Asking to customize a food order can feel a little bit daunting, especially for the more introverted personas out there. First, there’s the possibility that the person taking your order might roll their eyes in judgment when you ask for your medium-rare steak to be burned or your burger to come without a bun. Then you might hear the chef complaining about it faintly in the background, making you wince and crouch in awkwardness. However, those who never try asking might never know just how satisfying and yummy delicious compliance can be.
We have prepared a whole list of instances when food service workers gladly complied with customers’ requests, aka committed an act of delicious compliance, leaving them ecstatic. Scroll down to find times when all people’s food dreams came true, and make sure to upvote the ones you feel a bit jealous of.
While you're at it, don't forget to check out a conversation with Tim Tobitsch, restaurateur with more than 20 years of hands-on ownership experience and founder of Food Truck Insight, who kindly agreed to chat with us more about food customizations.
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Server Came Back And Said They Had A Guest Who Was Autistic And All They Wanted Was A Tower Of Grilled Cheese. I Was More Than Happy To Oblige
Me, an autistic person: Uh-oh, the neurotypicals have discovered our weakness!
My hubby loves a peanut butter sandwich with his tomato soup. To each their own! Cheers!
Load More Replies...Excuse me .. I too would like a tower of grilled cheese LOL please and thank you :D
That’s a kindness. And it will have meant so much to the individual. Just as long as it doesn’t become a habit, for the sake of their health.
Does Preemptive Compliance Count?
I Asked For “The Crispiest Hash Brown The Kitchen Could Conceive Of” And Got This Beauty
That an omelet with spinach and Verde sauce?! YUMMY!
Load More Replies...They so often undercook them and it's like eating raw tiny slices of potato
When i was pregnant this is what i craved. First you cook on flattop for 20+ mins then throw the whole thing in fryer. Mmm
Even though my introverted fellows can feel hesitant to ask for food customizations, it’s a common practice for others while dining out or ordering takeout. More picky eaters and people with allergies or dietary restrictions may ask to remove an ingredient or swap it for some other option.
While those who enjoy a particular topping, sauce, or condiment may ask for extras, and if they are lucky, they get served with delicious compliance.
Asked For So Many Mushrooms On Our Pizza That They Thought It Would Be For A Practical Joke. They Nailed It. Delicious!
Sammmme the smell makes me vomit for some reason. Only thing on earth that does it to me
Load More Replies...I Finally Found A Pizza Place That Knows The Correct Amount Of Pepperoni To Put On A Pizza
So nice of them, I had a pizza place I’d go to 3-4 times a week when I left my 10yr relationship. They were the best, as soon as they saw my car pull in they would go next door to grocery store and get a whole bunch of basil just for my pizza (proper Napoli style Margherita extra basil ) I thought the waitress was leaving to avoid me until I saw what she brought back 😂
Sorry I hate pepperoni (I know I'm a mutant) Makes it too greasy.🤢
I dabbed off the grease with napkins or paper towels. I don't care what insults come my way doing this. I figure if I'm going to eat a pepperoni pizza, then maybe I can take off more calories so it isn't the worst I could do. Tastes the same to me.
Load More Replies...I Went To My Local McDonald’s And The Kid In The Drive Through Asked How Much Ice Cream I Wanted, I Just Said Yes
Holy cow! The more important thing is that the machine was working.
WOW, I'll take that ice cream as long as I'm not the one driving so I can eat it before it melts.
It's been a decade or three since I tasted McD's ice cream, but my memory of its artificial flavour makes me wonder whether anyone could eat all of that without being physically sick. Pretty sure I could not. Or is my memory not correct?
To find out how food service workers or establishments generally respond to customers requesting food customizations (like asking to remove, swap, or add an ingredient), Bored Panda reached out to Tim Tobitsch, a restaurateur with more than 20 years of hands-on ownership experience and founder of Food Truck Insight. Having spent over two decades in the industry, he knows all the ins and outs about it.
"This primarily depends on the type of service being offered. As a general rule, the faster service is designed to be, the more interruptive it is to take special requests. A food truck operator may have the goal of serving scores of people in an hour just to break even. In this situation, anything that disrupts the operator's efficient assembly line process may be seen with great annoyance," he explained.
