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45 Times Weddings Were So Bad, They Got Shamed On This Online Group That Doesn’t Hold Back (New Posts)
A wedding is not just like any other event, it’s a grand celebration that requires a lot of meticulous planning, time, effort and money. And when things don’t turn out as planned, there’s always an uncle or relative ready to point it out. Picture Aunt Mary critiquing the uncomfortable and unflattering dresses worn by the bridesmaids. Well, someone needed to say it. But it doesn’t end there. Apart from sharing their complaints in person, people are now taking their judgments online too. From questioning the groom’s funny hairstyle to finding faults in the tacky venue, nothing escapes the keen eyes of these online wedding shamers. In fact, there’s an entire subreddit called r/WeddingShaming dedicated to thrashing anything from wedding decorations, the music, and many other gaudy details. They don’t even spare the brides and grooms. Keep scrolling to look at some new posts shared in the community about crazy wedding drama.
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#1
Guests Must Wear Yellow, May Not Speak Aloud
Marcellus II 1 year ago
I misread Emily D and expected a more poetic response.
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Philippa Davies 1 year ago
Yeah the silence thing is weird. I wanted to see and hear my guests enjoying themselves at my wedding. Silent reception sounds boring.
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Julie Love 1 year ago
Quaker services are silent until someone is moved to speak. The reception is a reception - Quakers aren't silent everywhere.
Cooking Panda 1 year ago
Where's my invitation? I'd like to attend wearing a spongebob costume.. Or pikachu maybe?
Deanna Crichley 1 year ago
Everyone looks great in yellow, right? No. They do not. I have more clothes than. Know what to do with. None of them are yellow. I have a lot of clothes that are wedding appropriate, and I will not buy a new outfit to be a guest at a wedding, unless that counts as my gift.
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#2
White Woman Worried About Her Venue Staff Being Minorities
TotallyNOTAFox 1 year ago
I think they mean it in the way of "Is it problematic that white people get served by minorities" in regards of political correctness
Apatheist Account2 1 year ago
That was my thought. I think I'd feel a bit colonial if all the guests were white and all the staff were not.
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Full of Giggles 1 year ago
I own a wedding venue on my farm. We are in a U.S./Mexico border state. Almost half of our employees are Hispanic or Latino and all are legal residents of the US. I’ve had two clients cancel their wedding because they ignorantly believed we employee illegal immigrants and therefore refuse to give money to an “unAmerican” business. I’ve had at least a dozen clients ask for the farm to hide our “illegal” workers for their wedding. I’ve had four clients ask for all white staff for their wedding. Needless to say, their contracts were immediately cancelled and they were forced to find another venue.
Lou Châtelain 1 year ago
I think she meant she doesn't want it to look like white people catered by only black people. As it might look a bit segregated in roles... Maybe a bit of oppressor guilt syndrome. That's how I read it. But I don't know why she has no colored friends though....
Marlowe Fitzpatrik 1 year ago
That's how I read it, too. I would feel a bit weird too if my wedding-party was mostly-white and the staff was mostly not-white. Just ... A bit of a strange feeling. Although what she thinks would happen if she brought it up is beyond me.
Load More Replies... Marcellus II 1 year ago (edited)
"A little sensitive" --- no, you being sensitive is the opposite of the issue. EDIT: Unless she's misread, and the issue is that it looks bad all 'masters' are white and all 'servants' are nonwhite... But that seems her own problem (invite nonwhite guests; don't fire nonwhite staff).
Stephanie Rudrow 1 year ago
I thought she meant that it didn't look right for an all POC staff to be serving an all white wedding.
Viking74 1 year ago
Or maybe the person was concerned about the optics of having an (almost) all-white party being served by all non-white people and felt that was the institutionalized racist part?
Emie N. 1 year ago
I think they're worried they'll look racist having people of color serving white people.
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Ryan-James O'Driscoll 1 year ago
Honestly, I would be concerned by this. At least where I am. Not an issue with minorities having a job, that's fine by me, and if that's the way the cookie crumbles, so be it. My concern would be that the job they are doing (and by extension the employer) is undesirable to those who have more of a choice. I do not want to pay for a service if that service exploits minorities and immigrant workers to keep costs down.
ElfVibratorGlitter 1 year ago
I actually worked as a cater waiter for a wedding. I was sent over 3 hours away because I looked the "most Jewish" and " least offensive". If I had known that ahead of time I would not have gone. In addition to being racist they had problems with everything. Even complained about me "stealing their Hors d’Oeuvres" which was absurd because I don't eat seafood and they had to pay me extra to carry the tray. So yeah, there are some truly crappy people out there who actually care what ethnicity their servers are.
#3
Surprise! A Pregnant Alien Officiant
Szzone 1 year ago
Seriously, wtf. Unless this is normal for their friend group and the young couple enjoyed themselves. But otherwise wtf
Fat Harry (Oi / You) 1 year ago
From the Reddit post: FOR THE RECORD: the original poster shared context in the comments and this was absolutely loved by the bride and groom, who approved a wild character officiant, and who have a thing for aliens and cryptids. There was no shame here. Only delight. I guarantee if they'd wanted her in something plain, that's what she'd have worn. Not everyone has the same vision for their wedding, and this one was loved.
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Joe Reaves 1 year ago
The original poster said that they knew she was going to be in some kind of wild costume. The surprise was what the costume was. They love aliens and cryptids so they were very happy with the surprise. Of course if they'd said all that in the post and not the comments they wouldn't have got so much attention. So they weren't doing the wedding thing to steal attention, but the post was definitely click bait.
Marcellus II 1 year ago
Because they loved it as they knew A wild costume was following, just not WHICH.
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StretcherBearer 1 year ago
This is the visual representation of the fears of conservatives coming to life: a pregnant alien officiating a wedding. 🤣
Couples want their big day to be (extra) special, so they spare no expenses to ensure the celebration is memorable for everyone. As per a study by The Knot, the average cost of a wedding in the USA in 2023 was $35,000. And that doesn’t even include the cost of the engagement rings. Well, the cost of getting married has increased significantly over the years. In 2007, the average cost was around $16,000, but by 2017, it had jumped to $28,000. Imagine spending so much money, only to realize the venue was smelly or the dance floor was slippery.
Planning the perfect wedding is never easy; it takes months, if not years. It requires attention to numerous details: venue, guest list, invitations, attire, catering, decoration and so much more. And, even though the bride and groom and their families put collective efforts into ensuring everything is the best, there are chances that things are a complete disaster (even if the disaster is wilted flowers).
#4
Screenshot: Bride And Moh Scam Bridesmaids
Surfing Panda 1 year ago
Wow...just.....wow....Nice friends. (See this is one of the reasons I'm not a big fan of weddings...1 of the reasonS)
Michael Largey 1 year ago
I would have called the Fraud Division of my local police to see what my options were.
Miranda Veracruz de la Joya Cardenal 1 year ago
A bride dress shouldn't cost more than $500 and I'm overpricing it. You are using it once.
#5
Pregnant Sister Obviously Got Pregnant On Purpose To Ruin The Wedding…
Royal Stray 1 year ago
Idk why should she have to postpone her wedding (which I assumed parts of is already paid for and planned) because of her sister? While OP is reaching more than a little thinking it's on purpose, it kinda looks like the parents have a history of prioritizing her sister since they're so quick to dismiss OP
Load More Replies... Iampenny 1 year ago
Is the bride to be being dramatic about her sister getting pregnant? Most definitely, but why should she postpone her wedding because of if?
Royal Stray 1 year ago
This is what I was thinking, it can't be cheap to change a date or venue like that, and I mean why would her sister need to be there for the birth of their kid?
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Surfing Panda 1 year ago
I'm just imagining her sister in the bedroom... getting pregnant on purpose: "Come on baby ...make it count.... give it to me... I need to be pregnant to teach that little bratt a lesson..." 🤣🤣🤣
#6
From A Wedding Group, Bride Is Mad Because No One Has Sent Gifts Yet
Joe Reaves 1 year ago
Three months left, the parents might even get some of their money back if he runs now.
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Ross “Sarcastic Dad” 1 year ago
Yeah, how dumb can you be? Obviously it's supposed to be, "Done boughten."
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VikingAbroad 1 year ago
My parents has spent.... Wth.....? And SHE wants something back.
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But the definition of a successful celebration can differ from person to person. “Instagram and Pinterest give us a vision of what a ‘perfect’ wedding looks like, and anything less to some people is not good enough. But these images are usually filtered, photoshopped or styled by professionals. So, while these platforms can inspire wedding days, it sets a standard in some people’s minds of what it should or shouldn’t look like,” Kate Beavis, who runs a wedding blog called Magpie Wedding, told the BBC.
However, sometimes, it’s a possibility that certain aspects of an event may fall short of expectations. In such instances, it's important to address the issues rather than overlook them.
#7
I Have No Words For This… Absolutely Heartless
Little Wonder 1 year ago
"Aww I love my best friend apart from how she super doesn't fit my wedding vibe oh wells". People are diᴄks.
Šimon Špaček 1 year ago
I mostly agree, but in this case not d***s, but c***s. Do not misgender :D
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Aidan Campbell 1 year ago
What a nasty woman. Both her fiancee and her best friend need to get rid of her.
CK 1 year ago
One of them is the other's best friend but it's not mutual.
Load More Replies... Bols 1 year ago
Wow of all the posts here this one is the most cruel imho! Completely heartless, shallow and hurtful. I really hope her friend has now better people around her <3 I understand sentiment to childhood dreams of wedding but as you grow up they should grow with you and adapt to people around you... Whenever I see this "I dreamt of this day since I was a little girl" I just know that bride didn't check one single thing with the groom to make sure his dreams are also considered :(
#8
My Cousin Is Butthurt That No One Is Donating To Their Wedding …
Little Wonder 1 year ago
Some people also actually attempt to sell TICKETS to their weddings to "cover costs". Tacky.
Hugh Cookson 1 year ago
To be fair, my ex wife and I decided to get married then through no fault of ours had to go bankrupt (she was diagnosed with breast cancer and I had to give up work to look after her - there were no alternatives). So once she gets the all clear 2 years later, we floated the idea of asking our friends and family to contribute towards the wedding breakfast, reception and entertainment (which eventually was done for free by a good friend). Anyway, no one complained, it was one of the nicest, kindest, well organised, quirkiest and laid back weddings I've ever been to - and I've organised hundreds as a hotel manager / Chef over the years. We couldn't go on honeymoon but had a quiet break away just to get our breaths back before heading back into work. We were together for 7 years afterwards but gently drifted apart and even though we knew we still loved each other, we weren't really made for each other. We are still friends and always will be.
