasting my time, so yes, after one hang out, I said goodbye. I think you can catch a general vibe and decide pretty early on how you want to proceed. Dude said a bit too much in the text, but I get it.

Jay Cee
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1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dear Martha, I've never had a second date and I can't figure out why. I'm a nice guy.

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    #2

    Screenshot of a text conversation captioned man of the year showing an unhinged message about protecting feelings.

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    CA Hyde
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, gaslight much?!

    Libstak
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aw didn't tell her he was cheating on her because he cares about her feelings too much to hurt her, how canwe pass up such a gentleman ladies? 🤮🤮🤮

    ynyrhydref56
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah one of my early boyfriends didn't tell me about the other girl because he "didn't want to hurt my feelings". Like, bruh ...

    Jay Cee
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did a cat walk across the keyboard?

    Farah (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I didn't tell you about her because it would've ruined your day and I actually care about you. See how I protect your feelings but you don't appreciate that?"

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    Kris “ADHD_Carrier” Dudoich
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Smell that? That's the smell of a narcissist blaming his bad choices on his partner in an attempt to convince them that it's THEIR fault

    Elisabeth Normoyle
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    * If my husband sent me a text with all those abbreviations, I’d have to ask him if he’d turned into a 12 year old girl‼️🤣

    Goover
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    2 months ago

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    #3

    Text message screenshot showing a man apologizing for cheating, captioned The man of the year with clapping emojis.

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    Bookworm
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "bUt iTs fAmIly!!!!" Just got a whole new meaning.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Didn’t it just lmao , keeping in the family ,oh boy 😂

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    Enlee Jones
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do I suddenly have "Dueling Banjos" stuck in my head?

    Javelina Poppers
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Incest, a game the whole family can play.

    Pferdchen
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I got a text like that, I'd assume it was a boyfriend test and reply with "I get it, he's pretty cute. How was it?"

    Nicole Weymann
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "...how was it? I wanna know before *I* try." It's family, after all - doesn't count 😈

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    Lexekon
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a fiance who did that. Even wilder, she knew he was married with another kid on the way.

    Abel
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just keep inbreeding till all of them disappear.

    Peter Vens
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    is this when you're supposed to mention alabama ?

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    This cathartic trend on TikTok, where women started sharing their experiences with men who did them dirty, screenshots and all, and titling them “Men Of The Year,” was inspired by a song by a popular artist, Lorde, called “Man Of The Year.”

    While the song itself is about gender exploration, its lyrics, "Let's hear it for the man of the year," have been taken by Gen Z creators to ironically title the toxic men in their lives as “Men Of The Year” when in reality they’re anything but.

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    #4

    Screenshot of a message nominating a man of the year with a sarcastic comment about cheating, highlighting men of the year.

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    Bookworm
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Find a guy that looks like him. Send him a message with a picture saying "don't worry babe. It's not cheating because he looks like you." Silence your phone and enjoy the freakout. Do not actually have s€x with him. At least not until you've broken up with the outdated version.

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then send a pic of a random baby because it doesn't count if the father looked like him.

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    John Dilligaf
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    but what if the girl looks like her AND is his cousin? Does that mean it shouldn't count twice as much?

    MygrandsonscallmeNia
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex-husband once told me while we were at the beach; you should be proud I look at other girls! I'm comparing them in front of you! I was 8 months pregnant, and I felt like a whale.... Oh, no! you didn't just go there! We're leaving!

    Rebecca Taylor
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What an idiot! Where do they find them this dumb

    Robert Beveridge
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is literally a Gin Blossoms song.

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Your identical twin doesn't count." (An Identical twin can pass off as the other one in quick and superficial situations, but it's much harder in relationships and friendships)

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    #5

    Unhinged screenshot showing aggressive text message and options menu with man of the year nomination phrase visible.

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    Shark queen 🦈🦈🦈
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He hits you with his hand You hit him with a pan.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Keep that a leverage for when you press charges.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NO ONE DESERVES TO BE HIT BY A MAN , 🤬n technically he ain’t man of the year !, REAL MEN DO NOT HIT WOMEN !! there for he is inhuman S*****G of the year !

    Min
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one deserves to be hit at all.

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    Jaya
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is never any excuse for hitting someone, unless in self-defense (or the defense of someone else who can't defend themselves)

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Idiot just confessed! Take it to the cops and press charges.

    Paul Kinnear
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men have testicles for more than one reason, you know? Kick!!!!

    Roxy222uk
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are the sort of texts that should be forwarded to parents.

