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Many people have that one piece of media that has gotten them through a tough time. For me, it's the 1950 movie Harvey with James Stewart. In it, his character Elwood P. Dowd says: "For years I was smart. I recommend pleasant." It's much more gratifying to risk being corny but stay kind.
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I've been crying a lot since my wife died two days ago and the cats have seemed to be staying close to me.
This has nothing to do with the post above. Rather, this is about Bored Panda's placement and increasing amount of ads on here. It's obnoxious and I'm not going to pay to see Bored Panda. Especially when a majority of the posts now are copied from reddit or IG.
Oh bless her heart!! cats are amazing. He knew every word I said and he was very very intelligent. My boy my Sethrow Bajoe my handsome Prince of Persia was 19 when he died and he was irreplaceable. I will never be able to love another again.
I hope she is recovered. By the sound of it, you have a sweet little companion! >^.,.^< ♥
This little girl has some powerful empathy. She'll play an important role in life with that wonderful trait.
A lack of empathy is quite disturbing. I’ll never understand it.
Load More Replies...And slowly jogging away while giggling. It probably makes their day.
Load More Replies...Frankly, if you haven't been to prison, the "bottom" you started from was already WAY above his. It's not the same at all
Load More Replies...Once a convict is released from prison, they have served their sentence. It isn't right for laypeople to add to that sentence by refusing them employment and housing. So good on ya, Wendy's for seeing this man has fulfilled his court sentence.
We all gotta start somewhere. After I got out in had a couple crappy jobs before I got the job I have now. Been with the same company 22 years now.
Congratulations and good vibrations OP happy new job and new life to you
you've already done more in 10 days than some people in a month. Congratulations!
The world is tough at the moment for some Pandas. Seasonal depression might be kicking in for those in the Northern Hemisphere, traditional media keeps bombarding us with negative news, and the stress of buying all the holiday presents isn't helping in any way.
It's important to maintain a positive outlook and keep our mental well-being in mind. But how do we do that without stepping into delulu territory? Positivity is good, but, as folks say, too much of a good thing can bite us in our rears sometimes.
My Mum & Dad adopted a pair of cats whose owner had passed away, one was a healthy tabby who was active and fighting fit, the other was a senior cat, long scruffy fur, no teeth, barely able to walk and zero desire to leave the cat bed hanging on the radiator. Kitty was always busy, in and out, bringing home ‘trophies’, Clem on the other hand was perfectly happy watching the world go by and staying warm. Every now and again Kitty would check up on Clem and once satisfied that all was ok then she’d head out again. Adopt a senior cat, they’ll show you what it is to be relaxed and happy!
One of my cats is a senior now (I’ve had him since he was about six months old). He’s still fairly active and runs around with the younger one sometimes, but he definitely sleeps more and his jumps aren’t always the best. I wish their lifespans were longer. I’m tearing up.
Load More Replies...My best friend who was homeless for a period of his younger life would always mention this and it makes me cry every time. I am proud of you OP safe and cozy in your own space, very proud. Hugs
When I was growing up I would ask for things like a horse or a pet dog and so on. Mom would always respond that when I was grown I could have what I wanted. And I did! I bought my first acreage at age 25 and a real farm at age 33. What a great life!
“There’s no place like home!” That literally just happened to me too. Congratulations! Now you don’t have to feel insecure or unstable. You’re finally safe and free, and there’s no better feeling in the world (in my humble opinion).
This is pure c**p. There is no reason for this d**g to be this expenive anymore. The companies have recouped their development costs by now. Now it's just pure avarice.
Yes, but please look more closely and you'll see that it's not actually the manufacturers who are marking it up so much. The whole US system that allows it to happen is what's to blame. Presumably this bill is an attempt to improve the system, but if it's specific to one disease/treatment then it's kinda missing the point. A regulated and controlled medical service is to the benefit of everybody, but they keep voting for leaders that are adamant that the current mess must not be changed.
Load More Replies...In Sweden you never pay more then 200 dollars a year foe meda and all insulin gear and gadgets are free.
I spend at least that a month, and I have really good health insurance for the States.
Load More Replies...Where is this? My husband's insulin is still expensive -- over $400. We get a reduced price because of our income through Lilly. Without that help, we couldn't afford it.
