he was bringing her into my apartment letting her steal my things while i was working two jobs every day. he slept with her in my bed multiple times, then popped the air mattress i slept on and robbed me. had the audacity to have his dad call me and ask for his cowboy boots back. i pissed in them and left them on the porch.

He was already incurring red flags an hour before he dropped the worst thing he could have ever mentioned. When I said I needed to get home since I have to wake up early for work the next morning, he said

“You no longer have parents. No one will get mad at you.”

I was stupefied for a second but managed to reply

“All the more reason I have to discipline myself.”

I could not believe he used that sensitive information against me. My parents separated when I was 3, no idea where Father is, and Mom died a year ago during that time. How could he say such a thing? I felt disrespected. At that moment, I knew I was dating an idiot. I don’t care if you make five times what I do, you don’t get to do that to the memory of my parents. He was an idiot.