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Being a human is not always comfortable. We experience loss, heartbreak, loneliness, and mistakes, leaving us flawed in various ways. It’s a big and sadly inevitable part of the human condition. But something that makes it more bearable is knowing that we aren’t alone in going through this all.

The Facebook page Chronically Strange and Uncomfortable is a safe internet heaven where its creator shares the ups and downs of what it means to be an ordinary person living on the planet Earth. It’s full of relatable memes and posts that address human struggles in hopes of forming a community and raising awareness about mental health and other important topics. To find them, all you have to do is scroll down.

While you're at it, don't forget to check out a conversation with the page's creator, Aynslie, who kindly agreed to tell us more about it.

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    The page Chronically Strange and Uncomfortable was created by an Australian named Aynslie in 2021 and already has over 360k followers. The creator briefly describes herself as a “chronically ill Australian who just wants to raise awareness while posting memes.”

    In 2022, she introduced herself to her followers by making a post talking all about her struggles and what this Facebook page means to her. “I’m an anxious, silly, weird, strange, uncomfortable, traumatized, neurodivergent Australian with fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, and endometriosis.

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    I like to use this platform as a personal blog and a way to spread awareness about disability, LGBTQIA+, women's rights, human rights, trans lives, the Black Lives Matter movement, and more. I’m pro-choice, and my pronouns are she/her,” she explains.

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    TheGoodBoi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I full heartedly agree with this 😌😌😌

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    BoredPossum
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if I'm annoying to these guys, it means that I'm doing it right.

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    To learn more about this page, we were lucky enough to get in contact with the creator herself. When asked what inspired her to start such a personal blog, she told Bored Panda, “At the start of lockdown 2020, Melbourne went into one of the harshest lockdowns. I got diagnosed with fibromyalgia and was so isolated from my life that I wanted to create a safe space for others who felt lost from their health issues so that we could come together and have a safe community.”

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    Little Wonder
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Takes way less energy to be nice. Oh, cashier messed up? My order is wrong? No worries, all fixable. Screaming and ranting is exhausting.

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    Morphuny
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know it’s stupid but I actually just wish for those people to understand not necessarily to experience the same pain

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    Kiwis Mom
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make "so I can move on from this, please do not contact me" also an option

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    She describes the content she posts as a mix of her own experiences, relevant memes about mental health, and current world affairs—something they can discuss together as a community. “I do love a good dark joke here and there and try to make fun of a crappy situation, I have always used humor to mask the pain. But I never take things too far and am always open to other opinions,” she adds.

    “I think I’m really trying to use the page to show that life is always going to be uncomfortable but having the people around you to make it a bit more comfortable is what’s important and it’s nice that people are just real and raw.”

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    digitalin
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly feel better reading this. I was always the "gullible" one, and hated when people would mess with me and think it was funny.

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    The creator hopes that something people take away from this page is a laugh or new information about people who suffer from chronic health conditions. “You never know who is disabled, and you never know if you could become disabled, so I always believe in sharing that information. I also hope that people can find a sense of community online, as it can be hard for a lot of us who cannot always socialize in person,” she says.

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    R Dennis
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true. I have a degenerative neuromuscular disease that will eventually leave me bedridden and unable to even swallow. I laugh and joke about my struggles and people say how strong I am... no. I just have no other option.

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    Birgit M
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ...and here I am with my brain telling me that I would never deserve to use such a great invention...

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    In order to ensure that the page remains a safe space, she doesn’t condone or tolerate any discrimination against the LGBTQIA+ community, body positivity, mental health disorders, race, religion, or disabilities. Doing so will result in a person being blocked from the page. 

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    Debs
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about we stick to little things and avoid the global-scale kind of things?

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    “I welcome different opinions, views, or stories from others, but transphobia/homophobia/racism/fatphobia, etc. will not be tolerated here. Please interact as you are through your personal experiences, but if you are going to belittle someone because of a difference in opinion or experience, then this is not the page for you,” she wrote in her post.

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    Libstak
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did the parents know that though? People only do what they know, if they knew better, they would do better. "Victims, aren't we all?", Brandon Lee, The Crow.

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    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We were raised to think that this was a 'fault' (being introverted) That we were rude to people by being 'quiet' and that we should change and be 'normal' Since I've been online I've discovered that introversion is not a minority pursuit it's just that (as you'd expect) the extroverts shout loudest..

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    However, she admits that she’s learning herself, and if there happens to be any misinformation on the page, she asks her followers to inform her about it. “If there is a post put up that has the wrong information, please let me know so I’m not posting fake information and that I can correct and educate myself as I am still learning.”

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    EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was born and abandoned. I was passed around to 'mothers' when I was in care. Adopted by a 'mother' who didn't want me. Passed around again. Sometimes 'mother' is overrated

    ILoveMySon
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am so sorry for you. I hope all is well now.