Texas, believe it or not. I used to live in Austin and I remember when he did this. He's one of the rare good ones.
Load More Replies...Prescriptions are free in Northern Ireland. Health shouldn't depend on your wealth.
Insulin prescriptions are even free in England, which does have a prescription charge - although lots of people are exempt and no-one need pay more than £114.50 for 12 months of prescriptions. https://www.gov.uk/get-a-ppc
Load More Replies...Knew a man, a husband and a father, who couldn't afford his insulin. He was halving the doses to make it stretch, but insulin doesn't work that way. I was moving out of the area as his health dramatically failed, so I don't know if he made it or not.
But these same pharmaceutical firms charge reasonable prices for insulin everywhere outside the USA. There is obviously something badly wrong with the medicines market in the USA. I wish I knew what the problem was, but I don't.
Load More Replies...D**g companies have a captive market and take advantage of sick people.
They take advantage like that in the USA, but they don't seem able to get away with it anything like as badly in other nations. There is something deeply strange going on in the US.
Load More Replies...While we probably all want to feel good all the time, that's not how being a person works. Being positive and keeping a good attitude is always better than wallowing in self-pity and depression, but we shouldn't forget that it's also okay to feel sadness, anger, disappointment, and even anxiety from time to time.
Graham Reynolds, PhD, describes toxic positivity for the ADAA as encouraging statements that should minimize painful emotions. Toxic positivity is about being unrealistically optimistic without taking into account the circumstances of a situation.
It's impossible to waste your time on any child. That consultant should be ashamed.
Giving up on a child that easily? Ashamed? Surely "fired"?
Load More Replies...Any basically competent doctor should admit to themselves and others that they don't know everything.
Load More Replies...My aunt was the same way when she got Alzheimer's. She couldn't remember your name or relation to her, but she sure remembered that she loved you!
My mum has the early stages of this horrible illness and had a - thankfully very brief - period when she was much worse (infection-related delirium, for those sadly familiar with such things) and couldn't remember who I was, but burst into tears of relief when the nurse looking after her got me on the phone and she heard my voice. Obviously some part of her recognised me, even when her conscious mind didn't.
One of the last conversations I had with my grandmother is very similar. She didn't really know or recognize anyone anymore. I had flown out to help her move into hospice. She's laying in the bed and looks at me and asks, "do I know you?" I said, "you do" She asked if I was from California... I told her I was... she then asked if I was her granddaughter (she used my name), as she was getting choked up at the thought. When I said I was, she burst into tears of joy and asked me what I was doing there and told me how much she loved and missed me. She passed away later that night. As hard as that was, I know that she loved me and knew how much she meant to me, too.
Treasure this rare moments of clarity as they will get fewer and further inbetween.
Just lost my mum to Dementia. I was with her at the end, and I knew that she knew me at that time. ❤️💔 x
What a flashback to days of yore, when toys were made of wood. Hope the kids appreciate this man's selfless contributions.
Some signs of toxic positivity can be feeling guilty about being sad or angry, hiding or disguising these sorts of difficult emotions, or relying on positive quotes about hard situations. People who engage in toxic positivity might start ignoring their real-life problems like financial difficulties. They also might be inappropriately positive when it comes to comforting others and dismissing their feelings.
it definitely happened somewhere. Maybe it was not sign language. Maybe it was about learning an other language. But yes, this kind of story definitely happen :)
Load More Replies...I became a translator because a French girl moved to my primary school so I had to learn French. But lots of people in my family speak French and I needed to rebel, so I started adding to the language list :)
Hi fellow translator! I became one because I needed to understand the handsome Italian boys talking to me when I first went there on holidays halfway through highschool ;-)
Load More Replies...The Fair Labor Standards Act allows employers to pay disabled workers below the federal minimum wage, but the US Department of Labor has proposed a rule to phase this out. Now if only Congress would get back to work to help their constituents instead of wasting time seeking revege, this may pass.
We had a girl in our town who had Downs Syndrome. She founded the "UP Foundation!
Movie tip: I really enjoyed "Champions" with Woody Harrelson. Similar mood to this.
It's based on a spanish film, Campeones, both are great thou they have slight differences.
Load More Replies...A friend of mine has down syndrome and not only has a job but won first place in weight lifting in the US Special Olympics. He is a very kind soul.
