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She’s the girl who believes she’s the best choice and who is never in the wrong. She sees herself as a delicate flower whose heart often gets broken by vicious, toxic men. She’s also convinced that all the male population cares about is how to take advantage of women’s bodies and throws passive-aggressive fits on social media when she gets rejected.  

Sounds familiar? If so, chances are you have encountered at least one ‘nice girl’ in your lifetime. She’s the male equivalent of a ‘nice guy’ and can be equally as toxic and frustrating a persona as these knights in digital armor. 

Luckily, the ‘Nice Girls’ subreddit is set on calling out such behavior in hopes that it helps men and women distinguish fake nice behavior from the real thing. Scroll down to find their most cringeworthy posts, and be sure to share your own ‘nice girl’ encounters below.

While you’re at it, don’t forget to check out a conversation with a women's transformologist, Carolina Stukenberg, who kindly agreed to tell us more about how seeking validation from men can contribute to women becoming ‘nice girls.’

#1

What I Love About This Tiktok Generation Is Them Publishing Their Worst Deeds With Full Hd Selfie, So The Rest Of The World Can Stay Away Lol

What I Love About This Tiktok Generation Is Them Publishing Their Worst Deeds With Full Hd Selfie, So The Rest Of The World Can Stay Away Lol

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doredde
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As he should.

Paul C.
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He hates you? I'm shocked, shocked I tell you!

Adam Chang
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1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

lucky guy, dodged a bullet for sure

Dirk Daring
Community Member
1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I cheated on my BF because he wasn't paying me enough." There, fixed it.

Subaru645
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s right, just let them continue to ID themselves…

Jill Rhodry
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep, I'm all for red flags flying publicly, saves others a lot of time and heartache.

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James016
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's because you are a stain on humanity

devotedtodreams
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TikTok sheep deserve everything that comes to them

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    #2

    Manipulation To "Humble" Him

    Manipulation To "Humble" Him

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    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do I think she’ll realise she’s the hateful one? Probably not.

    Virgil Blue
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably not. She sounds like those "men don't have real feelings" girls.

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    XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Idk why this made me laugh so hard, but my cat gives you his middle bean for making me spit water at him! 🤣

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    Pablo Ramos
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This plays beautiful when the guy doesn't care or even notice...

    No spam
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These people are so damaged 😞

    No spam
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are very damaged people :(

    Kat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope all these men will humbly accept that they are just better without GF like this

    Untamed Snark
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's an absolutely disgusting way to treat someone.

    Kayleigh haigh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plot twist what if she was the girlfriend

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    #3

    Manipulation 101 : Guy Becomes A Backup Plan

    Manipulation 101 : Guy Becomes A Backup Plan

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    Alexia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just... disgusting. But hey, karma happens, someday you may be someone's back-up plan too. See if you like it.

    Kate Louis
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Karma is a b***h... shouldn't play with people's hearts.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A met a woman who was hotly pursuing a handsome friend of mine. When it became obvious to her that she wasn't going to land him, she let me know that I would do. The look on her face as I quite graciously declined was priceless.

    Hphizzle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    May her socks always be wet.

    Speedgoat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    May her pillow be flat and warm on both sides, and may she always have an itch between her shoulders that she can't reach.

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    Isa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women like her deserve nothing but bad things in life...I'm sorry but that's what I think about people playing with others feelings. To go over a breaking heart is horrible and depressing. He doesn't deserve to have such toxic and mean person near by...she's no friend, she's a wicked b***h.

    Charles McChristy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These are the type of women who use heavy filters.

    Pam
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people are just like walking talking venereal disease. If only there was a pill to make them go away.

    Steve Robert
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not only did he get a loving girlfriend, he blocked this compost heap from every site he's been on. And some sites he's never even been on.

    Leticia Ramirez
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just.....no how the heck will you put someone as a backup plan?! Like heeeelllooooo!! Get yourself together you wouldn't like someone else put you as a back up......Geez......😒

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    In a previous interview for Bored Panda, the moderators of the ‘Nice Girls’ subreddit explained that women who embody this term tend to be jealous and lack maturity and experience. 

    In their ‘About’ section, they additionally write that 'nice girls' are the women who complain guys are only interested in ‘females of easy virtue.’ They also are the “women who complain that men are shallow for not dating overweight women, while also demanding that their man have washboard abs. The women who hold others to the highest possible standard but have no standards for themselves.” 

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    However, they note that ‘nice girls’ shouldn’t be confused with ‘female incels,’ ‘crazy girls,’ ‘nice guys,’ or women who believe 'men are trash.’

    #4

    Guy Politely Acknowledges Break Up Message And She Gets Mad At Him For It

    Guy Politely Acknowledges Break Up Message And She Gets Mad At Him For It

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    Virgil Blue
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I had hoped for better from you" Looks like she was baiting for some heartbroken "please, we can work it out" style texts. Sorry girl, your private role-playing session got cancelled.

    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's odd, here is her initial post to him was actually quite lovely. It's exactly how I'd want someone to interact with me in that situation. I understand her not wanting to break up in person. It's a volatile situation. And her text was perfect as was his response. Then she got upset because he was acting like a stand up guy.

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    Leticia Ramirez
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She thought she will receive a emotional text "pls dont say that....we will work this out". Him "Na im good....Goodluck!"

    Wang Zhuang
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want to see the rest of the conversation

    Bill Hankel
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Call me old, but at least the lack of curse words was somewhat refreshing.

    catpanda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. He sounds like a gentleman, he's well out of it.

    Bryan Wright
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I suppose the thumbs up emoji would have been slightly tacky?

    Bryan Wright
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes silence is the best answer, Damned if you do and damned if you don't/

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    #5

    Nice Girl Setting Standards

    Nice Girl Setting Standards

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    Doctor Strange
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are not an amusement park ride, you don't need a "you must be this tall sign". God, I hate how short men get dismissed. I have so many guy friends who are absolutely fantastic, but get rejected out of hand because they don't meet some arbitrary height standard.

    LizzieBoredom
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Short men are closer to the ground, and thus understand the gravity of the situation.

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    Tiny Dancer
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a 6-footer for 24 years (I'm around 5'7"). After five years together, he got hit by a car and was a bit stooped for a while until endless physiotherapy fixed that. Then he got hit by cancer. Chemo and radiation took him down a few more notches until we were almost nose-to-nose when he passed last year. He was still a bigger man than most at the end. Height means nothing. It's the character of a man that makes him "big" and my guy was a freakin' giant (saved two people on his way out by donating his kidneys).

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just don't get this 6 foot and over thing, I really don't.

    Helena
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BoyGanesh is right, otherwise there wouldn't be as many couples simply because 6' and over is a statistically small percentage. So guys below must be getting laid. I imagine it is more difficult for those like 5'3 and under, but that is also a statically small percentage.

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    Connie Hirsch
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are plenty of 5' girls who will be happy to look up to a 5' 7" man.