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SparkDragon 1 year ago
Ours was big, cheap and awesome! We had the service at our church; reception in a local hall (friends decorated it before the service); lunch was jacket potatoes and extras; our friends played and called for the ceilidh; and it was utterly perfect. I think it only cost about £500 including clothes and legal stuff (probably could have been cheaper, if we cut back on some things).
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Phil Green 1 year ago
Weddings are not expensive. They only become expensive when some (mostly certain kinds of brides) have unrealistic expectations, thinking it is some fairy tale and the groom is only there as decoration. You need a licence, possibly rings (if you want) and somewhere to marry. Special clothes and cakes, receptions et cetera are optional.
Valek Fermiga 1 year ago
IF can't afford the wedding you WANT - wait and save up?? Oh, you can't?? So your " friends " have to cover it instead?? I once attended a wedding in a school hall, with fish and chips served as the food, both bride and groom were just happy to have there day with the people they care about....
GirlFriday 1 year ago
My niece and her husband were asked to pay $5000 each to be in a wedding party, this would be on top of the cost of clothes, gifts, parties, showers, etc.
kath morgan 1 year ago
Just go to the registry office if you can’t afford a do. They’re not compulsory!
Angelshark 1 year ago
Or keep the wedding small. My wife and I got married at a local park, immediate family only, and the reception was in our backyard. The most expensive thing was the caterer.
Alicia M 1 year ago
I had a big wedding in 1997, and it was a total waste of money, and the marriage lasted less than 3 years. My current, long-term marriage started with me and my husband getting married, just the two of us. We hired a reverend, and she married us in her garden. It was cheap, and far better than my wedding experience. I would give having no wedding five stars.
#9
MOTB In White! It Literally Looks Like A Double Wedding To Me
funkybluegirl (she/her) 1 year ago
Am I missing something? The mother of the BRIDE is hanging all over the groom?
veryvenasaur 1 year ago
The little kid is cute though as a 4 year old I was taught not to wear white to a wedding. (I had found a really cute dress but it was white so my parents said no)
Miriam L 1 year ago
In some places it's traditional or common for the flower girl to wear white, often somtbhing that looks like a tiny bride's/princess dress. I don't know where the tradition is from. This only applies to the flower girl or girls (or sometimes boys, in a little white shirt and often suspenders) and not to any other kids who are invited.
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The biggest chunk of most wedding budgets is spent on the venue. Couples roughly spend about 37% of their overall budget on it. But finding the right place can be quite tricky. Sometimes the price tag of the architectural wonder you love doesn’t match your humble budget. Then there are questions about capacity, amenities, and other fees.
#10
This Woman Is Probably The Biggest Narcissist I’ve Ever Met
She wore this to her college friends wedding (the groom.) She’d never met the bride prior, and the bride was wearing a very very simple relaxed gown.
Chihuahua Mama 1 year ago
Looks like someone was hoping the groom would pick her over the bride...
Zenozenobee 1 year ago
If you're classy enough to wear a wedding dress to someone else wedding, you're kind of classy enough to think a restroom door is the perfect place for a photoshoot 🤷🏻♀️
Load More Replies... Grenelda Thurber 1 year ago
She just made herself look ridiculous. Maybe she should add a polyester veil and a plastic flower bouquet
Ruth Watry 1 year ago
Shows the need to have a bottle of red wine in the bride's room, so that somebody can pour a glass and trip and stain the dress of anybody other than the bride wearing a weeding dress
#11
I Feel Like I’m Missing Something That Makes This Cute
Royal Stray 1 year ago
It's either that or it's not actually bullying and he's just making her look bad over minor annoyances. Either way it doesn't sound like a relationship they should stay in. Because either he's in for a really bad time or she's going to get tired of him humiliating her.
Load More Replies... CK 1 year ago
This was tweeted without context, and the person who posted it keeps saying people are judging without context instead of providing the missing context. So either she's a bully and he pointed it out, or he made a stupid joke about "bullying" that wasn't really bullying. OP insists the vows were "genuine and loving."
Ephemera Image 1 year ago
There is no context in which 'you are a bully' is a good thing, even said jokingly, at a wedding. It's ugly.
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Joe Reaves 1 year ago
Well, at least he's got his list of reasons all prepared for the divorce lawyer.
Jessica Bertram 1 year ago
There's no line. Bullies are their victims' abusers.
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Mother Of The Bride. Bride’s Dress Also Had Bejeweled Top And Float Bottom
Marcellus II 1 year ago
Everything is given suffficient effort and lighter fluid.
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Michael Largey 1 year ago
White is usual the color of surrender. But when a mother wears it to a wedding, it is a declaration of war.
Pink kitty 1 year ago (edited)
Had to reread the heading. I thought that was a photo of the bride!! (before realising it was the mother).
ShaZam 1 year ago
don't you hate it when you accidently wear the same outfit and someone else?
Danish Susanne 1 year ago
Of course not. I love to find someone else with the same taste as me.
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KatSaidWhat 1 year ago
When you need to compete with your daughter at every level, including at her wedding. Yeah, red wine stat!
After spending all that time and money to find 'the place', it's only fair that the couple should be informed about any shortcomings. For instance, sometimes the venue might not provide essential amenities like clean restrooms or sufficient parking space. In such cases, guests feel inconvenienced or frustrated. They have a right to let the couple know about their sufferings.
#13
Wedding Favors Are Engraved Bullet Casings With The Date And The Couples' Names On Them
Joe Reaves 1 year ago
SMH It's too early in the day for such a terrible joke. Take your upvote and find me some coffee. ;)
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Michael Largey 1 year ago (edited)
"Marriage? why not? Let's give it a shot!" Really folks, you should give some consideration to the caliber of the person you're marrying. Don't go off half-cocked before you rifle your bank account to shell out money for a wedding.
Agamemnon O'Neill 1 year ago
Tell me you live in America without telling me you live in America.
OneWithRatsAndKefir 1 year ago
I could only see this being wholesome if they met in the military or while hunting or at a shooting range… it’s just a tiny, tad, little bit odd otherwise.
#14
How Dare My 30yo Bridesmaid Have Some Grey Hair!!
Rebelliousslug 1 year ago
I REALLY hope the bridesmaid saw this and dropped out of the wedding. Even better if they took their real friends with them.
Little Wonder 1 year ago
Tell her for sure, then she'll know what a vapid lil so and so you are and she can dip, giving her a free day to enjoy!
Upstaged75 1 year ago
I've been a bridesmaid 3 times. Not once did we have a "monthly meeting", or any meetings whatsoever! That's crazy.
MotherofGuineaPigs 1 year ago
I've been going grey since 18. Really glad I don't know this person. Twatwaffle.
David 1 year ago
I have a memory of when I was 18, sitting in a car talking to a friend - she randomly reaches over and yoinks a hair out of my head and says, "oh look, a grey hair". (and it was). I didn't actually get seriously grey hair until the "usual" age but I was surprised I had one so young. Now that I'm in my 60s my hair is still mostly dark brown but it's pretty obvious there is also a lot of grey in it. But I've had friends who went grey a lot sooner and it is just how they were and nobody cared. (and possibly I had some who did care and dyed it and I never knew)
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 1 year ago
Anyone associated with this bride has ample reason for going prematurely grey.
Szzone 1 year ago (edited)
Eww. 1. HER big day, again. 2. So bridezilla expects her friend to pay for this? 3. Grey hair is unsightly? Hello? You'll have thosr too? Unless you want to shave your head? What an idiot.
ElfVibratorGlitter 1 year ago
She says she wants her bridesmaid to do it, but it's too expensive for her to cover it, so bridesmaid has to? I feel icky.
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I Just Can’t With This, It’s So Bad
Verena 1 year ago
Or don't buy cheap stuff, made by poor people in horrendous working and living conditions. Find a tailor in your town and negotiate a fair price.
Amy T 1 year ago
Would a handmade one from a designer in Milan or similar be held in customs? I'm actually curious.
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Bored something 1 year ago
How early does the racist need it? It will still be there 6 months before the wedding. If he's a decent guy I hope he saw this post and had second thoughts.
Donkey boi 1 year ago
Should have asked one of those 'thousands of illegal residents' to bring it over with them...
Penguin Panda Pop 1 year ago
Plot twist - they were smuggling [redacted] in the lining of the wedding dress.
Grenelda Thurber 1 year ago
Yes, I'm sure there's an international plot to keep her wedding dress out of the country, just for funzies.
Willem Oosterhof 1 year ago (edited)
"We Are so sorry. There was a line of people waiting for the same order at our sweat shop..."
Manana Man 1 year ago
Why is everyone here assuming that anything made outside the US is made in a sweatshop?
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 1 year ago
The bride would prefer those immigrants stay in their home countries to work in sweatshop factories making bridal dresses for her.
Manana Man 1 year ago
Well if they had jobs in their home countries they probably wouldn't be risking their lives by trying to walk to the US.
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As per USA Today Life, in 2007, only 17% of couples had a theme for their wedding but in 2017, nearly 50% had one. People want their functions to stand out from others and that is why they have more customized events. As the soon-to-be partners have so much on their plates, adding an extra task can be challenging.
For instance, the happy couple decided on "Vintage Romance" as the theme. As a special touch, they add a vintage photo booth with props like feather boas, top hats, and antique frames so that guests can take fun photos. Now imagine, the camera man or woman completely ignores the people at the booth. What a shame, right?
#16
Only Some Of You Can Eat! Posted On Local Radio Page
Justanotherpanda 1 year ago
In the Netherlands it is quite common to attend the ceremony, then the bridal party enjoys a lunch or dinner and other guests are then invited back for a reception with drinks and snacks..
Caroline Nagel 1 year ago
Same in Belgium/Flanders. At the reception there will be some snacks or sandwiches for those who weren't invited at the lunch/dinner.
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Anne Nielsen 1 year ago
Not everyone can afford to feed a lot of people. It is odd, but, they are honest. The potluck dessert was a clue. Those that traveled far, may not have $$ for car rental etc. Consider their wallet stretched as far as it could, the rest is we want you to share in the joy. My wedding was mid afternoon and a very tight budget. (Not unusual where I am from)there was a few fruit desserts and salads and cake and ice cream. Even though we planned to cater 20% more people than invited. We ran out of food. We, bride and groom had a few bites of cake. That was it! My in-laws took it badly and they went out all of them (Very large family) had a party all by themselves and my mother had prepared a big luncheon the next day, of simple food,at our home, for them. They left my (VERY small) family sitting alone at our home,with the food mom had prepared. and no guests
ocean 1 year ago
of course they need to feed family and out of town guests, but this dessert idea is fine if they don't have the money to feed everyone. Not everyone has a big blow out dinner, why do we think that is traditional--this wasn't even common in most "ordinary" weddings until the past few decades.
