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There are a million different ways to have a wedding these days. If the bride and  groom choose to have a simple courthouse affair while wearing casual clothes, that’s perfectly fine. And if another couple decides to have a destination wedding in another country with 100 guests, well, that might be a nightmare to plan. But they are entitled to throw the wedding of their dreams!

What brides and grooms are not entitled to, however, is treating their loved ones like trash in an attempt to have a "perfect" wedding. Below, you’ll find some screenshots of messages, posts and more  featuring engaged individuals who got called out for their selfish behavior online. Enjoy scrolling through these pics that seem almost too ridiculous to be real, and keep reading to find a conversation with wedding expert Jhona Yellin, Editor at Bespoke Bride!

#1

Vegan Bride Bans All Omnivore Guests From Wedding

Vegan Bride Bans All Omnivore Guests From Wedding

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Howl's sleeping castle
Community Member
2 years ago

My husband belongs to a vegetarian family (religious reasons). When we got married the buffet had a seperate section for vegetarians so that there is no mixing of even the utensils. And we did it for 600 people. There were zero complaints. It is possible to manage if planned properly.

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    #2

    Bridezilla Ruins Her Own Wedding. Demands Bridal Party Pay Her Cancelled Wedding

    Bridezilla Ruins Her Own Wedding. Demands Bridal Party Pay Her Cancelled Wedding

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    Ginky
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    I love how the MoH treated this a a bomb threat evacuation ‘Run - get everyone outta here’. Class.

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    #3

    Bride Cancels Professional Photographer For Cheap Photos, Regrets It And Demands Free Photos From Professional

    Bride Cancels Professional Photographer For Cheap Photos, Regrets It And Demands Free Photos From Professional

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    ADZ
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    We have a common saying here in Australia that would be a suitable reply: "get f*cked".

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    #4

    The Couple This Vendor Complained About Just Straight-Up Had An Unauthorized Reception At A Local Business Without Even Thinking About The Workers Or The Other Patrons

    The Couple This Vendor Complained About Just Straight-Up Had An Unauthorized Reception At A Local Business Without Even Thinking About The Workers Or The Other Patrons

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    Penguin Panda Pop
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    This is the wildest story so far.

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    #5

    Bride Wants To Know If It's Alright To Take Away Their Mother's Individuality

    Bride Wants To Know If It's Alright To Take Away Their Mother's Individuality

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    Caro Caro
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    The bride is the sore thumb.

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    #6

    Bride Wants Bridesmaid To Cut Her Hair

    Bride Wants Bridesmaid To Cut Her Hair

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    Sue Denham
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    YTA

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    #7

    Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" A $1,500 Each To Fund The Event

    Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" A $1,500 Each To Fund The Event

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    T Smith
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Was this the woman from Canada that wanted to "live like a Cardashian for 'just one day'"? If it is, you really should see the whole letter. It's sooooo unbelievable. Google it. You won't be disappointed. so you really need to see the whole letter.

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    #8

    Greedy A** Rude Bride. I’d Be Cancelling That Cheque Too

    Greedy A** Rude Bride. I’d Be Cancelling That Cheque Too

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    rorschach-penguin
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Please don't assist those people in reproducing.

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    #9

    I Wish I Had The Nerve To Do This!!

    I Wish I Had The Nerve To Do This!!

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    James016
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    That is one hell of a grift. Good luck getting anyone to fall for it.

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    #10

    Bride Made A Profit On Bachelorette Trip!! (Sil Drama)

    Bride Made A Profit On Bachelorette Trip!! (Sil Drama)

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    Antonia
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Please drop out. Do not put yourself on fire to keep her warm. (I just learned this comment on Reddit and I think it is fitting here)

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    #11

    Bridezilla Demands Gift From Strangers Staying In Same Hotel Because It’s….. My Dayyyy!

    Bridezilla Demands Gift From Strangers Staying In Same Hotel Because It’s….. My Dayyyy!

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    rorschach-penguin
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited)

    I simply refuse to believe that there are people like this in the world. Like, I've met narcissists, but they had some sense of how the world works.

