Customer’s Clash With A Karen At A Store Turns Into “One Of The Best Encounters” After Store Owner Pulls Off Hilarious Malicious Compliance
InterviewDealing with customers can be a serious test of one’s patience. Even more so for someone who doesn’t work at the place to begin with and has to listen to entitled people vent nevertheless.
Redditor u/FantasianMind recently told the ‘Malicious Compliance’ community about the time a lady at a game store mistook them for a staff member. She didn’t care for the fact that the person didn’t work there and requested that the business owner fire them. He did, but only after a quick chat with the ’employee’. Scroll down for the full story.
Bored Panda has reached out to the OP and they were kind enough to answer a few of our questions. You will find their thoughts in the text below.
Some customers are too busy yelling at the staff to realize they might not be actual staff members
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This entitled customer demanded that the store owner fire a person who wasn’t employed there to begin with
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Some customers find it difficult to express dissatisfaction in a pleasant or polite manner
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Arguing with annoying or angry clients is like tilting at windmills. They’re rarely ever polite and usually fight tooth and nail for their truth, whether it’s right or wrong. The well-known cliché that ‘the customer is always right’ does not help in such situations either. It often prompts the client’s sense of entitlement, leaving you—the Don Quixote of the story—trying to fight their rage. In the redditor’s story, the situation was even more hopeless, as the customer was fighting to fire the OP, who wasn’t employed there in the first place.
Redditor u/FantasianMind told Bored Panda that acting on assumption was what annoyed them the most about the situation. “My mom does it, people on the street do it, heck, I sometimes do it; it doesn’t mean you should act on assumption. This woman assumed I worked there, the gods know her reason, and when about to be corrected, she doubled down, probably because of pride or something. I hate that,” they said.
There are, however, customers who are able to communicate or state their complaints in a civilized manner. This type of client usually just wants to help out; they express their concerns so they are brought to the staff’s attention and fixed if needed. At the end of the day, it can benefit the business. Zippia revealed that whether in a polite way or not as much, roughly 4% of customers actually complain to companies.
The way people express dissatisfaction makes all the difference. (It is that thin line between your comments being taken into consideration and you getting a sneeze muffin—Rachel Green’s way of dealing with rude customers.) The entitled woman at the game store was too engrossed in venting to allow the person to inform her they don’t even work there. That’s why the business owner didn’t give her the time of day to try and actually help her out. It’s worth bearing in mind that ‘treat people the way you want to be treated’ is also a set phrase for a reason.
Dealing with discontented customers can become quite a challenge
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When clients take the less-friendly approach, the staff often has to choose between two evils. The first option is bracing themselves and rolling with the punches; even though the customer’s behavior can make their blood come to a boil, the professional environment typically requires them to stay calm and collected. The second one is fighting back, which rarely ever benefits the business and its reputation. Yet you don’t have to always fight fire with fire; sometimes it is possible to put them in their place by politely complying with their requests.
Engaging in acts of malicious compliance usually requires ingenuity and the ability to think on one’s feet. When the store owner noticed the OP being yelled at, he rushed to get them out of their misery, and in a creative way, too. He struck up a conversation that resulted in the redditor having a giggle and the entitled customer stomping out empty-handed.
“He is a hero without a cape,” the OP told Bored Panda. “Sure, he could have been less condescending in his approach, but he stepped in to help. He tried to be polite at first and maybe, if she calmed down a bit, maybe he would have handled the situation differently.”
An Inc and Go survey revealed that toxic customers have forced up to 60% of employees to leave a job at some point in their careers. However, the store owner didn’t seem too bothered by the entitled customer, which is why some redditors applauded the way he handled the situation in the comments.
The OP was compensated for having to deal with the unpleasant customer
People shared insight, jokes, and similar stories in the comments
I don't get this behavior. I'm sure anyone can mistake a customer for a worker, sometime we're too focused on our problem/idea to notice details. But once the person tells they're not working there, why on earth insist that they do? Like I'm going to repeat it and it will becomes the truth???
Because Karens are what happens when you allow participation prize children to grow up.
Load More Replies...What happened that people have become so genuinely miserable? In the 80's & 90's I worked in public facing roles and never came across anything like the sh*t I'm reading on an increasing basis lately. People acted civilized and understood they weren't the only one in the universe who mattered. I don't even like leaving the house anymore with how awful, hostile and entitled people are. And they're all ready for confrontation and conflict.
what's with the entitlement of some people. Even if you were an employee, if you don't have someone is not in your job descripcion or requirement to know where an item your store doesn't carry is being sold.
