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Pretty people have it easier, that's just the way we think it is. Research can actually back up this claim. In 2021, scientists found that we perceive attractive individuals as having better morals than unattractive people. Other researchers discovered that we think attractive people are more trustworthy. Author of Beauty Pays: Why Attractive People Are More Successful economist Daniel S. Hamermesh even claimed that good-looking people get higher wages and better loan deals at the bank.

But what about those who stand next to them? The people who endure the disapproving looks, snickering, and demeaning comments? The partners of attractive individuals don't have it easy, and one netizen wanted to know what they had to say. So they asked, "Those who are dating very attractive people, what is it like?"

#1

People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them Years ago, I brought my girlfriend (now wife) to Texas to meet my mom for the first time. Everything went normally. The first time my mom and I were alone, she turned to me and said, “You must be really good in bed.”.

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Hphizzle
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope she got the medical kit for that burn she gave you.

Šimon Špaček
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh, and she even waited until you were alone? That is great!

Isaac Harvey
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some questions are better left unanswered.

Comfortably Numb
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oof, add embarrassment to the reminder that you are ugly, from your mom hahaha...

Jessica Bertram
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plus the ick factor of imagining your mom imagining you...

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Susan Teter
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1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm guessing she had a REALLY hard labor with you and was just evening up the playing field

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    #2

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them Men are constantly sending drinks to her, even if I’m standing next to her. And yes I drink it in front of them.

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    Comfortably Numb
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Using their game against them. I like this one 😆

    That One
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Slurp out loud and stare at them with an overexaggerated grimace.

    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sending drinks to someone clearly with their SO is insulting to both of them. Whoever you are that is doing this, don't..

    Brian Droste
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Each time someone buys her a drink and if they are watching her, turn to her and give her a big kiss.

    Jessie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d be concerned about that, maybe I’m paranoid but even with my SO there I’d be afraid that someone spiked the drink.

    Isaac Harvey
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You’re not stealing the drinks, you’re… testing them to see if they’ve been spiked.

    #3

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them My wife is very pretty, and a few years younger than me. We were at a club pre covid and I whispered a bad joke in her ear, she rolled her eyes and walked away. Some other dudes saw it and thought I just got rejected, took pity on me and bought me some drinks while we talked about radiohead and D&D.

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    HolyDiver
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is such a win! Dad jokes and D&D!!! Still play Dungeons and Dragons every Thursday. I'm 56. I've played since I was 11. We have an open seat in Sacramento CA if anyone wants to learn or play!! 😂

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    #4

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them Her "friends" trying to get her to come to her senses and dump me. 15 years and 2 kids later, none of those friends are left. 

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    Curbz81
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Meh I don’t want to judge this.. abusers tend to isolate their victims from their friends. Need more info to get off the fence

    #5

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them My favourite memory was being at a bar with my partner but also with some friends. So we're all just hanging out. Not clear with who is with who. This bloke sees my partner and is legit stunned by her. She isn't aware, but as he's watching. She comes up to me and gives me a kiss/cuddle. He was half impressed, half bummed. Gave me an approving nod and moved on. It's nice when they're respectful that way.

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    Corvus
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good thing he wasn't one those "nice guys" who would start telling you how you should break up because he would "treat her so good."

    Lee Banks
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My dude just kinda sits back and watches to make sure I'm safe. Most folk can immediately tell how taken I am, but there is occasional cluelessness. If they're worth having a conversation with, my guy usually makes friends. Personally don't think I'm prettier than him, but he disagrees.

    Pyla
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    a bit cringe, though.

    Feelings are fake
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    1 year ago

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    Most men do this. Women get their values for a man from movies and TV

    the human bean
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    true to username but damn, touch some grass and think optimistically about the world for a second oh my gosh

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    #6

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them We’re a queer couple, which I think contributes to people assuming we CANNOT be together. I must be her weird friend she’s dragged out with her. And even when girls KNOW I’m her partner, they’ll hit on her, in front of me, side-eyeing me like I’m a symbol of her low self-esteem. We get offered a lot of three ways and group sex where the subtext is obviously “I want to sleep with her, and you can also be there.” Fortunately she is obsessed with me which makes it easy not to get jealous. We’re best friends. I’m obsessed with her and while her looks are a big perk, the real reason is we just get each other. We’ll go to parties and spend the whole time giggling with each other in a corner.

