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50 Lunatic Brides And Bridesmaids Who Were Mocked Online For Losing Touch With Reality
It’s completely understandable if you feel overwhelmed about organizing your wedding. It’s completely natural to be at least a tad stressed about what’s supposed to be one of the happiest days of your life. There’s a lot of pressure! Some brides deal with this stress fantastically. They embrace the fact that some things might go wrong and they choose to see these unexpected events as surprises.
Unfortunately, others morph into bridezillas, try to control every tiny little detail, and lash out at their friends. Our team at Bored Panda has collected some of the most intense conversations of brides conflicting with their bridesmaids. Read on to see how not to treat your dear friends and why it’s best to avoid hashing out your issues online.
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#1
Bride And Maid Of Honor Tried Ripping Off Bridesmaids
BarBeeGirl 2 years ago
Wow! That’s some shady s**t. I’d boycott the wedding if that happened to me
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#2
Lose Weight If You Want To Be My Maid Of Honor
#3
Bride's Sister Obviously Got Pregnant On Purpose To Ruin The Wedding
#4
Sure, I'm Gonna Cut My Hair That I Grew And Took Care Of For 10 Straight Years, So You Can Feel A Tiny Bit More Special On That One Day
#5
Bridezilla's Close Friend Having Cancer Doesn't Fit Her Wedding "Aesthetic"
RiceRiceBaby 929 2 years ago
Talk about being shallow. She'll divorce her husband when he starts balding.
#6
When Did Being A Part Of The Bridal Party Become An Unpaid Job
#7
Should Have Had The Lawsuit Served To Her At The Altar
#8
This Is Pretty Heartless Of The Bride
#9
Bridesmaid / Sister-In-Law From Hell
Insomniac 2 years ago
He should tell his fiancee that he cannot trust his sister to not pull something during the wedding, so they really cannot have her there. His family has shown their true colours. Keeping the peace right now means standing firm, because they won't allow for a peaceful wedding.
#10
Dark Skin And Yellow Make The Perfect Combination Though
Dread Pirate Roberts 2 years ago
Wow, so they bride is a racist too. And like the caption says, darker skin looks so beautiful in yellow. So many pretty golden colors that look horrible on me cuz I'm so pale, but would look amazing on women with brown or black skin tone.
#11
Entitled Bride Wants Bridesmaid To Wear A Wig To The Wedding
Dread Pirate Roberts 2 years ago
OP is much nicer and more accommodating than I would be in her position. I would tell the bride to f**k off.
#12
Bridesmaid Demands That The Bride Pay £190 For A Pair Of Shoes The Bridesmaid Chose. This Is After The Bride Had Offered Numerous Options Within A Certain Price Range
#13
Bride Wanted A "Perfect" Wedding, So I Left The Bridal Party
𝐆𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐦-𝐏𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐚 2 years ago
How about telling these unreasonable brides, "If YOU want it, and you absolutely HAVE to have it, YOU can pay for it. You can't treat me like a photo prop/personal beck-and-call girl and expect me to pay for the "privilege". If I have to pay for it, you'll just have to accept what I can afford. I'm not going broke for YOUR wedding."
#14
The Situation Sounds Miserable. I Would Just Cut My Losses
#15
This Is Such A Horrible Way To Treat A Friend
#16
It Seems That Weddings For Some Women Are Not Celebrations Of The Start Of A Life With Someone They Love, But A Venue To Just Act Ugly
#17
Bride Wants All Her Bridesmaids To Cut And Dye Their Hair So They Look Identical
flower petals 2 years ago
I always find myself wondering whether these kinds of brides invest as much energy, thought and attention to the marriage as they do to the wedding?
#18
Speechless
#19
Cancelling My Best Friend's Bachelorette Party After She "Fired" Me As A Bridesmaid
#20
Maid Of Honor's Speech Gave Me Physical Cringe
#21
"Selfish" Bridesmaids Ruin Wedding By Saving Their Money During Record Inflation
#22
Ah Yes, The Good Old "Get Pregnant, So I Won't Need To Be In A Bridal Party" Scheme. Works Every Time
girl_bug3_14 2 years ago (edited)
My sister was a bridesmaid for my cousin.and got pregnant almost immediately after being chosen. She gave birth 12 hours before the wedding. My cousin, her new husband, and the entire wedding party showed up at the hospital to take pictures with her.