There's a cafe near me that was set up as a social enterprise to train young adults with special needs-the young people were taught cooking skills, and they do traybakes, soups, brunch dishes, sausage rolls and speciality bread. It was funded by the local social services initially, but now it's fully self-financing because the food is so damn good. They run evening classes, led by the chefs, teaching you how to make bread and pastries-it's just a great place to visit.
Beagles are born housekeepers. Ours kept our house clean by eating my birthday cake before the party when I was 6.
LOL. I don't have to yell, I have to block the entrance to my small kitchen I have 70 & 85 lb German Shepherd mixes that will scarf up anything that hits the floor whether or not they can have it the furry beggars.
Mine wait close by when I am cooking, just far enough away to keep me from fussing at them for being underfoot, but close enough to see anything fall!
Load More Replies...Nope. Need a comma after "floor" for that to be valid.
Load More Replies...I don't have to yell. My dogs are ALWAYS underfoot hoping for "drops" when I'm in the kitchen.
Kendra Cherry, MSEd, writes that positive thinking can be good for us but that toxic positivity "rejects all difficult emotions in favor of a cheerful and often falsely positive façade." For example, feeling sad and disappointed about not getting a job is normal. You can give yourself time to grieve this opportunity you think you had in the bag; life isn't always "good vibes only."
My mum works in the library (not a librarian, I believe her title is….circulation supervisor or something?) and she’s always up to the coolest stuff. Last time we had dinner she showed me the cute dioramas she was making with Lego people and cardboard/paint. She also started a monthly “bad art night” where people go in to the library to make the ugliest, worst art they possibly can. Sounds like a fun job 😊
i LOVE that bad at art idea! The point of art as a hobby is to enjoy doing it, and going in deciding you're going to do something bad on purpose takes off the pressure to be perfectionist about the outcome. That is a great idea!!
Load More Replies...When I was a kid/teenager, the library was a safe space and an excellent excuse to avoid going home. Surrounded by all those books opened doors that would've otherwise remained closed had it not been for the dedicated librarians who saw me.
I am sorry for your tumultuous childhood. As a former children's librarian, I can confirm that we are acutely aware of at risk children. I am glad you found a safe haven.
Load More Replies...Libraries look completely different these days to when I was young-in our local one, you can hire baking equipment even (after all, how many times are you going to need a Charlotte Russe mould, or a tin shaped like a dinosaur?), and they loan out gaming systems. Recently they got 3D metaquest headsets -you can't take them home yet, but there's a comfortable room set aside for play. There's storytelling, adult education services, musuc in loads of formats. The more people who register, the better their chances of getting more funding and continuing to improve services. Support your library!
Oh God and the +! Orthographical crime against humanity haha.
Load More Replies...YES! I had a patron who was living in his car. He lost his job, his house, and his family. He used the library to find a job and an apartment. No word on the family, but I have hopes.
Tell all the girls you're grandma made it for you and you'll be fighting them off.
That's what I was thinking. I'd just have to tell them, "Just to let you know, my Grandma is my #1 gal".
Load More Replies...Only is it beautiful, I love the subject, it's such a happy vest, such a conversation starter, he looks amazing in it, but to find out that he didn't just buy it online or in a store or something like that but is 90 year old grandma made it for him special? Oh my god, that would be the ultimate icebreaker/pickup line for me.
My son in law is a plumber... I loves other peoples pets... And he has the gift that every god dámn pet loves him... ❤️🤗
My husband is a total pet whisperer and I love that he sends me 'pet of the day' photos from the jobs he's on (he's an electrician).
Load More Replies...I was doing some flooring repair, and was alone in a house with a shy kitty. Eventually she came to see what was up, visited with me for a minute, and then perched on a coffee table to watch me finish up. IMG_2583-6...a-jpeg.jpg
Psychologist Konstantin Lukin, PhD, claims that suppressing negative emotions only makes them bigger and worse. "Avoiding negative emotions reinforces this idea: Because you avoid feeling them, you tell yourself that you don’t need to pay attention to them. While you are trapped in this cycle, these emotions become bigger and more significant as they remain unprocessed."
I just realised I have no memory of my Dad stroking my head like that.
Even if he doesn't, the effect will always be with him.
Load More Replies...I love the smell of rain on the wind, brushing through the first so I like to open my window when it is starting/ending rain.
