We all have words or phrases that instantly rub us the wrong way. Sometimes it’s a cliché that feels fake, other times it’s a throwaway line that reveals a lot more about someone’s attitude than they realize. A single phrase can be enough to make you roll your eyes—or even lose a little respect for the person saying it.

So, I asked the Bored Panda community to share the words or expressions that immediately set off red flags for them. From cringey catchphrases to everyday sayings that just don’t sit right, these answers show how powerful language can be—and how quickly the wrong words can change your impression of someone.

#1

“What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "It's just a (cat/dog/iguana…)" — said when someone loses a pet.

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Verfin22
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1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My old boy is struggling, but I just can't bring myself to do it yet.😢

Auntriarch
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1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You'll know when it's time to do the right thing. Big hugs.

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Chilli
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1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*knife* it's just your F*****G INFANT SON, DARRYL. /j

GalPalAl
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1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's just a parent or a relative/friend/coworker. Can you just get over it already?

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    #2

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "Everything happens for a reason."

    Please tell me the reason why my mother died like a dog from dementia, genius. I'll wait.

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    Trashy Panda
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    iT's gOd'S pLaN

    Emalyn A
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate this! Lost son to his own choice..... there is NO good reason coming out of this situation. Just. Shut. Up. If you can't think of what to say, send a Hallmark card!

    Lauren K
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “He’s in a better place”, at my 24 year old brother’s funeral after he died in a car accident. Oh really? A better place than here with his family, friends, and students who all loved him? Nope.

    Jan Rosier
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds similar to 'what doesn't k**l you makes you stronger'... yeah sure. someone losing his hand due to some stupid accident, sure, they are much stronger now...

    Earonn -
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? It's this "this is horrible, and I only want to feel happy-peppy, so I'll put a shield before the horror and declare it 'useful'. It's the feel-good sibling of "what was she wearing?".

    Alan Jay Weiner
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    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Technically everything does happen for a reason - but the reason has nothing to do with a diety or any cosmic plan. My coffee tastes bad because I didn't have enough creamer. My mother also died from Alzheimer's. The reasons are medical in some unknown manner. Not because any god wanted her with them, maybe to make blintzes. Emalyn, there is no good reason; his reasons were probably complex and might be only understandable by him at the time. I'm so sorry you lost him. No parent should go through that. My heart goes out to you. (edited to fix typos)

    Ace
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody has said this to me about my wife dying, thankfully. The worst I had was a friend saying "we'll pray for you". OK, I appreciate the sentiment, and at least it was for me, not her soul, but even so, no, I do not want you to pray for me.

    Emilu
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    1 month ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get it's hard to offer sympathy to someone who's recently had a loved one die. Personally, though, I'm of the opinion that if you think you can't, stick to "I'm sorry for your loss" and bring them food or something like that. Sounds generic, and I know everyone brings food. It *is* kind of generic (even if you do feel genuinely sorry), but at least it's better than actively offending the person, and they can freeze the food.

    Trillian
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, it doesn't. The most random s**t happens, and that may be hard to understand or accept, but that is just how it is.

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    #3

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers For me, it’s when someone says, “I’m just being honest,” right after saying something unnecessarily cruel. Honesty is great, but when it’s used as a shield for rudeness, it feels more like an excuse than a virtue.

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    Andrew Keir
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That word - "just". It's so often either a verbal grovel, or an attempt to evade the blame. Avoid it yourself (as much as possible) and avoid those who use it regularly, as well.

    JK
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they do it in front of people, they want to shame you and build their ego. Get that person out of your life.

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    TotallyNOTAFox
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of people aren't able to be honest without being an arsehole

    Ace
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, it;s like "Just saying" as an excuse for being obnoxious.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, you're just being a rude p***k.

    Stardust she/her
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My family does this a lot whenever they bring up the fact that I’ve failed every single exam this year. And they’ll on top of that tell me that I will never make it to my dream college or that my capacity is only to score 70-80% on a test

    Billo66
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Starting a sentence with "I'm not gonna lie." ..Yes. Yes you are. You just did.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That and "to be honest" - I tend to stop them right there and ask how much they were lying before that.

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    Sly Schlang
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But for them, you have to walk in eggshells of course. That's not the same obviously

    Michael Largey
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, they're just telling you their opinion. And there may be nothing at all honest about that opinion.

