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Mom Confesses Her Lifetime Secret Before Passing, And Son Embarks On Emotional Mission
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Mom Confesses Her Lifetime Secret Before Passing, And Son Embarks On Emotional Mission

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Mark Thorpe was left in tears after uncovering the unexpected truth behind the mysterious baby boy tattooed on his late mother’s skin.

The 44-year-old UK resident appeared on a recent episode of the television show Long Lost Familyin search of answers.

For decades, his mother, Diane, remained silent until her passing in 2023 at the age of 73, when she finally revealed the identity of the boy in the ink.

Highlights
  • Mark Thorpe revealed that the mysterious baby tattooed on his late mother’s arm was also kept in a framed photograph on her bedside table.
  • On a popular UK show, the 44-year-old man had an unexpected and emotional meeting with the now-grown baby after decades of secrecy.
  • The secret had taken a heavy emotional toll on the deceased woman, who struggled with depression throughout her life.
  • “It would be like losing a part of your heart, really,” expressed Thorpe.
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    Mark Thorpe finally met the real-life boy behind his mother’s tattoo on the popular UK television show

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    In the nearly hour-long episode, Mark spoke with 64-year-old host Nicky Campbell, hoping he could help uncover the truth and provide some long-awaited answers.

    He shared that he had always been “intrigued” by the boy his mother had tattooed on her arm. 

    Diane even kept a framed photograph of the child, smiling cheekily, on her bedside table throughout her life.

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    And while Mark was certain it wasn’t him in the tattoo or the picture, he could never figure out who it was, as neither his mother nor other family members would tell him.

    “I was always intrigued by this photo… this one was beside her bed. She had it tattooed on her arm, this picture, as well. He looks such a happy little chappy on there,” Thorpe told the host. 

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    The little photo, it’s created a large shadow [in my life].”

    Apart from the tattoo, Diane also kept a framed photograph of the mysterious baby in her bedroom

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    It was only shortly before her passing that the 73-year-old woman finally confessed the truth, revealing to Mark that the boy was, in fact, his older brother.

    Reportedly, Thorpe approached the show in search of his sibling he had never even heard of, let alone met, while his mother was still alive.

    “Eventually, she said, ‘That’s your brother, yeah. He got taken away.’”

    According to Mark, his mother was just 19 and unmarried when she gave birth to the baby, and was forced by her strict father to give him up for adoption.

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    The child, born as Kevin David Phillips in Norwich, was kept a secret from everyone in the family.

    The separation had taken a heavy toll on Diane, leaving her battling depression throughout her life.

    The baby turned out to be Mark’s long-lost older brother, who had been given up for adoption 11 years before Mark was born

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    In the video, Mark learned through the show that a 55-year-old man named Martin was his older brother.

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    Martin, a musician from Gloucestershire, in the southwest of England, admitted on the show that he always knew he’d been adopted, but never imagined he might have a sibling, or that he’d ever meet his real family.

    When host Nicky revealed that his deceased birth mother had a tattoo of him, Martin couldn’t hold back his emotions.

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    He broke down in tears and, between sobs, said he was grateful that Diane had remembered him after all those years and that he was thrilled to finally meet his brother.

    “At least she wasn’t averse to tats. They’re not everybody’s cup of tea,” Martin joked, wiping away his tears. 

    Martin, originally born as Kevin David Phillips, emotionally broke down upon learning about his late birth mother and brother

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    The 44-year-old had written a letter for his older brother, which the host passed on to him.

    Upon reading it, Martin said, “I can’t wait to meet the guy. This guy’s put his soul on this piece of paper. Well done. Top bloke.”

    Later in the episode, when Thorpe was shown a picture of Martin, he jokingly commented on his brother’s long white beard, calling it “massive.”

    He further expressed his relief and happiness, saying, “I feel slightly up here somewhere. It’s really strange. It literally does feel like… something’s lifted.”

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    The episode concluded on a positive note with the two brothers finally meeting each other. 

    Following their emotional meeting, Mark told Martin, “It was such a bombshell for you and I was the one setting the bomb off.”

    The older brother happily replied, “Yeah, but it turned out to be full of glitter.”

    Mark and Martin had a heartwarming introduction, meeting face-to-face for the first time in their lives

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    Reflecting on their meeting, the musician shared, “I think he’s a really deep person, I know he’s full of interesting stories to tell me, not just about me, but about him as well, so I look forward to that.”

    Reflecting on his mother’s secret and the grief that must have haunted her throughout her life for keeping one of her sons hidden, Mark shared that he could never imagine what that must have felt like for her.

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    “The thought of that, I’d be lost without my children, it would be like losing a part of your heart really.”

    “My heart goes out to the mother who was forced to give her baby up and for that child who never had the chance to meet his birth mother,” expressed one sympathetic netizen. 

    “They’ve been reunited years later… Long Lost Family is always a tear jerker to watch,” wrote one user 

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm adopted, and I have two biological older sisters. I found out that I was adopted quite by accident (I was snooping, lol) when I was 6 or 7. I imagine that, since my sisters are both older than I am, they were at least somewhat aware that their mom was pregnant and that no baby came home from the hospital with her later on. I wonder what my bio mom told them at the time. I've spoken with one of my biological sisters since, and she definitely knew I existed/was adopted. I... do want to meet my bio family someday (in the weirdest coincidence, my sister's oldest child is named Dakota! How's that for crazy?) I can only hope the meeting goes as well as Mark's did with his brother Martin. I only wish Diane had gotten a chance to see that Martin was doing well.

    Dana Lawton
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband is an adopted child and has known that since a very early age... His adoptive parents are his MAMA AND DADDY!!! He has the best parents... Had he stayed with his biological mother he'd be in hell or jail long before now... She's not a good healthy stable person even in her 70's... She made the best decision giving him to his parents... His Mama is the best mama ever, I call her mama... She's the world's best in both of our eyes...

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    J R
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone whose dad only revealed he had a previous marriage and a kid when I was almost a teenager, I feel that his mom should have told him sooner. But I also can't blame her because of how traumatic that separation was for her and how young she was when she was forced to give up her kid. I imagine she didn't know how to explain it to her 2nd born when she likely never fully healed from losing her 1st born.

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm adopted, and I have two biological older sisters. I found out that I was adopted quite by accident (I was snooping, lol) when I was 6 or 7. I imagine that, since my sisters are both older than I am, they were at least somewhat aware that their mom was pregnant and that no baby came home from the hospital with her later on. I wonder what my bio mom told them at the time. I've spoken with one of my biological sisters since, and she definitely knew I existed/was adopted. I... do want to meet my bio family someday (in the weirdest coincidence, my sister's oldest child is named Dakota! How's that for crazy?) I can only hope the meeting goes as well as Mark's did with his brother Martin. I only wish Diane had gotten a chance to see that Martin was doing well.

    Dana Lawton
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband is an adopted child and has known that since a very early age... His adoptive parents are his MAMA AND DADDY!!! He has the best parents... Had he stayed with his biological mother he'd be in hell or jail long before now... She's not a good healthy stable person even in her 70's... She made the best decision giving him to his parents... His Mama is the best mama ever, I call her mama... She's the world's best in both of our eyes...

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    J R
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone whose dad only revealed he had a previous marriage and a kid when I was almost a teenager, I feel that his mom should have told him sooner. But I also can't blame her because of how traumatic that separation was for her and how young she was when she was forced to give up her kid. I imagine she didn't know how to explain it to her 2nd born when she likely never fully healed from losing her 1st born.

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