Some of my son's (44) favorite memories are about weather: singing & dancing in the rain, stomping in puddles together, going to Alki Beach (Seattle) during a Thanksgiving Day storm, where he got absolutely drenched by a rogue wave. We still laugh about that one!
Life NEEDS to wait every now & then! much like i will ALWAYS remember a special moment with my sister, dancing in the rain while on our way to the movies. it only happened about 6-8 yrs ago, but we are both in our senior years & it is a fond memory of a time before she relapsed; time that I will never get back and likely will not be able to have again
I love this so much! It looks like they're reviewing the ASL sign for "new" which would absolutely make sense for santa to know
Lukin also invites us not to divide emotions into 'good' and 'bad.' Yes, some of them make us feel good and others make us feel bad, but all emotions perform a function. They help us make sense of things. If you're sad about leaving a workplace, it probably means that you're going to miss it; you might've made some friends there and have some nice memories.
I read an article she wrote, and she had to leave him at the vet hospital one night, and she said he yelled "don't go, I'll be good" and I sobbed
Load More Replies...Alex was also the only animal ever to ask a question. From wiki: Alex had a vocabulary of over 100 words,[16] but was exceptional in that he appeared to have understanding of what he said. For example, when Alex was shown an object and asked about its shape, color, or material, he could label it correctly.[14] He could describe a key as a key no matter what its size or color, and could determine how the key was different from others.[6] Looking at a mirror, he said "what color", and learned the word "grey" after being told "grey" six times.[17] This made him the first non-human animal to have ever asked a question, let alone an existential one (apes who have been trained to use sign-language have so far failed to ever ask a single question).
There is a fantastic book on this called "Alex and me"' It will break your heart, inspire you and truly make you see birds in a whole new light.
A feel-good story if there ever was one, but with one slight difference. Those were Alex's "last words" to his caretaker every single evening. He had no insight that he was dying, he was just saying his version of good night. From Wikipedia: "His last words were 'You be good. I love you. See you tomorrow.' which he would say every night when (Irene) Pepperberg left the lab."
From the Alex Foundation: Sadly, Alex passed away on September 6, 2007 at the age of 31 of a sudden, unexpected catastrophic event associated with arteriosclerosis (hardening of the arteries). It was either a fatal arrhythmia, heart attack, or stroke, which caused him to die suddenly with no suffering. There was no way to predict his demise.
And Dr. Pepperberg got him from a pet store. No special genetics, just a regular Congo African Gray. I believe his successor, Griffin, came from one, too. These are incredibly intelligent birds.
I remember seing him identifying colors and fabrics like "red wool"...I didn't know that about his last words.....darn onions
He's unlocking core memories for her, one Disney movie at a time. What an awesome dad.
Hope his daughter remembers this forever! I especially like that he always dresses up as the correct Prince. :)
Thanks for the inspiration! Just got accepted to my local university at the age of 65 plus and was debating whether or not to go. This gives me hope that "yes! I can do this!"
One of my sisters had some health problems when she was younger and dropped out of high school. She later went back and graduated at age 29.
My daughter has Tourette's Syndrome. Her vocal and muscle tics distract her from learning and it takes her much longer to learn in school, not because she is dumb, but her body keeps wanting to tic. She has been supporting herself since she was 18, (her decision, not ours) taking online college classes while working full time low wage jobs. At age 28 she got her BA degree. It takes a lot of effort and hard work to take college courses and work a 40 hour week. We are very proud of her.
Sometimes, when we comfort or encourage people, we might veer into the toxic positivity realm. We say things like "Everything happens for a reason" and "You have to look for the silver lining." Clinical psychologist Jamie Long told CNN that this kind of talk dismisses the person's feelings.
I can tell you an incredibly depressing story if it'll help. :p
Load More Replies...I flap my arms when happy and wear a lot of bracelets. U will know when im happy rooms away from me
My kids do a happy dance when they're eating good food. Both of them did it from the moment they started solids, but no one in both our families ever did this. And it makes me so happy everytime I see it ♥️
Because I'm happy - clap along if you feel like a room without a roof! Because I'm happy - clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth!
Load More Replies...My daughter makes this happy humming sound. She did it when she was a baby and she still does it now at 16
And great parents, both to teach him such empathy and not to shame him for asking for more food.