Right, I'm sure she can Google it just like anyone else.
Load More Replies...When I was younger I worked at Baskin Robbins in a casino in Reno, Nevada. On payday I would go straight from work (still in uniform polo & apron clearly marked with logos) to Walmart for various odds and ends. Every single time I would have people asking me for help. If I knew where the thing was, I would help but the initial look when I'd say "I don't know" always amused me. I have been asked in plain clothes as well. I guess I just have that beat down by retail face.
" beat down by retail face"...girl, 🤣💀🤣 I feel this in my soul. I definitely give off some sorta "ask me to help you vibe" 🤷🏾♀️
Load More Replies...I was going to comment that one of the commenters reminded by of the llama sacking from the Monty Python credits. Then I noticed the user name.
Back in the 90's, I used to work at the local mall. Winter uniform at the time was a bright green sweatshirt with a Superman-sized chest logo that "Spencer Gifts" in pink and purple script (again, the 90's). Frequently on break I would walk down to CVS to get a soda or a snack. Their uniform consisted of a white shirt and a red vest, but I can't tell you how many times people would come up to me and ask for assistance. Thankfully this was before the Age of the Karen, so usually my "sorry, I don't work here" was met with an "oops, sorry" or a good laugh when they noticed my sweatshirt. But since I was such a frequent customer, if I knew what they were looking for I would point them in the right direction. This inevitably lead to other customers assuming I DID work there. Again, no Karen's, but I did sometimes have to pose heroically with my hands on my hips with my chest puffed out to display my Spencer's logo to convince them otherwise. The CVS employees always got a good laugh.
Would have been a great opportunity to pull a Tom Cardy. (Look up "I Don't Work Here"). "Hey! I don't work here, and if I did, I would not sell you (squat). Hey, I don't work here, but maybe I should - that way I could hide all of the things you want from you. Hey, I don't work here, and if I did, would I be wearing a dirty white single, you fool! Hey, I don't work here but maybe I should - silly me I've had the pasta all along (eff you!)"
For me as a member of management it was the other way around. Instead of a customer mistaking someone as an employee and demanding they be fired, it was HR demanding a FORMER employees application. I asked them "she worked here for a year and was paid weekly and you're just now figuring out someone hired her without obtaining an application?" "Well, we still need an app on file." "All I can say is good luck. She was gone before I even started working here. She certainly isn't going to put in an app now." It actually took more than a week for them to stop demanding I get an app from her. Even the manager that hired her had quit long before I came on the scene. I know her and next time I saw her I told her about it and she laughed and basically said they could kiss her a**.
I have made this mistake myself. Mistaken a customer for an employee. It happens. They say they don't work there, and I apologize profusely. End of story. I was dressed very nicely at a banquet once, with a name tag on, and someone asked me if I was management staff. No big deal. But now there are Karen's everywhere. Don't understand the mindset.
I was an assistant store manager for a major retailer that likes to build small stores in rural areas. After work one day, still in my black uniform with my black and yellow nametag on, I had to go to another major retailer to buy things that my store didn't sell. That retailer's primary colors are blue and white. I was pushing my cart around and picking out my items. I was over in the personal hygene section and saw a lady in a mobility cart that seemed to need something from a shelf she could not reach without standing up. Being a decent human being, I offered to get it for her, she accepted, and I placed it in her cart. Then, I moved on with my shopping. A few minutes later, I am in the pet section putting cat food in my cart. I see the same lady come onto the aisle. She asks me if I could help her on the next aisle. I say yes, and go over to see what she needed. Well, what she needed was not in stock on the main shelf, but she could see the item on one of the high shelves...
I told the lady that I couldn't reach it, and she told me to get a ladder. At this point, I told her that I didn't work at that store. She said, "Yes, you do. You helped me over there." I reponded that I am a decent person that chose to help her while doing my shopping. She still insisted that I go get a ladder. I pointed to my nametag and my company's logo while explaining, "Mam, I work for (my company), not (this store). Have a good day. I am goung to finish my shopping." I then exited the aisle while she yelled at me to go get a ladder. Apparently, her yelling attracted a manager's attention. Three aisle later, here comes the woman with a manager in tow demanding that I be fired. The manager looks at me, then at her, and back to me. He then says, "Mam, that lady is not my employee. She doesn't work here. She can't use my ladders. I can't fire her." The woman continued to insist that I did. He pointed to my nametag and then to his saying, "Mam, she works for (my company)...
