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There are a million different ways to have a wedding these days. If the bride and  groom choose to have a simple courthouse affair while wearing casual clothes, that’s perfectly fine. And if another couple decides to have a destination wedding in another country with 100 guests, well, that might be a nightmare to plan. But they are entitled to throw the wedding of their dreams!

What brides and grooms are not entitled to, however, is treating their loved ones like trash in an attempt to have a "perfect" wedding. Below, you’ll find some screenshots of messages, posts and more  featuring engaged individuals who got called out for their selfish behavior online. Enjoy scrolling through these pics that seem almost too ridiculous to be real, and keep reading to find a conversation with wedding expert Jhona Yellin, Editor at Bespoke Bride!

#1

Vegan Bride Bans All Omnivore Guests From Wedding

Vegan Bride Bans All Omnivore Guests From Wedding

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Howl's sleeping castle
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband belongs to a vegetarian family (religious reasons). When we got married the buffet had a seperate section for vegetarians so that there is no mixing of even the utensils. And we did it for 600 people. There were zero complaints. It is possible to manage if planned properly.

Ace
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ironic isn't it? Some vegans treat it more like a religion than most religions, evangelising and insisting that all non-believers are doomed and damned. I hope these people enjoyed their solitary wedding.

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Rachel Pelz
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Missed a chance to serve vegan meal only and broaden some people's horizon.

DC
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. That would be what I'd do. I wouldn't uninvite meat eating people, just those that complain about one day - my win, if their addiction is too strong...

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Bols
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh no... So devastated...

Java Addict
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember an article on here before about this. The bride acted like she was in a cult, it was nuts.

Matthew Savestheworld
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can have all vegan food and still invite people who are not vegan. Just let them know beforehand.

Deeelite
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ugh. She had the perfect opportunity to show meat eaters how tasty and delicious vegan dishes can be. I never miss an opportunity to do so.

Sonja
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't mind a vegan wedding, but I would be relieved not to be invited to a bigot's wedding

Snazzy Smurf
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did that leave just the couple, witnesses and efficiant?

Flora Porter
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Several of the youngsters in my family went through the vegan phase. Funny how it never applies to alcohol.

Annik Perrot
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, alcohol is almost always plant-based. I can't even think of one that isn't. Can anyone? (genuinely curious)

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    #2

    Bridezilla Ruins Her Own Wedding. Demands Bridal Party Pay Her Cancelled Wedding

    Bridezilla Ruins Her Own Wedding. Demands Bridal Party Pay Her Cancelled Wedding

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    Ginky
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love how the MoH treated this a a bomb threat evacuation ‘Run - get everyone outta here’. Class.

    xolitaire
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have also demanded a refund for everything this bridezilla made you buy as part of the wedding party. Like dresses, gas money etc. She made you jump through freaking hoops to make the wedding happen, then she ruined it.

    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Get the uncle to pay, since she went to town on Da-nats (the nuts) of the bridegroom's uncle. SMH!!!

    me myself and i READ BIO AGAIN
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree l, but I think they should both pay bc I’m assuming they’re both consenting adults.

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    K. LNU
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember reading this on Reddit, or Smosh Reddit stories. Josh not only dodged a bullet but just missed the ride on that Crazy Train. Go on Reddit and look it up by the title here on BP. There was an update 6 days later!! (This happened in Jan 2024)

    Liz Mary
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really want all the juicy details now 🤣

    pug nose curly tail
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My chin is also on the floor.

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    #3

    Bride Cancels Professional Photographer For Cheap Photos, Regrets It And Demands Free Photos From Professional

    Bride Cancels Professional Photographer For Cheap Photos, Regrets It And Demands Free Photos From Professional

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    ADZ
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have a common saying here in Australia that would be a suitable reply: "get f*cked".

    Ken Beattie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah that's the non-professional reply. The professional one is "would you kindly f**k off".

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    Penguin Panda Pop
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wanted to buy a Ferrari but instead opted for a rusty, old bicycle. When the bicycle collapsed, I blamed Ferrari for making their cars too expensive.

    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, you ought to blame Ferrari for not stopping you from buying that bike. That's the way to go.

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "As far as correcting my mistakes go, it was a mistake to deal with you in the first place. A mistake I am correcting now."

    Bored something
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The only acceptable response to that which doesn't include swearing is "Bahahahaha! No."

    PHOTOBOB
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope her husband sues her friends for not stopping him from marrying rhis witch.

    Jan Rosier
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    proper answer? a generous F - U perhaps?

    ThatG
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Send her your new phone number for this arrangement which also happens to be a Comedy Club… Or the middle finger emoji. Which ever works for you.

    Jennifer Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your obligation to this woman ended when she cancelled the contract.

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    Being a bride is often associated with innocence and wholesomeness. Wearing a white dress can be symbolic of a bride’s purity, and in many cultures, it has traditionally been assumed that the bride and groom are young, perhaps even naive, individuals finally entering the next stage of adulthood by tying the knot.

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    Today, however, these beliefs seem pretty outdated. Nowadays, brides and grooms can wear whatever their hearts desire at their weddings, and there’s rarely an expectation that they need to be young and “pure.” In fact, some have gone so far in the other direction that they've turned into rude, selfish and entitled brides and grooms-to-be. And unfortunately, it seems that many people have experience with couples who seem to throw their manners out the window after getting engaged.   

    #4

    The Couple This Vendor Complained About Just Straight-Up Had An Unauthorized Reception At A Local Business Without Even Thinking About The Workers Or The Other Patrons

    The Couple This Vendor Complained About Just Straight-Up Had An Unauthorized Reception At A Local Business Without Even Thinking About The Workers Or The Other Patrons

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    Ken Beattie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure I've read that story on BP before.

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    René Sauer
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    should have called the cops. without arrangements made in advance that can surely be seen as obstruction of business or something.

    Gabriele Alfredo Pini
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have put out a message on the local FB page "Free brioche for children today" and let nature run her own course...

    BROmanicus85
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have put all the coffee machines running on the "steaming" function for an hour straight, so all their make-up and hair would get messed up and they'd leave! F**k rude people!

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bloody hell! I expect that a massive percentage of the wedding party had no idea it hadn't been booked let alone paid for! The place did well to post about it but should have refused them once they knew what was going on. Or billed Very high for the unexpected work, lost custom and trouble they were put to

    Costa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should've put inappropriate loud music on until they coughed up.

    Valerie Woods
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why book when you can raid an entire business for free?

    Granny's Thoughts
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This taking over of a cafe or other venue for a cheap option for a wedding is becoming more common. I'd call the police and have these entitled jerks removed from the property - it's probably a fire safety violation too!

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    #5

    Bride Wants To Know If It's Alright To Take Away Their Mother's Individuality

    Bride Wants To Know If It's Alright To Take Away Their Mother's Individuality

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    Sue Denham
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Yes it is wrong. Are you expecting everyone to be wearing a big white dress too? You know, so they'd match?

    Bols
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's the deal with this matching? Dressing all your party the same colours etc, why don't you love your friends and family for who they are and let them show it

    Pam
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I were that mom I would dye it neon pink or orange the day before the wedding.

    xolitaire
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you think your MOTHER is a sore thumb because of something as trivial as hair color you are the epitome of being shallow. Get over yourself, nobody cares

    Anna Ekberg
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really don't get all the people around enabling this lousy behaviour just cause they are getting married?

    S. E. in Indiana
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am so tired of these posts with these brides demanding these stupid rules. I hope she doesn't come and then the next time you really need her, she refuses your request because her hair isn't the right color. What selfish ignorant kind of a person are you?

    Kylie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If your parents are paying for your wedding I hope they decide not to. What a spoilt little princess you are. You're disgusting.

