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We all know about “nice guys”, men who aren’t actually kind but feel entitled to relationships with women because they claim to be. But have you heard of “nice girls”? They have all the entitlement and internalized sexism of “nice guys”, they just happen to be women. And one corner of the internet that knows all about them is the Nice Girls subreddit.

This community, which has over 857k members, is for calling out all of the “self proclaimed ‘nice girls’”. Below, we’ve gathered some of the cringiest posts from the group as a reminder that we women should be spending our energy bettering ourselves and building each other up, rather than broadcasting how we feel entitled to male attention, tearing our fellow ladies down, and being cruel to our friends and potential romantic partners. Keep reading to also find an interview with the subreddit's moderator team.

Everyone should be educated on how their “nice” behavior can actually be toxic, men and women, so be sure to upvote the posts you find most egregious. Then let us know in the comments what the worst “nice girl” behavior you’ve ever witnessed was, and if you’re looking for even more of this content, you can find Bored Panda’s previous articles featuring r/NiceGirls right here and here!

#1

Le Yt Video, One Of Those Types Of Women

Le Yt Video, One Of Those Types Of Women

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Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
Community Member
3 years ago

Sounds to me like shes a little insecure

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    #2

    My Friend Dodged A Bullet!

    My Friend Dodged A Bullet!

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    Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Oh, major bullet dodged but she could also be saying this cus she's hurt and trying to act like she doesn't care but shes laying it on too thick

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    #3

    Wouldn’t Want Them To Think You Aren’t Nice Or Anything

    Wouldn’t Want Them To Think You Aren’t Nice Or Anything

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    Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Bruh, this woman needs some help.... You shouldn't ever have to force yourself to be nice to people, no matter what they look like

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    #4

    Respectfully Told Her I Wasn’t Interested In Pursuing A Relationship

    Respectfully Told Her I Wasn’t Interested In Pursuing A Relationship

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    Zedrapazia
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    She's just upset that he wouldn't put his dragon into her dungeon.

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    #5

    Why Bring Up Other Guys?

    Why Bring Up Other Guys?

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    Kimba
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Why is he still talking to her???

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    #6

    Any Fellow “Evident Narcissists”?

    Any Fellow “Evident Narcissists”?

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    Sponge Blob
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Again rejection masked by anger. She had no dms.

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    #7

    Omg So Unique!

    Omg So Unique!

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    Helena
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    That look she's sportin right there? That is a ton of makeup. She spent minimum of an hour on hair and makeup to get that 'I just woke up like this' look.

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    #8

    Saw A Similar Post So Ill Share The One I Found On Pof

    Saw A Similar Post So Ill Share The One I Found On Pof

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    Shyla Bouche
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    How to say you're a whore without saying that you're a whore.

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    #9

    Wonder How Well She’s Doing

    Wonder How Well She’s Doing

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    ThatG
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    ❌

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    #10

    Granting Him Access To What's Between Her Legs Means He Gets No Privacy, Normal Behavior...

    Granting Him Access To What's Between Her Legs Means He Gets No Privacy, Normal Behavior...

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    Serial pacifist
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    1.2K obsessed stalker friends agree 😳

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    #11

    Why Won’t He Leave His Girlfriend That He Cares About, Who Is Probably A Cheater Because She’s Not As Ambitious As Nicegirl?

    Why Won’t He Leave His Girlfriend That He Cares About, Who Is Probably A Cheater Because She’s Not As Ambitious As Nicegirl?

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    She is empathetc, shy, nice, forgiving...delusional, narcissistic, judgemental, shallow....

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    #12

    This Gem From Aita. Thinks She’s A Feminist While Belittling Another Woman

    This Gem From Aita. Thinks She’s A Feminist While Belittling Another Woman

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    lola
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    i'm sorry but how does liking taylor swift make someone dumb?

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    #13

    Love The Energy Here

    Love The Energy Here

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    The mindset of "I can do it to you but dont you dare do it to me..." And those poor guys being made to pay because she isnt getting what she wants. Please, please take yourself out of the dating pool.

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    #14

    Ahhh Yes The Infamous 10…

    Ahhh Yes The Infamous 10…

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    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I mean.... Have you seen Shrek? He's like a solid 20

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    #15

    I Hope This Poor Fella Runs

    I Hope This Poor Fella Runs

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    24 mentally unstable can tabs*
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Yes, for romanticising siblings in a family/birthday photo!!

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    #16

    Thought This Was Satire At First, But Her Whole Account Is Like This…

    Thought This Was Satire At First, But Her Whole Account Is Like This…

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    Sponge Blob
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I don't like big butts. Point invalid.

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    #17

    Imagine Being So Egoistic. Then Imagine Typing This Whole Thing, Thinking It’s Good And Actually Posting It. So Cringe

    Imagine Being So Egoistic. Then Imagine Typing This Whole Thing, Thinking It’s Good And Actually Posting It. So Cringe

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    Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Yes, totally humble

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    #18

    Kinda Gives Off Nicegirl Vibes...

