35 Times People Got Shamed For Their Dumb Opinions By The ‘Delusional Takes’ Twitter Page
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As Justin Timberlake once famously put it in the classic “Cry Me a River”, some things are better left unsaid. Especially when it comes to sharing your thoughts online. However, not everybody knows where the limit is, which can be quite upsetting for the people that are oversharing but very entertaining for us.
The Twitter user @DelusionalPosting has made reveling in secondhand embarrassment easy by hand-picking the best of the worst and posting them for our enjoyment.
The delusional takes vary from very silly to very concerning. Some of them are simply insensitive or uneducated opinions that people should just keep to themselves. Others are statements that can be easily misinterpreted, especially out of context. And then there are the ones that are borderline criminal and make you want to quit the internet. The emotional rollercoaster is real.
We had a chat with Dr. Jessica Rabon, a licensed psychologist and the host of Psych Talk podcast. She explained why people overshare and gave tips on how to manage the urge to spill your guts online. But before we dive in, here are a few of the latest and the most cringe-inducing takes that the internet has to offer.
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what's terrifying is that this guy whose name is 'manlet king' thinks that killing fifty people is a normal and simple happy family thing to do and should be normalised
We all crave attention, so it’s not surprising that we choose to express our opinions (delusional and not so much) online. No wonder oversharing is quite a common online phenomenon. A study published in 2022 that surveyed 410 undergrad students found that more than 90% of them have seen someone overshare online and over 70% have unknowingly done it themselves.
We asked Dr. Rabon how oversharing in real life differs from doing it online, and it seems that there are several components that make it more common when sitting behind a keyboard. Firstly, social media encourages you to be generous with personal information. “We are influenced by what we see other people sharing and feel the need to share as well,” Dr. Rabon told Bored Panda.
Another thing that plays a part in it is detachment and immediate consequences. “Sharing a lot of personal details one-on-one is an intimate and, can be, an anxiety-provoking situation. However, when we post a status update, story, or video, <…> we are simultaneously talking to everyone and nobody at the same time. We don't have to see the facial expressions or reactions of others when we share, like we do in person, which lessens the feelings of awkwardness or anxiety.”
Add instant gratification provided by likes, comments, and shares and sprinkle some anonymity on top, and you have quite an appealing social concoction.
According to Dr. Rabon, in some cases, people overshare to soothe negative emotions, too. For example, anxious people tend to seek reassurance from others and they may overshare on social media to get it. They also may be more likely to stay on top of the latest trends or news as they might suffer from the fear of missing out.
Loneliness may also be responsible for oversharing. “Online platforms allow for immediate feedback, says Dr. Rabon. If people are lonely and seeking connection, they may be more likely to overshare online <…> to feel less alone.”
According the curvature in the upper image, it looks like a lighthouse in Sweden could be seen from Uzbekistan. By the way, something is clear: Whitewalker420 has never been in a ship in his whole life (or was too busy eating at the buffet in the cruiser).
People can have strong, consolidated opinions about the most stupid things in life.
So, is oversharing all bad? Dr. Rabon says that there are some positives. “Depending on what is shared, one potential benefit of sharing personal information is increased connections with others online who are similar to you. Many people who form relationships with others online do so by sharing about themselves to make connections.”
She also adds that for individuals that are struggling with their mental health, sharing their experiences online might provide support that they need. That can be especially important if they are hesitant to talk about their struggles in person.
However, Dr. Rabon is quick to point out that the negatives tend to outweigh the positives. According to her, the biggest risk people take when oversharing is safety: “People share all kinds of personal information online, including things that could be potential passwords, their current location, information about their kids, or venting posts about their relationship. It only takes that information getting into the hands of the wrong person to risk your safety.”
Then there’s a risk of losing your job because of mentioning confidential information, venting about your boss, or admitting to doing things you weren’t supposed to be doing. Dr. Rabon also adds that oversharing can have social consequences as well, such as rumors being spread, gossip, or social isolation.
If you have pictures of grown a*s men playing fake soldier (and who have never been one) and who think they need a gun to stay safe at a library, send me a picture so i have something to point and laugh at, you pathetic f***s. Your hobby is a coping mechanism for your crippling insecurity.
I WOULD eat a T-Rex, so I guess, I can eat the chicken! (Don't tell the T-Rex I said that though!)
The good thing is that there are ways to curb your need to broadcast your life. As oversharing often stems from powerful emotions such as anger or sadness, Dr. Rabon suggests stepping away from the phone before making your opinions public: “One strategy I like to use is making the post/video but saving it as a draft and then going back the next day and deciding if it is something I still want to post. If it is not, once I have calmed down, I will delete it and know that the post was motivated by emotions, not logic.”
