30 Times Women Didn’t Get Away With Their ‘Nice Girl’ Act And Got Shamed For It Online (New Pics)
Interview With ExpertShe’s the girl who believes she’s the best choice and who is never in the wrong. She sees herself as a delicate flower whose heart often gets broken by vicious, toxic men. She’s also convinced that all the male population cares about is how to take advantage of women’s bodies and throws passive-aggressive fits on social media when she gets rejected.
Sounds familiar? If so, chances are you have encountered at least one ‘nice girl’ in your lifetime. She’s the male equivalent of a ‘nice guy’ and can be equally as toxic and frustrating a persona as these knights in digital armor.
Luckily, the ‘Nice Girls’ subreddit is set on calling out such behavior in hopes that it helps men and women distinguish fake nice behavior from the real thing. Scroll down to find their most cringeworthy posts, and be sure to share your own ‘nice girl’ encounters below.
While you’re at it, don’t forget to check out a conversation with a women's transformologist, Carolina Stukenberg, who kindly agreed to tell us more about how seeking validation from men can contribute to women becoming ‘nice girls.’
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What I Love About This Tiktok Generation Is Them Publishing Their Worst Deeds With Full Hd Selfie, So The Rest Of The World Can Stay Away Lol
"I cheated on my BF because he wasn't paying me enough." There, fixed it.
She is NOT a gold digger! If she tried to dig, she might break a nail!
Load More Replies...Yep, I'm all for red flags flying publicly, saves others a lot of time and heartache.
Load More Replies...Manipulation To "Humble" Him
Probably not. She sounds like those "men don't have real feelings" girls.
Load More Replies...Idk why this made me laugh so hard, but my cat gives you his middle bean for making me spit water at him! 🤣
Load More Replies...To be honest, if my wife did any of that, I would not notice XD
Load More Replies...Manipulation 101 : Guy Becomes A Backup Plan
That's just... disgusting. But hey, karma happens, someday you may be someone's back-up plan too. See if you like it.
Karma is a b***h... shouldn't play with people's hearts.
Load More Replies...A met a woman who was hotly pursuing a handsome friend of mine. When it became obvious to her that she wasn't going to land him, she let me know that I would do. The look on her face as I quite graciously declined was priceless.
May her pillow be flat and warm on both sides, and may she always have an itch between her shoulders that she can't reach.
Load More Replies...Women like her deserve nothing but bad things in life...I'm sorry but that's what I think about people playing with others feelings. To go over a breaking heart is horrible and depressing. He doesn't deserve to have such toxic and mean person near by...she's no friend, she's a wicked b***h.
Not only did he get a loving girlfriend, he blocked this compost heap from every site he's been on. And some sites he's never even been on.
That's just.....no how the heck will you put someone as a backup plan?! Like heeeelllooooo!! Get yourself together you wouldn't like someone else put you as a back up......Geez......😒
In a previous interview for Bored Panda, the moderators of the ‘Nice Girls’ subreddit explained that women who embody this term tend to be jealous and lack maturity and experience.
In their ‘About’ section, they additionally write that 'nice girls' are the women who complain guys are only interested in ‘females of easy virtue.’ They also are the “women who complain that men are shallow for not dating overweight women, while also demanding that their man have washboard abs. The women who hold others to the highest possible standard but have no standards for themselves.”
However, they note that ‘nice girls’ shouldn’t be confused with ‘female incels,’ ‘crazy girls,’ ‘nice guys,’ or women who believe 'men are trash.’
Guy Politely Acknowledges Break Up Message And She Gets Mad At Him For It
"I had hoped for better from you" Looks like she was baiting for some heartbroken "please, we can work it out" style texts. Sorry girl, your private role-playing session got cancelled.
What's odd, here is her initial post to him was actually quite lovely. It's exactly how I'd want someone to interact with me in that situation. I understand her not wanting to break up in person. It's a volatile situation. And her text was perfect as was his response. Then she got upset because he was acting like a stand up guy.
Load More Replies...She thought she will receive a emotional text "pls dont say that....we will work this out". Him "Na im good....Goodluck!"
Call me old, but at least the lack of curse words was somewhat refreshing.
Sometimes silence is the best answer, Damned if you do and damned if you don't/
Nice Girl Setting Standards
You are not an amusement park ride, you don't need a "you must be this tall sign". God, I hate how short men get dismissed. I have so many guy friends who are absolutely fantastic, but get rejected out of hand because they don't meet some arbitrary height standard.
Short men are closer to the ground, and thus understand the gravity of the situation.
