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Do you have a quirk that makes you think you're the only one who does it? Like talking to yourself while driving. Turns out, you might not be as special as you think. One study has found that 98% of people have an internal monologue.

And if you think you're the only one who has meowing conversations with their cat, think again. According to one survey, 84% of pet owners talk to their pets as if they were fellow humans.

We seldom discuss these weird habits with someone else. Yet we're not afraid to admit to them on the internet. We've collected the best and most out-of-pocket answers from two Reddit threads where someone asked people to share the things we all do but don't talk about. Scroll down and see if you can relate to any of them, Pandas!

#1

Young man sitting on a bench outdoors, looking away thoughtfully, representing things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. Overthink social interactions immediately after saying goodbye.

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Billo66
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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh yes, also play scenarios of upcoming situations in my head. Spoiler: It never, ever goes like that. But if it did, I would be ready.

Molly Block
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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have found this to be true also. About how upcoming scenarios will end. Mine, they never have ever came out like I thought they would. Not in my 56 years, not yet. So i find myself lying to myself, about how a certain thing will definitely end, trying to turn my luck around. Anyone else do that?

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Remi (He/Him)
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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The internal cringing about it when trying to go to sleep is worse imho

sbj
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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just can't stop myself doing this

Karl der Große
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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't do this immediately after, but I wait until I need to get to sleep or focus on work.

Michael Largey
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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Underthinking during social interactions is my specialty.

sofacushionfort
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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to do this, but then began practicing gray-rocking during the interactions themselves.

Zoey Bear
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8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's life, that's what all the people say.

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    #2

    Young woman smiling and hugging a fluffy orange cat indoors, showing things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. I have meowing conversations with my cat when no one is around. Anyone else do this or am I just odd?

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    Floeckchen
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope you don't accidentially say something inappropriate to your cat

    Kim Steffen
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can't talk to your cat about catnip, who can?

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    Jessica King
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I talk to my cat - one time I meowed at her and she hissed at me. Give me a break, I am new to this language.

    SCP 4666
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    did you talk to her before her first coffee?

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    sbj
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I talk to my doggie for longer periods of time than any person I know, he understands me

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IIRC there was a study or two done on doggos and how much they "understand" us. Not in a literal "they learn English" sense, but that, when you talk to your dog regularly (and not entirely in baby-talk), your dog starts to pick up on your emotions even better than a doggo already can, and they can become very much more in tune with you. Plus, it makes them happy, as they are social critters like we are, so talking to them is a social/"pack"/family interaction!

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    Ace
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't everybody?

    CatD
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I meow at the cat, and she just gives me the LOOK.😂

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    LauraDragonWench
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always talked to my pets in their language. My dogs and I have howled at the moon together, and I converse with my three cats all the time. My little girl, Aurora, and I have long, meowed conversations. I get head butts and chin rubs at the end so I must be saying something right. Either that or I'm babbling like a kitten and given love to make up for my idiocy. 😄

    Agfox
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife & I have always talked to our cats & I think is a common practice, whether or not your significant other is with you & the cat/s at the time

    ToGo
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes but there's talking and then there's meowing.

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    Beth Wheeler
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I meow back at our cat sometimes

    Lulu Waters
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure how much higher this can really get?

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    Paul C.
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The odd people would be those who don't talk to their cats.

    SCP 4666
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially when it`s a siamese

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    #3

    Man sleeping in bed in comfortable pajamas showing things everyone does but doesn’t talk about everyday habits Simulate awesome and highly improbable situations with your imagination when you are alone or about to sleep.

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I call it Liminal Sleep. Some of us do it weather we want to or not.

    Doctor Strange
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I too imagine awesome and improbable situations before sleeping, like actually being loved.

    Syd
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right?! Gotta feel happiness at some point of the day!

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    Billo66
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lucid dreaming at will would be a good skill. I could go on those vacations I always wanted to. Certain people wouldn't exist. Paradise.

    ROSESARERED
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do it on purpose to relax, release good hormones and go to sleep. As long as I don't elaborate on the fantasy, it works

    Tabitha
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Kind of like picking the topic for a nice dream.

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    Howl's sleeping castle
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend once told me that he imagines really sad things when in toilet and cries

    urbeinghunted 25
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah - like playing for the Brisbane Broncos in front of Ben Hunt (not gonna happen bro)

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    Imaginary arguments were a pretty popular answer in both threads. Indeed, who hasn't overthunk a conversation after saying goodbye or laid in bed at 3 AM in the morning coming up with the perfect comeback they could've used that day? Psychologists actually call this 'rumination.'

    It's when we repeat entire conversations in our head and sometimes can't stop thinking about them. Why do we ruminate? These are some of the possible reasons:

    1. It's a way to control anxiety;
    2. It's how we self-soothe;
    3. It's how we prepare for similar conversations in the future.


    #4

    Man holding a cotton swab closely, illustrating one of the things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. Use Q-tips the way the instructions warn you not to.

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you have a problem with earwax, there's a thing out there I didn't know about until my 40s. Debrox. You can buy it in the pharmacy without a prescription and it is the best thing for a clogged up ear. Just buy the kit and follow the instructions. make sure you're wearing a shirt you don't care about though. It can get kind of messy when all that wax lets loose.

    Jrog
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fun fact, debrox is hydrogen peroxide and urea. So, it's bleaching agent and... pee.

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    R.C.
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't use them to clean my ears, per se. I use them to dry my ears after showering. I absolutely can NOT stand the feeling of water in my ears. It would drive me insane to just let them air dry. Can't do it.

    sbj
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same! I don't know anyone who uses them for any other reason

    LuckyL
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What else do you use them for?

    Molly Block
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They come with instructions? I've never noticed. They went right into each ear canal, and then belly button, then trash.

    Dre Mosley
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I didn't have ears, I'd never buy them.

    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here it’s called olive oil lol , or ototdex but same thing , by never ever put cotton burps in your ears ffs I’m 60 n my gran I grew up with was matron of a cottage hospital (I’m in uk ) n I learned this from a very young age , all it does it push the wax in deeper causing untold issues and a world of pain !

    Phantom Phoenix
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I solemnly swear I will never put cotton burps in my ears. Because my ear canals get stupidly itchy, I will continue to use cotton buds to provide some itch relief

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    Mimi M
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course - not for earwax, but for dryness and cleanliness after showering (or after using earplugs).

    Silberwolf
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not anymore for many years now. Every 2-3 months I pour a solution from the pharmacy in my ears and splash out excessive earwax.

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    #5

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves When you're just doing whatever, minding your own business, and suddenly you remember the absolute worst moment of your life.

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    keyboardtek
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cringe moments. The only good thing about turning 70 is that one's memory starts to forget all that stuff.

    Boo
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really hope so. I have way too many.

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    Forrest Grump
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, and I have about a hundred absolute worst moments to choose from.

    Michael Largey
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The worst moment in my life? So many choices.

    Dar Mal
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ooooooh...the Mean Reds! (That's what I call them. Opposite of the Blues!)