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    #12

    Bride Thinks She Can Charge The Photographer

    Bride Thinks She Can Charge The Photographer

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    Sue Denham
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Just a wild stab in the dark here, but you wouldn't happen to be an influencer would you?

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    #13

    Bro Needs To Find A New Bride

    Bro Needs To Find A New Bride

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    I’ll have a treble thanks.
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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    #14

    This Influencer Wanted A Local Band For Free

    This Influencer Wanted A Local Band For Free

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    If she is persistent, get a restraining order pronto...

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    #15

    Bride Insecure Of Fiance's "Womanly" Teenage Daughter... Yikes

    Bride Insecure Of Fiance's "Womanly" Teenage Daughter... Yikes

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Red flag alert...he needs to rethink marrying this insane psycho.

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    #16

    I Mean... Sounds Kinda Like A Racist/Colorist Bride Here. Thoughts?

    I Mean... Sounds Kinda Like A Racist/Colorist Bride Here. Thoughts?

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    Anyone-for-tea?
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Everyone knows people with darker skin look amazing in yellow, she doesn’t want to be upstaged, and also the bride is a racist twat.

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    #17

    Bride N Groom Requests No Perfume On The Women And The Men Are Free Labour, On Top Of Paying $360 A Head

    Bride N Groom Requests No Perfume On The Women And The Men Are Free Labour, On Top Of Paying $360 A Head

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    Kylie
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Sorry I don't pay to go to weddings OR be the unpaid help.

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    #18

    I Thought This Was A Troll Post But There Were Actual Real People In The Comments Agreeing With The Bride!

    I Thought This Was A Troll Post But There Were Actual Real People In The Comments Agreeing With The Bride!

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    Downunderdude
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    How can I answer this in a way that doesn't make you sound like a disgusting cretin? Oh, I know: yes, you are wrong.

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    #19

    Bride To Be Is Furious That Bridesmaid Is Planning On Undergoing Surgery 3 Months Before The Wedding

    Bride To Be Is Furious That Bridesmaid Is Planning On Undergoing Surgery 3 Months Before The Wedding

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    This bridesmaid is going to have a dangerous and painful cancer removed from her. Oh, and she's also having some sort of medical procedure too.

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    #20

    This Couple Was Just Cheap, Cheap, Cheap

    This Couple Was Just Cheap, Cheap, Cheap

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    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Electricity is provided! That's too high-class for poor, little me!

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    #21

    From A Wedding Group, Bride Is Mad Because No One Has Sent Gifts Yet

    From A Wedding Group, Bride Is Mad Because No One Has Sent Gifts Yet

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    PeePeePooPoo
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    boughten xDDD

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    #22

    Bride Doesn't Want Fh Children Photographed

    Bride Doesn't Want Fh Children Photographed

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    Anna Ekberg
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 years ago

    Sounds like a psycho ready to explode on the daughter of future husband.

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    #23

    Bride Cancels Mua Because Mua Is Not Married And Has Kids. Bride Wants Deposit Back

    Bride Cancels Mua Because Mua Is Not Married And Has Kids. Bride Wants Deposit Back

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    Charlie the Cat
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    No

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    #24

    Bride Groups Really Are The Gift That Keeps Giving

    Bride Groups Really Are The Gift That Keeps Giving

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    You can have whatever name you want frankly, it's just a case of priorities and you can't tell him what name to use.

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    #25

    Bride Only Allows For Guests To Have 30mins To Get Ready For Her Wedding But "It's Not My Problem"

    Bride Only Allows For Guests To Have 30mins To Get Ready For Her Wedding But "It's Not My Problem"

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    Sarah Mills
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Absolutely yes

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    #26

    Bride Or Groom Wants Guests To Sit On Blankets Opposed To Chairs

    Bride Or Groom Wants Guests To Sit On Blankets Opposed To Chairs

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    Anyone-for-tea?
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited)

    “You’re sitting on the grass, so take this to avoid a wet arsė”.

