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Everyone experiences the world differently, mainly because of how they have been raised. Some people are more fortunate than others and might see things around them through a rose-colored lens. It’s completely fine to do so, as long as the person is mindful of other people’s lived experiences and aware of how blessed they are.

Unfortunately, not everyone is like that. Some are utterly oblivious to their privilege, and this list contains all the instances where such folks have said or done really bizarre things.

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#1

Person using calculator and reviewing receipts while managing finances with laptop and notes on wooden desk, people share most privileged things said “I don’t get why poor people don’t just budget better.”
Ah yes, the CEO of life, right here.

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LizzieBoredom
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can divide it, multiple it, add it, subtract it, take the derivitive of it, and zero is still zero.

Ravenkbh
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And stop eating Avocado sandiwches!

Littlemiss
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As well as buying that coffee!

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Geoffrey Scott
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It amazes me that people here (US) that people think Medicaid covers people who don't 'want to work' when in reality, most recipients hold down full/near full time jobs and either have no available benefits, or the premium costs are too expensive.

Sue User
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or people who cant. Knew someone who was mentally ill. Was put in hospital multiple times for multiple weeks due to mental illness. This person is incapable of holding a job. They do work, around the house, they make art/ jewelry to sell. Without medicaid , they would really suffer as their physical health is shot too.

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Crystalwitch60
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5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We do BUDGET EXTREMELY WELL !!well I do , and I can’t shop around for stuff as I’m housebound n miles from shops ,so it’s online for even food only ! N I live on not a lot at all , ,but even when we budget it ain’t gonna make us rich now is it 🤷‍♀️

Chilli
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7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my goodness, what an idea, why didn't I think of that?

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    #2

    Three men sharing privileged things said while having coffee in a modern cafe setting with another man drinking alone nearby. I had a college roommate who thought that students on financial aid should have to go to the back of the line at the cafeteria. (I was on financial aid.).

    jendfrog , Mathieu-Saint-Laurent Report

    Nathan Lewis
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    newsflash, everyone goes to the back of the line. thats how you get into the line.

    Bec
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    US politicians have said they don't want to fund free school lunches because that will just teach kids to be dependent on the government.

    Elio
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They compare it to feeding wild animals but get super b******t if someone doesn't want kids or gets an abortion.

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    tori Ohno
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You didn't accidentally bump her tray and spill her food down the front of her?

    #3

    Young man in casual white top and glasses gesturing outdoors at night representing people sharing most privileged things said. "there is no such thing as privilege, everybody has the same chances.".

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    superfluous
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That quote is stupidity, not privilege.

    Michael Largey
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is a stupidity that could only come out of the mouth of a privileged person.

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    Sarah Belt
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The whole mindset of assuming strangers deserve their bad luck is sad.

    tori Ohno
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then please explain to me why my parents couldn't afford college without re-mortgaging the house? They didn't BTW, I didn't get to go.

    Crystalwitch60
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Both my kids went to college , uk and worked thru it all to , lots of people here in uk go uni to and you know WORK to pay for it 🤷‍♀️no reason you couldn’t have done the same , mind u both my kids now 21-24 have worked from 16 n didnt want to go to uni. But still worked in college

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    Sally Moen
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This person also believes in reverse discrimination

    Niki
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This quote is brought to yoy by "Mommy and Daddy's Money"

    Sarah Suelzle
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only the privileged say things like this.

    Borg
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    7 months ago

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    A person is considered more privileged if they have any special rights or advantages compared to others. Many people are uncomfortable thinking of themselves as being more fortunate than others because it might seem like they are living a better life. 

    This can be a difficult topic to process, which is why Bored Panda reached out to Martin Vidal to help simplify the topic. He is the author of ‘A Guide for Ambitious People’ and a frequent contributor to a wide swathe of publications. He writes on philosophical and psychological issues, as well as on political issues, in concert with his activism work in South Florida.

