30 Hot Takes People Wouldn’t Dare To Admit In Person

Even if you have asd, adhd or anything like that, you're still responsible for your behaviour. Yes, life is (a lot) harder if you have disorder, but you can't use it as an excuse to duck consequences for your actions. Twats will always exist, with and without disorders, your disorder doesn't make you exempt from consequences to you (lack of) actions. (Have adhd myself)

But its far easier to present yourself as a 'victim' of a condition you can not change. If you call people out on their behaviour and they give you the ' i am autist' card or blame on mental health issues, thats it. You can not just say, nah bro, you are full of shiit. Also, the vast majority of people claiming to be autist or have adhd or whatever are just attention seeking snowflakes. I will die on that hill

I agree --- BUT... I feel like it can be argued that people who are consistently rude / abusive / narcissistic / taking advantage of others DO have some sort of mental health issue. I'm not sure how you would label it but human beings do not naturally hate all of their fellow human beings. Something is broken there.

This is so true in a partnership. My husband has what could be crippling anxiety since childhood. This makes him, often, selfish (bc he's self-conscious) and inconsiderate of MY feelings. He works so, so hard on himself and his mental health bc he very much loves and respects me and wants us to be happy together. If he wasn't conscious and didn't do the work, I would have left years ago bc i do not deserve to be neglected.

It amazes me how people believe that this world and it's inhabitants can't function without having a diagnosis of some sort. They will not stop until a Dr puts a name to it. Hell 75 years ago they didn't label all these behavior issues. If you were nuts, you're nuts, seems like it was a lot less hassle. (And I'm one with a damn diagnosis)!!

And the fact that those injections are taken so thoughtlessly. Lip fillers can clump and their dissolving treatment is not suitable for everyone and is expensive, so you may have to spend the rest of your life with lumpy lips and drink everything with a straw when the structure of the lips is destroyed. There is nothing sensual about kissing anymore either. The injection sites on the face can also remain visible bumps and from what I've heard, they can hurt a lot in cold air. Or an unskilled beautician damages the facial nerves. Not worth the risk in any way to me.

not to mention that everyone looks the same which is so boring. Certain celebrities are to blame for normalising this so much.

I find more and more good films and TV shows unwatchable because the plastic surgery is too distracting. I think casting directors who live in Southern California are so surrounded by lip-injected people that they have lost sight of how ridiculous it looks.

Is that really controversial to real people?

I thought this was for CONTROVERSIAL opinions

Depending on where they die on Everest, they may not bother to recover the bodies. I have read that a couple of corpsicles are landmarks on certain routes to the summit.

My mum said once, "If you feel the urge to feel adrenaline and enjoy putting your life at risk, why don't you make it worthwhile and become a fireman, policeman, emergency service or rescue worker". Couldn't agree more

And the money. SO much money that could be put to better use.

If you're wanting to climb mountains you better be willing to accept the possibility that you may die alone and remain unburied up there. If you can't accept that, don't do it.

The amount of bodies never recovered from Everest found years later I can be adventurous WITHOUT risking life and limb

I have no issue with the concept of a gender reveal party. Most folks tell their friends & family "it's a boy!" or "it's a girl!" before the baby is actually born, so why not have a little party and tell them all at the same time, have a little fun with it? It's the ones that go overboard & do foolish or dangerous stunts such as using pyrotechnics in an area susceptible (sp?) to fire, or dye a river with no thought to how it affects the fish & other wildlife - *that's* the problem, not the gender reveal itself.

I miss the old days when the gender reveal happened when the baby had been born.

Nobody gives a F..... what your baby is except maybe a very few people close to you. You can just tell them instead of dyeing a lake or a mountain side pink. If you want to have a party then have one, but no need to start a forest fire / ruin nature. PS - Gender reveal parties were something I had never even heard of decades ago. This is a more recent abomination. Or if they existed, they were extremely under the radar.

Got to agree with this one.

I once attended a gender reveal party, but back then they were called orgies.

While it doesn't appeal to me, I don't have anything against people spending a lot of money on their wedding IF THEY CAN AFFORD IT. If they have to borrow money for it, or beg guests to help, then it's monumentally stupid.

What really gets my goat is when people have extravagant show-off weddings and then demand money instead of gifts because they want to save for a deposit on a house.

As someone else said? Each to their own. I would prefer to just have a small registery ceremony, a small get together and put whatever we'd saved towards a rent down payment or a mortgage for a home, a flat/house/tree house whatever.

Yeah I never understood the "going in debt for a wedding c**p" or pretty much forcing your parents to chip in. It's one damn day. One day that's not going to change one thing about how you feel about each other. If it does then you have bigger problems.

I'm extremely proud of my $18 wedding dress 😁

I hate the "will you round up to the next dollar to support blah blah blah?" Why? So your company can write my charity gift off of their taxes? Pass. I already donate to St Jude's and Shriners every year. At least those two do some good.