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    Boredest Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's the best if your partner is also your bestie!

    Astrius
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as it should be. all the best couples i know would also just be friends if they weren’t attracted.

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    Lee Banks
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My boss always cracks up when they say her husband is lucky. Naw. Her wife is amazing.

    Corvus
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh, but you are together... as roommates :D

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    #7

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them It’s annoying. I know my husband is hot, and he gets more attractive with age. I’ve had two kids and been through some rough stuff mentally which has aged me. Kinda sucks. One night we were out at a bar and some drunk girl tries to flirt with him while I was in the bathroom. I walk up to him since he was holding my drink. She looked me up and down and goes “wait…he’s with YOU?!”. I’m not a violent person. I almost punched her in the throat.

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    troufaki13
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do people forget that besides looks, there's also PERSONALITY??

    Hey!
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband is famous in his domain and when the groupies are there I always have the look "what do you bring to his life?". I'm just an ordinary small curvy person. When I'm really pissed off, I give them my pedigree and the list of my diplomas. LOL.

    Cari Owens
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Girl's attitude seemed to be "Why aren't you (the husband) as shallow as I expected you to be??"

    Mabelbabel
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a boyfriend years ago who was seriously drop-dead gorgeous-I was plus sized at the time (about a UK 18, USA 14) Women used to hit on him regularly, even if I was there. One night we were in a bar, and two women were trying their hardest but getting nowhere. I went to the bathroom, and one of them followed me. She demanded to know why someone like that was with someone like me "look at you, you're FAT!" I was a bit tipsy, so I screeched back loudly "OH MY GOD! I'M FAT! When the f*ck did that happen??!!' The other girls in the queue burst out laughing, and she slunk off. I've never managed such a quick come-back in my life before or since, but it was definitely fun at the time.

    Full of Giggles
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had someone say the same thing to me at a friend’s wedding. I replied “Ah. I see why you do have a plus one.”

    KatSaidWhat
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Sweetheart, you approached HIM, not him you - take that as a hint"

    Jos de Hundt
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have nor the looks nor the personality but I have a tall (Dutch Tall) very handsome and real smart sweetheart of a wife and I am still figuring out what I did to deserve that

    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't be annoyed, don't get angry. Remind them who he's with..

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    #8

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them My drill sergeant after seeing my wife pulled me out of ranks in front of 3 battalions and asked me who she was. When I replied she was my wife he said what is this? Be kind to animals week? Did I win the lottery? 

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    BROmanicus85
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm probably going to hell for it, but "be kind to animals week" made me laugh! :))

    Papa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think you will, but if you do, look me up, because I'll be there too.

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    Cari Owens
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reminds me of a story my husband told me from when he was in boot camp. Said the guy looked like the vulture from Looney Toons but his wife was drop dead gorgeous. I guess she was asked (one too many times?) why she was with him and she said "He makes me laugh." I doubt the fact that this guy was fairly well off hurt much either.

    Tom Brincefield
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty much required for a drill sergeant. Can't have the recruits getting a big head.

    Jaya
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You get a big head if you don't get insulted about your looks? Absolutely unnecessary, people are perfectly able to learn to always follow orders without getting insulted or humiliated.

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    Pat Richards
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    4 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen this happen. When I was in Army basic we had a guy named Frank that was barely young enough to enlist, like late 30s. Most of us were still 18 or 19. The guy literally looked like that baby buzzard in old Warner Bros. cartoons. Family Day comes around and our families get to come see us at Ft Knox. Me and a couple of guys see this B-E-A-utiful woman, absolute STUNNER, dressed like she just stepped off the cover of Vogue, walking through the small crowd. We all think she -has to be- an officers wife. Nope. Walks right up to Frank, wraps her arms around his neck and plants one on him. Even the Drill Instructors were shocked.