Asked For A Lot Of Ketchup At Farmer Boys, They Gave Me The Entire Bottle
I love the way you said this and I want to give you all my upvotes ❤️
Load More Replies...Asked For Light Rice, Got Extra Everything Else!
My local Chinese place does the same thing. If you order General Tso chicken with no broccoli, they fill the entire container with chicken
I Wrote "More Hot Sauce = Bigger Tip" In The Special Instructions. She Brought Me 55 Packets. So I Tipped Her $21 On A $21 Order
Honest question: why? Putting this many packets in the bag is about as much effort as only putting one or two. What exactly have they done that deserves such a huge tip?
Load More Replies...However, if a customer is dining in a more expensive place, their requests may be honored more easily, said Tim. "This, of course, may still be limited by what that request is and what cooking and prep methods are required."
But sometimes, no matter the restaurant, the chef's ego might become involved in such a way that they could flat out refuse to alter their culinary masterpieces.
Asked For An Extra Side Of Bread Bc I Have The Stomach Flu. Gave Me Six Loaves (2 Per Wrapping)
Asked For Extra Chicken On My Yakisoba. You Can Barely See The Noodles
That's three meals, of course, I'm saying yes, and Thank You.
Load More Replies...I Asked For "More Pickle Than Burger" And The S****d Cook Understood The Assignment
Ewwwwww. I hate dill pickles and always get my stuff without pickles. 🤢🤢🤢🤢
"There is no place for that in my kitchen," said Tim. "It all comes down to attitude first, and the literal feasibility of the request second. If you see guests as an annoyance or their requests as a hindrance to profitability, you are unlikely to consider honoring them. If you see guests as people you have the opportunity to help make whole through the sacred act of sharing food in community, you are likely to be inspired to work with their customization requests whenever possible."
I Asked For Some Avocado With My Tacos
I buy mine frozen in chunks so it doesn't ever go bad. It's also cheaper that way, you're not paying for pits.
Load More Replies...Skyline Chili Isn’t For Everyone, But Their Cheese Compliance Can’t Be Topped. This Is Standard, Not Extra
Don't worry, there's spaghetti under there too. Probably also raw onion. There might be a hot dog involved. It's Skyline chili. It's it's own thing.
Load More Replies...What is their address? i will put it in my Google Maps and be there tomorrow.
Ordered A $3 12 Pack Of Ramen In Order To Get Free Shipping. Only Charged For One But Received 144
Watch that sodium level...really bad for the cardiovascular system!
I mean...at least they won't go hungry if they're broke. They could just eat the noodles with something else or only use a small amount of the flavor packet. Sometimes I buy the soy sauce ones because I use part of the flavor packet for a dressing and I save the noodles and just use them with stir fry or soup.
Load More Replies...Dunno. Computer or human error. They bought a 12 pack but got 144, so somehow they got 12 12 packs.
Load More Replies...To increase chances of getting food service workers to fulfill a request, customers should be honest and polite, Tim suggested.
"Explain your preference while also noting that you understand it may not be possible for your customization request to be honored. Even if you are a veteran of professional kitchens, keep in mind that you do not know what else is happening in a specific kitchen at the time you place your order," he explained.
"The restaurant might not appear busy, but a large online order or last-minute employee call off may have left the back of the house in the weeds. A server might have inadvertently pressed an incorrect button in their haste to spend time with several tables, all of which are demanding attention at the same time. There are countless unseen variables at play all the time."
Olive Garden Waitress Was On Her Breadstick Game
Actually they have specific rules (at least when I worked there almost 20 Years ago. The first round you had to bring one bread stick per person at the table plus one extra. I forget what the amount was for every refill after that though. They even have rules for the salad. Two olives and two peppers per bowl.
Load More Replies...Asked For Extra Pickles… I Think I Got Em
Like a heart-attack, but WHAT a way to go!
Load More Replies...I Asked For "Soup With Extra Tofu" And I Ordered Some Plain Rice Seperately. I Wasnt Charged Extra, This Is The "Extra" Tofu
A big no-no when asking for food customization is faking having an allergy, said Tim.