#23
Shaming My Bridesmaid For Shaming My Eating Habits
#24
How Dare My 30-Year-Old Bridesmaid Have Some Grey Hair
Dread Pirate Roberts 2 years ago
I've had a few silver strands since my late 20s. I have more now that I'm in my early 30s, and I'm owning it. OP should stop shaming her and just let her be a silver fox!
#25
Maid Of Honor Informs Us That We Can’t Cut Our Hair, Shape Our Eyebrows, And Implies We Should Lose Weight
#26
Bride Is Upset That Her Bridesmaid Has The Wrong Color Toenail Polish
#27
Bride Will Be The Only One Not Wearing Glasses And Isn’t Sure How To "Overcome This Issue"
LakotaWolf (she/her) 2 years ago (edited)
How about a nice pair of oversized novelty clown glasses? They don't even need prescription lenses!
#28
I Was Part Of A Bridal Party And There Were Too Many Things Expected From Us
The images are from the engagement event in which the bridal party was responsible to fund, supply, set up, and breakdown (clean) the venue. The parents supplied some of it, but you can see the cost breakdowns expected of the bridal party.
Overall, I spent about $2,000 on the various events and travel for this wedding and I never even received a thank you! It was almost no-contact post-wedding, with the exception of one pitiful last-minute invite to their housewarming via text message three days in advance, which I declined and I wasn’t acknowledged nor did I ever hear from them again. Obviously, it was good riddance to such a horrible selfish non-friend, but it was a sad realization that I was just taken advantage of.
#29
If You Accept Being My Bridesmaid, You Will Have To Pay For Everything
#30
So This Bride Thinks That The Solution To Bridesmaid Dresses Not Arriving Is To... Get New Bridesmaids?
#31
Someone Was Clearly Jealous Of All The Attention The Bride Was Getting
Sheila who? 2 years ago
Hopefully you are going to save him the cost of the divorce he'll have to pay for later.
#32
Bride Wouldn't Accommodate Her Heavily Pregnant Bridesmaid — Forced Her To Pull Out Of The Bridal Party
Dread Pirate Roberts 2 years ago
Bride is fine with possible endangering her friend and her unborn baby, but I bet that if or when that skankaroo gets pregnant, she'd insist on being treated like a goddess.
#33
Since When Has It Become Normal To Have People Go Broke For Your Wedding? They Aren’t The Ones Getting Married, They Are There To Support You
#34
Bride Is Mad That The Maid Of Honor Is Pregnant And Is "Ruining" Her Bachelorette Party
Blue Bunny of Happiness 2 years ago
Wow, you need alcohol and not to be pregnant to have fun? I didn’t realise I spent 18 months of my life being utterly bored and miserable! I mean, admittedly, I was a bit pee’d off with the morning sickness and couldn’t wait for it to be over by the last week, but apart from that…
#35
I Would Show Up At The Wedding Wearing The Dress
#36
Someone Potentially Dying At Your Wedding Is A Much Better Idea, Than Simply Not Having Seafood For One Day
LakotaWolf (she/her) 2 years ago (edited)
"I also only get one wedding" - no, honey, you can always have another wedding. Your friend only gets one LIFE, however.
#37
Well, Maybe She Got The Tattoo To Go Along With The Theme Of Your Wedding? Didn't Think Of That, Did You, Ms. Zilla?
#38
Bride Is Fuming, Because Her Bridesmaid Dyed Her Hair One Year Before The Wedding
#39
She Wants A Deposit From Her Bridesmaids
#40
Bridesmaid Is Thinking Of Wearing A Cream Color Dress To The Wedding
#41
Imagine Thinking Everyone Has Been Waiting Their Whole Lives For You To Get Married, Therefore They Should Happily Spend Nearly $300 On A Dress To Be A Part Of It
#42
Bride Wants For The Bridal Party To Pay For Her Solo Spa Weekend Instead Of Having A Bachelorette Party
Daniel Atkins 2 years ago
Only if they were cool with that being the wedding gift but im sure this bride had a gift minimum.