    Michael None
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate when someone accuses me of being negative for stating a fact, just because that fact is inconvenient for them. Observations are not linked to your feelings.

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    #4

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "I don’t believe in mental illness."

    From a close family member who knows I have severe depression, knows I am on medication, and knows I have tried to take my own life in the past!

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    nottheactualphoto
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You may not believe, but nevertheless it exists.

    Lyone Fein
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fluffbug, I would like to recommend a response to your nasty relative…….” I don’t believe people should be a55holes, but here we are.” Or some variation.

    Tammy Tolan
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is usually said by people who are too scared to admit they have undiagnosed issues that should be dealt with. We all need to find peace in this world some of us need help getting there. Finding a new life teacher and admitting you need help is a brave thing to do.

    Lyone Fein
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is this person being downvoted? They are saying they also have a mental illness?

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    Heffalump
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's so much quicker than saying 'I'm a disgusting person who needs to make up excuses not to bother with feeling compassion.'

    Alexandra
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It doesn't matter what people believe, what matters is reality.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good for you, buddy - maybe your brain is not evolved enough to understand.

    GalPalAl
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody asked and I don't believe in you jack a s s

    Michael Largey
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not believing in mental illness is a definite symptom of mental illness.

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    #5

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "Influencer" or "content creator"—either of those words likely means you don’t know what you’re talking about when it comes to what you’re trying to get your followers to buy. So, I have no respect for you.

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    Bill Swallow
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It also means "I'm an entitled idiot that wants you to give me stuff for free."

    Sly Schlang
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is awesome content if you look for it.

    Heffalump
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    An 'Influencer' is just another marketing billboard ruining the view.

    Rick Murray
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let me subtly reword this: Manager. That word means that more than likely you don't know what you are talking about regarding what you are trying to get your employees to do. So, I have no respect for you. ;)

    #6

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers Because I'm a… [Insert Zodiac Sign]

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    Rali Meyer
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    mine is Uranus. Oh, not a star sign?

    Hugo
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No such thing as a star sign. They are signs of the zodiac, but because of precession they no longer correspond with the constellations they are named after.

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    Chilli
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if you're an asparagus, don't even talk to me coz I'm a siberia and we are not compatible

    S Bow
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We Geminis don't believe in astrology.

    SchadenFreudian Psychology
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because I’m a Sagittarius, I think astrology is silly.

    Child of the Stars
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this but always in an extremely and obviously non-serious way.

    The Other Guest
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When someone asks me what my sign is (which hasn't actually happened in about 20 years now, maybe folks are wising up), I either tell them what is is according to Chinese astrology, or if it's someon who's known me for a little bit I'll say, "You tell me - you should be able to figure it out by how I act." Only one person has ever guessed correctly on the first try, and it was someone I'd known for 9 months; since she knew I hadn't had a birthday in that amount of time, it changed the odds of a correct guess from 1 in 12 to 1 in 3, so not really a valid "test."

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    #7

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "God won't give you more than you can handle."

    "And aren't you over that by now?"

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    Phil Green
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "God" gives small children cancer...

    GalPalAl
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am an atheist. If God exists, why are there so many wrongs with the planet?

    Hugo
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Because Man made God in his own image.

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    Nobody Special
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More things says to me after my baby died.

    BrownEyedGrrl
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "My god it's been 2 weeks."~ my boss after my son died. F*** you Bridget.

    R Dennis
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a teacher write me up on a Monday in 9th grade because I missed Friday and didn't have a note - my mom died Thursday (two days after me birthday), so getting a note wasn't my first priority. My dad (divorced) had to fly back, get all of us kids, move us into his apartment, and arrange her funeral... we were busy. F**k you teacher whose name isn't even a memory. And f**k you too, Bridget!

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    R Dennis
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In that case, God has way too much faith in ME and I need a break!

    SaraCapybara
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If God doesn't give us more than we can handle then how come the sui-cide rate is so high?

    CP
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Christian god allegedly created two humans that didn't know right from wrong and then punished them and their offspring for all of eternity for eating a forbidden fruit of knowledge. That god would definitely smite you and not give a fu<k.

    Apatheist Account2
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That god clearly wasn't bright enough to avoid creating an accessible tree of knowledge and an evil talking serpent.