    AnSi Bae
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hitting/spanking your kids are illegal were I live, but I would sure be tempted if my future SIL or DIL forwarded this to me.

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    BoredPangolin
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    --> thank you to confirm it by messaging. Let's now show this to the police.

    Floor V
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mouth dropped, the Mask-style, reading this one..

    Rosecat
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Woah wtf. Time for a police report.

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    #6

    Text message screenshot showing a man explaining a failed loyalty test, related to men of the year nominations.

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    Regina Holt
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's some mental gymnastics.

    Jaya
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This dude could become a professional gymnast because those mental gymnastics are impressive.

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    CA Hyde
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a "can I dump you test", yep I passed- your dumped.

    Enlee Jones
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ah, the good ole "You're responsible for my behavior" argument. Always a crowd pleaser

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I need you to keep me on an actual leash and shock collar at all times."

    My O My
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That might be fun with a guy like this 😜

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    Pyla
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She def doesn’t need him

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    The trend started on June 5th on TikTok, when user @violetaylaa posted a selfie video captioned, "My man of the year is my ex who got mad at me when he cheated on me." This is considered to be the earliest video, which used Lorde’s song to call out men for being toxic in relationships. At the time of writing, the video has over 3.2 million views.

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    Soon after, it inspired others to do the same, and now there are over 179.9K videos under the same sound. 

    The trend became so popular that even Lorde herself responded with a video reacting to it by rolling and widening her eyes and shaking her head, captioned “These messages...”

    #7

    Screenshot of a text conversation showcasing unhinged and insane messages nominating men of the year.

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    Gabriel Camomescro
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait, this is actually a thing? I thought it was only a bad plot for adult videos.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No it’s actually a thing lol , long as the step sibling isn’t bloody related at all , ie the new step mothers kid from a previous marriage , it happens way more often that you would think , and it’s not even illegal lol

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    Regina Holt
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just keeping it in the family.

    Debbie Ryan (Deb)
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wtf is wrong with you I mean seriously who hurt u ? Did his mom or dad never give him a hug or something

    Wanda Peachtree
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is happening here? Do not keep dating anyone in this situation

    shg stewart
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Who are these people who think it's not somehow cheating if you sleep with a family member?!

    EJN
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That sure as sh*t does change things. FOR THE WORST!!!!

    Rebecca Taylor
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait what! Girl run don't walk away from this ldiot.

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    #8

    Screenshot of a text message with an unusual confession, highlighting men of the year nominations from women.

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    Val
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Weird?? Try fu-cked up.

    Debbie Ryan (Deb)
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The term mother F*****k e r just got a new meaning

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not in the mood for s3x with just anybody, it's gotta be I n c e s t.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES !! Yes it’s weird , actually no ,it’s deranged!!

    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, Chandler. LOL! He's the one who told Ross sometimes his mom pops into his head and Ross told him "I said share! Not scare!" For three years Friends on DVD was all I had to watch, literally. :P

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    Regina Holt
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apron strings are strong here.

    Crystalwitch60
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure the umbilical cord was ever cut on this one lol

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    #9

    Text message screenshot showing a relationship ultimatum with Man of the Year caption and various emojis.

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    Bookworm
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I assume he's talking to his right hand.

    Ohm Bun
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't be judgemental. He might be a lefty

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    Regina Holt
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The trash will take itself out.

    Crystalwitch60
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    😂😂😂😂😂🤦‍♀️noted lol but pretty sure she’s already gone lol

    BoredPangolin
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "you tell me how it goes", she replied, walking away.

    Lexekon
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like my first wife.

    Rebecca Taylor
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If he is talking to a female then Doesn't that make him being out her choice not his. Stalker in the making here

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    The videos under the “Man Of The Year” sound have quite a straightforward format. The majority of them are slideshow videos that begin with a selfie captioned "Let's hear it for the…" that changes to another slide with "Man Of The Year" written on it over a piece of evidence, usually a screenshotted message that shows how toxic a male ex was. In other videos, the evidence may come in the form of a video or even an EDM remix that an ex-boyfriend made out of a voice memo of an ex-girlfriend crying.

    #10

    Screenshot of a text conversation nominating men of the year with a surprising and unhinged message.

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    A. Br.
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Geez, the human race is a wretched, nasty thing. Can't apologize enough for any of these., well... sometimes human just doesn't fit.

    Crystalwitch60
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They the inhuman breed , n they appear to be taking over somewhat don’t they

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    Apatheist Account2
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder who the rapper was...Eminem, Drake?