    Kinda Gives Off Nicegirl Vibes...

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    Sponge Blob
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    It's blunt, but true. People often don't appreciate good people around them.

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    #19

    Can Guys And Girls Be Just Friends ?

    Can Guys And Girls Be Just Friends ?

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    Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Or cus you're friends and they don't wanna ruin the friendship?

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    #20

    Happened To My Friend After She Tried To Get Into Contact With Him And He Called Her Out On Her Sh**ty Behaviour

    Happened To My Friend After She Tried To Get Into Contact With Him And He Called Her Out On Her Sh**ty Behaviour

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    24 mentally unstable can tabs*
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Probably the most f****d up on this list. PSA: If anyone does this s**t to you fellow pandas, block them immediately and I'll take addresses and weapons.

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    #21

    Lovely As Usual

    Lovely As Usual

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    No, youre not together...um....

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    #22

    So Sweet For Showing The Red Flags Herself, Atleast It’s Only Slightly

    So Sweet For Showing The Red Flags Herself, Atleast It’s Only Slightly

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    Lina Barfoot
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Pretty sure that’s meant to be a joke tho…

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    #23

    How Would One Match A Sent To Their Face?

    How Would One Match A Sent To Their Face?

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    Angie Chiyoko ( She/they)
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    As a demi-girl , i wear mens cologne sometimes because i either like the smell of it, or cus the girl i like likes it. Do i look like a man, not really, but i still wear it

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    #24

    I Have 0 Recollection Of Who This Girl Is But She Sure Made Me A Bit Uncomfortable

    I Have 0 Recollection Of Who This Girl Is But She Sure Made Me A Bit Uncomfortable

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    Richard Salisbury
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Time for a new phone number...

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    #25

    Nice Girls Have Gone International!

    Nice Girls Have Gone International!

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    Shyla Bouche
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This is the way we dodge a bullet.

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    #26

    Total Pick Me Moment - Yeigh Or Neigh?

    Total Pick Me Moment - Yeigh Or Neigh?

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    Helena
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    As someone with an overbite. Nyah nyah nyah nyah nah nah

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    #27

    Apparently All Women Go After Manipulative Men

    Apparently All Women Go After Manipulative Men

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    Dan Padgett
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Yup, cos abuse is that simple. It's obvious. This woman is a tool.

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    #28

    Yes, Your Majesty

    Yes, Your Majesty

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    Serial pacifist
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Yes, lord Vader

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    #29

    I Think I Found One. What Do You Guys Think?

    I Think I Found One. What Do You Guys Think?

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    Paul Neff
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Socially tone deaf, oddly towards her 'bestie' in particular. You NEVER tamper with your friend's love life, and clearly she is being seen as doing this.

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    #30

    “Why Am I Toxic?!?”

    “Why Am I Toxic?!?”

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Have you tried a therapist? No, seriously cause you have some issues you need to work out

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    #31

    I'm Not Overly Obsessed, I Just Love Too Hard

    I'm Not Overly Obsessed, I Just Love Too Hard

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    Tommy
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This generation thanks you for staying single. And so does the next generation that will not have your genes passed down to it.

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    #32

    The Sound Was “Nana Nana Boo Boo I F+ck Him More Than You Do-

    The Sound Was “Nana Nana Boo Boo I F+ck Him More Than You Do-

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    The biggest problem here is: wtf is wrong with her eyelashes?

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    #33

    I Said I’m A Nice Girl

    I Said I’m A Nice Girl

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    Serial pacifist
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Another stalker in the making…

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    #34

    Woman From My Hometown Is Not Happy

    Woman From My Hometown Is Not Happy

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    Tommy
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    I think I know another difference between you and those women

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    #35

    A Little Gem I Saw This Morning

    A Little Gem I Saw This Morning

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Surprise, there are couples that have EXACTLY this

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    #36

    Ah Yes, Your Presence Alone Will Fix Even The Most Broken Of Men

    Ah Yes, Your Presence Alone Will Fix Even The Most Broken Of Men

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    LMAO. That burn is gonna hurt for awhile

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    #37

    Just Had This Interaction On Meetme. She Blocked Me Immediately After That

    Just Had This Interaction On Meetme. She Blocked Me Immediately After That

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Wow! Bullet dodged!

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    #38

    I Had Low Expectations For Fb Dating Already, But Damn

    I Had Low Expectations For Fb Dating Already, But Damn

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    Javel!
    Community Member
    3 years ago

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    #39

    The Op Does A Horrible Job At Hiding Her Jealous

    The Op Does A Horrible Job At Hiding Her Jealous

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    Follo00
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Narrator: She was in love with him

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    #40

    (22,m) Friends Girlfriend (28) Broke Up With Him. A Few Weeks Later She Asks If She Can Come Cuddle. He Tells Her He’s Dating Someone Else. Her Response:

    (22,m) Friends Girlfriend (28) Broke Up With Him. A Few Weeks Later She Asks If She Can Come Cuddle. He Tells Her He’s Dating Someone Else. Her Response:

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    darqemm
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Wow, that's some hard to follow grammar and logic.