Load More Replies...I had a 6-footer for 24 years (I'm around 5'7"). After five years together, he got hit by a car and was a bit stooped for a while until endless physiotherapy fixed that. Then he got hit by cancer. Chemo and radiation took him down a few more notches until we were almost nose-to-nose when he passed last year. He was still a bigger man than most at the end. Height means nothing. It's the character of a man that makes him "big" and my guy was a freakin' giant (saved two people on his way out by donating his kidneys).
BoyGanesh is right, otherwise there wouldn't be as many couples simply because 6' and over is a statistically small percentage. So guys below must be getting laid. I imagine it is more difficult for those like 5'3 and under, but that is also a statically small percentage.
Load More Replies...There are plenty of 5' girls who will be happy to look up to a 5' 7" man.
My sister was only 4'10" and twice dated guys over six feet tall. She eventually married a guy who was about 5'8" I think.
Load More Replies...Shorter men, relax, I'm 5ft nothing and tall men always freaked me out, all my partners have been well under 6ft, I like to hug and kiss without straining my arms and neck thank you very much. I'm past it all now but I am absolutely positive there are millions of lovely women out there for you who feel the same.
I'll never understand the rejecting of short men. It is nice to have someone who can reach the top shelf but step stools are a thing.
That's ok, men don't like bitches and you're going to wonder why you keep getting dumped.
Nah, they just settle for very old women, like 24 and over, or women above 120 pounds, i.e. fat ones. /s
i.e. they don't end up with complete turds like this one.
Load More Replies...So, women 200 lb and over...so you just end up dating women? Cause you know men don't like fat chicks
This Is A Perfect Example Of Someone Being Overly Dramatic. It's Amusing How Some People Think So Highly Of Themselves
No one is worth that kind of childish and pointless drama. Some of us just want peace in our lives, not a TV reality show.
Load More Replies...Gues I'm not a 'real man' then. I've been cheated on before. If it happens again, you are out the door. No second chances.
We've all heard of 'toxic masculinity' yet it seems that 'toxic femininity' is a thing too.
Humans are arseholes no matter the gender, who would have though
Load More Replies...What might she have to say when her "real" man cheats on her? Is she gonna step up and be a "real" woman?
Cheating on someone is NOT a flaw. That is a CHOICE!!! The choice to do so however is a major character flaw!
In another interview for Bored Panda, the moderators distinguished ‘nice girls’ from ‘nice guys,’ saying that the latter tend to be more intense than the former.
"As a woman, I've never heard of a self-proclaimed nice girl turning violent," one team member said. "However, most women I've known have met at least one self-proclaimed nice guy that made them genuinely fear for their safety. Which is not to say that women don't have the potential to be dangerous, or aren't dangerous-but I personally have not heard of a woman stalking a man and committing acts of violence because he spurned her advances."
Guys, I Think I’m In Love
Computer Numerical Control. It's a control unit that runs a program to control axes on a machine. Lathe, Mill, Turret Press, etc.
Load More Replies...Or she could get a job and pay for it herself. She should pay for her own upkeep.
This behavior is deplorable and makes men think all women are gold diggers.
Am I In The Wrong Here Because She Withheld That She Had Children?
I don't put in my profile that I have a kid. I don't want to attract any weirdos that are looking for single moms with kids, either to take advantage of me or him. I always make sure to mention it pretty quickly, usually by asking them if they have any..
My partner never mentioned her children on the site we met on, during our conversations away from public view she mentioned them, before we met face-to-face, I totally understood her desire to protect them and herself. It shows an element of who you are, you put your children and their security high on your list of priorities. What’s not to like about that?
Load More Replies...Oooooo...I'm torn on this one. Like, if I guy doesn't want to date someone with children I'm 100% ok with that, but if a woman doesn't want to disclose she has kids for their protection until she gets to know the man I'm ok with that too. This is a tricky one!
There are men out there that would prefer to know so that it would not be a big thing thrown in at the last minute or as one of my friends put it "Some of us don't like to play someone else's save game"
I wouldn't mention kids either... no need to date potential pedos. I'd look awful in orange.
The only way this is a problematic woman is if blue text is also a woman.
Or they dated for a while and she never mentioned kids. It’s fine not to mention it to a casual date, but if the relationship is developing & progressing in a hopeful manner, this is a huge topic that must be bright up.
Load More Replies...Compliments Are Insulting
You're ugly on the inside, and not as hot as you think you are, on the outside.
