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RachyLou92 • commented on 3 posts 2 months ago

Woman Promises Not To Order Spaghetti, Proceeds To Break Her Promise And BF Leaves Restaurant

So my partner doesn't have great table manners. We was going for a meal with my family. I explained I expected him to at least have the manners of our children and eat with mouth closed mouth and not to put too much in at once ect which he took and even asked my opinion on what he should order to eat. He is autistic so it's a lot of training on basic things but he is brilliant in other ways. Have had to teach him to be a dad and he is now excellent at it. But at home he eats how he wants. When in public he knows the rules lol 😆 so defo nta. I would walk out if he ate like an animal out in public

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RachyLou92 • upvoted an item 2 months ago

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RachyLou92 • commented on a post 4 months ago

50 Christmas Posts That Are Beyond Wholesome (New Pics)

This is amazing. My 4 children all asked for new coats, wellies and clothes. They got those and some little toys too. My 8yr old daughter asked for a snow globe as her toy! Toddler a dinosaur. My 13 year old some football boots (he plays for a team) my 6 year old wanted some drawing supplies. It's the little things. We'll done for making a family's Xmas special. I have limited family around so its just me and the kids and I always do my best to make sure it's as special as possible. I love the humble side you show to these family's that are struggling! God bless you x

RachyLou92 • upvoted an item 4 months ago

People Who Live In An "Ingredient Household" Share Their Unhinged Meals

Think the point is you have to be inventive rather than just popping open a bag. It's not a bad thing.

RachyLou92 • submitted a list addition 4 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Gives You Holiday Anxiety? (Closed)

RachyLou92 • commented on 2 posts 7 months ago

Therapist Tries To Open Parents' Eyes By Sharing What 28 Teenagers And Kids Have Told Her

Wow. Single mum to 4 kids. It's made me realise I need to be more present. Going on. Phone ban other than emergencies. No games or messaging. Play with them more and spend quality time.

Man Can’t Understand No For An Answer, Woman Agrees On Him Buying Her A Drink, Dumps It On His Shoes

I get it. My ex is older than my parents. He just turned 61 and my dad turned 60 a few months later. My mother is 5 years younger ish. But age is just a number. You can't help who you care for. I now work in care and have a client who is younger than my ex. Thata a tough pill to swallow. Expecially as his main gripe was my age and the fact he didn't think I would care for him as he aged lol 😆 x

RachyLou92 • commented on 5 posts 8 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Is Something That You Have Lost That You Wish You Could Get Back? (Closed)

Thing is. They were my salvation from a very unhappy childhood. They were the only positive In such a dark place. But they can't see that I need to not let my children get damaged like I was. They deserve better and I will protect them and love them. Its hard but my children have to be the most important thing. Always. My babies are the next generation. I don't want them having the same issues I do. I can barley leave the house. Barely speak to people. I lost all self worth and confidence.

Hey Pandas, What Is Something That You Have Lost That You Wish You Could Get Back? (Closed)

It's great you have come soo far. I didn't have a journal. Not great at writing. But my last episode was 6 years ago. I have a latter from then that I wrote for my then 7 year old son and 2 year old daughter.apologising for not being strong enough. For killing their brother and for leaving them. That I could see that sometimes I was nearly as bad as she was. I would loose my temper and get so cross. But that they needed better. They needed a mummy that wasn't so broken. . . . . A couple of months ago I was again starting to circle the drain so I read that. And realised in the past few years I have been stronger. I have been better. I am trying. Yeah I have wobbles. But I didn't infant manage to kill myself or the boy. Went on to give birth to him and another little boy. It is crazy to see how far I have come. But I will not be looking at that note again as I burnt it. Because My eldest is 13. The last thing I need is for him to find it and read it. Past is best left there xx

Hey Pandas, What Is Something That You Have Lost That You Wish You Could Get Back? (Closed)

Me too. I wish it didn't effect My parenting soo much too. Being able to see exactly where the abuse tainted me and having to be hyper aware not to fall into the same s****y person she was. . . . I have to be stronger. And better. And actually love my babies. And keep them safe. You will one day break the cycle. And be so proud that you managed to. Because its a battle. Everyday x

Hey Pandas, What Is Something That You Have Lost That You Wish You Could Get Back? (Closed)

It does get better. I promise. I had lost everyone and everything. I had pushed my kids away. Sent them to live elsewhere. I had left my job. Left my partner. Went on a very long bender. Getting high. Making bad choices. Now. I have my children. Living with me. (I had more children too) I'm clean. I have a Job. A home. It's hard confronting your past. But I have. And I accept I made lade choices. And not always for the right reasons. But now I can be proud ans you know what. I'm actually strangely proud of my mistakes too. So keep your head up x

“AITA For No Longer Handing My Son His Allowance After I Found Out My Husband’s Been Taking It?”

