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Few things can make you question your own sanity as much as regretting a text you just sent. You know how it goes, you get an edgy idea, type it out thinking you're the smartest person on Earth and hit 'Enter' only to realize later that what you said sounded way better in your head.

But it's too late and all you're left with is debating whether you should follow it up trying to minimize the damage it caused or just leave it as is and stick your head into the ground until the person forgets about it.

However, sometimes they may not. Even worse, they can send a picture of your conversation to the Facebook page 'Screenshots of messages that probably shouldn’t have been posted' and your mistake is now part of the internet.

It's not just messaging that people should approach cautiously on the internet. Social media are increasingly blurring the lines between our personal and professional lives, leaving us at risk of posting sensitive information that could have ramifications far beyond our follower list.

Just last year, Finnish Prime Minister Sanna Marin found this out the hard way after a video of her dancing and drinking with friends, first posted to a private Instagram account, was leaked to the press. Marin was forced to apologize, and even volunteered for a drug test, after a worldwide media storm came crashing down on her.

Research reveals that nearly 40 percent of internet users between the ages of 18-35 have regretted posting personal information about themselves, and 35 percent have regretted posting personal information about a friend or family member.

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57 percent of 18-35-year-olds think people share too much about their personal thoughts and experiences, and nearly that many feel technology is robbing them of their privacy.

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Van-Hau Trieu, who is a senior lecturer of Information Systems at Deakin University, and Vanessa Cooper, a professor of Information Systems at RMIT University, who have been studying what drives much online oversharing, believe that when we feel strong emotions, we often use social media to communicate with and get support from friends, family and colleagues.

"We might share good news when we feel happy or excited, or anger and frustration might drive us to vent about our employers," they wrote. "When emotional, it is easy for us to cross the boundary between work and social life, underestimating the consequences of social media posts that can quickly go viral."

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Katie Lutesinger
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this person using a meat twiggy stick to operate their phone? Because dude, just think of the grease stains.

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Trieu and Cooper have five simple tips for people to avoid oversharing and creating a social media scandal for themselves or others. The first one is to set clear boundaries between personal life and work. So be prepared to set rules, limits and acceptable behaviors to protect these boundaries.

"Let your friends, colleagues and family know your expectations. If someone oversteps your boundaries, raise your concerns. Consider your relationship with individuals who do not respect your boundaries."

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will say, for all the toxic masculinity out there, this is a punk move by her. It's so s****y to say this to a guy when you know you have no interest.

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Thenatural
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What exactly is she trying to say....no wonder some guys don't know what to do...

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Silv Aries
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Basically "I want a man with your personality but hotter/richer than you are"

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who the h**l tells someone they need someone like them, but not them? How freaking rude!

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A few years ago, I said that to a guy I thought wouldn't be interested in me. His answer: "I'm a guy like me." He was right ;) <3

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTF even start a conversation like that? Women can be, are, just as toxic as men but it's the toxic masculinity that's talked about.

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Micah Sean
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad that he probably continued on with this one-sided relationship.

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Iamnaturalcare AOE
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No worries, she'll reach out after you're already with someone and confess her dying love for you. If your toxic you'll fall for it and ruin your good thing for trash who will leave you as soon as your real relationship is over.

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Trinity
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To all the clueless men: when a woman says anything along the lines of "I wish I had a guy like you." it usually translates to "I love your personality, but I want a guy who is better looking and successful in his life." And these kind of women are usually gold diggers, shallow or they're genuinely not attracted to your appearance.

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No Name
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does she mean that in that he's helpful but not attractive or what?

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Mr.G86
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is what happens when people know "too" much about you 🤣

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MontanaMariner
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gals I know need I guy like me to help them move, then never hear from them until they need to move again. Then I'm the a*****e for not wanting to be just free labor? I'm fine with the friend zone, but being a moving buddy isn't great.

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A guy LIKE you... you know, someone sweet, kind and giving.... always there for me... but not you, I want him to be much more handsome and richer. Yeah! That guy!

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Valek Fermiga
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If she play's those sorts of games - he's better off, poor guy doesn't know if he's coming or going....

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Glass Ghost
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stop saying sht like that then. Nobody wants to be told that.

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Janet Howe
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ummm wait!! I meant I needed a dude like you to fix my toilet.

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Remington Greer
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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think only Eponine from Les Miserables got friendzoned harder

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Zeke Wolf
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10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Based on the name in the contacts I'm going to go with age difference being a factor. Changes it from being poor friendzoned lad to creepy older guy

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His fault for being a orbiter. Get a life.

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Next, respect the boundaries of others. "Don't share photos or videos of others without their permission," Trieu and Cooper said.

"If someone doesn't want their photo to be taken, video to be recorded or their name to be tagged, respect their wishes. Treat others on social media the same way you would like to be treated."

Moving on, lock down your social media accounts. This means adjusting your privacy settings to control who can view your profile and posts.

Most social media platforms provide features to help users protect their privacy. Facebook’s Privacy Checkup tool, for example, lets you see what you’re sharing and with whom.

On the same note, consider what information you place in your profile. If you don't want your personal social media profile associated with your employer, do not list the company you work at.

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To avoid mistakes, make your sharing a conscious effort. "Do not use social media when you feel emotional," Trieu and Cooper advised. "Especially if you are feeling strong emotions like hurt, anger or excitement, give yourself time to process your feelings before posting."

"Ask yourself: How many people will see this post? Would anyone be hurt? Does anyone benefit? Would I feel comfortable if my colleagues or supervisors saw this?"

Assume what you share can be seen by your friends, enemies, colleagues, boss, and the rest of the world. Stop if you don’t want any of them to see what you're thinking about.

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But if you do overshare, try to remove unwanted content. "Oversharing and accidental posting are not uncommon. If you have posted unwanted content, remove it immediately," Trieu and Cooper highlighted.

"If you are concerned about information about yourself on someone else’s social media, raise your concerns and ask the person who posted to remove it," they added.

It is a bit tricky if the information has already spread through multiple sources, but it is worth trying to contact the website or service that hosts it to remove the content.

Of course, these steps might not protect you from appearing on pages like 'Screenshots of messages that probably shouldn’t have been posted', but they will definitely limit the chance of that happening.

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How surface level do you wanna be if all you care for is height? Pathetic! Found a dwarf army together and conquer the heads of the tallest members in our society!

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was about to ask how one "farts aggressively" then remembered I have a son who is a preschooler and completely understand

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dude walks around with the whole obituary section. Irma May Jocobawicz died, don't you understand, you coldhearted B***h!

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10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aww, look at him trying to p**n off a Lenovo as a "gaming laptop"... EDIT: I wrote p.a.w.n. Why do the censor p**n?! They don't even censor penis??!

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10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wasn’t aware that Latinas only like werewolves. My gf’s Latina, and last I checked I’m not a werewolf. Does that mean she’s not attracted to me? 😮 am I an unaware werewolf? Am I actually an alpha male instead of an out of shape lesbian?

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