"There is nothing worse than a customer who claims to have a food allergy when they clearly do not. Service workers are trained to be familiar with the eight most common allergens and often know more about an allergic condition than the person who purports to have the allergy. That said, there is also nothing worse than a food worker who refuses to take a legitimate allergy seriously. Clearly, if you have a food allergy and share this information, any professional hospitality worker should not see you or your request as difficult."
No Mine, But Found On A Google Review Of A Local Place I Frequent
It's okay. We're gonna get through this together. Everything's gonna be okay.
Load More Replies...I Asked If They Could Add Roasted Garlic To My Flatbread.. 😍
Roasted, absolutely! It becomes very mild, creamy and almost sweet.
Load More Replies...Only if the person asks for extra and they don't really like it 🤷 read the comments here most people would be thrilled since roasted is mild
Load More Replies...I Asked For A Little Extra Cream Cheese On My Bagel
In NYC that is just a schmear. You want a lot, you should see what you get
"The only time it is never appropriate to bring up a potential customization is when you have been preemptively alerted that a specific dish or food vendor will not honor substitutions," he added.
"However, if you notice that a restaurant is particularly busy and your customization request is not a life or death matter, it would certainly be considerate to withhold from making a special request. Muscle memory comes with the repetitive nature of kitchen work, and even when a request is heard and fully processed, a cook's body might take over and make your item as it is presented, the vast majority of the time rather than the different way you have requested," Tim explained.
"Correcting such an error is relatively straightforward in a vacuum, but not so simple when a dozen other tickets are hanging in the window as additional orders continue to come in. If you can enjoy eating a menu item as it comes, consider not making a request if you can imagine that request as likely to break a kitchen's busy workflow."
I Asked For Extra Pickles…
I hate going to drive-thrus and asking for extra pickles. I usually get 3 instead of the usual 2.
If your local drive thru are nice, ask for extra extra extra. Unfortunately corporate dictates that extra is 50%, so 3 instead of 2 is correct. And it sucks. Extra extra? We'll load er up
Load More Replies...Agreed, but I'm this way with tomatoes and onions so..
Load More Replies...Had A Customer Ask For Extra Extra Whip, Which Called For A Little Delicious Compliance
Looks good but gonna have to be super careful until all of that whipped cream is gone.
An '8 Piece' Nugget Box
They got extra because Popeyes SUCKS! Have been there 3 times and got different things and all of it was a waste of money and went in the trash.
I WILL relent the blackened tenders can slap if the right worker makes em. Used to work at a popeyes n ome team member would COAT the tenders in it! Had a good hard tick to it that the mash would perfectly quell
Load More Replies...Hate to break it to ya but that means either A. More breading than chicken. B. It was about to be tosseed. C. Both (Source: i worked at a popeyes)
In case your food customization request isn't fulfilled, Tim recommends maintaining grace. "This does not mean that you need to sit silently and consume incorrectly prepared food, but it does mean that you should continue to be polite, assume there are reasonable factors that account for the error, and simply ask if it can be corrected."
Asked For Extra Green Onions (Because Who Doesn’t Like Green Onion?) And They Came Through
I love green onions and have them and chives in planters on my front porch.
What are green onions? Pic looks a bit like spring onions. Usually found in salads
Husband Asked For A Side Of Ranch…
This would make me nervous that they have all this left out/potentially expired ranch
Somewhere the kitchen staff is gloating in their "malicious compliance" post about their manager's rules, "every side order gets its own side container" and "be sure to fill every side container". They might have even giggled when the customer asked for a "side of ranch" and asked them to repeat it, in front of the boss.
I Don’t Eat Pork, So I Asked The Waiter To “Hold The Bacon”
Upvote for the Amelia Bedelia reference ❤️
Load More Replies...You shouldn't have been downvoted..here's an update to get back to 0.
Load More Replies...Asked For A Plain Sundae. Nice
You can tell this is AI because there is ice cream in a McDonald's cup
I thought their ice cream machine was always broken.