    Hodge Elmwood
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Brides don't get to demand that everyone at their wedding "match." They're guests, not props.

    Granny's Thoughts
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA here for sure. How insulting you are being.

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    #6

    Bride Wants Bridesmaid To Cut Her Hair

    Bride Wants Bridesmaid To Cut Her Hair

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    Zedrapazia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have 1.20m long hair, if someone told me to cut it for their wedding I'd cut that person out of my life instead.

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    Little Wonder
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your bridal party are not props, they are people you are supposed to love and want beside you.

    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's only hair, why ask in the first place?

    Lady Perkele
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, you are. No one has any right to decide on others persons body don't u see the irony on it? One thing is ask to have all same hairstyle, shape or hairpins. Cutting it or coloring it... horrible.

    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Grows back...takes a few years though

    Ansi
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love how the bride thinks it's a totally reasonable request. 🤦 maybe you've grown your hair for five years and she thinks it's perfectly reasonable for you to cut it so her pictures looks symmetrical and then you can just grow it out again. 🤷 Just five more years until you get your look back, but atleast she got symmetrical pictures for her wedding album.

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    Arlecchino The Knave
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What I read was: 'I'm bossing my friends around and telling them what they can and can't do. Also, I told her to cut off her hair because it's MY day. Now she's mad. AITA?' Lmao.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If the audience is going to fixed on a bridesmaid's hair length and not the bride, this wedding had much bigger issues to address.

    xolitaire
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's ONLY HAIR you could very well accept her the way she is.

    Marcellus II
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oooh children playing at marriage, what could go wrong?

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    To learn more about this bad behavior that many brides and grooms are guilty of exhibiting, we reached out to Jhona Yellin, Editor at Bespoke Bride, to hear her thoughts on the topic. First, we wanted to know if it’s expected for brides and grooms to have some level of entitlement when planning their big days.

    “Now, it's perfectly natural for couples to have a vision for their big day, to want everything just as they envision it in their minds,” Jhona told Bored Panda. “But, where do we draw the line between reasonable requests and over-the-top demands? Well, a bridezilla demanding her bridesmaids all dye their hair to match the wedding color scheme. Is it a touch eccentric? Perhaps. But is it downright unreasonable? Absolutely.”

    #7

    Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" A $1,500 Each To Fund The Event

    Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" A $1,500 Each To Fund The Event

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    T Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was this the woman from Canada that wanted to "live like a Cardashian for 'just one day'"? If it is, you really should see the whole letter. It's sooooo unbelievable. Google it. You won't be disappointed. so you really need to see the whole letter.

    Bols
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeees it was even on BP https://www.boredpanda.com/wedding-disaster-bride-asks-guests-1000-donation/

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    ThatG
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Goodbye and thanks for all the fish!

    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Just give me your f***g money for my wedding."

    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I am cutting all of you snakes off." Oh no, please don't do that!!

    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see only one snake getting cut off here and it is one that is expecting ridiculous amounts of money -_-"

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we say entitled, spoiled brat?

    Marcellus II
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's probably an MLM star because only in a Ponzi scheme this can work --- if the population doesn't increase dramatically and guest numbers stay similar then you will get invited to about as many weddings as you attend, so what you spend on gifts to others == what you receive at yours. (As some attendees never marry, you make more and they lose out.)

    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is one of the funniest posts to exist on the Internet! You're out of your mind Susan.

    Suzie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dear god truely awful people on this planet

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    #8

    Greedy A** Rude Bride. I’d Be Cancelling That Cheque Too

    Greedy A** Rude Bride. I’d Be Cancelling That Cheque Too

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    rorschach-penguin
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please don't assist those people in reproducing.

    Zedrapazia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember the whole post - they took it back and everything went down in drama because the bride found out (if I'm not confusing it with a vastly similar case).

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    SheamusFanFrom1987
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stop the payment, act like it never existed or crossed your mind. The world needs less miscreants like that so don't help them procreate. SMH!!!

    PSimms
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Post just cut off in the middle

    KieLeaHar
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Click on the link- the little name on the left underneath the post 😉

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    weatherwitch
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want to know the rest of the story 😭😭😭

    KieLeaHar
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Click on the link- the little name on the left underneath the post 😉

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    KieLeaHar
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Click on the link- the little name on the left underneath the post 😉

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    Petunia Petal
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The audacity is off the charts on this one!

    KYLE
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How is this even an AITA situation? The bride called them a-holes before even getting the gift. Although why would she have to stop payment on a check that wasn't given to the recipient? All she had to do is open it up, tell her what it was for & the amount, and simply rip it up in front of her or even better burning it with a candle if one was handy. Of course, making sure everyone knows exactly what the bride wouldn't be getting & why she wouldn't be getting it.

    Seanette Blaylock
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She needed to stop payment because the bridezilla yanked the box out of the poster's hands, thus had the check in her possession, according to the linked Reddit post.

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    WonderWoman
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Demanding wedding gifts BEFORE the wedding? What fresh he11 is this?

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even accounting for the high emotions of the day, this girl has no manners and no couth. I would be fine with just cutting her loose.

    Couragetcd
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I enjoy how OP notes that she and her husband share pettiness as a common characteristic.

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    #9

    I Wish I Had The Nerve To Do This!!

    I Wish I Had The Nerve To Do This!!

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    James016
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is one hell of a grift. Good luck getting anyone to fall for it.

    Caro Caro
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wooden spoon, dunny brush, loofah, mop, undies, champagne, hammer, beer. Got it !!

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    Rachel Pelz
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, taking one shower on your wedding day should suffice (just kidding, I know).

    Peppy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m having a wedding guest shower, all gifts welcome 💕

    Howl's sleeping castle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This happens when you have literally nothing else to do in your life. When the goal is 'wedding day' not a marriage.

    Janet Graham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahhahah, ballsy as hell! I would be tempted to get them dollhouse furniture for each room with the dollhouse as the wedding present. Have some other folks coordinate efforts and really have fun with it!

    Alexandra
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For the love of all that's good, just avoid these people like the plague.

    Marcellus II
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Surely a divorce shower is prebooked. Although by now it's more of a flood.

    Libstak
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you have to pick an item from each list or just one item overall?

    ADZ
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Each they're separate events with their own register for each.

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    Hilary Mol
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To quote Charlotte Dobre, "my flabbers are gasted." What the heck is... I mean... wuh... I... NO. Any bets on what her parents think of the multiple showers (...also, a "tool shower"??)?

    Bols
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is a difference between engagement party and wedding shower? I only knew of baby shower, didn't know wedding shower was a thing, and on top of that engagement party and bachelor's/bachelorette? And the wedding? And all of these require gifts I presume..? Money aside, ain't nobody got time for that :O

    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The wedding shower was traditionally for the bride. She would be gifted household items such as small kitchen appliances, dishes, stuff like that. The bridal shower was also traditionally just women, friends and family of the bride and groom. In the last half-century or so, bachelorette parties have become a thing, where the bridesmaids celebrate with the bride in the same idiotic ways that the groomsmen do with the groom at the bachelor party. Lately, these have gotten bigger and more stupid.

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    We also asked the expert if she had any advice for brides and grooms who have become a bit too controlling when planning their weddings. “We usually call it the bridal illusion of control,” Jhona noted. “Sure, you can try to micromanage every aspect, from the dress code to the flower arrangements, but at the end of the day, something's bound to slip through the cracks.”

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    Bride Made A Profit On Bachelorette Trip!! (Sil Drama)

    Bride Made A Profit On Bachelorette Trip!! (Sil Drama)

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    Antonia
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please drop out. Do not put yourself on fire to keep her warm. (I just learned this comment on Reddit and I think it is fitting here)

    Ken Beattie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Drop out or pop out seem to be the two choices...

