By now, you're probably familiar with the term nice guy. Online, it usually means a male who is unassertive, fails to express his true feelings and intentions, and when dating, he'll dishonestly use acts of friendship and basic social etiquette in the sole hope that his effort will progress to a romantic or sexual relationship. They're the self-proclaimed gentlemen of the internet.

But this — let's call it personality type — isn't exclusive to men. Women can possess it too. And nothing proves it's universal nature better than the subreddit r/NiceGirls. This online community has 804K members, and they're constantly sharing chat logs, social media posts, and other forms of content where questionable ladies reveal their true colors.

From those who forbid their boyfriend to buy stuff from female sellers to the ones that cheat on their partners whenever they find someone taller, here's to thinking that you deserve the world.

For more nice girls, check out Bored Panda's earlier article on the subreddit here.

#1

I'm A Heterosexual Male That Goes To Cosmetology School. Had This Interaction With An Anonymous Person That Goes To My School. I've Never Given Anybody At School My Phone Number

I'm A Heterosexual Male That Goes To Cosmetology School. Had This Interaction With An Anonymous Person That Goes To My School. I've Never Given Anybody At School My Phone Number

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#2

I’m Sure This Is Going Well For Her

I’m Sure This Is Going Well For Her

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Bored Panda managed to get in touch with the moderators of r/NiceGirls one more time, and they were again kind enough to have a little chat with us. After all, looking after such a big subreddit requires its fair share of time and energy.

"We have to do a lot of sifting through the content," the mod team said. "The main issues that we normally have are people who do not censor their content and dox the subjects of their images, be it from being lazy and not reading the subreddit rules or being spiteful."

Derived from the term "dropping docs," doxing is the act of revealing someone's personal information online. People can then harass, threaten, or even somehow get revenge on these individuals. The mods are doing everything they can to make sure this doesn't happen.

#3

She Thought She Could Pull A #freefoodfriday On Him But Homeboy Didn’t Play That

She Thought She Could Pull A #freefoodfriday On Him But Homeboy Didn’t Play That

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Random Panda
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for him. More people should do that, I hate it when someone plays with your feelings just to stroke their own ego.

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#4

Finished Second Date Tonight, Told Her Didn’t Think Things Would Work Out. Seemed Okay With It. Just Got This Right After I Got Home

Finished Second Date Tonight, Told Her Didn’t Think Things Would Work Out. Seemed Okay With It. Just Got This Right After I Got Home

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Caro Caro
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Haaahaha, Just one sentence and she's off. Waiting for .... what exactly to happen?

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Out of all the reasons why women end up featured on the subreddit, the moderators think that having double standards is probably the most common one. "Another humorous classic is the 'Well, I was joking, I have a boyfriend' excuse," they added.

However, there's plenty to choose from. As the subreddit's 'About' section reads, it is waiting for all women who complain that "guys are only interested in sluts." For all who hold others to the highest possible standard but have no standards for themselves.

"We welcome content that is definitely worth posting in the r/NiceGirls subreddit as long as appropriate and genuine efforts are made to censor the subject's identity," the mods highlighted. "We do not permit doxing nor do we encourage doxing. We want to enjoy and laugh at a subject's ignorant posts or actions, and not bring negative attention to a subject themselves."

#5

The Bros Come First

The Bros Come First

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Lauren Caswell
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11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh man, that's gross. Good for red, shame on blue. Blue needs a clue (or maybe a few)

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#6

Pay For Everything Or I'm Outta Here

Pay For Everything Or I'm Outta Here

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Mad Dragon
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tell me you’re an entitled brat without telling me you’re an entitled brat.

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We've talked a lot about the similarities or nice guys and nice girls, but what about the differences? "In some of our experiences, the former are creepier than the latter, though this viewpoint is always subjective and there are exceptions to it," one of the mods said.

"As a woman, I've never heard of a self-proclaimed nice girl turning violent," another added. "However, most women I've known have met at least one self-proclaimed nice guy that made them genuinely fear for their safety. Which is not to say that women don't have the potential to be dangerous, or aren't dangerous-but I personally have not heard of a woman stalking a man and committing acts of violence because he spurned her advances."

And she definitely has a point. According to research, while males and females tend to display similar levels of indirect aggression (for example, spreading rumors to hurt someone’s reputation, men are way more likely to express their aggression directly through physical violence or verbal abuse. Global statistics on crime support this notion as men are responsible for the vast majority of violence across the world.

So while there may be a somewhat equal number of nice guys and girls, the first will probably act out on their impulses more.

#7

You Can’t Buy From A Girl

You Can’t Buy From A Girl

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#8

Matched With Her, Her Social Media Was Full Of Anti-Covid Propoganda, So I Told Her It Wasn't Going To Work Out. Then This Happened

Matched With Her, Her Social Media Was Full Of Anti-Covid Propoganda, So I Told Her It Wasn't Going To Work Out. Then This Happened

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#9

A Girl's List Of Red Flags

A Girl's List Of Red Flags

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Mad Dragon
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They’re not allowed to sing with the radio? My husband of 20 years randomly bursts into Broadway show-tunes!

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#10

Someone I Went To High School With….

Someone I Went To High School With….

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Dark Pearl
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's because the allegedly 'ugly' guys have big hearts and are super nice. It's like what Roald Dahl said in the Twits. 'You could have a double chin and crooked teeth, but if you think nice thoughts, they shine from you and give you beauty' or something like that.