Load More Replies...I had the opposite from someone who said they didn't care since they hate their job, and I will never stop remembering my love for them 🤣 I asked for a hot fudge sundae and no matter how often I say extra extra extra, I still rarely got any. That time I flat out said give me a little ice cream as they possibly can get away with, since I literally only like enough to give the hot fudge a cooling chill to it......they absolutely delivered. Did a HUGE amount amount of hot fudge, then barely a drop of ice cream then repeated that until it was full. I'm telling you that person was a pure angel.
Astounded At What ‘Extra Jalapeños’ Meant To This Person 🥵
I order "so many jalapenos you think 'that's too many jalapenos' then double it and bring me a side." This is the correct amount of jalapenos
How can people eat these “nachos”? (The amount of jalapeños not being the issue.)
Wait! What do your nachos have? All I know is crappy American food and the few delicious foods I get to experience on vacations. I don't understand peoples obsession with this snack. I'm not a fan of soggy things. What's the actual good version?
Load More Replies...My husband would be absolutely ecstatic....I'd be rooms away and STILL gagging from the smell alone 🤣
Love the amount of peppers. Those chips are going to be soggy though.
Asked For Heavy Pepper On My Pepper Crusted Lamb Chops
Yikes. For me, lamb is a sweet meat full of flavour. This much pepper would destroy all that flavour :(
Stfu Mike, it wasn't your order and we don't care how YOU like or want it
Load More Replies...Oohhhhhh noooooo no no no! Black pepper is good to elevate flavors but NOT as the dryrub/seasoning! That much that thick n whole (ungrinded)will ruin the dish n overpower the other/natural flavors entirely! Had a steak like this (didnt ask) and i couldnt eat 1 bite without needing to drinl a full glass of water!
I Asked For Extra Parmesan Cheese
I Asked For Extra Wontons. (Normal Is 4)
I judge Chinese restaurants on their wonton soup. If it's good, there's an excellent chance the rest will be.
Asked For Double Broccoli Instead Of Fries
Me too! Especially when it's in some kind of sauce so the sauce gets all soaked into the leafy bits, so when you bite into it you get a little sauce explosion.
Load More Replies...Asked For Some Extra Ghost Pepper Ranch
Wendy's, right? The ghost pepper is present in only homeopathic quantities.
Love the fact that someone else knows what that means.😂🤣😂
Load More Replies...oh my God this just brought back one of my funniest memories from Wendy's being a manager. we had a guy that would come in like once maybe twice a month he'd order his food, And then he would want to buy as many barbecue sauce containers as we had so we had 50 one time and we had to charge him something so he'd get all this for like 5 bucks if I working. normally we're supposed to charge it was either 50 cents or $0.75 per.
I Asked For "Light Lettuce" On The App And This Is What They Gave Me
I Just Asked For “Some” Ranch. I Got It
I wonder if it was near closing and this was what was left for the night?
If you haven't seen "punish your toilet" from Family Guy, head on over to youtube
My Fiancee Asked For Extra Rocket/Rucola On Her Pizza
"Enlarged" Image Is Smaller Than The Actual Candy
Asked For Extra Lime
The Customer Asked For A Salad "No Lettuce, Extra Onion" I Hope I Did Ok
i thought i was the only person who ordered salad with as little lettuce as possible i love salad toppings but i hate lettuce
Very same, but mine would have about the same amount of tomatoes.
Load More Replies...Asked For Extra Hot Fudge
A Customer Ordered "Extra Pickles. Extra Extra Pickles. Max Pickle."
I Asked For Lemons For My Beer
Lemons or limes can taste really good with beer. Corona, a Mexican beer, gets served with a lime.
Load More Replies...Asked For Extra Seasoning On My Snow Cheese Fries. The Pic Doesn't Do It Justice, This Is A Buttload Of Very, Very Fine Powder
I Never Told Them To Stop At The Olive Garden So They Just Gave Me 4 Blocks Of Cheese To Take Home
This Cake Weighs Nowhere Near The Listed Weight
My Coworker Asked For A “F**kton” Of Caramel
Didn't Even Ask For Extra Anything, Just Jalapeños On Half. We Were Wondering Why We Could Only Smell Jalapeños The Whole Ride Home
Yes I’ll Have A Pound Of Cream Cheese With My Bagel 🥯
Requested Extra Spicy Fried Rice. The Restaurant Owner/Chef Asked Me If It Was Spicy Enough. I Said It Was Fine, But He Could Tell I Wanted More. He Came Back With A Cup Of 🌶️ And Said "That's My Own Stash. It's Not For Sale. Enjoy."