    Rafael
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do drill sergeants minor in stand up comedy?

    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actual backhanded compliment..

    Hyunjinswife143% real
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    most drill sergeants are mean but that's only because they want to get you humbled and disciplined. not a******s.

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    #9

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them It can be tough because I see all the women staring at him all the time. He's in a profession where he deals with lots of women all day long, and I see the longing in their eyes because he is not only gorgeous, but brilliant and funny. He thinks I'm more attractive than him. I'm not. 

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    Boredest Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure you're BOTH very attractive!

    Sue Denham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Attractive is so much more than looks.

    doredde
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Attractive Inside and outside obviously.

    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG!! This sounds PERFECT!! Enjoy..

    Sven Horlemann
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To him, you are more attractive. Just... keep him.

    Elchinero
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how do they know that he is brilliant?

    Feelings are fake
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This man will be accused of cheating the whole time due to her self esteem issues.

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    #10

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them It's great. People assume I'm rich. As soon as they realize I'm not, they assume I have a huge d**k.

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    Lee Banks
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People assume my partner has both. One is true. I couldn't care less. He's the best. Happy.

    Lulu John
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I promise you I have never dated or stayed with a guy because he had a big d**k. If anything it makes it more difficult. So I don’t know why it’s use as a gauge in determining a relationship.

    E.V.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It means he's not attractive but his girl is. People assume she's with him for his money and when they find out he's not rich, they assume he has a big d i c k. lol

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    #11

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them People treat her very nicely and they also treat me nice but only when I’m with her lol.

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    Sue Denham
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People should treat other people in reaction to how they act, not how they look.

    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty Privilege - by proxy..

    #12

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them My significant other is WAY more attractive than me. Other girls fawn over him. It doesn’t bother me, because I know where his heart lies. We were out on a date one night, every time I walked away to go to the restroom or get a drink I would come back to some skinny little thot in my seat. He would be polite, but never flirtatious. Then calmly tell them to move so his girl could sit back down. On a different night I had a bartender tell me I didn’t have a shot with the “grey eyed guy”. I was already living with the “ grey eyed guy”.

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    Bored Retsuko
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Skinny little thot"? OP's choice of words is classy.

    IndigoViolent
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, if calling women ugly wh*res is how you act when you're not bothered, I'd hate to see you when you're pressed. Also, multiple women are sitting down in your seat while you're in the bathroom? And you're sure your BF is just "being polite"?

    Lee Banks
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The most conventionally 'hot' guy I know would beat the snot out of anyone who disrespected his non-conventionally hot gf. Got a few friends like that. Character over looks any day.

    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol! Sounds like they both have a good deal here..

    That One
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    That bartender should be fired.

    E.V.
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    I was with my ex for 5 years. I am not bad looking myself but he was also very good looking. It got boring though. Most good looking people don't have great personalities or just not as bright as you'd hope they would be.

    Lem Johnson
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Careful, your bitter is showing. I know lots of very attractive people who also have brilliant personalities. Just because you didn't happen to get on with one attractive person, doesn't mean all attractive people are stupid and lacking personality.

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    #13

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them I’ve been standing at a bar talking to her and a random girl came up and did the body block/ initiate conversation thing to “save” her from me.

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    Boredest Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get the motive... but me personally, I don't think we should try to butt into other people's business if we don't know the full story. Like if he was approaching her or something, then you can step in, if she looks intimidated or if she needs help but otherwise? I don't think you should try to "save" people who look ok. But as aforementioned, I do get why she might've decided to take this course of action.

    KillerKiwi
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. I would have tried to get her attention first to see if she was ok or if he was being a creep.

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    Andy Kelly
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Guaranteed random girl went to the bar alone and wants an instant friend. The drama is over the failure of her last instant relationship.

    Mike F
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Keep a holy water spritzer with her.

