Couple Wants To Enjoy Their Yard And Pool, Neighbors Want A Piece Of It, Livid When A Fence Appears
Some folks just can’t take a hint, especially when it comes to neighbors. You know, the kind who act like they own the entire street, demanding things like they’ve got VIP access to your life. From casually strolling into your backyard to using your pool as if it’s a community amenity, some neighbors just don’t get the concept of personal space.
I don’t know about you, but I’ve never had the best luck with neighbors, and neither did one Redditor who learned just how bold neighbors can be, right after moving into her dream beachside home.
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Some neighbors think “private property” means community playground, especially when they’ve got their eyes on your pool
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A new homeowner found out just how bold neighbors can be when they asked her to allow them to walk through her yard to reach the beach, and even use her pool
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The woman and her husband bought their dream beachside home, complete with beach access, a pool and a beautiful yard, which they decided to fence in, angering their neighbors
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One neighbor asked the woman if she would allow the residents to use her pool and walk through her yard every time they want to reach the beach, but she refused
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The woman posted an update saying she contacted the police and the previous homeowners to confirm that she is not obligated to grant access to her neighbors
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The woman and her husband refuse to allow her neighbors to use their pool or walk through their yard at their convenience, building a fence around the yard
Just imagine that you bought your dream home – a beachside oasis complete with a pool, hot tub, fountains and a gorgeous view of the beach. Basically, your very own slice of paradise. For me, that sounds like a dream life.
But for this 26-year-old homeowner, her relaxing beachfront haven quickly turned into a battleground with her neighbors from across the street. Why? Because they felt entitled to stroll through her yard whenever they wanted to reach the sandy beach and maybe even use her pool. Yes, her private pool.
The OP (original poster) of this story, and her husband, decided to protect their little oasis by putting up a fence around their yard. Reasonable, right? Well, not according to her neighbors from the condos across the street.
Marie, one of those neighbors, decided to pay the OP a visit. But she wasn’t there to deliver a friendly “Welcome to the neighborhood” basket. Oh, no, she had much bigger things in mind: access to the OP’s yard for her and all the condo residents.
Turns out, the previous homeowners had been letting their neighbors use their private yard as a shortcut to the beach. Why walk 5 whole minutes to the public entrance when you can stroll through someone else’s private paradise, right?
Not only that, but they’d even let people use their pool sometimes. Sounds like a community perk, except the OP wasn’t on board with continuing the tradition.
When Marie asked if they could keep this little arrangement going, the OP’s response was a big No. She wasn’t interested in sharing her sanctuary with people she didn’t know, and who could blame her? After all, she bought the house for the yard, not to run a public pool party.
Marie didn’t take kindly to the OP’s refusal. In fact, she got downright mad. How dare the OP gate off the beach path and ruin their “way of life”? Marie even played the “think of the kids” card, saying parents would be devastated if their kids would have to walk a whopping 5 minutes to reach the beach. The horror!
Our OP, however, didn’t back down. She wasn’t about to turn her home into a community road for strangers just because it was more convenient for them.
But Marie wasn’t alone. Soon enough, other condo residents were buzzing about OP’s “selfish” fence. Some even confronted her directly, questioning if she was really going to block off their precious shortcut. If only the beach drama could have stayed between the OP and Marie, but, no, now she had an entire condo’s worth of opinions raining down on her.
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While the OP’s friends and family were divided on the issue, legal experts, and a whole lot of Redditors, weren’t. In fact, experts say that property owners like the OP are 100% within their rights to limit access to their private property and are under no obligation to grant easement rights to neighbors, unless such an agreement has been made in writing, which in this case, it hasn’t.
“If you’re thinking about purchasing a particular piece of property, it’s important to know if there are any easements involved. The term easement refers to the right of persons or entities other than the legal owner to use or control a portion of the property. Easements often involve neighboring homeowners such as when a neighbor uses a shared driveway,” experts advise. Good to know.
This, however, is not the case in our story and the OP made sure of that by contacting the previous owners of the home for confirmation. And, if that wasn’t enough, the local police also confirmed that the condo residents had no legal right to use her property as a beach path.
So legally, the OP was in the clear. Plus, as many Reddit users commenters pointed out, allowing people to walk through her yard isn’t just annoying, but also a potential premises liability nightmare, if any accidents were to occur on her property.
