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Many girls (boys, too) have imagined what their dream wedding would look like. And although some succeed in having their childhood dreams come true and have a fairytale-like wedding with a princess gown, 8-tier wedding cake, and fireworks at midnight, the idea of the dream wedding often changes once we get older. Since it's usually the most important day for couples (competing only with the birth of a child), it's no wonder soon-to-be newlyweds want their wedding day to stand out from that of their peers. Not because it's some sort of competition but because for many (although this is swiftly changing), it's a once-in-a-lifetime experience. Hence it's bound to be unique and memorable.

Creative wedding ideas sure are the solution. However, it's also true that many creative wedding ceremony ideas, such as your family dog acting as the ring bearer or groomsmen "prepping" the groom for the "now you may kiss the bride" part, are already being utilized in quite a few weddings. Still, there's no need to reinvent the wheel since so many original wedding ideas are already in your possession. Some of the best inspiration for the nuptials and unique wedding ideas can be found in your shared history: your engagement, the location where you first met, mutual hobbies and interests, heritage, and the many more things you possess as individuals and as a couple that are exclusively yours. Non-traditional wedding ideas stemming from your own life experiences and not from Pinterest or others' betrothals you saw on TikTok are where to look for inspiration for a wedding celebration different from the rest and uniquely yours.

To keep the train of thought coming, below, we've compiled a list of offbeat wedding ideas that could add that extra something to your wedding. Yet, at the end of the day, you are getting married (hopefully) not to get a loan with a reasonable interest rate, to receive military spouse benefits, or to prove something to others. Hence, gathering different wedding ideas just to have a ceremony unlike the rest shouldn't occupy your head more than necessary. That dreamy "I do" might be enough to make the day magical. Did at least one unique wedding idea from the list catch your attention? If so, make sure to give it an upvote. Also, what's your idea of a "perfect" wedding? Let us know in the comments!

#1

Accept Song Requests

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On the RSVP card, offer that guests write down their favorite songs. Alternatively, ask them to send it to you through email. Give your DJ a playlist with all the music requests so they may create a mix of jams enjoyable for your guests.

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#2

Hire A Live Painter

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Hire a live painter for your wedding or reception. They'll turn the happiest day of your life into a piece of art you may put in your new home and cherish for years.

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#3

Have Fun With Seating

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Instead of benches or chairs, use unconventional seating for your ceremony, such as floor cushions or tree stumps. Although it's easy to get carried away with the design, be sure the seating you pick is comfy. If there is a certain mood you want to reproduce, bales of hay, poufs, and ottomans are all options to consider.

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#4

Add Unexpected Elements To Your Bouquet

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Or, contrary to our advice to have a minimalist bouquet, go big with your bouquet by adding unexpected elements and accessories to it. For example, wispy feathers, jeweled pins, painted leaves, crystals, and fabric butterflies can look gorgeous weaved into a bouquet.

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#5

Plan Some Photo Booth Fun

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Put up a photo booth during the reception so guests can act silly for the camera. For a delightful surprise, send their photos with your thank-you-for-attending cards. GIF photo booths are also really popular right now. But remember to give your wedding a hashtag so guests can share the #love!

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#6

Set Up A Mobile Bar

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Your guests will be pleased because they won't have to wait in line to get their drinks. Also, consider setting up a sparkling lemonade kiosk or a sorbet cart for those who don't drink.

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#7

Give Your Pet A Grand Entrance

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Bringing your pet to the wedding? Instead of putting a tie or ribbon on them, give them their own flower crown or wreath to complement your wedding décor. You may provide the girls with blooms and the boys with foliage!

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#8

Make A Unique Menu Display

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Have the menu displayed in exquisite handwriting on plates, marble, or charcuterie boards rather than on standard stationery.

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#9

Make A Memorable Exit

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Choose an exit that best reflects your style as a couple or your wedding's theme. For an edgy couple, it could be driving off into the blue on a jet ski or leaving on a motorbike!

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#10

Send Guests Home With A Snack

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With so much partying, your visitors will have worked up an appetite by the moment they leave for the night. Send them home with a midnight snack to enjoy in their hotel room (it may be anything from shoestring fries to popcorn).

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#11

Send An Unexpected Love Letter

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Write a sentimental note on the sole of their wedding shoe to surprise your wife or husband on the wedding day. If you're feeling cunning, give your flower girl or ring bearer a secret letter to deliver before (or during) the wedding.