She looks like Nancy Wheeler (Natalia Dyer) from Wish
Load More Replies...A guy is not necessarily "hitting" on you just because they pay you a compliment. And it is this type of thinking/ behavior that causes many guys not to approach women. You are a shallow person, get over your self
Why don't you swallow some of that makeup so you can be pretty on the inside, you're ugly af. Oh and those eyebrows gonna need a rabies vaccination and a leash
The moderators also emphasize that the purpose of the subreddit is not to hate on women. Therefore, they kindly ask their members to refrain from making sexist comments. Their actual aim is to educate women on their internalized sexism and prevent them from becoming the ‘nice girls.’ "We like to believe that female visitors to our subreddit have been pointed in the right direction," they shared.
This Just Happened On My Alt Account Lol (Now With Less Username)
The source post has been removed, so I cannot tell if there was more to this post.
Looking at the Reddit comments - there was mention of her supposedly being a doctor. Many people were saying it was a popular scam from a dating site.
Load More Replies...Nice Girl Has Trouble With Her Spelling (Xpost From R/Boneappletea)
Maybe I am reading it wrong but I don't believe this is referencing a bicycle... and honestly, I laughed out loud when I read it - what a great phrase - cyclepath - My wife said she is definitely going to use that one.
I read this in Chuckle's voice, which is more proof that you can't be taken seriously when you say this.
Couldn’t Be Bothered To Wait When Told He Was On His Way
I had a guy do this exact same thing to me. Supposed to meet at Starbucks and he never showed and was like 'I figured you'd no show so I didn't bother' wtaf?!
The issue of ‘nice girls’ seems to arise from women’s hard-wired need for validation from men. This means that females often seek the approval of males, whether it’s received in the form of compliments, praise, affirmations, or sexual attention. The tendency to seek such validation stems from our patriarchal society, where men’s opinions and perspectives are valued more than those of women.
“Many women find themselves seeking validation from others, particularly men, as a way to feel good about themselves,” further explains women's transformologist, Carolina Stukenberg. She notes that such behavior can also derive from deeper issues, such as dysfunctional family dynamics or childhood adversity, which can result in low self-worth and self-esteem in women.
“In such environments, love and affection may have been conditional, leading to the belief that these must be earned through pleasing others,” says Stukenberg.
Girlfriend Cheated On Me. Broke Up With Her Then She Sent This
well, she cheated so not nice. She didn't realize she was going to be broken up with DUE to cheating, so not smart. 2 out of 4 down. Maybe she's a model who hula hoops like a champ though.
How Insecure Do You Have To Be To Say This
Well, I think she means she goes to Italy to molest children like male pedos go to Thailand to molest children...
Load More Replies...Wow, you managed to insult men, women, two countries and their people, in less than a full paragraph. Talented aren't we? Not.
I drive to Italy with some friends just for some good pizza at Lago di Garda and then we drive home again. So why are we untrustworthy?
LoL that's exactly what caused my friend's divorce when his wife went to Italy XD XD
I Get What I Want, Always!
No, you don't get what you want always - a fulfilling relationship will be an example in her case.
She adds, “Another aspect that creates the need for seeking validation is that from a young age, women may learn to prioritize the needs and expectations of those around them, often at the expense of their own authentic selves. This "good girl syndrome," rooted in the desire to be loved and accepted, can lead to a pattern of self-abandonment. Women may mold themselves to fit the projections of others, masking their true essence in the process.”
I Too, Love Being A Trashy Person
Unfortunately it isn't, because there's no such thing. Yes, bad people get away with their deeds.
Load More Replies...This is toxic feminity. It's the other side of the incel coin, and it's what they use to justify treating women like garbage. The two sexes should not be at war with each other. It makes little sense. An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind.
A two-way street, you cannot regret when a man is mean to you - only fair.
She's Mad The Man She Rejected Moved On
So Thomas and Emily have to ask for permission to date?! (great job censoring) :))
So glad I'm not the only one who immediately noticed the names too! :D
Load More Replies...You already torpedoed your relationship by thinking you are the main character.
Those NPC friends in her main character world just don't understand that their only value in life is as accessories to hers.
Seems that she just loved the idea of a guy hopelessly pining for her
hell, i'm not gonna ask my mom for permission to date someone. the only person i'm gon be asking for permission from is the person i'm asking out
Load More Replies...I had a friend who was really angry that I was asking out her crush to prom, even though 1. I had no idea before this conversation that he was her crush 2. he was one of my best friends, and I had a much closer relationship with him than she did and 3. she wasn't even planning to ask him out any time soon. a couple days after this fight, she let me know that she was "forgiving" me. thanks...