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    Michael Largey
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "If God doesn't give me more than I can handle, when does He take take you back? Or are you a present from the other side?"

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    #8

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers A word or phrase that makes me instantly lose respect for someone is anything dismissive of other people’s humanity—like when someone says, “I’m just being honest,” right after insulting someone, or, “That’s just how I was raised,” to excuse bigotry. Those kinds of phrases signal that the person isn’t interested in growth, empathy, or accountability, and that usually tells me everything I need to know.

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    #9

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers Woke. It's just: "Things are more complicated than my simplistic worldview accounts for, and I don't want complexity making me question it."

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    Data1001
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    More like: "I miss the days when I could pretend that gay people and people of color didn't exist, and now you guys are making it harder for me to live in that comfortable make-believe world I used to live in."

    Apatheist Account2
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    Actually, it's more like "I miss the days when we could get on with life without 1 snowflake getting upset by the most innocuous things and forcing something to be cancelled that everyone else would enjoy".

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    R Dennis
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's just bigots trying to destroy the power of others. But they can't do it and we're always going to stay woke because America has never been safe for us.

    Michael Largey
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    1 month ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Woke", "social justice warrior", "politically correct", "bleeding heart", .. have always meant the same thing - "I have nothing to support my pig-ignorant nasty bigotry, so I'll fill the air with a meaningless phrase instead and hope it distracts people."

    Apatheist Account2
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have thought that social justice was a good thing, I'm not sure why it's used as an insult.

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    James016
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's down to people using the term to describe anything they don't like.

    Marnie
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    1 month ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this word needs to die. Because sometimes when people criticize things as "woke", I agree. I saw a video of some young adults doing skits about bigotry, stereotypes of other ethnicities, and racism. Most of it was fine, but then apparently it's racist to mention a sunburn around a black person! That's so ridiculous. That's the kind of "woke" that I object to. Or, teaching white kindergarden students that they are privileged because they are white. That's not the right age or way to go about that. But the word has been weaponized, like so many other things in the last 10 years. Best just to stay away from it completely now.

    CP
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    1 month ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Black people can get sunburns. The person who didn't know that is ignorant, not woke. And your RW fear mongering about kids being taught reality doesn't move me.

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    #10

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers 5G… chemtrails… antivax… All of these are the worst of the human condition. We are fully in Idiocracy mode now.

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    Array Index Out of Bounds
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody I have ever met believes any of this trope. I'm from Bay Area, California.

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    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're very lucky, I hope you never encounter one in the wild. Sadly I've met these people and they are horrible, mindbogglingly stupid. The kind of stupid that gives you a tension headache . I live in Manhattan, my family is from the Bay area, there are many of them in both places.

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    Stacey N
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had to listen to a guy go on about how Covid was fake, anti-vax, etc. I was trapped in a car with him for an hour. Felt like forever. Then a vendor from work went on a rant about chem trails after I had said there was a bad vibe at work.

    #11

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "Oh, just ChatGPT/Copilot/Gemini it." What happened to "Google it"? Why are we relying on a very inaccurate robot to give us our information?

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    Yrral Spavit
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have asked AI twice about something then followed up by checking the result. Not only wrong but VERY wrong.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I ignore AI when looking up stuff. Particularly since I wanted the exact date [a celeb] died in 2016 and they said Xmas Eve 2024. Really? I was at their funeral.

    Rali Meyer
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went with duck duck go, now I go with go-ogle (actually: wikipedia)

    Jon Lee
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never use google, first page or two is just paid for results. Use something like Duck Duck go.

    Stardust she/her
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last year I had this complicated project for school that would account for 20% of my final grade so I went over the deadline to research things and exceeded the page limit by 30. I obviously lost marks for late submission so I asked everyone else how they managed to complete it on time and they all said that they used ChatGPT. -_-

    lauren
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    AI search summary told me that I could NOT take two prescribed medications together. In actual fact, it was fine to do so. I triple checked

    Rachel Reynolds
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I asked Chat GPT.." Yeah, well I did actual reading with cited sources and followed up with in depth research. guess which one of us has a real understanding of the subject and who has a Quora answer.