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#12

Make Fruit The Favor

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Set up a "farm stand" with fresh fruit and little baskets (or little crates) that visitors may fill for healthy and delicious treats on their way out. Another fun idea is to decorate apples or pears with personalized stickers that feature your names or a pun like "we make a pear-fect couple."

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#13

Serve Local Delights

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Provide tasting stations with food from your hometown if your wedding will be far from where you were raised. Some suggestions include lobster rolls and clam chowder for New England, chili and tacos for Texas, and oysters for New Orleans.

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#14

Give Cocktail Hour A Whimsical Touch

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If you're looking for a little bit of whimsy, cocktail umbrella picks or festive paper straws are great little extras to drinks. Even better if they match your wedding's theme!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ll have a pink umbrella and a straw in my pint of Guinness please!

#15

Whip Up Family Dishes

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For any family dishes you're serving, include their background on the printed menu and keep them brief and effective. An example might be "Grandmother Betty's peach pie" or "Aunt Martine's tomato soup."

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#16

Personalize Reception Table Names

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Give each reception table a name related to your relationship. For example, "Japan," and put a handwritten card on the table that reads, "This is where we went for our first vacation together."

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#17

Play Games At The Cocktail Hour

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Outside during the cocktail hour? To provide your visitors with something to do other than chatting, set up stations for various lawn games like croquet, badminton, and giant Jenga throughout the cocktail and lounge area.

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#18

Show Off Bouquet Alternatives

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Instead of flowers, give your bridesmaids something more out of the ordinary to carry. For example, wreaths made of foliage with statement flowers look stunning! In addition to bouquets, you may also use balloons or lanterns.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is it okay if I create some static in my hair and stick my balloon bouquet to it?

#19

Get Creative With The Guest Book

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Another guest book suggestion is to set out a glass bowl with cards (or postcards, if you two have wanderlust) and pens next to it, along with a letter inviting guests to share a favorite memory of you or your partner, an item for your bucket list, or some marriage advice.

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#20

Hand Out Welcome Guides

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Fill welcome baskets with a quiz that sends guests from out of town on a treasure hunt through your favorite spots (the best little bakery, a scenic park). Another suggestion is a bridal welcome package with everything you need for the perfect cocktail night or beach day.

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#21

Add Sentiment To Your Ceremony Backdrop

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For your ceremony backdrop, think of a large piece of parchment or linen with your preferred quotation, literary excerpt, or biblical verse. For example, “I have found the one whom my soul loves” (Song of Solomon 3:4) or something cute like "How do you spell love?” “You don’t spell it, you feel it” (Winnie the Pooh).

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#22

Skip The Traditional First Dance

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Pick a more meaningful activity for you and your partner rather than a first dance. Especially if you two are not particularly into it. Perhaps playing your first game of Twister as husband and wife or a round of mini golf may also be an enjoyable way to begin this new chapter in life.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Twister?? Have these writers been at the bar already?

#23

Enlist Your Best Man As An MC

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You will need your best man for this. Ask each table to come up with the answers as a team by having the emcee (aka your best man) conduct a trivia quiz about the two of you. You might also play a game of "I Spy" or bingo!

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#24

Display Old Photos

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At the reception, display photos of the newlyweds when they were young(er). During cocktail hour, guests can chat and peruse!

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#25

Serve Carnival-Style Desserts

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If you want to think outside the box, modern carnival sweets are the way to go. For example, apples covered in caramel or chocolate are ideal for fall. Set them out on your dessert table, or let guests take them home.

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#26

Create A Bespoke Chill Area

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There should be a chill-out area at every wedding where guests may unwind and converse when they need a break from dancing and all the buzz. For this, you can make a cozy outdoor lounging area with cushions and blankets.

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#27

Grow Your Own Wedding Flowers

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Imagine how special it would be to tell your wedding guests that you grew (at least part of) your flowers! If you have little experience or space, consider planting only the flowers for your bouquet. However, have a backup plan since you can't guarantee whether the flowers will be ready for the special occasion.

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#28

Make Your Own Confetti

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A month before your wedding, go flower picking in the wild, dry the flowers, and use the petals to make your own free confetti!

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#29

Have Fun With Cake Toppers

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Traditional cake toppers featuring groom and bride figurines are very 1980s. Instead, add a finishing touch to your cake that reflects the wedding theme: a flamingo topper could refer to a beach wedding, and fresh flowers work as beautiful toppers for an outdoor spring/summer wedding.

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#30

Go Neon

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The pizzazz of a wooden or a mirrored sign cannot be disputed, but they are used pretty much at every other wedding. Choose a colorful neon sign with a sweet love-centered statement if you want something more original. Also, a neon sign with your wedding hashtag can work great as a backdrop for the photo booth!