    Howl's sleeping castle
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whenever it happens i immediately start telling myself that it wasn't my fault and that I can shut it down by using the 'off' button

    Little Bit
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This often happens to me if I can't sleep at night. My mind insists on recalling every single embarrassing and cringey moments of my life (and there are a lot).

    Joanne Hudson
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I try to remember the name of everybody I went to Grade 1,2,3,4 with. First and last.

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    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup all the time (there is a good few of em to ) often as I’m going to sleep to pfft that dam monkey chatter 🤦‍♀️

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    #6

    Cluttered kitchen cabinet with dishes, plastic bags, and kitchen tools, showing things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. Puts lots of plastic bags in another plastic bag and keeps it under their sink.

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    Patrick H
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you need to keep this to yourself? It's practical and not embarrassing.

    Tabitha
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. Plastic grocery bags are the perfect size for small waste paper baskets. I have reusable canvas bags for groceries now, and don’t have those tiny trash cans anymore, but when I did, they were a free alternative to buying tiny garbage bags.

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    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Old habit from college. Those were my trash bags for years.

    Scott Rackley
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing is better or cheaper for small bathroom trash cans.

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    Lee Gilliland
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ours is in a holder, we use them as trashcan liners.

    setsuriseikou
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Proudly considered a national trait and a mark of an adult person here in Russia

    Laura Spring
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use plastic bags for scooping the litter boxes (3 little lunatics) and for garbage bags in my bathroom. But who doesn't?

    Iampenny
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Since single use plastic bags are becoming a thing of the past in most places, I don't do this any more, BUT, I do have a lot of fabric bags inside another fabric bag

    Kim Kermes
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Empty tissue boxes save space and can be stacked.

    Boo
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    🤦🏻‍♀️...I'm. An. Idiot!

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    Re dacted (Ace)
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to, but I live in NZ and we don't have plastic bags anymore.

    Ace
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not any more, since supermarkets are no longer allowed to give them out for free (except the little compostable veggie baggies, although I just learned last week that even they are no longer allowed in the UK).

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    If a situation or a conversation caused us a lot of stress and anxiety, we're more likely to keep repeating it in our heads. A psychologist and therapeutic life coach in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, Natalie Bernstein explains that we ruminate to prepare for similar experiences in the future.

    "Rumination can develop as a result of traumatic experiences or the false belief that repeatedly thinking about this one thing can help solve the problem. There's an idea that forcing ourselves to think about a situation will lead to a solution," she says.

    #7

    Young man sitting thoughtfully on a couch in a cozy room, illustrating things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. Have imaginary arguments between you and someone else, usually someone you dislike, and winning, embarrassing them in front of everyone.

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    Seán Hannan
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually lose those imaginary arguments.

    LauraDragonWench
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    *sigh* Me, too, no matter how strong I start off.

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    meganlacey008
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this in the shower. This is the time to fight and argue with anyone who has angered me..... Repeatedly

    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hell yes lol all the bloody time !

    Liora Reardon
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes yes yes yes yes so reaaaaal but then I find myself depressed cuz irl I lose :(

    Little Bit
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely. It's so satisfying .

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    #8

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves When getting ready to order at a restaurant, you repeat the order over and over in your head so you don't forget when it's time to put in the order. Then as soon as they ask what you'd like your mind goes blank and you have to look at the menu again to find it.

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    Phantom Phoenix
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel so understood...

    Laura Spring
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I stare blankly at the menu trying to figure out what I want, then do a panic "eenie meenie miney moe" and just go with it.

    Lee Gilliland
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's called rehearsing. Also found in the military acting, and speech giving.

    Brian Droste
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just point at the meal you want and say I want this. That should take care of the situation.

    Featherytoad
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't go out to eat very much, but when I do, I always look at the menu the night before. I always get stressed the server will come back to soon, and I'll have to make the whole table wait even longer.

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I play this game where if I can't decide what I want, I just see what comes out of my mouth. My friends have been amused at me surprising myself with that.

    Ariom Dahl
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It gets worse as you get older, too.

    Little Bit
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or they interrupt you when you're halfway through ordering and you have to start again.

    Shannimal
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guilty. Drive thrus trip me up there most

    #9

    Young man wearing casual clothing and a camo hat walking up stairs, illustrating things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. Not really knowing when or how to interact with someone walking towards you down a long hallway. I never know when its time to make eye contact and I end up staring at people like a freak.

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    Enuya
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or when you take a step to the right to avoid them and they do the same. So you take a step to the left - and they do it too. Repeat a few times. Awkward as hell.

    northernsoulgw
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At that point I always just laugh and say if you wanted to dance you should have asked 🤣

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    Re dacted (Ace)
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My thought is that if you have no intention of actually interacting with a person, then you don't acknowledge them at all.

    Ravenkbh
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just knee them in the groin. Eliminates unnecessary conversation.

    Data1001
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I solve this problem by never looking anyone in the eyes when passing in the hallway. Or on the street. (Introvert here. You make eye contact and they might actually feel it's okay to start up a conversation with you, heaven forbid, lol.)

    Anne Young
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't know for a long time that's how hookers 'choose" pimps. No, obviously not everyone is a pimp.

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    Featherytoad
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to have to walk down a hallway to get to a copier. I would just make it look like I was putting the papers in order, or I was just looking them over. You want to do this the moment your journey to the copier begins, because if you do it the moment you notice each other, it's awkward.

    Karl der Große
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're worried whether people will react to you negatively or positively, you can mutter "nice abs" over and over in a creepy voice. That way, you can be pretty sure how they'll respond.

    Jorie
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually just smile and nod. It's an impersonal acknowledgement.

    Molly Block
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hold my phone in my hand and pretend to be checking the weather or something.......thank god for iphones!

    Billo66
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just smile and nod and walk on for goodness sake that's not awkward. If it's the first time you've seen them today maybe a good morning but after that all smiles and nods.

    sbj
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this the whole day at work. First time you see someone it's easy, morning/hello but after that I sometimes have to dive quickly into a room just to avoid contact

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    Rumination in itself isn't that bad and most people do it. However, if it starts causing too much anxiety or starts veering into obsessive overthinking, it might be a sign of something more serious. Nevertheless, there are some strategies we can use to stop ruminating so much.

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    1. Ground yourself in the present moment;
    2. Allow yourself to make mistakes and be wrong;
    3. Focus on something else in the moment: call a friend, listen to some music or a podcast;
    4. Put your worries in writing;
    5. Adjust your perspective and ask yourself, "Will it matter an hour? 3 hours? A day from now?”
    6. Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses.


    #10

    Four smiling kids outdoors, enjoying a candid moment reflecting things everyone does but doesn't talk about. I have a suspicion that a lot of people regret having children but if you admitted it, people would think you're a horrible person.

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    Enuya
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My headcanon is that the loudest people demanding others to have children have the biggest regrets about becoming parents themselves. They feel miserable and think that "since they're suffering/sacrificing themselves, other people also should".