#43
Anonymous Bride Wants To Know If It’s "Bridezilla" To Pressure Bridesmaids Into Getting Drunk So They Don’t Have "Old Grandma Energy" At Her Bachelorette Party
#44
A Reply To Someone Asking If They Should Ask The Bride Why They’re Not In The Wedding Party
#45
Bride Asks A Girl To Be A Bridesmaid Only Because She Wants An Even Number. Then Wants To Remove Her
#46
Having Lavender As Decor Is More Important Than A Bridesmaid’s Allergies, Obviously
#47
Imagine Thinking That Your Color Scheme Is More Important Than Your "Closest" Friend
#48
Bridesmaid Dyes Her Hair Red After Bride Asks Her Not To
LakotaWolf (she/her) 2 years ago
"I can't go 3 months without changing my hair color" - that can't be healthy for her hair, all else aside :(
#49
How Dare The Bride's Sister Get A Tattoo Right Before The Wedding
#50
An Obnoxious "Depression Streak". How Understanding And Compassionate
#51
Just When You Think The Bridezilla Requests Can't Get Any More Ridiculous
Narwhal Blast 2 years ago
I would also ask the bridesmaids to refer to themselves as Rachel, so the whole wedding party is Rachel. There is only one Rachel now. We are all Rachel! Rachels unite!!!
#52
This Bride
Daniel Atkins 2 years ago
Here’s hoping they all dropped out maybe the y need to do a casting call at a talent agency to fulfill the requirements.
#53
Bridezilla Wants Her Sister's House For Her Wedding
#54
Can’t Let A Tooth Ruin The Whole Wedding
#55
Her Attitude Is So Entitled
#56
Bride Makes A List Of Rules For The Bridesmaids Who Have To "Apply" For The Role
#57
Bride Is Mad That Her Sister, Who Is A Bridesmaid, Is Pregnant And Won’t Wear Specific Shoes At The Wedding
#58
Can I Just Shame My Own Toxic Maid Of Honor For A Minute
#59
Asking For A Loved One In The Bridal Party To Cover Up Their Purple Hair As It Will Be Too Distracting
Elladine DesIsles 2 years ago
That colour looks to me like it would do wonders for a blah, 80s dusty rose!
#60
How Dare A Bridesmaid Have A Surgical Procedure Near Your Wedding Date? The Audacity
#61
These Bachelorette Weekends Are Truly Getting Out Of Hand
#62
Bride And All 17 Members Of The Bridal Party Receive This Email From A Bride's Friend, Who Was Only Invited To The Wedding Out Of Pity After Throwing A Giant Fit
#63
Bride Is Appalled That Her Bridesmaids Were Inconsiderate Enough To Get Pregnant
Daniel Atkins 2 years ago
Summery I never told them to stop their lives but I strongly hinted at it.
#64
Can’t Imagine How These Two Are Genuine Friends. What An Awful, Toxic Creature
EarthGrowl 2 years ago
As a woman who eloped and spent $26 on my wedding. Still married 30 years later. I want to vomit when I see some vapid girl saying, "she's been dreaming of her wedding her whole life." There is so much more to life than 1 day! They've probably been dreaming of Mr. Right too and no man will ever live up to the man in her imagination. Guys, if you hear a woman saying she dreams of her wedding RUN.
#65
I Was So Upset With My Bridesmaid's Behavior On My Wedding Day
#66
Marriage Cannot Succeed Unless The Entire Bridal Party Views Marriage As "Serious And Sacred"
Erica Ventura 2 years ago
Goda**m it, this one just makes me feel rage like none of the others did. No one, absolutely no one, has the right to judge the inner workings of someone else's marriage. And this idiot, who hasn't even been married yet, thinks she so well versed in the sanctity of it that she gets to decide for other people. Her self righteous attitude is infuriating. Plenty of seemingly great dads and husbands have gambled away savings, use their fists on people they love, and giving in to temptation when they shouldn't have. My husband and I were together for 11 years before we got married, we've been married for 24 and I've googled divorce attorneys more than once through the years. Life gets in the way of plans. Thanks for letting me vent!
#67
I Will Never Understand Why People Think They Have A Right To Dictate Others' Choices Like This Just For Their One-Day Party
#68
The Bride Is More Upset That Her Friend Is Getting Married 10 Months Before Her Than She Is That Her Friend Is Marrying Someone Who Abuses Her
Milady Blue 2 years ago
My friend's fiance abused her, and might do so again. But enough about her, what about MMMEEEEEEEEE?!?!?!?!?