    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeh, this move needs to be done with care. If not it is SUPER rude..

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    #14

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them I was in a long term relationship with a woman who looked like a super model. 6 foot tall, skinny, heart shaped face etc. She was the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. Not exaggerating in the slightest. I was in shock the first time we made out. I just stared at her for hours and kissed her like I was in a daze. I soon figure out that when your with a woman like this literally every dude will hit on her constantly. When she was 9 months pregnant dudes were slipping her phone numbers. It was so insane. She definitely had a personality flaw. She thought she was better than everybody else, but was really good at being pretend nice to people. To make a long story short she completely destroyed me. Cheated on me 3 weeks before the wedding and was ‘appalled’ that I called it off. ln her words ‘no one breaks up with me, I break up with them’. She to this day thinks that I was the s****y person for calling it off. F**k, she was so impossible.

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    Boredest Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hope you found someone to treat you the way you deserve to be treated!

    Slap Shot
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you share a child together? This must be a nightmare.

    Penguin Panda Pop
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone who thinks that they are better than everyone else is instantly not attractive to me. I can still that person as being good-looking but it's not worth much.

    bv7hearts
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ....how is this a 10/10 partner?

    Vinga Älvebjörk
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly I understand being attracted to someone who looks that way even if I am not for the super pretty/ modelesque etc but to remain attracted to a person with such a s****y personality which I’m sad enough to say is normal with good looking people is just beyond me. There’s nothing more attractive than a good personality or intelligence in my book. But what do I know being a 2 on a good day

    Lee Banks
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone is going to find you the most beautiful person in the planet

    Angelshark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know that I could give someone a 10/10 on looks alone.

    Rocky
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, but this is so not a 10/10 person.

    Trelaine W
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Typical narcissist response. The real narcissist. You dodged a bullet there.

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    #15

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them I remember my engagement photos. Big, juiced up photographer, “YOU are the groom?” Kinda fun.

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    DeviledEgg
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have been fine getting engaged without photos then

    #16

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them I spend a lot of time wondering when he’ll realize he’s out of my league and leave me. I mean, it’s nice when he meets friends of mine and they rave about him afterwards. Like, yes. I know he’s a snack. He’s also the sweetest man in the world. So he’s the entire package and I consider myself extremely blessed to be the one to see him naked.

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    Julie S
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know he's a snack! Never heard that expression before.

    Sophia L.
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    That's what OP is blessed about? Seeing him naked? Gross.

    #17

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them I know I'm not ugly by any means, if anything I am considered by those around me to be quite attractive myself, but every time I stand next to him I feel ugly. But I am not unhappy because he only has eyes for me and always makes sure I know how highly he thinks of me.

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    DeviledEgg
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww that's a great relationship

    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well if, objectively, he is good looking and HE thinks highly of YOU then that must mean that you are EXTREMELY attractive. Please DON'T feel ugly..

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    #18

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them My wife is way out of my league. When we started dating and going places this is how interactions would go. Staff - Hello there, what can I get for you? My wife - I'll have such and such Staff - And for her friend? (me). Happened so many times lol.

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    Mrs.C
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I waited tables I never addressed people in relation to the others at the table. That's just stupid. It was always, "And for you?" Great way to lose a tip.

    Sathe Wesker
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes!! Was about to say the same. Either this dude dealt with a lot of bad servers or he is lying.

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    Boredest Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can be friends and partners. Those are some of the most functional relationships because you can respect each other as besties, but ALSO as lovers.

    Feelings are fake
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if they assumed otherwise someone would have bit their head off.

    Sophia L.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope she corrects them every time.

    Hphizzle
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have responded “Yes, my friend with a LOT amount of benefits.”

    #19

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them I used to also be attractive. Now I’m not. It’s hard. Women will openly stare mouth agape and approach him. He doesn’t notice half the time.