    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I certainly don’t regret having mine ! now 21-24 but I’m glad I waited till I was 35 n 39 to have them , n I also don’t judge those who have them n regret it later on some people aren’t meant to be parents but feel like they must pressure by family etc needs to stop

    Boris Long-Johnson
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The concern with waiting too long is you end up with problems either with conceiving or with the kids themselves. Down syndrome and other defects in the kids is especially terrifying as who’s going to look after them if they’re not able when you as the parent are too old/dead to do it. If you’ve got money then you can setup trusts etc but that’s not possible for all and the state often isn’t the best at it.

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    XenoMurph
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Possibly. For other people, it's just the best thing they ever did. There is no universal feeling about it. But making assumptions is unfair and untrue.

    Danish Susanne
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have come to believe that less women now wishes for children, partly because now they have a choice (in civilised countries of course) and partly because it is natural in species to have fewer offspring when they are stressed because of lack of food or perhaps because of lack of security. And as we are nearing 8 billion persons there really is no need to bring any more into the world.

    WindySwede
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "The current world population is 8,220,679,090 as of Thursday, May 1, 2025". Also it's good that women have the say in childbearing, etc etc! 👍

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    R.C.
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a woman who has never wanted children, based on the amount of social pressure I've personally experienced from family, friends and co-workers, I totally believe this. Fortunately I never doubted myself and never gave in to that pressure but I could see how a lot of people would. It seems to be ingrained in society that every woman should have this intense desire to have kids and if not then there's something wrong or broken about them.

    ExistentialSoup
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex subordinate said I needed to heal bc I didn’t like babies or want children. I still seethe about that,

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    Bacon Tentacles
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do NOT regret NOT having children, and if that makes me a horrible person...I can live with that.

    Lee Gilliland
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not me, my son is the greatest gift from the universe.

    Molly Block
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I naver had kids. Why? Because I don't like kids. Oh, what is that you say? *I* was a kid myself, you say? Annnnnnd, so, your point is???? My point is, not everyone likes kids. And I'm one of them. In fact, I go out of my way to avoid being around kids. And you know what? I'd rather admit that to the entire world, than to be one of those irresponsible women who 'got pregnant by "mistake"' and went on to have the baby, ('cause abortion is redrum), (or they think that way) than to have had a kid who I didn't like or want and had to raise. No--I was responsible, made sure I NEVER ever took a chance, I was thrice protected if you know what I mean, and I am LOVING life as a childless adult! I have more money for myself, for my husband, for my dog, my cats, for whatever I want!! No worries. No crappy diapers. NO REGRETS. AND NO SHAME in that game!!!

    AnaBanana
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably true, but then there are those of us that wanted them so badly and are enjoying every minute of it 💖

    JinxBox
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clearly writer just doesn't have kids and hopes they made the right decision. Spoiler alert I've regretted So many things but having my son -by surprise, at age 19- is something I'm grateful for Every Day ♥️

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    #11

    Young woman enjoying popcorn while watching a tablet under a blanket, highlighting things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. Saying they are busy and can't go out this weekend, but in reality they are just lying in bed watching netflix.

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    Martin
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Watching other people on a screen on Netflix etc is sometimes more enjoyable that meeting people as they can be exhausting, exasperating, stupid and just down right draining, though this can get a bit too addictive.

    Tabitha
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, and you can also change the channel or turn the TV or computer OFF and they magically change or completely disappear. Something you can’t do with people who are exhausting, exasperating, stupid and just down right draining. Unfortunately.

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    Trillian
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, i AM busy lying in bed and reading. That is something I like to do and most times I like it more than going out.

    Phantom Phoenix
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Binging Netflix requires plans. Making plans and following the plans = busy

    R.C.
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plans are plans! Lol

    Lori T Wisconsin
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately, some folks cannot afford to go out much. Inflation and stagnant wages for workers has lowered our standards of living and created a national depressed state.

    Scott Rackley
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just say, "Sorry, I'm going to lie in bed and watch Netflix"

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    #12

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves This might be slightly off-topic, but when I had a miscarriage, I realized that no one ever talks about it. Tons of women came to me saying they had one but never even mentioned it before. Like a taboo subject.

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    Enuya
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like nowadays more and more people talk about it, comparing to even 10-20 years ago. As well as talk about their other difficult issues in general. I find it uplifting, that people start to talk about their traumas and look for encouragement and help without feeling ashamed

    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This !! I had two first one at 43 second at 45 both bad ones , first was a girl she would be 17 this yr much wanted to , had my other two at 35-39 , no issues n no no one talks about it at all I hve the girls name tattoes in my arm under the large praying angel for them both , on my right arm inside forearm and she had a name , other we didn’t know the s*x so just known as the precious one , it’s a shame no one talks about it as it hurts a lot and we never forget them , I for one will talk about it Blessed be to all others that have suffered this x

    Auntriarch
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sorry to hear that my dear, talk as much as you want. And to whichever arsëhole downvoted Crystalwitch for her grammar on this occasion, will they kindly fück the fück off

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    Jaya
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having a miscarriage can be a devastating, traumatic experience. For men too, and nobody ever asks them how they are doing. Seriously, many men say the get asked all the time how their wife is holding up and nobody ever asks them how they are holding up. Just because it's not inside their body, doesn't mean that it isn't a horrible loss for them too.

    LillieMean
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And how different miscarriages are. Now let's discuss these experiences. I had a surprise miscarriage. I didn't know I was pregnant. My period came normally and my uterus was normal size on ultrasound and they had trouble finding the embryo. It had just stopped developing. I had to spend my miscarriage in the hospital because there was a chance it would have to be scraped out and the procedure would have been difficult precisely because of the small size of my uterus. I was put on fasting and IV fluids. A scary experience, but the nurses were absolutely wonderful and my husband and I got grief and trauma help. Fortunately, the pregnancy material came out medically. It's still hard to grieve and deal with something that I didn't know existed until it was miscarried. It's also made difficult by the fact that I never planned on motherhood and I'm happy without children. Apparently my body agrees.

    setsuriseikou
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All your feelings are valid, whatever they are

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    El Dee
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You think you're alone and then everyone tells you their story and you discover just how widespread this tragedy is..

    XenoMurph
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a side note. I, and my wife's family were so busy looking after her, rightly so. That I didn;t get a chance to realise I'd also lost a baby. I've never really spoken about it, even 20 years later.

    Zoey Bear
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly I know that feeling all too well. The only time we got pregnant, I lost it 2 months in. Now its too late in my life. :(

    Nadine Debard
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm really sorry Zoey, I understand the feeling, miscarried 3 times and every new pregnancy took nearly one year to begin. The point when you realise you'll have to give up the idea of having a child. The grieving is so hard. I wish you well.

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    Kim Kermes
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry. I wouldn't know what to say but I'd ask if you needed to talk, 24/7. I know the awful things that should shouldn't be said, but what can we say?