#69
I Really Wonder How People Like This Have Friends And A Relationship. They Are Really Insufferable
#70
Entitled Bride Demands That Her Bridesmaids Pay For Everything In Order To Look "Pristine" For Photos
Narwhal Blast 2 years ago
I would maybe be okay with this if this was considered as a wedding present and there wouldn't be any other costs. But probably not, because there needs to be a bachelorette party and a lot of other stuff. So yes, it is too much. Especially if we're not super close friends.
#71
Bride Almost Kicks Out The Entire Bridal Party For Not Responding, When She Told Them To Respond Only If They Wouldn’t Adhere To Her Demands
#72
Charging Bridal Party For Gifts
#74
This Dumpster Fire Was Deleted In Less Than 15 Minutes
#75
I Don’t Get This "Everyone Must Look Perfect" Thing About Weddings
#76
Bridesmaid Is Way Too Caught Up In Her Romance. What's Next? "You Can't Celebrate Christmas, Because Boyfriend And I Do!"
Insomniac 2 years ago
Um.... so long as you're not booking your actual wedding on the same day as a friend or relative, it's free-for-all. The anniversary of the day they met? What else is off-limits? The anniversary of the first time they fornicated? "Oh, don't get married that month, we will be trying to conceive then, and it might fall in my fertility window." People need to grow up!
#77
Crop Tops Over Family Everyday, Am I Right?
#78
Bride Is Insisting Her Bridesmaids Wear Converse Sneakers, Even The Ones Who Physically Can't
HR stands for Hallux Rigidus. It's a condition where you basically can't bend your big toe and have to wear very specific shoes.
#79
Bride Doesn't Know What To Do With A Handicapped And Transgendered Wedding Party
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Ariom Dahl 2 years ago (edited)
I enjoy some of the BP articles, but this thread has so many OLD posts in it. Bridezillas are BORING.
CanadianDimes 2 years ago
Agreed. It’s really tedious to see so many articles about people being up insufferable asshöles. Let’s have more funny articles.
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Gavin Johnson 2 years ago
Any brides or prospective brides reading this. Stop it, just stop. Your friends / family are at your wedding because they are loved ones, not because they are accessories to the image you wish to portray, they are there to share your special day, not to make the video or photos look like a wedding photoshoot for a magazine, the focus is on the commitment to your partner, your significant other, it isn’t a day to control the ‘look’ of your loved ones, yes have nice dresses and hair / makeup but you don’t get to fundamentally change how your loved ones look. So, take a breath, stop being a control freak and imagine how happy you and your guests will be when you’ve got married and you all look like the people, the individuals, that you are. It’s about the commitment, it’s about sharing the love, it’s about everyone enjoying the day, why spoil that with some pipedream you’ve been fostering inside your head?
marianne eliza 2 years ago
If you're engaged to someone who cares more about the wedding than the marriage and family, run. Run far, run fast. It will only get worse.
Ariom Dahl 2 years ago (edited)
I enjoy some of the BP articles, but this thread has so many OLD posts in it. Bridezillas are BORING.
CanadianDimes 2 years ago
Agreed. It’s really tedious to see so many articles about people being up insufferable asshöles. Let’s have more funny articles.
Load More Replies... Gavin Johnson 2 years ago
Any brides or prospective brides reading this. Stop it, just stop. Your friends / family are at your wedding because they are loved ones, not because they are accessories to the image you wish to portray, they are there to share your special day, not to make the video or photos look like a wedding photoshoot for a magazine, the focus is on the commitment to your partner, your significant other, it isn’t a day to control the ‘look’ of your loved ones, yes have nice dresses and hair / makeup but you don’t get to fundamentally change how your loved ones look. So, take a breath, stop being a control freak and imagine how happy you and your guests will be when you’ve got married and you all look like the people, the individuals, that you are. It’s about the commitment, it’s about sharing the love, it’s about everyone enjoying the day, why spoil that with some pipedream you’ve been fostering inside your head?
marianne eliza 2 years ago
If you're engaged to someone who cares more about the wedding than the marriage and family, run. Run far, run fast. It will only get worse.
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