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    Michael Largey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The bride is right - be more confident in yourself. And so, tell her to f**k off.

    weatherwitch
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have refused point blank to wear such a repulsive sounding dress. These styles can be lovely but they can Also be incredibly tarty. Different body shapes suit different styles of clothing. How horrible for the OP

    Bored Trash Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow that is horrible! I picked the color and told my girls to find a dress they like in that color. One of the girls even made her dress and it was beautiful!

    Couragetcd
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. I asked them to wear a black dress that they would be able to wear an antique gold bracelet with, because their bridesmaids gifts were charms bracelets with the same charm for the wedding but then some individualized ones that were meaningful to my friendship history with them. They got together and decided to wear the same shoes, which I didn't notice until they showed me at the reception

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    Jennifer Smith
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two suggestions that I hope your bride will listen to: option 1--each girl has a different style dress, but they're all the same color; option 2--different dresses, but they're in a similar color scheme, like jewel tones or pastel. I did this one for my wedding, and my girls looked great. They coordinated the colors with each other and submitted the dresses for approval before purchasing/making them

    Ni Na
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have to click on the link. There are a lot more updates and it's worth to read.

    Bored Trash Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That turned out more insane than I could have imaged. omg.

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    Ivy at Eve
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So parading as a cheap pick me up girl isn't ruining the wedding? Nor degrading OP? I'm a big girl too and I would rather.go in my birthday suit. At least I would be able to move...

    Janet Graham
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have seen support wear in the form of a ballet leotard. Alternatively, I have seen light pieces (like a bathing suit cover up) that are meant for a light wrap that would work. Both would camouflage the horrible dress and make you sorta match. Or just drop out. Or just wear what you want and leave the ball in her court!

    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A strapless halter-neck? Pretty sure those are mutually exclusive terms.

    Ge Po
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, probably means a thin piece of cloth that keeps up the centre of the front and only goes around the neck. Nothing over that shoulders an nothing covering the back above waist hight.

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    #11

    Bridezilla Demands Gift From Strangers Staying In Same Hotel Because It’s….. My Dayyyy!

    Bridezilla Demands Gift From Strangers Staying In Same Hotel Because It’s….. My Dayyyy!

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    rorschach-penguin
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I simply refuse to believe that there are people like this in the world. Like, I've met narcissists, but they had some sense of how the world works.

    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She doesn't even have an idea who's invite to her own wedding?

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She may have assumed that the OP was from the groom's side of the family.

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    Mark (it/urgh)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish you'd show the entire post, instead of about half of it and an explanation in the title.

    Hilary Mol
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Getting reeeeeally tired of how many of these stories are CUT OFF. What's up, BP? If you're going to put together something like this, could you please consider giving us **complete** content?

    Diana Pahule
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Annoyed at how many of these are cut off.

    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd give you the shawl... For $200 minimum! Take it or leave it! The entitlement of some Bridezillas... -_-"

    Bored something
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It takes a lot longer than that to knit a lace shawl.

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    #12

    Bride Thinks She Can Charge The Photographer

    Bride Thinks She Can Charge The Photographer

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    Sue Denham
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just a wild stab in the dark here, but you wouldn't happen to be an influencer would you?

    ADJ
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your autocorrect put "influencer" in place of "nobody".

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    Arlecchino The Knave
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Erm...actually...just a wild guess here(jk), but the photographers should charge you.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Charge each photographer a small rate to shoot!" Appealing, but not with a camera.

    xolitaire
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YAY! I am a photographer and would LOVE to PAY YOU to take fotos of you! NOT! NEVER!

    Suzie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bless your little uneducated heart

    ElfVibratorGlitter
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait. You're going to charge people to photograph you???! Uhh

    Marcellus II
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    1 year ago

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    I'd be willing to do the same, if somebody organises it for free for me. Nothing lost asking!

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    “Our advice? Embrace the chaos. Let go of the reins (just a tad) and allow a bit of spontaneity to seep into your special day,” the wedding expert shared. “Trust me, it'll make for a much more enjoyable experience for everyone involved.”

    “We actually wrote a piece a while back about how it's okay to tell your guests what to wear to your wedding when, with various scenarios where it's perfectly acceptable to let your guests know that there's a specific dress code,” Jhona added.

    #13

    Bro Needs To Find A New Bride

    Bro Needs To Find A New Bride

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    Diolla
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a dreadlocked person I say, f**k you Shae,

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get why brides want people to have the same identical clothes And hair cuts. It's Absurd

    Seanette Blaylock
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Perfect photos for IG, etc., are the only thing that matter, and who cares how many family/friend relationships you damage or destroy for the sake of those oh-so-precious perfect photos?

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    Ken Beattie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well she can ask, but I'm not doing it!

    Sophia L.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a spineless simp (the groom)

    Suzie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry to clarify I mean no to the cutting it off not the dreads .. they take years to grow how dare they ask that

    Wang Zhuang
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want to see the rest of the conversation

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    #14

    This Influencer Wanted A Local Band For Free

    This Influencer Wanted A Local Band For Free

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she is persistent, get a restraining order pronto...

    ADZ
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It should be legal to peg rotten fruit and eggs at influencers.

    Marcellus II
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I must remember this approach next time I go to a shop. "I'd be li-te-ral-ly willing to do a-ny-think to acquire this suit, mr taylor, ANYTHING you name it. Do your garden, tell jokes, laugh at your jokes, ... ANYTHING! Except pay, that would be silly."

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    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Hello mortgage company, I'd like to change from paying money to you every month to paying you in influence,if that's OK?'

    S. E. in Indiana
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is going on here? Are these stupid people real? I hope that no one takes her up on her offer. Pay people for the job they are doing. And if anyone is truly influenced by you then they are as dumb as you are.

    KYLE
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have to tell people you're important ... you're not.

    Veronica Jean
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The amount of red flags in this text alone...

    Pixie T
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'll do whatever I can to make that happen". Except pay real money apparently

    ️️Upvote faery️
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's HOPING he will propose and already has a wedding date? Wtf

    Ronna Black
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She…pre booked the venue and date because she hoped her bf would propose?

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    #15

    Bride Insecure Of Fiance's "Womanly" Teenage Daughter... Yikes

    Bride Insecure Of Fiance's "Womanly" Teenage Daughter... Yikes

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Red flag alert...he needs to rethink marrying this insane psycho.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only took two sentences to go from reasonable to crazy too lol

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    PSimms
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the father is still considering marrying this POS?

    Min
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My thoughts exactly!

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    Sue Denham
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No problem. Offer to have the girl's breasts surgically removed. (Pandas, please know that of course I'm kidding.)

    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure the father and daughter would looks sweet together in any photo and much, much, much better than with this lunatic miscreant. Hopefully there will be more father-daughter photos to come and none that include Bridezilla here...

    Trillian
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the father not only agreed to edit his daughter out but is now planning to marry that insecure b****? Wow.

    Snazzy Smurf
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jealous of a 17 y/o....wow! One word for Dad....NEXT!!!!!!!!!

    Max Fox
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The guy himself is a walking red flag. Who marries a woman before that woman meets your 17 year old daughter?

    Annik Perrot
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Snow-White vibes. The girl should be wary if asked to go into the forest...

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What Is this guy even doing this selfish worrying horrible specimen of a woman and not standing up for his daughter Ditch her Immediately 🙄

    Hakitosama
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "never met his daughter" oook how can you marry someone without knowing such an important part of his life ???