    Becca not Becky
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Asking if someone needs to talk is the best thing you can say. Offering support and compassion won't fix the grief, but it does mean the person won't be suffering alone. When I went through a miscarriage, so many people offered kind deeds, like ordering me a pizza, letting me play with their dog, giving me a hug, or just checking in. That helped so much

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    AnaBanana
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the opposite for me. My grandmothers, aunts, and several friends have had miscarriages. They have all been open about the fact and I remember some of them going through it. So I have grown up knowing how common it really is and fearing going through that. However, I know that should I go through a miscarriage, I will have the love and support of those family and friends who have already gone through it 💖

    setsuriseikou
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If anyone is interested, there is a book depicting a crisis of a couple who lost their little one. It's in French but maybe there is an English translation: Le parfum du bonheur est plus fort sous la pluie by Virginie Grimaldi.

    Multa Nocte
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you. I will see if I can find this one.

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    #13

    A woman wearing earbuds and smiling while driving a car, illustrating things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. Have conversations with themselves while driving.

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    Orysha
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only while driving?

    Mariaf
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I count myself lucky when by brain shuts up long enough so I can sleep

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    Sea Squirrel
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use to talk to other drivers. Tell them about the speed limit, the color of the traffic lights, where to find their accelerator ...they never listen.

    Robert Trebor
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I talk out things while driving. I also have an ikea elephant (Oliver Oliphant) strapped into the passenger seat. I will only start worrying about this when Oliver answers back.

    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s not odd ! It’s called having a convo with an intelligent person lol now the answering back is a problem 😂

    Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or doing any long repetitive task. I tell myself stories to keep that part of my brain going while teh rest is doing mundane BS. The wonders of the ADHD mind.

    LauraDragonWench
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sitting here on my sofa, alone except for a sleeping cat, and not only talk to myself, but I argue and yell at myself as well. I'm pretty sure I talk in my sleep, too - apparently I never shut up. Side effect of terminal loneliness, I guess. 🥴

    CatD
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I talk to the characters in the books I'm reading, and the shows I watch. Especially if they're being dúmb.

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    Anna Drever
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t but I do sing to the music on the radio. And when a car comes towards me I quickly close my mouth, then resume once they’re past me.

    Ravenkbh
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have conversations with myself while driving but I do get into knife fights.

    Zoey Bear
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually have a good convo with my puppers while driving. One of which tells me to shut up often.

    Karl der Große
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's only embarrassing if I tell myself a joke and then laugh at it.

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    #14

    Man in a white shirt picking his nose, illustrating things everyone does but doesn't talk about in daily life. Nose-picking.

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    MEB
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was a drunk man at a soirée, sitting by himself, picking his nose. Being quite drunk myself and without social inhibition, I shoutted at him to not pick so deep, he could poke an eye out. Someone then grabbed my arm and took me outside to scold me. Turns out Picker Man was the city's mayor and my boss's boss (I was a live in nanny back then). Oupsy!

    Firstname Lastname
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't care if you pick your nose in private and wash your hands. I do care if you're doing it right in front of me and flick it into the abyss.

    Verfin22
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NGL sometimes a tissue just doesn't work. But I'm not doing it in front of an audience.

    Zoey Bear
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everybody nose picks, the question is, who picks and mouths?

    Bacon Tentacles
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was digging for gold right when I scrolled this into view. Guilty.

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahahaha, I called this out on FB saying that a good 90% of people who snort regularly are definitely nose pickers. I included myself.

    HardBoiledBlonde
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    Keep your fingers out of your nose, use a tissue! Nose pickers are more likely to get Alzheimers Disease and other diseases of cognition - fact.

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    #15

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Binge watch a season of television all day.

    Sure, we might say, "oh yeah, I watched A LOT of Breaking Bad this weekend", but what we really mean is "oh yeah, I did not get off my couch except to pee and bring food to the couch, and even that was a challenge."

    Edit: Spelling. No I'm not proud, but I do have a fever of 103°...

    Edit Edit: You know what, before I posted this I was a little worried that I would have no one to relate to. I mean, I know people watch a lot of TV, but I didn't realize anyone else shared my level of commitment. It feels good to know that there are others out there, just like me, who right now are telling themselves "one more, then bed.".

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    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes with supernatural etc only it’s I’ve an evening lol not all day,

    Featherytoad
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I discovered Supernatural after the whole thing was finished. I binged that pretty much night and day. I don't work anymore, so I think I went through that in about a month.

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    AnaBanana
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like people are more likely to say they binged a show rather than watching a lot of it. And just by hearing it, I feel like most would understand that more than likely that is all that person did that day 😅🤷🏻‍♀️

    Zaach
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just recently (finally) got Netflix - the binging has me trapped

    Mimi M
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once when I wasn't feeling well, I watched all of Downton Abbey in a weekend. I think that's the only time I've done it.

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never used to be able to binge stuff as I would get bored until I found something I totally wanted to watch and now I have joined the bingers. I've also learnt to prepare for this by bringing food to the couch before starting... and I have an amazingly strong bladder, it turns out. The first thing I ever really binged was Dexter. This weekend it's probably going to be You, s3.

    Shelley Keenan
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hubby and I can't commit to a 2-hour movie, but we'll watch 12 episodes of TopChef in a row...

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a joke about this - make a 12 hour movie, nobody wants to watch that. But make that movie into 12 episodes and everyone is watching the whole thing at once.

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    whiterabbit
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't have the attention span to sit and do the same thing all day. Not only that but it depresses me to be lazy all day. Unless I'm hungover of course, then my a** doesn't move from the couch for 24 hrs.

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    #16

    Two professionals discussing things everyone does but doesn’t talk about, dressed in business attire outdoors. Judge others. So many people act self righteous about it, but you judge people without even thinking about it. It's human nature.

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    Auntriarch
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think people mean different things by judging. Judgemental can be a problem, but judicious is necessary.

    keyboardtek
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every creature at some level is evaluating others to determine their potential threat or benefit. Religious dogma and political propaganda have the primary goal to make one hate "the others" who do not follow that belief system.

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    Austzn
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The judging isn't the problem; it's a problem when it turns into mistreating others based on those biases.

    LilliVB
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's true that everyone judges. It's the way you act about it that makes the difference. The capability to be tolerant despite a bad impression of something, as long as it's not harmful to you or others, to understand that if it doesn't impact you directly or indirectly it's none of your business, to know that all human beings have flaws and that even you aren't perfect, that you can't possibly know all the circumstances that led to a specific situation or behavior. For me you can judge, actually it's really difficult not to judge, but as long as you are not self righteous, your are able to apply critical thinking and have an open mind, it's not really the biggest deal

    Tom De Paul
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Spot on. There is a reason we punish behavior not thought.

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    GalPalAl
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do catch myself doing this lots of times and remind myself that people do the same to me. I turn it into a way to see the sameness between us rather than the difference and then feel less judgy for noticing

    Karl der Große
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you think you're not judging people, then you're lying to yourself. The judgments you make are informing how you treat that person, but since you pretend that you are not judgmental, you never can reflect on the accuracy of your judgments and correct for them. In other words, unexamined prejudices are worse than examined ones.