    He mentioned that “the major reason that people refuse to acknowledge their privilege is because of the implication that whatever benefits they might be enjoying were not fully earned by them. It can undermine their conception of self to concede that they might have had things relatively easy. Let’s say, then, that the first barrier is ego and insecurity.”

    “The second is that privilege falls under the general [shortsightedness] that clouds our awareness on all sides. It’s very hard to know what we don’t know and to recognize what might be outside of our lived experience. Our conception of reality is based on where we stand within it,” he added.

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    #4

    Woman in sunglasses with surprised expression standing outdoors, capturing people sharing most privileged things said. “It’s so easy to travel. Just save $100-300 every paycheck. I don’t know why people can’t do that”

    This was right after college when I started paying back my loans while only making $18/hr. I told her “lady, I’m lucky if I have $20 left over.” She looked shocked.

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    Sally Moen
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was recently advised at how cheap air travel is to Europe, after I talked about wanting to visit Berlin someday, but probably won't be able to. I didn't correct them about taking vacation days from work is doable, but then I have to had saved money for rent when I'm not bringing in a paycheck, and saved money for the hotels/hostels, food, transportation, etc on vacation, along with paying for a passport. The Europe on $5 a day is gone

    Alexandra
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don't get paid vacation days? I have 25 paid vacation days a year. It's mandatory you take a 2-week vacation. Any left-over days you can also spend on vacation, you can use them to take occasional paid days off, you can let them be paid or you can transfer them to the following year so you'll be able to travel for, say, a month, without losing too many days that year. Vacation days are to be spend on vacation or days off: they are not sick days. That is separate: they have no limit and are paid of course. If you're sick for more than 2 years, then you will be eligible for dismissal, retaining about 75% of your salary through unemployment benefits, but you will be expected to work with the unemployment people to find a job soon. If your income drops, through unemployment benefits, under a certain level, you are eligible for assistance when it comes to costs of health insurance and rent.

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    SCP 4666
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What is this "twentie" you speak of??

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    #5

    Man sitting outside with head in hands, illustrating emotions linked to people share most privileged things said. Someone told me they thought poor people just “don’t try hard enough” and that “everyone has the same 24 hours.” It was wild how confidently they said it, like generational wealth, health, and safety weren’t even factors.

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    Nicole Weymann
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To address that "same 24 hours" remark: if you have people doing chores for you specifically (nanny, cook, cleaner chauffeur etc) you DON'T have the same 24 hours as someone who does them themselves. Time is money - if you have one of those you can use it to get the other. Too bad for people who have neither. Imagine a widow with three kids, caring for her bedridden father and no wealthy background: five people's worth of laundry, cooking, cleaning, helping kids with homework, possibly driving them to school or moving around via public transport, shopping for groceries, clothes, school stuff, medication, arranging appointments, and a million more things - and telling her she "needs to step up and get a job" (or even "another job"). Those 24 hour days are NOT the same as Claire McMoney's juggling weekly mani-pedi, hairdresser, polo, yacht/tennis/golf club, art gallery and "real estate business" (aka showing rich friends where to buy their next villa).

    Lazy Panda 2
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can't afford a washing machine, it takes more time to wash your clothes at the launderette. If you can't afford to buy and run a car, it takes more time to travel by public transport. Being less well off results in being very time poor.

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    Sally Moen
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's true, poor people didn't try hard enough to have rich parents. It's all their fault

    Ravenkbh
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If poor people didn't want to be poor then they should just stop spending money!

    Ohm Bun
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Latest research show that the best indicator for success in life is generational wealth.

    Roxy222uk
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even the idea that everyone has the same mental health and resources is ridiculous.

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    #6

    Man wearing glasses and headphones, relaxing with a drink on a private jet, illustrating privileged things said. Having to fly first class opposed to taking the private jet. Its a tough life for some.

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    Owen
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry they had to make that sacrifice.

    David Jeffery
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Finally, we have an equal to Rosa Parks

    The reason behind so many privileged people on this list saying and doing such out-of-touch things is that they truly might not realize how fortunate they are. It can be annoying for other people to hear them treat their blessings so casually, but it’s simply that they see it as typical for their life.