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    Jhona also noted that, despite what you might believe, there is hope for even the most entitled of brides and grooms. “It all boils down to one magical word: compromise. Yes, that's right – the art of give and take,” she says. “Also, we always recommend that brides and grooms prioritize together. Sit down together and prioritize what aspects of the wedding are most important to each of you.” 

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    #16

    I Mean... Sounds Kinda Like A Racist/Colorist Bride Here. Thoughts?

    I Mean... Sounds Kinda Like A Racist/Colorist Bride Here. Thoughts?

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    Anyone-for-tea?
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone knows people with darker skin look amazing in yellow, she doesn’t want to be upstaged, and also the bride is a racist twat.

    Hakitosama
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For real I've seen a photo of a black mannequin (or is it "model" ? English isn't my first language please correct me if I'm wrong) wearing a golden ball gown and I was like 😳 it was WOW

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    Zedrapazia
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a racist büllshit, people with dark skin look great in yellow! It wonderfully contrasts with the skin tone to make the color pop. Much better than in my case, I'm pale as a sheet. I look like a tube of mayonnaise when I wear yellow.

    I’ll have a treble thanks.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup not only racist but a jealous twat. She’s not a friend, f*ck her.

    Pixie T
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't true because, if she truly was a 'friend' then she would not exclude you for any reason. Least of all the colour of your skin.

    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dark/black skin looks amazing in bright colours, especially when they're almost neon, if you know what I mean.

    Janet Graham
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, be confident. I am a pale person and can't wear any shade of yellow. People with darker tones really rock in yellow. I am envious. And, it sounds like the bride is, too.

    Suzie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh dear my lovely if she's white tell her wearing white will make her look pale and incipid see how she likes it bless you yellow is a glorious colour esp against darker skin xxx

    Jasmyn JAY
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Excuse me but fck your "friend". That's it.

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    #17

    Bride N Groom Requests No Perfume On The Women And The Men Are Free Labour, On Top Of Paying $360 A Head

    Bride N Groom Requests No Perfume On The Women And The Men Are Free Labour, On Top Of Paying $360 A Head

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    Kylie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry I don't pay to go to weddings OR be the unpaid help.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean people DO pay to go to weddings, just not normally a blatant fee like that. I'd be curious whether they expected no gifts and the $360 is purely so it's a zero cost wedding, or whether they still expecting gifts and they're actually hoping to turn a profit. As for the setting up bit, *asking* if anyone is willing to help setup is fine, but demanding it? Especially after making people pay... LOL!

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we see the price list for not attending?

    Sue Denham
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "No floral colours"? So - what? - everyone should wear black?

    LadyRougarou
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Technically there are black flowers so everyone should just show up naked 🤣

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    Howl's sleeping castle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just decline. Unless you are really close to the person getting married, all this is not worth.

    Ivy at Eve
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would request no perfumes for my wedding but because my brother and me are allergic. I become short of breath and he breaks out in hives (even if someone else is wearing a hypoallergenic one). It's fun walking us two in front of a perfumery with an open door, just ask my niece.

    Tina Harnish
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are no colours that are not floral. Every colour you find, you can find a matching flower, although the shades might be different. How dumb is this bride?

    Hodge Elmwood
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, there's one I hope everyone declines to attend.

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Insanely entitled. Also people attending a wedding would be in their best clothes, who does diy in their best suit? 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    Janet Graham
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hah! We could have a nice, romantic holiday alone for that kind of money! Stay home.

    Jahl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unless Sarah brightman is going to be at the wedding, performing, I'm not paying $360 FOR A WEDDING

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    #18

    I Thought This Was A Troll Post But There Were Actual Real People In The Comments Agreeing With The Bride!

    I Thought This Was A Troll Post But There Were Actual Real People In The Comments Agreeing With The Bride!

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    Downunderdude
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How can I answer this in a way that doesn't make you sound like a disgusting cretin? Oh, I know: yes, you are wrong.

    Zedrapazia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do so many people envision their wedding from childhood on? That's what I wonder about the most. When I was a little girl I thought about dinosaurs, unicorns and robots, not weddings.

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    Penguin Panda Pop
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here's the problem with this: "I've been envisaging my wedding from (childhood)". I'm trying to be delicate here so that it doesn't come off as sexist, but this should not be a socially acceptable thing for brides to say. This future bride's inability to separate fantasy from reality is a huge problem. When I was a boy, I wanted a bear that could talk to be my friend. As an adult, I realise that a bear would more likely maul me than agree to be part of my fantasy life. For clarity, a bride having an idea of what she wants at her wedding is entirely reasonable, but that vision has to include things you did not envisage - brother-in-laws with medical conditions, weather not being what you'd hoped, whatever other million reasons could crop up. If you are celebrating love in a loving and caring family, none of these things will matter. Look forward to building a beautiful, imperfect life and stop micro-managing what everyone wears or looks like.

    Bols
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! If your childhood dream didn't change even one bit to include the person you are marrying and their dreams then it is just selfish. She is literally saying that her past dream is more important than her future husband.

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    Libstak
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wide legged pants are a thing, in a pinch you can get those loose workout pants they use for karate etc in a nice black, it does not have to be jeans, surely jeans would be more problematic?

    Kristal
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, i was just going to comment that lots of other pants come in black (or other colors). I've seen so many colors of jeans. One could also alter the pants to accommodate the larger foot

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    Kira Okah
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone with elephantiasis would find jeans to be really uncomfortable. Just find a tailor, get custom trousers.

    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jeans and slippers for everyone would make uniform.

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hint. It's also your husbands wedding... 🙄

    Arlecchino The Knave
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From what I've heard in these comments, jeans are uncomfortable with people with that condition. I personally think they are both in the wrong. The bride for over-reacting and the brother for not wanting to, for example, tailor bigger pants or wearing different pants that fit and that are more of a uniform look, instead of wearing jeans. Also, FYI to the people who will probably downvote this because of my opinion, it's happened to others, it's an opinion. Opinions can be different. Stop slamming people for it.

    Jennifer Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's more important? The wedding or the groom? If you can't answer that, don't get married.

    Hodge Elmwood
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's barely literate and also unkind. What a winner.

    Hakitosama
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What exactly is happening in those persons' mind ? "The wedding I've been envising from a child" ? Seriously who does that?

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    The wedding expert also urges couples to set realistic expectations. “Not everything will go according to plan, and that's okay! We always recommend making a wedding planning checklist, and even adding the psychological issues there,” she added with a smile.

    “And to all the friends and family members of entitled couples out there, we say this: tread carefully, but tread with love,” Jhona noted. “Listen to their concerns, offer your support, and gently guide them back to reality when necessary. After all, isn't that what love is all about?”

    #19

    Bride To Be Is Furious That Bridesmaid Is Planning On Undergoing Surgery 3 Months Before The Wedding

    Bride To Be Is Furious That Bridesmaid Is Planning On Undergoing Surgery 3 Months Before The Wedding

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This bridesmaid is going to have a dangerous and painful cancer removed from her. Oh, and she's also having some sort of medical procedure too.

    Tina Harnish
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And do you tell her when she can use a washroom , too?

    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looks like people care more about your ex-bridesmaid and likely ex-friend at this point rather than your Bridezilla behind, and rightfully so. Turning off comments because the music you are facing is blasting volumes, eh? Rightfully so too... Sheesh!!!

    Andrea Brown
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm interested to read the comments now since the moderator turned them off lol

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    #20

    This Couple Was Just Cheap, Cheap, Cheap

    This Couple Was Just Cheap, Cheap, Cheap

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    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Electricity is provided! That's too high-class for poor, little me!