    El Dee
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We judge others by their actions but ourselves by our intent..

    Jill Rhodry
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your knee jerk initial thoughts are your socialisation - your second thoughts are who you are as a person

    Molly Block
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a blind person, I don't judge others by how they look, but by HOW they communicate!! (I've been legally blind since day 1). I only have light perception. You can tell so much more about your surroundings when you have no eyesight to rely on. Just give it a try for an hour. Now, try every day, all day, your whole life.....LOL

    Tom De Paul
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You probably are more accurate. Although I have no idea how you will read this.

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    Tabitha
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The difference is that most of us are aware of how mean it is, so keep our judging to ourselves.

    Danish Susanne
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it is natural to judge others because of their looks. After all, that is what you know of the other person until you get to know them. The important thing is not to stop at that, but get to judge the real person for how he or she acts, not just his or her looks.

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    #17

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves When you're all alone and a really embarrassing moment from your past barges into your head. And then you start cursing at yourself out loud.

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    Karl der Große
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I say, "Stupid, stupid" to myself to try to dispel the memory. I don't always wait to be alone, though.

    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m always in my own , n yup this happens a lot lol only my dogs think I’ve lost it 😂

    Re dacted (Ace)
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    at 37, I have yet to have an embarrassing moment.

    Silberwolf
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I listen to music really loud in that moment to scare off these thoughts.

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    #18

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Ask questions you know the answer to, for the sake of continuing the conversation.

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    Child of the Stars
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this with my kids so they know I'm interested in what they're interested in.

    Beffett
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes!! Keep doing that. When my kids were little, I read somewhere that if you don’t listen to them when they’re little, they won’t want to talk to you when they’re grown. I really took that to heart, and always ALWAYS listened to them. Unless one of you is on fire, there’s nothing important enough that you can’t spare 5-10 minutes. It’s paying off now, as my college aged son wants me yo go visit him so I can meet his friends and hr can show me all around. Anytime he’s home, we have chats where we’ll talk for hours. A lot of people don’t have that with kids that age.

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    Michael Largey
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Discovering what questions they know the right answers to can be very informative about them.

    Billo66
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Say things they already know so they can say "I identify with you so much." - Henry Rollins - Liar

    Scott Rackley
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Asking questions you know they don't have the answer to

    Enuya
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ask the same question worded differently, if you spaced out and need a confirmation that you understood correctly

    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope that’s a full on waste of energy 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

    Jaya
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Conversations are rarely about actually exchanging information, but about interaction. And asking a question that you already know the answer too, still works perfectly well as interaction, as a way to let the other person feel heard, and to show you care.

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    #19

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Almost falling down when taking pants off or putting them on.

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    Julie S
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When did I start having to hold on to something to put my underwear on????

    Beth Wheeler
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It happens as you get older or have balance problems.

    Eugene the Jeep
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The big toe on my right foot catches the waist band coming up every time. The flat feet doesn't help my balance, either.

    BookFanatic
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to hop around like a demented rabbit until I found out my aunt broke her foot in 3 places doing that. Now...not so much.

    Laura Spring
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My struggle with underwear every morning.

    Robert Trebor
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    75 - a given, under and outer, both. I've invented some really funny dance steps.

    keyboardtek
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once you get old and have spinal arthritis you learn how to do everyday activities a lot different. When I am in the pool locker room, I lean my head against the wall for support when I put my pants on, because I do not want to sit my bare butt on the metal bench.

    Seán Hannan
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's just being too stupid/stubborn to realise you should sit down.

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    #20

    Woman holding coffee cup outside near glass wall, reflecting things everyone does but doesn’t talk about moments. We pretend we're looking into the shop but really we're just checking out our reflection in the shop's windows.

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    Enuya
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obviously. If you start looking into a mirror in the middle of the street, for some reason people look weirdly at you. If you're looking at shop's exhibition, no one bats an eye

    MarCon
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or pretend you are looking into the shop but really we are checking who is walking behind us

    Karl der Große
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I look OK if I know I'm going to see myself. I look like a clueless goof if I ever glimpse my reflection unexpectedly.

    sbj
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I prefer to avoid my reflection at all times

    Anne Young
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes. I do this for security purposes.

    Julie S
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No never I try and avoid seeing myself in a full length mirror or window because I look hideous. So eyes always forward.

    Eugene the Jeep
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do it to catch myself slouching as usual. Straighten up, fool!

    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well of course we are lmao I’m housebound n only leave the village to go to docs or the vets n if I do happen to get the kids to take me to Costa while we there , dint judge lmao it’s opposite our vets 😂n I don’t get out much lol I do this 😂

    #21

    Person in sporty clothes walking up stairs at night, illustrating things everyone does but doesn’t talk about in daily life. Running up the stairs when its dark, because satan is most definitely following you.

    RianonFTW , EyeEm Report

    Sarah
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not looking out the back window of a car when driving at njght on country roads with no street lights ( as a passenger)

    LauraDragonWench
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No stairs, but I still walk out of my darkened hallway quickly because of the fear of something following me, not Satan, just... something.

    Bacon Tentacles
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Satan I could deal with. He seems like a pretty decent chap. His minions, not so much...

    detective miller's hat
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still run and jump onto my bed so that I'm never standing next to it for more than a fraction of a second.

    Howl's sleeping castle
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't take pictures in dark. Thanks to certain japanese movies. I always expect to see something

    whiterabbit
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The worst is open staircases where something is definitely waiting underneath to grab your ankle.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just the reverse with me.. Religious people tell me that I'm following Satan.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm friends with Satan. It's humans I fear.

    Zaach
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Growing up I spent every summer vacation at the family cabin - walking to the outhouse, I knew there was something just outside the limits of the flashlight. One time I actually ran into a bear on the way - did not help my paranoia

    zmpbcqgm5y
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And satan has changed into human form and continues eye contact with one hand in their pocket on a 90 degree night and mumbling some incoherent rant and the only thing that you can make out the words, k**l, dismembered, throat cutting, and a late night snack!

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    #22

    Close-up of a person shaving toes with a pink razor, illustrating one of the things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. For many women, shave their toe hairs.

    thingswillgetbrightr , freepik Report

    Sue User
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Side bonus of neuropathy due to blood flow issues: no hair growth. There is a clear line on my calf . Below that, no hair.

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandad always claimed he had no hair on his legs due to all the horse riding he used to do on his farm. Never noticed if it was true though.

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    Pernille
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to, these days I just let it grow, most people are not looking at my feet anyway.

    whiterabbit
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. My BF doesn't care so why bother? The older I get the less I care about body hair in general. I don't shave anything for months at a time in the winter, I just go au naturel

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    Lazy Panda 2
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had no idea this was a thing! And I'm a woman.

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I knew it was a thing, but have never noticed any toe hair myself.

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    Austzn
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I mean, we don't want to have hairy toes in sandals now do we?

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Otherwise they get caught in your socks and it hurts.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I finally got an epilator and YTF did I waste so many years on shaving underarm, nipples (PCOS), my toes, my face... Have not ventured into the bush yet but as I am going on holiday on Monday, the clippers are coming out this weekend.