    To understand this in greater depth, we also reached out to Michael Karson (Ph.D., J.D., A.B.P.P.). He said: “Think of walking into a store where you look like the kind of person who is welcome there, such as your local grocery store, perhaps. You don't think about whether you belong.”

    “Now think of walking into a store in a very different neighborhood, and now you are self-conscious and situation-conscious. Not having to worry about whether you belong is a delight you don't even recognize,” he explained. 

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    Michael also explained that the way to remedy this is to “read literature, go to the theater, listen to other people. More directly, we can ask ourselves how situations might have played out differently if the race, gender, or other traits of the participants were changed. Even more directly, we can do this even when the encounter seemed unremarkable to us.”

    #7

    Person grilling meat on a charcoal barbecue with flames and smoke, representing people share most privileged things said. “Lets do a barbecue with your parents in my place tomorrow!”

    “Tomorrow is Monday”

    “Oh, right! Your parents work”.

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    Ravenkbh
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You were going to barbecue his parents?

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    #8

    Target store exterior with parked cars in front, illustrating people share most privileged things said in consumer context. I did private duty home health for an extremely wealthy woman who had round-the clock home care employees. I came to work one evening and was getting her ready for bed and I noticed that she had several new yoga pants and casual tops hanging in her closet with the tags still on. I commented how cute they were and she told me that her day shift worker had taken her shopping at Target, and asked me if I’d ever been there, followed by saying she “never knew stores like that existed”. (Of course she didn’t know because everything she owned came from Neiman Marcus, Saks, Gucci, Prada, etc.)

    I laughed and said, “Sweetie, if Target excited you that much, Walmart will blow your mind. You can get new tires on your car while you grocery shop, or a get new tv and even patio furniture.” She said, “Are you kidding??! Well, then that’s where we’re going tomorrow!”.

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    Sally Moen
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine her thrill to go to the Goodwill Bins

    Spannidandoolar
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, this one is kind of sweet

    Lazy Panda 2
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was thinking that to. Life hasn't taken in the direction of those stores, but she wasn't being snooty about it.

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    Sam Trudeau
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes the rich getting a taste of the non-rich life can lead to new discoveries

    Crystalwitch60
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow a rich lady with down to earth values she’s ace ❤️

    Huddo's sister
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is Target not spelled with a capital on the sign?

    Saltypepper
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wσɯ, αƚʅҽαʂƚ αԋҽʂ ɯιʅʅιɳɠ ƚσ ɠσ, I'ʋҽ ʂҽҽɳ ɾιƈԋ ϝƙʂ ɯԋσ ɯσυʅԃ ɳσƚ ʂƚҽσ ϝσσƚ ιɳ ʂƚσɾҽʂ ϝσɾ ƚԋҽ ρσσɾ αʂ ƚԋҽყ ƈαʅʅ ƚԋҽɱ .

    Mtn Lungta
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing worse than the truly rich buying piles of the best from a thrift store tho.

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    #9

    Two people sharing a document at a bright table, illustrating people share most privileged things said concept. “You mean not everyone has a trust fund?”.

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    Ravenkbh
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's real easy to start a trust fund. Anybody can do it. Just ask your dad for the money

    Sally Moen
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh my trust fund isn't financial, it's trauma

    Crystalwitch60
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No we bloody don’t !! n neither do my kids n none of us would have wanted them either , most def didn’t want jack of my father ,, got left a bit by my gran I grew up with , but not life changing at all

    When people become aware of their privilege it might be difficult to go back to the old ways they used to think and act. This can actually be beneficial because it comes with more awareness about society and how different factors like age, religion, gender, race, and wealth play a role in our everyday lives.

    Once this way of thinking kicks in, it’s very important to acknowledge how fortunate we are and work towards ensuring other people also get a chance to be so blessed. This also includes speaking up for minorities whenever possible and standing up for those who don’t have as much power as we do.

    #10

    Friend in college, very nice Turkish fellow. We went to an art school.

    "Langstarr, we go to art basel this weekend, you come?

