30 Men That Showed Their True Colors With Their Weird And Delusional Expectations For Women
A “wonderful” part of being a woman is accidentally smiling while making eye contact with the wrong man and now he is in love and, even worse, insistent that you must be in love as well. No words, deeds or restraining orders will dissuade him from this thought. Fortunately, folks online have taken to screenshotting messages from these sorts of fellows to name and shame them.
We’ve gathered some of the most delusional expectations “nice guys” have had of women. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote the ones that made you roll your eyes the most and be sure to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below.
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Ngvc: "I Make 100k+ A Year, What Do You Bring To The Table?"
This Guy Who Expected A Relationship With A Woman After He Comforted Her — Also Known As... Just Being A Bare-Minimum Friend
Ngvc: “You Got A Nice Set Of Mommy Milkers”
For those who are not in the loop, a “nice guy” isn’t just a fantastically underrated Ryan Gosling movie or a man who is nice, it refers to a very specific subset of romantically unsuccessful men. These men, similar to the ones in these screenshots, have a misguided and frankly entitled belief that if they are just nice to women, they will receive love and attention in return.
Given the fact that humans are not vending machines, this has no bearing on reality, but when this fact rears its head, these men tend to get very angry. It’s also worth noting that “nice guys” are not particularly nice in general, equating some conversation and favors to being a “perfect partner.”
“Toddlers Are Well Built And Curvy”
Why Aren't Women More Superficial?
Ngvc "Decent Guy, Only Wants One Thing From His Date"
when your date says they want to see you again thats a good end to a date what is wrong with this moron
When told that, actually, being nice via text or internet comment doesn’t make someone instantly fall for you, “nice guys” tend to react with anger. First and foremost, this very quickly shreds any last illusion that they are nice at all. This anger at their delusions being dismissed is almost as ridiculous as some of the demands they have of women who wouldn’t look at them twice.
This Guy Who Expected To Find A Match Because He Said He Doesn't Care About Looks Or Sex In His Profile... But Then Had This As His Opening Line
Poor Brandon
Ngvc: "It's A Real Shame Too. I Would've Treated You Like A Princess"
I'd be contacting the police as well as his superiors. It was bad enough that he used her personal information to contact her, but that last text was scary and disturbing.
This is all to say that self-proclaimed “nice guys” tend to be neither nice nor good romantic matches. There have been enough cases where these men, met with rejection, turn to stalking and other forms of harassment that tend to be considerably worse than anything the stereotypical “jerk” might do.
This Guy Who Thought He Deserved Constant Communication With His Dating App Match Simply Because They Matched... A Few Hours Prior
This Nice Guy Who Expected Immediate Replies To His Texts And Then Told The Woman He Was Texting He Was Just Trying To Teach Her A Lesson
This Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Woman Because Of His Persistence... And Expert Gaslighting Skills
The main cause of the issue, as with so much else, is a feeling of entitlement. Not only do these fellows think that having a partner is some sort of God-given right, they also have pretty strong opinions about what this partner should do, think and look like. Naturally, we can probably guess that these men most likely don’t, themselves, fit the bill at all, but that is beyond the point.
Ngvc: "I Sexually Harassed A Woman Who Didn't Have The Ability To Just Walk Away From Me, And She Isn't Happy About It. And You Women Say You Want Nice Guys"
Ngvc: "Just Trying To Be Nice"
Ngvc: "I'm Not A Sexist But Females Owe Me Sex"
This Guy Who Felt Entitled To A Date After Putting Down Other Women
"Act like a braindead b!tch"? What? You want me to pretend to be you? Kinky!
Ngvc "I Am Handsome, Educated And Have Money But Single. What Is The Problem"
Ngvc: "I'm Also A Little Older And More Mature Than You (No Offense)"
Step one: get a screenshot. Step two: take it to the school counselor. Step three: prepare to get a restraining order issued if it continues. I've been stalked before. It's not fun.