So I'm going to go a bit against the grain here. Without more answers I would actually go with op is the arsehole. When my son was 2. I was out working a lot and my partner was home with my child. They both got their own money to spend (partners on food shopping or anything he wanted/needed) and some for my little man(juice box and a treat) the fact the dad in this scenario has felt the need to take the child's money shows he is being financially abused maybe? If he isn't working and is staying home to watch the child. Has no income of his own but Is looking after the house and the kid and mum works a lot why doesn't he have access to some money to get himself something? I feel op needs to take a look at the whole situation. Is there drug/alcohol issues? Is that why so strict? Or is it more just control. I mean I don't at all condone dad's coercion of the child. BUT if he has nothing of his own of course he will believe he is more entitled to it than the child......

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RachyLou92 • submitted a list addition 8 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Is Something That You Have Lost That You Wish You Could Get Back? (Closed)

RachyLou92 • upvoted 2 items 8 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Is Something That You Have Lost That You Wish You Could Get Back? (Closed)

I'm so sorry you're suffering. On some level you do know that your loss would greatly affect the people who love you. And they love you for a reason. If you lose hope in yourself, try and hang on to the fact that there are people in your life who believe you add value to theirs.

Hey Pandas, What Is Something That You Have Lost That You Wish You Could Get Back?

My childhood. Thanks to my abusive selfish, self-absorbed, abusive and neglectful parents I lost out on having one.

RachyLou92 • commented on 5 posts 9 months ago

“I’ve Cremated All My Relatives Against Their Wishes”: 40 Dark Secrets People Are Keeping

Oh I chose to have kids but I didn't choose my kids lol 😆 (totally joking. They are hard work and have additional needs but I love them) but I don't always like to spend time with them. Whereas i always love to spend time with my cat! She is so calm and cuddly but not too pushy. Literally the perfect cat! X

Woman Complains Online About How Hard It Is To Survive On Her Salary, Drama Ensues When Boss Sees It

Surely that's more reason not to just walk out being a single mum?! Kids should always come before your ego! Where I am. Its easy to get a job in the sector I work. But I still would not walk out without next job lined up. I have children to support who still need feeding regardless of my feelings.....

“I’ve Cremated All My Relatives Against Their Wishes”: 40 Dark Secrets People Are Keeping

Woman Complains Online About How Hard It Is To Survive On Her Salary, Drama Ensues When Boss Sees It

“I’ve Cremated All My Relatives Against Their Wishes”: 40 Dark Secrets People Are Keeping

Listen this is a huge secret for me too. When I was about 12 ish maybe earlier. Me and my cousin fell in love. We were born 2 days apart. We kissed all the time. Like didn't know anything was wrong. When I was like 21 I was having a mental breakdown. We started hanging out getting drunk (I also used drugs back then too but he didnt) we ended up starting a secret affair. Lasted a few months but ended when I fell pregnant. I aborted it. We stopped and I haven't seen him since. It's 9 years later now. I have a lot of wtf moments from that era but I have to accept I wasn't well and I made bad choices. Never ever been with anyone else my own age. Minimum of 10 years older. Maximum so far I was 21 and he was 51 so 30 years. So I'm not even into guys my own age. F**k knows. I still haven't got my head around it and that was a long time ago. . . . And 3 kids ago lol 😆

"Going To Lie On My Resume Forever": Person Worked Out How They Can Lie On Their Resume To Land Jobs

I worked for 4 years went on mat leave. Then went to a different job and was there a year or so then went on mat leave again. Then had 5 years off (child had additional needs so wasn't comfortable leaving him) also had another bubba and when he was a year old I decided to look for work again. Turns out people were cool with my cv as got hounded for interviews. I put my cv on indeed and sent it on the site to a few people thinking it was going to be so hard getting a job but yeah it really wasn't. First interview got offered the job and been here nearly a year.....