Easly Satisfied With The Best
The missing space after every punctuation just rubs me the wrong way.
"emotionally intelligent alpha male" is an oxymoron. Anyone who is emotionally intelligent is smart enough not to buy into the 'alpha male' bulls1t
"Easily satisfied with the very best"... ah yes, very easily satisfied clearly
Constantly being conscious of how a man sees you over focusing on how you feel about yourself can greatly damage a person’s self-esteem and result in emotional dependency and unhealthy relationships in which deeper emotional needs are unmet.
Research from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology also suggests that individuals who thrive on external validation tend to experience higher levels of stress and have a lower overall well-being.
Stukenberg additionally notes, “Women who constantly seek validation from others may experience self-doubt, negative self-talk, burnout from prioritizing others, and a tendency to people-please. These behaviors not only diminish a woman's sense of self but also create a cycle of dependency on others for approval and worth."
Imagine Being This Self Absorbed
I would go.. Then spend the night ignoring her. And spend the time getting to know all the guys that she ends up rejecting :D
That's commitment there. I'd say I'm going, and then ghost her right back
Load More Replies...100% guarantee this girl thought she was gonna record this and post it like "look how many guys I have competing for my attention." She must be a catch if she can't even bribe them with weed & snacks. Lol. Dummy.
The Bachelorette show has had far reaching consequences in general society...
I'd go. As soon as everyone got there I'd thank her for hosting the party and start pitching everyone on a pretend MLM
Happened A While Back, But Being Threatened Still Cracks Me Up
I think pur might be a typo for “ur?”
Load More Replies...Just a guess, but could be cardboard recycling. They go pick up cardboard from clients and deliver it to the recycling facility.
Load More Replies...The "N" has no grammar skills. I'd drop them solely on the education level.
Next Week She’ll Be Asking “Why Am I Single?”
However, an individual's need for approval can be so deeply rooted in them that they don’t realize that they’re seeking it. “The first step is to break free from the need for "external" validation, women must first become aware of the patterns that hold them back,” says Stukenberg. “Recognizing these behaviors is a crucial step toward healing and liberation. Women need to understand that self-worth and self-esteem are not fixed; they can be transformed.”
Me Too Sis, Me Too
I think this is a really badly stated example of a real situation though - too much time being a doormat is not good but a complete 180 degree turn is not the solution.
This is the nice girl cute kitten version of the incel warcry: "Girls don't date Nice guys, so I'm going to start being an a*****e". These toxic people should date each other.
But will it work? Also, the term incel was invented by a queer woman. Alana.
Load More Replies...So you have been pretending in every relationship you've had? That seems like a red flag to me. Mission accomplished!
Ha! Even tho you turn into a Red Flag.....it wont take you nowhere again
I’m Very Confused
Bro’s confidence needs a bit of a boost before he turns to full passive-aggressive mode. If he dips the first screw up he makes, that’s not gonna get him that far…
let's put somebody on the defensive and then tell them it's their fault,....bonus pts. for just being a twit
Ex Girlfriend Showed Up To My Apartment Uninvited
100% the breaks more then 5 min where her calling someone else to complain about her ex not answering the phone or door.
"WHY IS MY WINDOW BROKEN!" Me in that situation where she breaks in (not actually happening to me)
Load More Replies...Those are some talented speed dial skills. Maybe don't break up with her just yet. She would be great at those radio call in prize things...
When the pattern of external validation is recognized, then the person can start working on addressing it. To combat seeking approval from men, women should find ways to seek out self-validation by focusing on their strengths and accomplishments and spending time with people who build them up and make them feel better about themselves.
Apparently This Man Isn't A "True Gentleman" Because He Wants Her To Feel Safe
"Sure pick me up at my place, even though I've never met you and you could be a serial killer"
She Seems Nice
"Hiring"? That word, I don't think it means..what you think it means...
In return you will receive... a parasitic infection that will drain your assets, reputation, energy and will to live.
Bro......"Hiring" clearly not the word that suits what your looking for....
So she wants a sugar daddy who is willing to wait to get the sugar? Good luck with that.
Don’t Date Witches. She Cheated On Me 2 Years Ago. I Have Blocked Her On Everything And She Still Sends Me Spells
I could forgive rhyming "alter" with "altar." I could forgive rhyming "alter" with "water." I kinda even like rhyming "alter" with "fault or." It's the fact that each line is just a rambling sentence with no rhythm, sometimes many times longer than the line it rhymes with. Clearly indicates a "cycle path."
