Married People Share 40 Fights They Keep Having Over And Over Again

It's a cop out to make you do everything

So true! I can send my SO to the store with a list and he’ll STILL mess up somehow.

Mine leaves the sponge in the sink, every time, and it's always in the one spot with water and the food he didn't clean out. I have to throw it out

I believe some decorative plastic fruit would solve this problem. No rotting = no more buying fruit.

Separate bedrooms.

And not let the cat have fun emptying one and hiding in it? Never!

We have a TV series about these people: Help, my husband is a handyman.

And be acquitted at trial for justifiable homicide.

My partner was the same with decoration. I put some paintings, pictures and plants in the house and he kept whining about how i "invaded his space". Now i took them all out because we are moving and he was like "now the house looks so much uglier". I know.

Separate beds or rooms, if possible.

It took me a couple decades to break my husband of this habit.

Leave it in the cabinet. Don't buy chips. "There's still a pack in the cupboard".

Then he should invest in water bottles.

Next time put their laundry around the washing machine. When there are no clean clothes for them anymore, they will understand.

I can sympathize with this, as you may have water on the floor if the shower is not closed off enough, and open drawers kill shinbones.

Let him yell. Don't support these lazy habits.

I have to say, i'm the barbarian in the couple hehehe.

Ahh... I guess I remove eggs like OP's wife... because we usually grab the carton from one end or the other, not in the front 'n' center... so the weight is evenly distributed...

I feel like the couples arguing over bars of soap should switch to liquid body wash. :)

omg... my dad was like this... no matter how much time he had before the family had to leave for whatever... the MOMENT we're supposed to go out the door.... he had to go to the bathroom. It was. so. odd.

You don’t have a spoon anyway, you have a solid lump of tea stained sugar with a metal bit sticking out the top.

This is unacceptable

I'll agree on the basis that I HATE when people nix ideas without offering a suggestion. I'm not your hired "idea's person".

Separate bedrooms.

Because it's in a cabinet.

Meanwhile he’s like “My wife is great, always puts gas in my car for me!”

That's domestic terrorism!

Pretend you didn't hear that he said something and keep pretending until he speaks so you can understand him. Rinse and repeat for as long as it takes to get the message home. I took me 6 weeks to teach my wife that, since I'm getting deaf, I can't hear her when she's whispering from the other side of the room.

I am sorry for op. That sounds like an awful partner

Divorce. Straight up. He's literally a part time roommate and only provides financial support for his kids. You're better off saving your time instead of nagging him to participate in parenting.

Ooooh, hun,... This sounds like my ex. Works 12 hrs nights, 6 days a week. I can understand how tiring that is. However, even when he was between jobs or had a lot of time of, when he wasn't sleeping all day he was getting high with his friends in the garage and bitching about my min. wage job and being lazy for "just cleaning and taking care of our kid, and not doing "real" hard labour like he did." He never really liked to spend time with our child or even as a family. It was a terrible relationship and situation to be in. It had to end.

This ain't a squeeze the toothpaste from the middle kinda fight. This is some serious go to counseling s**t.

Okay this is on its way to the end

Are you partnered with a narcissist?

Ouch. Selfish man baby, makes one more kid to raise in the house.

Traveling for work can be extremely tiring mentally and physically. I've done it.

Divorce

Book a trip for him and the kids..

Stop f*****g him - find a new man.

ma'am that's your roommate, not your husband.

And this is why you date for longer than 2 years! You should have dumped his ass.

This post made me sad...... 😔

Time to kick this one to the curb. He's just breathing your oxygen.

My dad was like that, 1st bit. My mom was basically a single mother. Never saw him growing up and when he was around, he'd be golfing or spending time with my brother only. My mom, sis and I rarely saw him. We're all grown up now, I haven't seen him in over a decade since just after my parents split up.

I'm here for all of the angry women in these comments lol

Well he is a pot head sounds like doing nothing is kind of their thing. I'm surprised he can even bring himself to works full time.

Listen, kiddo. Get up early in the morning and book it. Set alarm for 10 minutes after you’ve cleared the driveway. Don’t come home until bedtime.

Why do women keep trying with guys like this. Yet when a man is responsible and does his part he's nagged and expected to do even more

Why did you married him on the first place?

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Gee, working nearly every darn day, where's the time to spend with the kids?

Oof. I feel this.

Agree to disagree and adopt new pronounciation such as cow-poo to save your marriage.

Um, that's frugality.

You have 21 cups to spare?

Put it in random places. On his pillow, his dashboard, in his drawers, at a crime scene.