    SchadenFreudian Psychology
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once asked the AI at work for references to back up something I was saying in the document I wrote. AI referred me to a document that doesn’t even exist.

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    #12

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "No offence."

    It's so annoying—people just say it to try and get away with saying something terrible!

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    R Dennis
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The ONLY times I've said "No offense" is when I absolutely meant offense, it's obviously intentional, and it's said as an exclamation point.

    Little Bit
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or when someone starts a sentence with, "With all due respect..." They always follow it up with something rude and disrespectful.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friends know that if I am saying that to someone, it's because there is no respect due - and it's usually not them on the receiving end.

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    sawyerdakraken
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    #13

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "Do you know how much I make a year?"

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    Jesse
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not enough to buy decency and manners, apparently

    Alexandra
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Do you know how much I don't care?"

    Michael Largey
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Probably ten times what you earn."

    Reemerger
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i.e. "Let me tell just how pathetic I am."

    GalPalAl
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Goes along with do you know who I am and I am kind of a big deal. Lame

    Sam Trudeau
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they say more than a billion you can say "prove it. Give me 5 million right now, then I'll believe you. If you really earn that much, it won't be a big problem"

    JL
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    uh, more than you should?

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    #14

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers Well, "I'm an influencer" has already been covered, so let's just go with, "Do you know who I am/who my father is?"

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    nottheactualphoto
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My favorite answer is "No, I don't. Why not ask your mother?"

    Antoinette the Red
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I heard a cop say that to a suspect on a bodycam footage.

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    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Did your mother not get his name?"

    JL
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Do you know who my father is?"..."Someone who should have used a con‍dom?"

    Auntriarch
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know, shïte doesn't have labels.

    #15

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "Be better." It's a passive-aggressive way of saying, "Align your views with mine because my thinking on this topic makes me a better person than you," and it marks the person as arrogant and condescending.

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    R Dennis
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Be better" is the same as "Do better"... it doesn't say "align your views with mine". It says "What you are doing isn't right, improve yourself."

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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, it means 'what you are doing isn't what I think is right, improve yourself by doing as I do'. It is still an assumption that their way is the right way.

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    SchadenFreudian Psychology
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I prefer “Go away.” That’s more honest, and gets right to the point.

    Emilu
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... I have never had anybody tell me that, but if anyone did, I'd tell them where to jump for the reasons you've mentioned above. Also, don't tell me what to do. You're not my real mum. /s

    Reemerger
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Educate yourself" i.e. "peruse the same propaganda I fell for so that we can be stupid and misguided together."

    #16

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers I'm not, but…

    If you start a sentence with that, then you most definitely are bigoted. It doesn't matter if it's about race, gender, or sexual orientation— as soon as those words are uttered, I lose respect.

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    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Should say I'm not racist, homophobic or what ever your favourite bigotry is but fir some reason didn't post

    Nate B
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m not a racist, but I agree.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    but... here's a sentence being exactly that.

    Michael Largey
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I'm not quick to judge, but you're obviously an idiot."

    #17

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "I don't mean to be rude, but…" means they're about to be rude.

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    Mattie
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and that they probably DO mean to be rude

    R Dennis
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But = behold (the) underlying truth. Oftentimes, though not always, everything before "but" is filler or inconsequential.

    StrangeOne
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The moment someone says that I already don't want to hear it. If they have to put a disclaimer then they shouldn't say it.

    Rali Meyer
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    rude is in the eye of the beholder. One person's rude it another's compliment

    #18

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "I am her father. You need to respect me." Lost respect immediately. You earn respect; you don't ask for it.

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    Auntriarch
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone gets courtesy. Respect is something else.

    Mir Adwari
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The number of times I've said this! I'll give people courtesy (unless they've been rude first) but respect gets earned.

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    Stephanie Did It
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want to be respected, then act respectably.

    JK
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes when you do, it is not recognized. What do you do then?

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    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are a s***m donor. Or... I'm guessing she respects you out of fear.

    Peter Bear
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "So, I offer you respect, and it will take much for you to lose it. However, if you do, if you choose to see my respect as weakness and take advantage of it, well... perhaps then I'll let you speak with Guenhwyvar'. FYI the Guen he's talking about is a 600 lb magical black panther that does not suffer fools.

    #19

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers It's beginning to be "Prove me wrong."