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    #41

    Mother And Sister Excluded

    Mother And Sister Excluded

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    Mrs.Pugh
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Damn, she wants a friendless orphan.

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    #42

    I Got One, Yikes!

    I Got One, Yikes!

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    Javel!
    Community Member
    3 years ago

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    #43

    “Said What I Said.” Like It’s A Hot Take

    “Said What I Said.” Like It’s A Hot Take

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    Tommy
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Last to get punctuation as well. Commas were all gone by the time she got around.

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    #44

    What A Catch

    What A Catch

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    tara
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited)

    what does 7ish cats mean....? What does ish number of cats MEAN???

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    #45

    Boils Down To She Can’t Be A Nurse Because She Is Pretty And Men Like Her… But Ofc It’s Not That, It’s Concern For The Patients

    Boils Down To She Can’t Be A Nurse Because She Is Pretty And Men Like Her… But Ofc It’s Not That, It’s Concern For The Patients

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    RedMarbles
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Sounds like she'll be a credit to her profession and be particularly great with vulnerable populations.

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    #46

    I'm Not Happy So No One Else Should Be

    I'm Not Happy So No One Else Should Be

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    "You cant have it cause I cant have it!" Seriously, its the "Im better than you" and "Its all about me!" attitude that puts people off.

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    #47

    Gave Her A Ride Once, Idk How People Think Like This

    Gave Her A Ride Once, Idk How People Think Like This

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    Tommy
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    ‘Could have just said that’ They literally just did?

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    #48

    All I Wanted To Do Was Know Why She Messaged Half A Year Later

    All I Wanted To Do Was Know Why She Messaged Half A Year Later

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    Javel!
    Community Member
    3 years ago

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    #49

    Girl Says She Tried So Hard To Be Nice, Followed With Calling Other Girls Ugly Caked Up Bi**hes Just For Getting Boyfriends When She Couldn’t

    Girl Says She Tried So Hard To Be Nice, Followed With Calling Other Girls Ugly Caked Up Bi**hes Just For Getting Boyfriends When She Couldn’t

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    ginny weasley
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This is honestly sad if true. Women should be taught its the quality of the relationship the counts not being taught that landing. man ( and a wedding) are the most important things in life.

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    #50

    I’m Guess I’m Just An Immature Boi…

    I’m Guess I’m Just An Immature Boi…

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Yes, the best relationships are built on friendship!

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    #51

    Yeah Have Fun Making Friends With That Post

    Yeah Have Fun Making Friends With That Post

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    ThatBiBookLover
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    And here, my friends, we have an Alpha Female

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    #52

    A Wild Nice Girl Post From A Fb Friend. She Cheated On Her Kids Father

    A Wild Nice Girl Post From A Fb Friend. She Cheated On Her Kids Father

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    Javel!
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This comment has been deleted.

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    #53

    So My Brother Sent Me These, She Apparently Saw A Picture Of Him And A Friend. They Only Been Talking For Like 4 Days

    So My Brother Sent Me These, She Apparently Saw A Picture Of Him And A Friend. They Only Been Talking For Like 4 Days

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    Javel!
    Community Member
    3 years ago

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    #54

    Woe Her, Poor Soul, Missing Out On Rejection

    Woe Her, Poor Soul, Missing Out On Rejection

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    Javel!
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    3 years ago

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    #55

    I Think I Just Found Out That A Facebook Friend Is A Nice Girl

    I Think I Just Found Out That A Facebook Friend Is A Nice Girl

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    Nope, its the bad attitude the mind rejects

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    #56

    Never Expected I’d Be Posting Here

    Never Expected I’d Be Posting Here

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited)

    "Im dying", he croaks feebly. "How unfair!" she pouts, " What about ME!?"

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    #57

    Men Are Responsible For Women's Actions?

    Men Are Responsible For Women's Actions?

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    It cant just be that shes a b***h. Nooooo, it has to be HIM

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    #58

    Messages My Friend Got From An Old Girlfriend

    Messages My Friend Got From An Old Girlfriend

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    You just know she texted him right after she learned about the new gf

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    #59

    I Hate Apples

    I Hate Apples

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    Helena
    Community Member
    3 years ago

    This sounds like some church youth group bs.

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    #60

    "Stop Helping Men That Are Struggling" Yikes

    "Stop Helping Men That Are Struggling" Yikes

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    Damitria
    Community Member
    3 years ago (edited)

    Stop treating men like human beings because I had a bad experience with one once! 🙄

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