    Dre Mosley
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've witnessed a former GF doing it. It hadn't occurred to me for some reason, that toe hair was a thing on women for some reason.

    Silberwolf
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I (m) did that for some time after my ex told me I had 'Hobbit feet'.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    On another note, I was dared one time to pull/pluck a big toe hair. Now I dare you to do it.

    Katchen
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do that all the time. Now I dare you to pluck a hair from your perineum!

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    #23

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Thinks about being rich and famous, and imagines what your lifestyle would be like and how impressive it will be to everyone you know, and then forcing yourself to accept that that will probably never happen and feeling bummed out about it. For bonus bummer points you can do this while looking at expensive real estate online and mentally planning how you would furnish your awesome mansion.

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    Other user
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or being the significant other of a celeb or singer and living a life of luxury because you are arm candy

    Child of the Stars
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's me. I have no desire to be the actual celebrity, but I've imagined what it would be like to date or be the spouse of a celebrity or rich person.

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    LauraDragonWench
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can go one further: I imagine what it would be like to have infinite power (always making sure there are no repercussions, loopholes, side effects, so on, for such power - I always CMA [Cover My Åss]) and what I'd do. From basic stuff like cleaning up the planet (usually by transmuting the atoms into needed elements/items, like garbage into helium or something) to fun stuff like being able to fly or whatever.

    Julie S
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think about being rich but not famous.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hell, ever since I was a teenager, I have been planning what I would do with a fortune if I won the lottery or some unknown rich relative died and I was their only heir. I can pass a good amount of time just figuring how I’d divide it all up. Over the years, the people and organizations I’d give part of it to have changed. A lot. However, some people/organizations have been on the list from the start, and will continue to be.

    AnaBanana
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't even imagine being rich just financially stable with a nice house..

    Enuya
    Community Member
    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mansion? I don't need or want a mansion. Or even a house. Too many formalities. I'd be happy with a 2-room flat. But yes, all too true

    Little Bit
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't dream about being famous but I do dream about being rich and living in a big house and not having to worry about hills. Or I just dream about living in a house that's not falling apart around me because I can't afford to do anything about it.

    SouthernGal
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Daydream about how I would spend money if I won the lottery. Would definitely share some with family and friends. Many charitable donations also.

    RomanceRadish
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least it's a good mental floorplan to have in your head, as a setting for the next fiction book you read!

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    #24

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Popping blackheads and zits. So satisfying.

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    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guilty as charged. I was Dr Pimple Popper at school. It's the battle of good over evil

    Tele Avision
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had three different girlfriends in my 20s, who, whenever I was in the "Doghouse" I'd pay my bail with time on my back, them squeezing blackheads.

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    Re dacted (Ace)
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you don't pop them too early and you take care of your skin afterwards, they don't scar. Never understood why we're told not to.

    Trillian
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really hope they mean "popping YOUR OWN blackheads and zits" otherwise EWWWWWWWW NNNNNOOOOOO

    Apatheist Account2
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Popping them on one's partner can be a good bonding experience.

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    Anne Young
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh God. I have a skin picking disorder. My skin isn't terrible btw. I like when it's all smooth.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    dermatillomania. I only know the name because I have trichotillomania - i.e. I pluck out hair.

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    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was lucky enough to escape acne - good genes mean very few spots, but I know people do love it. There's a disgusting show called something like Dr Pimple Popper or something and I am already feeling ill just thinking about it.

    Data1001
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While reading this article, I just discovered I had a pimple inside my ear (which I think I've only had a few times in my life). I went to try to pop it, and it hurt like hell, so now I'm just trying not to think about how much I want to pop it.

    Not-a-Clue (she/her)
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be careful. I had a horrible boil in my ear one time which gave me a nasty ear infection when it burst. I had to have several courses of antibiotics before it finally cleared.

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    Zaach
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am old and seldom get to pop them anymore, but I keep looking

    Huddo's sister
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always been too scared of getting scars (though ordinarily I like scars) because my uncle had scars from his bad acne and popping pimples when he was a teen.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope never ! not guilty it scars !

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    #25

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Sniffing our pits to check whether we stink or not.

    tritter211 Report

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How else. Sniffing because you like it, now that's a confession.

    Tom De Paul
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or clothing you've already worn (including underwear) to see if you can wear it again.

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    Shark Lady
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my cats loves stinky armpits, she will stick her nose in and then start licking, she's a strange little kitty.

    CatD
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Our boy cats will do that sometimes, but only with men. Hórmones probably.

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    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty sure we all do this, sometimes publicly ("is it me that smells?"). I now have underarm in my drawer at work too.

    Shelley Keenan
    Community Member
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mmm and sometimes we DO stink and it's somehow fabulous.

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    #26

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Imagining that you have superpowers.

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    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of us don't need to imagine...

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagining I have superpowers is my only superpower.

    Enuya
    Community Member
    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trying to evoke your superpowers when you're bored. I can't count how many times I tried to make a paper clip move with my eyes during boring classes or meetings

    Data1001
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ever since I saw Star Wars as a kid, I've tried to use The Force. Haven't been successful so far, but that doesn't mean it won't work one day.

    Danish Susanne
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my favorite day dreams is simply grabbing people like Putin and place them at the court in Haag.

    Donna Peluda
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd prefer the bottom of my garden 6 feet under. With Naranjito next to him

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    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t need to imagine I already do , well not super per say but as a white witch I have the gift (curse of empathy) n second sight , sixth sense , plus I can spot a wrong us for a mile off ! no imagination needed lol

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm guessing you didn't always have the power of spotting a wrong'un 😂

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    #27

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves When I'm walking on a path by a road I start to worry about how I'm walking and if I look like an idiot to everyone.

    Madwolf28 Report

    wowbagger
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate walking in a crosswalk across a busy street, with all those cars facing me.

    Karl
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I took a tab of acid one night and made the mistake of marvelling at how walking is a wonderfully complex action requiring intricate balance and counterbalance of your body weight. Of course I fell over on my a**e after overthinking it.

    Laura Spring
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Truth. I also turn into a spastic idiot when there's a car coming.

    Helena
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I very much have a hitch in my giddyup. Just walking along I look like I'm stumbling

    Howl's sleeping castle
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wearing sunglasses used to be embarrassing for me for no reason. I felt that everyone is talking about me and laughing

    Child of the Stars
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Interesting. I have the opposite feeling. It gives me a feeling of anonymity and lets me relax a little. It was the same with wearing a mask during the pandemic. I've even considered getting a few flesh colored masks to wear now just to ease the social anxiety a little.

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    Nadine Debard
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And then you even forget how to walk properly and walk like an idiot

    Patrick H
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if I look like an idiot no matter where I'm at.

    #28

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Think about what you're going to say before you even say it, then you stutter for some reason even though you already knew what you were going to say.

    cali_man42 Report

    GalPalAl
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or sometime conflate two words together and wind up saying something that makes no sense

    SouthernGal
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s how I invented to word sneet - now used by friends. Snow + sleet = sneet.