Load More Replies...I thought you loved me, I made you soup, you ate all of it, it made you poop, I await your love, like the council needs tax, may I just mention, please return my Vax
For writing verse, you have such knacks; you ev'n made me spit out my snacks. But OP owes so many whacks, for any meter, OP sorely lacks. I hope this made your smile line cracks and teach as well as poetry FAQs.
Load More Replies...I am extremely offended by the s****y rhymes. Alter and altar? Child, those are homophones. Thyme isn't in that -ine word family and I'm not even going to discuss "fault or."
This would be the best reply to a message like that.
Load More Replies...Maybe it’s the fact that I’m a very nonjudgmental person but I thought the poem or “spell” was fine. But this person is srsly messed up, and needs to move on. Wishes and spells can’t fix everything; you gotta work on yourself and work for those wishes yourself.
I am so grateful to have gone through my teen goth poetry phase before the internet was around - we could destroy the evidence.
“Women need to prioritize their own needs, set healthy boundaries, and raise their emotional intelligence. This involves learning to say "no" without guilt and communicating their needs and opinions in a healthy and assertive way.
Women should also take time to establish their own values and affirm their self-worth. If breaking these patterns feels challenging, seeking support from a professional or a proven method can be transformative. Healing these wounds and building confidence doesn’t have to take years; it can be achieved through focused work that brings about lasting change,” concludes Stukenberg.
My Cousin Posts This Nonsense, But Then Goes And Hits Her Ex-Boyfriend With A Car
One thing social media has taught me is that ppl who post this c**p and lots of quotes about being strong and a fighter and everything of that nature are varying degrees on the hot mess -to- dumpster fire spectrum.
I love the people who post how exhausted they are because of how empathetic they are. Mmmmhmmm...did they forget people have known them their whole life and know how false that is??
Load More Replies...I actually didn't see the heading at first... someone got some eyebrows I can borrow, mine went astray.
So many disillusioned people that think that they deserve more and better for apparent no reason...they are always the best people with the biggest heart aren't they??
Ugh this guy I used to talk to and went on one date with seemed fine and said he preferred his animals to people (which I liked). But BOOM he’s a Trump supporter who proudly didn’t go to college because he “was just going to take over [his] dad’s repair business anyway”, told me I used $50 words, and wouldn’t stop opening doors for me after I very nicely asked him not to do so. Match made in heaven…
Load More Replies...And then she attempted murder with a blunt object (car) apparently? Huh.
I Don't Think This Is The Flex You Thought It Was
I need a translation on this post. I can read the words but no idea what they say.
She is saying she is so into not cheating that she would let him take a photo of them having sex (from behind) and send it to any man he feels threatened by. Because that's the way to prove loyalty in her mind
Load More Replies...Is…? sigh… Stupid text notwithstanding, what in the name of anatomy, is this a picture of? Is it a phallus? Granted a super ugly phallus that needs a doctor. But… I… I need assistance.
Alpha Man Raised By Queen, Please Apply!
Any woman who wants an Alpha male deserves one and should avoid all other types of men.
If someone has a good head on their shoulders (common sense and logic), with a kind heart, I could care less about the rest of them. Perhaps that's just me though. 🤷
“I’m looking for an alpha male” is code for “I’m a stark-raving loonball drinking in all conspiracies from QAnon and the white supremacist right.”
The scrutiny and challenges some women face today in advocating for themselves—whether in personal relationships or social situations—can be stark. In scenarios where they're met with prejudice or bias, it becomes apparent just how essential it is to navigate such encounters effectively. The story of a man facing racist assumptions when trying to enter his own home is a compelling testament to the tenacity required in such situations.
For anyone seeking guidance on handling unjust confrontation, exploring the incident at this tense interaction can offer valuable insights.
Dating Apps Are Scary
Picky Eater And Couldn't Cook
I attended a wedding reception with souvenir cups that said "Thank you for being apart of our special day" or something to that effect, but with the spelling error being on a wedding souvenir, I couldn't stop laughing. Lovely couple, but poor proofreaders.
Load More Replies...yes, picky eaters (depending on just how picky they are) are clear deal breakers.
Nice Girl Gets Mad After A Bald And A "Manlet" Reject Her (She Was Making Them A Favor By Trying To Date Them) [translated From Spanish]
a short man, especially a short muscular man, the term manlet is derogatory to make the man feel bad as the person saying it wants him to know he is not good enough for her
Load More Replies...Anyone referring to the opposite as "males" or "females" instead of men/man, women/woman, or other, is toxic.
how DARE a random man in public have a girlfriend, that's a personal attack on OP!