While the OP may not be winning any “Most Popular Neighbor” awards anytime soon, at least she gets to enjoy her little slice of paradise in peace. After all, that yard is the reason she bought the house in the first place.
What do you think of this story? Is our poster a jerk for fencing in her yard and blocking access to her private property? Drop your comments below.
Netizens side with the woman saying she has every right to protect her private property and enjoy her home
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All this fuss because people would have to walk an extra 5 minutes down the road???
Yep! Entitled, lazy cry babies. "We don't wanna have to be parents and supervise the children while in the ocean (cuz what could go wrong there?!), so we need unlimited access to your beautiful private property. And also, we'll be suing the shìt out of you when anyone gets hurt."
Load More Replies...I don't know what the equivalent is for for where you are, but for the UK, I'd just plant prickly shrubs behind the fence - pyrocantha, berberis, blackberries, thorny rambling roses.
Obligatory: Don't ever let strangers access your property, you'll be liable if they get injured. Especially not pools, imagine someone's kid drowns
Oh the horror of people having to walk five whole minutes down the street to get to the beach!! You monsters!! /s
I'm lost about what the condo manager thinks a "middle ground" might be.
No no, he was saying "can you give me some of your middle ground, for a beach path"
Load More Replies...If your kid is unable to walk 5 minutes down the road, they’re probably too young to be going to the beach alone.
Our "résidence" of 425 houses has two communal parks, that we all pay to maintain, but they used to be free of access. A couple years ago, apartment buildings were built in the vicinity and they used our parks as a selling point. Now the parks are locked, and it's a PIA for everyone, as the bus stop to the train station and to high school is accessible only through them ( or by a long walk around). All because greedy people considered our property as theirs.
My parents had a situation with kids cutting thru their yard to get to the local school. They put up a fence, and the kids just climbed over it. A boy fell off the fence and broke his arm and his parents sued my parents! It was a mess.
Your property, your business. We had a home on a double lot in Lake Tahoe, on a canal. Fed up with renters and locals using the lot to let their dogs run off leash to harass the geese and c**p all over, leaving food trash on the yard after picnicking, Air b&bers with no boundaries looking in our windows, and a pig of a neighbor leaving his trash all over, we installed a 3 foot high iron fence that didn't block the view. We had people literally screaming "This isn't your property" from the street, call the city on us, (we had all permits), and the neighbor trying to block us (he was actually a fireman, if you can believe it), and dumping his c**p camper in front of it every day. so we couldn't enjoy the view of the woods from our own yard. We just ignored them all and landscaped a lovely home, raising our property value by thousands.
Wow! A lot of people thinking they have the right to other people's property. It would be one thing if it was a paved easement, but they literally just want to stroll through someone's yard... and the people in the poll who are mad at it! Just, wow.
It might be a paved pathway, because they do continually refer to a "path" rather than "through the yard"
Load More Replies...Fences, cameras + No Trespassing signs? Sounds like OP + her hubs have it covered. :)
That parents were letting their children go to the beach unaccompanied - what the what?!?! Irresponsible parents who would sue the minute something happened to little Jaxson or Sophia. Some people have more balls than brains
I wouldn't even put up only a fence, but landmines and crocodiles, if someone addressed me like this. Walking 5 minutes is good for you and also very good for annoying kids.
Landmines? Liar. You don't have access to landmines. I would use pitfalls and barracudas.
Load More Replies......so lemme get this straight? they're pissed they have to walk a whole horrendously long FIVE F*****G MINUTES down the road? I'd be the petty type to sit out front of the house and wave as they walk by.
If the path was at the edge of my property, I'd have offered to sell the condo a 5-foot-wide strip of land they could make a path to beach on. And included that the condo had to pay to maintain it, as well as pay for a soundproof privacy fence for myself and my neighbours.
And it would cost $13 million. Pay up or GTFO my porch.
Load More Replies...It reminds me of the scence in Summer Rental with John Candy. Family eating breakfast watching while beach goers using his easement for beach access out the kitchen window.