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    Anna Drever
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I go to the doc I’ve rehearsed what I want to say so many times but when I actually open my mouth it’s gibberish. 😬

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have speech dyslexia in the form of spoonerism... it can be fun, it cam be embarrassing.

    Anne Young
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me it's that. I have a really hard time actually verbalizing. It's not an anxiety thing.

    Little Bit
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Often I know exactly what I want to say in my head but I can't say it quickly enough and it just comes out as gibberish.

    #29

    Young woman with a yellow towel on her head looking thoughtful and anxious, reflecting on things everyone does but doesn't talk about. Girls don't talk about the difficulties of shaving pubic hair. I'm 20 and I still haven't been able to do it without hurting myself, but I can't seem to bring myself to ask anyone about it because no one ever talks about it.

    anon , Dragana_Gordic Report

    Other user
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Use one of those clippers that men shave their 5 o'clock shadows with. Works wonders and you will never have nicks

    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you get razor rash at all? (Sorry if that's a little too personal!)

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    Beth Wheeler
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never understood why anybody would even want to shave their c****h. When you buy a bathing suit get 1 that covers people!

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because some of us have 80s style bushes and I don't want to wear a costume from the 50s, thanks.

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    keyboardtek
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another stupid thing women do because they think it is necessary to get a guy. What sadist started this trend?

    Happy Horse Girl
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some women do it because they feel more comfortable that way. Yes, some feel pressured into it, but it's like a lot of other feminine things, like wearing makeup, or dressing up; we do it for our own enjoyment. It feels nice to look in the mirror and feel a bit extra special sometimes.

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    nottheactualphoto
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never understood the appeal of shaving pubic hair.

    Jill Rhodry
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Use moisturiser or conditioner, shave in the direction of growth - generally down - and only shave each area once - no shaver rash, no ingrowns

    Kim Kermes
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't do it! Public hair has protective purposes. Trim a bit for neatness, but please don't shave. Anyone who expects it should first shave his area, all the way back.

    Enuya
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes it's a matter of personal preferences, not expectations from your partner.

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    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Probably best not to do it then. Or get him to do it for you, he's probably had more practice at shaving .

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. I do the trimming for her. I don't need a mirror. She likes a nice fade. :P Plus I was familiar with the territory. She does return the favor though. Although I don't have a preferred hairstyle, I'm happy she's moseying around down there. Tickles though.

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    A girl
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Trim the hedges. Full shave, for me, means infected hair folicals. How attractive and comfortable that is /s

    Sea Squirrel
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it's sad that women (including me) have negative feelings about the hair on their legs, armpits, etc. It's natural. Why is it seen that way? Shouldn't shaving or not be a choice you can make without being judged by others or yourself?

    AnaBanana
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For me it's personal. I sweat more if I don't shave my armpits. I love my legs feeling smooth, and I only shave my nether regions because (tmi) during my period it can get quite messy- I switch between tampons and pads. It's always been my choice and nobody else's to shave 🤷🏻‍♀️

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    #30

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Talk to themselves. More specifically talk to themselves in the shower and win past arguments.

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    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone as says they don’t is lying !

    whiterabbit
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My BF, who is my best friend and we openly tell each other anything and everything, claims he doesn't talk to himself. As crazy as that seems, especially considering I talk to myself and cats constantly, I believe him. He also does not dream. I like to tell him he's a robot.

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course I talk to myself. Sometimes a guy needs expert advice.

    superfluous
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I DO NOT talk to myself in the shower. At all. No matter what Crystalwitch60 says! (Also, very rude to call me a liar w/o knowing me!)

    Anne Young
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well sometimes I'm the most interesting person there.

    #31

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Imagining yourselves performing live in front of a huge crowd when listening to songs.

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    Enuya
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretending that mop is a microphone or guitar during cleaning

    Re dacted (Ace)
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, no. I have anxiety, that would be a nightmare.

    #32

    Three women in red tops looking thoughtfully in different directions, illustrating things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. Judge someone based on race or ethnicity. Even if the judgment is pretty trivial or benign, or a stereotype that you joke about but don't take seriously, it's something we all do all the time.

    anon , freepik Report

    Howl's sleeping castle
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am an Indian and seriously being racist, classiest, casteist is in our blood. It just happens. Before I can stop myself, some idiotic comment crosses my mind. Sometimes i have to tell myself not to be this person

    BookFanatic
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a sign of progress, actually! Your first knee-jerk response/comment reflects how you were raised. The fact that you remind yourself not to be like that reflects on the person you're becoming.

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    Child of the Stars
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And sometimes we're not even aware of our own biases. I didn't realize that I was in the trap of judging a certain group as customers until a friend of mine who is part of that group was telling me of some of his experiences with racism. I'm aware of it now and try to shut down the thoughts when they come, but it takes practice and awareness.

    Enuya
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Crowd of "I absolutely never do it" in the comments in 3... 2... 1...

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone does. Humans by nature are tribal. Anything not conforming with what is expected of your "tribe" is judged. You can't help it. I can't help it. All you can do is recognize it for what it is, and don't act on it.

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    arthbach
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I realised I had certain academic expectations of black people. The area where I grew up was about 99% white, with a few Indian people in the mix. It wasn't until I was 12 I met a black person, and it wasn't until I was in university that I had black friends. - - - All of the black people I know personally are either children, or have at a degree. Half of them have a Masters, MBA or Doctorate.

    El Dee
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think those of us who feel we don't do that are kidding ourselves. We make small differences without thinking. They may, in fact, be positive but, all the same, it is treating someone differently..

    Eugene the Jeep
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ethnicity often goes with culture so we expect certain people to have those customs, especially first or second generation immigrants. If we're wrong, it's really not a big deal. Don't kick yourself over it.

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll admit that spanish chicks in their early 20s annoy the s**t out of me - I have lived with 3 which is why I judge them. I know it's dismissive and they probably are great but just not as housemates for me.

    Bloobee bloobee bloo bloo bloo
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have biracial children so I strive to not do or say anything that may be taken as racist but sometimes thoughts pop into my head in reaction to something I see or hear and I immediately hate myself for it. Even if people don’t personally experience racism it is all around them and has become a natural thought process for all people. And anyone who says different is 100% lying

    Mimi M
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Humans are tribal. Whatever our tribe is. Of course we should treat all people decently and with respect, but categorizing and preferring people in our 'tribe' (whatever that might be) is just something humans do - it's a social and survival mechanism.

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    #33

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Imagine how other people think of you. I try very hard not to live in other peoples heads too much, but sometimes it's really difficult.

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    BookFanatic
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What other people think of us is none of our business. I read that somewhere--probably on BP!

    Julie S
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What you think of me is none of my business.

    Joanne Hudson
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can't fix it, don't worry about it.