This "Nice And Stable" Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Date After Catfishing 200 Women To Try To Prove His Misogynistic Point
Ngvc: "I'm A Nice Guy Once You Know Me, But No You Judge A Book By It's Cover"
That Happened
This Guy Who Mistook A Woman Just Being A Normal Human Being As Romantic Interest And Felt Entitled To A Relationship With Her
This Classical Music Enthusiast Who Expected A Dm From This Woman After Insulting Her Taste In Music
This Guy Who Thought Buying Someone Drinks Meant They Owe You Sex
If that's how you expected the evening to end A) you should have gone to a professional and B) $20.00 wouldn't begin to be enough.
Ngvc: "I Hope He Dead, He Maybe Doesn't Even Love You, I Do"
This Guy Who Expected A Date After Showing A Random Woman At A Bar How Much Was In His Bank Account
This Guy Who Expected A Stranger On The Internet To Want To Date Him Just Because He (Sort Of?) Complimented Her
Ngvc "I'm Such An Awesome Guy! Why Won't Girls Date Me"
Ngvc: "High Value Man"
Ngvc: "I Tried To Be Polite... F**k That B***h"
I don't mind guys trying to shoot their shot. In general, we still ask men to make the first move a lot of the time, even this day and age. So it doesn't bother me when they want to approach someone and talk to them. And some women could be nicer about saying no thanks. It takes courage to approach someone so telling someone to 'f' off isn't necessary. Especially in a social place where most people go to BE social. But I don't understand why 'no' automatically makes a woman a b!tch? If a woman says no, just move on. You can feel rejected, but why is she automatically a b!tch and why does it immediately get to this weird, almost violent response as if she's a bad dog who didn't obey your command?
Ngvc: “I’m A Really Good Guy… If You Have A Girlfriend I Don’t Associate With You Because I Know You’re A Bad Person”
Not shown: "I want beautiful, young women without a brain, while I am obese, a neckbeard and have the social skills of a pet rock. But women are so shallow!"
Ngvc: “I Want To Show You A Good Time”
What A Fckn Loser
Ngvc: “I Stopped Caring About Women When I Realised They Have Freaky Seggs With Other Guys That Aren’t Me”
I'm Looking For A Large Breasted Sex Nymph... But She Should Want Me Because I'm So Nice And Sweet
Hahahah. This big boobed cis female would like to pass. Not a PARTIAL nymph
Ngvc: "But I Asked Nicely"
I know, but I don't know why some of these people just show up randomly to ask for things when websites exist to find people open for participation or, you know, you can pay for it.
Ngvc: "I Can Do Chivalry"
Ngvc: "I Was So Loving That's How I Lost Her"
This Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Date Because He Gave This Woman Her "Bong Piece Back"
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Ngvc: “I Try To Be A Gentleman But Most You Ladies Not Into That”
Ngvc: “Typical Recycled Niceguy’s Saying”
Ngvc: “Do Girls Even Like Nice Guys?”
here is something that will blow your mind women do like nice guys your just not a nice as you think you are
This Guy Who Thought He Deserved This Woman's Attention After Telling Her He's Going To Court
The worst thing about this is a growing number of incel 'communities' mainly online chat groups, who encourage each other to share stories about how they're constantly being rejected by the 'bitches' in favour of 'chads' and how the deserve so much better. They manage to convince themselves that all women are superficial and will only ever date what they (the incels) think is the perfect specimen of manhood.
whilst they (the incels) only date women they see as the perfect specimen of womanhood
Load More Replies...The sad thing is that most of these men wouldn't date a woman who they didn't think was "perfect". I'm sure they'd reject any woman who isn't thin and conventionally beautiful.
Okay, real question: is this what dating is like in all age groups who use the internet, or is this more a "younger folks" thing? I'm almost 36 and sometimes think it would be nice to have a partner once more... but if this is what the dating landscape is like, I'd rather die alone.