Load More Replies...When I was in the hospital fighting cancer my daughters 2nd grade teacher did her hair in the morning.
F**k cancer. Hope you are doing better now! XXOOXXOO
Load More Replies...Wow. Sign of excellent parenting, turning out a kid with this level of empathy and compassion.
I have to carefully peel my tattoos off every night before bed and put them in a special storage container next to the jewellery box.
I usually get the most questions about my tattoos from women in their 60's
Children are fascinated by tattoos, and I've had children come up and touch my arms and legs, then look at their fingers. Yep, Kid, it don't wash off.
gotta love the innocence of a child! foster it & let them know it's ok to ask questions like this (supervised, of course)
I was at a Christmas party and someone's child asked one of the workers what happened to his teeth? Without missing a beat, the guy laughed and told the boy that it's what happens when you don't brush and take care of your teeth. Considering the guys normal attitude, I couldn't believe he just took it in stride.
We try to offer perspective, but what people need when they're down is validation. Long and her colleague Samara Quintero offer some things to say to truly comfort someone else, like "This is really hard, I'm thinking of you" or "I'm here for you, good or bad."
"Sometimes we just need to say 'Yeah, me too,' or 'That makes total sense,'" Long explained further. "It's allowing someone to express something that's authentic, even if it's uncomfortable or even if it's hard to hear." Basically, it's better to offer a person a shoulder to cry on than try to solve their problems.
I love working at my school partly because everybody treats the custodial staff as human beings first. 💛
I was a volunteer at a community hospital, and the best conversations were with the janitorial and cafeteria staff. Many amazed that I'd take the time to sit with them and listen to their stories.
So many behind the scenes are ignored or even worse - looked down upon
I've always sensed this must be true because most of them will start focusing on you if you do this, even if they don't really mean to.
Load More Replies...I've always had this habit. Worked for some really big companies. Every time there is a management talk to the troops type deal, there I am nodding away. They always knew my name even though I rarely even got to say good morning to them. I didn't realise this might be why...
When I was to give a speech about my M.A. thesis at uni I notised how one of my professors (whom I always admired for his person even though his teaching was boring) was nodding at me all the time and taking notes! It's been 10 years since then and I still think about his (seemingly) genuine interest in my paper.
lol I had an 8 am class with a prof with a soothing voice, and people kept falling asleep in his class. But I was a morning person and very interested in the subject, so I gave him lots of good eye contact, and there were some mornings I felt I was getting a person lecture because he kept looking at me, since I was the only one giving eye contact lolol // I can also say, as a teacher/public speaker, that when people concentrate they often look expressionless, and they look like they're bored and give the speaker anxiety lol Nodding is a great way to show you're engaged to offset your resting b***h face lol
Not only did I nod when my profs were saying something interesting, I laughed at all their dumb jokes (sometimes, a bit too hard because I love dumb jokes).
According to one of my professors, I was the class worry wart this semester because I hold myself to exceedingly high standards, given what I’m studying. She also thinks that I will make an amazing teacher someday and reading posts like this encourages me to keep going, too!
I do some teaching (healthcare), and I always tell the students to interrupt me if they have a question, not wait to the end. Asking questions shows they are actively listening, and it helps reinforce it in their brains-you're far more likely to retain something learned during a two-way/multiway discussion than just listening to a didactic lecture.
My tip for getting good grade+s in college. Sit on the front row, nod along with the lecture, make sure teacher knows you are interested in their subject. Come grade time, you can be sure you will be given the benefit of the doubt between a C+ and a B, or a B+ and an A.
I'm short and I still check with the people behind me when I stand at any event.
i am less tall than the female standard for my birthyear. When i can obstruct your vision, going to the side wont help, because everyone will obstruct it.
Load More Replies...And young people today block people's view by holding up their phone to film the performance.
Seating at concerts should be divided between "sitting only" and "standing allowed" sections, with good views in each section. If you're standing in the "sitting only" section (unless you're getting up to use the restroom or something), you would immediately be told to sit down; second violation and you're evicted from the venue, no refund. In the "standing allowed" section, you can sit you want, but you can't complain about the people around you standing up and dancing (of course, you could politely ask someone to step to the side, but they aren't obligated to do so, and you can't nag them).
I do my best to NEVER sit in front of a child or an elderly person if I can help it.
