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30 Screenshots Of Toxic People Treating Their Significant Others Like Trash
Not every relationship ends in a ‘happily ever after.’ And sometimes, your knight’s shining armor is just for show. So much so that these people end up being called out on the front page of the internet for how awfully they treat their partners. Lies, accusations, and manipulation... it's an emotional rollercoaster that's more powerful than a soap opera.
Bored Panda has collected some of Reddit's most infamous posts about toxic relationships where people clearly don’t respect their significant other. You’ll find the stories and screenshots as you scroll down.
When you’ve read through this list, you can look through our previous articles about 'nice guys' who only pretend to be kind right here and here.
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My Aunt’s Skeevy Boyfriend Went From Asking What My Husband And I Want For Christmas To This Garbage In 2 Minutes
I Understand Coming Out Can Be Difficult, But Cheating On Your Wife Of 20+ Years Isn’t Okay
I know a guy like this, but in his defence, dude was a Sallesman ( image is very important ) and this was almost 30 years ago, plus everyone knew, even his wife, i assume they had an " understanding ", but he had 2 or 3 kids with her though.
Please Show His Wife The Note And Money
There is an online community called r/niceguys that features some of the worst cases of people pretending to be nice, only to put down others when they don’t get their own way. ‘Nice guys,’ no matter their gender, tend to be jealous, controlling, and spiteful.
‘Nice guys,’ like the ones portrayed on the r/niceguys subreddit, as well as other online communities, are all about creating the appearance of being kind, wholesome, and supportive. The reality, unfortunately, is often very different.
Husband Goes A-Wall Over Wife Giving A Man A Glass Of Water
Going Your Whole Pregnancy Knowing Your Boyfriend/Husband May Not Be The Father, Yet Still Leading Him On Is One Of The Most Emotionally Abusive Things You Can Do To Someone
It’s Been A Week Since I Kicked Him Out And Went N.c. This Morning, I Transferred My Anger Onto Paper
HE HIT THE DOGS?????? ONLY BIG FAT IDIOT A******S WITH DAMN F*****G A*****E ATTITUDES AND AN EMPTY BRAIN CAPACITY HITS DOGS 😡 HE WILL BURN IN HELL FOR ETERNITY
They usually have confidence issues that run very deep. They tend to be extremely jealous, and attempt to control who their significant others spend time with.
Their personal insecurities lead to relationships that are very unhealthy because they’re built on a foundation of suspicion and paranoia.
Trashy Husband
Who's That Pokémon!? It's Niceguy Cheating Boyfriend
I Can Hear The Wedding Bells
Go to police. Give ex-wife everything she wants in the divorce settlement. Remain alone from now on; you deserve to be.
Anyone can tell you that if you take trust out of the equation, you’ve got a relationship that’s pretty much doomed to fail. It’s not really a relationship if you’re always accusing your partner of lying to you or being unfaithful.
In some of the situations presented in this list, there are a few ways to tackle the problems at their source. The first is to have an open and honest conversation with your significant other about their behavior.
Podcaster Says He Would Leave Her Wife If She 'Lets Herself' Go After Childbirth
"If my wife lets herself go after I have kids with her, I’m going to tell her once. If you don’t get your sh*t together, because I still want to be sexually attracted to my wife, my spouse, but if you can’t do that, I’m out’".
He should tell that louder and more often and put it on all his profiles everywhere so women know to avoid that shallow idiot who'll only date them for their bodies and ditch them as soon as things go tough or they might lose their looks for whatever reason. I mean, no one in their right minds would ever date this guy. What if she has an accident? What if she gets cancer? Or something else that'll disfigure her? Getting married is gor the good times AND the bad times. If your love for your spouse only goes skin deep, you're not relationship material. At best, you are a toy to have fun... if you're pretty enough. Or pay some coin. But otherwise, you're not worth the investment that having a relationship needs.
This Cb Demanding A More Expensive Bag From Her Boyfriend
This Guy Chose To Get His Wife Pregnant Rather Than Be Alone
Explain your position. Tell them how you feel when they don’t trust you or talk down to you. Set some clear and healthy boundaries. Though, keep in mind, a single conversation won’t save your relationship—it’ll take time and effort for real change to happen.
If that doesn’t work, you may want to consider couples counseling. Having a neutral third party give you a helping hand can work wonders. However, not all relationships can—or should—be saved.
My Facebook Friend Posted Her Boyfriends Debit Card Info Because He Wouldn’t Give Her $40 To Get Her Nails Done
My Sisters Boyfriend Trying To Guilt Her By Saying He Helped Her With Problems
Looking For Fun (Aka Sex) While Husband Is Deployed, But You Must Attractive Smart And Drug Free To Cheat With Her
If your partner is physically or emotionally abusing you, reach out to a counselor or an organization for advice specific to your situation. These professionals can support you as you consider what to do next. There is no excuse for abuse.
Girl Accuses Boyfriend Of Leaving Her After He And His Family Discover She's Been Faking Her Pregnancy For 8 Months
This is the type of person that finds a needy pregnant woman, tricks her into meeting up by offering baby clothes, then tries to cut the baby out of her body.