I'm dating in my mid 40s, and I haven't run across a dude like these in at least15+ years. The dating pool gets smaller as you age, but I think the quality improves!!
Load More Replies...I want to know why these men are self-identifying as a 'nice guy'. Are they really so deluded that they think their behaviour and words come under any definition of 'nice'? I'd love to see a list compiled by women of the things they would classify as 'nice'. Then a list compiled by men who would never use the words 'nice guy' to describe themselves, and then lastly a list from the 'nice guys' themselves. It would be interesting to see where the communalities arose.
That's my question too. "Nice guy" = gives you compliments, pays for dinner, opens doors for you? That's a red flag. But it's the "I was a nice guy for an hour & you wouldn't have sex with me" part that really frightens me.
Load More Replies...ok I'm speaking from personal experience only here, so I'm likely wrong about most people, but what I've found is that being yourself is what attracts people the most. that is, unless you are an insufferable æßhole
I would have been disturbed to know there was ONE man out there like this, but it looks like there is no shortage of them. Ugh, Ick and EWWWW
I would love to know how these guys were brought up, there has to be a lot of enabling by their parents here!!!!
I could only read to #19, these were upsetting and enraging and frustrating.
Nothing makes me so very glad to have met my (now husband) when I was 17. He's my very best friend and we've been together 20 years. I don't think I would be able to deal with these cheuvanistic kinds of a******s. I mean, my guy's an a*****e sure enough... but never to me... just to all the corporate morons he negotiates with 🤣. Love me a man whose daily goal is to intimidate the bullies that try hold all us normal people down 🥰
The worst thing about this is a growing number of incel 'communities' mainly online chat groups, who encourage each other to share stories about how they're constantly being rejected by the 'bitches' in favour of 'chads' and how the deserve so much better. They manage to convince themselves that all women are superficial and will only ever date what they (the incels) think is the perfect specimen of manhood.
whilst they (the incels) only date women they see as the perfect specimen of womanhood
Load More Replies...The sad thing is that most of these men wouldn't date a woman who they didn't think was "perfect". I'm sure they'd reject any woman who isn't thin and conventionally beautiful.
Okay, real question: is this what dating is like in all age groups who use the internet, or is this more a "younger folks" thing? I'm almost 36 and sometimes think it would be nice to have a partner once more... but if this is what the dating landscape is like, I'd rather die alone.
I'm dating in my mid 40s, and I haven't run across a dude like these in at least15+ years. The dating pool gets smaller as you age, but I think the quality improves!!
Load More Replies...I want to know why these men are self-identifying as a 'nice guy'. Are they really so deluded that they think their behaviour and words come under any definition of 'nice'? I'd love to see a list compiled by women of the things they would classify as 'nice'. Then a list compiled by men who would never use the words 'nice guy' to describe themselves, and then lastly a list from the 'nice guys' themselves. It would be interesting to see where the communalities arose.
That's my question too. "Nice guy" = gives you compliments, pays for dinner, opens doors for you? That's a red flag. But it's the "I was a nice guy for an hour & you wouldn't have sex with me" part that really frightens me.
Load More Replies...ok I'm speaking from personal experience only here, so I'm likely wrong about most people, but what I've found is that being yourself is what attracts people the most. that is, unless you are an insufferable æßhole
I would have been disturbed to know there was ONE man out there like this, but it looks like there is no shortage of them. Ugh, Ick and EWWWW
I would love to know how these guys were brought up, there has to be a lot of enabling by their parents here!!!!
I could only read to #19, these were upsetting and enraging and frustrating.
Nothing makes me so very glad to have met my (now husband) when I was 17. He's my very best friend and we've been together 20 years. I don't think I would be able to deal with these cheuvanistic kinds of a******s. I mean, my guy's an a*****e sure enough... but never to me... just to all the corporate morons he negotiates with 🤣. Love me a man whose daily goal is to intimidate the bullies that try hold all us normal people down 🥰