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Electricity is provided but bring your own light bulbs... 💡😂😂

    Janet Graham
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had a potluck in my future-in-law's backyard. We did not have anyone from out of town. It was wonderful! It cost us less than $1000 and was perfect for us. Somehow, I don't think that they have thought this through very well.

    Matthew Savestheworld
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think what you go there is a redneck wedding

    Seanette Blaylock
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rednecks could at least find couches, trucks, sheds, etc., as far as accommodations. :)

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    Chirp
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How many people actually attended?

    #21

    From A Wedding Group, Bride Is Mad Because No One Has Sent Gifts Yet

    From A Wedding Group, Bride Is Mad Because No One Has Sent Gifts Yet

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    Zedrapazia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really reminds me of Prince Charming in Shrek 3 having issues with finding the right word to slay the ogre.

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    Nona Wolf
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope there is a dictionary listed on the gift registry.

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Expecten to be disappointeden

    ElfVibratorGlitter
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We expect with some sort of thank you. Oh thank you for getting married! Have some money.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's three months away. They're still waiting to make sure the wedding is actually going to happen :P

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No gifts received means no gifts to be returned when the groom calls this train wreck off.

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    While it’s easy to judge brides and grooms who post on Facebook expecting donations for their weddings or who expect bridesmaids to wear strapless dresses in the middle of winter, it’s important to remember how stressful planning a wedding can be. No, it certainly doesn’t have to be, and that shouldn’t be an excuse for bad behavior. But it might explain some of it. Considering that the average wedding in the United States costs around $35,000, it’s safe to assume that most couples are probably on edge about their finances while planning their big days.

    #22

    Bride Doesn't Want Fh Children Photographed

    Bride Doesn't Want Fh Children Photographed

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    Anna Ekberg
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like a psycho ready to explode on the daughter of future husband.

    Charlie the Cat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it any wonder why she is estranged from all her family.

    Emma S
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The daughter probably hates her because she is trying to remove her from her dad's life. Don't marry someone with children if you're not prepared to take on the role of steparent. Simple.

    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whyever would the groom expect his daughter be a part of his wedding? Doesn't he know it's the bride's special day? Poor, poor bride.

    Diolla
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    .... and ending that nastiness with "xxx". Tssss

    I’ll have a treble thanks.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are these creatures for real! Who the hell wants to be with them??!

    Tina Harnish
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Run from this bride. Run far. Run fast.

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    #23

    Bride Cancels Mua Because Mua Is Not Married And Has Kids. Bride Wants Deposit Back

    Bride Cancels Mua Because Mua Is Not Married And Has Kids. Bride Wants Deposit Back

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    RabidChild
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wth does her LIFESTYLE have to do with your makeup?!?

    I’ll have a treble thanks.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hell no, she’s an honest professional and you are an idiot.

    ElfVibratorGlitter
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An unmarried woman with kids can't style your hair bc that doesn't sit right and now you want to take money from here. I had no clue y'all that weddings could be like this.

    Dainty72
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do people like this EVER find anyone to marry? Get a life!

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's hard to believe that people like this actually exist! So according to this twat, every woman in the world HAS to be married with kids?

    Suzie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can you pay her compensation for having to deal with you

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's taken me Ages to work out that mua is Make Up Artist 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄😂😂 And No. Non Returnable means Exactly that... 🙄

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    #24

    Bride Groups Really Are The Gift That Keeps Giving

    Bride Groups Really Are The Gift That Keeps Giving

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can have whatever name you want frankly, it's just a case of priorities and you can't tell him what name to use.

    Zoe Vokes
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can understand this one. She wants to take his last name when they get married but months before the wedding he’s planning to change his name. She’s not being rude or hateful. She’s not saying she loves his name and not him. it’s just a surprise. Maybe she’ll keep her maiden name. Maybe she’ll take his new name and learn to love it. Some people get upset by plans changing not because they’re being a brat but because they’re on the spectrum. (I’m not saying she is but plans changing is hard for some people).

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I ever so slightly get this. She's dreamt of the wedding to him since 15? The trouble with childhood first loves is that they often feel the strongest. But it's his name for Him to chose. My late partner wanted to take on my name rather than his. This wasn't my original name which he'd known me by for decades but a family I changed to by Deed Poll two years ago. What she Should do is take on his name and he can take his granddads, sorted.... 🤷🏻‍♀️😉

    Premislaus de Colo
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The bride should leave the man be and marry someone with his current last name, as she is abviously more in love with the name than with the person

    Bec
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmmm... Have you considered having a conversation with THE PERSON YOU ARE ABOUT TO MARRY!!!

    Connie Hirsch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No reason not to change the name to the one that each of you want. Plenty of women keep their names, so changing it to the groom's family name while he changes it to another is unusual but may be the best solution.

    kath morgan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He should be concerned that she fancies his name more than him.

    Kira Okah
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are two additional pictures on the OP of the replies telling her she is an AH.

    Marcellus II
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hm, I'd call her unhinged more than AH. But then, I don't get the "I want to change my name"-thing unless you dislike yours (but then why wait to change it?).

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    Janet Graham
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You have no business getting married if you care that much about a name.

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    #25

    Bride Only Allows For Guests To Have 30mins To Get Ready For Her Wedding But "It's Not My Problem"

    Bride Only Allows For Guests To Have 30mins To Get Ready For Her Wedding But "It's Not My Problem"

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    WonderWoman
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Contact the accommodations and ask what it would cost to have a noon check-in

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That would be my first thought too. Even if they can't check into the rooms early, maybe the hotel can store luggage and check them in after the ceremony.

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    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A helicopter for wedding photos, dear Gods.... 😮

    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Damn, now I've just been reminded of that video of the bride and groom in the helicopter that crashes killing them all. I HATE helicopters.

    Andrea Brown
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I rode one once and it made me so sick. I'll never do it again

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    Wang Zhuang
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha I guess she doesn't mind a lot of people being late to her wedding

    Dainty72
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do these unreasonable brides not realise how horrible they are? Selfish MF

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    #26

    Bride Or Groom Wants Guests To Sit On Blankets Opposed To Chairs

    Bride Or Groom Wants Guests To Sit On Blankets Opposed To Chairs

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    Anyone-for-tea?
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “You’re sitting on the grass, so take this to avoid a wet arsė”.

    Zedrapazia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good one, but grass and àss would rhyme even better because of the ss.

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    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here is a blanket. Sit your a$$ down. I don't care about your comfort, because I am a clown.

    Bored something
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Peasants don't deserve a seat, you can all sit at my feet.

    Nona Wolf
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about "You can take your wedding and shove it up your a**"

    Jasmyn JAY
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because I will NOT! Be sitting in the fckn grass.

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    Hodge Elmwood
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could sit down but getting up again with bad knees would be a problem. Would have to decline that invitation.

    weatherwitch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, that's one way to keep the elderly and disabled away 😠🙄

    Lene
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok... uuhhmmm.... I suppose I'll get downvoted for this? But I really like the idea of a pinic wedding. Everybody sits on pretty blankets and each banket has a basket with drinks and glasses. Food is a buffet og picnic-friendly food -enough to ensure all guests are full! It will take place in a clearing in a forest and instead of a DJ we'll hire a folk music band doing live music and funny chain-dances. In the evening we'll have a nice bonfire and marshmellows and popcorn. Ppl wouldn't have to wear fancy clothes... just whatever they are comfortable with. I would love to attend a picnic-wedding.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah as long as people are aware that it'll be that sort of wedding in advance I don't see it as a bad thing either. Sure it's a little quirky and unusual but why not?

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    David Martin
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "For you to sit, place this the floor on...You don't get a chair, the bride is a moron"

    Jennifer Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you really going to ask your guest who took the time to be there to sit on the ground? Some may not be physically capable of doing so. Don't make Grandma sit on the grass.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they are planning it properly they'll have some folding chairs for the elderly. Hell, they may not even be inviting any oldies.