Karina 1 year ago
Oop is the bad egg here. Nobody ows you food, especially peicy catering. Had they asked out-of-towners to feed them self, then that would have been bad.
Ephemera Image 1 year ago
If you expect people to travel and dress and spend a day for your wedding, it behooves you to make sure they are fed.
Load More Replies... ocean 1 year ago
Why? You'll only go to a friend or family's wedding if they can afford to feed you in the manner in which you expect? Just don't go, but there isn't a thing wrong with this.
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Courtney Christelle 1 year ago
If you can’t afford to feed all your guests, shorten your invite list.
#17
Vegan Bride Bans All Omnivore Guests From Wedding
madeleine f 1 year ago
As a meat eater I would not have a problem with a vegan dinner. I love to try new food. However uninvite someone because they eat meat is stupid. But you don't need to serve meat. As a guest I strongly believe you eat what you get served - unless allergic.
OneWithRatsAndKefir 1 year ago
Same! If I was ever invited anywhere, anywhere at all, and they only served vegan meals, I’d find something to eat because it’s free food, they didn’t have to go through the effort and I’m a guest, so it’s only polite manners. Even if I didn’t find something my somewhat-picky self liked, I wouldn’t dare complain (I’d just drink a lot of water and then eat when I got home).
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Deeelite 1 year ago
She missed an opportunity to show off how tasty and flavorful vegan dishes can be.
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Two questions. (1) How did she know which guests were omnivores? (2) If she knew, why did she invite them in the first place?
Jaya 1 year ago
I would love a wedding with only guinea pigs as guests! And it would also make for the cutest wedding pictures ever.
Load More Replies... Java Addict 1 year ago
BP had a full article on this one https://www.boredpanda.com/vegan-bride-bans-all-meat-eating-family-friends-wedding/
Philippa Davies 1 year ago
Isn’t she an omnivore too though? Veganism is a choice. Omnivore just means being able to digest both meat and plant based food.
Sven Petersson 1 year ago
I eat meat, but when a friend of the family (who is vegan) had his 50th birthday, I of course ate the vegan food that was served. Mostly completely OK, but I was disappointed about the main course which looked like juicy vegan meatloaf but instead was a dry lentil-filled disappointment.
#18
Well This Should Be Fun - Online Wedding Group Drama
Royal Stray 1 year ago
Kinda hope the other kid decides to try to cut her hair with kitchen scissors just a few hours before. Not anything against a random 4-yo but it's likely to happen sometime and now would be a perfect time
MotherofGuineaPigs 1 year ago
I picture this bride getting ready to come down the aisle and halting the wedding so that she can organize the guests for a more pleasing look...
ElfVibratorGlitter 1 year ago
So this person didn't actually ask the little girl to be a flower girl? She just posted online about how ugly a child is and how fortunate she is to have a daughter. WHY share any of this? What a terrible person.
Catering, band, liquor, DJ, lighting, and decor are some other significant aspects of a nuptial ceremony. For instance, the food might not be good due to reasons like stale dishes, poor presentation or inadequate serving staff. Similarly, even with beautiful decorations, there are chances that the center pieces are dirty or flimsy. Or the bride could go into bridezilla mode due to the pressure of perfection.
#19
Future Bride Thinks The Handmaids Tale Is A Perfect Theme For The Wedding
doredde 1 year ago
What (as a woman) makes me even angrier than mysogynistic men are misogynistic women.
Tamra 1 year ago
Has she even read the book? Watched the series? What has to be going on in that empty head to want to celebrate and emulate a situation where women are used, raped and, for all practical purposes, enslaved? Unbelievable.
Lady Perkele 1 year ago
Because the thought of a romanticised mass grape dystopia is perfect for that day...
#20
This Is As Tacky As It Gets... Not Even A "Buy The Bride A Drink" Just $$$ Please
funkybluegirl (she/her) 1 year ago
I hate living in a society where it's become the norm for (some) people to ask strangers for money, often for ridiculously entitled reasons.
Anna Ekberg 1 year ago
I wonder if these are the same kind of people that rage over homeless people begging for money to not starve to death? 🤔
Ross “Sarcastic Dad” 1 year ago
I can't imagine driving by this and thinking, "Oh, I should donate to this RIGHT NOW!"
ॐBoyGanesh 1 year ago (edited)
I l love it when garbage people announce to the general public just how trashy they are. It allows me to give them a wide berth.
distant_echo 1 year ago
I saw something similar at a hotel we were staying. "Girls weekend! Buy us a drink! #....."
OpheliaPoe 1 year ago
I would send a venmo asking for money and some snarky comment about how this was such a kind way for them to share their joy.
#21
Was Picking Up Halloween Candy, Saw This Disaster: "Officially Domesticated"
Clown fish 1 year ago (edited)
Yes and it's now domesticed as well. It's so nice it isn't leaving oil all over the floor now 🤣
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While it's natural to want your big day to be perfect, striving to make everything flawless can actually add a lot of stress. Dave Smithson from Anxiety UK said, “Sometimes anxiety can affect us so much that we feel genuinely paralyzed when it comes to making decisions. Not only are you planning the biggest party of your life, but you may also have external pressures on top of that. Financial worry, family pressures, conflict and decision-making are all common concerns.”
#22
There’s A Time And Place To Be This Trashy, And It’s Not At Your Wedding
sweetrottenpeaches 1 year ago (edited)
Doesn't matter where and when this picture was taken, it is awful in so many levels. The true tragedy is they gonna have children. 😭
Jaya 1 year ago
Cringy, but they're not hurting anyone, so if this is their thing, that's up to them.
KL Harrold 1 year ago
Why does it matter? People can be as trashy as they want at their own wedding, as long as they're not hurting anyone.
Ryan-James O'Driscoll 1 year ago
I don't have a problem with this. Their wedding, their sense of humour.
#23
You Must Go Into Debt To Be In My Wedding
Little Wonder 1 year ago
I can promise that the following day, if any of the guests are asked "What were the groomsmen wearing on their feet?" no one will remember, and if they do remember they won't know or care that they were custom.
The Other Guest 1 year ago
I can barely remember what I wore on my own feet when I got married.
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Kare Deter 1 year ago
I think OP and her BF need to take that $800, skip the wedding and have a fantastic time spending it on whatever THEY want.
Sven Horlemann 1 year ago
'Oh, I am still in the wedding, because I can afford them. I simply decided to not buy them. CU!'
#24
Old High School Classmate Faked A Negative Test To Get Married Abroad. (As A Bonus, This Is The Mentioned Last Pic)
Yer Maw Lorna 1 year ago
As a Scottish person hope she always stands in a damp patch when wearing socks and has a 24/7 wedgie
AnnwylTheBloodyLovesFerghus 1 year ago
Lets not forget the fleas of a thousand goats permanently nesting in her crotch.
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CrazyKnitter 1 year ago
Awful, selfish people. If anyone died because of your actions, I would consider that manslaughter. You knew the risks and decided to say fück everyone else.
Anna Ekberg 1 year ago
"NO matter how forgetful i am..." she should have forgotten herself at home. 🙄
Irene Bucior 1 year ago
Awful idea. If you think this is the only person to fake or lie about a Covid test, you’re very mistaken. I’m 100% sure every one of us has been in an airplane or social event where several people lied about their tests.
Hmmm hmmmm 1 year ago
Honestly I'm surprised she was well enough to spend a weekend solid flying and drinking
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#25
Family Wedding In India
The groom’s sisters had dresses, makeup, jewellery and hair done similar to the bride. The only difference is bride’s red wedding bangles. That’s a lot even for Indian customs!
Srinivasan S 1 year ago
We are absolutely fine with this. Someone who has no idea how Indian marriages with large families work has posted this as a problem.
CrazyKnitter 1 year ago
This post screams "I have no clue about other cultures and am not willing to learn". I have no idea how common this is, so I won't judge at all. Those are absolutely gorgeous dresses.
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Hamsini darshan 1 year ago
There is tradition in Indian wedding where sister of groom and bride wear similar dresses . During my engagement , myself and my sil wore similar sarees .. it's not a big deal.
Rizzo 1 year ago
In ye older times bridesmaids and groomsmen had to dress just like the bride and groom to confuse vengeful spirit presences.
Joe Reaves 1 year ago
Wasn't that a western tradition? I wouldn't be surprised if it was tradition in other cultures too since it's common to link evil spirits to wanting to target highlights in someone's life, but I know it was a thing in medieval Europe.
Load More Replies... KatSaidWhat 1 year ago
Yeah, perhaps look into other wedding traditions outside of the States...
Stardust she/her 1 year ago
There’s no such thing as upstaging the bride in Indian weddings as everyone wears the best clothes they have. Dressing up to resemble the bride though is a bit of a s****y move
WindySwede 1 year ago
They do say marry into the family.. what would been custom for the family to have?
Joe Reaves 1 year ago
Every woman at an Indian wedding is going to be absolutely blinged out. There is no such thing as overdressing for an Indian wedding. But deliberately matching so closely with the bride would be considered a d**k move unless they did it with her consent. The bride still expects to stand out and there is no way they got so perfectly close to the colours without doing it deliberately. I hope it's with her consent because otherwise she just married into the family from hell because it's very common to live with the in laws and have to defer to your MIL. If that MIL isn't a good human that can become very miserable very quickly. Even if they don't live with the family the daughters in law are usually subordinate to the mother in law.
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#26
This May End Up Being The Grooms Funeral
Corvus 1 year ago
Does he, by any chance, identify as a vampire? (there was a "nice guy" in another BP article who claimed he was one)
Penguin Panda Pop 1 year ago
I know it's a joke...but jokes often reveal a truth. Why is the dude marrying if he feels his life is over? It reflects very badly on him and his ability to make adult choices.
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Any groom who arrives as a stiff better deliver on his wedding night.
PattyK 1 year ago
Did the bride object to this stunt? Did she consider it disrespectful? If not, why would anybody else?
Caitlin Davenport 1 year ago
Best comment I've seen in these types of posts!
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Abby Reynolds 1 year ago
Not enough info to make a decision on whether this was bad taste or not. I mean, the bridesmaids are in on it, sooo....