I took my daughter to her first concert and we got a great spot until some lady half a foot taller than me showed up and proceeded to stand right in front of us and even bumped into me a few times dancing around in place. Her partner kept trying to guide her to the side because he noticed she was blocking us and she kept moving right back. So rude.
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Somedays I wanted to be an astronaut to get as for as possible from people.
Not sure if you realize this, but the NASA day and the Disney World day could both be done in the same week. They're really close to each other.
Load More Replies...AI can never compete with sibling love. We got this message loud and clear. ♥
Yesterday and tomorrow for me… usually not today. Your comment just made me realize this and now I don’t know how to feel.
Load More Replies...Essentially the mantra of 12-step programs. Take one day at a time, but when it gets too overwhelming, take one hour or minute at a time. Got me through some really tough times.
My rehab has this MLK quote painted on the wall: “You don’t have to see the whole staircase; just take the first step.”
Load More Replies...I’m very pessimistic but also quite a contrarian, so I say: you keep going regardless because you never know.
Load More Replies...I didn't go to my graduation. I was living 5 hours away but even if I was close I didn't see the point. I already got my degree in the mail why should I sit through a mass (Catholic uni) and ceremony? My brother skipped his too. Mum was disappointed though, so maybe it sounds callous, but it wasn't important to us and mum was proud of us for finishing our courses anyway.
Yeah, I didn't go to any of mine, either. Nothing against people who enjoy that sort of thing, but I would rather do almost anything else than spend a couple hours in a big crowd waiting for my name to be called
Load More Replies..."Oh I wish that I was on ol' rocky top, down in Tennessee hills...."
Ain't no smoggy smoke on Rocky Top, Ain't no telephone bills
Load More Replies...My gran was a party girl-she was called Enid but was known as Dee-Dee which suited her far better. She buried 2 husbands, and then had a series of gentlemen companions-she enjoyed life. She died after a very short illness, and the hospice let us bring in champagne for her for one last party. She insisted her funeral was fun-she wanted pink, sparkles and sequins, and a champagne breakfast instead of a service. It's good that hospitals and hospices recognise individual needs at the end of life.
"I've had a life that's full and everyone's been good to me/so fire up that fiddle, boy, and give me one last drink"
Not new, still lovely, but this is the first time I eyeballed the beer. Is that Bud Light? Did the boys not love their father?! My late Scot-Brit hubby would be appalled, lol.
When I had my first kid we (my kid, my bf and I) were in the maternity ward in a two-family room. The room was divided by a wall on which a TV on each side. On the other side of the wall was a woman, turned out to be about 30yo, and she was daily visited by this older man, about twice her age, that we assumed were her father. But then he was on the phone a few times and from what we heard he was the father of the child and the woman indeed 30 and he was struggling with explaining to his workplace that he had just become a father. My bf and I just texted eachother with texts like "OH MY GODS! IT'S HER PARTNER! I THOUGHT IT WAS HER DAD!!!" and "I know! What a surprise!". I just hope the whole family is doing fine. But wow it was a surprise for us! We just thought it was a very caring dad who came to help his daughter who was alone during those first days as a mum.
Even though I am the spitting image of my Father, someone told my stepmother that they saw him having lunch with a much younger woman. She was aware of it, laughed and told her "that's his DAUGHTER".
Yep. My friends have a 30 yr age gap in their marriage. I've seen them deal with questions so many times.
I get it the other way around when I'm with my eldest step daughter. There are 15 years between us, so it wouldn't be totally out of the question for that age gap to be a relationship. I accompanied her to an ultrasound scan for her pregnancy once and the sonographer asked if we'd discussed names yet. I had to say "Oh, I'm not the father, I'm the grandfather" :)
My grandad was too young to enlist (and the army said they couldn't take more than five sons from a family, so he would have missed out anyway) but it meant he had to leave school to help run the farm while his older brothers were away. Then he couldn't get any building/carpentry jobs like he dreamed after the war because these went to returned soldiers. So he thought he would be a minister, but he would have had to study French, by correspondence, in order to get his matriculation (high school certificate). His mentor suggest he go to teacher's college instead, which he did, and he loved teaching, but his greatest joy was when he was able to teach woodworking for the last 17 years of his career. He managed to come almost full circle.