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    Tina Harnish
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People can't always sit on the ground. Some people have health problems that make it very uncomfortable. Expect to lose guests.

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    #27

    Do Not Talk To The Bride At All

    Do Not Talk To The Bride At All

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Got some spelling and grammar issue, this master of seramony.

    BROmanicus85
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Are you still attending with a plus one?"... "NO!". "So you'll be attending alone, then?" "That's a negatory! Scratch my name off the list and lose my number!"

    CA Hyde
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They can't even write..."finally head count" "seramony" "admited" wow!

    Robert Millar
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And no acceptance... Probably should have made an exception for this.

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    Ronna Black
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Def not a professional wedding coordinator. The spelling errors made my eyes squint.

    Diolla
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. All that ridiculousness with sooo many spelling errors.

    She speaks poniards
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not being allowed to wear anything other than a bob or ponytail would certainly help curtail wardrobe expenses... never been to a nudist wedding before, but I'm intrigued!

    Diana Pahule
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The spelling alone would cause me to cancel.

    Tina Harnish
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you coming? That would be a no.

    Karen Bryan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "No Acceptance" from me, thank you very much.

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    #28

    Bride Asking If This Is Too Much To Ask

    Bride Asking If This Is Too Much To Ask

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    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah that was what got me. I was a bit on the fence about this one. Right up til that last paragraph.The way they worded it makes me immediately side with the groomsmen.

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    David Martin
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do everything within reason, including my unreasonable demands

    Bored something
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they sound happy to be apart from that.

    Tina Harnish
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you going to their places of employment and explain why your wedding, one day, is more important than their jobs and future?

    Janet L
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jeepers H Crackers, all that just for the privilege of being involved with these two knobheads

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    #29

    My Friend Is Charging A Fee To Attend Her Wedding

    My Friend Is Charging A Fee To Attend Her Wedding

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    Veronica Jean
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't so bad compared to the rest of the posts. I agree paying to attend a wedding is a major no no, but you always have to pay to stay overnight at a venue. Also, if a gift isn't required, most people would actually save money just paying the $65 for the reception. Maybe I'm misreading

    Tereza Cervenakova
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of this Is somehow expected, but not directly ask for in my opinion. I would be ok paying for a hotel to attend a wedding, i would bring 50-100 $ in envelope (depending on how close i am to the couple), but being asked si openly Is kinda tacky...

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    Jennifer Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is stupid. If it's your wedding, you should pay for it. She wouldn't go to a car lot, pick out a car, and expect a random friend to pay for it, right? ... right?

    Hodge Elmwood
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are you friends with this person?

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Scottish expression-"Get tae f**k" applies in this case.

    Tina Harnish
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pay for friendship? Time people stopped abetting the entitlement.

    #30

    This Awful Bride Wouldn't Let Their Fiancé Do A Sweet Tribute To Their Late Friend

    This Awful Bride Wouldn't Let Their Fiancé Do A Sweet Tribute To Their Late Friend

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    Polterbean
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I kinda get where she's coming from

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, same here. I'd be suggesting some sort of compromise. Mentioning the lost friend in a toast or something. As Nemo suggests, maybe a photo to remember them.

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    kath morgan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is perfectly reasonable. He passed a long time ago and there are living people around them who should be there.

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why can't he just have a picture board dedicated to his friend or something? An empty chair at the head table IS kind of weird.

    K. LNU
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get his sentiment, but if seating was tight, I see her thinking too. Being military, we had the traditional MIA table dedicated to our friends that didn't make it home, only difference is we included their names. For those that don't know, military ceremonies have a missing Soldier/POW table. Small round table draped in black, empty place setting, single chair, single burning candle, red rose, etc., all in memory of those who were not here to help us celebrate. The hotel did it for not cost.

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not the bride's fault. It is fucken weird to want a place for someone who pre dates their relationship. Was it his former lover or something? Where does it stop? Do you hire an arena for all the dead great grandparents to have seats? Bizarre and not touching.

    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She says, "..I think I'd like to know how it looks from an outside perspective...". Then she "EDIT: people tend to read 3000 character posts thinking they understand a four-year relationship based on limited information, don't they?" Not the sharpest cookie in the pond, and to the groom, "think before you swim, there are plenty of other fish".

    FluffyDreg
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She asked for judgement about ONE situation nlt the whole realationship. Thats what she was saying.

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    Arlecchino The Knave
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's asking top much, IMO. Space is tight, a whole chair for someone who wouldn't be there is a lot. As a lot of people in the comments have said, a table or a photo on something like a wall or stand would suffice. But, how would I know?

    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Besides her rotten attitude, she sounds more like she wants a wedding, not a marriage.

    Lyoness
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do people post this stuff under the guise of asking if they're an AH when they only want confirmation that they're right? When I see the defensive responses it just screams "Stop telling me I'm wrong even though I asked if I was! "

    Ross “Sarcastic Dad”
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, you don't think we understand the whole relationship from your post? Bet you wouldn't say that if we had agreed with you...

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    #31

    Entitled Bride Is Upset She Can't Keep Bartenders Tips

    Entitled Bride Is Upset She Can't Keep Bartenders Tips

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait. She seriously expected she'd get the tips people give the bartenders for doing their service job well?!? I mean, without US tpping culture, she'd habe to pay a price that includes proper wages for the bartenders.

    Sheila who?
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The ONLY reason I ever bartended weddings was for tips! I charged a flat rate, but it wasn't enough for setup,tend,breakdown, which honestly could be over 16 hours! I once had a lady who was adamant she didn't want a tip jar for a southern wedding. Oh the horror of actual money at a social function! So I told her my no tip price, she didn't even flinch. Unfortunately her daughter was marrying an Italian of northern extraction. A Yankee. When they asked for the tip jar, I explained I was being paid extremely well by the MOB, and not to worry. I started getting $5,$20$$10 one $100 bill, and 2 $50 in wet beer, wine and cocktail glasses. ( I make really great cocktails like martinis and brandy Alexanders) I ended up with a soggy 3200 bucks roughly, plus my $1000 from the mother. She tried to find out, but I told her in respect of her wishes, I had just crammed the tips in a ziplock and was gonna count at home. Lol.

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    Delaney
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She's done them a favour by cancelling tho. Pretty sure she could have made them stick to the old contract they signed

    Snorkeldorf
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thinking back to receptions I've attended, and even some cocktail parties at private homes, if there's a bartender, you tip THEM. It's understood and standard procedure. The host never keeps the tips. Also, for private parties, the host typically also tips the bartender(s). What kind of people would think otherwise?

    kath morgan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a guest if I tipped I want to be damn sure it’s not going to anyone but the person I handed it to.

    muntherqia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    1st- You NEVER take someones tip. 2nd- the first contract signad is the valid one, if the new one is not signad. Therefor cancellelation fee goes back.

    WonderWoman
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    1 year ago

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    The bartender gets paid AND 25%? Bride is wrong. Bartender is wrong.

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    #32

    Money-Grabbing Bride

    Money-Grabbing Bride

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    Bols
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After all, who's got loose 50 nowadays

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "We eloped with close family." So...this is Alabama, right?

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    #33

    Future Bride Not Happy With Her Proposal

    Future Bride Not Happy With Her Proposal

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    Julie Blaylock
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn’t get officially proposed to until the Valentine’s Day before our 30th wedding anniversary! We were two 18 year old kids when we got married. Didn’t even have an engagement ring and our wedding bands cost $80 together. This year we celebrate 41 years. It’s about the marriage, not the proposal.