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    #34

    Young man sitting in a chair looking thoughtful indoors, reflecting on things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. Daydream about life without our spouse or significant other. Doesn't mean we're not happy, just pondering all scenarios.

    whistledick , freepik Report

    Laura Spring
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my head I live in an isolated cabin in the woods with no one near. Once a month I drive into town for supplies.

    keyboardtek
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As musician, if I was divorced I would be like my one musician friend who filled up his 3000 square foot house with music equipment!

    Shannimal
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think about how I could ever move on in life if something happened to him. Emotionally, I don't know if I ever could. Scary and sad.

    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No need to I’m divorced n just me n my amazing kids lol it’s bliss

    Kat Alison
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d move to the PNW and have Maine C o o n cats for the rest of my life.

    #35

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Inspect your droppings after a long bowel movement. Make sure no critters/ corn flakes squeezed their way out.
    Edit: I have to make sure them d**n critters stay where they belong!

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    Crystalwitch60
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It should be a daily thing ! checking for specks of blood etc can save your life it’s not gross , I do it , having had a scare two yrs ago , I’m even more aware now ,

    Bec
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've just received a diagnosis of ulcerative colitis. Prior to getting the colonoscopy and diagnosis I had 6 months of issues that we don't talk about in polite society. I'm analysing every trip as I try to get into remission and gather data for the next follow up.

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    Re dacted (Ace)
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's good to check. Sometimes illness shows in our poop, and we wouldn't know otherwise.

    BookFanatic
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a healthy thing to do. Without going into TMI territory...a friend's dad went to the doctor because something was off and that's how he ultimately got diagnosed with colon cancer.

    Phantom Phoenix
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Corn kernels. How? I don't remember having corn recently... And I chew my food, Dag Nabbit! Where are these whole kernels coming from?

    A girl
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok. Everybody knows about corn. But this made me laugh more because yesterday, doing dishes, there was one single kernal of corn in the drain strainer. I do not have any recollection of having corn recently. Where did it come from? How had I not seen it until that moment?. I hand wash dishes every day. Is my husband messing with me? Corn ghosts?

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    Costa
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't check my poos but I do have names for different types of fart.

    The Dave
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Navy Seal, butt barker, careless whisper

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    Uncle Schmickle
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As commented on below, it's actually a good thing to do.

    Verfin22
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a bowel disease and I check to make sure it's "normal". Not knowing could be harmful.

    Tom De Paul
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a matter of assuring good health.

    Zaach
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    German toilets have a shelf where everything lands so they can look

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Stolen from a mate: ever eaten some corn and thought "see you later?"

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    #36

    Two women happily walking and carrying shopping bags, illustrating things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. Saying we support small business but then only buy big brands ....

    justindean90 , milanmarkovic Report

    Enuya
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sadly, it's often a matter of price. I "support" local small businesses in my country via sharing their posts, telling other people about them and encouraging others to buy from them. And I buy from local producents if I can and have not-repetitive purchases (i.e. if I need a new backpack I prefer to spend more and buy something local than go to market). But the sad truth is I don't have enough money to buy from small companies in daily life, as their prices often are much higher than the ones in chain stores. If I have to choose between paying my bills and doing all my daily groceries in small shops, unfortunately I have to choose bills

    Deborah B
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ask yourself what shops you want to have locally, and shop there. Not your whole grocery shop, but one or two items. Paying $1 extra once or twice a week is more achievable, and if enough people do that, you can keep the shop going.

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    Austzn
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not exclusively but I do try to lean towards smaller businesses. Just today I bought some home-made salsa from a traveling salsa-salesperson. Problem is everything isn't available like that delicious salsa that comes to your workplace.🤤

    Tom De Paul
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 63, disabled, and no longer drive. I buy everything I need (or want) from Amazon including Amazon Fresh, eBay, Walmart, and my local Kroger affiliate (King Soopers). I do not apologize for it.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in Walthamstow - the market is massive and allows me to not have to rely on big shops, including lots of food groceries.

    #37

    Young man with headphones lost in thought, representing things everyone does but doesn’t talk about. Worry about how loud you're breathing when wearing headphones.

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    Auntriarch
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, not breathing. Farting, yes.

    Billo66
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read a story of a deaf student who asked "Why are you all laughing?" His mates said You just farted! He turned red and said "You guys can hear those?!?" haha

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    Re dacted (Ace)
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, I only worry if people can hear what I'm listening to because I like max voluming like a psycho.

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    #38

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Hold your breath when you pass someone who looks like they smell bad.

    Or in my case, inhale deeply to justify my assumption.

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    Karl der Große
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I walk by someone while smelling something bad, I always sort of judge that person, even if the smell is from a nearby trash bin or something. I will try to stop doing this.

    Little Bit
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes they don't have to look ɓad to smell bad. A few weeks ago I was in my local grocery store and I was stood behind a gentleman who was very smartly dressed but smelled so bad that I had to put my hand over my mouth because I thought I was going to be sick.

    Freya Fluharty
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    3 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do that when the someone approaching me is smoking!

    Howl's sleeping castle
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG 😂 I do this. And once I almost died because there was a group entering through my office main door and i was leaving. My manager was aware of my habit and could not stop laughing

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    #39

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Enjoying the smell of your own fart and enjoying it even more when other people are disgusted.

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    Laura Spring
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I farted in the shower the other day and almost passed out. I had to open the shower curtain and hang my head out.

    Zaach
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is not that I think my s**t don't stink - it is that I like the way my s**t stinks

    KatSaidWhat
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have IBS so farts can be dangerous. I can fart several times, no smell. when it smells, I start to be a little more wary about letting rip. But I really want to upvote this one.

    Tom De Paul
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, after I've eaten a lot of garlic. Smells like the inside of a good Italian restaurant. Now try to forget this!

    LauraDragonWench
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one else around me to either be disgusted or enjoy it with me. 😜

    A girl
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Opposite here. It's more being really concerned about what I ate that fermented into this abomination. Or the Las Vegas cut that literally smells like vodka and car exhaust.

    #40

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Imagine having s*x with someone else other than their SO. Whether this be a passing thought on the street or a brief moment during intercourse itself.

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    Scott Rackley
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    8 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not s*x. But I admit to wondering what that woman looks like naked. No, I do not stare. Guys kinda can't help it. Sexist? Maybe. Truth? Absolutely. All the time? No.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope I’m divorced n been alone 13 yrs dam well staying that way to !

    Anne Young
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know this is random. Long hair down my back would itch like crazy. No, on my back. A lot of the time when I see that that's what I think of.

    Ham Fright
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely, though I've never acted on it. Perhaps it's not everyone, but I think expecting mental fidelity is unreasonable.

    Julie S
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I imagine kissing People never having s*x with them.

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    #41

    41 Things Basically Everyone Does But Keeps To Themselves Tucking our junk back between our legs to see what we would look like as a woman.

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    Uncle Schmickle
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is this part of a man's anatomy referred to as " junk " ? Very silly.

    KDav
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Look, mommy! I'm a girl! Take me with you!" - Ross's mom on Friends

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and it looks nowhere as good as what they've got

    QijianSanek
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    8 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dysphoria feels targeted by this

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