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#31

Hand Out Wedding Day Cookies

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Why not match your cookies with your decorations? Another suggestion is to have cookies personalized with your monogram or the numbers from your wedding date.

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#32

Add A Map

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If you have an out-of-town or destination wedding, you might want to include a map of the location of your wedding with your invites.

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#33

Customize Your Drinks

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Put your unique spin on quenchers by ordering custom labels for wine and water. Ordering mini etched champagne bottles as party favors is also an option if you want to go all out!

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#34

Cool Down With Frozen Treats

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Is it forecast to be scorching outside on the day of your wedding? Chill out by hiring a snow cone machine, a popsicle stand, or an ice cream cart!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Went to a small wedding reception in the park once and an ice cream truck showed up. It was the coolest part of the night!

#35

Hold A Ring Warming Ceremony

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Carry out a ring-warming ceremony in which the bride and groom's wedding rings are passed among the guests to receive well wishes and love before being returned to the newlyweds.

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#36

Be Adventurous With The Wedding Day Menu

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Whether you love Belgian waffles, Philadelphia cheese steak, or classic egg creams, ask your caterer if they can include your favorites on the menu. Something special like this will evoke fond memories related to the dish, and it's a good conversation starter at the dinner table!

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#37

Get Close And Personal

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Create a sweet infographic about your relationship to use as a sign on welcome tables to help wedding guests get to know you and your partner better. Perhaps a unique artwork on your save-the-date card that unfolds to tell the story of how you and your partner met, how your first date went, or your engagement story.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Any suggestions on how we represent being proposed to on the lounge floor after a um, good seeing to?

#38

Personalize The Bridesmaids' Bouquets

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Make the bridesmaids' bouquets unique by choosing birth flowers that correspond with each girl's birthday month. For example, a bridesmaid born in July can have a posy of larkspurs, while the girl born in April can have daisies. Also, you can stick to a single hue (pink peonies, pink tulips, or pink roses) or a color palette to keep things cohesive.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or, instead of giving them flowers based on when they are born, you can give them flowers that they actually like. This whole birth month thing is so arbitrary.

#39

Find Inspiration From A Family Photo

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Provide the florist pictures of your mother's bouquet so they may create one that looks similar. The cake cutting or the wedding exit are other examples of memorable moments you might recreate from your parents' wedding. However, discuss this with your photographer beforehand!

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#40

Get Silly With Your Seating Chart

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You could use hilarious photos of your guests on an escort card wall to help them locate their seats. Or, for more laughter and conversation starters at the dinner tables, you could also use escort cards that are old black-and-white pictures of the bride and groom over the years.

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#41

Serve A Family-Style Meal

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For a more personal gathering, serve your guests a family-style meal rather than the typical three-course meal. Take advantage of the chance to mix up the pairs and encourage guest interaction.

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#42

Make A Custom Monogram

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To add a personal touch, stamp everything with your and your partner's first initials. For consistency, put it on every item, including wedding signs, table numbers, and gifts for the guests.

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#43

Set Up A Diverse Menu

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Consider your optimal eating day, and then give your caterer the freedom to blend your and your partner's top picks to design the perfect wedding meal for a varied menu.

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#44

Use A Coffee Table Book Instead

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Traditional guest books often end up tucked away in drawers. Instead, pick a coffee table book on your preferred subject that you'd want to display in your house. Guests then may make notes on the images or in the margins.

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#45

Tap Into Wedding Dance Traditions

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Have a favorite cultural dance performed at family weddings? Ethnic jigs, from the Italian tarantella to the Cuban money dance, give a wedding a distinctive character and cultural reference.

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#46

Celebrate Your Heritage With Your Wedding Cake

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Consider pomegranate glaze for the Middle East, cannoli cream icing for Italy, chocolate, almonds, and apricots for Austria, and papaya filling for the Philippines. If the groom or bride is from a different country, no problem—different flavor for each cake story!

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#47

Skip The Party Favors

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Have a favorite charity? In place of wedding gifts, make a donation in your guests' names and place a card explaining it on each table.

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#48

Showcase Your Birthstone

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For a personal touch, add your birthstone to the table setting. Beyond the decor, you might go even further by basing your wedding theme around your gemstone—from invitations to the icing on your wedding cake.

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#49

Find Ways To Honor Your Family's Heritage

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You may artistically represent your family's heritage on anything from vases to ring cushions to stationery and cummerbunds. Examples include an Indian print, a clan tartan, or an African kente cloth.