    Andi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Julie ----- yeah for Julie (and hubby of course) !!! that's life as it should be lived - making the best of what you have and sticking with the important stuff!!

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    Kylie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, you're not "naturally a planner" you're a control freak.

    Toby
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I proposed to my wife on a country walk. We then took a couple of selfies on my phone. Total cost: zero. Planning: minimal (I remembered to put the ring in my pocket). We are now very happily married.

    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He's not the right one...as long as she believes she's some fairy tale princess.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Groom's two proposal attempts both had the same fatal flaw - the recipient.

    Ace
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is wrong with some people? A planned proposal, what? No,.

    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't be proposing to this individual once, never mind 2 timee!

    Veronica Jean
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know how this guy proposed but just the fact that he attempted to redo it is huge. Honestly I think she needs to ask herself. Was the proposal just not up to her standard or did it show a proper red flag worthy lack of thought. If it's the former then she needs to work on herself and understand why you get married. If it's the latter, that's a legitimate concern. They should work through before getting married.

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    #34

    Self Righteous Bride Of The Year Award Goes To

    Self Righteous Bride Of The Year Award Goes To

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    T Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she caught her husband banging the babysitter but doesn't feel like YOU need to know her reasons.

    Emma S
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "My sister is going through a huge life changing event, but rather than supporting her I'm going to be self righteous and judgemental about it."

    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...or maybe she escaped abuse?

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP so strongly disapproves of her sister abruptly severing a close family relationship that she's prepared to do exactly the same thing.

    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, don’t ask her any details or how she’s feeling, just focus on yourself… 🙄

    #35

    When You Realise Halfway Through Planning That You Hate Your Bridesmaids And You’re A Horrible Person

    When You Realise Halfway Through Planning That You Hate Your Bridesmaids And You’re A Horrible Person

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    rorschach-penguin
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're the toxic half of the relationship with your parents, all right.

    Petunia Petal
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I don't have many friends" can't think why!

    marcelo D.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    for americans, remember there is no such thing as a expat, you are an inmigrant.

    Terry Tobias
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the girls "got drugged and robbed at bar" so she's not worthy to be a bridesmaid? Wow!!

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    #36

    Bride Thinks This Cake Should Cost Less Than $200

    Bride Thinks This Cake Should Cost Less Than $200

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    quentariel
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I could never pay that much for a cake (would if I had money though). But as far as wedding cakes go, this is absolutely stunning, seems professionally made and is also four tiers (so really big). Not to mention edible flowers that take ages to make. It's the quality that costs.

    Nona Wolf
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good news, Bridezilla! Just checked Amazon and discovered you can buy 100 TWINKIES for $50!! Depending on the number of guests, you could end up spending way less than your original budget. You're Welcome.

    I’ll have a treble thanks.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This b***h is going to be so disappointed with real life.

    Zach Bigalke
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depending on the specific ingredients used, $2150 seems cheap for a four-tiered cake with this level of decorative work and gold leaf. I've never made anything this intricate, and I made several wedding cakes that cost four figures when I was a baker.

    FluffyDreg
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I checked the original post and at no point was less than 200 mentioned??

    FluffyDreg
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean... I kinda think 2000$ (not 200$) is a lot. Iwould expect like 600$ or something?

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    #37

    Bride Asking For Validation On Her Disappointment In Guests Being Cheap With Their Gifts, Expected A Minimum Gift Of Paying For Their Plate Cost

    Bride Asking For Validation On Her Disappointment In Guests Being Cheap With Their Gifts, Expected A Minimum Gift Of Paying For Their Plate Cost

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    neytjie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For a wedding? Definitely not. As soon as caterers hear the word wedding the pricing gets insanely high

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gift equals mean is a reasonable guideline for what you give (if you can) but never for what you expect to get. You're not entitled to any gifts...otherwise it's the offer to buy a ticket but not an invitation. BTW $ 400 gifts?!? That greed would make me reconsider lowering my gift's value.

    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if she's aware there is currently a cost of living crisis going on.

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its better to give than to receive, unless you're a money grasping bride on the make.

    #38

    Crowdfunded Wedding From Someone Who Could Get An Actual Job But Won’t

    Crowdfunded Wedding From Someone Who Could Get An Actual Job But Won’t

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    Anna Ekberg
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't like marriage but i wanna get married!!!! Confusing.... 🤷‍♀️

    Diolla
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah. Not a fan of marriage, just loves the financial benefits of it, and loves weddings that other ppl pay for.

    I’ll have a treble thanks.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rainbow succulents ???? Think that’s another expression for grifters, or possibly *Markleisation*

    Mark (it/urgh)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't like marriage but I'm gonna get a green card so ya know 🤷🏻‍♂️

    Shark Lady
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Getting Covid and travelling, I wonder how many people they infected.

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd fart in the collection envelope as my contribution.

    #39

    Bride Wants A Bridal Shower But Wants The Guests To Pay For It

    Bride Wants A Bridal Shower But Wants The Guests To Pay For It

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    T Smith
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First off, the bride does not throw the bridal shower. That is supposed to be handled by a friend of the bride.

    Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My!
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was a kid, we'd get together in a church's rent-a-room or the hostess's living room, sit on metal folding chairs, play wedding bingo and other silly games, give the bride household gifts, eat cake and drink coffee.

    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just like every shower I've attended in my life. I'd tell someone who changed me $75 just to attend their shower to eff off!

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    #40

    This Bride Was Completely Unreasonable About A Guest's Outfit

    This Bride Was Completely Unreasonable About A Guest's Outfit

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    Herringbone
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like the OP was the best-dressed person there.

    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like OP was also more beautiful than the bride and the bride knew that.

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    Jeevesssssss
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By wearing something non-Western and arguably much more interesting you drew attention. I live in an area with a very high desi population and seeing traditional dress is a daily occurrence but it's still striking. Next time you attend a wedding I recommend you wear a bin liner with holes for your head and arms as an alternative. (Joking obviously - the bride sounds bitter, possibly racist, and your outfit sounds entirely appropriate.)

    I’ll have a treble thanks.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don’t take the blame for being fabulous, you were dressed conservatively. It’s her problem not yours.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Despite what the movie "Love Story" said, love does mean having to save your saree. For a different occasion.

    FluffyDreg
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this is the story i think it is. Bride was fine untill her MIL also an Indian wearing the same thing, complimented her on it. Then it was a problem. Might be a differentvstory about an Indian lady wearing a scree to a western wedding after approving it wuth the bride and groom though.

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    #41

    Guests Will Have To Pay For Their Seat Because Bride And Groom Aren't Rich

    Guests Will Have To Pay For Their Seat Because Bride And Groom Aren't Rich

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    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing wrong with this given that it is in lieu of getting a gift imo. People pay to attend destination weddings, this is paying your own way for a dinner but no additional gift expenses.

    Ace
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry, there is _everything_ wrong with this. If you can;t afford an extravagant wedding then don't have one. It's entirely possible to do things more cheaply, just as long as you don't do all the stupid things mentioned in other posts lie fifteen bridesmaids and 'groomsmen" all in matching outfits etc. A wedding is about two people committing to each other; simple weddings can actually be a lot more meaningful without all the trimmings.

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    RabidChild
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone thinking the people they invite should pay to attend at all, even in lieu of a gift, is delusional. Customers pay, guests don't. How anyone thinks they're entitled to a wedding they can't pay for themselves is mind blowing.

    Raphapablap
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Both of us mainly me being the bride absolutely deserve the wedding of our dreams". What even is this?

    Petunia Petal
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you don't want to spend money, either elope, don't have a big wedding or just don't get married.