    "No. I have to work."

    "Hm, call in sick."

    "I need the money. For rent."

    "Hm, why dont your parents pay?"

    *deep unending sigh*

    "If its about money, there's no need for tickets or hotel, we can take my dad's jet."

    *rolls eyes to back of head*

    "No thank you, next time maybe."

    He was very sad and just couldn't wrap his head around the idea that I just couldn't go.

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    DrBronxx
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife and I have promised each other that, in the extremely unlikely event that we ever become rich, we will try very hard to live the same life we have now, and not tell our daughter about the money. The goal in that situation is to for her to have an unseen safety net, so we can raise her to be appreciative but be able to help her out when she needs it. None of the attitude this guy has. However, this all a perfect example of "easier said than done". Also, we'll never be rich, so it's an easy promise to make.

    Crystalwitch60
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh my life would change a bit , for one I’d buy the house I live in now, the farmland behind it switch it to grazing from arable n get a few more fields to n go back to farming. even at 60 , but that is it ,I’d still be the same person I am now, just able to help animal charities more , n have horses again n a few more dogs

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    Niki
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one is somewhat sweet because they wanted to treat their friend and weren't thinking of class differences.

    Trillian
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    7 months ago

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    For a privileged European it's very hard to understand that sick days and vacation days are apparently unpaid???

    Don Adams
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds ,ore like a part time job, with no benefits or PTO. Just a slightly higher hourly wage. Lots of places schedule people to receive just enough hours to not qualify for benefits.

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    #11

    Man reading documents at a desk in an office, focusing on people sharing most privileged things said in work context. I had someone question me why I bother working when I'm indian, they thought that the government pays me to be indian.

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    Sarah Belt
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sounds like someone perhaps misinformed about welfare benefits the US government "provides" for Native Americans as opposed to a person with ties to the country of India.

    Alex Martin
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The government does very little beyond provide basic subsistence level needs to Native Americans. The poverty on some reservations is startling. Some tribes are fortunate to be near major population centers and open casinos or engage in other business ventures that are very lucrative to that tribe. That wealth gets shared with members of the tribe. The Agua Caliente band of Cahuilla Indians in Palm Springs, California is one example. They own three casinos and much of the land the city is built on. They lease it out for residences, stores, even for the post office. Many very expensive homes are built on land that is owned by the tribe. The building belongs to the owner, the land to the tribe. When tribe members turn 18 they are entitled to a healthy 6-figure annual income as their share of the tribe's wealth. On the other hand, the Pine Ridge Reservation in South Dakota, home to the Oglala Lakota people has 90% unemployment and 90% of residents living below the poverty line.

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    Jaya
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I refuse to be Indian for less than 10 dollar per hour"

    Roxy222uk
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've read that a lot of Americans believe that people of colour don't have to pay to go to university

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    #12

    Three medical students sharing privileged things said while reviewing notes in a bright hospital hallway. My friend’s sister attending medical school: did you know some people’s parents don’t pay for their school?

    mercfan3 , Gustavo Fring Report

    Littlemiss
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like an exworkmate who used to gloate about her multiple degrees she never actually used professionally. It was so easy she'd say, she did it all with 5 children! What she failed to mention was she neglected and dumped her children on all her family members to bring up because she was far too busy for that b s. and never paid to do a single degree, they were all paid for by grants she got and government assistance. She had nothing but time to k**l because everyone else took care of all her responsibilities in life.

    Roxy222uk
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate all that. I remember reading about a young woman that started a business with a newborn baby. I couldn't understand how on earth that was possible until I read the article. Monday to Friday she dropped her baby off at her mum's during office hours. Fair does to the grandma for wanting to help her daughter to get on in life, but many of us don't have that kind of parents and it's not fair to make it sound as though it's doable with enough gumption.

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    Michael Largey
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Did you know some people's parents don't pay their workers enough to live on?"

    George Costanza
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents COULDN'T pay for my med school, and I was completely fine with that. I took out the $180K in loans and paid them off myself. I plan on paying for my children's college. But grad school will be on them if they choose to go.