    Vasana Phong
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m 4’9, so every guy is a perfect height 😅

    Glen Ellyn
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister was only 4'10" and twice dated guys over six feet tall. She eventually married a guy who was about 5'8" I think.

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shorter men, relax, I'm 5ft nothing and tall men always freaked me out, all my partners have been well under 6ft, I like to hug and kiss without straining my arms and neck thank you very much. I'm past it all now but I am absolutely positive there are millions of lovely women out there for you who feel the same.

    Angrykitten
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll never understand the rejecting of short men. It is nice to have someone who can reach the top shelf but step stools are a thing.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's ok, men don't like bitches and you're going to wonder why you keep getting dumped.

    Jrog
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, they just settle for very old women, like 24 and over, or women above 120 pounds, i.e. fat ones. /s

    Ripley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i.e. they don't end up with complete turds like this one.

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    Shawn Barry
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, women 200 lb and over...so you just end up dating women? Cause you know men don't like fat chicks

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    #6

    This Is A Perfect Example Of Someone Being Overly Dramatic. It's Amusing How Some People Think So Highly Of Themselves

    This Is A Perfect Example Of Someone Being Overly Dramatic. It's Amusing How Some People Think So Highly Of Themselves

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    Adam Chang
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah real man would know you are not worth the trouble.

    lakitha tolbert
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one is worth that kind of childish and pointless drama. Some of us just want peace in our lives, not a TV reality show.

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    Doctor Strange
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gues I'm not a 'real man' then. I've been cheated on before. If it happens again, you are out the door. No second chances.

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We've all heard of 'toxic masculinity' yet it seems that 'toxic femininity' is a thing too.

    TotallyNOTAFox
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Humans are arseholes no matter the gender, who would have though

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    Amy Manzanares
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What might she have to say when her "real" man cheats on her? Is she gonna step up and be a "real" woman?

    justanotherweirdo
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell me you’re single without telling me you’re single

    Crep 105
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we stop with this "Real men" b******t? A real man is ANY man. Period. And women should not get to decide what men are.

    lakitha tolbert
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cheating on someone is NOT a flaw. That is a CHOICE!!! The choice to do so however is a major character flaw!

    Yu Pan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd like to see her and Andrew Tate get together. Alpha square.

    Key Lime
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She just needs a cheating man for herself!

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    In another interview for Bored Panda, the moderators distinguished ‘nice girls’ from ‘nice guys,’ saying that the latter tend to be more intense than the former.

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    "As a woman, I've never heard of a self-proclaimed nice girl turning violent," one team member said. "However, most women I've known have met at least one self-proclaimed nice guy that made them genuinely fear for their safety. Which is not to say that women don't have the potential to be dangerous, or aren't dangerous-but I personally have not heard of a woman stalking a man and committing acts of violence because he spurned her advances."

    #7

    Guys, I Think I’m In Love

    Guys, I Think I’m In Love

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    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Computer Numerical Control. It's a control unit that runs a program to control axes on a machine. Lathe, Mill, Turret Press, etc.

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    HF
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She will be very impressed by his cnc machined nails

    SAF saf
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That CNC will pay for it self before that mani' does.

    Shawn Barry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're broke you'd think food would come before a mani

    lakitha tolbert
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or she could get a job and pay for it herself. She should pay for her own upkeep.

    Tom
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure what i`d do with a CNC -but yeah - good call on "blue".

    Stephanie Cunningham
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This behavior is deplorable and makes men think all women are gold diggers.

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    #8

    Am I In The Wrong Here Because She Withheld That She Had Children?

    Am I In The Wrong Here Because She Withheld That She Had Children?

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    Kalikima
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't put in my profile that I have a kid. I don't want to attract any weirdos that are looking for single moms with kids, either to take advantage of me or him. I always make sure to mention it pretty quickly, usually by asking them if they have any..

    Gavin Johnson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My partner never mentioned her children on the site we met on, during our conversations away from public view she mentioned them, before we met face-to-face, I totally understood her desire to protect them and herself. It shows an element of who you are, you put your children and their security high on your list of priorities. What’s not to like about that?

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    Fire Singer
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oooooo...I'm torn on this one. Like, if I guy doesn't want to date someone with children I'm 100% ok with that, but if a woman doesn't want to disclose she has kids for their protection until she gets to know the man I'm ok with that too. This is a tricky one!

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They both sound a bit horrible to me.

    Cyber Returns
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are men out there that would prefer to know so that it would not be a big thing thrown in at the last minute or as one of my friends put it "Some of us don't like to play someone else's save game"

    Ben
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This guy seems like kind of a d**k the way he came off.

    Shea Fujishima
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't mention kids either... no need to date potential pedos. I'd look awful in orange.

    Broad Panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only way this is a problematic woman is if blue text is also a woman.

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or they dated for a while and she never mentioned kids. It’s fine not to mention it to a casual date, but if the relationship is developing & progressing in a hopeful manner, this is a huge topic that must be bright up.

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    *raspberry sound
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    1 year ago

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    Blue seems like the bigger AH

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    #9

    Compliments Are Insulting

    Compliments Are Insulting

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    Paul C.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're ugly on the inside, and not as hot as you think you are, on the outside.

    Luke Branwen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She looks like Nancy Wheeler (Natalia Dyer) from Wish

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    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eyebrows like caterpillars, you ain't all that.

    Isa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When someone is ugly inside, and let's be honest, not that cute outside ( even that she thinks that she's pretty, sorry dear but no you aren't), the ugliness shines trough

    Hphizzle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beauty is really only skin deep sometimes. She’s a real life example.

    Julie S
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure I want to read many more, these women are horrible.

    Paul Collucci
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A guy is not necessarily "hitting" on you just because they pay you a compliment. And it is this type of thinking/ behavior that causes many guys not to approach women. You are a shallow person, get over your self

    Gen X Feral
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why don't you swallow some of that makeup so you can be pretty on the inside, you're ugly af. Oh and those eyebrows gonna need a rabies vaccination and a leash

    Robert T
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    1 year ago

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    The moderators also emphasize that the purpose of the subreddit is not to hate on women. Therefore, they kindly ask their members to refrain from making sexist comments. Their actual aim is to educate women on their internalized sexism and prevent them from becoming the ‘nice girls.’ "We like to believe that female visitors to our subreddit have been pointed in the right direction," they shared.

    #10

    This Just Happened On My Alt Account Lol (Now With Less Username)

    This Just Happened On My Alt Account Lol (Now With Less Username)

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The source post has been removed, so I cannot tell if there was more to this post.

    IDK_Something
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking at the Reddit comments - there was mention of her supposedly being a doctor. Many people were saying it was a popular scam from a dating site.