I Told My Mom I’ll Only Eat One Paratha For Dinner, So She Made The Paratha Almost As Big As The Plate
They Put An Entire Tub Of Cream Cheese On My Bagel
The bagel is just there so you don't look like a weirdo eating the tub of cream cheese with a spoon.
Asked For Some Seaweed Salad To Go
I used to eat seaweed bread, can't find it locally anymore. Yummy stuff.
Load More Replies...When I Asked For 3 Extra Pickles
I think there was a debate in the kitchen of whether you wanted 3 extra slices, or 3 entire pickles.
I Asked A&w For Extra Cheese On My Chili Cheese Fries, And Boy Did They Deliver!
I Asked For Extra Caramel And Mcdonald’s Gave Me A Whole Cup Of It Basically
My Local Wendy’s Knows What “Give Me The Most Onion You Are Legally Allowed To Give” Means
This person's dragon breath must have been legendary after this little snack.
My Dining Companion Asked For Extra Whipped Cream At Red Robin
Animal Style Fries Extra Extra Whole Grilled Onion
Asked For An Extra Spoon 😭
Asked For Extra Mac Sauce, Safe To Say I Was Satisfied
I've done this and fondly remembered it while I was pretreating the stains on my shirt.
I'm busty, so I've just learned to layer napkins on the shelf.
Load More Replies...I Ordered A Two Piece Meal And Asked For A Chicken Breast, They Gave Me Two
Customer Was Angry At Me That She Could Only Add Up To Triple Olives, So I Told Her I Would Personally Make Her Pizza
Me too! Theres a pizza place far from me but i hit up when im in the area (twice a year) that has this "Holey Shitakii Pie" thats a 3 mushroom pizza with galroc sacuce n drizzle on top with onions its amazing!
Load More Replies...Dq Did That
Asked For Extra Butter
Friend Asked Me To Make Her An Oreo With “A Ridiculous” Amount Of Filling
“May I Have More Ranch?”
Asked For Extra Pickles On My Whataburger
This Large Kibble I Found In My Cat’s Food - Normal One For Scale
Complied 🥒
That's gotta be a slider. I have never seen a slice of pickle almost as big as a burger.
Just Pickles, Xtra Pickles Done Right!
Was this right after the bars closed? Too drunk to go to grocery store for a jar of pickles if that is all you wanted.
Asked For Extra Meat, Gave Me Extra Sauce As Well 😋
Looks like Poutine gone wild. Poutine is fries with cheese curds and gravy. YUM!
Not Sure If This Applies But This Fruit By The Foot Bag Gave Me Two Instead Of One
Asked For Lemons In My Tea At Texas Roadhouse
Wendy's Mobile Order Xtra Onion:
So I Asked For Extra Pickles On My Mcdouble
This Is What I Hope For Every Time I Ask For Extra Lettuce. A++
I know I'm in the minority but I love the lighter, crisper inner leaves of iceberg. Especially on a peanut butter sandwich.
Iceberg lettuce is excellent on a sandwich. It provides a good crunch.
Load More Replies...Told The Lunch Lady To Waterboard My Biscuits Like Gitmo
Roommate Ordered Three Extra Ranches From Wingstop, They Gave Us More Than Three Extra
I Asked For Extra Jalapeños Cause I’m Sick, Did Not Disappoint
You should try Tempura spicy tuna roll with cream cheese and jalapenos. Delicious!!