    In case it becomes difficult to always check your privilege, there are certain simple ways of doing it that anyone can try. Martin Vidal mentioned that people can “think and listen! I’ve written a lot about critical moments in my past when I’ve had revelations about my privilege. They came in unserious ways at first because I wasn’t actively looking for them.” 

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    “For example, one was from the Barbie movie: at the end, when I saw the Supreme Court with all women on it, I reflexively thought, ‘well, in a happy ending, couldn’t it have had some men on the court too?’ This was immediately followed up by the thought, ‘silly man, something like this has been women’s reality for ages!’” he added.

    #13

    Person in a warm shirt writing with a pen on paper, illustrating people share most privileged things said concept. In a creative writing class many years ago, I'd written a scene which was almost a complete recreation of my stepfather berating my mother, using what he said word for word and his actions in belittling and putting hands on her.

    Someone criticised it as being a caricature, and disbelieving that people behaved like that in real life.

    WoollyPullyBully , Alexander Van Steenberge Report

    Ace
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    TBH I feel the same reading some of the AITA Reddit posts...

    Sarah Belt
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry you went through that. Hope you got help <3

    Crystalwitch60
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh trust me men do treat women like this !, I had first had experience of being a beaten wife then a controlled one ,, n lots of men go thru it to so yes it happens way way to much

    Sue
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even rich people get abused by parents & spouses. They tend to get away with it more too.

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    #14

    Open metal briefcase filled with stacks of hundred-dollar bills, illustrating people share most privileged things said. “My therapist said I have generational wealth anxiety.”.

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    DrBronxx
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't even begin to unpack that sentence.

    Nicole Weymann
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can help you fix that. No wealth = no anxiety. Want my bank data, or will you send the driver over with a couple of black suitcases?

    Michael Largey
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had generational poverty anxiety.

    Alexandra
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'Generational wealth anxiety'. Does that mean you're afraid you lose all the money some day so that you feel obliged to get more or to spend as little as possible or does it mean that you feel guilty about having so much money you didn't do anything for? Or do you feel perhaps it's not even yours to do with what you want, because you're supposed to pass it on?

    Touhou Youyoumu
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Said that to me on my dime. I would have been suffering from my fist to your face anxiety.

    Sarah Suelzle
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That sounds rough...best to have a lie-down then.

    Sally Moen
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand generational trauma, so what is generational wealth anxiety? Is that being worried I won't have any money/property to give to my children when I die?

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    #15

    Modern suburban house with garage and lawn on a sunny day, illustrating people share most privileged things said. “Why don’t you just buy a house? This apartment is awfully small for the four of you.” I loved the person who said this very much, he was like family, but my ex and I couldn’t believe our ears when he said that. We both wanted to answer in a tone absolutely dripping with sarcasm, “Gee, we never thought of that! We’ll have to go shopping tomorrow. Would you like to write the check for the down payment since it’s such a great idea and we don’t have any money?”.

    Kind_Blackberry3911 , Pixabay Report

    Littlemiss
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    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep had this comment from someone who lives off Daddy's money. She told us that it would be so much cheaper if we just got a mortgage and bought a house. We asked her for the $130k deposit to do so, she scoffed and replied she didn't have that type of money! Her Daddy bought her house and pays all her bills. He also paid her lawyers fees when she was caught dealing too. But apparently she's struggling, after scamming multiple people out of thousands of dollars. She's nearly 50 years old.

    DrBronxx
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my brother came to visit me in my one room apartment, he said "I like this, it's cosy". I found it incredibly patronising. When I brought it up years later he just said it wasn't patronising. Anyway, at the time he also took a massive dump before leaving, and when I got back later, I found he hadn't flushed.

    Michael Largey
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "People like me don't have money because people like you do. That's why they call capitalism a system."

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    The best part about living in a society is that so many people with different lived experiences can come together and contribute to the collective good. Recognizing one’s privilege is the first step toward creating a more equal society like that where all people can enjoy a safe, comfortable, and happy life.