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    Ace
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Prove you're right.

    Jihana
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of something that happened a few days ago. I went outside to feed the stray cats, and when I wanted to go inside the door was locked. Had to knock on the door and call to my father to open the door. He denied it was him who locked it, even though there was noone else in the house. I said "well, I didn't walk through a closed door" and he passive aggressively answered that I should prove that. W*F?

    Emilu
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If we're talking about 'innocent until proven guilty' matters, sure. Otherwise, no.

    azubi
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That would be fair if they'd accept proof

    Alexandra
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Why would I want to do that?"

    katiekat0214
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I say, I don't have anything to prove to anyone. Take me at my word, look it up yourself, and I'm leaving now.

    #20

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers I know a person who puts a dollar amount on everything. Not, "Can you hand me my sunglasses?" But, "Can you hand me my $1,200 sunglasses?" Every time… every chance she gets. I wish I saw her less than every couple of years.

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    Bill Swallow
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hand them to her with the comment "Here's your buck ninety-eight sunglasses that you wildly overpaid for."

    Yrral Spavit
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Did you know these are all made in the same factory and cost about $7 to produce?"

    Robert T
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or using brand names. Dan Brown did that a lot in his books. Made me cringe every time.

    turk
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "The guy in the... the $4,000 suit is holding the elevator for a guy who doesn't make that in three months. COME ON!" "Why don't I just take a whiz through this $5,000 suit?! COME ON!"

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Wow, you must have a huge credit limit, how do you afford it?"

    #21

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers Not a word or a phrase, but a conversational style: arguing with everything the other person says, insisting that they justify every statement or back up every assertion they make. Saying, “But what about [unlikely possibility],”—aka sealioning.

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    nottheactualphoto
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But if I'm going to argue with you, I must take up a contrary position.

    Sarah Suelzle
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree!! I'm always up for a healthy debate or good conversation but some people just HAVE to be contrary all of the time with everything and its exhausting.

    Sarah Suelzle
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also...TIL about "sealioning" :: Sealioning is a type of harassment that involves a person relentlessly asking for evidence and sources under the guise of a polite, sincere inquiry, often for the purpose of wearing down and derailing the other person. This tactic is used to create an illusion of reasonable debate while actually aiming to exhaust the target's patience and portray them as unreasonable or uninformed. I'm 98% certain my family invented this LOL I just didn't know it had a name.

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    StrangeOne
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the topic. It doesn't have to turn into an argument if both sides are able to see both perspectives, without trying to one-up, or compete who's right and wrong.

    #22

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers “I’m just playing devil’s advocate” — said when they are trying to justify being cruel.

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    Ace
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It can be a valid response to help someone see something from a different perspective. Being cruel is being cruel however you may choose to 'justify' it.

    R Dennis
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Sometimes when you play devil's advocate, you're just advocating for the devil." - Don't know who said it.

    Verfin22
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When used correctly, it can be a good way to see two different sides to an argument.

    katiekat0214
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When men do this to women, or white people do this to POC, it's a way to erase their own privilege, and play "just a fun little game" with other people's civil and human rights. Just don't.

    lauren
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This drives me crackers. Not every point needs a counter point. Plus the devils advocate is a *legal* argument designed to exhaust every possible outlying circumstance. When it's applied to personal feelings or circumstances, it's weaponised gaslighting. "I feel sad today because my mum spoke to me harshly" "Well devils advocate here, you're not sad, you're just hungry. Your mum wasn't *harsh*, she was treating you fairly..."

    Emilu
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do this from a legal perspective because... well, you need to consider every angle. In ordinary interactions though, I think you have to read the room.

    Chilli
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    stop hiding behind the devil, he's a chill guy

    #23

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "Do you know who I am?"

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    Robert T
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good joke about someone doing this at an airport gate. "Security, I've got a man here who doesn't know who he is".

    SCP 4666
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    at least say it in style.. Doest thou knoweth who I art ?

    nottheactualphoto
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're going to do that, at least do it correctly. "Art" is second person, etc.

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    #24

    "So I was listening to Rogan," or "I read on InfoWars." May as well tell me you read it in the tabloids—at least you can read, but geez.

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    realenancy170
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least they have identified an actual source even a wackjob right wingding. I hate "they say that....". I ask who are they and get a shoulder shrug!