#27
"I Just Thought Your Wedding Was The Perfect Place For My Child's Birthday Party"
OneWithRatsAndKefir 1 year ago
That 14 year old was probably mortified! I can barely stand hearing ‘Happy Birthday’ within my own home on my birthday, could you imagine it at a wedding?
Regina Holt 1 year ago
I wanna give my kid a really expensive birthday party without spending any money. And hey, let's get someone else to pay for it!
Kobe (she) 1 year ago
I think it is the lack of consultation with the bridal couple. If I would have had my wedding planned on someone else's birthday and would have been informed of that on forehand, surely we would have found a good momentum to squeeze something in to celebrate that too....
Load More Replies...Learning to let go of the need for everything to be perfect will help make the planning process more relaxed and enjoyable. Accept the fact that you will go through a lot of emotions before the big day, including stress as a bride or groom. All you need to do is have a healthy approach to manage those feelings. For instance, if at the last minute, the bridesmaids complain that their shoes are not comfy, you can graciously ask them to wear their own footwear.
#28
Ah Yes. Someone Potentially Dying At Your Wedding Is A Much Better Idea Than Simply Not Having Seafood For One Day
Little Wonder 1 year ago
To be fair, it's not like there are literally thousands of other things that could be served at a wedding.
Bouche and Audi and Shyla, Oh My! 1 year ago
Imagine being forced to have beef, pork, chicken, turkey, vegetarian, lamb, rabbit... the horror!
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seasidecav 1 year ago
A friend's step sister had seafood at her wedding. Friend is allergic to seafood and the server used the same serving spoon between whatever it was and the seafood. Friend ended up going to hospital in an ambulance.
Michael Largey 1 year ago
The bride should tell the maid of honor about the seafood. That way the MOH will realize how selfish and shallow the bride is and drop both out of the wedding and the bride's life, thus treating two allergies at once.
Jane Jayne Jain Jeign Jein 1 year ago (edited)
I went to a beautiful wedding recently where the B&G looked so perfect and everyone was crying during the vows and all round it was a magical day until the food was served at the reception and first one person and then another and another stood up and screamed "where's the f**king seafood!"
Joe Reaves 1 year ago
It's totally unfair we can't eat what we want just because ONE person might die.... Do you want your MOH at the wedding or in hospital? It's not a difficult question.
Danish Susanne 1 year ago
You are wrong here. To OP it is clearly a difficult question.
Load More Replies... Donkey boi 1 year ago
Tell you maid of honour to grow up, explain to them that only the strongest survive, and if they think they are too weak, give them a crystal dipped in essential oils.
#29
My Mum's 'Friend' Had This Dress Especially Made To Wear To My Wedding
Little Wonder 1 year ago
My Barbie had that exact dress in the 1980s. I never paired it with a black bag though...
DC 1 year ago
Your barbie has a better taste, it seems, than she has. Which, it seems, isn't too hard - after all, she's a piece of PVC, and even she gets it.
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Courtney Christelle 1 year ago
I wouldn’t take any pictures with this woman but I would definitely tell her she needs to change or leave.
Ruth Watry 1 year ago
Shows the need to have a bottle of red wine in the bride's room, so that somebody can pour a glass and trip and stain the dress of anybody other than the bride wearing a weeding dress
#30
Moh Too Busy Texting To Watch The Ceremony
Little Wonder 1 year ago
Shop her out, move the others forward. i say that like I have any photoshop skills.
Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
Maybe there’s an explanation - the groom and her’s mother / father / grandparent couldn’t attend the wedding and so she’s updating them by messages and photos during the event. In which case it’s bride and groom allowed it. Otherwise, what an a***hole for not putting the phone down for the ceremony and photos.
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Upstaged75 1 year ago
If I had been one of the other bridesmaids I'd have ripped it out of her hands and thrown it. Or shoved it inside my bra. How disrespectful!
Noyfb noyfb 1 year ago
Photoshop all but the bride and groom out. Five minutes’ work. Result: nice photo of back of the groom’s head.
Stannous Flouride 1 year ago
Isn't it possible that she's posting it to a live feed so that someone who could not attend could watch?
Sven Horlemann 1 year ago
Of course I would deliver them. Nothing wrong in capturing what happened that day.
Shawn Barry 1 year ago
yes, find someone with great photoshop skill and edit that disrespectful b***h out!
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So, while it’s arguable whether or not one should shame wedding blunders, people online don’t hesitate to call out such instances. After all, you learn from your mistakes (especially after you see them online). Which hilarious wedding moment did you think was the most trashy? Have you ever experienced any wedding drama? Tell us!
#31
The Rant, The Comment From Her Moh, Oh My God
HangryHangryHippo 1 year ago
But has a good ending! (pasted from Reddit): MOH, a mere 43 minutes later in response to a comment asking if it was resolved: "I drove over, we got super high and are talking it through and now are eating snacks and watching movies 💕" Asked for her side: "not much too it she is right. I haven't been active, I haven't been texting much, and I haven't been chatty regarding the wedding. I have a bunch of personal stuff going on she was unaware of as I was stuggling to communicate those things to her.. So am currently chatting with her about it and we are gonna get to a resolution 😊💕"
#32
Groom Party Had An Interesting Take On Attire
funkybluegirl (she/her) 1 year ago
I really love the flowers and color of the bridal party's dresses .
Joe Reaves 1 year ago
Unusual colours for a summer wedding, but they look fantastic. And while I dislike the way the groom's side is dressed it was clearly all planned because those colours coordinate. I think the men's outfits look tacky, but it's not my wedding. As long as the bride didn't mind, its MYOB time (and gossip in secret with your friends about it).
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EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇵🇸🇩🇿 1 year ago
I don't see anything wrong with this. If everyone is happy and no feelings were hurt then its all good
CrazyKnitter 1 year ago
This is probably how mine is going to be. My fiance hates formal clothes and I love getting dressed up. Why not do a "where whatever you want" dress code?
Load More Replies... SparkDragon 1 year ago
To be honest, if the bride and groom were both happy with this, who cares what anyone else thinks? Maybe she wanted a lovely dress, he wanted casual, so they both agreed on this compromise.
Tucker Cahooter 1 year ago
Can't be Aussies, since the guys are wearing shoes not thongs (flip flops)
Jaya 1 year ago (edited)
People forget that not all girls like a man in tie, it may be the groom's choice to wear this, it might also be that the bride think he looks really attractive like this. I would rather see my boyfriend wearing something that makes him look like HIM, instead of wearing something that doesn't fit his personality at all, to me it would be silly if he wore a suit because n'either of us like suits. And I would still wanna dress spectacularly myself and he would also enjoy seeing me wear something spectacular, so we would also be a couple where 1 is very dressed up and 1 is very casual looking. By the way, the groom and best men did make an effort: the groom wears white like the bride and the best men wear the yellow from the bouquets, and all of them wear a similar color pants.
#33
Bridezilla Upset Florist Is Having Surgery 8 Weeks Before Her Very Important Wedding… (The Comment Section Was Not On Her Side And She Left The Group Lol)
arthbach 1 year ago
And to return the deposit too! This wonderful florist deserves to have the best customers.
Load More Replies... Fat Harry (Oi / You) 1 year ago
Well done to the florist who can clearly spot a Bridezilla a mile away!
Ingeborg Børch 1 year ago
Can the bride actually read, or has the wedding cluttered her eye sight? Or is she just the most self absorbed creature in general?
Cyndielouwhoo 1 year ago
"a quick buck" not sure how anything related to weddings is quick or simple.
maka paka 1 year ago
Whats the big issue here, she asked for the florist to clarify that she will be able to get things ready for the wedding that they've paid a lot of money for. If the florist didn't mention her surgery before (and it sounds like she didn't) then she has every right to ask the question
karen Young 1 year ago
Sure florists in a town may know each other professionally. I would spread the word.
#34
Bride Asks If It's Tacky For Her Future Sil To Get Engaged Two Months Before The Most Important Day Of All Their Lives
PattyK 1 year ago
No, your sister-in-law is not tacky. You, however, are blatantly self-centered and selfish.
Mike F 1 year ago
C'mon, you know that you can only have one announcement/wedding per decade! 😂😂
Load More Replies... SparkDragon 1 year ago
It would be tacky if the proposal was in the middle of the service; two months out, is nothing to do with you
Hans Georg 1 year ago
Well, at least we do not need to determine the center of the universe anymore.
Zoe Vokes 1 year ago
So her boyfriend proposed and she was supposed to say, “No, I can’t. Please ask me again in a couple of months.” Would OP have delayed her engagement for somebody else?
Michael Largey 1 year ago
It was tacky of your future sister-in-law not to talk her brother out of marrying you. Obviously, making a case would not be a stretch.
Cyndielouwhoo 1 year ago
Unless the SIL is announcing at the wedding, don't see how this affects bride at all.
Joe Reaves 1 year ago
Unless she's keeping it a secret and springing it on the wider family at the wedding it will be old news by then.
#35
I Doubt This Qualifies For High School Volunteer Hours
veryvenasaur 1 year ago
I mean sure though I would help if she gave me a full gluten free vegetarian meal and gluten free desert. But I'm very easily bribed with food.
Load More Replies... Michael Largey 1 year ago
And not how school volunteering programs work, either.
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AnkleByter 1 year ago
I'm not saying this is a good idea (it's really not under most circumstances), but I have seen people use things like this to get their required community service hours in. In the US (at least in some areas) most high school seniors need to have accumulated a certain number of community service hours before they graduate. There are all sorts of ways people can accumulate these hours, though. In my hometown there were several teens who regularly helped with events, even parties, to help get their hours in (and there still are, it's a very small town/village). The people throwing the events were grateful for the help, students grateful for the hours, and it just worked. I got mine in different ways, but I can see why this might be a thing in some places and not others. It's not something someone should EXPECT, but I can understand why some might ask if it's something that happens where they are from.
Mike F 1 year ago
The places/events (at least in the US) must be approved by the supervising agency or individuals for credit to be given. That is ridiculous to think that some entitled knuckleheads can claim CS hours from probationers. Grow TF up.
Load More Replies... Hodge Elmwood 1 year ago
My advice: pay a caterer or roll back your wedding plans to something you can afford, you cheap biddy.
ElfVibratorGlitter 1 year ago
So they are called cater waiters... For minimum wage you can get a bunch of them. And for teens that actually need volunteer hours to graduate, this wouldn't actually count.