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#11

Ah Yes, Because If A Man Is In A Relationship, It Is Law That He Can Only Speak To Women He Is Related To

Ah Yes, Because If A Man Is In A Relationship, It Is Law That He Can Only Speak To Women He Is Related To

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Samantha Lomb
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is insane, particularly when paired with the cutsie background

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#12

Context: Ex Cheated On Me, On My Birthday... And Didn't Tell Me Until I Drove An Hour And A Half To See Her First, Had Sex And Had A Few Beers So I Couldn't Leave. This Is The Exchange We Had Today, I Was Honestly Just Expecting An Apology And Maybe Some Maturity But I Guess That's Too Much To Ask

Context: Ex Cheated On Me, On My Birthday... And Didn't Tell Me Until I Drove An Hour And A Half To See Her First, Had Sex And Had A Few Beers So I Couldn't Leave. This Is The Exchange We Had Today, I Was Honestly Just Expecting An Apology And Maybe Some Maturity But I Guess That's Too Much To Ask

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Samantha Lomb
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd have blocked her after knowing I had to get an STD test because of her.

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#13

Nice Girl Thinks She's The Number 1 Priority In Her Friend's Life

Nice Girl Thinks She's The Number 1 Priority In Her Friend's Life

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Samantha Lomb
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It sounds like they had pretty ill-defined boundaries ( sleeping together, being together 24/7) and now he is changing the rules. And of course she cares he is dating and unfortunately it is common for people who get in relationships to neglect friends. I think likely the whole situation was a mess to begin with ( see poorly defined boundaries) but I don't think he is blameless in this.

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#14

Wants A 90/10 Relationship

Wants A 90/10 Relationship

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Random Panda
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And when he dumps her for the newer model and leaves her penniless she's gonna wonder what went wrong.

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#15

Shared By A Facebook Friend. The Word You're Looking For Is "Abuser"

Shared By A Facebook Friend. The Word You're Looking For Is "Abuser"

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#16

Thats Not How It Works

Thats Not How It Works

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Iris
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was younger I once went through a boyfriends phone since my gut feeling said he was cheating on me even though he denied it multiple times. I found out he was in fact cheating on me, with multiple women. I learned that if you're normally a trusting person but your gut feeling says something is wrong, there is no need to go through his phone.. If the trust is really that much gone, it's better to end the relationship anyway.

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#17

Found This

Found This

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#18

For Context; On A Video About Broken Heart Syndrome

For Context; On A Video About Broken Heart Syndrome

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Lauren Caswell
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11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*affects *affected. Sorry, but she deserves nitpicky correction. The wizard denied her brains and heart

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#19

I Don't Know If It Counts But This Girl Is Saying Cheating Is Ok. I Felt Disgusted When I Saw It. I Felt Like Sharing It

I Don't Know If It Counts But This Girl Is Saying Cheating Is Ok. I Felt Disgusted When I Saw It. I Felt Like Sharing It

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Samantha Lomb
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seriously what is this wierd obsession with height? I am short and I personally like being able to look people in the eye

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#20

No Social Media If "You Ugly"

No Social Media If "You Ugly"

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LivingTheDream
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is the perfect "I thought she was beautiful... until she opened her mouth" example.

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#21

"I Was Only Being Nice" Proceeds To Guilt Trip The Hell Out Of My Buddy

"I Was Only Being Nice" Proceeds To Guilt Trip The Hell Out Of My Buddy

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PandaGirl85
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is me all the time tbh I'm such an introvert XD Raise your hand if you think he was just trying to get something out of him

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#22

I'm Actually A Nice Girl, Provided You Have Money!

I'm Actually A Nice Girl, Provided You Have Money!

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See Also on Bored Panda
#23

So I Let Down This Girl From The States Cause We Matched On Tinder Because I Don’t Do Ldr’s And Then This Happens

So I Let Down This Girl From The States Cause We Matched On Tinder Because I Don’t Do Ldr’s And Then This Happens

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Samantha Lomb
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he knows long distance relationships won't work for him why match with a girl from another country to begin with?

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#24

Hope This Is The Right Place To Post This, But As Context: This Girl Posts Selfies Daily - The Hypocrisy

Hope This Is The Right Place To Post This, But As Context: This Girl Posts Selfies Daily - The Hypocrisy

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#25

My Cousin Posts This Crap But Then Goes And Hits Her Ex BF With A Car

My Cousin Posts This Crap But Then Goes And Hits Her Ex BF With A Car

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#26

I Wasnt Constantly Replying To Her Texts, And After We Both Agreed To Break It Off She “Accidentally” Sends Me A Tiktok About How Men Don’t Date Intelligent Women Due To Insecurities.

I Wasnt Constantly Replying To Her Texts, And After We Both Agreed To Break It Off She “Accidentally” Sends Me A Tiktok About How Men Don’t Date Intelligent Women Due To Insecurities.

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#27

She’s Literally Cheated On My Friend And Constantly Refers To Herself As A “Nice Girl” Who “Isn’t Like Other Girls”

She’s Literally Cheated On My Friend And Constantly Refers To Herself As A “Nice Girl” Who “Isn’t Like Other Girls”

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#28

None Of You Peasants Deserve Her, Wise Men Only

None Of You Peasants Deserve Her, Wise Men Only

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#29

"I'm So Much Better Than Those Other Bimbos"

"I'm So Much Better Than Those Other Bimbos"

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chi-wei shen
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This actually happens. Many men cheat on their wives/girlfriends and find out afterwards what they have lost.

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#30

Mhm About Me?

Mhm About Me?

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Damon
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11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I honestly don’t think there’s anything wrong with establishing basic standards fit what you want in a potential partner. Like have a job.

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