My Friend’s (M) Ex GF Did Anything For Her And She Shares This
Why would anyone, regardless of their gender, think that anyone other than them is responsible for "building their dream life?"
She can start nailing the glasses to the forehead, before she looses them.
While it is nice to have support, we all just can't assume someone will come along to help us along the way. You know, I get the vibe she also turns around with the "I'm a strong, independent woman" thing too. Can't have it both ways.
The ex was decent guy & treated her to dates and gifts???? That’s what I assumed.
Load More Replies...Spoiler Alert I’m Not Gay
"Yes im gay, thats why, as a man im WAS trying to date you, a woman"
I actually know a lot of guys who wear only jeans and shirts in navy, black and grey, because the rest is yeah gay.
Load More Replies...I think it's really cool when a man dresses colorful. Then again I'm from a place where the straight and gay men wear a lot of hunter's camo.
Proper response.... Yes I'm gay. From your pfp I thought you were also a man.
Found In The Wild Lol
Love it. I'm a guy and this hits in the feels. Ladies stand up for your beliefs and never drop your standards. You ARE worth it!
The problem is OP is putting it out there as if that's the ONLY reason a man breaks up with a woman. Its the same energy as "ladies, if you ever get mad at him it's because he abused you"
Load More Replies...I don't see the delusion in this one. Clearly, not all men are like this, and some women do need to learn to have wiggle room for things in a relationship too, but having standards (i.e. not being a "mommy" to a grown a*s man - outside of whatever kinks you're into then go for it) but having boundaries, rules, and standards for all involved persons in a relationship is not delusional or a bad thing.
I've Been Invited To Apply!
Nicegirl In The Very Sub
Found This Interaction On Twitter
I do not know what do you mean: that is her not being weird...
Load More Replies...The first thing he said dont be weird.........gosh sometimes i think the world is upside down
Girl I Met Gets Upset After Finding Out My Ex Did Of Too, Tells Me I Gaslit Her After Accusing Me Of “Collecting Trophies”
She clearly needs to read the other BP page explaining what gaslighting is.
It seems like she can’t handle that she isn’t & hasn’t been the only object of his affection. Her comfort with doing OF requires her to convince herself she’s the only person these subscribers are focused on, looking at, admiring, etc. The thought that she’s just another drop of the fantasy fuel amongst many others makes her feel cheap. There’s certain types of people who shouldn’t model or do sex work. Seems she’s one of them. Otherwise, who cares if his ex modeled.
All I Said Im Not Interested
Babes you need to have your standards HIGHER if ur bragging thst he doesn't try to rape you
Ummm she wants him to lower his standards? So, she thinks she isn't good enough? And, this thread has a trend: punctuation and grammar are as dead as cursive, I guess.
Women Can Be Incels Too
Maybe, just maybe, they somehow pick up on the fact that you weren't actually interested in them.
Typical "if you think everyone is an a hole you might want to look in the mirror" situation.
Misandrist perspectives are almost always an effect of men being the cause. Typically it’s toxic masculinity or misogyny, but it can be a result of dereliction, too. Which is why gender theorists, sociologists, etc,., tend to refer to it as “miso-misandry” to emphasize it’s typically in relation to misogyny. In this case, calling her an “incel” fits better. - rejection is part of life. Learn to manage expectations & disappointments. Why would one lower their standards to be desired? There’s no audacity; it’s choice; free will. Women love her cos she’s a mean mess who isn’t a treat. That’s what they appreciate. She’s confusing it for love then comparing to physical attraction. It’s not the male brain, it’s relating with others objectively. 99% rejection rate means it’s her character/personality. Neither gender tend to get rejected even remotely that much. Maybe the thing she needs to change is expanding her horizons and continually learning and growing throughout life.
Not feeling like enough is projection. That’s not any potential parter’s fault, but the man or woman. Being desperate for a relationship speaks volumes. And it’s ugly. Again, her resentment seems misplaced. We can all walk away from this one, knowing that she really doesn’t like herself and she’s unwilling to continually grow learn, develop. She’s one of those people who doesn’t understand why people like or dislike her in the first place and she absolutely does not believe that she should ever never to be anything to anyone else other than what she’s decided she wants.
Load More Replies...So don't change for other people? If you don't find someone compatible then you're probably better off single.