    What do you think are some privileges that you might be taking for granted, like the people on this list? Do share your thoughts in the comments section below.

    #16

    Woman in black leather jacket choosing clothes from a rack with colorful garments, people share most privileged things said. A former friend of mine had a fight with her parents about some boy she met on snapchat. The parents were 100% in the right. Guess what the punishment was.

    She wasn´t allowed to wear her designer clothes for a week. A week.

    She was so mad. It was so weird and a big reality check for me. I knew her parents were rich, but then i realised how different our lives were.

    Icy-Rule-7248 , Ron Lach Report

    superfluous
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The punishment for what? Having an argument? Being wrong? How do you fight with your parents about a boy on Snapchat? (Ugh, I'm old!)

    Nicole Weymann
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm imagining it may have been a discussion like "Look at this guy! He's got a surfing school in Ibiza! He wants to show me the island! I'll be back by Tuesday. Thursday at the latest" and her parents for some reason didn't agree with the plan.

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    Patrick H
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What DID she wear for that week? I would've assumed someone like that had ONLY designer clothes.

    Sue
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If she was really rich, she could wear rags & still be cool.

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    #17

    Protesters holding Black Lives Matter signs during a demonstration sharing most privileged things said. ”Racism isn’t a problem. I’ve never seen it.”.

    TheAzrael2013 , Life Matters Report

    DrBronxx
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    New York doesn't exist. I've never seen it.

    David
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in New York, and I am not sure at times we exist

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    Janet C
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    World hunger doesn't exist. I ate breakfast this morning.

    #18

    Once heard someone say, 'Why don’t they just buy a house instead of renting?' — completely unaware that not everyone has family money, perfect credit, or a six-figure salary at 25. Privilege really does shape perspective.

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    Roxy222uk
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or the wherewithal to save up for a deposit

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    #19

    Buffet table with various dishes and flowers, illustrating people share most privileged things said at events. My wife does work for high profile clients. Often youll see a $20,000+ food order barely touched and due to liability concerns, thrown away. I wish this was /s.

    ElonsMuskyFeet , saile_ilyas Report

    Touhou Youyoumu
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This just pisses me off, such a waste.

    Tom Hutcherson
    Community Member
    6 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can thank the department of agriculture for that. https://www.fourth.com/article/how-much-food-restaurants-waste

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    Roxy222uk
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I knew someone that worked as a chef on private jets. The idea of having a big spread of expensive and exquisite food available that doesn't even get touched, and then gets thrown away, is the whole point for these people.

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Clinton passed a law that allows stores and restaurants to donate leftovers. But a buffet probably isn't covered. Any guest could put something in it.

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    #20

    If people earn a lot more money than you, it’s just because they work harder.

    Scampington22 Report

    Sarah Belt
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I'm sure fElon works harder than all the people on the planet put together. /s

    Sally Moen
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The highest paid people work the least amount. They like to brag that they Work Smarter, Not Harder, as if they actually do

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my industry, the more you make, the less work you actually do. It's the lower paid employees who work their backsides off.

    Alexandra
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is annoyingly true. Pay for a job is not always related to the effort you have to put into it: sometimes it's related to educational level or just status.

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    #21

    Laundry in progress at an industrial laundromat with people sharing most privileged things said in the background. My roommate my freshman year of college asked me, "so when is the cleaning lady coming to collect our clothes to be washed?" Ummm...what now? She honestly thought that someone came around & picked up dirty laundry, washed & folded it then returned it back to us and thought that was part of our dorm fees.

    readingreddit4fun , Anton Savinov Report

    Sue User
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went to a private college. I was there months before i found out they did, in fact, did have a laundry service for your towels and sheets. You could contract them to do your clothes for extra.

    Khavrinen
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your dorm fees would be significantly higher...

    #22

    Hand holding diapers near a baby lying down, illustrating people share most privileged things said about caregiving. I was at the store with my kids and a guy started chatting me up. He told me he had 4 kids under 5. And I said wow that’s a lot of diapers.