    Allen Packard
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Add "I watch the view" or any cable news channel and I'm with you.

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    #26

    "I voted for Trump. Twice."

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    dan s
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or saying Charlie Kirk was a good person or a Christian.

    Robert T
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A longer way of saying "I am an idiot".

    #27

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "Not all men" and "Misandry!" — said when women talk about negative experiences with men.

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    Peter Bear
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just for fairness sake, try this simple test; flip the genders. How would a woman respond to the same statement?

    Fire Singer
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is kind of random, but I remember watching a reality show where a contestant was getting kicked off and the judge said something like "I'm sorry to see you go because you're the cutest guy here!" And all I could think was...wow...if a male judge said that to a female contestant it would have been cut before airing (probably). I was quite disgusted by the comment as looks had nothing to do with the competition. (Steampunk'd - the name of the show)

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    Ace
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're getting that sort of response there's a fair chance you've been over-generalising and that you deserve it.

    Judes
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, I disagree. Plenty of people love to say 'not all men' in response to a woman simply talking about something that actually happen.

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    Chilli
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    throwback to the time a guy told me that "all men talk like that" in referral to the 'grab her by the p***y' thing and when I said that it was weird as f**k for men to talk like that he said "But not all men do though?"

    StrangeOne
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People have encounters with s****y people. When it comes to women, you have to just let us say it like all men are s****y based on the s****y things s****y men have done to us. (I'm only joking. I don't believe a thing I've said.)

    JK
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    2 months ago

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    Learn to read the runes. Viking and Germanic.

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    Earonn -
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Women cannot word it kindly enough for men not to come with that shyte. You know pretty well what OP talks about. Your bad faith reply just proves their point in a different way.

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    #28

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers When a man refers to his lovely spouse as "the wife."

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    Cerridwn d'Wyse
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my personal opinion and from the people I've been around, men are more likely to say my wife and women are a little bit more likely to say whatever their spouses name is Bob Carroll Ted or Alice doesn't matter

    R Dennis
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I say my wife to people who don't know her and I use her name with people who do.

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    Emilu
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think a husband calling his wife 'the wife' *can* be cute -- on the proviso she also thinks it's cute. Otherwise it could come across as jerkish and condescending. As an aside -- I like it when people refer to their spouse as "their spouse" because, by default, it's no business of others as to what gender my spouse identifies. If I say it, that's different. If you're fishing for information, go away.

    Robert T
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SWMBO - She Who Must Be Obeyed. ;-)

    azubi
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But you know that problem when you've known someone for so long, it's awkward to admit you forgot their name?

    Chilli
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "The ol' ball and chain"

    highwaycrossingfrog
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My grandad used to call my grandma (very affectionately) "Mrs Woman". Whenever they were about to leave somewhere, he'd say "Come on Mrs Woman".

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is this worse than "my old lady"? I was in my 20s and my now-ex kept referring me to his friends as his "old lady". Made me feel like I was 80 years old.

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    #29

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "We only want what's best for you."

    You think I don't know what's best for me?

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    Gabby Ghoul
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always annoying but particularly so when it's able-bodied people making decisions for people with disabilities; people make assumptions about our capabilities but we know best what our capabilities are. I'll tell you if I can or cannot do something.

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a friend who said this to me whenever she was trying to coax me into going to college, in which I can't afford, only because I work at a store and don't earn as much as she does, and thinks the store I work at is embarrassing. I don't talk to her anymore.

    WindySwede
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or whats convenient for parents (et al.)? Though in hindsight I didn't know.

    CP
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Many times people in fact don't know what is best for them.

    Maim
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people in fact, do NOT know what is best for them.

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, you want what was best for you because it worked for you.

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    #30

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers "No offence, but…" I just hate it when someone says that—they mean offence. I just lose my respect for them (which I probably didn't have in the first place).

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    Auntriarch
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly don't know anyone who uses that phrase any more unless it's sarcasm.

    UKGrandad
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The very similar 'with all due respect' is still popular.

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    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wait, I din't add an image, HOW DID AN IMAGE GET HERE!?!?

    Tammy Tolan
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why not be honest and say I am demanding an argument on this topic because I think your opinion is wrong?

    #31

    I love Donald Trump.

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    #32

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers Whatever.