Hodge Elmwood 1 year ago
I don't think working at a cheapskate bride's wedding counts for volunteer hours.
#36
“Close Friend” Of The Bride Came Dressed Like This
Ruth Watry 1 year ago
Shows the need to have a bottle of red wine in the bride's room, so that somebody can pour a glass and trip and stain the dress of anybody other than the bride wearing a weeding dress
#37
Tw: M***er, Death - This Truly Unhinged Theme, The Table Names Are Their "Favourite Serial K*****s"
Korthias 1 year ago
These censorships are getting ridiculous. I was sat trying to figure out what swear word started with an M
Sue Denham 1 year ago
How do the words "favourite" and "serial k!ller" belong in the same sentence?
Kira Okah 1 year ago
Serial killers have a fandom, serously, massve serial killer fandom that treats real life murderers like they are fictional characters.
Load More Replies... Joe Reaves 1 year ago
I mean, if you're going to do this at least have the balls to go all the way. Why is the decoration on the table card a generic flower? It should be a bloody knife or something.
Michael Largey 1 year ago (edited)
Here's all I want to know - What did they serve at the Jeffrey Dahmer table?
The Other Guest 1 year ago
Trigger warnings are pretty useless if you cover the warning up. "There's disturbing content in this article, but you'll have to read the content to know what it is. You have been warned."
#38
Guest At My Cousins Reception Changed Into This Outfit Halfway Through The Night
Anne Roberts 1 year ago
Not to be mean, but did someone tell her she looked good in that...at a wedding?
#39
Will Threatening To Sue My Friends And Family Make Them Attend My Wedding
Trillian 1 year ago (edited)
Obviously, saying you will come and then just flake out is very bad form. I guess I just wouldn't invite them at all in that case., if you had serious concern they would act like this.
Nicole Weymann 1 year ago
At any party over ~15 people there will always be one who said they'd come and then don't show. With 50 people I'd estimate between three and six dropouts for whatever reason. However if many guests are unreliable like that you end up ordering and paying way more than neccessary for food destined for the bin. I'd be *angry* for this little consideration happening on a grand scale, not to mention feeling let down by my nearest and dearest.
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Violet Radar 1 year ago
Just have a conversation about what the real issue is, and that is that this person's family would flake on their wedding. Don't sue them for $20, tell them to be decent or there won't be future invitations to anything.
Michael Largey 1 year ago
This is quite fair. Obviously, it would be worth good money not to attend this wedding. (If you're wondering how much it costs in addition not to attend the bridal shower - well, if you have to ask, you can't afford it.)
#40
A “Mother Of The Bride Sympathy Party” Because She Doesn't Get To Control Every Aspect Of Her Daughter's Wedding
Rebelliousslug 1 year ago
“Everybody knows that you get to have the wedding of your dreams when your daughter gets married” WHAT? Who knows that? No ma’am, that was supposed to be your own wedding.
Alyssa Phillips 1 year ago
I actually think this could be a fun girls night (minus the woe is me and entitlement). Get everyone to wear what they can, buy a little cake and get wasted while remembering the good/bad wedding stories.
R.C. 1 year ago
I agree. This was a fun idea but made for the wrong reasons.
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Michael Largey 1 year ago
Imagine the shame and disappointment of raising a child "with a mind of her own".
kath morgan 1 year ago
Appreciation to the friends trying to run interference so she doesn’t throw a paddy at the wedding
Violet Radar 1 year ago
I love it when daughters stand up to narcissistic mothers. Good for that bride. I hope during the wedding, she's told to "sit DOWN and shut UP". This woman is awful. "My daughter is terrible, but our server was LOVELY!"
Icelandic_fart 1 year ago
I’m just happy for the waitress. She either got a good fit for her marriage or scammed the f**k out of this delusion woman.
#41
This Stuff Bugs Me So Damned Much!!
KinoEel 1 year ago
This is not a reply looking for upvotes but if anyone wants to help out…..
Load More Replies... ElfVibratorGlitter 1 year ago
I really don't understand any of this. If you can't afford it, you can't afford it. One of the most beautiful weddings I've been to was done on a tight budget. Very simple and thoughtful.
Becca not Becky 1 year ago (edited)
If your budget is THAT tight, push the date further back so you can save up some more.
#42
No, No That's Not The Bride
Raquel Mencke 1 year ago
Hah! So ill fitting. If there was enough alcohol, maybe she was someone's bride for the night.
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SlightlyTarnished 1 year ago
Man or woman, don't want to see clothes so tight every bump and bulge is visible.
Ruth Watry 1 year ago
Shows the need to have a bottle of red wine in the bride's room, so that somebody can pour a glass and trip and stain the dress of anybody other than the bride wearing a weeding dress
sweetrottenpeaches 1 year ago
That dress is silver colored not white. I mean it is still ugly and I'd never wear it if I had that belly and butt, but it is kinda okay.
#43
If You Have To Ask If It’s Tacky, It Probably Is…
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Paying you $50 to attend your wedding has the same net effect as paying myself $50 to stay home. Decisions, decisions.
Nicole Weymann 1 year ago
The only thing saving this idea would be if you simultaneously told people that them paying for the "ticket" would basically be their present to you - and that no other presents are required.
The Other Guest 1 year ago
If you're getting money from your guests, you're not exactly paying for it yourselves, are you? Also, I don't think you can call them "guests" if they have to pay to attend; I believe that would fall under the umbrella of "customers."
ElfVibratorGlitter 1 year ago
So in addition to paying to get to the wedding, pay for lodging, pay for clothes, pay for a gift.... you have to pay to attend the service. I'd plan for a small wedding love.
#44
Mother Of The Groom’s Outfit - I’m Sure The Bride Was Thrilled!
Upstaged75 1 year ago
WTF is wrong with all these women? Maybe I just run in different circles but I've never seen anyone but the bride wear white at any wedding I've been to. And I've been to a lot of them! I'd probably kick my mom out if she showed up like that. Except she would never, because she's not a lunatic.
#45
On Your Own Car, Sure. But On Your Mom's Car
#46
The A*s, The Bride On Her Knees, The Beer…
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Any woman who would agree to marry this guy had absolutely no self respect in the first place.
Load More Replies... Ham Fright 1 year ago
It's no one's business what happens between a man and a woman, and a photographer, and a wedding party, and a swan who happens to be swimming by, and a....
#47
Best Combo! A Beautiful Wedding Dress And A Um… Hat
David 1 year ago
I had not read the hat. That made it go from bad to worse
Load More Replies... TotallyNOTAFox 1 year ago
We can't say that for sure, but we absolutely know it won't happen
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#48
Bride Struggling To Find Engagement Photos With Guns That Don’t Look “Kinda Redneck”…
Rebelliousslug 1 year ago
Classy people don’t take engagement photos with guns. That’s why you’re not receiving any suggestions. Hope that helps.
Donkey boi 1 year ago
I mean... You *could* do like a Western theme photoshoot, and the whole 'big Iron on my hip' thing. But in modern attire... Maybe a James Bond type theme? I just don't think it's possible to look classy with a gun without a theme.
Upstaged75 1 year ago
There's no way on Earth to make that classy. That's why you can't find any photos!
ElfVibratorGlitter 1 year ago
"Is it even possible to take classy gun engagement photos...." No. No it is not.
Jaya 1 year ago
You should be able to make it look classy. Posing with really pretty clothes, gorgeous makeup and perfect lighting in a very chique room with chandeliers, posing in high fashion type poses. Also, not necessarily classy, but there's plenty of other cool wedding pictures you can make with guns: James Bond style dapper pictures, Mad Max style action pictures, science fiction/cosplay with giant fantasy guns, Old West saloon style clothes and rifles.
Joe Reaves 1 year ago
Also unless the guns are literal toys this is a good way to replace wedding photos with funeral ones. Real are not props or playthings.
Noyfb noyfb 1 year ago (edited)
This sounds like a job for a Photoshop professional (don’t even begin to think that service will come cheap — fee would be similar to a professional photographer’s). Do it like a Chinese restaurant menu: choose stock photo of a romantic setting and costumes from Column A: Hawaiian scene, Paris locale, Manhattan lights, Vermont autumn, Victorian parlor, etc. Choose firearms from Column B: shotguns, handguns, sniper rifles, muzzle-loaders, AK-type rifles. A talented Photoshop artist could propose some nice combinations of your choices.
#49
Boyyyy, I Ain’t Ever. Thursday At 4pm Invite For A Saturday Wedding
Corvus 1 year ago
"Awww, we would have gladly come but... you see, we have you and your wedding on *our* B list..."
Fat Harry (Oi / You) 1 year ago
My Dad and his brother had never got on growing up. When my Dad married my Mum at 18, the reason Dad's brother gave for being unavailable was "Sorry, I'm picking my nose" :D
Load More Replies... Ross “Sarcastic Dad” 1 year ago (edited)
This easily could have been, "I don't know how this happened, but your invite didn't get mailed! I know it's short notice, but we'd love to have you there!"
Howl's sleeping castle 1 year ago
Oh I know someone who did it. His 'close' friend invited him one day before the wedding. This guy left office early, rode for more than 400 kms to reach the venue. I was so angry at him. How did he not understand it was just a formality
Load More Replies... Jaya 1 year ago
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Because if the not-invited person was told "sorry, we'd love to have you, but we can't afford a big wedding" and then later finds out that because of the cancellations there WOULD have been space for them but they STILL didn't get an invite, they'd be hurt or offended as well.
#50
Soliciting Wedding Funds From Strangers Isn’t Tacky At Allllll /S
Upstaged75 1 year ago
I wonder if this ever actually works? I certainly would never send money to some random stranger.
#51
Someone Very Very Close To The Bride & Groom Wore This To The Wedding
sweetrottenpeaches 1 year ago
Wow if bad taste could be punished, she would go to jail instantly
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Shouldn't that be "Someone Once Very Close To The Bride and Groom Wore This To The Wedding"?
#52
Bride Mad Moh Is Pregnant And Is "Ruining" Bachelorette
quentariel 1 year ago
If you can't have fun without being drunk, there's sonething wrong with you.
The Other Guest 1 year ago
If you can't have fun without someone else being drunk, there's *really* something wrong with you.
Load More Replies... ElfVibratorGlitter 1 year ago
I don't think anyone wanting to get pregnant would call them scares....
Kare Deter 1 year ago
Every drinking party needs a designated driver - as the designated driver I always enjoyed watching the drunks do what drunks do (and collecting photographic evidence.