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    Debbie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'll make it so worth it to you" --> that already is so wrong.

    maka paka
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a bot, totally different

    #11

    Nice Girl Has Trouble With Her Spelling (Xpost From R/Boneappletea)

    Nice Girl Has Trouble With Her Spelling (Xpost From R/Boneappletea)

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    Jo Maxwell
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't realise bikes were so scary

    ThatG
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The bikes with height restrictions are…

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    Janis McClure
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Avoid this cycle path at all costs!

    kennedy1209
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe I am reading it wrong but I don't believe this is referencing a bicycle... and honestly, I laughed out loud when I read it - what a great phrase - cyclepath - My wife said she is definitely going to use that one.

    Amy Manzanares
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would that be a menstrual cycle path?

    MaximumKarmaSaint
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read this in Chuckle's voice, which is more proof that you can't be taken seriously when you say this.

    devotedtodreams
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What did cycle paths ever do to her? XD

    GalPalAl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like Fat Albert always asks, what do you call school on Saturdays? No class

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    #12

    Couldn’t Be Bothered To Wait When Told He Was On His Way

    Couldn’t Be Bothered To Wait When Told He Was On His Way

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    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Why can't i find a decent guy?" Maybe when you start acting like a decent person yourself, you get what you give.

    Kar Red Roses
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ⬛️ = Psycho 🟩 dodged a bullet

    Max Fox
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The title is misleading. She wasn't there - the only "waiting" she was doing was for whoever she was contacting on the dating app.

    Crep 105
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I don't owe you a date", she says, after agreeing to a date and showing up for said date.

    Rebecca A. Corvello
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a guy do this exact same thing to me. Supposed to meet at Starbucks and he never showed and was like 'I figured you'd no show so I didn't bother' wtaf?!

    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like toxic masculinity, there clearly is toxic femininity. JS.

    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t an atomic bomb with that nutcase,.. WTAF!

    Toxic Nix
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The guy dodged a bullet without doing anything. Nice!

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    The issue of ‘nice girls’ seems to arise from women’s hard-wired need for validation from men. This means that females often seek the approval of males, whether it’s received in the form of compliments, praise, affirmations, or sexual attention. The tendency to seek such validation stems from our patriarchal society, where men’s opinions and perspectives are valued more than those of women. 

    “Many women find themselves seeking validation from others, particularly men, as a way to feel good about themselves,” further explains women's transformologist, Carolina Stukenberg. She notes that such behavior can also derive from deeper issues, such as dysfunctional family dynamics or childhood adversity, which can result in low self-worth and self-esteem in women. 

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    “In such environments, love and affection may have been conditional, leading to the belief that these must be earned through pleasing others,” says Stukenberg. 

    #13

    Girlfriend Cheated On Me. Broke Up With Her Then She Sent This

    Girlfriend Cheated On Me. Broke Up With Her Then She Sent This

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    L Terr
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "You'll never find someone like me again" "Thats the point"

    David Beaulieu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, the whole package... except for integrity, honesty...

    Meagan Glaser
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well, she cheated so not nice. She didn't realize she was going to be broken up with DUE to cheating, so not smart. 2 out of 4 down. Maybe she's a model who hula hoops like a champ though.

    Charles McChristy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't want a replacement of you. You are just awful.

    Kat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    these are most generic character traits of a person ever

    David McDonald
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also as Humnle and down to earth????

    Jeff Christensen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He'll never get someone like her again - but that's the point.

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    #14

    How Insecure Do You Have To Be To Say This

    How Insecure Do You Have To Be To Say This

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    Anna
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, I think she means she goes to Italy to molest children like male pedos go to Thailand to molest children...

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    Cpt. Robert "Panda" Christian
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, you managed to insult men, women, two countries and their people, in less than a full paragraph. Talented aren't we? Not.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell me you cheated on vacation to Italy...

    CSC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would be too busy tasting incredible wine and food.

    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is an incel comment, nothing to do with reality.

    Claudia Stieble
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I drive to Italy with some friends just for some good pizza at Lago di Garda and then we drive home again. So why are we untrustworthy?

    Panda Parade
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LoL that's exactly what caused my friend's divorce when his wife went to Italy XD XD

    David McDonald
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    lmao..... guess he is not a fan of pasta??

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    #15

    I Get What I Want, Always!

    I Get What I Want, Always!

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    Jihana
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being an entitled brat is definitely not a fantastic personality.

    Tenebre
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol. Yall this is kink related. This one doesn't belong here.

    LB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I was going to say the same, sounds like kink to me

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    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, you don't get what you want always - a fulfilling relationship will be an example in her case.

    Yu Pan
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You get what you want? Wait until you get a cat.

    Andrew Bridge
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder how many people read that and thought "yeah"

    Joe Bloe
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "most fantastic personality" and "absolute lustful brat" don't go in the same sentence.

    Christine Zanfino
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How come they didn't put an emoji over her face....

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    She adds, “Another aspect that creates the need for seeking validation is that from a young age, women may learn to prioritize the needs and expectations of those around them, often at the expense of their own authentic selves. This "good girl syndrome," rooted in the desire to be loved and accepted, can lead to a pattern of self-abandonment. Women may mold themselves to fit the projections of others, masking their true essence in the process.”

    #16

    I Too, Love Being A Trashy Person

    I Too, Love Being A Trashy Person

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    Looz-ashae
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately it isn't, because there's no such thing. Yes, bad people get away with their deeds.

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    BeesEelsAndPups
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is toxic feminity. It's the other side of the incel coin, and it's what they use to justify treating women like garbage. The two sexes should not be at war with each other. It makes little sense. An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind.

    Leticia Ramirez
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Karma: *knocks on door* open up you b!tch!!!

    BrunoVI
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is this a "nice girl" story? He opening salvo is that she's absolutely mean.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You will when you run out of men.

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A two-way street, you cannot regret when a man is mean to you - only fair.

    Shadow the Dragon King
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some men deserve it, I will readily admit that.

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    #17

    She's Mad The Man She Rejected Moved On

    She's Mad The Man She Rejected Moved On

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    BROmanicus85
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So Thomas and Emily have to ask for permission to date?! (great job censoring) :))

    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So glad I'm not the only one who immediately noticed the names too! :D

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    Deborah B
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't own a guy you never even dated just because he used to have a crush. He's an actual person not just a prop to your ego. Get over yourself.

    Virgil Blue
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You already torpedoed your relationship by thinking you are the main character.

    InoueAmani
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those NPC friends in her main character world just don't understand that their only value in life is as accessories to hers.

    Becca not Becky
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seems that she just loved the idea of a guy hopelessly pining for her

    Leticia Ramirez
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You ain't their mama to ask them to ask you for permission to date

    char
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    hell, i'm not gonna ask my mom for permission to date someone. the only person i'm gon be asking for permission from is the person i'm asking out

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    OneHappyPuppy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a prime example of the MeMeMe syndrome

    char
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend who was really angry that I was asking out her crush to prom, even though 1. I had no idea before this conversation that he was her crush 2. he was one of my best friends, and I had a much closer relationship with him than she did and 3. she wasn't even planning to ask him out any time soon. a couple days after this fight, she let me know that she was "forgiving" me. thanks...