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    StrangeOne
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    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like, what-ever! As if I'm giving that up.

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my mother's favourite words. Frankly I think she's earned it.

    #33

    I am not a n**i, but…

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    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're right, you're just a racist trash individual looking for like minded trash.

    Mattie
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like I already commented on another entry, anything before "but" is usually false

    Hugo
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And as another entry pointed out, 'like' is a red flag.

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    #34

    It really infuriates me when anyone uses a dog as a way to insult someone, especially in a really bad way.

    Dogs are by far the most loving, caring, loyal, generous, patient, forgiving, and peaceful creatures on the planet. All they want to do is fill your life with happiness and unconditional love. They never cheat, treat you badly, or hurt you in any way. They just make your life better by simply being there.

    People, on the other hand, can be the exact opposite—especially when they act in ways that lead others to call them a dog. They can be nasty, cruel; they start wars, they cheat, they kill, and their greed knows no bounds. If anything, dogs should be held up as a way to be, not as an insult, but as a compliment and as a model for how to live: kind, loving, caring, funny. The world would be a much better place if people were more like dogs.

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    wowbagger
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I never understood how "dog" came to be an insult. Calling a man a dog implies he's cruel or a player. Calling a woman a dog implies she's ugly. Ha! I wish I were a tenth as cute as my dog is!

    Robert T
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It has been used for centuries to infer "a lower lifeform". Dog days, dog rose, dog's dinner.

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    Saint_Zipcodus (oh / no)
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To me this is true for any animal name. And I mean any. Even tapeworm. Tapeworms don't scam and suppress each other.

    Powerful Katrinka
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The man currently residing in the White House loves insulting people by calling them a dog.

    #35

    "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words may never harm me." Bull***t. Words hurt.

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    Arthur Waite
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Classic answer is Hit 'em in the face with a Dictionary!

    Yrral Spavit
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But whips and chains excite me :P

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bones heal, my mind and heart not so much.

    Chilli
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    sticks and stones may break my bones but chains and whips excite me 🙂‍↕️

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    #36

    "I'm the victim here!"

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    Nobody Special
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Says the person who's a****d me for 16 years...

    Chilli
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Yes, I treated you horribly, but now you don't like me so I'm the true victim here!"

    #37

    The words like and literally.

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    nottheactualphoto
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are perfectly fine words, when used correctly.

    Rachel Reynolds
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my kid went though a phase where they would say "literally" but correctly. "I literally ate an apple." "I literally had math class". Trust me, even used correctly, it's super annoying.

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    Serena Myers
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And "basically". Fine, but not in a sentence such as "and he was, like, basically, like, totally" etc!

    Emilu
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are like, literally fine. /s

    Drop Bear from Hell
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YES - especially when like, in particular, is used repeatedly in a single conversation......I just can't listen as I am tempted to slap someone....

    StrangeOne
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Careful, BP may start censoring those words.

    Gordon
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, and don't forget "Actually"

    Gordon
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I could give this triple votes, I would.

    Chilli
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I ____ ice-cream

    sawyerdakraken
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like literally those words are fine *i'm doing this cause i'm evil*

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    #38

    “What’s A Word Or Phrase That Makes You Lose Respect For Someone?”: 48 Brutally Honest Answers When every sentence ends with the words "you know." No, I don't know. You didn't really explain the point you were trying to make.

    Using slang or making up words that are already in the dictionary. I don't want to look up stuff just to understand the conversation.

    Every other word is "bro" or something like it. I might be showing my age, but at least I'm educated enough to communicate with people.

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    UKGrandad
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    '..making up words that are already in the dictionary'? If they're in the dictionary then the people can't be making them up. I also disagree with 'I don't want to look up stuff to understand the conversation.' How are people supposed to know which words you don't know? You're essentially criticising people who have a wider vocabulary than yours.

    Auntriarch
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe they meant making up new words when we already have a word for it. Sorry but I love language too much to leave it in the hands of the dictionary.

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    Rachel Reynolds
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was talking about using hairspray to make a flamethrower (to k**l a brown recluse spider) and added "as one does". Apparently this is not something one normally does.

    Disgruntled Panda
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband always adds "as my grandmother used to say" after he says something utterly weird or ridiculous.