“My 'Weird' Radar Was Going Off”: Hiker Refuses To Drive An Older Woman Home Before A Storm And Feels Bad, Gets Backed Up By Folks Online

I mean I work with people with dementia. So I would have gaged if she was just rude or if there was an impairment there. If none then I would have prob done the same tbh.

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RachyLou92 • upvoted an item 9 months ago

Woman Complains Online About How Hard It Is To Survive On Her Salary, Drama Ensues When Boss Sees It

The problem is now you're a single mom with no job, congrats on endangering yourself and your child with your inability to think ahead and think through consequences. The solution was to take it down for the moment, find a different job, and then quit and blow the company up on social. Best of luck to you

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RachyLou92 • submitted a list addition 4 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Gives You Holiday Anxiety? (Closed)

RachyLou92 • submitted a list addition 8 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Is Something That You Have Lost That You Wish You Could Get Back? (Closed)

RachyLou92 • commented on 3 posts 2 months ago

30 People Share Next-To-Impossible Things They Experienced

I'm 6ft 2 nearly 6ft 3. . . I hate it.

30 People Share Next-To-Impossible Things They Experienced

My youngest is supposed to be darker skinned. (Im pale with dark features but his dad is mixed race dark features ect) my son is blue eyed red headed beaut 💙

Woman Promises Not To Order Spaghetti, Proceeds To Break Her Promise And BF Leaves Restaurant

RachyLou92 • commented on a post 4 months ago

50 Christmas Posts That Are Beyond Wholesome (New Pics)

RachyLou92 • commented on 2 posts 7 months ago

Therapist Tries To Open Parents' Eyes By Sharing What 28 Teenagers And Kids Have Told Her

Wow. Single mum to 4 kids. It's made me realise I need to be more present. Going on. Phone ban other than emergencies. No games or messaging. Play with them more and spend quality time.

Man Can’t Understand No For An Answer, Woman Agrees On Him Buying Her A Drink, Dumps It On His Shoes

RachyLou92 • commented on 5 posts 8 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Is Something That You Have Lost That You Wish You Could Get Back? (Closed)

“AITA For No Longer Handing My Son His Allowance After I Found Out My Husband’s Been Taking It?”

RachyLou92 • commented on 5 posts 9 months ago

“I’ve Cremated All My Relatives Against Their Wishes”: 40 Dark Secrets People Are Keeping

Woman Complains Online About How Hard It Is To Survive On Her Salary, Drama Ensues When Boss Sees It

“I’ve Cremated All My Relatives Against Their Wishes”: 40 Dark Secrets People Are Keeping

"Going To Lie On My Resume Forever": Person Worked Out How They Can Lie On Their Resume To Land Jobs

“My 'Weird' Radar Was Going Off”: Hiker Refuses To Drive An Older Woman Home Before A Storm And Feels Bad, Gets Backed Up By Folks Online

I mean I work with people with dementia. So I would have gaged if she was just rude or if there was an impairment there. If none then I would have prob done the same tbh.

RachyLou92 • upvoted an item 2 months ago

Upgrade His Sleep Quality With These Bluetooth 5.0, 3D Eye Mask Sleep Headphones - Perfect Gear For Side Sleepers Or Insomniacs

RachyLou92 • upvoted an item 4 months ago

People Who Live In An "Ingredient Household" Share Their Unhinged Meals

Think the point is you have to be inventive rather than just popping open a bag. It's not a bad thing.

RachyLou92 • upvoted 2 items 8 months ago

Hey Pandas, What Is Something That You Have Lost That You Wish You Could Get Back? (Closed)

Hey Pandas, What Is Something That You Have Lost That You Wish You Could Get Back?

My childhood. Thanks to my abusive selfish, self-absorbed, abusive and neglectful parents I lost out on having one.

RachyLou92 • upvoted an item 9 months ago

Woman Complains Online About How Hard It Is To Survive On Her Salary, Drama Ensues When Boss Sees It

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