    Devon Andre
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a wise man once said, "He didn't just spell rapper and leave out a P did he?"

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    Crystalwitch60
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🤬🤬please can I have 5 mins alone no cameras with this vile inhuman , I promise you will never find him !! ANY OF HIM !

    BoredPangolin
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You shouldn't have obfuscated his name and number...

    JayhawkJoey
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a special place in Hell for people like this.

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    #11

    Screenshot of an intense message from a woman to Alex, highlighting unhinged moments in men of the year posts.

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    Annabelle
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Glad to know this monster is soulless.

    anonymouse
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sisters joke that I'm soulless because I'm a redhead.

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    tresgatos72
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like the trash took itself out.

    Roxy222uk
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, forward this to his mother

    Jolie
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ll bring the shovel. Someone else bring the trash bag.

    Julian Longsworth
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    2 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Something tells me he couldn't take an earlier hint

    EJN
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmmm...met up with a succubus and then it was over?

    Bleau
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That could be written by either s*x. Yes one oʻf only two

    JayhawkJoey
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hope he burns in the afterlife.

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    #12

    Screenshot of a woman’s unhinged text messages to nominate a man of the year in a chaotic conversation.

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    anonymouse
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She can't if she gets m******d because he wouldn't help.

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    BoredPangolin
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Loosing trust in your partner is the one thing that's the hardest to recover to save your couple. You can have ups and downs in love and attraction, but trust, once it's been down.. the person you let down will struggle to get over it even if they really want to.

    Ravenkbh
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For God's sake don't lead him home! Take him somewhere else!

    Ryan Mercer
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The person following her is him.

    AC
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex actually did this to me. She text at 3 am saying a guy she invited to hers wouldn't leave and wanted me to go to hers and make him. Turned out she was all over him at the club, slept with him, regretted it and wanted me, her fiance at the time to make him leave. She must have thought I was the dumbest guy walking

    LovesBerk
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see. So someone is following you and you are not calling 911. ok.

    weatherwitch
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🚩🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️

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    The women using this trend have revealed some truly shocking and heartbreaking things they’ve experienced while being in a toxic relationship. Like this one TikTok user who wrote, “Got me pregnant at freshly 20 yrs old. Promised me everything. Left me a month after finding out. Blocked me and everyone I know on everything. Got with a new girl. And still doesn’t care how it all affects me or his baby.”

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    #13

    Woman sharing unhinged screenshots about men of the year with expressive gestures in a colorful room.

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    KatSaidWhat
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let's hear it for police report of the year too.

    Wanda Peachtree
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For what? The police won't care about that. They barely care about r**e.

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    Jaya
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one doesn't belong in a list of shítty men, this one belongs in a list of sexual abusers.

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    B.... But you humiliated him by not agreeing?? 😔 Never mind his attempt at sexuâl a*****t 😡

    Lyone Fein
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What planet do these pervs come from?

    Billo66
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He took it out.

    Bleau
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone appears as a working girl. Wtf takes a ride from a stranger nowadays

    #14

    Text message conversation showing unhinged and insensitive messages, highlighting men of the year nominations by women online.

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    Pyla
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Deck forward thinking is never a win

    tori Ohno
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a loser pull something like this after I lost my father. He Demanded I spend the weekend at his place because "it'll make me feel better and get my mind off of it". I blocked him immediately.

    Chuck the Cat
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m so sorry you lost your father. He must have meant so much to you. X

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    Fire Singer
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have to have a strong relationship and very strong understanding of each others sense of humor to make the whole "let's celebrate life with smex" thing fly.

    O. Puntia
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Id like you better if we slept together. Romeo Void

    Abel
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Let's have fun while your grandmother corpse is still warm"...

    Kalevra
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this one sucks. maybe he means taking her on the town. you dont know and neither do I.

    Lotekguy
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Long odds in Vegas on that being the intent.

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    #15

    Screenshot of an unhinged text message conversation shared by women, featuring chaotic and confusing messages about love and relationships.

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    TerathNinir
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only thing he's deeply in love with is the idea of having a t*******e.

    Annabelle
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    T.hreesome. It's wild the words that keep being added to the censor.

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    Abel
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Convert to bisexual sounds as bad as to convert from gay to straight...

    anonymouse
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know right?! After I moved to Tennessee, I became friends with this boy. I accidentally let it slip that I was bi, and he told his parents. They only let him continue to be friends with me because they thought he could 'change me.' This is why I try not to associate with Christians (or were they Catholic...?)