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    #27

    Do Not Talk To The Bride At All

    Do Not Talk To The Bride At All

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Got some spelling and grammar issue, this master of seramony.

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    #28

    Bride Asking If This Is Too Much To Ask

    Bride Asking If This Is Too Much To Ask

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    "Within reason of course"

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    #29

    My Friend Is Charging A Fee To Attend Her Wedding

    My Friend Is Charging A Fee To Attend Her Wedding

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    Veronica Jean
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    This isn't so bad compared to the rest of the posts. I agree paying to attend a wedding is a major no no, but you always have to pay to stay overnight at a venue. Also, if a gift isn't required, most people would actually save money just paying the $65 for the reception. Maybe I'm misreading

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    #30

    This Awful Bride Wouldn't Let Their Fiancé Do A Sweet Tribute To Their Late Friend

    This Awful Bride Wouldn't Let Their Fiancé Do A Sweet Tribute To Their Late Friend

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    Polterbean
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    I kinda get where she's coming from

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    #31

    Entitled Bride Is Upset She Can't Keep Bartenders Tips

    Entitled Bride Is Upset She Can't Keep Bartenders Tips

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Wait. She seriously expected she'd get the tips people give the bartenders for doing their service job well?!? I mean, without US tpping culture, she'd habe to pay a price that includes proper wages for the bartenders.

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    #32

    Money-Grabbing Bride

    Money-Grabbing Bride

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    Bols
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    After all, who's got loose 50 nowadays

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    #33

    Future Bride Not Happy With Her Proposal

    Future Bride Not Happy With Her Proposal

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    Julie Blaylock
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    I didn’t get officially proposed to until the Valentine’s Day before our 30th wedding anniversary! We were two 18 year old kids when we got married. Didn’t even have an engagement ring and our wedding bands cost $80 together. This year we celebrate 41 years. It’s about the marriage, not the proposal.

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    #34

    Self Righteous Bride Of The Year Award Goes To

    Self Righteous Bride Of The Year Award Goes To

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    T Smith
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Maybe she caught her husband banging the babysitter but doesn't feel like YOU need to know her reasons.

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    #35

    When You Realise Halfway Through Planning That You Hate Your Bridesmaids And You’re A Horrible Person

    When You Realise Halfway Through Planning That You Hate Your Bridesmaids And You’re A Horrible Person

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    rorschach-penguin
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    You're the toxic half of the relationship with your parents, all right.

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    #36

    Bride Thinks This Cake Should Cost Less Than $200

    Bride Thinks This Cake Should Cost Less Than $200

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Well do it yourself then.

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    #37

    Bride Asking For Validation On Her Disappointment In Guests Being Cheap With Their Gifts, Expected A Minimum Gift Of Paying For Their Plate Cost

    Bride Asking For Validation On Her Disappointment In Guests Being Cheap With Their Gifts, Expected A Minimum Gift Of Paying For Their Plate Cost

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    rorschach-penguin
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    $50 isn't covering a plate?

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    #38

    Crowdfunded Wedding From Someone Who Could Get An Actual Job But Won’t

    Crowdfunded Wedding From Someone Who Could Get An Actual Job But Won’t

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    Anna Ekberg
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 years ago

    I don't like marriage but i wanna get married!!!! Confusing.... 🤷‍♀️

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    #39

    Bride Wants A Bridal Shower But Wants The Guests To Pay For It

    Bride Wants A Bridal Shower But Wants The Guests To Pay For It

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    T Smith
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    First off, the bride does not throw the bridal shower. That is supposed to be handled by a friend of the bride.

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    #40

    This Bride Was Completely Unreasonable About A Guest's Outfit

    This Bride Was Completely Unreasonable About A Guest's Outfit

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    Herringbone
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Sounds like the OP was the best-dressed person there.

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    #41

    Guests Will Have To Pay For Their Seat Because Bride And Groom Aren't Rich

    Guests Will Have To Pay For Their Seat Because Bride And Groom Aren't Rich

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Nothing wrong with this given that it is in lieu of getting a gift imo. People pay to attend destination weddings, this is paying your own way for a dinner but no additional gift expenses.