Joe Reaves 1 year ago
If they're 'scares' rather than 'false alarms' she has way bigger problems than your wedding and someone needs to give her sex ed 101.
The Other Guest 1 year ago
Perhaps they are only "scares" for the bride. MOH might very much want to be pregnant.
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#53
Utterly Gobsmacked Over This Groom’s Very Normal Wedding™ Outfit Choice
arthbach 1 year ago
A friend and her husband married in clothing very similar to this. They had been a couple for over 15 years, and it was no surprise when they chose their clothing. Both wore what they wanted to wear. It worked for them.
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Deeelite 1 year ago
Disagree - show some class on your wedding day - she went through all that trouble - he didnt have to wear a tux, simple dress pants and a button down shirt would have been better. This just shows he couldn't care less about the whole thing
Jaya 1 year ago
That's quite an assumption, that he doesn't really care. Maybe he even cares 10 times as much, but he actually cares about promising to spend their lives together, and not about superficial stuff like how they look. Or who knows, maybe he actually likes a suit, but he knows that it makes her super happy to see him wear clothes that fit his personality, so he might be dressing this way for her.
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Sweet Taurus 1 year ago
I think this shows that the groom's wants were included in the attire. She wanted to look gorgeous in a beautiful dress and he didn't want to wear a tux. I take this as a sign of compromise!
Ephemera Image 1 year ago
Or maybe a lazy a*s who can't be bothered to dress for supposedly the most iimportant event in his life, lol.
Load More Replies... Jaya 1 year ago
We're all concerned about whether the bride likes this or not, but does anyone think about the groom's opinion of her dress? Maybe he is super disappointed that she's not wearing a dress that's khaki coloured and embroidered with guitars, lol. No but seriously, maybe he hates fancy wedding dresses, and nobody is scolding her for potentially wearing something he may dislike, but many people scold him for potentially wearing something she may dislike. Why should people who like traditional wedding clothes have to compromize less than people who like different kind of clothes? It's about both their happiness.
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Destination weddings have their own rules. (Of course, Rule #1 is "Don't have one! Do you think that I'm made of money?!?!")
#54
Nothing Says Classy Like Shotgun Shells!
Upstaged75 1 year ago
Specially made for the bride who's pregnant and the groom who's being forced to marry her?
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Who's the band at the wedding - Junior Walker and the All-Stars or George Ezra?
#55
Op Said They Don’t Need To Be Roasted
RabidChild 1 year ago
After the vowels? I wonder what she has planned for after the consonants.
Alyssa Phillips 1 year ago
Easy fix. Two parties. My friend did that. Normal wedding/reception. After midnight the fetish people stayed and had a completely different vibe for the next four hours.
Ross “Sarcastic Dad” 1 year ago (edited)
"I want to get naked and bang my new husband on the alter, but my prude family says this is trashy. AiTA?"
#56
Do I Except Or Decline The Wedding Invitation…
Tropical Tarot 1 year ago (edited)
Did you post on Live journal In the white collar fandom? I was amy1705 then.
Load More Replies... OneWithRatsAndKefir 1 year ago
Not the worst one, that’s for sure! We’ve all made stupid mistakes and the brain tends to autocorrect these mistakes depending on what we ’except’ we’re actually supposed to see.
Penguin Panda Pop 1 year ago
You should speak kindly except when regretfully declining. Could not be clearer.
#57
This Is The Cringiest Wedding Countdown I’ve Ever Seen. She’s Not Pregnant
#58
Wedding Photographer Here. Received This Vendor “Meal” After Standing And Shooting For 6 Hours…
MotherofGuineaPigs 1 year ago
Geez. Our Minister was surprised that we ordered him the same meal as everyone else. I can't believe that someone wouldn't feed them.
ocean 1 year ago
Is the food part of your salary? I mean, sheesh, it doesn't look like much when it comes to a catered meal, but I have never understood why people work and expect to be fed. I once ran a business--from my home--and would occasionally have a crew work for. me. At lunch these men would stand around like, 'isn't someone going to feed us' and I would be like, 'what the h*ll, you guys couldn't figure out how to feed yourself when you're working?"
Violet Radar 1 year ago
I agree with you. I would assume this is the meal that everyone received. The food is what it is, eat it or don't. The business transaction is to take the photos. And the photographer is not going to be sitting and eating at the same time as everyone else. Or shouldn't be if they're doing their job. My daughter wanted BBQ potluck for her wedding, so we grilled burgers and dogs and had side salads. The photographer didn't expect an special treatment or a grilled steak instead of a burger.
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#59
I’m Sure They All Did This Intentionally
Ingeborg Børch 1 year ago
Maybe be happy that they are attending at all? The world does not revolve around you.
The Other Guest 1 year ago
"...maybe also they will not drink..." Literally who cares? Why are some people so concerned about whether or not someone else has a drink???
Awesome At Being Autistic 1 year ago
Okay, as a mom there is no way I would leave my 2 to 4 month old baby with some random babysitter. Just no.
Jaya 1 year ago
This one is fine. It's a legitimate concern, and also she might be worried for them, that they won't be having fun. And she's not saying she wants them to change anything, she's asking if there's something she can do to get the mood up when the people who usually bring the fun mood to the party won't be able to. That's a totally legit question.
Michael Largey 1 year ago
Someone should sit the OP down and explain the link between weddings and pregnancies.
#60
Bit Of A Doozy From A Local Cafe Where They Had An Unannounced Rogue Wedding Show Up In Their Shop
Verena 1 year ago
So the majority thinks it is totally okay to hijack a normal place with a couple of dozen people and to go party like it was booked? Here you would find yourself out on the street within minutes. You book and pay, or you leave. Even if you only wanted to have served food for the whole group, all at the same time, the people there would have struggled.
Giraffy Window 1 year ago
I have a feeling that at least some of the wedding guests were duped into thinking the wedding got BOOKED there. Otherwise I doubt they would have thought they could put gifts anywhere out of their line of sight when regular customers were still coming in and out.
Load More Replies... General Anaesthesia 1 year ago
Great exposure. Their 12 followers will be certain to think of you when it's their turn.
ElfVibratorGlitter 1 year ago
A lot of restaurants will provide the venue free, you just have to schedule it in advance.
#61
“How Dare They Use The Same Venue As Us”
Shelby Jackson 1 year ago
I had my reception at the same place my sister did. We really liked it and they treated us well. Plus it was a really good price for a nice venue. My sister wasn't mad. You can't gate keep a wedding venue.
Howl's sleeping castle 1 year ago
Yeah. We liked the venue so much during my elder sister's wedding, we all got married in the same one. And there is a gap of 10 years between the first and last wedding.
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Pink kitty 1 year ago
'we live in a very popular wedding location' but how dare other people have their weddings there!
Michael Largey 1 year ago
So after the OP's wedding was over, they were supposed to seal the doors to the venue shut?
MotherofGuineaPigs 1 year ago
Buy some land and have it there. You can then refuse to let anyone else have a wedding there.
#62
Saw This Post In A Wedding Planning Bookface Group
Ingeborg Børch 1 year ago
Well, you should have thought of that before pawning innocent animals to fund your stupid a*s wedding. No sympathy from here. Besides, ypu obviously don't know anything about breeding; with a bit of luck, expenses for gear, vet, vacs and certificats will be equaled out if the puppies are sold. But it won't make you rich.
Noyfb noyfb 1 year ago (edited)
Actual dog breeders don’t make a profit, or just a tiny one, selling well-bred puppies. This was not a promising financial plan. Sorry, but best to drop the puppy project, rescale your budget and look into getting some kind of loan.
Rayne OfSalt 1 year ago
When I was working in animal welfare, I'd have used this post as evidence to start an investigation into illegal breeding.
Little Wonder 1 year ago
Either budget to what you can currently afford, or wait till you can afford what you want, this is not difficult.
#63
Bride Thinks Returning Wedding Decorations After Using Them Is A Great Way To “Save Money”
MotherofGuineaPigs 1 year ago
If the items were from a small company or shop this could put them out of business. Amazon charges them a "restocking" fee to get the merchandise back to them.
Michael Largey 1 year ago
And if someone gives you a check for $100 as a wedding present, just alter it so say $1,000, right?
#64
Why Get Married If You Hate Your Spouse
Karen Krause 1 year ago
This is kind of cute. It's a throwback when people didn't live together first and being married/sharing lives, personal space, cultures, foibles, etc was new.
Sheena Leversedge Wood 1 year ago
the earplugs are pretty awful, but the rest of it just seems to acknowledge that you both need your own space, even when you're a couple.
#65
Sent From A Friend Getting Married Abroad
SparkDragon 1 year ago
I read the first line and thought "that's sweet! They're having a little wedding, but wanted the person to know they were thinking of them". Then I got to the next bit...
#66
Just When I Thought Bridezillas Were Done. Saw This In Wedding Group
Yu Pan 1 year ago
If anyone can mistake a 2 year-old as the bride, you got a much bigger problem than someone else wearing white at a wedding.
Sheena Leversedge Wood 1 year ago
I think prepubescent children are an exception to that rule, surely
Giraffy Window 1 year ago (edited)
I had my flower girls and MOH in white because as the bride I could poke fun at the tradition. I wouldn't do it at someone else's wedding without permission.
#67
Wedding Guest Wears All White And Is Prominently In All The Photos Of Me & My Dad Dancing
OneWithRatsAndKefir 1 year ago
I mean, she’s not really mistakable as the bride. Just looks like someone’s aunt or work colleague.
Justanotherpanda 1 year ago
you don't wear white to a wedding, you just don't, unless specifically asked to do so.
Load More Replies... ocean 1 year ago
where? Have I missed it? You mean the mature lady in the short cream colored dress?
Kare Deter 1 year ago
Yeah, she isn't actually wearing white. People need to get over themselves.
Load More Replies... Violet Radar 1 year ago
Looks like a small venue. Would be hard not to be included in a pic and that's not white. A better viewpoint is "Look at how much fun everyone is having".
#68
Bride Is Upset Her Sister’s Life Isn’t Revolving Around Her Wedding
Joe Reaves 1 year ago
And I'm pretty sure the photographer will have software to touch up the images if she wants them removed that much. I mean it's a non issue anyway because your wedding should be about the people you love not an iron clad aesthetic, but that ship has clearly already sailed.
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flower petals 1 year ago
As far as tattoos go, the design looks pretty good but the line work is the problem. It looks messy- the ink bleeds out.