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    MeowZedong
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I knew this one bisexual girl who's boyfriend sugested that they should be both allowed to sleep with other girls. She agreed. She got to sleep with other girls. He didn't get any.

    Lara Verne
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dump him and don't forget to tell Keira

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️IN HIS DREAMS !!

    David Shaw
    Community Member
    Premium
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plot twist: GF and Keira agree, realise they have something really special between them, dump the losers a*s like hot coals.

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    The trend invites women to share about the struggles they’ve experienced in their relationships and cope with them in a dark humor kind of way, which Gen Z has formed a tendency of doing quite a lot.

    This generation of young people is more open about mental health than past generations, which can be attributed to the fact that Gen Z grew up with readily available technology and social media. Social media, in particular, gave them a platform from day one for their voices to be outspoken and heard.

    #16

    Screenshot of a playful and candid message nominating the man of the year in a humorous conversation.

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    Cee Cee
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Get rid and get checked.

    Italian-Swiss Panda
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What does that mean, run a train on me? I'm too scared to google it haha

    Kat
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s horrible- “a female has guy after guy with or without consent”

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    CA Hyde
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has to be a joke, a little over the top.

    Bleau
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then again. They do bragg about trying to hit 1k a yr.

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    gvizzle_ 74
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of these feel fake but this one feels super duper fake

    Telperion
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sounds made up as all h*ll

    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is there an option for a replacement bus service?

    NoRestfortheQWERTY
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are guys who'd be okay with this. Lots of women have put up with it since forever, for better or for worse. I feel it's becoming more of a two-way street sort of thing. But there are lots of reasons to leave or stay in a relationship. It'd be better to either make it an official open relationship or do the old French marriage thing: ask no questions, tell no stories, make sure you don't bring anything home. My parents' marriage worked that way, and their marriage had its strengths and weaknesses, but it lasted more than fifty years.

    Nicole Weymann
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To each their own, ultimately, and if it's okay for both sides it's their business. BUT, since OP posted it with the "woman of the year" comment I suspect the agreement was unilaterally presupposed and NOT okay with OP.

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    #17

    Woman wearing glasses and headphones posting a screenshot nominating men of the year with an unhinged message.

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    Roxy222uk
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    F.u.c.k. me, he wants a medal for dating someone with a certain level of melanin?

    Helen Dunn
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m not following the logic here.

    George Costanza
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is her face wet or is that a weird wet-look makeup thing that I don't understand?

    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s her makeup. People do this on purpose for a glowing/glossy/dewy/glass skin look, which always looks unnaturally shiny, but if you overdo it or use a product that is too shiny then it just looks wet and oily like this. Some makeup trends are stupid

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    EJN
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hard to imagine this kind of sh*thead still exists....Hopefully, you just cut him off cold.

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    #18

    Text message screenshot nominating man of the year with a humorous comment about hair extensions and cancer fear.

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    Dzessa Golden
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ?!!??! Because she had extensions?!

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ikr , like other women can’t have em , well I wear em I’m 60 , so I guess I’m safe as houses from idiot inhumans like him then phew !

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    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can anyone translate “I don’t fw cancer kids” for me, please? I’ve not encountered “fw” yet. Thanks! (It doesn’t mean “eff with,” does it? Because I like to think he doesn’t eff with kids AT ALL, cancer or not! Eugh!)

    Farah (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesnt literally mean f with It means like I dont date/play around with and he didnt mean cancer kids he meant her

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    BoredPangolin
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh dear, this girl dodged a bullet!

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Excuse me , what kinda inhuman low life is this ?? wtf is wrong with people having cancer ?? he needs to get educated FAST 🤦‍♀️🤬

    Kris “ADHD_Carrier” Dudoich
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, I've seen dried up puddles that weren't this shallow!

    anonymouse
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Extensions does not mean cancer.

    No spam
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, dodged an ignorant bullet there

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    Normalizing the conversation about mental health and traumatic past experiences is good, as it allows young people to deal with their issues and move on from them instead of being stuck. They don’t want to be held back by any mental health concerns, so they are often glad to get treatment for them, like choosing therapy or sharing their experiences in a dark humor kind of way online.

    #19

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    Kathy Brooke
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only got bones in him. No brains at all.

    tresgatos72
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thinking with your lower half makes you a bonehead.

    SchadenFreudian Psychology
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He doesn’t want a woman; he wants a flèshlïght.

    anonymouse
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is that anatomically correct? Because I just looked it up, there are no bones in the p***s.

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    #21

    Screenshot of a message nominating a man of the year with a humorous and unhinged text conversation.