Context: He Posted A Pic Of Himself And His Wife On R/Tinder And Then Commented This S**t - His Brother In Law Then Saw The Post And The Comment
Husband Who Is Struggling To Make Ends Meet Gets Mad At Wife For"Lowering Herself" Because She Found Coupons In The Trash To Feed Her Kids
Um… am I weird, or is that reaction from the dude totally messed-up?
What separates ‘nice guys’ from everyone else is the lack of genuine confidence. These ‘nice guys’ have a victim mentality and lash out at the people around them when things don’t go their way.
Again, this isn’t gender-specific: anyone can be toxic, it’s not just guys who are jerks.
Can’t Get Ahold Of Boyfriend, She Cheats, And He Is In The Hospital
Wife's Time Of The Month
WHY SO YELLY? also, it IS that time of the month...that time where she educates this troglodyte about how easy it is to disappear a body.
Married Niceguy™ Looking To Cheat After He Acts Like A Husband For A Night And It Didn't Get Him Laid
Am I the only one who is also concerned about the EYES of the human in the picture underneath that disgusting text?
A while ago, Bored Panda touched on the topic of building a genuine sense of confidence. A fitness expert explained to us that it all comes down to proving that “you’re not a victim.” He suggested focusing on small tasks and small victories at first.
According to the expert, helping others in need, taking care of your health, advancing in your career, and focusing on having a successful relationship are some of the things that will instill a sense of confidence.
Trashy Girl Tried To Kill Her Boyfriend Instead Of Just Asking Questions
I Can't For The Life Of Me Understand Why Her Boyfriend Has A Problem With This
My Girlfriend's Ex's List From Circa 2009 For Getting Back Together
“When you’re successful in one area you build confidence in yourself and that will translate to all of your life,” he said, earlier.
However, positive changes aren’t instant. They take time. The fitness expert noted that “your brain needs proof around your new identity."
"Confidence comes from repetition and mastery. The more you do ANYTHING, the more confident you become. The good news about this is everyone is capable of earning confidence," he explained.
Just Nice Guy Alen, Looking To Cheat On His Wife And Have You Cheat On Your Husband
More Fun Texts From The Darling Ex Husband!
"I'm Sorry" Says The Nice Guy Who Verbally Abused His Wife So Badly She Left Him In The Middle Of The Night
"Responding to failure is all about the story we tell ourselves. Do you tell yourself that you are a failure? Or do you tell yourself you failed, have now gotten feedback, and know how to get better? It’s all our perspective," he pointed out that we control how we respond to criticism and feedback. Some run away from uncomfortable truths. Others use them to grow and become better people, for the sake of their loved ones.
Many men featured on the r/niceguys subreddit are prime examples of toxic masculinity: they have a misogynistic attitude that arises from distorted ideas of what they ‘should’ be like.
A psychotherapist explained to us some time ago that people like that tend to think that men should “never be ‘weak’ or ‘soft’” or vulnerable. People who embody the traits of toxic masculinity feel that they always need to be winners and they tend to look down on women, as well as their rights.
Police Officer Cheats On His Wife While On Duty And Gets The Other Girl Pregnant
Nice Guy/BF/Husband??
Ex Girlfriend Texts Me At Around 11:30 For A Hookup. Shes Married And Her Army Husband Is Deployed
“A man with healthy masculinity is the opposite to these traits: someone who is self-reflective, embraces their emotions including sadness, anxiety and crying, a man who isn't afraid of their own femininity and believes that women are equal, and therefore are very clear about respecting boundaries and consent with women,” the psychotherapist told Bored Panda during an earlier interview.
He added that healthy masculinity allows men to feel comfortable with having their opinions challenged. They’re open-minded and willing to have debates because they’re not scared of being proven wrong.
When Your Maid Of Honor Sleeps With Your Husband
"Good News, My Wife Died. Suh, Ladies."
10 days? My sil moved in with another guy 3 months after my brother died and that already felt weird.
My Ex Wifes Response To Why She Could Be Trusted Not To Have Another Affair
Husband’s Gift To His Wife This Morning. Hopefully She Gives Him A Divorce
Lol Let Me Drug My Boyfriend So He’ll Always Want Me
Husband Cheating On Wife With Maid. Posted On A Community Yard Sale Site
This Is The 'Ex' Husband Of My Girlfriend's Best Friend. She's Been Trying To Get A Divorce From Him For Almost A Year, He Won't Sign The Papers But Will Message Her Friends And Coworkers, Constantly Lying About Her Cheating And Making Himself Out To Be The Victim
My Ex Asking Me To Take Her To Pick Up Her Boyfriend From Jail And Her Response When I Said No
His Wife May Have Just Posted Her Husbands Last Facebook Update
What My Neighbors (Ex?) Boyfriend Did To Her Apartment Door
Nice Guy Husband Turning Bitter Because Wife Had Male Friends Before Marriage
‘Plus I was nice guy’ huh, if you say you’re ‘nice’ on first encounters on the internet, there’s a high chance you’re not
My Friends Boyfriend Sent Her This… For Saying She Needs Space To Spend Time With Her Dad On Father’s Day
"Why don't you enjoy the fact that there's a guy out there that cares about you and ... loves you with his whole heart". Yeah, her DAD, f#ck off it's Father's Day.