This makes me think of Ingeborg Syllm-Rapoport, who received her doctorate 77 years after the Nazis prohibited her from graduating from medical school Hamburg.
Your Grandfathers final tests came back in. Congratulations! He got an A+ in "Having been dead for the last ten years"
I wish I could’ve done something like this for my grandmother, Even though I was able to do many other things for her while she was still alive. She passed on six years ago and I miss her terribly every time I think about her.
My grandmother & I were really close. She always called us "two peas in a pod". She would have LOVED that card!
Today I saw a fish at the beach needlessly dying, left behind casually by two fishermen....I threw it back, took me two seconds. Humans suck.
Load More Replies...Water mixed with a touch of leftover coffee: fish breaks water—speed records and is now called Dale Fishardt.
I am happy for both of you. I miss my grandparents. Enjoy your time together. Looks like you both are very happy to be back in one place sending love.
I wish I remembered more of my paternal grandfather from before he got Alzheimer’s. He’s been dead for over 20 years though.
Load More Replies...I did this! Only it was 27 years! He met me in the airport at 1am and we hugged and cried. 2 years later he introduced me to my Dad. My dad died at the beginning of October, but I'm so glad I had the last 5 years with him. (Tutu Grandpa is still alive and kicking!)
I, too, hadn't seen my daughter in 23 years, being in that her mother is schizophrenic. She was 28 at the time. And I showed her the only picture I had of her, taken when she was five. I used to carry it in my wallet, but took it out and placed it on my bookcase so I wouldn't lose it. I put her through college, and she now has a master's in clinical psychology from ASU. I now have three grandkids and three great grandkids. Funny how things work out.
My brother bought his own N64 (second hand) when he was about 11/12 because my parents couldn't afford one and he had gotten the money by selling a painting to a former footballer. Even now I am touched when he lets me or my sister use the clear blue one, because it's his favourite too. We in our mid 20s- early 30s now.
There was a post on BP about a blind cat. His Dad made him a harness with a thin band of metal that was about 12" in front of him so he wouldn't run into things and hurt himself. One of the coolest things I've seen.
It's really cool how quickly they learn to navigate while blind. My boy Ty would walk around like a normal cat. Except for every once in a while there'd be a little hop of confusion. It was really cute to see him just occasionally jump an inch or two
Load More Replies...Get a noise maker. A water fountain, a fan, whatever. Having something that consistantly makes a noise in the same spot will give the cat something to navigate by.
I had a cat who went blind. He stayed under the dining room table for a couple of days, then he began to learn his way around. I warned guests not to pick him up and put him down somewhere else because he didn't know where he was. Otherwise, he did fine. At 17 years old he had s stroke and died.
My not my cat kitten has 3 kittens who are 3 weeks old tomorrow. I'm constantly telling her she's a good mama and how well she looks after them. She likes to hold hands and talk when she's feeding them.
Load More Replies...I tell my cat he is a darling cat. I read that in a book and have never forgotten it. Actually, my cat is a darling.
Just wait until some poor unsuspecting teacher casually mentions the word 'atom' in school .... the poor soul isn't going to know what avalanche of information has hit them.
I SO want to be a fly on the wall when this happens.
Load More Replies..."What have I already told you about atoms, son?" "Very little." "Yes, but besides that."
I once punished some misbehaving kids by reading communications theory at them. I'm pretty sure that's illegal nowadays.
situation in reverse--my granddaughter, at age 3 was teaching ME about dinosaurs. She is actually very knowledgeable about them--I verified most of the stuff she told me, but quit doing that after finding out she was never wrong!
And yet there's a video going around here in the US of a woman literally having a tugging war over a ball against a kid
Japan is incredibly polite, but sadly racist. No where is perfect. I'm sure there are things your country is the best at
Load More Replies...I caught a ball at a Mariner's game once. The guy next to me had a fit that I wouldn't give it to his son. I caught & I'm keeping it. I don't "owe" your kid anything, buster.
The Japanese are truly wonderful at being highly responsible and respectful of others and the community at large.
my recent mantra is "it will escalate anyway (with worrying or without)" (cue in mental shrug)..sounds negative but works
If you worry about it and then it happens, you experienced the pain twice. If you worry about it and it doesn't happen, you experienced the pain for no reason.
I’ve heard that before, but have never been able to adopt that mindset.