I bought a remote 23 acre horsefarm by St Augustine. from my top floor I could see a glimpse of a 'roof' of an old shack among the trees in quite a distance. The realtors said that it was an old shack that nobody lived in anymore, the old lady that had lived there died years ago and the shack was abandoned. THEN we suddenly had weekend pilgrimages of folks with old clunkers in wild colors (not pristine antiques ) and shiny big wheels cross though our front yard (!!) and accreage heading for that shack in the woods, boombox high volume rap and booze- guys with 'Tombstone"coats and shotguns 'hunt' on our property , taking a shortcut over my nicely cut lawns, too lazy and disrespectful to go around my property and cut trees on THEIR land to get to that shack. Had to call police a number of times to get them to stop-and they would not. Told stories about how they had 'the old people' (MY PARENTS!!)GIVE THEM 'PERMISSION'(lies), they even shot at my parents from the shack-it did not end well
Your neighbours already have fences - Follow suit, and let the snowflakes whinge...
People on your property are a risk, and a liability, and you lose your privacy by letting them through. Screw nuts, I'd make sure the gate is key-locked, I don't care how convenient you want it, or woe is me you have to walk for a few minutes, my property, my rules, I'd want my privacy.
Where I live nobody can force an easement. The landowners involved must all sign to have an easement legally created.
Absolutely NTA! Who the hell wants a bunch of strangers tromping thru their PRIVATE back yard let alone take a dip in a PRIVATE pool. Rich or poor that does not give them the right to do as they please on your property. What if you and your partner want some time alone or a nice romantic dinner by the pool or maybe some skinny dipping.....then here comes every Tom, D**k and Harry traipsing thru. Nope. I would have had that fence up before I moved in as high as the city would allow and cameras. I may be the A$$hole but my wife and I enjoy our privacy far too much.
May I suggest giamt cacti near the fence? No one would be game to try to jump over!
They are completely within their rights as homeowners to restrict access to their property. And I would have done the same thing. But I see nasty retaliation from the pissed off condo owners. I anticipate loud beach parties right in front of their backyards with music and loud crowds. If the noise is within legal limits there is nothing the homeowners can do. Lots of juvenile,, entitled, vindictive jerks around. It can get nasty, a no-win situation.
If the neighbors were willing, it might have made sense for each to sacrifice a sliver of property (or sell it to the condo) in order to make a narrow pathway to the beach between two lots that avoids going through the backyards. It doesn't need to be a wide trail, just an access.
And it seems to me, that it would be a seller's market. You get everything by having that sliver, while I need to move my fence and plants.
Load More Replies...Fabulous! So, when someone DOES get hurt, OP WILL be legally responsible because they're taking ownership & responsible when requiring an admission fee. Grand slam idea! /s
Load More Replies...All this fuss because people would have to walk an extra 5 minutes down the road???
Yep! Entitled, lazy cry babies. "We don't wanna have to be parents and supervise the children while in the ocean (cuz what could go wrong there?!), so we need unlimited access to your beautiful private property. And also, we'll be suing the shìt out of you when anyone gets hurt."
Load More Replies...I don't know what the equivalent is for for where you are, but for the UK, I'd just plant prickly shrubs behind the fence - pyrocantha, berberis, blackberries, thorny rambling roses.
Obligatory: Don't ever let strangers access your property, you'll be liable if they get injured. Especially not pools, imagine someone's kid drowns
Oh the horror of people having to walk five whole minutes down the street to get to the beach!! You monsters!! /s
I'm lost about what the condo manager thinks a "middle ground" might be.
No no, he was saying "can you give me some of your middle ground, for a beach path"
Load More Replies...If your kid is unable to walk 5 minutes down the road, they’re probably too young to be going to the beach alone.
Our "résidence" of 425 houses has two communal parks, that we all pay to maintain, but they used to be free of access. A couple years ago, apartment buildings were built in the vicinity and they used our parks as a selling point. Now the parks are locked, and it's a PIA for everyone, as the bus stop to the train station and to high school is accessible only through them ( or by a long walk around). All because greedy people considered our property as theirs.
My parents had a situation with kids cutting thru their yard to get to the local school. They put up a fence, and the kids just climbed over it. A boy fell off the fence and broke his arm and his parents sued my parents! It was a mess.
Your property, your business. We had a home on a double lot in Lake Tahoe, on a canal. Fed up with renters and locals using the lot to let their dogs run off leash to harass the geese and c**p all over, leaving food trash on the yard after picnicking, Air b&bers with no boundaries looking in our windows, and a pig of a neighbor leaving his trash all over, we installed a 3 foot high iron fence that didn't block the view. We had people literally screaming "This isn't your property" from the street, call the city on us, (we had all permits), and the neighbor trying to block us (he was actually a fireman, if you can believe it), and dumping his c**p camper in front of it every day. so we couldn't enjoy the view of the woods from our own yard. We just ignored them all and landscaped a lovely home, raising our property value by thousands.