Posting On Fb About Abusing Your Boyfriend
A towel? I threw a towel at my rude roommate who tried to feed chocolate to my dog :( and THEN I slapped her
Advertising The Passing Of Your Husband
Three Years Ago, My Ex-Wife Was Concerned About Losing Her Alimony If She Remarried. At The Time Said I’d Pay It For At Least Another Year. That Was Forgotten Until This Morning:
When You Are Selling Nudes Of Your Wife On Facebook
I really really really hope his wife knows about this too. Somehow I doubt it.
A Visual Representation Of My Rage When So Aggressively Took Back His Very First Heartfelt Apology Because He Did "Nothing Wrong" And Was "Forced" To Say Sorry
SO has not once in 3 years stuck an an agreement. Every promise broken. Many times, he has lied to my face about it. Every time denies he was wrong or minimizes the issue. Then he attacks me (I am controlling, constantly berate him, I'm selfish, "on a high horse" etc). He didn't do anything wrong! This is my fault, my problem. He is the victim of my inflexibility!
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
We have been to counseling specifically because he breaks agreements. We've also talked A LOT about how inappropriately he responds when confronted with a wrong doing and have been working on helping him learn alternative ways to react.
This weekend was his second chance to actually stick to an agreement and apply everything we worked on (he blew the first chance, shockingly). But guess who didn't stick to the agreement?! I chewed him out and that's when the "forced apology" came. Not long after he stormed into the bedroom, took it back, and then DARVOed me.
"DARVO (an acronym for "deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender") is a reaction that perpetrators of wrongdoing, particularly sexual offenders, may display in response to being held accountable for their behavior."
My Ex Girlfriend. Self Explanatory To Get A Cheaper Cutting Board
Nice Little Text Exchange I Found On My Boyfriend’s Phone Today To His Girl Best Friend. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼😃😃💕💕what A Sweet Man🫠
Ehh, this one's borderline without context. Why was she going through his phone anyway?
Husband Just Doing A Little Jail Time
"hwp"? "d/d free"? I'm 40 and I grew up with the internet and this made me feel old and out of touch XD
Wife Gets Stabbed By “Dope Pipe” By Husband. He Posts On Facebook. Tags Her Then The Comments Start
The problem wit NiceGuys™ is not that they're insecure or whatever. The problem is that they don't see women as equals or even humans. It their minds 'females' are subhuman, less worthy than males. They truly believe, for what reason ever, that a woman is generally less intelligent, less able and their emotions less real than their own. That is why for them spending time with any woman is just a hassle they have to go through to get sex. So they think completely normal human interaction is already being nice when done to a woman. Because they don't believe that a woman deserves the same respect and consideration than a man. So if they behave normal and decent against a woman they only do so to get something. And that's also why they believe a woman just being nice is leading them on. Because that's what they do. Their whole existence is transactional. While normal people go on dates to have a good time and get to know each other they only go on dates to prepay for sex later.
She Was Looking For A New Boyfriend Not Even A Week After Her Last One Died Of A Drug Overdose
He Is "The Most Respecting Guy" While Explicitly Disrespecting My Request For Him To Refrain From Responding. This Is My Now Ex Husband Who Touched Me While He Thought I Was Sleeping, Knowing My History Of Sa While Sleeping. His Begging For Another Chance Was Triggering So I Tried To Tell Him
Hmm I am wondering if she had a paralyzed dream. I have had a few, I have dreamt that I was yelling at my husband to help me .This happened several times. The ptsd she has from the trauma may cause very realistic dreams.
i am sleepless in Denver and cannot for the LIFE of me believe this is what i wasted 15 minutes of my life on.
I do not understand why the opposite sex are not all living in women only communes, threads like these, showing what utter arseholes us men can be, just makes me depressed.
Did you miss all the ones with the horrible women? I think all humans should just stop mingling for a while. :p
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Another reminder to be thankful I dropped the gaslighter from my life. I used to be as good as on this list with him: my life is so much better now. I hope these ppls get away from their crazies
The use of the word female here, tells me everything I need to know about you. Very telling that you did manage to use the word men, to describe these s**t stains. Which one is you?
Load More Replies... i am sleepless in Denver and cannot for the LIFE of me believe this is what i wasted 15 minutes of my life on.
I do not understand why the opposite sex are not all living in women only communes, threads like these, showing what utter arseholes us men can be, just makes me depressed.
Did you miss all the ones with the horrible women? I think all humans should just stop mingling for a while. :p
Load More Replies... Another reminder to be thankful I dropped the gaslighter from my life. I used to be as good as on this list with him: my life is so much better now. I hope these ppls get away from their crazies
The use of the word female here, tells me everything I need to know about you. Very telling that you did manage to use the word men, to describe these s**t stains. Which one is you?
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