Another strategy is asking yourself "Would I be okay with my grandma, boss, or [insert any person here] seeing this post?" If not, then maybe you reconsider posting it. If you notice patterns of oversharing, you can also limit your social media usage as research suggests that people who spend more time on social media are more likely to overshare.
The marriage rate has dropped nearly 60% in 50 years, so more men are safely unmarried. Should we aim for 100%?
Dr. Rabon also encourages people to do some self-reflection on why they want to post what they’re posting. Is it because it's about something that’s important for them, something they are passionate about and want to share with friends and family? Or are they sharing because you are upset, hurt, angry, or seeking validation? If it is the latter, then maybe it’s something to keep to yourself.
So, check in with yourself next time you type up a tweet, or you might find your opinions amplified on the @DelusionalPosting feed.
I've been a full-time carer for my husband for 30+ years. Had to give up a much-loved job, lost a lot of friends, financial problems, bla bla bla. In my long years I've met people who stood by their loved one, period. I've met people whose attitude was "Hell no, I didn't sign up for this, I'm out". I've met people who were mentally driven into the ground by the self-obsessed, egocentric and self-pitying attitude of the sick person and I've met people who tried, tried hard, found they were spiralling into depression and had to step back in order to simply hold on to their sanity and life. Please, when confronted with a story with a heading like this, keep an open mind and ponder whether you're required to set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm and have mercy.
Breast feeding has existed for much longer than politics. The difference between the 2 is that even though they both involve t*ts, one set is hated and the other feeds the baby
So, now you're strong enough to let another dude bang your wife?
The more probable explanation is that people hate other people who drive/ride like a**holes. Exactly what vehicle they're using is irrelevant. (For that matter, pedestrians can be a**holes too.)
Why does the internet not seem to have any nuance? Who are all these weirdly extreme people?
Actually " literally everybody " knows that no one deserves to be subject to persecution, segregation, or massacres based on something they can't control.
Is "ouid" some new tiktokified nonsense like "unalive", or is it some special French form of recreation?
just a guess here but if you say it phonetically it kinda sounds like "weed"...
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Yeah I work with children whose mother's used while pregnant and now have learning, developmental, behavioral issues.
Exactly. bbfld said "smoked ouid throughout their entire pregnancy and were fine" Who is fine? The mother - probably. The kid - no, no, they are NOT fine.
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Will she make that same face at child protection when they show up after her baby's umbilical cord blood tests positive for drugs? Not "oiud", but here's what happened to me..... I was admitted 2.5 weeks before my due date due to sudden high blood pressure and really really bad headache (thankfully was not preeclampsia). My son was born 2 days later and we were discharged 2 days after that. About 2 weeks after we got home, DCF knocks on my door saying his umbilical cord blood tested positive for something I can't even remember the name of. After weeks of getting records from OB/GYN, hospital triage, labor & delivery, etc. they finally found it was a medication given to me when I was admitted for the headache/high blood pressure that was incorrectly recorded in my chart. They said it commonly shows up in drug tests, but the hospital literally reported me to DCF because of their own mistake. I spent months with hospital admin because they were afraid I was going to sue them over the whole ordeal. And now there will always be a record of this investigation through someone else's mistake. It was terrifying knowing I had done zero drugs, having the state investigating me, doing home inspections, scrutinizing how I cared for my newborn, everything about my life. I can't imagine being so cavalier about "oiud" during pregnancy and my child's life.
This sounds incredibly dystopian. In Germany nobody is allowed to do drug tests on a newborn/umbilical/woman-in-laboir without their knowing or consent. You would need a court order and then some
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The goal (in being part of the life of a child) is not whether YOU can "make it through the day." It's not about you at all! Are you truly caring for the child: with a safe, healthy environment? The opportunity to learn in both structured and relaxed manners? Can the child play/learn with others around? How are emotions processed? I could go on, and we haven't even talked about safety! Your high is not worth a kid's life, whether it's by a horrible accident or by long-term neglect. A kid doesn't need an adult, caring for him, to be stoned. He needs an adult who's invested in him. So do that.
Why would a pregnant woman strive for the best for their unborn child. "Fine" may be true at birth, but may not be in later life.
Ouid (weed), which her mother obviously smoked in copious amounts.
Reminds me of in high school kids would call it "tweed" as if there could be any plausible deniability... So lame
I guess stupid can't recognize stupid... I had a close group of friends in high school, and this one guy, who managed to always find a way to tag along some how, once said, "You know how every cool group has that one guy who doesn't belong because he's a total looser, it's crazy how we don't have that" and the rest of us just looked at him and said "Yeah, that would be crazy..." Not to say we were a bunch of preemies with asthma and long term health issues, from our mothers smoking, sitting around telling each other "I don't get what the big deal about smoking is, we're fine!" but this just reminded me of that special dude from long ago, whatever his name was...