    He just casually dropped this line on me like it was nothing.

    “Oh I don’t do diapers”

    That was it. My jaw must of been on the floor.

    I probably change 90% of the diapers in our household. I’m a stay at home Mom and my husband travels a lot. But he’s not like that.

    Living_Bath4500 , William Fortunato Report

    Sam Trudeau
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The phrase "That's a lot of diapers" could also mean lots to buy (unless you have cloth ones)

    Miss Cellania
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tried to spin this charitably, and came up with: His kids are 3-year-old twins, 4, and 5. They are toilet trained. He meant he doesn't do diapers ANYMORE. But yeah, he's more likely just an a*****e.

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That attitude doesn't mean rich, it means misogynistic a-hole.

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    #23

    Listening to an ex explain how her parents rented a spot in a s****y trailer park in some s****y area to use as an address to send financial aid despite the fact she comes from Virginia Beach money.

    Effective-Log-1922 Report

    #24

    Aerial view of a lush private island surrounded by clear blue water, symbolizing privileged things shared by people. Friends that go on vacation to a private island..........and complain..........

    ageb4 , Katie Cerami Report

    Pferdchen
    Community Member
    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it was Epstein's island, it's a legit complaint. Otherwise, not so much.

    Jaya
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It being a private island doesn't necessarily make for a good holiday. A private island can still have rain 24/7 too. So why are they less allowed to complain than others? If you don't allow your friends to complain to you about their holiday not being fun, then you have a chip on your shoulder.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really depends on what they complained about.

    superfluous
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    How is it privileged to complain about a vacation you don't like? It has to be to somewhere the OP doesn't like to be allowable?

    #25

    Scenic mountain viewpoint above clouds with people enjoying the view symbolizing privileged moments shared outdoors. Girl I knew in high school was whining about how her parents cancelled their annual ski trip to Switzerland and they had to settle for Jackson Hole instead. Poor girl, times were tough.

    HorrorSmile3088 , Pixabay Report

    Jaya
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're allowed to be bummed out about your favorite holiday trip being cancelled, if you were looking forward to it.

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    #26

    Man in a black tuxedo adjusting jacket, wearing mint bow tie and boutonniere, illustrating privileged things shared by people I’m planning a wedding and I’ve had MULTIPLE people tell me my wedding should be black tie because “what grown adult doesn’t own a tuxedo?”.

    atlanduh , Drew Rae Report

    Tim Douglass
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, I own one. But only because I had to buy it when I played in the orchestra in college. Still hangs in my closet. You couldn't fit me in it with a shoehorn and grease.

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What grown adult believes such things?

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    #27

    British pound notes and coins arranged on a dark surface, illustrating privileged financial wealth and currency. My friend messaged her dad asking for £10 and he sent her £690 as a joke. Wish my parents had that sense of humor

    Edit incase you didn’t get the joke: 69 is a funny number hahaha.

    Comfortable_Cook_965 , Suzy Hazelwood Report

    Ravenkbh
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess you had to be there

    Sarah Suelzle
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a funny number if your 15 and also not funny from your dad (?!)

    Ohm Bun
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So her dad made a sexual joke with his daughter? Am I the only one who get rapey vibes?

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    #28

    Luxury watch with gold and silver tones resting inside a wooden box, symbolizing privileged things shared by people. My ex once said before a date “I won’t wear my Rolex so you don’t feel poor.” ☠️.

    leahlo , Leef Parks Report

    Sarah Belt
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My favorite response to someone having a Rolex was "my Timex shows the same time"

    Owen
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love my £20 Casio. It tells the time. That's all I need from it. It's lasted 5yrs, and I also don't really care if it breaks. I'm quite poor, but I can afford another £20. A Rolex is just vulgar wealth. It's only purpose is to show you have wealth. They are expensive because people decided they are expensive.

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    Tucker Cahooter
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least I am pretty confident I won't ever be mugged for my $10 watch from Big W

    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One up them. "Oh, you wear your money on your wrist? I keep mine in my hedge fund."