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    Regina Holt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last two times I said "I need my mom" ended in a way that I would have done better without my mom. I've since gone NC

    Magenta Blu
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never ever wanted my mom around... In fact when she passed away i was drown by relief for the first time in my life. And no. I don't miss her. I'm glad I do not have to deal with her anymore.

    Stephanie A Mutti
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    definitely. There are times I hear my brain say "I want my mother" but then remember when I said that as a child, she wouldn't appear or help or give me the comfort I needed.

    Comedy Clumbers
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didn't consent to this kick in my gut.

    Doofnuts
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why yes, one of the reasons.

    Bumblebee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you need A mom. ANY mom but yours

    Elaine Reed
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I borrowed an older lady as a spare Mum as mine moved overseas with Dad for his work. This is an excellent way to have second opinions and caring when family are not available. I call them "Adoptive Aunts/ Spare Mums". I find mine at Church, then we have time to get to know each other first. Neutral territory.

    Mary Dodd
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup. I had one like that and apparently I also am one.

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    Lotekguy
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Give me some time to think about whether I relate to the question.

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    Currently, she’s not the only one who’s running the page. During the interview, Aynslie mentioned that her admin’s name is Ellie. “She is the backbone of this page. She has been so helpful and supportive, and it’s been great to be able to make a friend through this,” she fondly shared.

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    RedMarbles
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It takes time and repetition, but you can still develop new/better neural pathways after your brain is fully developed. Toddlers' neural pathways look like a whole mess of secondary roads and adults' look like mostly expressways, which are the pathways you use repeatedly, with few smaller roads compared to children. You can still make new roads, though!

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    Kristal
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How do you know when you aren't in survival mode?

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    The creator takes great pride in fostering a safe community for those who need it, and its members are appreciative of it. “I have borderline personality disorder, and your account is bringing me SO MUCH JOY,” one person commented.

    "I'm also neurodivergent and have a lot of similar physical and mental health conditions. Thanks for making this page, it's always so relatable,” added another.

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    LB
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I breathed out through my nose rather fast. I recognize this!

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    The creator of the page is very thankful for anyone who follows or visits her safe heaven on the internet. “I really am grateful for the people who have followed me, been through some dark times, and always been able to find great support and even friendships. I never expected my page to gain so many followers, but I am always grateful for those who are joining the journey of life and feel safe being themselves.”

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    Gustav Gallifrey
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Criticism isexpected. Compliments...they either want something from you, or are just raising you up so they can watch you fall harder.

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    Mabelbabel
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similarly, never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.

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    Seeing such pages bring people together with similar experiences is truly inspiring and proves that reaching out to others is always worth it. We have so many wonderful people out there who are willing to comfort us and lend a helping hand - just keep that in mind.

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    Manana Man
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gah! It seems like nobody lets anything slide any more. We're becoming a very thin skinned species.

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    Dumb teenager
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Agreed, it's getting really annoying that "how are you" has basically become the new hi.

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    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or expecting other people to treat me with the respect I treat them??

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    Dragon mama
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first 10 years of my marriage summed up in one sentence. holy cràp that hit hard

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    Comedy Clumbers
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude, the problem is if I let myself start, I may never be able to stop again.

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    digitalin
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I passed a friendly neighbor while walking back to my house yesterday. We exchanged the standard pleasantries and then I said "I'm going to go inside and drink water" and she was like "ok, you do that." And now I wonder if that's a normal thing that normal people would say, or if I'm just setting expectations up front so they know what to expect from me.

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    Dumb teenager
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does the spectrum have a quitline? I really need to reduce my dosage of it

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    Kristal
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oooh that's what it's called. Okay, did not know that was a specifically BPD thing

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    Kel_how
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While doing online dating a few years ago, I started calling guys out on their s**t and recommending therapy. By s**t, I mean using me as a therapist, unhealthy friendships, unhealthy parent-child relationships, saying weird c**p to me. Nah, mate, you've got to pay a professional; I'm not interested.

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    Illifred
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my case, I think this someone is David Lynch.

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    Penguin Panda Pop
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He typed some comment on Bored Panda. He was not happy with it. He clicked 'post' anyway.

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    another day another ion wanna do this no more

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    Kristal
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cause I mostly watch at night and I don't want to be a c**p neighbor (shared walls) but still want to understand what I'm watching

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    devotedtodreams
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't even fathom thinking of myself as "so sweet and cute"... must be nice if one can.

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    Nosirrow
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother's parents only met bc of the result of WW 2. So it's Stalin's fault I'm here. But Hitler started the war, but also that war was the result of the first, so it's Princip's fault.

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    clairebear
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women cry when they are angry. If someone is making you feel like that a lot, it's time to cut them off.

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh good, I like baked beans. I thought it meant Bad Boi..

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    Auntriarch
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I ask Mr Auntriarch what he fancies for tea and he says anything, or what have we got. These are wrong answers. If I wanted to think about it or if we had anything in the fridge, I wouldn't be asking

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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, my partner knows how to push my buttons. He is the one who installed them.

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