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    #18

    Easly Satisfied With The Best

    Easly Satisfied With The Best

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    BoredHouseKitty
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The missing space after every punctuation just rubs me the wrong way.

    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeh, kinda makes the smart in the comment comical.

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    Doctor Strange
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "emotionally intelligent alpha male" is an oxymoron. Anyone who is emotionally intelligent is smart enough not to buy into the 'alpha male' bulls1t

    Paul C.
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I'm 181, don't smoke and I believe intelligent. I genuinely think I'd be intelligent enough to give you a very wide berth.

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Easily satisfied with the very best"... ah yes, very easily satisfied clearly

    marcelo D.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "alpha man who is emotionally inteligent" that is 100% an oxymoron

    Mona Stevenson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dear Andrew Tate, we found one for you ….

    M
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL. "Alpha male" -- if you think you are, that automatically disqualifies you from being one.

    oceanseleven225
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "alpha male" the brainrot is strong with this one

    DC and S
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She and the alphas deserve each other

    Colleen Glim
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently, “build a bugger” is now a thing too

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    Constantly being conscious of how a man sees you over focusing on how you feel about yourself can greatly damage a person’s self-esteem and result in emotional dependency and unhealthy relationships in which deeper emotional needs are unmet.

    Research from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology also suggests that individuals who thrive on external validation tend to experience higher levels of stress and have a lower overall well-being.

    Stukenberg additionally notes, “Women who constantly seek validation from others may experience self-doubt, negative self-talk, burnout from prioritizing others, and a tendency to people-please. These behaviors not only diminish a woman's sense of self but also create a cycle of dependency on others for approval and worth."

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    #19

    Imagine Being This Self Absorbed

    Imagine Being This Self Absorbed

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    Anne Roberts
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like "The Bachelorette", loser style.

    Iain “Strachan” Strachan
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would go.. Then spend the night ignoring her. And spend the time getting to know all the guys that she ends up rejecting :D

    Andrew Bridge
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's commitment there. I'd say I'm going, and then ghost her right back

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    XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% guarantee this girl thought she was gonna record this and post it like "look how many guys I have competing for my attention." She must be a catch if she can't even bribe them with weed & snacks. Lol. Dummy.

    M
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why did he even reply?

    InoueAmani
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Bachelorette show has had far reaching consequences in general society...

    Vinny DaPooh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd go. As soon as everyone got there I'd thank her for hosting the party and start pitching everyone on a pretend MLM

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That could turn nasty very quickly....

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    #20

    Happened A While Back, But Being Threatened Still Cracks Me Up

    Happened A While Back, But Being Threatened Still Cracks Me Up

    Ok_Brilliant8359 Report

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like CPS might need a call...

    Jack Sonol
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just a guess, but could be cardboard recycling. They go pick up cardboard from clients and deliver it to the recycling facility.

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    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like she is violent

    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The "N" has no grammar skills. I'd drop them solely on the education level.

    Sunshine
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder how she raises her child for him to be so opposed?

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    #21

    Next Week She’ll Be Asking “Why Am I Single?”

    Next Week She’ll Be Asking “Why Am I Single?”

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    Isa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Play stupid games and find out...why people do this still blows my mind...

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such a joy to spend time with I'm sure.

    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That stick-on cr@p on the wall is a huge red flag.

    M
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "to get his attention"....? USE YOUR WORDS, you absolute TODDLER.

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or, you know, you could use your words and say you'd like some couple time where you give each other your undivided attention.

    Thomas Urban
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too much makeup! Looks terrible!

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    However, an individual's need for approval can be so deeply rooted in them that they don’t realize that they’re seeking it. “The first step is to break free from the need for "external" validation, women must first become aware of the patterns that hold them back,” says Stukenberg. “Recognizing these behaviors is a crucial step toward healing and liberation. Women need to understand that self-worth and self-esteem are not fixed; they can be transformed.”

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    #22

    Me Too Sis, Me Too

    Me Too Sis, Me Too

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    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is a really badly stated example of a real situation though - too much time being a doormat is not good but a complete 180 degree turn is not the solution.

    LB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah but being a doormat isn't a green flag though

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    Ansi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the nice girl cute kitten version of the incel warcry: "Girls don't date Nice guys, so I'm going to start being an a*****e". These toxic people should date each other.

    Sojourner
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But will it work? Also, the term incel was invented by a queer woman. Alana.

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    BrunoVI
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not going to count everyone who is hurt and angry at the moment. We've all been there.

    David Beaulieu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you have been pretending in every relationship you've had? That seems like a red flag to me. Mission accomplished!

    Miki
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can understand this one. Not support, but understand.

    Leticia Ramirez
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha! Even tho you turn into a Red Flag.....it wont take you nowhere again

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unlike "women like bastards", I don't believe the opposite is true. Nut jobs just aren't worth the trouble.

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    #23

    I’m Very Confused

    I’m Very Confused

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    Leticia Ramirez
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im not laughing.....was it supposed to be funny?

    Red PANda (she/they/he/ze)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bro’s confidence needs a bit of a boost before he turns to full passive-aggressive mode. If he dips the first screw up he makes, that’s not gonna get him that far…

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure which is which or why?

    InoueAmani
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Start again, this isn't salvageable lol

    David McDonald
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    let's put somebody on the defensive and then tell them it's their fault,....bonus pts. for just being a twit

    Crep 105
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That wasn't a joke, that was just you being a petty a*****e.

    DrBronxx
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Soviet Russia, bullet dodges you!

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    #24

    Ex Girlfriend Showed Up To My Apartment Uninvited

    Ex Girlfriend Showed Up To My Apartment Uninvited

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    Dillon Sizemore
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% the breaks more then 5 min where her calling someone else to complain about her ex not answering the phone or door.

    The Disneyland Duck
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "WHY IS MY WINDOW BROKEN!" Me in that situation where she breaks in (not actually happening to me)

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    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Restraining order coming soon....

    R Dennis
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone else disappointed that the sixth call wasn't at 23:20 to continue the prime number pattern? (But at least it was at 23:"11", so it continued the pattern, but differently, making the seventh call the disappointing one.)

    David Beaulieu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those are some talented speed dial skills. Maybe don't break up with her just yet. She would be great at those radio call in prize things...

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Move house, now. Give no one your forwarding address.

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    When the pattern of external validation is recognized, then the person can start working on addressing it. To combat seeking approval from men, women should find ways to seek out self-validation by focusing on their strengths and accomplishments and spending time with people who build them up and make them feel better about themselves. 