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    #42

    Another Bride Who Thinks It’s The Parents Responsibility To Pay For A Wedding

    Another Bride Who Thinks It’s The Parents Responsibility To Pay For A Wedding

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Well, there are different traditions in different cultures. It's so sad she doesn't appreciate her mother's contribution more- most of the planning work is a lot.

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    #43

    Bride Doesn’t Hire Photographer Because They Want Someone With A Larger Social Media Following

    Bride Doesn’t Hire Photographer Because They Want Someone With A Larger Social Media Following

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    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    That is so damn rude. I’d email other wedding planners and warn them just with that email as context.

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    #44

    On A Destination Wedding Group, Basically Telling Her She Need To Work For Free

    On A Destination Wedding Group, Basically Telling Her She Need To Work For Free

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    #45

    Bride Asks Girl To Be Bridesmaid Only Because She Wants An Even Number... And Then Wants To Remove Her

    Bride Asks Girl To Be Bridesmaid Only Because She Wants An Even Number... And Then Wants To Remove Her

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    I recommend looking out on the street, at bus station, train station etc for two new bridesmaids. You still achieve symmetry!

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    #46

    From A Budget Wedding Group I Am In. Got To Love Racist Brides!

    From A Budget Wedding Group I Am In. Got To Love Racist Brides!

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    Me Oh My
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    No, they're not, and you're racist.

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    #47

    The Bride Asks If It's Ok Not To Invite Friends' Husbands To Her Wedding

    The Bride Asks If It's Ok Not To Invite Friends' Husbands To Her Wedding

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    Kira Okah
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    The response btw - https://slate.com/human-interest/2024/02/plus-one-wedding-guests-rule-dear-prudence-advice.html

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    #48

    Entitled Bride Covers Nothing For Bridal Party, But Gets Upset When They Don't Cover Her Bachelorette Costs

    Entitled Bride Covers Nothing For Bridal Party, But Gets Upset When They Don't Cover Her Bachelorette Costs

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Disappointment=disillusionment, meaning there was an illusion in the beginning.

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    #49

    Bride Demands People Bring Their Own Food And Alcohol To Reception

    Bride Demands People Bring Their Own Food And Alcohol To Reception

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    Ace
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 years ago

    Not "their own food" but more of a potluck type of thing. A good way to reduce costs. Sounds like it could have been, and hopefully was, handled better than just this one communication.

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    #50

    Bride Won’t Pay For Deaf Sister’s Sign Language Interpreters

    Bride Won’t Pay For Deaf Sister’s Sign Language Interpreters

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Sure there's areason for it, but why 2 interpreters?

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    #51

    When The Bride Shows Her True Colors About Why She's Having A Wedding

    When The Bride Shows Her True Colors About Why She's Having A Wedding

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Just accept that wedding is not a business where you make money. What is a shower other than "give me give me i want!" thing. I understand it's not uncommon in the US, but to me these wedding/baby showers are just a greedy, entitled event.

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    #52

    Bride Wants To Feed Vendors Kids Meals

    Bride Wants To Feed Vendors Kids Meals

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    Ace
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 years ago

    I don't get this at all. What "Vendors" would be in attendance at the wedding reception? People doing their jobs, that they've been paid for, no. of course they wouldn't be included, unless they were also personal friends who would have been invited anyway.

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    #53

    Bride Wants To Send “You’re Not Invited To My Wedding” Messages With Save The Dates

    Bride Wants To Send “You’re Not Invited To My Wedding” Messages With Save The Dates

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Why send save-the-dates to people you don't invite?

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    #54

    Bride Tips Garbage Can On Husband And Thinks He’s The Red Flag?

    Bride Tips Garbage Can On Husband And Thinks He’s The Red Flag?

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    Community Member
    2 years ago

    Disagree with the title. I see at least two red flags waving. Dude needs to step up and do housework. Her reaction is obviously OTT (and I think she may need therapy) but... the man needs to a fair share of the chores.

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