#69
Saw This On A Wedding Group, Tacky, Cringe, The Whole Lot
David 1 year ago
Cool how they painted the cop car with "SHE". Does the other side say "HIM"? /j
Michael Largey 1 year ago
I've seen bridal outfits where I wanted to call the cops. I'm glad someone finally did it.
Violet Radar 1 year ago
Right? Remember that one dude who was in love with his red car? I bet their marriage is doing well.
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Ross “Sarcastic Dad” 1 year ago
It's the "Blue Lives Matter" flag that was meant to push back against Black Lives Matter but really just tells people you're an insufferable twat.
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OneWithRatsAndKefir 1 year ago
If somebody wanted to actually do a ‘police’ inspired wedding, I think the only way to not make it tasteless is styling it after one of those TV shows, like Brooklyn 9-9.
#70
Classy A*s Grab Photo On Social Media Trying To Sell The Dress
Patrick H 1 year ago
But what is he actually grabbing? His hand is in the center where there should be ...a gap. Maybe her undies slid off her áss, and he's holding them up for her.
#71
MLM Making It’s Way Around The Wedding Photographer Groups. Photog Was Blocked When She Declined
#72
Bride Cancels Mua Because Mua Is Not Married And Has Kids. Bride Wants Deposit Back
Susan 1 year ago
If she went with someone available last minute and they did contouring she probably ended up looking like she got hit with a broom handle. Most contouring is only intended to be seen from one angle, usually the front, not from all angles as your guests would during a wedding. Also, non refundable means non refundable.
Patrick H 1 year ago
What the fùck is a "Mua"? I'm guessing it's a initialism, but why is it so hard to work things out, these days?
Limey Cheesehead 1 year ago
Make Up Artist...and don't worry - I really had to think about it as I didn't know at first.
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#73
Almost Kicks Out Entire Bridal Party For Not Responding When She Told Them Only To Respond If They Wouldn’t Adhere To Her Demands…
ElfVibratorGlitter 1 year ago
So pay $65 to get your hair did the day before? And then what? Not sleep?
Funderthuck 1 year ago
Doing hair the the night before the wedding? So am I not expected to sleep?
MotherofGuineaPigs 1 year ago
I'm wondering if the few who get their makeup/hair done the day before are sleeping sitting up?
#74
Videographer Walks Out Of Wedding After The Groom Kills A Snake In Front Of Guests During Reception
Miss Tinker 1 year ago
I think a little context is required here. I hate the idea of killing a snake but if it was presenting a danger to someone i.e. a poisonous snake about to bite someone maybe the groom didn’t have a choice?
Fat Harry (Oi / You) 1 year ago
Here you go: https://philstarlife.com/news-and-views/169927-wedding-videographer-doesnt-deliver-output-as-groom-kills-snake
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Original article: https://philstarlife.com/news-and-views/169927-wedding-videographer-doesnt-deliver-output-as-groom-kills-snake
Abby Reynolds 1 year ago
Okay, so it looks like everyone might suck? The article doesn't say much about the snake besides it was outdoors and the groom saw it and killed it. No idea if it hissed in warning or he just panicked. So, the videographer thought that was unnecessary and just left without telling anyone. He also goes on to say that his beliefs matter more than anything else and that he will edit the videos if he doesn't like something you say or do. I'm not sure I like any of them.
#75
Another Bride Who Thinks It’s The Parents Responsibility To Pay For A Wedding
Patrick H 1 year ago
Why would anyone want to see their older sister's bowel movement on FaceTime?
Andrew Arons 1 year ago
Internet Rule #34 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rule_34
Load More Replies... Pink kitty 1 year ago (edited)
We don't have the best relationship but if my mom could just look past that and just pay for everything that I want and then I can just ignore her again after the wedding. Is that too much to ask?! 🙄
Alexandra 1 year ago
Let's clear up this misunderstanding. If a bride still lives at home and has no source of income, parents are expected to help with paying for the wedding. If the bride lives on her own, parents have no obligation to help whatsoever. Of course this is a general rule, but the important part is that there can be no expectation of parents paying for a wedding if the bride doesn't live at home.
Kare Deter 1 year ago
Let's clear it up further: excepting perhaps an arranged marriage, the parents of the bride are under no obligation to pay any portion of the wedding costs regardless of her living situation.
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Bride Owns A Spray Tan Business And Requires Bridesmaids To Get A Spray Tan
Sheena Leversedge Wood 1 year ago
I wouldn't get a fake tan for a wedding. I wouldn't look like me. I don't like tans. I use high factor sunblock, and sometimes a parasol to keep pale.
#77
Photographer On Shrooms - Horrible Vendors
#78
The Way They Served Ice Cream At A Wedding (Not My Pic, Just Thought Ppl Here Would Appreciate It)
Little Wonder 1 year ago
It's all fun and games until Aunty Mavis has one too many and tries to sit on it.
Upstaged75 1 year ago
That's bizarre. It's going to tip over if too many people take it from the bottom.
#79
People Will Try To Sell Anything
Ross “Sarcastic Dad” 1 year ago
What if you play Yahtzee but the winners have to get married? Then it would be a Dice Wedding Game.
Load More Replies... Andrew Arons 1 year ago
The game would be a lot more interesting if one of the die's sides had "Drunkenly confess that you had sex with the bride/groom last night".
#80
Bride Wants To Send “You’re Not Invited To My Wedding” Messages With Save The Dates
Shelby Jackson 1 year ago
Or. Or. She could just do her wedding and send out "hey look! We got married!" postcards.
Alexandra 1 year ago
You NEVER inform people that they are not invited to a wedding. If you have a small party and you don't feel like having to explain why to dozens of people, sending out notes will not prevent that because there will be a lot of hurt feelings either way. The only way to do this without causing hurt feelings, broken friendships and acrimony is to marry in secret and then have a reception to which you invite those you didn't invite to your wedding. Also, if you're not invited, why on earth would you want to save a date? Anyhow, the above solution is, etiquette-wise, the correct one, but you're not really concerned with that, are you?
Dragon mama 1 year ago
If you have the type of family that might just assume that they can come "no invitation, no problem, we're family" you may need to be explicit. Considering the person mentioned "only 14 family member" and other limits I don't see this as selfish or unreasonable
Jaya 1 year ago
She might know that some of her family members automatically assume they're invited and their invitation just got lost in the mail, and just show up. Or she might be worried lots of people will assume to get invited, and will start calling to check whether they indeed weren't invited or if something just went wrong with the invites, and she might find it painful to tell them on the phone that they indeed are not invited. So this is not necessarily bad.
#81
A Couple In My Town Got Married And This Was The Grooms Reception Attire
Michael Largey 1 year ago
This looks like one of those weddings where you're already related to your in-laws before the marriage.
#82
Yet Another Groom Terribly Dressed And Overall Ick
Giraffy Window 1 year ago (edited)
I always worry that the women in these photos have lived a life of sacrificing their wants and needs for others for so long that even for their wedding they don't feel they should speak up. The look tells me "I don't care" is just euphemism for "I won't rock the boat". Sure, it's absolutely possible they're in full support of their husbands dressing like... That... But in this picture especially, look how gorgeously she and the girls are dressed! The mismatch says she's settled for a mismatch, and he's not one to pick up his socks or anything else from the living room floor "hahaha! Men. So quirky!"
SparkDragon 1 year ago
What's wrong with this one? If the key people are happy and comfortable, who gives a f*ck what anyone else thinks?!
Kare Deter 1 year ago
People are so judgy. I married my hubby for the person he is, not the clothes he wears.
#83
Not My Post - Bride’s Father’s Best Friend Suddenly Died Today And She Wants To Uninvite His Widow
karen snyder 1 year ago
This one is actually a reasonable thing to be grumpy about. But, obviously, no, you can't uninvite someone from a wedding.
Violet Radar 1 year ago
I would say it depends. If she's verbally or emotionally abusive, she can be asked not to come. Just because it's not the "nice" thing to do doesn't mean it shouldn't be done. Toxic people need to be dealt with.
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Op Doesn’t Want To Include New Step Daughters
Patrick H 1 year ago
I actually think she's being reasonable. It's not like she doesn't like the girl. I agree with her definition of who her bridesmaids should be. If her fiancé wants his daughter to be in the wedding party, then break tradition and make her a groomswoman. I'm a guy, and I had a close female friend stand on my side.
Libstak 1 year ago
For anyone in a similar situation. My godmother wanted me in her wedding. I was 14. She created a junior bridesmaid role and another girl from a family she was also close to and i were dressed slightly less flashy and more age appropriate. It was sweet. I didn't ask for the role and didnt expect to be in the bridal party in any way, she just really wanted us included.
Rebelliousslug 1 year ago
This one doesn’t seem to belong. If there is only one BM, having it be your future step daughter doesn’t seem appropriate. She’s trying to find ways to include them. Hopefully someone told them they’re not too old to be flower girls or suggested another option. But she seems like she’s legitimately trying to find something to include them. The part about the cold feet is a little cringy though.
Susan 1 year ago
Guess she's never heard of Junior Bridesmaids. Their dresses usually look similar to the bridesmaids but more age appropriate (modest) for preteen girls. The two girls walk down together holding small bouquets. Boom problem solved. But.. I don't see this marriage lasting anyway.
Andrew Arons 1 year ago
I can't think of a better way to tell future step-daughters they're excess baggage...
#85
Entitled Bride Is Upset She Can't Keep Bartenders Tips
#86
Bride Doesn't Know What To Do With Handicapped And Transgendered Wedding Party
Little Wonder 1 year ago
If my groom wouldn't "allow" a trans man it would solve the whole problem of the wedding, there wouldn't be one.
Giraffy Window 1 year ago
A cheaper solution than divorce and a name change back from new married name (if applicable) that's for sure.
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SparkDragon 1 year ago
Also, is the top of the post saying they don't want someone's wheelchair in their wedding photos?!
EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇵🇸🇩🇿 1 year ago
Yes they want to block the wheelchair in the photos. She didn't mention if her partner would be uncomfortable with that
Load More Replies... Noyfb noyfb 1 year ago
Last wedding I attended, the bride had a friend serve as “bride’s dude” and it was completely fine. And where, again, did we get the idea that bride’s attendants should equal the number of groom’s??
#87
Everyone In The Comments Encouraging Her To Keep It Outside, “Guests Will Be Fine”
Patrick H 1 year ago
This one doesn't seem so bad. They seem to legitimately want advice. Sometimes, it's hard to back off from something you really want, so it helps to have other people keeping you grounded.
Stephanie A Mutti 1 year ago
And it looks like they are trying to make it as comfortable as possible. Not a bridezilla.