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    #25

    Apparently This Man Isn't A "True Gentleman" Because He Wants Her To Feel Safe

    Apparently This Man Isn't A "True Gentleman" Because He Wants Her To Feel Safe

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    Kelley Baltierra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Sure pick me up at my place, even though I've never met you and you could be a serial killer"

    Yu Pan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So he isn't a true gentlemen because he said "let's hang out"? Instead of... what? What would be a true gentleman in her eyes? Like going to a super expensive place and gift her diamond rings on a first date?

    سارا ناز
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    she's offended by a potential date asking 'let's hang out'???? OMG LOL

    Lee Banks
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope the very awesome guy meets a person that isn't awful.

    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perhaps she would be more comfortable riding a city bus...

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Move along. Nothing to see here.

    #26

    She Seems Nice

    She Seems Nice

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    rmandevi831
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Hiring"? That word, I don't think it means..what you think it means...

    Ace
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Upvoted for the movie reference.

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    Amy Manzanares
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In return you will receive... a parasitic infection that will drain your assets, reputation, energy and will to live.

    Leticia Ramirez
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bro......"Hiring" clearly not the word that suits what your looking for....

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So she wants a sugar daddy who is willing to wait to get the sugar? Good luck with that.

    Rahul Pawa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought "sugar" in that context meant money 🤔

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    Cee Cee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good picture of a toothbrush and razor. I wonder at their significance....no I don't.

    David McDonald
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doubt this Job pays a livable wage

    Zaach
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those impending duck lips???

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    #27

    Don’t Date Witches. She Cheated On Me 2 Years Ago. I Have Blocked Her On Everything And She Still Sends Me Spells

    Don’t Date Witches. She Cheated On Me 2 Years Ago. I Have Blocked Her On Everything And She Still Sends Me Spells

    MysteriisDomSatan Report

    SassyFrassy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is so embarrassing. Like it hurt to read that

    BrunoVI
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could forgive rhyming "alter" with "altar." I could forgive rhyming "alter" with "water." I kinda even like rhyming "alter" with "fault or." It's the fact that each line is just a rambling sentence with no rhythm, sometimes many times longer than the line it rhymes with. Clearly indicates a "cycle path."

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    Bex
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not witchcraft. This is crazy playing witchcraft.

    Batwench
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of us are normal. Every group has it’s fringe of less than stable.

    Apachebathmat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought you loved me, I made you soup, you ate all of it, it made you poop, I await your love, like the council needs tax, may I just mention, please return my Vax

    BrunoVI
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For writing verse, you have such knacks; you ev'n made me spit out my snacks. But OP owes so many whacks, for any meter, OP sorely lacks. I hope this made your smile line cracks and teach as well as poetry FAQs.

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    Angrykitten
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Strong murder suicide vibes here

    Marno C.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am extremely offended by the s****y rhymes. Alter and altar? Child, those are homophones. Thyme isn't in that -ine word family and I'm not even going to discuss "fault or."

    Virgil Blue
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This would be the best reply to a message like that.

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    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like it was written by a 14 year old "wiccan"

    Red PANda (she/they/he/ze)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe it’s the fact that I’m a very nonjudgmental person but I thought the poem or “spell” was fine. But this person is srsly messed up, and needs to move on. Wishes and spells can’t fix everything; you gotta work on yourself and work for those wishes yourself.

    ThisIsMyDisplayName
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am so grateful to have gone through my teen goth poetry phase before the internet was around - we could destroy the evidence.

    Maisey Myles
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ‘The string of twine’ turns me on every time

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    “Women need to prioritize their own needs, set healthy boundaries, and raise their emotional intelligence. This involves learning to say "no" without guilt and communicating their needs and opinions in a healthy and assertive way.

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    Women should also take time to establish their own values and affirm their self-worth. If breaking these patterns feels challenging, seeking support from a professional or a proven method can be transformative. Healing these wounds and building confidence doesn’t have to take years; it can be achieved through focused work that brings about lasting change,” concludes Stukenberg.

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    #28

    My Cousin Posts This Nonsense, But Then Goes And Hits Her Ex-Boyfriend With A Car

    My Cousin Posts This Nonsense, But Then Goes And Hits Her Ex-Boyfriend With A Car

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    InoueAmani
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One thing social media has taught me is that ppl who post this c**p and lots of quotes about being strong and a fighter and everything of that nature are varying degrees on the hot mess -to- dumpster fire spectrum.

    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love the people who post how exhausted they are because of how empathetic they are. Mmmmhmmm...did they forget people have known them their whole life and know how false that is??

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    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too many people believe they deserve better with very little justification for feeling that way.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually didn't see the heading at first... someone got some eyebrows I can borrow, mine went astray.

    S Bow
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Check up around your hairline, that's where mine went

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    Isa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many disillusioned people that think that they deserve more and better for apparent no reason...they are always the best people with the biggest heart aren't they??

    Nikole
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugh this guy I used to talk to and went on one date with seemed fine and said he preferred his animals to people (which I liked). But BOOM he’s a Trump supporter who proudly didn’t go to college because he “was just going to take over [his] dad’s repair business anyway”, told me I used $50 words, and wouldn’t stop opening doors for me after I very nicely asked him not to do so. Match made in heaven…

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    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Main character syndrome writ large

    Janis McClure
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go directly to jail, do not pass Go or collect $200! 🙄

    Virgil Blue
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then she attempted murder with a blunt object (car) apparently? Huh.

    Susie
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    1 year ago

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    1 year ago

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    #29

    I Don't Think This Is The Flex You Thought It Was

    I Don't Think This Is The Flex You Thought It Was

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    Panda Kicki
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I need a translation on this post. I can read the words but no idea what they say.

    Blah blah blah
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is saying she is so into not cheating that she would let him take a photo of them having sex (from behind) and send it to any man he feels threatened by. Because that's the way to prove loyalty in her mind

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    PunchinelloTX
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is…? sigh… Stupid text notwithstanding, what in the name of anatomy, is this a picture of? Is it a phallus? Granted a super ugly phallus that needs a doctor. But… I… I need assistance.

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Utterly confusing in so many ways.

    Lexi
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A new version of a tit or d!ck pic

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    #30

    Alpha Man Raised By Queen, Please Apply!

    Alpha Man Raised By Queen, Please Apply!

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    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alpha male contradicts romantic, generous, loving and caring so wtaf do you really want lady? Do you even know?

    Rinso The Red
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The whole "Alpha male" hoax has done so much damage to our society.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any woman who wants an Alpha male deserves one and should avoid all other types of men.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i.e. someone to fund my intended lifestyle.

    Ashlie Ann
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone has a good head on their shoulders (common sense and logic), with a kind heart, I could care less about the rest of them. Perhaps that's just me though. 🤷

    Isa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With so many qualities and still single...what a mystery...

    ThatG
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That poor guy she is busy talking to over there…

    Nimitz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hear Andrew Tate is available. Try him

    Joy Jensen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “I’m looking for an alpha male” is code for “I’m a stark-raving loonball drinking in all conspiracies from QAnon and the white supremacist right.”