Reasons Why You're Not A Real Femcel
This was written by a vengeful ghost, she had at least 3 *successful* suicide attempts.
People who brag about having mental health problems make me sick and makes me think they don't actually have those struggles. I don't want to gatekeep mental health because everyone deals with it differently, but it feels bad to have people talking about it on social media like it's some cool quirk. I get trying to embrace it I often times talk about how dealing with autism makes me a stronger person and that I wouldn't get rid of it if I could, but I didn't feel like this post was trying to do that. Especially the line about suicide. Ignoring the fact that 3 successful attempts is impossible having suicidal ideation isn't fun or quirky in any way it's the worst thing I can imagine and the worst thing that ever happened to me. As I said at the beginning I don't want to gatekeep mental health but I also hate it when others treat it as something it isn't.
Apparently something worth bragging about, according to OP the “real” femcel 😂
Load More Replies...My problems are worse than your problems.... And is femcel really a thing now? First I'm hearing about it. Maybe the incels and femcels should get together.
Interesting Introductory Statement On A Dating App!
whats wrong with this. She's saying she has a preference but she's giving the guy a chance and wants to know why the long hair?
Did you read the last sentence? She’s making an assumption based on his hair. Seems decent even tho he has long hair.
Load More Replies...In Blast Right Off The Bat
25 and "figuring it out" is normal nowadays, unless you had a highschool sweetheart you married and are having a dream life with. If you have kids at 25 you are almost certainly still "figuring it out". I don't think most people "figure it out till thier late 30s early 40s, if they ever manage to "figure it out"
I'm 47 with adult kids and I'm STILL like wtf is this even
Load More Replies...After she marries her over 6’ prince who’ll treat her like a queen & shower her with a lavish lifestyle, but then leaves her at 40 for a younger trophy wife, without financial independence & marketable job skills and 3 grown children, with no real social support system, I want to ask her the same question about figuring it out.
Apparently I’m A Loser Because Our Interests Aren’t Mutual??
BP, what is the point of these entries if the screenshot doesn’t cover the actual relevant part of the story?
Are these from Reddit? Maybe BP & R are doing some kind of "you scratch my back..." deal? 🤔'Cuz there is SO much Reddit stuff on here nowadays (I miss all the cool artwork/creativity posts).
Load More Replies...I'm confused. Bumble is a dating app isn't it? Or can you find friends too?
Must’ve Been Why You Got Mad About It
Posted By My Extremely Verbally/Emotionally Abusive Ex (Who Also Apparently Became A Femaledatingstrategy User Post-Breakup). The Lack Of Self-Awareness Is Nauseating, Yet Perfectly On-Brand
Not sure that this is a "nice girl" story. She's not talking about all the men, just all the men _around her_. Maybe she looks like an easy mark to all the jerks?
The second part does seem to imply that, but the first reads as if it’s true of all men.
Load More Replies...Ahh the woman who will date the same type of men over and over and then complain that all men are like this. At some point it is your own fault for not realizing the only thing your gonna get shopping at a butcher is meat and if you want to buy something else(find a diffrent type of guy) your gonna have to shop elsewhere. "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a diffrent result"- Albert Einstein applies quite well here.
Einstein never said that. Also, the psycho men don't come wearing neon signs, you can't usually tell until it's too late.
Load More Replies...Seems to me like this guy is stalking his ex. Why do you care what she posts, waiting outside her house too?
This is a woman who wrote this is someone I wouldn't have showing my kids anything. Seems the only type she has are the men she doesn't like...
Gonna go out on a limb here and guess she's attracted to men with neck tattoos and a rap sheet
Recieved Some Lovely Racism Today
I looked at tge reddit post and there's a second page.. a more important one.
Load More Replies...For those wondering, there is a second image. Click the link below the picture to be directed to the source.
Click link, see second screenshot. There most definitely is racial content.
Load More Replies...Cute and boring, this describes my husband and I wouldn't have it any other way.
Click link, see second screenshot. There most definitely is racial content.
Load More Replies...Wow First Messages Also Does This Count?
Ive never read the word blokes so much and i haven't even read the whole conversation
Yes! I couldn't stand the word blokes one more time. Also, all of the numbers. Jeez!
Load More Replies...Wait ... wait, "... for 24 years since the age "off" 16 ..." ... a 40 year old person wrote that???? With THAT spelling???? My Flabber is completely gasted and I feel like I've died a little inside.
"Using us woman 4 sex" therin lies your problem methinks. Don't sleep with someone until you've gotten to know them a bit.