Load More Replies... Little Wonder 1 year ago
I looked it up. That's 4.4°C and this person is ridiculous expecting people to sit out in that.
Bols 1 year ago
If it's only 30 minutes with hot cider and blankets and people are warned beforehand I don't think it's that bad
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Lesbiancats 1 year ago
I'm getting married in December, which yes, is pretty far out, but I'm doing the same thing as this person. I'm providing blankets, cider, hot chocolate, reminding everyone to dress warm, and the reception is going to be inside, its just the ceremony
Michael Largey 1 year ago
I've been to many weddings where guests have said "I though it would be a cold day in hell before these two tied the knot."
Violet Radar 1 year ago
Eight degrees above freezing is too cold. Yeah 30 minutes isn't long, but people will be miserable for 25 of those minutes and will be thinking "when can I get inside?" instead of "look how lovely they are".
#88
This Bride And Groom Have Less Than 20k Instagram Followers Between Them
David 1 year ago
"Do you John, take Mary to be your..." "An important question for sure and we'll get back to that but first a word from our sponsor..."
Michael Largey 1 year ago
If I was a professional in the field, I would have stopped reading when I got to "partnerships".
#89
(Celebrity Wedding) Axl Rose Showing Up In Green At Slash's Black And White Wedding
Donkey boi 1 year ago
Just to add context to this picture. They had just taken a picture of the bridal party and groomsmen, Slash sparked a cig and invited Axel to join in for a photo. Without context this makes it appear that Axel was the only person out of the entire wedding party wearing colour, when in fact many people were, he wasn't a groomsman so is not matching the others in the photo.
Ross “Sarcastic Dad” 1 year ago
If Axl Rose is coming to your wedding, this is the best possible outcome. It could have been way worse.
araT sdrawkcaB 1 year ago
Do ppl (even famous ones) have that many friends to be bridesmaids??
#90
One Of Those Things That Lives In My Head Rent Free
Amy Poehler inexplicably wore a white dress to John Mulaney's 2014 wedding. (Why? Was it a joke? A genuine faux pas?) Now you have to think about it too.
PattyK 1 year ago
Okay, I was raised in Denver and have never heard of this silly rule of not wearing white to a wedding. I mentioned it to a friend who was raised in New York and she’s never heard of it either. Where dud this rule come from? And when?
Little Wonder 1 year ago
Really? It's pretty common and hotly debated. The idea is that the Bride should be the only one in white, lest attention be taken away from her. Some brides don't care either way, some brides hire security to make sure no other white dresses get in (not a joke, someone posted about it somewhere).
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#91
Bride Won’t Pay For Deaf Sister’s Sign Language Interpreters
SparkDragon 1 year ago
So, all she's asking for is food for the interpreters and a place they can stand? That's hardly unreasonable!
Patrick H 1 year ago
I'm kinda torn, here. If it was my wedding, I would pay for the translators (although, I'm not sure there needs to be two of them). But that's just me. I'm not sure if the couple should be expected to pay for them or not. If she's allowed a plus-one, then I would think that she could bring a translator in lieu of a date. The only similar scenario I can think of would be inviting a person that needs a caretaker. However, I don't really know what is customary for that, either.
Foxinamug 1 year ago
There needs to be two of them because they will need to take breaks (interpreting is exhausting, plus most paid work mandates adequate breaks) so the deaf person does not miss anything while an interpreter is having a break.
Load More Replies... Andrew Arons 1 year ago
It seems to me that the "half"-sister isn't even that if she's not willing to cough up $100 or so to accommodate her disabled sister. OP should consider skipping the wedding entirely.
Georgie Montague 1 year ago
Doing sign interpreting is exhausting. You would normally have two that tag team each other throughout - half an hour at a time or similar. They need to have a drink, go to the loo, sit down for a bit, stop the I tense concentration for a bit. If there are two then the deaf person won't miss anything.
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She Looks Stunning And He Looks Like A Schoolboy
Geekymummy 1 year ago
It's clearly what they wanted. They are obviously getting married on a beach and wanted him in something more casual. What does it matter?
Just-4-2day 1 year ago
So many people forget that it is HIS wedding also. He can wear what is comfortable. If the couple is ok with the clothing, why does anyone else care?
#93
Saw Someone Selling Wedding Items - The Mismatch Here Hurts
David 1 year ago
Exactly. For all they know it could have been a loving thing. Like he didn't have enough money and offered to give what he had towards the dress she wanted. Not everyone has parents who drop $50-100K on their wedding.
Load More Replies... Stephanie A Mutti 1 year ago
I am a little torn on this. The bride might want to dress up but maybe the groom doesn't. Is it fair just to require that he dress up [not talking the shorts and t's; this guy has put together a nice outfit if not my taste] for her 'dream'. I hope couples are comfortable with letting each other have their wishes fulfilled even if it's not to their taste. You love the person, not the dress or tux.
#94
Another Case Of A Groom Being Underdressed For His Own Wedding
Sue User 1 year ago (edited)
I see nothing wrong here. This wasnt a " i cant be bothered" groom. They deliberately chose the outfit and bride was happy. We shame people who demand a picture perfect wedding, but then also shame them if they dont wear what we consider appropiate attire ?
OneWithRatsAndKefir 1 year ago
It does sound like bride was originally going to be dressed casually too, but then just found a really nice wedding dress.
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Imagine Getting All Dressed Up And Your Husband-To-Be Shows Up Wearing Jeans
Not-a-Clue (she/her) 1 year ago
I showed up in jeans to my wedding, and so did my husband. So what?
Giraffy Window 1 year ago
It at least looks like he's wearing new clean jeans and new button-up shirt. This one looks fine to me. It's the ones where it looks like it was picked out of the closet morning of as though it was just another day with nothing special happening.
Michael Largey 1 year ago
He tucked his shirt in. We don't know how long it took her to convince him to do that. :)
JanuarySounds 1 year ago
lol are you talking about? We buy our jeans at the store and certainly wouldn't be able to trade jeans for a car.
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Lady Perkele 1 year ago
My best friend in the world is getting married in London, to an Indian man, she's white, from Spain. We grew up together. They are having a Punjabi wedding. I was so concerned by what to wear. What would be appropriate. But she called me and invited me to the henna ceremony, to buy Indian celebration dresses and join all the ceremonies. She won't expect gifts or money. She lives in another country and her only wish is to have her girls together. Etiquete whatever makes u feel happy except her dress color, mint. This is the only wedding I'm excited to attend 🌿✨️💛
Tammilee Truitt 1 year ago
I want to come! Sounds awesome. Wish them luck from Boerne, Tx.
Load More Replies... Corvus 1 year ago
After going through all this, I think the most common issue is that some people take their weddings waaaaaay too seriously. It's supposed to be a celebration and a happy event, not some strictly regimented military parade, right? Yes, it is a very special day... but one day is nothing compared to all the time the spouses will spend together (hopefully).
Diolla 1 year ago
I literally got married 2 days ago. No guests, no wedding attire, no party, cheap rings bc only needed for the ceremony. Friend took some pics on their iPhone. My husband and me do not care about weddings. It's the marriage that counts and we need our money to start building our future.
Yer Maw Lorna 1 year ago
Literally did the same, told no one until the day of when we told the kids and our mums who we made think we were going for a fancy lunch. Was our 6th anniversary this week. Wouldn't change it for anything
Load More Replies... ADZ 1 year ago
If you're intended turns up dressed like he's going shopping at the supermarket, walk away. Just walk away.
CrazyKnitter 1 year ago
No. My significant other hates getting dressed up. I love it. I buy him shirts that say things like 404 costume not found, and This is my Christmas Shirt. Why should I make him uncomfortable for a day that is his too?
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Bored Birgit 1 year ago
Why are there so many bridezillas out there in the wild? I'm really disappointed.
Apatheist Account2 1 year ago
I feel fortunate that I don't know anyone stupid, self-centred or thoughtless enough to turn up to a wedding in white when they're not the bride.
Aubrie Allen 1 year ago
Why do wedding turn people into incredibly self centered monsters? I'm getting married in a couple of months. I just want to go to the court house. No big fuss.
Tammilee Truitt 1 year ago
I think...where the hell do these women find these men that are okay with this wacky c**p?
Lady Perkele 1 year ago
My best friend in the world is getting married in London, to an Indian man, she's white, from Spain. We grew up together. They are having a Punjabi wedding. I was so concerned by what to wear. What would be appropriate. But she called me and invited me to the henna ceremony, to buy Indian celebration dresses and join all the ceremonies. She won't expect gifts or money. She lives in another country and her only wish is to have her girls together. Etiquete whatever makes u feel happy except her dress color, mint. This is the only wedding I'm excited to attend 🌿✨️💛
Tammilee Truitt 1 year ago
I want to come! Sounds awesome. Wish them luck from Boerne, Tx.
Load More Replies... Corvus 1 year ago
After going through all this, I think the most common issue is that some people take their weddings waaaaaay too seriously. It's supposed to be a celebration and a happy event, not some strictly regimented military parade, right? Yes, it is a very special day... but one day is nothing compared to all the time the spouses will spend together (hopefully).
Diolla 1 year ago
I literally got married 2 days ago. No guests, no wedding attire, no party, cheap rings bc only needed for the ceremony. Friend took some pics on their iPhone. My husband and me do not care about weddings. It's the marriage that counts and we need our money to start building our future.
Yer Maw Lorna 1 year ago
Literally did the same, told no one until the day of when we told the kids and our mums who we made think we were going for a fancy lunch. Was our 6th anniversary this week. Wouldn't change it for anything
Load More Replies... ADZ 1 year ago
If you're intended turns up dressed like he's going shopping at the supermarket, walk away. Just walk away.
CrazyKnitter 1 year ago
No. My significant other hates getting dressed up. I love it. I buy him shirts that say things like 404 costume not found, and This is my Christmas Shirt. Why should I make him uncomfortable for a day that is his too?
Load More Replies... Bored Birgit 1 year ago
Why are there so many bridezillas out there in the wild? I'm really disappointed.
Apatheist Account2 1 year ago
I feel fortunate that I don't know anyone stupid, self-centred or thoughtless enough to turn up to a wedding in white when they're not the bride.
Aubrie Allen 1 year ago
Why do wedding turn people into incredibly self centered monsters? I'm getting married in a couple of months. I just want to go to the court house. No big fuss.
Tammilee Truitt 1 year ago
I think...where the hell do these women find these men that are okay with this wacky c**p?
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