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    #31

    Dating Apps Are Scary

    Dating Apps Are Scary

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    Leticia Ramirez
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My guy....IM SLEEPING AT THIS HOUR!!!

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    #32

    Picky Eater And Couldn't Cook

    Picky Eater And Couldn't Cook

    Mission83 Report

    MaryHadaLittleLamb
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apart ≠ a part. That drives me nuts.

    Kay Barber
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I attended a wedding reception with souvenir cups that said "Thank you for being apart of our special day" or something to that effect, but with the spelling error being on a wedding souvenir, I couldn't stop laughing. Lovely couple, but poor proofreaders.

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    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She took it a bit personally, didnt she?

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She may have ARFID & not know it.

    René Sauer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes, picky eaters (depending on just how picky they are) are clear deal breakers.

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    #33

    Nice Girl Gets Mad After A Bald And A "Manlet" Reject Her (She Was Making Them A Favor By Trying To Date Them) [translated From Spanish]

    Nice Girl Gets Mad After A Bald And A "Manlet" Reject Her (She Was Making Them A Favor By Trying To Date Them) [translated From Spanish]

    dariemf1998 Report

    Felidae
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    a short man, especially a short muscular man, the term manlet is derogatory to make the man feel bad as the person saying it wants him to know he is not good enough for her

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    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone referring to the opposite as "males" or "females" instead of men/man, women/woman, or other, is toxic.

    Meagan Glaser
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how DARE a random man in public have a girlfriend, that's a personal attack on OP!

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    #34

    My Friend’s (M) Ex GF Did Anything For Her And She Shares This

    My Friend’s (M) Ex GF Did Anything For Her And She Shares This

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    Ripley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would anyone, regardless of their gender, think that anyone other than them is responsible for "building their dream life?"

    Dav Carro-Ripalda
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She can start nailing the glasses to the forehead, before she looses them.

    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While it is nice to have support, we all just can't assume someone will come along to help us along the way. You know, I get the vibe she also turns around with the "I'm a strong, independent woman" thing too. Can't have it both ways.

    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wtf is this title, does the ex think he was ''saving'' her?

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The ex was decent guy & treated her to dates and gifts???? That’s what I assumed.

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    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As it should be. Lazy moo.

    #35

    Spoiler Alert I’m Not Gay

    Spoiler Alert I’m Not Gay

    Middle-Lychee-7707 Report

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Yes im gay, thats why, as a man im WAS trying to date you, a woman"

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, now it's gay to... *checks notes*... wear colours???

    Johnny McFearless
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually know a lot of guys who wear only jeans and shirts in navy, black and grey, because the rest is yeah gay.

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    Goose of the Ahonkalypse
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's really cool when a man dresses colorful. Then again I'm from a place where the straight and gay men wear a lot of hunter's camo.

    Vinny DaPooh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Proper response.... Yes I'm gay. From your pfp I thought you were also a man.

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well that began well....

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    #36

    Found In The Wild Lol

    Found In The Wild Lol

    Medium_Listen_9004 Report

    Crash1985
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love it. I'm a guy and this hits in the feels. Ladies stand up for your beliefs and never drop your standards. You ARE worth it!

    Meagan Glaser
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem is OP is putting it out there as if that's the ONLY reason a man breaks up with a woman. Its the same energy as "ladies, if you ever get mad at him it's because he abused you"

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    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't see the delusion in this one. Clearly, not all men are like this, and some women do need to learn to have wiggle room for things in a relationship too, but having standards (i.e. not being a "mommy" to a grown a*s man - outside of whatever kinks you're into then go for it) but having boundaries, rules, and standards for all involved persons in a relationship is not delusional or a bad thing.

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    #37

    I've Been Invited To Apply!

    I've Been Invited To Apply!

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    Peet
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pfff...amateur. A booking tool would be easier 🙄😅 No sorry, I'm ashamed for women when I see such things...and I'm a woman myself

    Matthew Barabas
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    must be someone who is overly beauracratic.

    Lene
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A dating email? What!?!

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You want a f*****g CV?!!!!!

    #38

    Nicegirl In The Very Sub

    Nicegirl In The Very Sub

    WhippyWhippy Report

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tell me you've been dumped without telling me

    #39

    Found This Interaction On Twitter

    Found This Interaction On Twitter

    Delicious_Delilah Report

    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, their agreeing to ‘not being weird’ didn’t last long.

    Dav Carro-Ripalda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do not know what do you mean: that is her not being weird...

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    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Friends, the class "Language Arts" is so important to our youth.

    Janis McClure
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Escalation level 100!!! Gurl, seek help!

    Leticia Ramirez
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first thing he said dont be weird.........gosh sometimes i think the world is upside down

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    3 pics to this one. Click the link below the pic.

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    #40

    Girl I Met Gets Upset After Finding Out My Ex Did Of Too, Tells Me I Gaslit Her After Accusing Me Of “Collecting Trophies”

    Girl I Met Gets Upset After Finding Out My Ex Did Of Too, Tells Me I Gaslit Her After Accusing Me Of “Collecting Trophies”

    A_sexy_black_man Report

    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She clearly needs to read the other BP page explaining what gaslighting is.

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    2 pics to this one. Click the link below the pic.

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It seems like she can’t handle that she isn’t & hasn’t been the only object of his affection. Her comfort with doing OF requires her to convince herself she’s the only person these subscribers are focused on, looking at, admiring, etc. The thought that she’s just another drop of the fantasy fuel amongst many others makes her feel cheap. There’s certain types of people who shouldn’t model or do sex work. Seems she’s one of them. Otherwise, who cares if his ex modeled.

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    #41

    All I Said Im Not Interested

    All I Said Im Not Interested

    NUPEWilson Report

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Babes you need to have your standards HIGHER if ur bragging thst he doesn't try to rape you

    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, seems he dodged a bullet here.

    Cee Cee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good grief someone's feelings got hurt.

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG! Why is she so obsessed with me?

    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ummm she wants him to lower his standards? So, she thinks she isn't good enough? And, this thread has a trend: punctuation and grammar are as dead as cursive, I guess.

    #42

    Women Can Be Incels Too

    Women Can Be Incels Too

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    UKGrandad
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe stop pretending to be someone you're not. It's a hard act to pull off and people soon pick up on the deceit and nobody wants to get into a relationship based on a lie.

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe, just maybe, they somehow pick up on the fact that you weren't actually interested in them.

    Virgil Blue
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Typical "if you think everyone is an a hole you might want to look in the mirror" situation.

    Deborah B
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Take a break from dating, and focus on yourself, and work out your issues. "Desperate and resentful" only appeals to people who are toxic themselves.

    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm tired of this whiny person.