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    Manicmary
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to be attractive too. And then I had a baby last year and I can't even bear to look at myself in the mirror. Now he gets all the looks

    Piper
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You spent close to a year creating life, and now you are taking care of that precious life’s every need. This is hard work. It’s exhausting. It’s meaningful, but exhausting. Give yourself grace and recognize your hormones may also not be doing you any favors mentally or physically right now, because you are human. When you can, find time just for you to walk. 5 mins, 10 mins. Not for weight loss as a goal, but to get your serotonin up. You are worth it, mama.

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    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'He doesn't notice' This is good, he's obviously not looking elsewhere. We are overly preoccupied with looks being perfect and letting pretty people skate on their actual personality. So much so that when someone is good looking AND a good person we seem amazed..

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    #20

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them The only rule is you can't get jealous. Not just on their behalf, but for your own sake. in general, being insecure is unattractive.

    ScallywagBo9 , Pavel Danilyuk Report

    Rachel Ratty
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    true - but probably easier said than done

    Ken Beattie
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The simple solution to this is to ask "who is my partner going home with?" Unless the answer is "someone else" there is no need to be jealous.

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    Hyunjinswife143% real
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    is this the other side of the stock photo one about the grey eyed SO?

    Matthew Barabas
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    good luck with that. insecurities can take many forms.

    Angelshark
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can't trust your SO to make the right decision, you shouldn't be with them.

    #21

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them I am 6/10 on my best day and my wife wakes up at 8/10 and goes up from there. And that's at age 40. Especially when we first started dating, when she was the cute college girl, she couldn't get under 9/10 even if she tried. And here she was schlepping around with me. It feels f*****g weird, dude. But she has reassured me enough, and I've seen her politely turn away a half dozen guys over the years, so I accept it these days. It was a hazard for a while sending her to pick up our pre-orders from GameStop because she'd get to talking with the guy behind the counter about her favorite games, then end up with him knocking on the car window to ask her out. She let him down easy and I don't get upset. I get it. I just have to accept it as one of those things I can recognize as true without really understanding. It's like gravity I guess.

    withgreatpower , cottonbro studio Report

    Boredest Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That understanding is such and important thing to have in ANY relationship!

    🦄 Unicorn Princess
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So very true, but unfortunately so very hard to find. 😔

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    Full of Giggles
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have the same view about my husband being the more attractive one.

    Lee Banks
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dude, thank you so much for understanding. It's seriously not your lady's doing. We don't like it just as much as you don't. Slight flattery, but I just want to go home to my partner.

    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm...she gets plenty of chances and refuses ALL of them for YOU, OP. You are her choice, she loves and desires you..

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    #22

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them I’ve only dated two women who most men would consider “10/10”. This happened before I got married, before everyone who is young started calling me “sir” to get my attention. Both girls acted like they knew the whole room was staring at them, one of them in particular changed her whole vibe whenever we would go somewhere and go inside, like she would act like the cameras were rolling, and often times, I could tell she wasn’t even listening to what I had said, like she was trying to capture how many people were looking at her without being obvious (and pretending to be looking at me, except she was looking *through* me).

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    Nina
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That really makes an attractive person unattractive *fast*

    Trelaine W
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sad to know for a fact that one day they'll loose their looks and realize they wasted their lives not developing a personality.

    Lila Allen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    See if you aren't a good person and have a good personality...it's really just " congratulations on your face"

    doredde
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That doesn´t sound like a very self secure person.

    #23

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them At first, took quite a long time to gain her full trust. More than once she have been being lied to or manipulated to try to get in her pants. And it is also hard for me sometimes. She is getting hit on regularly even if I'm there. I fully trust her, but on some days when I don't feel good due to work stress or fatigue or when our relationship is a bit down (like everything it has its up and downs), it adds a bit of stress, I have to relax and say to myself deep down that she loves me. As far as sex, yeah she is really cute and sexy, but sex is more than that when you love someone, does not change anything for me.

    draftstone , cottonbro studio Report

    Boredest Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Such a sweet bond! And it's great how you can acknowledge the whole picture, not just the good stuff.

    Lee Banks
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sounds ridiculously healthy.