Wow! A lot of people thinking they have the right to other people's property. It would be one thing if it was a paved easement, but they literally just want to stroll through someone's yard... and the people in the poll who are mad at it! Just, wow.
It might be a paved pathway, because they do continually refer to a "path" rather than "through the yard"
Load More Replies...Fences, cameras + No Trespassing signs? Sounds like OP + her hubs have it covered. :)
That parents were letting their children go to the beach unaccompanied - what the what?!?! Irresponsible parents who would sue the minute something happened to little Jaxson or Sophia. Some people have more balls than brains
I wouldn't even put up only a fence, but landmines and crocodiles, if someone addressed me like this. Walking 5 minutes is good for you and also very good for annoying kids.
Landmines? Liar. You don't have access to landmines. I would use pitfalls and barracudas.
Load More Replies......so lemme get this straight? they're pissed they have to walk a whole horrendously long FIVE F*****G MINUTES down the road? I'd be the petty type to sit out front of the house and wave as they walk by.
If the path was at the edge of my property, I'd have offered to sell the condo a 5-foot-wide strip of land they could make a path to beach on. And included that the condo had to pay to maintain it, as well as pay for a soundproof privacy fence for myself and my neighbours.
And it would cost $13 million. Pay up or GTFO my porch.
Load More Replies...It reminds me of the scence in Summer Rental with John Candy. Family eating breakfast watching while beach goers using his easement for beach access out the kitchen window.
I bought a remote 23 acre horsefarm by St Augustine. from my top floor I could see a glimpse of a 'roof' of an old shack among the trees in quite a distance. The realtors said that it was an old shack that nobody lived in anymore, the old lady that had lived there died years ago and the shack was abandoned. THEN we suddenly had weekend pilgrimages of folks with old clunkers in wild colors (not pristine antiques ) and shiny big wheels cross though our front yard (!!) and accreage heading for that shack in the woods, boombox high volume rap and booze- guys with 'Tombstone"coats and shotguns 'hunt' on our property , taking a shortcut over my nicely cut lawns, too lazy and disrespectful to go around my property and cut trees on THEIR land to get to that shack. Had to call police a number of times to get them to stop-and they would not. Told stories about how they had 'the old people' (MY PARENTS!!)GIVE THEM 'PERMISSION'(lies), they even shot at my parents from the shack-it did not end well
Your neighbours already have fences - Follow suit, and let the snowflakes whinge...
People on your property are a risk, and a liability, and you lose your privacy by letting them through. Screw nuts, I'd make sure the gate is key-locked, I don't care how convenient you want it, or woe is me you have to walk for a few minutes, my property, my rules, I'd want my privacy.
Where I live nobody can force an easement. The landowners involved must all sign to have an easement legally created.
Absolutely NTA! Who the hell wants a bunch of strangers tromping thru their PRIVATE back yard let alone take a dip in a PRIVATE pool. Rich or poor that does not give them the right to do as they please on your property. What if you and your partner want some time alone or a nice romantic dinner by the pool or maybe some skinny dipping.....then here comes every Tom, D**k and Harry traipsing thru. Nope. I would have had that fence up before I moved in as high as the city would allow and cameras. I may be the A$$hole but my wife and I enjoy our privacy far too much.
May I suggest giamt cacti near the fence? No one would be game to try to jump over!
They are completely within their rights as homeowners to restrict access to their property. And I would have done the same thing. But I see nasty retaliation from the pissed off condo owners. I anticipate loud beach parties right in front of their backyards with music and loud crowds. If the noise is within legal limits there is nothing the homeowners can do. Lots of juvenile,, entitled, vindictive jerks around. It can get nasty, a no-win situation.
If the neighbors were willing, it might have made sense for each to sacrifice a sliver of property (or sell it to the condo) in order to make a narrow pathway to the beach between two lots that avoids going through the backyards. It doesn't need to be a wide trail, just an access.
And it seems to me, that it would be a seller's market. You get everything by having that sliver, while I need to move my fence and plants.
Load More Replies...Fabulous! So, when someone DOES get hurt, OP WILL be legally responsible because they're taking ownership & responsible when requiring an admission fee. Grand slam idea! /s
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