    Leticia Ramirez
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She is just an attention seeker. 😒

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Misandrist perspectives are almost always an effect of men being the cause. Typically it’s toxic masculinity or misogyny, but it can be a result of dereliction, too. Which is why gender theorists, sociologists, etc,., tend to refer to it as “miso-misandry” to emphasize it’s typically in relation to misogyny. In this case, calling her an “incel” fits better. - rejection is part of life. Learn to manage expectations & disappointments. Why would one lower their standards to be desired? There’s no audacity; it’s choice; free will. Women love her cos she’s a mean mess who isn’t a treat. That’s what they appreciate. She’s confusing it for love then comparing to physical attraction. It’s not the male brain, it’s relating with others objectively. 99% rejection rate means it’s her character/personality. Neither gender tend to get rejected even remotely that much. Maybe the thing she needs to change is expanding her horizons and continually learning and growing throughout life.

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not feeling like enough is projection. That’s not any potential parter’s fault, but the man or woman. Being desperate for a relationship speaks volumes. And it’s ugly. Again, her resentment seems misplaced. We can all walk away from this one, knowing that she really doesn’t like herself and she’s unwilling to continually grow learn, develop. She’s one of those people who doesn’t understand why people like or dislike her in the first place and she absolutely does not believe that she should ever never to be anything to anyone else other than what she’s decided she wants.

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    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So don't change for other people? If you don't find someone compatible then you're probably better off single.

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    #43

    Reasons Why You're Not A Real Femcel

    Reasons Why You're Not A Real Femcel

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    Moosy Girl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This was written by a vengeful ghost, she had at least 3 *successful* suicide attempts.

    veryvenasaur
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who brag about having mental health problems make me sick and makes me think they don't actually have those struggles. I don't want to gatekeep mental health because everyone deals with it differently, but it feels bad to have people talking about it on social media like it's some cool quirk. I get trying to embrace it I often times talk about how dealing with autism makes me a stronger person and that I wouldn't get rid of it if I could, but I didn't feel like this post was trying to do that. Especially the line about suicide. Ignoring the fact that 3 successful attempts is impossible having suicidal ideation isn't fun or quirky in any way it's the worst thing I can imagine and the worst thing that ever happened to me. As I said at the beginning I don't want to gatekeep mental health but I also hate it when others treat it as something it isn't.

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reading all these I'm kinda losing the will to live myself.

    Kangaroo
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently something worth bragging about, according to OP the “real” femcel 😂

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    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never thought i would see someone gatekeeping being a femcel.

    DramaDoc
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Came here to say the same... Like, WTF???? LOL

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    Miss Mali
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um yeah, last I checked 1 successful suicide is all u get, period!

    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My problems are worse than your problems.... And is femcel really a thing now? First I'm hearing about it. Maybe the incels and femcels should get together.

    Rebekah Fuentes
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so confused. I didn't understand a word of this.

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    #44

    Interesting Introductory Statement On A Dating App!

    Interesting Introductory Statement On A Dating App!

    Rich-Gloves Report

    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Asking about the long hair to then comment and say it's not her thing and that it's superficial sounds superficial itself?

    maka paka
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    whats wrong with this. She's saying she has a preference but she's giving the guy a chance and wants to know why the long hair?

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did you read the last sentence? She’s making an assumption based on his hair. Seems decent even tho he has long hair.

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    #45

    In Blast Right Off The Bat

    In Blast Right Off The Bat

    Interesting-Impact17 Report

    Dillon Sizemore
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    25 and "figuring it out" is normal nowadays, unless you had a highschool sweetheart you married and are having a dream life with. If you have kids at 25 you are almost certainly still "figuring it out". I don't think most people "figure it out till thier late 30s early 40s, if they ever manage to "figure it out"

    Maisey Myles
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No- I get mad when I go to the kitchen and can’t remember why

    ॐBoyGanesh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After she marries her over 6’ prince who’ll treat her like a queen & shower her with a lavish lifestyle, but then leaves her at 40 for a younger trophy wife, without financial independence & marketable job skills and 3 grown children, with no real social support system, I want to ask her the same question about figuring it out.

    Slowdown
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From a guy pushing 50, a vast number of us are still "figuring it out".

    #46

    Apparently I’m A Loser Because Our Interests Aren’t Mutual??

    Apparently I’m A Loser Because Our Interests Aren’t Mutual??

    Madara1493 Report

    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BP, what is the point of these entries if the screenshot doesn’t cover the actual relevant part of the story?

    StumblingThroughLife
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are these from Reddit? Maybe BP & R are doing some kind of "you scratch my back..." deal? 🤔'Cuz there is SO much Reddit stuff on here nowadays (I miss all the cool artwork/creativity posts).

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    3 pics to this one. Click the link below the pic.

    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm confused. Bumble is a dating app isn't it? Or can you find friends too?

    #47

    Must’ve Been Why You Got Mad About It

    Must’ve Been Why You Got Mad About It

    MisterGBJ Report

    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not toxic, a little needy, but not toxic.

    LB
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mkay I don't know if this belongs here. ETA: checked reddit, original MUCH MORE INFORMATIVE caption is about an ex friend (not ex-girlfriend) got mad OP complimented a woman

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    #48

    Posted By My Extremely Verbally/Emotionally Abusive Ex (Who Also Apparently Became A Femaledatingstrategy User Post-Breakup). The Lack Of Self-Awareness Is Nauseating, Yet Perfectly On-Brand

    Posted By My Extremely Verbally/Emotionally Abusive Ex (Who Also Apparently Became A Femaledatingstrategy User Post-Breakup). The Lack Of Self-Awareness Is Nauseating, Yet Perfectly On-Brand

    FRC_GOAT Report

    rmandevi831
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure that this is a "nice girl" story. She's not talking about all the men, just all the men _around her_. Maybe she looks like an easy mark to all the jerks?

    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The second part does seem to imply that, but the first reads as if it’s true of all men.

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    Dillon Sizemore
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahh the woman who will date the same type of men over and over and then complain that all men are like this. At some point it is your own fault for not realizing the only thing your gonna get shopping at a butcher is meat and if you want to buy something else(find a diffrent type of guy) your gonna have to shop elsewhere. "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a diffrent result"- Albert Einstein applies quite well here.

    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Einstein never said that. Also, the psycho men don't come wearing neon signs, you can't usually tell until it's too late.

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    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seems to me like this guy is stalking his ex. Why do you care what she posts, waiting outside her house too?

    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a woman who wrote this is someone I wouldn't have showing my kids anything. Seems the only type she has are the men she doesn't like...

    Vinny DaPooh
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gonna go out on a limb here and guess she's attracted to men with neck tattoos and a rap sheet

    Skogsrået
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So all the men around her are shît? Hmmm, what is the common denominator with all these men, could it be her?

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My best guess is she turns her nose up at good men who would treat her right because they aren't exciting enough for her.

    Alecto76
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think "embarassing" is really the right word for the described behavior.

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    #49

    Recieved Some Lovely Racism Today

    Recieved Some Lovely Racism Today

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    Toxic
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could be wrong but how is this racist?