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    Dzessa Golden
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes you freakin ding-dong! It is both of those things why don’t you know that

    Stannous Flouride
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the two (sic) political parties in the US has said that teaching kids the importance of consent is tantamount to grooming. (yeah, I realize that they wouldn't know what tantamount means)

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    Annabelle
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex told me that he likes me better when I'm high. Tried to tell him why it was hurtful that he said that. He replied with something I shared prior to try to justify his words. I requested again that he not say it. He said it at least two more times within the year. He wanted me high all the time for many reasons he'll never admit.

    Amy Smith
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well he's channelling Dahmer. I'd get yourself as far away as possible and report - this person sounds dangerous.

    tresgatos72
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did this moron make it past 3rd grade?

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn’t that called erm a b u s e ?? YES IT IS F KIN ILLEGAL 🤦‍♀️🤬

    Kelbers11
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, Jeffrey Dahmer. Yeesh.

    A. Br.
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    5 months ago

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    In fact, 53% of Gen Zers have sought professional mental health services at some point, and 87% report feeling comfortable discussing their mental health. In addition, 60% report being able to freely share their struggles, like the women participating in this trend did. However, we can’t discredit the previous generations, as they also had a part in paving the way for Gen Z’s openness by increasing awareness of mental health and helping to reduce the stigma.

    #22

    Woman posing for selfie with text overlay about man of the year and ex cheating, highlighting men of the year theme.

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    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well obviously it was all your fault right lol , u go girl , he’s a t**t !

    Gracie Mae
    Community Member
    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    let me guess...if you'd been putting out more, he wouldn't have gone elsewhere?

    Schmebulock
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did he give you that fat lip?

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t understand the blue/gray swoosh on her face. That’s a thing now? It makes her lower lip look really swollen. Do the colors mean anything, like handkerchiefs in pockets? Like is there a color I wear to show that I’m single and ready (or not) to mingle, and is it done with eyeshadow? Given the heatwave we’re having now, I’m imagining it running down my chin and I mindlessly swipe the perspiration off and then I look like I’m ready for Halloween. Not my favorite fashion trend, that’s for sure. 😕 Luckily, I’m too old for this kinda nonsense anymore!

    Not-a-Clue (she/her)
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought it was just an unfortunate shadow. It's on purpose?!

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    #23

    Screenshot of a shocking text message in a women post nominating men of the year conversation.

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    Amy Smith
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My first GF kissed a boy in front of me and told me it was OK because we were both girls. She was my GF, he was one of my closest friends. Neither of them got to say anything else before they were both told to sod straight off indefinitely. Admittedly this was more than 20 years ago and worse has happened since but it was a stupid argument from a 16 year old then and it's a stupid argument now from an adult

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope you put it a lot less politely that sod off lol

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    SchadenFreudian Psychology
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have agreed to monogamy, it’s cheating. The gender does not matter.

    Regina Holt
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, well, that's kinda worse.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And that’s BETTER HOW EXACTLY 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

    #24

    Screenshot of an unhinged text message nominating a man of the year in a chaotic conversation.

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    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and now you can keep kissing her...

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The girlfriend owed him nothing. Just because someone tells you they love you doesn't mean that you have to say it back

    SchadenFreudian Psychology
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Didn’t she know she was supposed to read his mind? /s

    Kiel
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This post is missing context. Are they actually in a relationship? if so the guy is wrong. If he was asking to actually be in a relationship and she didn't respond, that's either a a try harder or I don't like you.

    EJN
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    T**t! Dump this chump!

    Linda Lee
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone you're seeing says I love you and you don't want to say it back, simply reply, "Oh that's so nice of you. Thank you so much". If they get mad about it, then they were using the I luv u as a power move. Don't fall for it.

    tresgatos72
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And now you can kiss my a*s and kiss off.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Note to men , we do not have to say it back instantly !! it’s not a reason to cheat !! Oh n it works other way around to , for the s k a n k s out there lol

    Abel
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are you so angry about men? Or women? Or mankind.

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    “Young people today are much more willing to talk about their mental health,” agrees Patrick Griswold, MSN, M.Ed., RN. “The stigma around mental health struggles has significantly decreased because it’s harder to stigmatize something that’s so widespread. Therapy is now seen as beneficial, and as more people engage with it and find it helpful, the stigma continues to fade.”

    #25

    Screenshot of a text message revealing unhinged feelings, showcasing men of the year moments shared by women online.

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    Val
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For fu-ck's sake.

    Annabelle
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of my ex "encouraging" me to stay in shape, so that, in his words, he'd still be attracted to me when we're older.