Two people talking about the same concept from 2 different points of view won't make "body count" less stupid as a concept.
It's funny though how men who have a lot to say about women's reproductive rights are absolutely HORRIFIED by this idea.
a "real" mermaid would most likely have a darker back side and a lighter front side in order to avoid being seen by predators (like most fish).
ok so the boats are perceived by the orcas to be dangerous and invading their territory but the *orcas* are the bad guys for trying to drive them away?
Well depending on context this is not a delusional take? The idea of women somehow getting "stretched" with more partners but the same amount of sex is simply wrong. In context of STDs it of course is delusional. Really depends on context here
I think someone is confused about the difference between someone OWNING a person, and someone making really poor choices in their life partners.
please don't normalise having sex with animals ok because it can be really damaging to their mental health and they can't consent, it's classified as animal abuse
The only person who can agree or disagree on that is the person who has done both, to the same degree of “success”, with the same out of work commitments. Find me this person
I think more parents would prefer their "child" to be on a porn site solo or with a partner, compared to working the streets. At least it is safer?
There's "comedic" and then there's "shoehorning Megan Thee Stallion into an episode and getting your badly CG'd star to twerk with her."
Well hey..America is normalising school shooting...Well any shooting sooo why not?
My husband's first wife is one of our best friends. She and 3 of his ex-girlfriends came to our wedding. One of his ex-s came on the first day of our honeymoon with us. Why should I worry about what went on in his past. We'd both 'lived' before we met, you can't commit your life to someone you haven't met yet..
As usual, the fact that it has 302 likes bothers me more than the initial idiot.
How is that "delusional"? Are you trying to imply that sex workers don't deserve a happy, stable relationship?
did you know, in the original Mulan story, the ending was : emperor wanted her to become one of his concubines, so she jumped from a cliff and died :(
Why is this still in the news? They had their 15 mins...let's just move on.
I'm gay and I certainly wouldn't want or agree for kids to see kink.....And another thing straight people like kink too....who are you to say otherwise? Absolute nonsense
Personalized towards me? Let's have Gates and Socrates talking about homemade vermouth.
If his point is, maybe blaming people now for what their ancestors did is a bit odd, especially while modern slavery continues unabated, he’s not wrong per se.
The staff were trying to improve working conditions and the bosses walked out of the meeting
Wouldn't exist without ANY people. Who gives a f of their sexual preferences...irrelevant
Yes lol. So many of these are so obviously taken out of context or missing obvious jokes
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Many of these lack context. Some are replies to posts that were not included and some are clickbait headlines that don’t provide the whole story which includes nuance
Hi Zelda. Gotta disagree with you. It was very interesting. Since you're downvoting everyone who disagrees with you, I've gone through and upvoted them. I'm sure you'll downvote me too, but that's the sacrifice I have to make lol
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Couldn't even make it through the list. The whining was bad, but the whining about the whining was intolerable.
I was overcome by the ignorant stupidity and had to stop reading.
I've been over "being shocked" for a long time at what weird hills people are willing to die upon, but I'm still surprised by some of them...
Does no one understand that the list is about delusional thinking, so there's no reason to comment on every post with an explanation about how that poster is delusional?
I'm sorry but most of these were some of the stupidest things ever written in the English language
sometimes i look at psots like these and understand serial killers more
Twitter users try to be normal challenge. (Difficulty: IMPOSSIBLE?!?!?)
Look underneath the last one... "Note: this post originally had 88 images. It’s been shortened to the top 35 images based on user votes." You can click the link and see all 88.
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Yes lol. So many of these are so obviously taken out of context or missing obvious jokes
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Hi Zelda. Gotta disagree with you. It was very interesting. Since you're downvoting everyone who disagrees with you, I've gone through and upvoted them. I'm sure you'll downvote me too, but that's the sacrifice I have to make lol
Load More Replies... Couldn't even make it through the list. The whining was bad, but the whining about the whining was intolerable.
I was overcome by the ignorant stupidity and had to stop reading.
I've been over "being shocked" for a long time at what weird hills people are willing to die upon, but I'm still surprised by some of them...
Does no one understand that the list is about delusional thinking, so there's no reason to comment on every post with an explanation about how that poster is delusional?
I'm sorry but most of these were some of the stupidest things ever written in the English language
sometimes i look at psots like these and understand serial killers more
Twitter users try to be normal challenge. (Difficulty: IMPOSSIBLE?!?!?)
Look underneath the last one... "Note: this post originally had 88 images. It’s been shortened to the top 35 images based on user votes." You can click the link and see all 88.
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