Asked For Chili Oil On My Chicken, They Brought This Out :d
I Asked Mcdonald’s For An Ungodly Amount Of Extra Onion
Customer Asked For Glazed Croissants. Large Puddle Of Glaze In The Bottom. Customer Said It’s Okay It Was A Mess
Found On Social Media
Went To Taco Bell And Asked For As Much Diablo Sauce As They Were Legally Allowed To Give Me
Rice Did Not Originally Come With Corn, Asked For Some And This Is What Came
Had 2 Orders At Work Where The Customer Just Wanted A Single Tomato. Guess Which One I Chose
I hope it didn't go to waste. I order only 1 tomato for my work, if salad wraps or something are on the menu (after school care) because only 1 or 2 kids will eat it and it goes to waste otherwise (I take it home but don't eat fresh tomato much so it is likely to go off).
I Asked For Extra Spicy Because Even The 5/5 Spicy Isn't Much
I think some of these workers were being dìcks. Like, “Oh, you want extra [something], huh? Yeah, have fun with this.”
I think many of them are just like "Hold my beer, I got this!"
Load More Replies...Years ago we use to order Papa John's pizza every Friday, and I always paid the extra 50 cents for an extra sauce - sometimes cheese, sometime BBQ, etc. Didn't always get it, but wasn't going to call them for 50 cents. One day I was fed up and wrote them about how they were often forgetting my extra sauce that I paid for. Next time we ordered, they delivered pizza and a grocery bag full of the various sauces that I typically order. They have a ridiculously long shelf life, so we didn't order extra sauces for a very long time LOL
My sister always eats a chicken schnitzel if out for dinner and keeps a record of the good ones. She also always asks for extra lemon for it, so one of the items on the record is how much that ends up being, the more the better!
OMG I LOVE chicken schnitzel with lemon juice! Every time I SMOTHER it in as much lemon as I can possibly squeeze out of the wedge, and if that's not good enough I ask for more. I like lemon in general, really. I put it on hot chips ("fries") as well.
Load More Replies...I can't keep reading unless I have Bored Panda Premium. I'm sorry WHAT. This world sucks.
I was able to read the whole thing a week ago, got some upvotes, and suddenly got cut off at #30.
Load More Replies...Worked at popeye yeaaars ago. Recall pne person ordered the blackened tenders "extra blackened". The cook that day was having a rough day (it was insanely busy n they were short a cook) cue malicious compliance. Bro seasoned them so much they were BLACK! Like you couldnt see the chicken color underneath XD customer was amazed but very thankful (spunded like they didnt expect it to acutally be that extra xD)
Some of these grossed me out and others had my mouth watering, so now I don't know what to think.
I think some of these workers were being dìcks. Like, “Oh, you want extra [something], huh? Yeah, have fun with this.”
I think many of them are just like "Hold my beer, I got this!"
Load More Replies...Years ago we use to order Papa John's pizza every Friday, and I always paid the extra 50 cents for an extra sauce - sometimes cheese, sometime BBQ, etc. Didn't always get it, but wasn't going to call them for 50 cents. One day I was fed up and wrote them about how they were often forgetting my extra sauce that I paid for. Next time we ordered, they delivered pizza and a grocery bag full of the various sauces that I typically order. They have a ridiculously long shelf life, so we didn't order extra sauces for a very long time LOL
My sister always eats a chicken schnitzel if out for dinner and keeps a record of the good ones. She also always asks for extra lemon for it, so one of the items on the record is how much that ends up being, the more the better!
OMG I LOVE chicken schnitzel with lemon juice! Every time I SMOTHER it in as much lemon as I can possibly squeeze out of the wedge, and if that's not good enough I ask for more. I like lemon in general, really. I put it on hot chips ("fries") as well.
Load More Replies...I can't keep reading unless I have Bored Panda Premium. I'm sorry WHAT. This world sucks.
I was able to read the whole thing a week ago, got some upvotes, and suddenly got cut off at #30.
Load More Replies...Worked at popeye yeaaars ago. Recall pne person ordered the blackened tenders "extra blackened". The cook that day was having a rough day (it was insanely busy n they were short a cook) cue malicious compliance. Bro seasoned them so much they were BLACK! Like you couldnt see the chicken color underneath XD customer was amazed but very thankful (spunded like they didnt expect it to acutally be that extra xD)
Some of these grossed me out and others had my mouth watering, so now I don't know what to think.