A la Monty Python's 'Spam Song' - Blokes blokes blokes blokes, luverly blokes, wonderful blokes...
I Just Wanna Know What She Was Trying To Set On Fire
They're missing the part of the post that actually has it. It's in the reddit post. Hope that helps :)
Load More Replies...She asked a friend their opinion about someone who hypothetically slashed their ex’s tires after the ex cheated, then admitted that she was the ‚someone’ and confessed her actual actions went quite a bit further than slashing tires: slashed a bunch of his furniture, beat him up, threw a brick through his car window and tried to set something on fire with them in it.
Load More Replies...Having read the whole thread, she might be ‘an honest woman’ but she also sounds like a deranged walking anger issue.
That's Some Serious Dedication!
☑️ Woe be unto the guy who desires to see and wishes to have dessert. Just wow.
Load More Replies...Oh God, my husband was having breakfast only this morning! *And* I know for a fact he watched a movie alone while I was out with friends the other day. He wears glasses, too - and yesterday he had yoghurt for dessert! Is he secretly gay???
According to this my husband is gay too. He also eats breakfast, wathces movies alone, eats dessert and...gasp...even has glasses!! Maybe they're gay together!?!?!
Load More Replies...I eat breakfast. I watch movies alone. I wear glasses. I love desserts. I guess I'm not a man anymore.
I'm 4/4 on her list...Hell, I've eaten breakfast, while watching a movie, wearing my glasses, and then eaten two Fun Size Mr Goodbars all AT THE SAME TIME! I should have a cape and fight crime, cause apparently I'm Super Gay
Every singe thing about this post is ridiculous and childish...geesh! 🙄🤡
Quite A Bold Statement!
350 just to get her out of the house. In Europe she would be sent to hell in a sec. Gentleman, am I missing anything else?
Integrity, humility, intelligence, empathy and any chance of being loved.
Bro my guy doesnt even have enough for the bills.....how the hell will he pay all that sh!t
Yeah..your entire rabbit mind is what you're missing...please go find it and try again!🙄🤡
A Day After Cheating On Me, My (Now Ex) GF Posted This On Her Social Media
I love it when new age spirituality speak is used to avoid personal accountability.
There's a name for this: it's a form of spiritual bypassing.
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Homophobic Woman Loses Her Mind Realizing Not Every Man Is The Same As She Wants
Another one where the person lifting this from Reddit to repost here hasn't copied the whole story... but it's not really worth repeating anyway.
Load More Replies...There are 4 pics in this post. Click the source link below the picture to view more.
'separates The Boys From The Men' Lol
Aye, she's a ''nice girl'' because she doesn't want to attract peados on a dating site and didn't take your advice. Jesus Christ, get a grip dumb s**t.
I Talked To This Girl For One Day The Week Before
BP, f**k off with your censorship. I really can't believe someone gets paid to steal pics off reddit and pretend it is original content and not even bother their holes to check if they make sense with only half the images or if they're full of words that will be censored. Give me a job, I will actually check my work.
These words are censored on the original post. This is just lazy copy & paste by BP.
Load More Replies...Total Mystery Why Her Dates Nope The Hell Out
Most Men Are Weak And Can’t Handle Her Kind Of Love
3 pics to this one. Click the link below the pic. But you still won't find out who "she" is.
Speaking as a straight guy, I'm sure that this kind of c**p is pulled by plenty of dudes as well. I can understand anybody who is frustrated/annoyed/ticked off with the whole dating scene.
Speaking as a gay man, it's the same for everyone I reckon. So many POS out there.
Load More Replies...A very annoying set of posts copied from Reddit, many without the full story or context in which they were originally posted. Please make a better effort next time, Austeja.
Context isn't going to make this any better. And the full story is going to make it worse.
Load More Replies...I am utterly appalled. Like, embarrassed to be the same gender as these women.
Is this what dating is like for men most of the time? Or are these just some super unhinged women found in the wild?
Speaking as a straight guy, I'm sure that this kind of c**p is pulled by plenty of dudes as well. I can understand anybody who is frustrated/annoyed/ticked off with the whole dating scene.
Speaking as a gay man, it's the same for everyone I reckon. So many POS out there.
Load More Replies...A very annoying set of posts copied from Reddit, many without the full story or context in which they were originally posted. Please make a better effort next time, Austeja.
Context isn't going to make this any better. And the full story is going to make it worse.
Load More Replies...I am utterly appalled. Like, embarrassed to be the same gender as these women.
Is this what dating is like for men most of the time? Or are these just some super unhinged women found in the wild?
