A woman called me at work randomly to let me know she was “in love” with my partner of 14 years. She says they had been having an affair for 4 years, he claimed 1 year. I’m sure the truth lies somewhere in the middle.

She had the nerve to beg me to me to try and convince him to stay with her, as he was the only man she had ever truly loved and she was the poor victim. She called me to blow it all up because had finally ended it with her because in his words “ he didn’t want to risk losing me, the most important thing in his life” Yeah, he had 1-4 years to calculate those risks.

I immediately moved out of our home despite the pleading ,and left them to be together as they deserved each other. Alas, they did not last and I was harassed at all hours of the night and day from this woman from multiple phone numbers for a year even after she knew I had ended things with my ex and moved out. This woman was also 20 years older than me, and not some young girl in puppy love.

It’s been 4 years now, and now I’m in a loving happy healthy relationship so life goes on eventually.