    Weltschmerz
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had two exes fat shame me, one called me chub chub (I was a UK size 8/10) and the other told me he wouldn't find me attractive if I put anymore weight on (UK size 10 at that point and I'd put on maybe half a stone?). Disgusting how some men think that they can comment on our bodies t like that!!!

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    tresgatos72
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dump his sorry butt and you'll have lost a nice chunk of weight right then and there!

    EJN
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least he tried to be kind... but the main message is still right there. To end or not to end...

    Kris “ADHD_Carrier” Dudoich
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And I'd love for you to learn an alternative to the word "genuine" and also study up a little on the female body and how easily weight can be gained/shifted, particularly as we age.

    Dragon Lady
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If that's love then I've been doing it wrong all these years....

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think he meant "best of" you...

    Ohm Bun
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know why this is a problem. He's being honest. I think women tend to have a double standard when it comes to physicality. If the woman wants a tall, successful, high earning dude, then it's you go girl, if a guy says it, then "man of the year". Hypocritical

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry W a n k e r , your dumped problem solved !! I loath men like that , beauty is only skin deep , n dumping that thing is excess weight dropped in seconds 😋😋

    Power puff scientist
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    5 months ago

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    ok fine ill eat the downvotes, i don't think there is anything wrong with telling your significant other if you feel they are becoming less attractive. relationships are often based on physical attraction. what's the alternative? not telling them and losing all interest in physical contact?

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s not what’s on the outside !! It’s who the person really is , n I do not call gaining a few pounds obese !! From a recovering anorexic, down to a man doing this !! it’s never ok to fat shame , oh n for the record I was a dinky size 8 uk size !! if that’s fat then I really am the queen of bloody Sheba !! ITS NEVER OK !

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    #26

    Three young women taking a selfie with sunburns, featured in screenshots nominating men of the year.

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    Pyla
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wise up, girl, he’s a loser

    Bleau
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's the hottest one the pic. The friend hears that an she'd be on him.

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    Dzessa Golden
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about the 🤢 reaction to her photo?!!? I honestly cannot believe people actually behave this way.

    Learner Panda
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Drop him and buy some sun cream.

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    Without context this is hard to judge. Perhaps she was being mean and this was the last straw for him. No way to know either way.

    #27

    Screenshot on a phone showing a message suggesting makeup, related to men of the year nominations.

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    EJN
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He really wants jewelry to hang on himself...

    michael Chock
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should have photos on their phone already.

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    #28

    Text message screenshot with emotional apology showing a chaotic relationship scene from women nominating men of the year.

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    Bookworm
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She and train guy need to get together.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Train GIRL !!! lol that one was woman of the yr

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    gvizzle_ 74
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    same sentence, different text chain, both by women? fake AF

    John Purves
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay, from now on I only want your heart and soul, not your body.

    Kalevra
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    5 months ago

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    See ladies? You are the same.

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    #30

    Screenshot of a chaotic text message with a caption praising the man of the year nomination by women.

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    Bookworm
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clearly all that school didn't work.

    Jolie
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bold of you to assume he even went to one

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    Pyla
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet Mr Third Trimester is a sight for sore eyes

    anonymouse
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, what does that mean?

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    #31

    Young woman shares unhinged screenshot nominating man of the year for abandoning her and their baby after pregnancy news.

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    Pyla
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s what lawyers are for

    Apachebathmat
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sweetheart, it was rubbish what he did and unforgivable that you’re getting no support, but you also played a leading role in bringing a new life into the world when it is easily prevented

    Charles McChristy
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why tf would you have this person's baby, ***shudder***

    Ellinor
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because it is also her baby and she wants to keep it ?

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    tw 72
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Got me pregnant?" Girl - use birth control. You are the one who pays the price if you get pregnant.

    Ellinor
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He also could have used condoms.

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    Apatheist Account2
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure we were able to contact people before "blocking" became a thing.

    EJN
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are better off without the loser. That kind of dude isn't worth it.

    Cydney Golden
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He owes child support, get a lawyer.

    Sparkle
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh he'll care when he has to pay child support.

    shg stewart
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop letting a******s get you pregnant. FFS, wait until you're in a stable, long-term relationship and he's proven that he knows how to be an adult (i.e. does housework without being asked, knows how to grocery shop, pays bills on time, et cetera), and your career and finances are decent enough that having a baby isn't going to make your whole life go up in flames. Children are expensive and a lot of work!

    Bleau
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is BP common sense doesn't exist in this realm

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    Kalevra
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    5 months ago

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    choose better partners.