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I looked at tge reddit post and there's a second page.. a more important one.

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For those wondering, there is a second image. Click the link below the picture to be directed to the source.

    mikejaz2
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THERE IS NO 'RACIAL' CONTENT IN THIS POST¡!!

    PFD
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Click link, see second screenshot. There most definitely is racial content.

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    InoueAmani
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cute and boring, this describes my husband and I wouldn't have it any other way.

    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Where's the racism? The poster is another perpetual victim, I see.

    PFD
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Click link, see second screenshot. There most definitely is racial content.

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    Stuart
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    1 year ago

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    #50

    Wow First Messages Also Does This Count?

    Wow First Messages Also Does This Count?

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    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ive never read the word blokes so much and i haven't even read the whole conversation

    CSC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! I couldn't stand the word blokes one more time. Also, all of the numbers. Jeez!

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    JBRyu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Crazy how she calls them dumb but can't form a coherent story

    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    the words ''blokes'' no longer has any meaning to me

    Bidango Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait ... wait, "... for 24 years since the age "off" 16 ..." ... a 40 year old person wrote that???? With THAT spelling???? My Flabber is completely gasted and I feel like I've died a little inside.

    Senjo Krane
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Using us woman 4 sex" therin lies your problem methinks. Don't sleep with someone until you've gotten to know them a bit.

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A la Monty Python's 'Spam Song' - Blokes blokes blokes blokes, luverly blokes, wonderful blokes...

    Peet
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read that in the voice of Vicky Pollard (Little Britain) because of missing punctuation and repetition 🙈

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    #51

    I Just Wanna Know What She Was Trying To Set On Fire

    I Just Wanna Know What She Was Trying To Set On Fire

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    Moosy Girl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t get it. (Again.)

    TrepidMouse
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They're missing the part of the post that actually has it. It's in the reddit post. Hope that helps :)

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    justagirl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i don't have a reddit account can somebody summarize the rest?

    Moosy Girl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She asked a friend their opinion about someone who hypothetically slashed their ex’s tires after the ex cheated, then admitted that she was the ‚someone’ and confessed her actual actions went quite a bit further than slashing tires: slashed a bunch of his furniture, beat him up, threw a brick through his car window and tried to set something on fire with them in it.

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    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having read the whole thread, she might be ‘an honest woman’ but she also sounds like a deranged walking anger issue.

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Again, there are 4 pics to this post. Click link below pic to view.

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    #52

    That's Some Serious Dedication!

    That's Some Serious Dedication!

    Capable-Turn1039 Report

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    FFS! Now it's gay to... *checks notes*... Eat and See.

    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ☑️ Woe be unto the guy who desires to see and wishes to have dessert. Just wow.

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    StarCrossedFriday
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh God, my husband was having breakfast only this morning! *And* I know for a fact he watched a movie alone while I was out with friends the other day. He wears glasses, too - and yesterday he had yoghurt for dessert! Is he secretly gay???

    Fire Singer
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    According to this my husband is gay too. He also eats breakfast, wathces movies alone, eats dessert and...gasp...even has glasses!! Maybe they're gay together!?!?!

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    Panda Kicki
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw umbrellas being weird for men. They must be water repellent

    Panda McPandaface
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That breathing thing - it's so damn gay!

    Charlie the Cat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I eat breakfast. I watch movies alone. I wear glasses. I love desserts. I guess I'm not a man anymore.

    David Martin
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 4/4 on her list...Hell, I've eaten breakfast, while watching a movie, wearing my glasses, and then eaten two Fun Size Mr Goodbars all AT THE SAME TIME! I should have a cape and fight crime, cause apparently I'm Super Gay

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But I'm wearing these glasses just to read the dessert menu!

    Janis McClure
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every singe thing about this post is ridiculous and childish...geesh! 🙄🤡

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    #53

    Quite A Bold Statement!

    Quite A Bold Statement!

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    Max Output
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well, you can f**k right off. oh and your probably skint

    DowntownStevieB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one with this personality is work the money and time.

    Julie S
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Am I missing something?" Brain cells, a sense of mortality, a sense of decency!

    Dav Carro-Ripalda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    350 just to get her out of the house. In Europe she would be sent to hell in a sec. Gentleman, am I missing anything else?

    Caroline Fraser
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Integrity, humility, intelligence, empathy and any chance of being loved.

    Leticia Ramirez
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bro my guy doesnt even have enough for the bills.....how the hell will he pay all that sh!t

    Koala ala ala
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd give her money to keep away from me lol

    Janis McClure
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah..your entire rabbit mind is what you're missing...please go find it and try again!🙄🤡

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    #54

    A Day After Cheating On Me, My (Now Ex) GF Posted This On Her Social Media

    A Day After Cheating On Me, My (Now Ex) GF Posted This On Her Social Media

    Throwaway050220192 Report

    Goose of the Ahonkalypse
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love it when new age spirituality speak is used to avoid personal accountability.

    LB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a name for this: it's a form of spiritual bypassing.

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    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    F***s wrong with this? It's just cheesy

    #55

    What Do I Even Say?

    What Do I Even Say?

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    #56

    Homophobic Woman Loses Her Mind Realizing Not Every Man Is The Same As She Wants

    Homophobic Woman Loses Her Mind Realizing Not Every Man Is The Same As She Wants

    Bendodge13 Report

    Ace
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another one where the person lifting this from Reddit to repost here hasn't copied the whole story... but it's not really worth repeating anyway.

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    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are 4 pics in this post. Click the source link below the picture to view more.

    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why's she homophobic...I've no idea what's going on

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    #57

    'separates The Boys From The Men' Lol

    'separates The Boys From The Men' Lol

    RemindTree Report

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    2 pics to this one. Click the link below the pic.

    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aye, she's a ''nice girl'' because she doesn't want to attract peados on a dating site and didn't take your advice. Jesus Christ, get a grip dumb s**t.

    #58

    I Talked To This Girl For One Day The Week Before

    I Talked To This Girl For One Day The Week Before

    OfficeMobile249 Report

    meeeeeeeeeeee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BP, f**k off with your censorship. I really can't believe someone gets paid to steal pics off reddit and pretend it is original content and not even bother their holes to check if they make sense with only half the images or if they're full of words that will be censored. Give me a job, I will actually check my work.

    Serena Myers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    These words are censored on the original post. This is just lazy copy & paste by BP.

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    #59

    Total Mystery Why Her Dates Nope The Hell Out

    Total Mystery Why Her Dates Nope The Hell Out

    21nundispute Report

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago

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    maka paka
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is missing a LOT of context, like what the messages were before that

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    #60

    Most Men Are Weak And Can’t Handle Her Kind Of Love

    Most Men Are Weak And Can’t Handle Her Kind Of Love

    Playful-Arm-8590 Report

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    3 pics to this one. Click the link below the pic. But you still won't find out who "she" is.

    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Judging by the wording, she probably wears a fedora.

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