    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    With less of the "we don't want to spend money on you", this wouldn't necessarily have to be bad. Keep it at a reasonable amount and luxury, and let guests know in a friendly, non-demanding way that your greatest wish is to have this wonderful wedding. How much you appreciate their being part of it, and how if they want to give you a gift, a financial contribution to the wedding reception -or the house- would be appreciated. You don't know for sure how much people are going to give, but certainly some have been taught the same guideline as I have: give about as much as you think your meal etc costs, or more (but not less).

    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One into marriages end in divorce nowadays. Sooo yeah, nah. It’s not a once-in-a-lifetime event.

    Lew k
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Less unreasonable than most of the things on here. I’ve been to several wedding where I’ve paid more than this for a hotel of tux rental (groomsman) definitely spent more than 150$ on gifts before.

    Mary Guerinot
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lew k - Yes, on GIFTS! I wouldn't pay a dime to attend someone's wedding. If they want a wedding, they should have one they can afford.

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    #42

    Another Bride Who Thinks It’s The Parents Responsibility To Pay For A Wedding

    Another Bride Who Thinks It’s The Parents Responsibility To Pay For A Wedding

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, there are different traditions in different cultures. It's so sad she doesn't appreciate her mother's contribution more- most of the planning work is a lot.

    PandaGoPanda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, you could try scaling down your wedding plans to fit within your budget...

    marcelo D.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i hope the only advice she got was "if you cannot afford a wedding, don't throw a party"

    TheBlinkingDuck
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah if her dad were alive, her mother could probably AFFORD to give more money. Dumbass

    Pixie T
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here's a crazy idea, if you can't afford a wedding then wait until you're in a better position financially. Seems ridiculous to put yourself in debt for one day, or worse expect a parent who also can't afford it to pay.

    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe her mum can’t afford it. Maybe her mum has contributed as much as she can to it but she just can’t afford it any more. If you can’t afford an expensive wedding, do you watch again.

    #43

    Bride Doesn’t Hire Photographer Because They Want Someone With A Larger Social Media Following

    Bride Doesn’t Hire Photographer Because They Want Someone With A Larger Social Media Following

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    KieLeaHar
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is so damn rude. I’d email other wedding planners and warn them just with that email as context.

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    #44

    On A Destination Wedding Group, Basically Telling Her She Need To Work For Free

    On A Destination Wedding Group, Basically Telling Her She Need To Work For Free

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    #45

    Bride Asks Girl To Be Bridesmaid Only Because She Wants An Even Number... And Then Wants To Remove Her

    Bride Asks Girl To Be Bridesmaid Only Because She Wants An Even Number... And Then Wants To Remove Her

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I recommend looking out on the street, at bus station, train station etc for two new bridesmaids. You still achieve symmetry!

    #46

    From A Budget Wedding Group I Am In. Got To Love Racist Brides!

    From A Budget Wedding Group I Am In. Got To Love Racist Brides!

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    Me Oh My
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, they're not, and you're racist.

    Mark (it/urgh)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is she racist? Some of them are terrible, mostly because they use undocumented migrants who have little to no experience; and are worked half to death. Plus most of them are Vietnamese, especially in my city.

    Arlecchino The Knave
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bro wut...? That is racist, she is nervous because they are Chinese? And so what if most of them are Vietnamese, huh? YOU actually sound racist ngl...

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    #47

    The Bride Asks If It's Ok Not To Invite Friends' Husbands To Her Wedding

    The Bride Asks If It's Ok Not To Invite Friends' Husbands To Her Wedding

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    Kira Okah
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The response btw - https://slate.com/human-interest/2024/02/plus-one-wedding-guests-rule-dear-prudence-advice.html

    Veronica Jean
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    1 year ago

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's definitely OK to let people know that you're not really their friend.

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    #48

    Entitled Bride Covers Nothing For Bridal Party, But Gets Upset When They Don't Cover Her Bachelorette Costs

    Entitled Bride Covers Nothing For Bridal Party, But Gets Upset When They Don't Cover Her Bachelorette Costs

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disappointment=disillusionment, meaning there was an illusion in the beginning.

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    #49

    Bride Demands People Bring Their Own Food And Alcohol To Reception

    Bride Demands People Bring Their Own Food And Alcohol To Reception

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    Ace
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not "their own food" but more of a potluck type of thing. A good way to reduce costs. Sounds like it could have been, and hopefully was, handled better than just this one communication.

    Jesse
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The context is not there. Maybe the couple has friends with dietary restrictions and wants to make sure everyone can eat safely. The post doesn't qualify for the list IMO.

    BROmanicus85
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It does... it truly does! Dietary restrictions don't apply when you include "bring your own booze" in the mix, and especially when she says "so we don't get doubles"! It's not about dietary restrictions but more about the "why pay for a caterer when we could try getting food for free?" kind of deal.

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    Mark (it/urgh)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bring food and alcohol. Refreshments are provided. Because you're bringing them. Bring them.

    #50

    Bride Won’t Pay For Deaf Sister’s Sign Language Interpreters

    Bride Won’t Pay For Deaf Sister’s Sign Language Interpreters

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure there's areason for it, but why 2 interpreters?

    #51

    When The Bride Shows Her True Colors About Why She's Having A Wedding

    When The Bride Shows Her True Colors About Why She's Having A Wedding

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just accept that wedding is not a business where you make money. What is a shower other than "give me give me i want!" thing. I understand it's not uncommon in the US, but to me these wedding/baby showers are just a greedy, entitled event.

    Ace
    Community Member
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, I agree. There's so much that's alien and incomprehensible about these American weddings I just find myself shaking my head in amazement at so many of these posts.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This bride objects to getting something for both when she deserves nothing for either.

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    #52

    Bride Wants To Feed Vendors Kids Meals

    Bride Wants To Feed Vendors Kids Meals

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    Ace
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get this at all. What "Vendors" would be in attendance at the wedding reception? People doing their jobs, that they've been paid for, no. of course they wouldn't be included, unless they were also personal friends who would have been invited anyway.

    Taibhse Sealgair
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We fed our two photographers. They dressed up just like guests and were all over the place. Drop in the bucket at that point.

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    Veronica Jean
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I first read that title as the bride wanted to feed the kids (belonging to the vendors) meals and thought "aww how sweet"

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    #53

    Bride Wants To Send “You’re Not Invited To My Wedding” Messages With Save The Dates

    Bride Wants To Send “You’re Not Invited To My Wedding” Messages With Save The Dates

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    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why send save-the-dates to people you don't invite?

    Kylie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously so they can still send gifts to the wedding they're not invited to? LOL Dunno.

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    Ace
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure if it's still done this way, but it used to be considered normal/acceptable to invite just close friends and family to the formal wedding meal but then have a bigger, cheaper, party in the evening for all comers. And of course the church itself would be open to anyone, invited or not.

    Fellfromthemoon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Easy. You send a nice message AFTER the wedding. Or the non-guests will find out on FB.

    #54

    Bride Tips Garbage Can On Husband And Thinks He’s The Red Flag?

    Bride Tips Garbage Can On Husband And Thinks He’s The Red Flag?

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    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disagree with the title. I see at least two red flags waving. Dude needs to step up and do housework. Her reaction is obviously OTT (and I think she may need therapy) but... the man needs to a fair share of the chores.

    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are far too early in their relationship to be getting married, considering they can't even live together in harmony. You need to take these things slow (says me that my other half moved in with me after just 3 weeks after meeting! Just celebrated our 11th anniversary last month!)

    kath morgan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone sucks here. He sounds useless and she sounds like she needs to chat with her therapist about how she copes with it.

    Rachel Pelz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Run, guy, run as fast as you can. No need to be abused.