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    #32

    Screenshot of an unhinged message posted by a woman nominating men of the year in a chaotic conversation.

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    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “You just yapping was like everything I ever wanted in someone.” Lord, help me stay away from this SWEET TALKER because I’ll be a goner if a man tells me how much he loves my yappin’!

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lining up the next before dumping the poor woman , he’s with RED FLAG

    KatWitch57
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone send him a packet of punctuation.

    Kathy Brooke
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's right. She prolly doesn't care.

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    #34

    Text message conversation showing an unhinged screenshot nominating men of the year with shocking remarks.

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    Kalevra
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    have no idea about the story. Maybe it is better. You dont know and neither do i.

    #35

    Screenshot of an unhinged message from a woman nominating men of the year with emojis and emotional text.

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    ElfVibratorGlitter
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the same train woman as a few others above

    tresgatos72
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're either sisters or roommates.

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    Kathy Brooke
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Funny how all the "woman of the year" ones are the same story, same design, same formatting... funny that, no?

    gvizzle_ 74
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    is there a template these guys are using?

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This wasn’t a thing when I was a kid, thank cow. “I gave my body to every boy in junior class, but it’s okay because you have my heart and mind!” I guess kids are coming up with wilder excuses now.

    #36

    Screenshot of a humorous text exchange involving the Maslow pyramid with men of the year nomination theme.

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    Dzessa Golden
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Admitting he has no need for love & belongingness is not the flex he thinks it is.

    Michael None
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not caring that someone might be without basic needs and their significant other ignores their obvious cry for help isn't the flex you think it is.

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    Lukas (he/him, it/its)
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Okay I may be reading this wrong and I'm sorry if I am. He doesn't seem to be saying he needs her to provide the red or that he doesn't need the green, I don't think. He says he doesn't talk to people all day, and "rest" being in basic needs seems to be his reasoning. He's saying he needs rest more than he needs to talk to her, I think. I could be reading this wrong though, he's still a jerk for communicating it like that.

    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This guy being a jerk aside, I think asking a single person to meet all your needs is putting a lot of pressure on one relationship. It's okay to have a partner, but we have a circle of friends for a reason. Don't ignore one for the other.

    Abel
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am actually stuck between red and yellow, and I dont understand what the f**k means achieving your full potential. That sounds like a sect.

    EJN
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was in high school, the dude I was seeing told me, "We are playing in different keys." He was right. I left and went on with my life.

    Bleau
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So the narcissist pyramid

    adi cosmin
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dunno, maybe a dude worried about his basic needs should not be dating at all...

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok psychopath alert !! Get out now girl !

    Kalevra
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you are both incompatible on Maslow's Pyramid, then break up. Easy.

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    #37

    Woman in glasses holding a drink, sharing an unhinged screenshot nominating men of the year for chaotic behavior.

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    Mel Colley
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could never understand why ANYONE would pack up their lives and live with a bunch of strangers without a backup plan?

    michael Chock
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Call police. You were robbed. I am sure you have photos of you with those things.

    Maim
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unpopular opinion: He "got me pregnant". Takes two to tango - if you didn't want to get pregnant, take the necessary precaution. OR this is a terrible way to say "we decided to have a baby together" Who knows.

    Lukas (he/him, it/its)
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are ways to tamper with birth control- Poking holes in condoms for one- and also, while this doesn't seem to be the case, r*pe does not take "two to tango". I don't know more about this particular case, but no, it is not always a woman's choice to get pregnant.

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    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They robbed you of all your designer items?! 😳 That’s the kind of thing that can’t be forgiven!

    Cydney Golden
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have no money, is it bc you have designer things?

    Tamara Sinèad
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s when you call the police, girl 😕

    At Least I'm Not You
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Amazing how so many women claim to know so much and are right all the time yet can't get knocked up by a halfway okay guy for the life of them.

    Ohm Bun
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is the man who got you pregnant? Is it like you don't have a say in this?

    Bleau
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because that's how it works. S***m sŵim. She had a say an chose not to use the pill or a jacķet

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    Bleau
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YOU got yourself prego. Your body remember

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    #38

    Screenshot of an unhinged message from women of the year sharing insane and wild texts online.

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    Jaya
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The way she says it makes it sound like she was just tipsy and is just using 'drunk' as an excuse. But if she actually was drunk, then yes. Drunk people cannot give consent. Having s*x with someone who is really drunk, is r**e.

    Ryan Mercer
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes my wife and I like to get drunk. Just say'n.