Load More Replies...I do this! My partner is a worst-case-scenario type of woman and always says "What if x happens?" and my response, as the optimistic one, is always "And what if it doesn't?".
This tickled me! Told my wife, we do this all the time, calling things with no name Bob. She fell out.
My husband often ends up saying to people he just met "Oh, you can just call me Bob" because his name is kinda unusual and hard to remember!
Load More Replies...These kinds of days really don't account for kids who don't have a dad or mom in the home. Like those assignments to 'make a family tree' - which can be quite invasive and upsetting for some kids.
True. I remember an assignment when I was in 6th grade that was 'tell one personality trait you have of your parents and one physical one' and present in front of the class. My classmate who was adopted had to stand up and say 'I have my dad's sense of humor and my parents adopted me from China so I guess I have their eyes'. Like, wtf, why was that an assignment?! I remember her looking so awkward presenting.
Load More Replies...Sabaa Tahir is also a great author along with being a great parent.
There's a security guard at our grocery store that buys a whole bunch of the $2 Hot Wheels cars when he gets paid, then stands at the entrance as a greeter and hands them out to the kids as they walk in. My son has significantly grown his collection just because of this man!
A friend of mine moved to Dominican Republic. He comes back an couple of times a year to get hot wheels and Barbie dolls for the kids down there who have nothing. He says it’s for the smiles.
Load More Replies...I seen this picture before and the explanation I read is that this security guard does this with all little girls that are dressed like princesses. Just not this particular one.
I did some light digging and his store is in Phoenix, Arizona, USA :) I couldn’t find anything more specific though. Phoenix pandas, let us know if you know where this is!
Load More Replies...Yeah, I bet they put dough on a crust of pepperoni.
Load More Replies...As my late father would doubtless have said: where? 🦆
Load More Replies...lol my roomie's 89-year-old dad used to do that. Also, when he started getting a little senile, they would go to their favorite diner, and he would order a vodka tonic, and the server would get him a straight tonic because he knew he wasn't supposed to have alcohol. After my roomie's dad died, the server brought her table straight tonics on Father's Day so they could all toast him. <3
I was driving through my town, the pedestrian crossing ahead turned to red as I approached but there weren’t any people crossing, about tens yards further on there’s an elderly couple laughing and pretending to hide from me. They’d pressed the button and carried on walking past. I slowed and wagged my finger at them, this made their reaction even more animated. It was obvious I was in on their prank, I was laughing too. Keep pressing buttons senior citizens, stay silly 😂
Don't worry! When they are a teenager, you won't know anything about anything!
Load More Replies...I hope that made you feel good. You DO know a lot of math! When you really think about it, it's very impressive that you learned all the rules and systems that allows you to do that in your head! We take so many basic skills for granted. Even the fact that we learn to balance while walking on 2 feet is kind of amazing. Thinking about this stuff always boosts my mood and my self-esteem.
Well, that article was perfectly lovely and I enjoyed it very much.
These were all just wonderful. Thank you sharing them, a couple made me tear up. The one about the cat getting food to eat in front of her person to cheer her up might have been my favorite. Trying to make her person feel better 💜
I know! Too sweet! My cat wouldn't be bothered. She'd lie on me, swat my face, get huffy if I move and then give me the stink eye from a distance.
Load More Replies...I had no intention of blubbering like a baby over this stuff, especially so early in the morning...and yet, here i am, ugly crying & all up in my feels...
Yeah , I wouldn't write a comment that wasn't true , there was a documentary about him on the BBC last year. He faked it all , and did admit it in the end too. I recognised his face as soon as I saw it in this article !
Well, that article was perfectly lovely and I enjoyed it very much.
These were all just wonderful. Thank you sharing them, a couple made me tear up. The one about the cat getting food to eat in front of her person to cheer her up might have been my favorite. Trying to make her person feel better 💜
I know! Too sweet! My cat wouldn't be bothered. She'd lie on me, swat my face, get huffy if I move and then give me the stink eye from a distance.
Load More Replies...I had no intention of blubbering like a baby over this stuff, especially so early in the morning...and yet, here i am, ugly crying & all up in my feels...
Yeah , I wouldn't write a comment that wasn't true , there was a documentary about him on the BBC last year. He faked it all , and did admit it in the end too. I recognised his face as soon as I saw it in this article !