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    #24

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them They think I’m rich.

    jappyjappyhoyhoy , Los Muertos Crew Report

    El Dee
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Annoy the hell out them by telling them how poor you are lolol!

    Boredest Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Uh, but are you? Just making sure that's not the sole foundation of your relationship.

    GhostlySnail (she/her)
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think he mean that when people see them with their SO they assume OP is rich

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    #25

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them Everyone wants to be her friend, random people always talking to her, constantly dudes trying to buy her drinks if we go into together. I don't mind my wife is hot.

    Superdooperblazed420 , Katerina Holmes Report

    Agfox
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do what the other dude in this article does, drink those drinks & maintain eye contact with the guys who bought them for her

    Lee Banks
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is what my dude does. I don't think I'm that pretty, but there's so much love. People want that.

    Lee Banks
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think you and my person share an opinion.

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    #26

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them I used to date someone way more attractive than me back in the day, and I could recognize the look from other guys sometimes saying something like "What the f**k is she doing with him".

    teendreamred , cottonbro studio Report

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    #27

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them Not currently, but have in the past. I mean, it’s cool? You gotta get used to a sh**ton of people glancing/staring at them anytime you go out. Also gotta get used to guys trying to hit on them the second you walk away. I never had an issue with either, so it worked for me. The underrated upside is that s**t is self-perpetuating: you immediately become more desirable if you’re with someone who (in this case) other girls realize is beautiful.

    Semirgy , Crook & Marker Report

    FoxEcoLimaIndiaCharlieIndiAlfa
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That isn't always an upside imo. If women see that your partner is someone very attractive, yes it may make them question why she's with you, but it also may attract the wrong type of woman. Many women who are used to get attention from others frequently, due to their looks, sometimes take this to their advantage, to manipulate and get their way. Those types assume she's with you for money or something superficial and when they find out you may or may not have one or either, they're done giving you any type of attention. I wouldn't want that, personally.

    #28

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them I once dated a guy "out of my league" and the reality is that I was very insecure and felt uncomfortable when we went out to places where there were many pretty girls because I felt that I wasn't enough for him and that he'd look at another girl who was really pretty. In the end that did happen, but my insecurity didn't make me enjoy the relationship. Thank God I am working on that in therapy.

    yoursexybaby_sara , Katerina Holmes Report

    Boredest Panda
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm glad you got help, hope you find someone you feel more comfortable with!

    Comfortably Numb
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to be a jerk, but your insecurity may have been the reason he looked elsewhere, not the other "prettier girls". But your insecurity is telling you otherwise.

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    #29

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them I'm conventionally attractive, as is my husband. My husband is the first attractive person I've been with, as that's never been a priority for me. I just got lucky with him being perfect in every way. But god its awesome, truly. I can't keep my hands off of him, even 6 years into our relationship.. he's so gorgeous, it amazes me constantly.

    kendokushh , Jep Gambardella Report

    Charlotte A.
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "the first attractive person I've been with"? Personally I think there's a world of difference between good looking and attractive. Attraction is a feeling and someone can be highly attractive without being good looking. Or good looking but not attractive. If she's not been attracted to her boyfriends I think she got something wrong.

    Lila Allen
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah I feel like she's missing the point of a relationship if she wasn't attracted to them

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    🦄 Unicorn Princess
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    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She really sounds like she's trying to convince us that she has this great relationship; more than likely she's trying to convince herself.

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    #30

    People With 10/10 Partners Are Sharing What It's Like To Date Them We argue over who is more attractive, but I'm convinced it's him. My SO gets called Thor /Chris Hemsworth by kids while walking down the street and in our friend circles. The only weird encounter we had was at a bar. This intoxicated older woman was visibly incredulous that we were together and kept trying to hit on him.

    SnarkyPanda29 , Himanshu Choudhary Report

    Slap Shot
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    1 year ago

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    You two sound like bores.

    laura lee
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    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why bc they argue who's more attractive, each professing the other? That's just relationship banter.

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