Load More Replies...I've been presumed to be an employee or manager many times. If someone asks politely, I explain but still help if I can. However... I was talking to a friend working security at the entrance of a bar/restaurant one evening when an angry guy came up to me from inside and basically yelled "you're the manager! That bartender did blah blah blah! I want you to make it right!" I knew the bartender so if things went down at all like this d**k said, he'd been an absolute turd to her. After a short pause, I said, "go to the kitchen and tell Mark that Elizabeth said to make things right for you." The guy huffed off toward the kitchen. I turned around and my friend said "Elizabeth is not your name." "No it is not, nor am I even an employee here, and I'm pretty sure there's no Mark working in the kitchen so do me a solid and send him the opposite direction when he figures it out." My friend was bent over laughing when I looked back. Later learned the scenario became a bit legendary
I once got mistaken for a worker at my local Foreman Mills because I was wearing a black polo shirt. I was in high school at the time but I was short. Like I'm 5'1. So I'm tiny but this little girl came up to me scared and confused. She asked me if I could help her sister so I asked her where her sister was. She lead me to the bathroom where her mom was desperately trying to hand her other daughter tissue because her nose was bleeding. Not just a little dribble, there was a lot of blood on the floor, her shirt ,and her pants. I went right back out to grab an actual employee and she brought a rolling chair to bring the girl out of the bathroom and to the front of the store so they can get her to the car. I had blood on my pants from also helping but the girl lost so much blood , she couldn't walk straight. I never figured out what happened. I don't know if she ran into the bathroom door or fell. But I'm pretty sure her nose was broken.
I feel like you could easily have gathered that information from the title. Why click on it? Just to leave a negative comment? Some of us have nasty retail trauma and find these stories delightfully cathartic. If it's not your thing.... Don't read it??? 🙄
Load More Replies...If you don't like the content, you're welcome to post your own. Give us something positive instead of ragging on other people. Just an idea 🤷🏽♀️
Load More Replies...I don't get this behavior. I'm sure anyone can mistake a customer for a worker, sometime we're too focused on our problem/idea to notice details. But once the person tells they're not working there, why on earth insist that they do? Like I'm going to repeat it and it will becomes the truth???
Because Karens are what happens when you allow participation prize children to grow up.
Load More Replies...What happened that people have become so genuinely miserable? In the 80's & 90's I worked in public facing roles and never came across anything like the sh*t I'm reading on an increasing basis lately. People acted civilized and understood they weren't the only one in the universe who mattered. I don't even like leaving the house anymore with how awful, hostile and entitled people are. And they're all ready for confrontation and conflict.
what's with the entitlement of some people. Even if you were an employee, if you don't have someone is not in your job descripcion or requirement to know where an item your store doesn't carry is being sold.
Right, I'm sure she can Google it just like anyone else.
Load More Replies...When I was younger I worked at Baskin Robbins in a casino in Reno, Nevada. On payday I would go straight from work (still in uniform polo & apron clearly marked with logos) to Walmart for various odds and ends. Every single time I would have people asking me for help. If I knew where the thing was, I would help but the initial look when I'd say "I don't know" always amused me. I have been asked in plain clothes as well. I guess I just have that beat down by retail face.
" beat down by retail face"...girl, 🤣💀🤣 I feel this in my soul. I definitely give off some sorta "ask me to help you vibe" 🤷🏾♀️
Load More Replies...I was going to comment that one of the commenters reminded by of the llama sacking from the Monty Python credits. Then I noticed the user name.
Back in the 90's, I used to work at the local mall. Winter uniform at the time was a bright green sweatshirt with a Superman-sized chest logo that "Spencer Gifts" in pink and purple script (again, the 90's). Frequently on break I would walk down to CVS to get a soda or a snack. Their uniform consisted of a white shirt and a red vest, but I can't tell you how many times people would come up to me and ask for assistance. Thankfully this was before the Age of the Karen, so usually my "sorry, I don't work here" was met with an "oops, sorry" or a good laugh when they noticed my sweatshirt. But since I was such a frequent customer, if I knew what they were looking for I would point them in the right direction. This inevitably lead to other customers assuming I DID work there. Again, no Karen's, but I did sometimes have to pose heroically with my hands on my hips with my chest puffed out to display my Spencer's logo to convince them otherwise. The CVS employees always got a good laugh.
Would have been a great opportunity to pull a Tom Cardy. (Look up "I Don't Work Here"). "Hey! I don't work here, and if I did, I would not sell you (squat). Hey, I don't work here, but maybe I should - that way I could hide all of the things you want from you. Hey, I don't work here, and if I did, would I be wearing a dirty white single, you fool! Hey, I don't work here but maybe I should - silly me I've had the pasta all along (eff you!)"