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    Michelle Dowling
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Run a train on me is such a male fantasy that keeps being the woman's format. Thinking a Mr cokx has been writing.

    Maim
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is this "train" stuff? Some metaphor I'm missing, I assume.

    My O My
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A group of men getting intimate with one woman

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    gvizzle_ 74
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    these guys need to be more creative with their bullsh*t

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh yes HE CAN !, blame lies squarely on your s***k body lol

    Sparkle
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her body her choice. It doesn't make her a s***k for having $ex with multiple men or women. However she can't use the fact that she was drunk to excuse her cheating.

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    #39

    Text message exchange showing a hospital IV stand with fluid bags and caption naming man of the year.

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    Caramello
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Finally! I told you that it was going to get infected if you kept ignoring it!"

    Janice Sanz
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WHAT can this person not take anymore??

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eugh anyone as does this to a partner cruel !! it’s not funny or clever ! n if that’s being used as a I can’t live without u so I’m gonna off myself , is even more deluded , it will never work , it’s controlling , sorry but vile , oh n that’s off the internet 🤦‍♀️

    #40

    Screenshot of a text reaction to a message, highlighting men of the year in an unhinged conversation.

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    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok I’m with him on this one !! god squad lot are lunatics ! N yup they do spend to much time on fictional people !

    Alyce
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So...books are like cheating, too?🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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    Faye Bosworth
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    nonetheless, calling it cheating is insecure af.

    Leesa DeAndrea
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless you're devoted to a religion, don't get involved with a religious fanatic.

    Jaya
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one sounds like it might just have been a funny joke.

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    5 months ago

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    #41

    Screenshot of a text conversation highlighting unhinged messages in a men of the year nomination post.

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    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “Pledge task”? Is that a typo or does it actually mean something? (And if so, what?) Why can’t I understand half of these?

    Stobedaeus
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    College fraternity probably told him part of being accepted into the frat is to use his ex girlfriend's dead mom as a talking point to suggest getting back together even though neither probably want to get back together. Absolutely vile thing to do for laughs and to assert psychological domination over the pledge.

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    #42

    Screenshot of a chaotic text message, part of women posting insane and unhinged screenshots nominating men of the year.

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    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if it *had* fit in, then yeah, I’d have cheated in you, so you lucked out that he was overendowed!

    Hugh Crawford
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like trying to fit it in still counts as cheating

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    SchadenFreudian Psychology
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It didn’t fit in? 😂😂😂 Now that’s an excuse I’ve never heard before.

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh. My. Fücking. Gods 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

    Ryan Mercer
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So... it was bigger than 8 pounds and 6 ounces?

    #43

    Text message screenshot showing a crashed car with a caption highlighting men of the year in an unhinged context.

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    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t understand a thing I’m looking at. Not the text, not the photo, and certainly not “kedah,” which I assume is misspelled but I can’t think what it was sposta be. D**n; people get dumber by the day, don’t they?

    Lynn Drew
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think he's showing her a Pic of his wrecked car and insinuating it's her fault.

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    Kalevra
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    5 months ago

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    Flip the roles... next

    #44

    Screenshot of an insane and unhinged text message nominating a man for men of the year.

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    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Astrology is fake, but this is just crass

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    #45

    Screenshot of a texting conversation showing an unhinged message nominating men of the year by women.

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    Ellinor
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alright but there is context to this post. That woman was drunk in a bar and a few men saw her and they decided to r@pe her and filmed her while doing it. Her boyfriend (that posted this) saw it happen and he did nothing, then decided to post this on TikTok. He then added in the video description that he saw that she was being restrained and barely conscious, and yet he did nothing. He saw his girlfriend being r@ped, did nothing, and posted this atrocity on social media. He is the man of the year, not her.

    Abel
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But the pic doesnt tell us that story. In fact BP should double check what they are going to post.

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    Faye Bosworth
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if the comments are true about the case, that dude needs to be ashamed of himself!

    Deeelite
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    5 months ago

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    Omg! I laughed out loud at the office!!!!

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    #46

    Screenshot of an unhinged message with text nominating a man of the year in a digital chat conversation.

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    Teags
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    at least it wasn’t “k”

    Faye Bosworth
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i think it entirely depends on what was in her message. if it was an unhinged rant then maybe that was the appropriate response 🤷🏼‍♀️

    Con O Cuinn
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even if it wasn't unhinged, unpunctuated would be enough for me not to read a wall of text.

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    Svenne O'Lotta
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop writing paragraphs. Just call people if you have this much to say.