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    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The amount of times people use "like" in a sentence makes me want to razor cut them for each use.

    Tammy Malone
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Bruh"....pets my peeve. AND "It is what it is". STFU

    Robert T
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "You know" and "like" are often used as padding or thinking time, similar to "um" and "ah". They are used a lot in some regional dialects. They might be annoying if you don't use them yourself, but there's nothing inherently wrong with them. And again a lot of slang is dialect words that people from a region use all the time.

    Earonn -
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No offence... (sorry, could not resist :p ) but if having to look up words in a dictionary is too much for you, that's a you thing. Also tells me that you never bothered to learn a second language....

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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe I wasn't clear. I meant shortening words or using certain words differently than intended. "rizz" for charisma, or "I haven't seen you in a minute", meaning a while.

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    Agfox
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    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Given present day circumstances, you could have a long list

    Michael Largey
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    1 month ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was once involved with some one who ended every opinion with "You know", implying that either I agreed with her or was now enlightened on the matter. No third choice.

    StrangeOne
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    GAH My mom does that with a stern, cutting tone. It feels like a punch in the gut every time.

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    I'm not racist, but…

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    Mattie
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anything before "but" is usually false

    Michael Largey
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "But" negates anything before it. As in "I'm sorry, but ..."

    #40

    "Unthaw." I know—it's stupid. But I will DIE ON THIS HILL. Thaw is defrost. Unthaw is un-defrost. Unthaw is freeze. STOP SAYING UNTHAW!

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    Sportsgal
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same point with irregardless. Not regardless means you HAVE REGARD. I know they made it a word, but I will never use it!!🙄

    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did not expect the level that this word just triggered me.

    #41

    "Gee, you're so pretty/handsome," said over and over.

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    #42

    ¡Viva la libertad, carajo! (Milei's words after every speech.)

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    #43

    The "N word" and "w*****k."

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    sawyerdakraken
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    one time someone called me the N word, when I told the teacher that person cursed at me, the teacher said "theN word is not a curse word" Like wtf

    Nobody Special
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've of my daughters got in trouble in school in Florida she refused to day the N while reading aloud in class. No idea why they were even reading a book with the weird in it in school but she says it was multiple times the word was used and she refused to say it. They called me about it and I can't repeat the conversation I had with them. Florida schools are extra special...

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    #44

    I have two: the first is the word "schmiko"—drives me nuts… the second is the phrase "Live life to the full/fullest"—so trite and nonsensical…

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    Rali Meyer
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "live life like there is no tomorrow" - yeah, right...

    Aileen Grist
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The full saying is live like there's no tomorrow and learn as if you'll live forever

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    Data1001
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh no, is this another bit of teen slang that I need to learn? Schmiko?

    StrangeOne
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who say this diabolically don't want anyone having a day of rest EVER.

    #45

    "Well, bully for you!"—spoken with a Texas twang.

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    #46

    "Are you KIDDING ME? (Right now)"

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    Cheryl May
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you kitten me right meow?

    #47

    "You're amazing." This was written on the sidewalk across from my store as part of a day when people write uplifting messages in chalk.

    No, I'm not. You have to actually do something amazing to be amazing. You don't get to call yourself that just because you got out of bed this morning. I take it as an insult, frankly—like when a toddler does a little jump and you say, "Wow, buddy, that's amazing!" What am I supposed to say? "Yay, I'm amazing!" Any of those sorts of mindless platitudes annoy me to no end.

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    StrangeOne
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, to put it in a different light, someone woke up, got out of bed with a fresh view on life, and decided to spread some uplifting words for those who may need it in these turbulent, dark times. They didn't have to and they're not asking for anything out of it.

    Data1001
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously. OP is like "I am in a bad mood. DOn't you dare try to make me feel better!"

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    Marnie
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of those people who just want to feel like they are being kind and throw out the "Remember you are not alone" or "remember you are loved" to the general public when talking about things like severe depression, trauma, or s u i c i d a l thoughts. A lot of people going through those things are in fact absolutely alone and maybe have nobody who loves them. Are you just trying to rub that in?

    nottheactualphoto
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just as you become a hero by doing something heroic. Not by just putting on the uniform.

    Michael Largey
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people have a very low threshold of amazement.

    Auntriarch
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    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not amazing - I'm fabulous.

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