For me as a member of management it was the other way around. Instead of a customer mistaking someone as an employee and demanding they be fired, it was HR demanding a FORMER employees application. I asked them "she worked here for a year and was paid weekly and you're just now figuring out someone hired her without obtaining an application?" "Well, we still need an app on file." "All I can say is good luck. She was gone before I even started working here. She certainly isn't going to put in an app now." It actually took more than a week for them to stop demanding I get an app from her. Even the manager that hired her had quit long before I came on the scene. I know her and next time I saw her I told her about it and she laughed and basically said they could kiss her a**.
I have made this mistake myself. Mistaken a customer for an employee. It happens. They say they don't work there, and I apologize profusely. End of story. I was dressed very nicely at a banquet once, with a name tag on, and someone asked me if I was management staff. No big deal. But now there are Karen's everywhere. Don't understand the mindset.
I was an assistant store manager for a major retailer that likes to build small stores in rural areas. After work one day, still in my black uniform with my black and yellow nametag on, I had to go to another major retailer to buy things that my store didn't sell. That retailer's primary colors are blue and white. I was pushing my cart around and picking out my items. I was over in the personal hygene section and saw a lady in a mobility cart that seemed to need something from a shelf she could not reach without standing up. Being a decent human being, I offered to get it for her, she accepted, and I placed it in her cart. Then, I moved on with my shopping. A few minutes later, I am in the pet section putting cat food in my cart. I see the same lady come onto the aisle. She asks me if I could help her on the next aisle. I say yes, and go over to see what she needed. Well, what she needed was not in stock on the main shelf, but she could see the item on one of the high shelves...
I told the lady that I couldn't reach it, and she told me to get a ladder. At this point, I told her that I didn't work at that store. She said, "Yes, you do. You helped me over there." I reponded that I am a decent person that chose to help her while doing my shopping. She still insisted that I go get a ladder. I pointed to my nametag and my company's logo while explaining, "Mam, I work for (my company), not (this store). Have a good day. I am goung to finish my shopping." I then exited the aisle while she yelled at me to go get a ladder. Apparently, her yelling attracted a manager's attention. Three aisle later, here comes the woman with a manager in tow demanding that I be fired. The manager looks at me, then at her, and back to me. He then says, "Mam, that lady is not my employee. She doesn't work here. She can't use my ladders. I can't fire her." The woman continued to insist that I did. He pointed to my nametag and then to his saying, "Mam, she works for (my company)...
Load More Replies...I've been presumed to be an employee or manager many times. If someone asks politely, I explain but still help if I can. However... I was talking to a friend working security at the entrance of a bar/restaurant one evening when an angry guy came up to me from inside and basically yelled "you're the manager! That bartender did blah blah blah! I want you to make it right!" I knew the bartender so if things went down at all like this d**k said, he'd been an absolute turd to her. After a short pause, I said, "go to the kitchen and tell Mark that Elizabeth said to make things right for you." The guy huffed off toward the kitchen. I turned around and my friend said "Elizabeth is not your name." "No it is not, nor am I even an employee here, and I'm pretty sure there's no Mark working in the kitchen so do me a solid and send him the opposite direction when he figures it out." My friend was bent over laughing when I looked back. Later learned the scenario became a bit legendary
I once got mistaken for a worker at my local Foreman Mills because I was wearing a black polo shirt. I was in high school at the time but I was short. Like I'm 5'1. So I'm tiny but this little girl came up to me scared and confused. She asked me if I could help her sister so I asked her where her sister was. She lead me to the bathroom where her mom was desperately trying to hand her other daughter tissue because her nose was bleeding. Not just a little dribble, there was a lot of blood on the floor, her shirt ,and her pants. I went right back out to grab an actual employee and she brought a rolling chair to bring the girl out of the bathroom and to the front of the store so they can get her to the car. I had blood on my pants from also helping but the girl lost so much blood , she couldn't walk straight. I never figured out what happened. I don't know if she ran into the bathroom door or fell. But I'm pretty sure her nose was broken.
I feel like you could easily have gathered that information from the title. Why click on it? Just to leave a negative comment? Some of us have nasty retail trauma and find these stories delightfully cathartic. If it's not your thing.... Don't read it??? 🙄
Load More Replies...If you don't like the content, you're welcome to post your own. Give us something positive instead of ragging on other people. Just an idea 🤷🏽♀️
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