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#50

Set Up A Sampling Bar

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Set up a sampling bar with different varieties if you and your spouse have a favorite beverage or snack. You may also plan activities like oyster, whiskey, and wine tastings to encourage conversation and pass the time.

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#51

Make VIP-Worthy Welcome Baskets

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If planning a destination wedding, include regionally inspired foods, crafts, and beverages in welcome baskets. Nothing has a more significant impact than letting your visitors know how much you value them.

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#52

Bring Escort Cards To The Next Level

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Are you a couple with a sense of adventure? To go the extra mile, use faux leather luggage tags to hold the escort cards. You may also use beach balls or seashells as escort cards for a summer wedding!

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#53

Use A Large Sign For A “Thank You” Message

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Favors are lovely, but nothing conveys "thank you" better than a sincere message. Express your gratitude by having it written in elegant handwriting on a large sign in a visible area.

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#54

Build A Bow Tie Bar

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Does your future husband like bow ties? At cocktail hour, set up a bow tie bar where visitors may exchange their neckties for bow ties!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They really have been on the sherry writing these, haven’t they!

#55

Give The Matchmaker Special Treatment

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Place a foliage garland and a "matchmaker" sign on the person who paired you and your S/O. Other important figures who contributed to your relationship, like long-time friends or acquaintances, might also be given a special seat or a flower crown to wear all night.

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#56

Pay Tribute To Special Heirlooms

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You can wear your grandmother's wedding gown as a special tribute to one of your favorite people. A vintage-inspired aesthetic may be given a modern touch with a few design changes made to the dress. Or, you might use an heirloom ring as your "something old" or make a garter from your grandmother's wedding veil.

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#57

Equip Your Home Furniture

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A home wedding is an ideal chance to use your own furniture as part of the décor. Rental furniture sometimes lacks the flair and uniqueness that items like an antique table for the wedding cake display or a stunning cabinet for displaying pre-poured drinks may.

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#58

Get A Minimalist Bouquet

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When you go down the aisle, let a nosegay or Biedermeier, even a eucalyptus bouquet, serve as the focal point of your wedding day ensemble. Minimalist bouquets will never go out of style and will make a sleek statement. 

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#59

Play Up Your Tablescape

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Instead of using actual plates as plate chargers, choose something more fitting for your tablescape. For example, use palm leaves for a tropical scene or old tiles for a romantic Italian villa-inspired aesthetic.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How did I not know that “tablescapes” exist! My mind is being blown by this thread!

#60

Remember The Locations

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Put a nod to where you first met your spouse in your wedding decor or menu. If your state has a motto like "Virginia Is For Lovers," it can also serve as great inspiration! For example, a couple who met in Virginia could use LOVE signs as part of their wedding decor.

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#61

Bring The Boutonnière Into The Theme

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Integrate your wedding theme into your groom's boutonnière; a seashell completes the nautical look, a crisp maple leaf honors fall, and cacti may evoke the ambiance of the desert.

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#62

Play Up The Cocktail Napkins

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You can give the cocktail napkins extra flair by having some fun information about you and your partner written on them. As an icebreaker for guests, you may also add trivia questions about the newlyweds.

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#63

Plan For Guests' Comfort

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Consider the weather and your guests' needs if you are getting married outdoors. If it's chilly, provide blankets for them to snuggle in or offer parasols for shade in the sun or umbrellas in the event of rain.

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#64

Give Your Vows Center Stage

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Instead of using tablecloths, use a long piece of parchment with your calligraphed wedding vows printed on it as a customized table runner.

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#65

Play With Colors

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Want to make a unique color scheme? Consider drawing inspiration from the colorful creations of painters like Rothko, Van Gogh, or Pollock. Don't be afraid to experiment with color, pattern, and shape. Also, a neutral color scheme may stand out with a splash of unexpected color, like chartreuse.

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#66

Turn Important Pieces Into Keepsakes

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Have the ring cushion embroidered with the most important line from your wedding vows—it's the perfect memento. Anything you have personalized for your bridesmaids will also remind you of your special day.

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#67

Sneak In References To Your Engagement

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Your engagement can play the centerpiece of the décor for the wedding. For example, if the proposal happened on the beach, you could put shells around the venue with a notecard at each table explaining the reason for the shells.

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#68

Equip Mason Jars And LED Candles

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Want to create an unusual lighting setup for your wedding? You'll be shocked at what you can do with some Mason jars and LED candles. If you have some, you may use any leftovers to make your own floral arrangements.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I suspect the only shock will be if I lick the battery..l