    Touhou Youyoumu
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even if had FU money, last thing would buy some sparkly overpriced watch that looks tacky as hell. Good way to get robbed too.

    Fellfromthemoon
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No, don't mind me, I would never distinguish a Rolex from a Casio or Timex.

    #29

    People relaxing and swimming at a sunny beach, sharing moments of privileged leisure and enjoyment by the rocky shore. My aunt is in Greece rn specifically just to get a tan. She is doing nothing else in one of the most beautiful places on earth. She went to Greece because she heard they have the best conditions for tanning.

    EgoSenatus Report

    DrBronxx
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So her hobby is going to foreign countries to....undercook herself?

    CultOfBambi
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Parts of Greece are currently on fire so she may be getting more of a tan than she bargained for if she's still there.

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    Sarah Belt
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They do have some beautiful beaches there. At least she wasn't staying in her hotel room all day

    Sarah
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    Apparently it’s the Dead Sea.,, my theology lecturer told us. Something to do with being low lying so it’s v safe to sunbathe ( I was told this in 2001- May have changed by now)

    #30

    Crowd at a protest with signs, highlighting people share most privileged things said about bodily rights. Not the most, but when roe was overturned people would say, “well you live in a blue state who cares?” I care.

    Que_sax23 , Ethan Gregory Dodge Report

    Sarah Belt
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I care. The US federal government can overrule US state laws. Getting rid of Roe wasn't their last step.

    superfluous
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "When, in the course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume, among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the laws of nature and of nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation."

    Sam Trudeau
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I care, It's Canada and USA against MAGA

    Lady Eowyn
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Roe. Proper name, capital letter.

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    They don't want facts, they just want their grievance

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    #31

    Assorted colorful macarons arranged in rows, illustrating people share most privileged things said through diverse treats. A friend was craving this macaroon shop in Paris over breakfast, and cancelled her date that night to fly for a night to eat them.


    Edit - Macaron*.

    Forward-Smell-6968 , Teo Zac Report

    #32

    Bus stop markings on the asphalt road with bright yellow lines, symbolizing places people share most privileged things said. “How much do you think the city will make me pay to move this bus stop so I can replace my bottom unit with a garage?”

    I dunno if that perfectly fits the prompt, but it was definitely a moment that underscored just how different my and my friend’s problems are.

    fiveeasypieces5EZ , Suzy Hazelwood Report

    Sally Moen
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's alot to unwrap there. Bottom unit? So it's an extra apt? Wow

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    #33

    Silver Apple laptop on a wooden table with an open notebook and smartphone, illustrating people share privileged things said. Once saw a white girl on my college campus use her MacBook to protect her hair from the rain lmao.

    Chaptive , energepic.com Report

    whiterabbit
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. It's apparently okay to label white people as such. But if I started a sentence with "once I saw a black girl *insert a stupid action*" it would be racist.

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    Sarah Belt
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dunno, I've accidentally poured two cups of tea down the back vent of my macbook - to the point where I was shaking water out of it - and it still worked fine for several years after that. Yes, two separate occasions.

    #34

    Three people share thoughts on most privileged things said during a casual discussion in a well-lit office lounge. "If you don't like this town, then move."
    As if coming up with thousands of dollars to relocate and start over are just readily available. Yes, Priscilla, I would love to just move. How about you slip me about 10 grand so I can, you clueless boomer?

    meh_alienz , TienDat Nguyen Report

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why throw in the word boomer? I will downvote anything that does this.

    Sally Moen
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just the cost and effort of changing your drivers license in the new place, even within your state, is alot.

    superfluous
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, you clueless boomer. Source of all evil. Why don't you just DIE? /s

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    #35

    I don't do manual labor.

    TemporaryStudio2175 Report

    Sally Moen
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    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maid service and maintenance workers handle my needs in the home. I pay for food delivery and meal-prep because it so tiring to plan a meal. And I send out my laundry every week. I'm very independent!

    Zaach
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't he the president of Mexico/s

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